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Is Your Trauma Driving The Car? with Paul Fishman08 Nov 202200:24:59

Oh hey, Self Lovers! Today we're getting down and dirty with how to take the steering wheel back from our trauma. You'll get to hear about my journey to taking back control from my trauma response and why it's crucial for you to do the same.

This Podcast is brought to you by love and kindness of your reviews.

Thank you for sharing it with a friend and for rating and reviewing it on apple podcasts.

Let's connect:

IG: @pauflshman
TikTok: @paul.fishman
email: hi@paulfishman.love
website: www.paulfishman.love

Let's Get Uncomfortable Together01 Nov 202200:08:12

Join my 12-week Group Transformation

Sweet Self Lover this is a short and powerful episode. I am calling you into the discomfort so you can get clear about what is standing in your way.

Listen and feel what comes up for you.

Join my 12-week Group Transformation

 

How to Handle Conflict in Relationship with Jesse Finkelstein10 May 202200:56:17

Oh hey, Self Lovers! 

Today we’re joined by Jesse Finkelstein. He is the creator of the card game, “The game of real life” 

The game of real life teaches you the best ways to deal with the conflict. It is the perfect amalgamation of learning and having fun at the same time! You can get the game here

TIMESTAMPS

(04:43) - What makes Jesse ’JESSE’?

(05:30) - Does Curiosity kill the Cat ?

(06:48) - Jesse’s Origin Story 

(07:34) - Jesse’s thoughts about the coaching industry 

(11:51) - Introduction to Jesse’s Game 

(17:12) - Jesse’s thoughts on feelings aren’t facts

(24:56) - How to Play Jesse’s Game 

(28:24) - Where can people buy the Game?

(29:25) - The process of creating the game 

(30:59) - How does Paul Operationalise his Coaching of Self Love 

(41:35) - What can someone do to make their life easier/ fun?

(44:05) - How is Self Love Different from Self Care?

(48:20) - What does Self Love mean to Jesse?

(49:09) - A Tip from Jesse, Validating his experiences

(51:03) - Rapid Fire Round

(54:05) - Where can people find Jesse?

(55:10) - Last words from Jesse

EPISODE LINKS  

If you’re #obsessed with Jesse -  

Checkout Jesse’s IG - https://www.instagram.com/talkisgood/

His website - https://www.talkgood.org/

Sign up for the email newsletter at the bottom of the Website: PaulFishman.Love

Dm me on Instagram: @PaulFishman

Youtube: Paul Fishman

TikTok: @Paul.Fishman

 

Navigating Your Personal & Professional Life with Mike Watts03 May 202201:13:34

Oh hey, Self Lovers!   

If you’re watching this on the 3rd of May, go wish Richard happy birthday here @darby_richard

Also, if you're interested in ancestral constellation work check out the episode with grandmother Sarah here

Go to https://curiouselixirs.com/ if you want to get the best booze free, organic cocktails and use code SELFLOVE22

Today we’re joined by my internet friend who helped me through my skin issues, Mike Watts. This conversation is an insight into how he managed to navigate his way through business, marriage, and his skin disorder.   

TIMESTAMPS

(12:43) - What makes Mike ‘Mike’ ?

(16:31) - constantly evolving 

(21:22) - Comparison is inevitable 

(27:52) - Why shouldn't you compare yourself to your spouses

(38:05) - Mike and Paul’s Struggle with their skin disease 

(1:06:11) - What does Self Love mean to Mike 

(1:11:01) - Where to find Mike 

(1:12:17) - Mikes Final Sharing

EPISODE LINKS  

Checkout Mike’s podcast - https://www.thestateofmen.com/

Mike’s business consulting service - https://mikejwatts.com/

Sign up for the email newsletter at the bottom of the Website: PaulFishman.Love

Dm me on Instagram: @PaulFishman

Youtube: Paul Fishman

TikTok: @Paul.Fishman



Bringing Your Life Force Back with Jai Dev Singh26 Apr 202201:05:43

Oh hey, Self Lovers! 

First of all I wanna thank you guys for your support. The road to self love podcast is doing better than ever before, we are already at 19,000 downloads for the month!

So, today we are joined by Jai Dev Singh, the founder of Life Force academy. This episode is for you if you are ready to elevate, thrive, and bring that life force back into your life by means of meditation and yoga.

TIMESTAMPS

(07:59) - What makes Jai, JAI’?

(10:15) - Jai’s Origin Story

(16:03) - What makes a Leader ’A LEADER’

(18:35) - How to also start caring about yourself

(27:33) - Simple practices 

(30:00) - The feeling of being Royalty 

(42:11) - Jai’s talents

(46:08) - We’re not really strangers 

(53:50) - How do we move from despair?

(59:20) - Jai sharing about life Force Academy 

(1:03:31) - What does Self Love mean to Jai?

(1:04:08) - Where to Find Jai?

 

EPISODE LINKS  

 

Checkout the life force academy - @lifeforceacademy 

Say Hi to Jai Dev on instagram - @jaidev108

Sign up for the email newsletter at the bottom of the Website: PaulFishman.Love

Dm me on Instagram: @PaulFishman

Youtube: Paul Fishman

TikTok: @Paul.Fishman






How to Deal with Haters on Social Media with Jill Wintersteen19 Apr 202200:47:32

Oh hey, Self Lovers! Today’s episode is specifically made for you if you love astrology or want to learn more about it. We are joined by the goddess of astrology, the founder of Spirit Daughter, Jill Wintersteen.

We also talk about how she grew her brand, spirit daughter, from 0 to 1.9 million followers on Instagram and how Jill manages to deal with haters/trolls on social media that come with owning a platform like Spirit Daughter. 

TIMESTAMPS

3:25 - What makes Jill ‘Jill’?

5:01 - Overwhelm due to Social Media Fame

7:00 - Managing social media haters

10:06 - Jill’s Origin Story 

16:42 - Starting from 0 Followers 

19:46 - How to not use astrology as a strict rule book

25:41 - We are not really strangers

31:02 - Jill’s next step 

33:43 - The Importance of Lunar Cycle 

42:28 - What does self love mean to you?

45:18 - How to reach out to Jill

45:56 - Final things to share

 

EPISODE LINKS  

 

If you’re #obsessed with Jill 

Checkout her website - https://www.spiritdaughter.com/

Instagram - @spiritdaughter

Just search spirit daughter on any platform and you’ll find her

 

Dm me on Instagram: @PaulFishman

Youtube: Paul Fishman

TikTok: @Paul.Fishman

Website: PaulFishman.Love





Spirituality Is Not One Size Fits All with Brendan Fitzgibbons12 Apr 202201:16:27

Oh hey, Self Lovers! Today, we are joined by The Spiritual Asshole Podcast, Brendan Fitzgibbons. He is a comedian and extremely spiritually self aware. We get to talk about how Brendan has used his awareness and self love to heal a lot of the patterns comedians tend to get stuck in. 

TIMESTAMPS

4:00 - Who is Brendan?

10:39 - Journey to Crave Validation 

12:48 - How to be productive about a thing and not get attached to it?

17:21 - Spiritual Asshole

19:15 - Being on a Pedestal

24:08 - Desire and Trauma passed down through generations 

25:29 - Why people should not beat themselves up

27:17 - Erewhon Market

36:09 - Working at Dunkin Donuts to being a Comedian 

45:20 - Son and mother relationships boundaries 

55:55 - Fuck Marry Kill 

1:01:18 - What does self love mean to you?

1:03:49 - Family Constellation 

1:11:54 - What kind of Self Love Paul practice?

EPISODE LINKS  

Checkout his website - https://www.brendanfitzgibbons.com/

Listen to the spiritual asshole podcast here  

Instagram - @the_brendanfitzgibbons

Dm me on Instagram: @PaulFishman

Youtube: Paul Fishman

TikTok: @Paul.Fishman

Website: PaulFishman.Love

How To Be a Boundary Boss with Terri Cole05 Apr 202200:52:22

Oh hey, Self Lovers! If you struggle with boundaries or saying ‘No’, this episode is for you because today’s guest is The Boundary Boss herself, Terri Cole. 

Get ready to be mesmerized by the voice of Terri Cole, she is a psychotherapist and you are absolutely going to love her. So let’s get buckled up and get ready because here we go!

 

TIMESTAMPS

 

3:52 - What makes Terri “Terri”?

4:53 - How do you not lose yourself?

7:40 - empath to empowered

10:53 - What is a Boundary?

11:44 - Your first step 

19:32 - Expressing Rigid Boundaries 

26:56 - How long did it take Terri to feel confident about her boundaries

32:59 - Ways to talk about Boundaries 

41:11 - We’re not really Strangers 

45:01 - What does self-love mean to you?

46:28 - What’s next for Terri

48:21 - How to reach out to Terri?

49:30 - Terri Cole Sharing with the audience

 

EPISODE LINKS 

 

If you are #obsessed with Terri then

Checkout her website - https://www.terricole.com/

You can buy her book “Boundary Boss” here 

Instagram - @terricole

 

Dm me on Instagram: @PaulFishman

Youtube: Paul Fishman

TikTok: @Paul.Fishman

Website: PaulFishman.Love




Allowing Your Gifts to Guide You with Kim Krans29 Mar 202201:08:20
Oh hey, Self Lovers!  The self love oven is finally done with its magic and the episode with the one and only Kim Krans is finally out. Kim is the creator of The Wild Unknown Tarot Deck.

We literally pulled cards from her Deck while we were driving! We also talk about the origin story of the deck and what Kim is up to now. So, get buckled up and get ready because here we go!

TIMESTAMPS

4:10 - What makes Kim “Kim”?

10:56 - Kim’s origin story 

17:11 - The ideal Solution to your problem

25:47 - Difference between what you think is best for you and what’s actually best for you? 

31:30 - Tangible advice for the people

37:16 - Picking a card from Kim’s Deck

47:50 - Kim’s ongoing projects 

51:13 - Kim 10 years from now

1:00:54 - What does self love mean to you?

1:05:57 - Where can people find Kim

EPISODE LINKS 

If you are #obsessed with Kim then

You can find her at - @Kim_Krans

And her Deck at - @the_wild_unknown 

Checkout her books here - https://www.thewildunknown.com/blogs/books 

Dm me on Instagram: @PaulFishman

Youtube: Paul Fishman

TikTok: @Paul.Fishman

Website: PaulFishman.Love

How to Use Vulnerability to Heal with Gabby Bernstein22 Mar 202200:39:47

Oh hey, Self Lovers! Today's guest is someone who requires no introduction at all.

Yes, you guessed it, she is none other than Gabby Bernstein herself.

In this episode, you get to experience what an actual 1:1 private coaching session with Gabby looks like, she helps me through my overwhelm using IFS (internal family systems therapy)

 

TIMESTAMPS

 

(3:33) - What makes Gabby, “Gabby”?

(5:33) - Healthy vulnerability?

(6:53) - This is your first step to your self love journey 

(8:04) - Gabby on the word “trust”

(11:24) - How to not let your attachments define your life?

(13:18) - How to get through our victim story ?

(16:55) - We are not really strangers healing edition

(20:22) - Gabby Couching Paul

(32:40) - Gabby on Insomnia 

(37:31) - What does Self Love means to Gabby 

(38:17) - How to reach out to Gabby



EPISODE LINKS 

 

You can find everything about Gabby - @gabbybernstein

Checkout her website - https://gabbybernstein.com/

You can her latest book “Happy days” here 

 

Dm me on Instagram: @PaulFishman

Youtube: Paul Fishman

TikTok: @Paul.Fishman

Website: PaulFishman.Love




How to Live in The Present Moment with Michelle Chalfant15 Mar 202201:03:26

Oh hey, Self Lovers! I am so excited to bring you guys The Road to Self Love 2.0! This is the first interview we are releasing in 2022 and to start off this beautiful journey we are joined by our very special guest Michelle Chalfant, the founder of The Adult Chair podcast.

 

Michelle explains what a narcissist is, she goes in depth about her life’s work that is the three types of chairs you can sit in - 

  1. The baby chair
  2. The adolescent chair 
  3. The adult chair 

 

Which chair are you sitting on and how to sit on the adult chair?

To find out, checkout the episode.

 

TIMESTAMPS

 

(5:08) - Who is Michelle Chalfant?

(6:05) - What is the difference between a therapist and a coach?

(10:16) - How did the adult chair podcast start?

(14:12) - All about the Adult chair model

(23:35) - How do we become more self aware?

(28:55) - The road to setting boundaries 

(40:00) - What does self love mean to you?

(41:57) - What boundary will benefit you the most to set with myself and why haven’t I set it yet ?

(47:16) - Your Understanding of Narcissism?

(56:30) - Favorite parts of your business?

(59:46) - Fuck, marry, kill - Coaching, Therapy, Podcast 

(1:02:00) - Guest Info

 

EPISODE LINKS 

 

You can find everything about Michelle here - https://theadultchair.com/

 

Dm me on Instagram: @PaulFishman

Youtube: Paul Fishman

TikTok: @Paul.Fishman

Website: PaulFishman.Love

 

Best Self Visualization with Paul Fishman15 Feb 202200:53:34
Oh hey, Self Lovers! Today's episode features a chat with Mala Collective founder Ashley Wray and a meditation I lead for her community.

I hope you'll create the space to listen to this episode and participate in the meditation and journaling prompts.

Love you!

Why Self Love MUST be the Foundation of ANY Transformation25 Oct 202200:29:32

oh hey, Self Lovers! I hope you're ready to go to Self Love Church today because I am taking you there during this episode. Today we dive deep into why Self Love MUST be the foundation of any transformation or goal you set out to achieve.

Today's episode will be great for you if you feel stuck in your life and are ready to break free of the cycle(s) that are keeping you there!

Apply to join my transformative group coaching program The Self Love Diet by clicking HERE

DM me on IG: @paulfishman
Follow me on TikTok: @paul.fishman
visit my website: www.paulfishman.love

Leading with Joy with Paul Fishman08 Feb 202200:21:42
oh hey, Self Lovers! It's been a second since we've been together and I'm excited to share what I've been up to.

There's lots to get into and know that I am so grateful that you're here.

Check out my new venture everykindof.co

Buy the new Self Love Diet on sale

Confidence is an Inside Job with Paul Fishman18 Jan 202200:50:45

oh hey Self Lovers! Today I'm sharing why your confidence starts and ends with you.

You'll walk away with tools you can start using TODAY to become even more confident!

PS This conversation happened over on the Wisdom app and it was just too good not to share.

Shoutout to my special guest Malcolm.

IG: @paulfishman
tiktok: @paul.fishman

Asking for Help is Brave + Life Updates with Paul Fishman11 Jan 202200:32:16

Join me for a private and free chat this Friday Jan 14th at 12PM pst on The Wisdom App.

It's 2022 aka Twenty Twenty You, Self Lovers! Wow, we're 11 days in and I am feeling optimistic. Today's episode is one of those solocasts that gets down and dirty with what's *really* going on in my life.

The flavor of the last month has been asking for help and I'm excited to share with you how asking for help changed everything for me (and why 2022 is all about you asking for help too)

See you Friday on The Wisdom App for our chat where you can ask for all the help you need from me and this community!

IG: @paulfishman
tiktok: @paul.fishman
YouTube: PaulFishman

 

Breaking Through The Resistance of Pursuing Your Calling with Abbi Hatten14 Dec 202100:45:09

The road to self love will be off for the holidays. The next episode will be released in 2022 and we are super excited for you to listen to our very special guests. I hope you’ll miss us as much as we’ll miss you.

Oh hey, Self Lovers! Today on the road to self love we are joined by Abbi Hatten. She is one of my dear clients and is travelling around the US in her van for the last 5 months.

This episode is for you if you are looking for the permission to do what you’ve always been called to do, you get to hear from abbi on how she broke through the resistance that was coming up to her on doing what she was really called to do for a really long time.  

TIMESTAMPS

(6:45) - What makes you 'YOU'?

(8:53) - Unlearning the things you learnt in your childhood

(10:55) - Biggest Hurdle in doing what you love

(13:28) - Breaking through the resistance of pursuing your calling

(14:38) - Laying naked in a hot spring 

(18:45) - Getting real about insecurities

(22:28) - Applying the things that you learnt and unlearnt to your life going forward

(24:18) - How do you surrender?

(27:21) - What's it like to go back home after being a traveler for 5 months?

(29:19) - What’s it like working with Paul Fishman ?

(35:25) - Why is it scary to invest in yourself

(37:43) - How has been your journey of stepping into the unknown 

(38:39) - Fuck, Marry, Kill 

(41:05) - What does Self Love mean to you?

EPISODE LINKS 

Follow Abbi on IG - @abbiwanderlust

Checkout Abbi’s vulnerable self on tiktok - @abbiwanderlust 

 

Dm me on Instagram: @PaulFishman

Youtube: Paul Fishman

TikTok: @Paul.Fishman

Website: PaulFishman.Love

Text: 619-202-8353

How to Instantly Eliminate Stress with Paul Fishman09 Dec 202100:27:06

Sign up for the 12 Days of Self Love here

Oh hey, Self Lovers! Today I'm dishing 3 ways you can eliminate your stress (almost) instantly! I'm also giving you a sneak peek into the first day of the upcoming 12 Days of Self Love Audio Challenge that is starting this Monday, December 13th.

You'll hear the entire first day of the challenge so you can understand how valuable it is! Don't miss out on your chance to join us at 50% off by registering before we start on the 13th!

Sign up for the 12 Days of Self Love here

 

Getting Real About Anxiety with Victoria Garrick07 Dec 202100:52:33

Click here to join me for a 12 day audio journey that will keep you connected with yourself & stress free this holiday season.

Oh hey, Self Lovers! On the road to self love we are joined by Victoria Garrick. She is a Former D1 athlete, influencer & mental health advocate. Her mission is to spread the message of self care & authenticity.

This episode is for you if you have ever dealt with anxiety, stress, self doubt & are ready to learn from someone who has actually dealt with such situations in real time.

TIMESTAMPS

(5:53) - What makes Victoria, ‘Victoria’

(8:21) - Why is it okay to say what you hate yourself?

(13:34) - Victoria's unfiltered comparison journey

(17:34) - Do you believe everything happens for a reason?

(26:33) - Dealing with Anxiety and Mental Illness

(31:25) - Why is Taylor Swift's validation more important than your own?

(33:32) - Freestyle Song Singing

(39:17) - What would you say to a person who is having a hard time just being themselves?

(41:06) - We’re Not Really Strangers

(49:36) - What does Self Love mean to you?

EPISODE LINKS 

Follow Victoria on IG - @Victoriagarrick

Check out her podcast Real Pod 

Dm me on Instagram: @PaulFishman

Youtube: Paul Fishman

TikTok: @Paul.Fishman

Website: PaulFishman.Love

Finding Your Purpose in a Corporate Job with Becca Ribbing01 Dec 202100:53:54

Oh hey, Self Lovers! On this episode of the show we talk to the purpose & clarity coach Becca Ribbing.

Today we talk about parenting, schooling, how to find your purpose in  a corporate job, how to deal with bosses that micromanage you and so much more.

This episode is for you if you are-

  1. Looking to pivot
  2. Trying to find a new job
  3. Trying to find peace in your purpose

 

Apply for The Self Love Diet today 

 

TIMESTAMPS

 

(2:49) - What makes you, YOU?

(6:53) - Unlearning the fear of doing what you love isn’t enough to earn a living.

(12:04) - The breaking point for most people

(14:46) - Bad Boss and Negative Co Worker

(16:06) - Do you need a new boss or a new job?

(21:26) - Impacts of the pandemic on the corporate environment

(24:21) - How to boost your productivity when working from home 

(32:07) - Deep Diving into the Clarity Journal.

(38:58) - How would you guide someone through that friction?

(44:02) - Road Trip Game #1

(50:09) - What does Self Love mean to you ?

 

EPISODE LINKS 

 

Get the clarity Journal here

Follow Becca in IG - @beccaribbing

Dm me on Instagram: @PaulFishman

Youtube: Paul Fishman

TikTok: @Paul.Fishman

Website: PaulFishman.Love

Learning to Trust Yourself with Ashley Wray23 Nov 202100:46:33

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Oh hey, Self Lovers!

Today on the road to self love, we talk to the one and only Ashley Wray. She is a mindfulness coach and helps you connect to your purpose, potential, your highest self and she is the founder of the Mala Collective.

This episode is all about learning how to trust yourself, to overcome your self doubt and step into your highest self. So, if you are going through a big transition period in your life and are ready to sail your way through it, get buckled up because you are in for a treat!

Apply for The Self Love Diet today 

EPISODE LINKS

(4:14) - Who is Ashley Wray?

(6:34) - Ashley’s Business Story

(9:24) - Self Trust and Surrender

(13:45) - First Step towards trusting yourself

(15:57) - The only person holding you accountable is YOU

(18:03) - Road Trip Game #1

(29:12) - Mentally handling the process of raising funds for your business.

(36:35) -  What does Self Love Means to You?

EPISODE LINKS - 

Get your Mala from the Mala Collective here

Reach out to Ashley on IG - @ashley_wray

Dm me on Instagram: @PaulFishman

Youtube: Paul Fishman

TikTok: @Paul.Fishman

Website: PaulFishman.Love

Why Your Boundaries Aren't Working with Paul Fishman18 Nov 202100:26:20

oh hey Self Lovers! After lots of feedback and requests, we launched a Patreon and it's so exciting! I'm calling it The Road to Self Love Carpool and I want you to join us.

check it out at www.patreon.com/paulfishman

Today's solocast is all about boundaries and some little know mistakes you might be making when setting them. This audio was taken from a recent call inside The Self Love Diet my transformative group coaching program.

I love you and can't wait to hear from you on IG

@paulfishman

 

How to belong within yourself with Becca Piastrelli16 Nov 202101:12:05

Oh hey, Self Lovers!

Today on this virtual road to self love, we’re joined by my very special friend Becca Piastrelli. 

She is the author of the book Root & Ritual which is a beautifully illustrated guide for connecting with the earth, your ancestors, and your communities as you come home to your whole self.

In this episode, we dive deep into the concept of belonging and the journey of courageous reconnection where we explore what it means to belong to the earth, to yourself, to who and what you come from, and in community. 

Join the Family constellation retreat, December 10th - 12th in San Diego here.

EPISODE LINKS

  • 7:52 - Who is Becca Piastrelli?
  • 12:12 - Becca’s definition of belonging 
  • 19:23 - a journey of belonging
  • 28:01 - Becca's baby and parenting
  • 29:42 - Netflix Series
  • 33:00 - The Fear of Coming to the Table
  • 38:07 - Appropriation
  • 41:34 - Appreciation
  • 46:57 - Credit to the Original Artist
  • 55:48 - Road Trip Game #1
  • 1:06:25 - Becca's Book Details

 

EPISODE LINKS - 

Grab your copy of the Root & Ritual here or at your local book stores.

Becca’s IG - @beccapiastrelli

Dm me on Instagram: @PaulFishman

Youtube: Paul Fishman

TikTok: @Paul.Fishman

Website: PaulFishman.Love

3 Things I Learned During the Hardest Year of My Life18 Oct 202200:46:57

oh hey, Self Lovers! I'm back again and this time we're celebrating my 38th birthday with a little recap of what I've learned over the past 12 months.

I'm celebrating my birthday with a 90% off coaching offer that you won't want to miss so DM me on IG @paulfishman or shoot me an email at hi@paulfishman.love and I'll get you the registration link! **LIMITED SPOTS AVAILABLE**

Episode mentioned in this podcast:

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Instagram: @paulfishman
TikTok: @paul.fishman
website: www.paulfishman.love

 

How to Come Back Home to Yourself with Erin Treloar09 Nov 202101:01:56

Oh hey, Self Lovers! Today we are joined by the founder of Raw Beauty Co., Erin Treloar. Her company is driven to help women live from a place of self-love and become their most authentic selves. 

This episode is full of us having relatable and vulnerable conversations around the ups and downs of being an entrepreneur, what to and what not to share online, healing your relationship with money, and of course coming home to yourself.  

EPISODE HIGHLIGHTS!

(4:30) - What makes Erin, ‘Erin’?

(5:44) - Origin story

(12:54) - Coming home to yourself

(16:10) - Erin’s Self-love journey as a wellness coach

(30:06) - road trip game #1

(33:11) - Having relatable & vulnerable conversations about money

(55:20) - What does self-love mean to you

(57:38) - Where can people find you

 

EPISODE LINKS 

If you're #obsessed with Erin, checkout her IG - @rawbeautytalks

Checkout her website - https://www.rawbeauty.co/

Dm me on Instagram: @PaulFishman

Youtube: Paul Fishman

TikTok: @Paul.Fishman

Website: PaulFishman.Love

How I Survived The Hardest Year and a Half of my Life with Paul Fishman04 Nov 202100:51:39

oh hey Self Lovers! The last 18 months of my life have been some of the hardest I have ever had to grow through and guess what? I am getting vulnerable again... but real talk, this is the most vulnerable I've ever been on the show.

I can't wait for you to snag all the juicy gems from this episode and I cry at the end so that's cute too.

I love you!

let connect
@paulfishman on IG
@paul.fishman on tiktok
PaulFishman on YouTube
www.paulfishman.love on the world wide web

How to Rapidly Heal Your Trauma with Grandmother Sarah Maclean Bicknell02 Nov 202100:51:51

If you want to be in community and are excited to go on a deeply transformative healing journey, Join us for the ancestral constellation retreat from December 10th - 12th in San Diego.

 

Oh hey, Self Lovers! 

Today we are joined by grandmother Sarah who has been healing generational wounds since the last 15 years using the power of ancestral constellation. 

In this episode we get to see the healing work I’ve been doing to become the most empowered version of myself and how grandmother Sarah has played such an important role in that. We also try to shed some light on how far back your traumas go and how it’s not your fault that you have them, however it is your responsibility to heal them.

EPISODE HIGHLIGHTS!

(6:26) - Who is Sarah? And what get’s her out of bed?

(8:37) - The true meaning of healing

(11:50) - Sarah’s origin story 

(17:18) - ancestral constellation 

(28:42) - My experience in ancestral constellation 

(40:12) - We are not really strangers 

(42:38) - How can you connect with Sarah

(45:32) - What does self love mean to you 

(48:36) - last words + outro 

EPISODE LINKS 

If you want to work with Sarah, checkout her website here

Click here to join the village green 

Sarah’s instagram - @grandmother_sarah

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Getting Real about Breathwork with Stevie Wright26 Oct 202100:54:03

Oh hey, Self Lovers! 

Today on the road we are joined by the one and only Stevie Wright.

Stevie is an embodiment coach & breathwork guide, she helps people quantum leap with somatic & subconscious practices.

This episode is the perfect amalgamation of super fun songwriting games and having deep conversations around how to feel safe to receive, how to effortlessly progress in life and call in more abundance and so much more. 

Do you want a sacred space where you can feel welcomed and supported?

Join Self52!

EPISODE HIGHLIGHTS!

(3:45) - Intro + being receptive

(5:38) - How did Stevie discover what she really likes 

(7:48) - The breath channel and the breathwork community

(11:29) - How did Stevie vision everything that happened

(15:21) - Resistance in Stevie’s life

(22:54) - Songwriting game

(31:18) - What are you going/growing through now?

(41:53) - Road trip game #2

(50:01) - Fuck, marry, kill

EPISODE LINKS 

If you are just casually obsessed with Stevie, find her on instagram - @stevielwright_

Join the breath channel here.

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Getting Present on my 37th Birthday Ft My Husband Richard21 Oct 202100:48:44

oh hey, Self Lovers! Today I invited my husband Richard to take the interviewers seat and ask me all the questions.

It's a super vulnerable episode because he asks some really hard questions and I'm really excited for you to listen.

Apply for the new 12 month Self Love Diet program at https://paulfishman.love/selflovediet

How to Stop Self Sabotage in its tracks with Samantha Belle19 Oct 202100:57:26

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Oh hey, Self Lovers! Today on the virtual road we’re joined by Samantha Belle who in her own words is a kaleidoscope. She is an actor & helps creatives release imposter syndrome + overwhelm. She has been on a beautiful and brave journey of self-exploration in the past few years & shares valuable lessons that she has learned with us!

If you looking for 

  1. Powerful ways to reconnect  with your truest self
  2. Tangible tools for removing self-sabotage from your life
  3. Help with understanding your insecurities from your childhood

Get yourself buckled up because you are absolutely going to love this episode!

EPISODE HIGHLIGHTS!

(0:00) - Intro + origin story of her evolution 

(16:30) - What did you learn from your parent's divorce?

(22:15) - Self sabotage & practical ways of removing it

(35:23) - road trip game #1 & understanding Self inflicted trauma

(50:50) - fuck marry kill

(55:30) - outro

EPISODE LINKS 

The best way to reach Samantha is via Instagram - @its_samanthabelle

Dm me on Instagram: @PaulFishman

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TikTok: @Paul.Fishman

Website: PaulFishman.Love

 

How Little Miracles can Lead to the Big Shifts with Bailey Stansworth & Jacci Rai12 Oct 202100:47:32

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Oh hey, Self Lovers! This episode is all about how spending time with your best friends and being surrounded by the right community should be of the highest priority for us self lovers.

We are joined by Bailey Stanworth and Jaccirai, the two incredible hosts of What day is it? podcast. Our conversation today is just like 3 best friends hanging out in the car and talking about everything from their backstories and how they ended up hosting a very successful podcast together to sharing vulnerable moments about unhealed traumas.

EPISODE HIGHLIGHTS!

(0:00) - Intro + a very special announcement 

(9:22) - Diving into the backstories of Bailey & Jaci

(16:50) - Working with a business partner who is also your friend  

(26:20) - Playing we’re not really strangers 

(41:27) - What does self love mean to you?

(42:53) - Fuck marry kill

(45:42) - Outro

EPISODE LINKS

Listen to What day is it? podcast

Instagram-

Podcast - @whatdayistitpodcast

Bailey - @baileyjst

Jacci - @jaccirai

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Website: PaulFishman.Love

Text: 619-202-8353

 

Take Back Your Power & Life Updates with Paul Fishman07 Oct 202100:30:32

Oh hey, Self Lovers! We're getting vulnerable today- like, pit in my stomach am I actually publishing this, vulnerable.

We chat taking your power back, what's going on behind the scenes of my business, comparison and so much more.

come say hi on IG @paulfishman

check out my website www.paulfishman.love

The Difference Between the Masculine and Feminine with Madelyn Moon05 Oct 202100:47:34

Oh hey, Self Lovers!

Today we’re joined by Madelyn Moon! She is a walking permission slip, a soul igniter and helps humans turn their “drama” into “dharma” so they can have deep love and intimacy. 

This episode is for you if you struggle with-

  1. Slowing down in life
  2. Giving yourself the permission to evolve. 
  3. Making yourself wrong for having emotions.

EPISODE HIGHLIGHTS!

(4:10) - Madelyn’s back story and how to navigate through negative things in life

(12:41) - What is masculine & feminine energy?

(22:19) - How to notice if you are in balance with your masculine & feminine

(27:09) - Road trip game #1

(35:23) - How to give yourself permission to evolve

(39:58) - What does self love mean to you?

If you are just casually obsessed with Madelyn, you can find her at-

Instagram: @madelynmoon

Website: https://maddymoon.com/

I want you to know that you are not a burden at all and I would love to help you with your self-love journey so DM me on Instagram: @PaulFishman

Youtube: Paul Fishman

TikTok: @Paul.Fishman

Website: PaulFishman.Love

Text: 619-202-8353

Apply for The Self Love Diet today 

3 Steps to Heal Your Trauma with Paul Fishman30 Sep 202100:25:17

Oh hey Self Lovers, today we're talking about the difference between being a victim and living in victimhood.

Plus I give you my 3 step process for healing trauma.

DM me on Instagram @paulfishman or email me at hi@paulfishman.love if you want to work together 1:1

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How to Be The Main Character11 Oct 202200:21:01

Oh hey, Self Lovers!

We have jumped timelines and the show is back quicker than I even expected. Listen to how much my life has changed in just one week and how you too can change your life with the flip of a (mental) switch.

This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp Online Counseling. Get 10% off your first month by visiting trybetterhelp.com/roadtoselflove

Previous episodes mentioned in this episode:

How I Survived the Hardest Year and a Half of My Life

Let's connect:

Instagram: @paulfishman
TikTok: @paul.fishman
email: hi@paulfishman.love

 

Stop the Negative Self Talk with Amanda Hainline28 Sep 202100:54:46

oh hey, Self Lovers, today I'm joined by Amanda Hainline, an author and emotional empowerment coach.

Today we chat about how to ditch the negative self-talk, Self Love for Empaths, and Amanda's journey into emotional resiliency.

Timestamps:

2:35 - Amanda's spiritual awaking and back story. 12:24 - Being aware of negative self-talk 17:47 - How to ditch the negative self-talk 32:36 - the story of how to feel better in 5 mins 38:42 - Trauma reframed! 41:45 - road trip game #1 50:10 - What does self-love mean to you?

Get Amanda's new book Feel Better in Five Minutes
Connect with Amanda
Instagram: @akhainline
Website: https://www.amandahainline.com/

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website: paulfishman.love

How to Stop Fearing Failure with Paul Fishman23 Sep 202100:22:38

Oh hey Self Lovers! Today's episode of Self Love Solocasts is a very important one. We are diving deep into the "F Word" and that word is Failure!

If you struggle doing the things you want to do because you're scared to fail

If you hold yourself back because you're worried what other's will think of you

If you so badly want things that you don't feel worthy of

This episode is for you!

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Taking a Chance on Your Dreams with Audrey Christensen21 Sep 202100:51:13

Oh hey, Self Lovers! Today we're joined by Audrey Christensen, a full-time textile artist and visionary. Just a few months ago Audrey was forced to quit her job and leap headfirst into the career she had always dreamt of!

Hear Audrey's story, learn all about the magic that happened when she trusted herself, what it means to step fully into your dreams and how to move through the fear of failure.

Watch the interview on YouTube

Follow Audrey everywhere @heybefab
visit her website: heybefab.com

Apply for The Self Love Diet today 

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Why Your Self Worth is Your Own Responsibility with Tracy Duhs14 Sep 202101:09:57

Oh hey, Self Lovers! 

We're back at it again with ANOTHER repeat guest! That makes two weeks in a row of featuring people I HAD to have another road trip with! 

This week, allow me to introduce the very vibrant Ms. Tracy Duhs (pronounced Dues, not like Duh). 
Tracy is a fellow podcaster, a single mom, and an expert in all things hydration.
She also has SO. MANY words of wisdom when it comes to relationships! The second half of our conversation revolves entirely around that subject, so listen to this one, hard. 

EPISODE HIGHLIGHTS! 

(7:21) Combating Perfectionism

(22:26) Nature's Medicine

(38:47) Your Responsibility to Yourself

EPISODE LINKS!

Find Tracy Online!

Website: TracyDuhs.Com
Instagram: @TracyDuhs
Listen to Tracy's Podcast, Hydrate!
Pre-Order Hydrate, Tracy's Book!

Don't forget to tag Tracy and I on Instagram to let us know YOUR response to our Self Reflection card! 

Find Me Online!

DM me on Instagram: @PaulFishman to let me know how else I can support you! 

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Website: PaulFishman.Love

Text: 619-202-8353

Getting Present with Paul Fishman09 Sep 202100:27:27

Self Lovers! Today we're getting real about getting present in your life. I'm giving you real-life examples around how I got a present, easy things to do and we'll also chat about why being present is so hard for so many of us.

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Get Connected to Your Contribution with Loralei Bayette07 Sep 202100:58:06

Oh hey, Self Lovers! 

This week I am SO excited to bring you episode TWO with my stunning, fabulous, profound friend, Loralei Bayette! 

Loralei joined me on the road back in January, when we talked about why manifestation isn't working for you. Now, she is back to discuss getting connected and centered so that you can be the best, most authentic version of yourself. 

I love all of my conversations with Loralei, so I can't wait to share her with you again! 

 

EPISODE HIGHLIGHTS! 

(7:18) Healing Before Contributing

(15:12) The First Step in Getting to Know Yourself

(42:55) Driven by Trauma

 

EPISODE LINKS! 

Go say hi to Loralei on her Instagram! @LoraleiBayette

...and when you're done, come say hi to ME on my Instagram! @PaulFishman

Listen to Loralei's Last Episode!

Find Me On...

TikTok: @Paul.Fishman

Website: PaulFishman.Love

Text: 619-202-8353

How Self Love Changed their Lives with Lindsay, Lisa and Beth02 Sep 202100:38:54

Self Lovers! Get your tissues because we are about to get emotional on the road today.

I'm joined by 3 of my Self Love Diet clients for a conversation about how self-love changed their lives. Hear from Beth who graduated nearly 4 years ago, Lindsay who just graduated, and Lisa who brought us to tears with her experience inside the program.

Apply to join The Self Love Diet today at paulfishman.love/selflovediet

How to Love Yourself Through Change with Monica Berg31 Aug 202100:46:58

 

Self lovers! I’m joined by Monica Berg on the road to chat all things relationships and change.

 

Monica is an international speaker, spiritual thought leader, and author of Fear is Not an Option and Rethink Love and host of the Spiritually Hungry podcast.

 

Follow Monica on IG: @monicaberg74

 

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Self Love Texts: 619.202.8353

Be Unapologetically You with Chinae Alexander24 Aug 202100:52:50

Welcome, Self Lover!
Or, if it’s not your first time – Welcome back!

This week I get to share my conversation with the stunningly authentic Chinae Alexander! We were able to connect on the socially distanced road to talk all things relationships, vulnerability, and the investment of self work.

Chinae is my newest best friend, and one of the few who is NOT afraid to be real online – a trait that I admire. She is also a podcaster, a social entrepreneur, and a self described body confidence aficianado. 

I hope Chinae inspires you to show up in your truth with no (or, maybe less) fear.

Enjoy!

 

EPISODE HIGHLIGHTS!

 

(11:50) Getting Vulnerable Online

(18:50) Real Relationships

(28:00) Investing in Your Self

 

EPISODE LINKS!

Find Chinae Online!

Website: ChinaeAlexander.Com
Instagram: @ChinaeAlexander
Podcastagram: @PressSendPodcast

Chinae is so beautifully, authentically herself – if you were inspired by her story, and would like to apply for the Self Love Diet here!

 

Find Me Online!

Instagram: @PaulFishman

TikTok: @Paul.Fishman

Website: PaulFishman.Love

Text: 619-202-8353

My Top 3 Healing Hacks with Paul Fishman19 Aug 202100:43:24

oh Hey Self Lover! Today I am taking you on a journey through the past 7 months and how I healed my rare skin disorder rapidly with very little medical intervention.

You can apply these tools to your own healing journey regardless of what you're healing- emotional, physical or spiritual wounds.

Apply for The *FREE* Own Your Authenticity Masterclass

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The Breath Channel (use code BC25 for $5 off your membership)

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Is Your Past Influencing Your Future?04 Oct 202200:22:25

oh hey, Self Lovers,

It's been nearly four months since we buckled up and got on the road together and I'm excited to be back with this very special episode.

In this episode, I share where I have been for the past four months and what the future holds for me and the show.

Thank you so much from the bottom of my heart for all the love and support you have given me and the show during our time together.

We have been journeying on the Road to Self Love for a few years now and it's time for me to turn my car keys in for a new adventure.

Stay tuned because I will be back!

Remember, you are worth it, you deserve it and you are not alone!

love, Paul

How are Relationships Like a Business? with Pia Baroncini17 Aug 202101:03:52

Oh hey, Self Lovers!
This week, I get to introduce you to the (self proclaimed) LOUD Pia Baroncini! Pia wears many hats, but just to name a few:

  • Mother
  • Podcaster
  • Clothing Designer
  • Italian Food Importer

I could go on, but I like to keep these *somewhat* short and sweet.

Pia joins me on the virtual road this week to discuss balancing the work/parent/wife life, how her and her beautiful husband have decided to parent, her journey in starting her brand, and how relationships are a lot like investing in a business.

If you take anything from this episode, I hope that you especially tune in to our discussion about her unique (but oh, so insightful) view on relationships – it truly inspired me, and I hope you feel the same!

 

EPISODE HIGHLIGHTS!

 

(7:34) How Does Pia Balance all of the Things?

(15:20) SO, Parenting is Fun…!

(29:16) Bestie, Your Relationship Does NOT Define You

(51:08) Advice for Someone Starting Their Brand

 

EPISODE LINKS!

Find Pia Online!

Website: PiaBaroncini.Com
Instagram: @PiaBaroncini
Clothing Line: @GhiaiaCashmere
Olive Oil: @BaronciniImportAndCo

Pia is so beautifully, authentically herself – if you were inspired by her story, and would like to apply to join the Own Your Own Authenticity Masterclass, visit me here – OR if you feel so inclined, you can commit to a longer journey, and you can apply for the Self Love Diet here!

 

Find Me Online!

Instagram: @PaulFishman

TikTok: @Paul.Fishman

Website: PaulFishman.Love

Text: 619-202-8353

How to Ask for Help with Paul Fishman12 Aug 202100:19:12

if you struggle asking for help this episode is for you!

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How to Discover Your Authenticity with Pamela Gold10 Aug 202101:13:50

Oh hey, Self Lovers!

This week we sit down with my friend Pamela Gold – she is a mother, an author, a resident of NYC, and many other things!

Pamela has been described as a modern-day Yoda (for real - check out the reviews on her website) because she has so many useful tools for you to implement in your day to day, and she is passionate about helping others become fulfilled.

In this new episode we talk about:

(9:20) How Pamela discovered her authenticity

(15:17) Being Excited about the Unknown

(39:27) The Opportunity of Being Responsible

(51:00) How is Gratitude a Ladder?

 

EPISODE LINKS!

Find Pamela Online!

Website: PamelaGold.Com
Instagram: @PamelaPGold 

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text your questions to: 619-212-8353

If you’d like to get to know and embrace the authentic version of you, consider applying for my program, The Self Love Diet!
I dedicate an entire module of my course to self awareness, because I believe that is the foundation to YOUR Road to Self Love!

How to Stop Needing Your Family's Approval with Paul Fishman05 Aug 202100:47:47

oh hey Self Lovers! This week I'm sharing a recent IG Live where we talk about ditching the need for your parent's approval.

Make sure to follow me on IG @paulfishman so you don't miss the next live session.

apply for the self love "diet" at paulfishman.love/selflovediet

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