This Tantric Life is a podcast created by Layla Martin. The profound conversations throughout This Tantric Life are dedicated to exploring the deep wisdom and practices of Tantra, Sacred Sexuality, and conscious relationships. Join host Layla Martin as she invites her mentors and friends to dive even deeper into the Tantric philosophy and approach that can transform life, intimacy and relationships. Each guest shares their wisdom through deep, thought-provoking conversations that explore the mysteries of conscious living and loving and the opportunity Tantra and Sacred Sexuality present to help us free ourselves.
Layla Martin believes Tantra is the last bastion of personal development, and whether you're a seasoned practitioner of Tantra looking to deepen your practice or simply curious about the intersection between spirituality and sexuality, This Tantric Life with Layla Martin is the perfect podcast to guide you on your journey toward a more fulfilling and meaningful life. This Tantric Life with Layla Martin will inspire you to embrace your truth and awaken your full potential as a human being.
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The Vagina Whisperer Shares Pelvic Floor Secrets Every Woman Should Know
Sunday, September 27, 2026 • Duration 01:03:53
Shownotes
Why your pelvic floor affects everything from sex to core strength
How to make self-pleasure double as pelvic floor training
Why moisturizing your vulva matters as much as moisturizing your face
Dr. Sara's number one piece of advice for better orgasms
A simple, guided pelvic floor love practice you can do at home
What Dr. Sara thinks all boys should know about the female body
Bio
Dr. Sara Reardon is a board-certified pelvic floor physical therapist, widely known as The Vagina Whisperer on Instagram and TikTok. She's the creator of The V-Hive App, an online pelvic floor workout app for pregnancy, postpartum, menopause, painful sex, and pelvic floor strengthening.
Sara has been featured in The Washington Post, Time Magazine, NPR, Harper's Bazaar, The Today Show, and numerous other podcasts, publications, and professional conferences for her advocacy and educational work as pelvic floor physical therapist. She is a TED presenter on Rethinking Postpartum Care and the author of the national bestselling book FLOORED: A Woman's Guide to Pelvic Floor Health at Every Age and Stage.
Follow Dr. Sara on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/the.vagina.whisperer, TikTok https://www.tiktok.com/@thevagwhisperer, LinkedIn https://www.linkedin.com/in/sara-reardon-pt, YouTube https://www.youtube.com/@thevaginawhisperer, and Facebook
00:00:47 - Join Layla's email list to receive free practices, in-depth teachings, and new episodes https://laylamartin.com/
00:00:54 - Guest introduction
00:02:23 - Dr. Sara and Layla share their own stories of peeing during activity
00:07:33 - What your pelvic floor actually is and what parts of your body it supports
00:05:33 - Discover the VITA™ Sex, Love and Relationship Coaching Certification https://laylamartin.com/coaching-certification/vita-coaching
00:14:53 - What causes dryness and how it can contribute to pain
00:20:08 - Why consent is at the core of every step of pelvic floor work
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00:26:42 - The one thing Dr. Sara wants to whisper to the entire world's vaginas
00:32:27 - How Layla talks to her pussy during medical procedures (and why it helps)
00:39:47 - Why you should care for your vulva the same way you care for your face
00:50:22 - What an "O-Day" is and why a patient sends the clinic flowers every year
00:54:34 - Dr. Sara's top advice for having better orgasms
01:01:53 - A simple, guided pelvic floor love practice you can do at home
01:03:33 - Conclusion
The 5 Sexual Superpowers That Change Your Entire Life
Sunday, September 13, 2026 • Duration 01:06:07
In this special solocast episode of This Tantric Life, Layla Martin introduces a paradigm shift in how we approach pleasure, desire, and intimacy. Moving away from performance-based mechanics or static personality types, Layla frames sexual energy as a set of dynamic "superpowers" that every person can cultivate to heal blockages, deepen partner connection, and activate their full erotic potential.
Follow Layla! Instagram https://instagram.com/thelaylamartin Website https://laylamartin.com/ Weekly Email https://laylamartin.com/join-list/ Listen on Apple Podcasts https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/this-tantric-life-with-layla-martin/id1685418994 Listen on Spotify https://open.spotify.com/show/72iBpAwMSsTl9zLk8fHMp1?si=9f465574aa114d63&nd=1 MOOD Sexy Plant Activated Supplements https://shopmood.com/ For Men: Men's Sexual Mastery https://laylamartin.com/sexual-mastery/mens-sexual-mastery Obliss: The Sexual Masterclass for Women https://laylamartin.com/sexual-mastery/obliss
Timestamps 00:00 - Introduction 03:00 - Superpower #1: Love yourself enough to be fully seen. (staying fully present) How well do you love yourself? Full-body somatic awareness, emotional awareness and fully loving the experience of being alive in your body. 13:11 - Superpower #2: Trusting the Intelligence of Your Body Dropping out of the mind and into physical sensation, allowing slow presence, breath, and natural somatic responses to guide pleasure. 25:06 - Superpower #3: Surrendering into the ecstasy of the moment In ecstatic states it's undeniable that this universe is made of something bigger than yourself and that you contain that same magic and life force and so does everyone else. When people know that, they are not easily controlled or silenced. 34:18 - Superpower #4: Expand your capacity for intensity It means being able to hold the full sensory vulnerability of being human and in relationship with other equally vulnerable humans. 44:00 - Superpower #5: Feeling Desire without abandoning yourself Knowing/feeling what you desire and remaining fully open to the experience. Being a channel of presence inside your own body where the outcome of getting what you desire doesn't change your wholeness.
Mama Gena Wrote You This Guidebook
Friday, August 28, 2026 • Duration 01:17:37
Shownotes
How the losing her greatest love taught Mama Gena about eros
What healing truly is (and what it isn't)
Why the only prayer in the Goddess tradition is "thank you"
What Layla learned throughout two years of ongoing illness
Why Mama Gena was thrown out of the cathedral on Park Avenue
What Mama Gena wants every woman to feel when she's on her knees
Bio
Regena Thomashauer, better known as Mama Gena, is a pioneering voice in women's empowerment, a bestselling author, teacher, feminist icon, and the founder and CEO of the School of Womanly Arts, which began in her living room in 1998 and has since grown into a global movement.
For more than three decades, Regena has devoted her work to restoring what has been systematically stripped from women: our connection to the body, our desires, our emotional lives, and our right to want more. At the heart of her teaching is a radical truth: pleasure is a form of power. And when a woman is fully expressed – in her body, her desires, her voice – she moves differently. She tolerates less and expects more. The stakes of her life become visible, and she responds accordingly.
This work is rooted in lived experience, decades of research, and the real-world results of hundreds of thousands of students. It has changed the way women relate to themselves, the standards they hold, and the lives they are willing to claim. Regena is the author of five books, including the New York Times bestseller Pussy: A Reclamation, and has been widely recognized as a leading voice in modern feminism.
Regena's approach is both deeply personal and unmistakably collective. In a culture that shames our bodies and suppresses our emotions, her work serves as a vital antidote that offers not only tools for survival, but a pathway to turn-on, truth, and full-bodied liberation. Her conviction: that the feminine, long suppressed, is the force that will change everything. These teachings don't just challenge the status quo. They transform it.
What Happens When You Stop Treating Pleasure As Optional
Sunday, August 9, 2026 • Duration 01:09:58
Shownotes
How deep intimacy can be the antidote to widespread low-grade depression
What Kim put in her online dating profile to magnetize her King
How to take the first step toward learning to listen to your body
What it took for Kim to go from numb and disconnected to a Tantric wedding at 50
The exact practices that can help you go from body hatred to body love
What an extraordinary sexual experience actually feels like
Bio
Kimberly Phoenix-Coffin is a trauma-informed intimacy, relationship, and Tantra teacher, speaker, co-author, and coach, co-founder of Phoenix Rising Retreats, and host of the Reignite: Love, Sex & Truth for Conscious Couples podcast.
After decades of disconnection shaped by trauma, self-doubt, and survival-based relating, Kim devoted the last decade to deep healing. embodiment, and the reclamation of her body, truth, and life through extensive work with Layla Martin, Mama Gena, Ma Ananda Sarita, and other world-renowned teachers.
Her work blends Tantra, nervous system awareness, and somatic, embodiment-based practices, rooted in lived, personal experience. Her story is a journey from numbness to pleasure, from self-doubt to sovereignty, and from disconnection and survival-based relating into a deeply connected, consciously chosen partnership rooted in truth, communication, and erotic aliveness.
She brings this work not as theory, but as something she lives daily… in her body, her relationship, her choices, and her leadership.
Now, at 50 years old, she lives and teaches what she embodies… guiding individuals and couples into deeper intimacy, honest communication, and full-spectrum aliveness.
Together with her partner Roberto, she leads immersive Tantra couples retreats in North Kawartha, Ontario, Canada, designed to reignite the flame that date nights can't… where connection, safety, and erotic aliveness meet. Their work supports couples in rebuilding trust, deepening connection, and awakening erotic intimacy that is both grounded and expansive.
Meet the World's #1 Yoni Masseur {NEW Podcast!}
Sunday, July 26, 2026 • Duration 01:33:25
Shownotes
The #1 piece of advice for men who want to become multi-orgasmic
What prostate massage can teach men about sex
What happens when men are socialized out of anal pleasure
How slowness retrains patterns while intensity causes shutdown
Why men need as much safety and self-love as women do
The one book Devah says every man should be reading
Bio
Devah Curlechéile is a sex, intimacy, and sensual embodiment guide whose journey began in Ireland.
Raised Catholic, he felt from an early age that life held far more than what he had been shown. After graduating with a degree in Neuroscience from Trinity College Dublin, he left Ireland at 25 and began a decades long global quest to explore the deeper mysteries of human potential, consciousness, energy, and healing.
Over 20 years of travel and study, Devah immersed himself in a range of practices, including Reiki, Sound Healing, Tantra, meditation, shamanic medicine, conscious intimacy, EFT, and tantra massage. His path was shaped by various initiations, including breaking his back twice, navigating depression, sitting with large doses of the various Entheogen's, integrating suppressed parts of himself through transformative experiences in Tokyo's conscious kink underground, and studying tantra and tantra massage in Bali with Ma Ananda Sarita.
Along the way, he also discovered the extraordinary potential of intimate connection with himself and others to open transcendent states of consciousness, cosmic orgasm, and deep embodied awakening.
Now based on Kauai, Devah feels deeply called to help others reconnect with the wisdom of their bodies, awaken their senses, and access greater intimacy, healing, and expansion. Known for his compassionate heart, grounded presence, and nurturing approach, he creates spaces where people can feel safe, seen, and held in reverence as they explore, rediscover, and remember these pleasurable dimensions of embodiment.
Why Energy, Consciousness, and Polarity are Keys to Better Sex
Sunday, July 12, 2026 • Duration 01:34:54
Shownotes
Why men have been led to misunderstand what the masculine actually is
What the first stage, second stage, and third stage of relationship look like
Why a deeply safe person can activate an unsafe nervous system
The 3 things men need to address to heal the pain between genders
Why love and relationships are in an evolutionary moment right now
A simple embodied practice to drop into your masculine or feminine
Bio
John Wineland is a world renowned author, teacher, and speaker. For nearly two decades, he has guided thousands of men and women in the realms of masculine and feminine embodiment, sexual polarity, and sacred intimacy.
His best selling book, From The Core: A New Masculine Paradigm for Leading with Love, Living Your Truth & Healing the World, has been translated into five languages and continues to support men around the world.
His next book, Evolutionary Love, releases in late 2026 and lays out the four pillars of a new approach to romantic partnership, sexual artistry, and the practice of love itself. John is the host of The Embodied Relationship Experience, the #1 podcast on relationships and sacred intimacy.
His teachings blend energetic and practical approaches, offering profound insights into leadership, polarity, and conscious relationships.
Follow John's work on YouTube, Instagram, and Facebook and learn about his new women's program and membership platform .
From 25 Years of Sexual Repression to Being Multi-Orgasmic
Sunday, June 28, 2026 • Duration 54:57
Shownotes
How to go from sexual shame to cosmic, multi-orgasmic sex
Why orgasm should be non-negotiable in your relationship
How fear of sexuality impacts a developing nervous system
The most common relationship problem women face
What it looks like to leave religion and embrace spirituality
How to become multi-orgasmic after years of shutdown, no matter your age
Bio
Talaina is a sexual liberation guide and relationship coach who helps individuals and couples move beyond shame and shutdown into their deepest capacity for pleasure, intimacy, and authentic connection.
She transformed her own loving, but nearly sexless, marriage into a deeply connected, thriving relationship that is now a powerhouse of intimacy, emotional depth, erotic vitality, and orgasmic bliss.
By unraveling layers of repression shaped by religious conditioning, family dynamics, and societal messaging, she reclaimed her body, her desire, her voice – and ultimately, her life.
Now, she guides others into intimacy that is fully expressed, deeply connected, and truly alive. Talaina's work integrates nervous system regulation, advanced biofeedback technology, erotic awakening, and spiritual growth to create profound, lasting transformation.
She believes a liberated life is what happens the moment you stop abandoning your truth… and start living it fully and freely.
Follow Talaina on and , and if you want to connect with her directly, you can email her at . Follow Layla!
How Divine Masculinity Unlocks Better Sex and Deeper Love
Sunday, June 14, 2026 • Duration 01:07:49
Shownotes
How spiritual growth can translate directly into better sex
The #1 thing every man should do when he wakes up in the morning
Why sports pressure was easier for Brenden than being in conflict with his partner
A simple daily practice that can change everything for men
How to bring out the best in a man as a woman
Why you need to be whole in yourself to experience true masculinity and femininity
Bio
Brenden Durell is a breathwork and somatic facilitator, intimacy guide, author, and co-founder of Oríkao, a ceremonial grade heirloom cacao brand sourced from indigenous communities in the Amazon. He has spent over 14 years working at the intersection of embodied practice, plant medicine traditions, traditional Tantra, and sacred sexuality. Known for his ability to bridge ancient wisdom with modern life, Brenden guides individuals and couples into a more intimate relationship with themselves and the people they love.
His work lives in the body: in the breath, in presence, in the places we've learned to armor ourselves against feeling. Rooted in the principles of traditional Tantra and sacred sexuality, he helps people dissolve the walls that keep them from experiencing life and love more fully, reclaiming their body as a place of power, pleasure, and presence.
Brenden has been featured in Forbes, Men's Health, and has appeared on multiple seasons of Netflix's Too Hot to Handle. He is the founder of The Golden Room, a global community for those committed to deeper nervous system health, conscious living, and authentic connection. He is also a devoted father and partner currently raising his daughter between Peru and the United States.
You can follow Brenden's work on and on his .
Mama Gena's Top Teachings About Orgasm
Sunday, May 31, 2026 • Duration 01:24:44
Shownotes
Why orgasm doesn't have to mean climax (and what it does mean)
Mama Gena's story of failing her final test for a sexuality class
The best approach for a woman who is struggling to orgasm
Why women have the ability to turn on anytime, under any circumstance
What an extended massive orgasm practice is
How having your own pleasure practice makes dating better
Bio
Regena Thomashauer, better known as Mama Gena, is a pioneering voice in women's empowerment, a bestselling author, teacher, feminist icon, and the founder and CEO of the School of Womanly Arts, which began in her living room in 1998 and has since grown into a global movement.
For more than three decades, Regena has devoted her work to restoring what has been systematically stripped from women: our connection to the body, our desires, our emotional lives, and our right to want more. At the heart of her teaching is a radical truth: pleasure is a form of power. And when a woman is fully expressed – in her body, her desires, her voice – she moves differently. She tolerates less and expects more. The stakes of her life become visible, and she responds accordingly.
This work is rooted in lived experience, decades of research, and the real-world results of hundreds of thousands of students. It has changed the way women relate to themselves, the standards they hold, and the lives they are willing to claim. Regena is the author of five books, including the New York Times bestseller Pussy: A Reclamation, and has been widely recognized as a leading voice in modern feminism.
Regena's approach is both deeply personal and unmistakably collective. In a culture that shames our bodies and suppresses our emotions, her work serves as a vital antidote that offers not only tools for survival, but a pathway to turn-on, truth, and full-bodied liberation. Her conviction: that the feminine, long suppressed, is the force that will change everything. These teachings don't just challenge the status quo. They transform it.
Four Pillars That Transform Conflict and Pain Into Deeper Intimacy
Sunday, May 17, 2026 • Duration 01:33:00
Shownotes
How to transform difficult moments in a relationship into turning points
What distinguishes an abusive relationship from a partner with trauma
How reclaiming your sexuality can take your partnership to a new level
The four pillars that have helped Aubrey and Brian move through challenges
The one question to ask yourself when you feel triggered by your partner
What makes conflict the same as rebuilding your muscles at the gym
Bio
Brian Butts and Aubrey Slaver are relational and shadow alchemists devoted to the art of sacred partnership. Blending parts work, archetypal awareness, and practical communication tools, they have navigated religious deconstruction, addiction, separation, and infidelity and have come out on the other side loving each other more than they ever thought possible. They use radical honesty, safety, and conscious communication as the pillars of their growth.
They are currently launching a relationship podcast and developing a framework to help couples transform conflict into connection. With a shared mission to normalize raw, honest relating, they are devoted to helping couples deepen intimacy, decode their stories, create safety, and cultivate a more alive and fulfilling union.
00:10:52 - Aubrey and Brian talk about what shaped their early idea of marriage
00:14:28 - Brian shares his mother wound and how it created deep conflict
00:19:52 - A joyful relationship enhances your happiness, it doesn't create it
00:23:00 - The shift for Aubrey that helped her find a way out of constant conflict
00:27:46 - Layla explores what a narcissistic defense mechanism is
00:31:52 - How to transform difficult moments in a relationship into turning points
00:36:20 - Why separating allowed Aubrey and Brian to become themselves again
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00:46:18 - Brian shares what made him want to do the work in the relationship
00:47:35 - What distinguishes an abusive relationship from a partner with trauma
00:50:52 - Aubrey shares what reclaiming her sexuality inside VITA Coaching gave to her
00:59:10 - The four pillars that have helped Aubrey and Brian move through challenges
01:04:00 - If you can't be honest with yourself, you can't work with your truth in partnership
01:07:44 - Aubrey and Brian share what made them choose to return to each other
01:13:08 - The one question to ask yourself when you feel triggered by your partner
01:18:23 - Aubrey shares her experience inside The VITA™ Coaching Certification
01:21:57 - What marriage means to Aubrey and Brian after all the work they've done
01:25:29 - Brian and Aubrey share what they're most grateful for in their relationship
01:29:37 - Conclusion
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