The One Day At A Time Recovery Podcast – Details, episodes & analysis

Is it possible to recover from addiction if you have a lifetime of trauma?

The honest answer is, it depends.

It depends on each individuals willingness to get help, practice self-reflect, be open minded and do the work of self-care.

Today I sit down with Jami, who is a beautiful example of willingness, resilience, and someone brave enough to live with an open heart despite years of abandonment and tragic loss.

Stay to the end because we talk about redefining some triggering words, so that they dont become limiting beliefs.

So without further delay, please enjoy this episode, and let me know what you think!

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If you are newly sober and you're feeling anxious about spending time with your family during the holidays, I have a few tips to get you through safely.

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Do you have an anger problem? It seems like it would be obvious, but if you have learned to suppress or deny your feelings, you may not recognize it or how its affecting your life.

Michelle Farris joins me today to talk about 4 ways to identify anger, and 5 ways to manage it. Michelle is a licensed psychotherapist and person in recovery. This is actually her third time on the podcast, so if you want to hear her whole story, just go to odaatchat.com and Ill leave a link in the show notes.

Before we jump in, I just wanted to let you know that Im publishing educational videos on my youtube channel. Ill be covering topics like how to rebuild self-esteem, tips to stop drinking, and long form sleep hypnosis to help you rewire your brain for improved self worth, detachment from overthinking, trust in the universe, self love and confidence. 

Just visit The one day at a time recovery podcast on YouTube, and as always, the link will be in the show notes.

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Im really excited to share this conversation with you, so without further delay, please enjoy this episode with Michelle .

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Free Guide 30 Tips for Your First 30 Days - With a printable PDF checklist

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Sobriety Reset - An Online 30 Day Bootcamp To Living Alcohol Free

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Today my guest is Lily Shanks. She is a former attorney turned certified yoga instructor and life coach. She is no stranger to perfectionism, workaholism, alcoholism, and burnout. Having learned how to overcome so many challenges, she now works with other women to do the same through a variety of practices. She is absolutely lovely, and I can’t wait for you to meet her!

Before we jump in, I have a favor to ask. The podcast is officially years old now, and I have spoken with over 250 guests, with some distinguished and exciting guests coming up. It takes a lot of work and expense to keep the show going; at the moment, I have 2 donors supporting the show. If the podcast has helped you and you feel so inclined to support the show through a donation, you can do so by visiting odaatchat.com, and there will be a link to donate. If you would like to support the show in other ways, reviews are hugely helpful, as is sharing it with friends. The show is a passion, and I’m so grateful for all the love and support. Thank you for an amazing 7 years, and I look forward to many more!

And with that, please enjoy the episode with Lily!

Connect with Lily!

Visit Website: https://www.myinternalweather.com/lilyshanks

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Watch on YouTube: ​​https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCNuRolkOZ7X8fCEFCDYd5tg

Lightning Round Answers: 

Book recommendation: Blackout, by Sarah Hepola, The Grapevine

Self Care Practice: yoga, pray meditate

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Today my guest is Ted Perkins, who will be talking about his recovery journey through SMART Recovery and his new book “Addicted in Film: Movies We Love About The Habits We Hate.” It’s a brilliant concept, and it makes so much sense when you consider how we all learn and relate through stories.

Ted is a former Universal Pictures and Warner Bros. Studio executive, university lecturer, public speaker, Hollywood producer, virtual reality entrepreneur, and successful working film and TV series screenwriter. He volunteers his time as an addiction and recovery YouTube personality and sobriety mentor. He has helped thousands of people on their recovery journey through his blogs, videos, and weekly SMART Recovery meetings. 

Before we jump in, I wanted to announce another resource for you which is a book review series I’ll be publishing on TikTok @arlinaallen and Instagram, which is also @arlinaallen . Every single episode we do on the podcast mentions at least 2 or 3 books. I’m obsessed with books for a few reasons, not the least of which is the transformational ideas conveyed by experts who have typically spent thousands of hours researching, contemplating, distilling all the information, and writing about it in ways that can literally change your life in deeply profound ways. It’s incredible to think you can gain all their information for the price of a book, which is typically less than $20. One of the things I always find myself putting on my gratitude list is all my teachers. 

Connect with Ted!

Visit Website: https://www.addictedinfilm.com/

Watch on YouTube: 

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https://www.youtube.com/@SmartRecoveryUSA

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Self Care Practice:

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Today my guest is Peg O’Connor, author of “Higher and Friendly Powers-Transforming Addiction and Suffering”. She has been sober for 34 years, holds Ph.D in philosophy, she is a professor at Gustavus Adolphus College, and a contributor to Psychology Today. 

We dig into the premise of her book around where the term Higher Power comes from and what it really means. Her intention is the same as mine, which is to alleviate unnecessary suffering by helping people overcome ideas that may be holding them back from solutions such as the 12 Step program.

That’s actually a good segway to announce that I’m hosting a free 12 Step Workshop for Women starting January 3rd and all you have to do is join the One day at a time private women’s group on Facebook!

There will be a lot of challenges for Dry January - some that are quite expensive, but if you have financial constraints that put these out of reach, I got you covered. Everything is free, even the literature! I am a huge 12 step advocate because it has helped me to stay sober for over 28 years. If you’re worried about the God thing, I have a way around that. If you are worried about being an “alcoholic”, don’t worry about that either! Whatever has prevented you from going through the process, I will share context and perspectives that will help you get past the barriers so that you can access a truly magical transformation.

So if you have been thinking about it, take this as a sign! Fortune favors the bold so let’s goooo…. Be sure to invite your friends too. The more the merrier.

Without further ado, please enjoy this episode with Peg!

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Lightning Round Answers: 

Book recommendation: Mary Carr, “Lit”

Favorite Quote: Use “Misery Threshold” instead of Rock Bottom

Self Care Practice: Exercise, Walking Meditation, 12 Step Meetings

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Today my guest is Mike Gibson, a former NFL player currently working at Healthy Life Recovery in San Diego, CA. He shares his story of becoming physically addicted to opioids after a significant injury playing football. We talk about how being a professional athlete made it difficult to relate to others, his resentment toward God, and the spiritual experience that lead him to recovery. 

Before we jump in, I wanted to announce that I will be offering a free 12-step workshop for women through my private group. I haven’t taken anyone through the steps since I started coaching full-time, and honestly, I really miss it. It’s completely free; you don’t have to buy any books or attend any meetings if you don’t want to. 

It begins early January, and all you have to do is join the Facebook group! Just do a search for “One Day At A Time - Private Women's Group” and I will announce all the details next week!!

So without further delay, please enjoy this episode, with Mike!

Connect with Mike!

Visit Website: https://healthyliferecovery.com/

Watch on YouTube: ​​https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCNuRolkOZ7X8fCEFCDYd5tg

Lightning Round Answers: 

Book recommendation: The Four Agreements

Self Care Practice: 1-2 meetings per week, community support through church and sober softball league.

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Today my guest is Dr. Lida Fatema. Her mission is to provide psilocybin-assisted coaching for female physician moms to move through past trauma, depression, anxiety, and burnout.

I’m personally fascinated by the research on the use of psychedelics to treat alcoholism and other underlying causes of addiction, such as trauma, depression, and anxiety. It’s not a panacea for everything, and those of us with addiction issues need to proceed with caution; however, the clinical trials at Johns Hopkins and NYU look promising. 

I invited Dr. Lida to the podcast to share the pros and cons, protocols, and her personal experiences both as someone who struggled with mental health and as a facilitator. My intention is not to encourage use or to dissuade you but to provide you with information so you can come to your own conclusions.

As a disclaimer, I am not a doctor, and I don’t play one on the internet. None of this content should be construed as medical advice or be construed as a recommendation to use any of the substances mentioned in this episode. There are physical, psychological, and sometimes legal risks with such usage. Please consult your doctor before considering anything we discuss in this conversation. 

As always, if you find this information useful, please share with your friends and leave a review on Apple Podcast. Without further delay, please enjoy this episode with Dr. Lida Fatima.

Connect with Dr. Lida Fatema!

Visit Website: https://www.consciousphysician.org/

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Today my guest is Jake Yoder, and we are discussing the fairly controversial topic of marijuana and recovery. Jake shares his experience with it, why he decided to stop and how he did it. We also talk about a spiritual experience he had, harm reduction, and how to have a natural high.

This topic is a particularly complex one. In 12-step programs, there is a heavy focus on counting “sober time” and a lot of talk about complete abstinence over everything. What sober means and what “everything” includes is debatable. However, I do want to point out that the book “Alcoholics Anonymous” is specifically focused on alcohol. There is another program called Marijuana Anonymous that is focused on marijuana. At the end of the day, you need to decide what’s right for you.

For the record, I am clear that I do not know what’s right for anyone else. I do believe in harm reduction, which is what I practiced when I stopped drinking, but I also know that using marajuana can be a slippery slope for people with addiction and dependency issues. There are medicinal benefits however for a certain group of people, it becomes another substance that is used to manage emotions in an unhealthy way. For me personally it was another way to numb out and it was stunting my healing because I have learned that I have to feel it to heal it.

There was a lot to say about this topic and I feel like we left out a few very key components to this discussion, but that leaves room for you to make your voice heard! If you have any thoughts to share on this topic, please leave a comment on the Facebook page, shoot me a DM on IG @arlinaallen or @odaatpodcast and I’ll address them in a following episode. 

As always, I would like to thank you for supporting the podcast with reviews on Apple, donations made through odaatchat.com to cover production costs and by sharing the episodes with your friends. Unity is a foundation principle to community and together we help alleviate the suffering of others. So with that, please enjoy this episode, with Jake!

Connect with Jake!

Visit Website: https://www.naturalhighsrecovery.org/

Follow on Instagram @naturalhighsrecovery

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/groups/naturalhighscommunity/

Watch on YouTube: ​​https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCNuRolkOZ7X8fCEFCDYd5tg

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Self Care Practice:

What I wish I knew: 

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