The Noble Mother – Details, episodes & analysis

This episode is near and dear to my soul, as I share with you my remembering of some very hard and painful truths and experiences during my primitive school years.

What prompted this self inquiry around this solo episode was some books my husband and I recently purchased by John Taylor Gatto -links to his books below. John a former New York School teacher for 30 years, books activated a lot of emotional responses and deep painful remembering for me. Both his books made sense too much of the madness and frustration I have felt over the years around my schooling and experiences. Ultimately leading to the beautiful choose to unschool / homeschool/ be together as a family full time I guess you could say for our children!

Let me know what you think of this episode!

Blessings,

Victoria

**please note around 6min towards end of episode I add another section to podcast besure to keep listening to end***

John Taylor Gatto Books:

Dumbing Us Down

https://www.indigo.ca/en-ca/dumbing-us-down---25th-anniversary-edition-the-hidden-curriculum-of-compulsory-schooling/9780865718548.html?utm_campaign=alwayson&utm_medium=search&utm_source=google_pmax&utm_id=20240627_wk13&utm_content=en_pmax_smartshop_books_kids_en&utm_term=books&gad_source=1&gclid=CjwKCAjwoJa2BhBPEiwA0l0ImKvh3DOEr0KNXbMe9OB1QsKaVjDmcaylGNYklrlWFy0qtgB3M9a-VhoCv78QAvD_BwE

Weapons Of Mass Instruction

https://www.indigo.ca/en-ca/weapons-of-mass-instruction-a-schoolteachers-journey-through-the-dark-world-of-compulsory-schooling/9780865716698.html?utm_campaign=alwayson&utm_medium=search&utm_source=google_pmax&utm_id=20240627_wk13&utm_content=en_pmax_smartshop_books_kids_en&utm_term=books&gad_source=1&gclid=CjwKCAjwoJa2BhBPEiwA0l0ImGDnXlZRM8NMrgU6_Sz1FTPvI35bMdrny69SKbDZSYdJqHgIXfHwRBoCNnwQAvD_BwE

Work with me

https://thenoblemother.com/

Ellee Hellier is a Devoted mother & partner, medicine carrier, and daughter of the earth. She feels a pulsing passion to walk in the footsteps of the wise women who came before. Honouring Grandmother earth and the ancient ways. Her mission is to REmember, REwild, and REclaim the sacredness of what it means to be a wombyn in this lifetime. With hope to inspire others as we pave the way for our generations to come 🤍 

Ellee shares her MagiCAL and PowerFUL story medicine of the sovereign birth of her daughter Indie on The Big Island of Hawaii.

Show Notes:

Connect with Ellee

https://www.instagram.com/elleehellier/

Spinning Babies: https://www.spinningbabies.com/pregnancy-birth/techniques/

Indie Birth- A Story Of Radical Birth Love

https://www.amazon.ca/Indie-Birth-Story-Radical-Love/dp/057847669X

Bec's Powerful Birth Story-

https://podcasts.apple.com/ca/podcast/your-contractions-cant-be-stronger-then-you-because/id1648141172?i=1000649388389

This is a solo episode where I share some heartfelt learnings I have come across lately and some of my own inner work I explore in this episode.

Show Note References:

The Reconnected

https://thereconnected.com/

Resonate Podcast

https://programs.thereconnected.com/podcasts/resonate-by-the-reconnected/episodes/2147959088

Holistic Life Networkhttps://www.holisticlifenavigation.com/podcast

Peter Levine's Book

https://www.amazon.ca/Autobiography-Trauma-Healing-Journey/dp/B0CBZCJT3J

My Offerings:

https://thenoblemother.com/

First time mother Jess walks us through her spiritual and connected pregnancy with her first child Clifford birthing with Companion Nidhi.

Jess is a fierce first time mother who opens up and shares her heart, sharing her journey with the system that was regulated midwifes to making the change to birth in her power and sovereignty with Nidhi her companion and the support of her husband and mother along with some wisdom sprinkled in from wise Elder Bille Harrigan.

You don't want to miss this beautiful, powerful, mothers birth story!

Connect with Jess Beitz's

Email: jessicabeitz@protonmail.com

Show Notes:

Companion: Nidhi Seth

https://www.instagram.com/theherbaldai/

Billie Harrigan- Childbirth Education Birthing Safely In A Technocratic Model

https://billieharrigan.com/shop/workshop-registration-mother-billie-talks-birth

Podcast episode I reference of mother who chooses ultra sound at 44 weeks Dezaray Muise

https://podcasts.apple.com/ca/podcast/4-c-sections-to-powerful-home-birth-with-dezaray/id1648141172?i=1000648115877

This episode feels like a beautiful Mother's Day Gift to the listeners.

Leigh offers her heart, soul, wisdom and gifts in this episode. We talk about core beliefs, nervous systems, patterns of behaviors, motherhood and so much more.

I hope you enjoy this one!

Leigh Berry:

Leigh is a Registered Social Worker and Holistic Nutritionist + a Mom to two littles under 4 who are currently her biggest teachers. Leigh has worked in both community and health care settings with vulnerable sector populations (including mental health) for the last 15 years, and has been running her private practice since 2016. When Leigh is not working you will find her spending time with her family, out in nature, doing yoga or dance, playing in the kitchen, or cozying up with meditation, creative writing and a chai latte.Leigh works primarily with other women + Moms who feel a strong desire to shift their relationship to Self and the thought patterns and emotional experiences ruling them. Feeling at the whim of their emotions~ whether disconnected, alone, anxious, overwhelmed, sad or stressed; AND often experiences of self-doubt, self-criticism, and a strong desire to feel better, to feel good enough are present. Patterns of using food (perhaps unknowingly) to cope, may also exist.In her practice Leigh uniquely provides nutrition services alongside use of various best-practice therapeutic modalities for the purpose of psychotherapy. Leigh believes that it is important to understand what is at the root of our problems, and integrates a mind-body approach to support biological, mental, emotional and spiritual wellness. Guiding women home to themselves, she helps foster a greater sense of inner connection and alignment. Allowing one to live from a place of ease, confidence, and trust.

"The more we give our inner voice a platform to be our guide, the more we generate feelings of inner worth and trust that we are enough." ~ Leigh

Leigh Berry Co.

https://www.leighberryco.com/

https://www.instagram.com/leighberryco/

The Book I reference In episode;

Dumbing Us Down By John Taylor Gatto

Dumbing Us Down - 25th Anniversary Edition: The Hidden Curriculum of Compulsory Schooling https://a.co/d/3ct3zJu

This episode feels very dear for all mothers and truth tellers, as Prajna shares so much wisdom from her recent book released Edge Of Grace. In this episode Prajna does not sugar coat the elephant in the room; that is predators lurk in our systems. Prajna's healthy growing twin daughters were medically injured during a forced surgical birth by the system.

In this episode we connect around her life's journey thus far, caring for her twins and what the realties are after your children are medically injured by a system, we talk about her beautiful first birth of daughter Autumn at home with midwives prior to her pregnancy with the twins, We discuss the ways she lead the NICU in caring for her twins with kangaroo baby-wearing care, techniques and breastfeeding in the NICU. Prajna discusses the many layers of programming in women of all generations, her mother’s conscious death, dream weaving and so much more. YOU DON'T WANT TO MISS THIS EPISODE. The tiger strength of mother!

About Prajna O’Hara, AKA The Salty Crone, graduated from Boston University Theological Consortium with a focus in Jungian Psychology, Women’s studies and Liturgical Drama in the 80’s. Psychological and Spiritual development that resurrect the soul and rites of women are central to her lifelong yearnings and learnings. She is celebrated as an international retreat facilitator for the curative care container she creates to uncover all of who we are, heal injured parts, and embody a soul-filled life. Prajna is an indigenously trained Curandera qualified within two plant medicine traditions. Prior to her extensive learning with plant medicine, she was an award-winning grant writer that funded The Village School Initiative, an inclusive development movement school with 30% of the children injured from birth trauma. She is the proud mother of three young women including twins with disabilities who are the heroines in her recently revised memoir The Edge of Grace, Fierce Awakenings to Love. She’s been a featured guest on multiple platforms and festivals; indebted to many influential teachers including Eunice Zimmerman, Dr. Marion Woodman, Dr. Clarissa Pinkola Estes, and Adyashanti.             She lives in a beautiful home sanctuary on the coast of California with her daughters, black lab, and a few companions that help support the care of her twins. Prajna enjoys the jungle, cacao, dance, studying the language of the soul through dreams, and enacting The Salty Crone—her new Substack Publication (soon to be a book). Website: prajnaohara.com

The Link below is the home video Prajna has a week prior to twins being medically damaged at birth-Ultrasound technician claiming these are the most healthy vibrant babies as he described "travelling" first class! What follows for Prajna and her daughters is heart wrenching in so many accounts. Link to buy her book below.

Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/c/prajnaohara/featured

Purchase Prajna Book:Edge of Grace -Fierce Awakenings To Lovehttps://www.amazon.ca/Edge-Grace-Fierce-Awakening-Love/dp/0990876004

First time mama Jess shares her powerful story of leaving her career in Nursing, birthing her first son out of the system in Mexico , and her journey into Traditional Birth Companionship! This is such a refreshing and uplifting story of first time parents reclaiming their sovereignty and creating a powerful and abundant life.

Jess's Story:

My journey has been a long and adventurous one. I graduated the nursing program in 2020. I began noticing just how corrupt everything really was. I joined Canadian Frontline Nurses not long after I began working at the hospital. I found hope and my world opened to natural alternatives to health. We organized rallies, protests, created pamphlets of information to distribute to the public. I met so many beautiful souls. Meanwhile, I went from a "great nurse" to "bad nurse" the second my colleague's found out I wasn't vaccinated. I was threatened to have my nursing license taken away and face a suspension without pay if I didn't get vaccinated. I decided to go on sick leave. CFLN had zoom meetings every Monday nights and Billie Harrigan was the guest speaker. This woman gave me goosebumps. I wanted her to talk forever. She made me want to drop nursing and dive deep into the real world of pregnancy, birth and postpartum. She opened my eyes to the lies and birthing business hospitals have created. I began her courses while on sick leave. Not too long after, I hopped on the biggest roller-coaster of my life, I quit my nursing career, sold our house and everything we owned, found out I was pregnant, got married, moved to Mexico less than 6 months later and had our baby there. We had a homebirth with an amazing supportive birth team!

Now, I'm a happy stay-at-home mom and wife. I am starting up my courses again to become a traditional birth companion. I wrote an ebook on my entire experience "Nurse to TBC: leaving the medical industry". I really want to empower women to take control of their pregnancy and birth. I can only hope that more women in our generation and the ones following take charge of their pregnancies and opt for homebirths.

Show Notes:

Jess Di Giovanni

Email : ⁠jessicadigiovanni1@gmail.com⁠

Instagram handle: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/your.birth.companion.jess?utm_source=qr&igsh=b2FmMzI1bzFnd3c=⁠

Link Jess Ebook:

https://stan.store/BirthCompanionJess/p/my-story-afwrm

Rh Negative/ Coombs test:  https://indiebirth.org/answering-questions-rhesus-negative-anti-drhogam/

Book: Edge Of Grace I speak about

https://www.amazon.ca/Edge-Grace-Fierce-Awakening-Love/dp/0990876004

Melissa Allen is a Mother to 8 children earthside and 7 babies in God's garden, homesteader, homeschooler, a background as a seasoned registered nurse for 9 years, an aromatherapist, trauma informed traditional birth companion, and a birth and bereavement doula. She has navigated grief, birth trauma, and familial challenges. She has journeyed from hospital birthing to an intentional unassisted home birth to reclaim her birth rite. She is on a mission to help fearless moms who want to transform themselves through a liberating birth journey.

Melissa freebirthed her 8th child 9 months ago. Melissa is also a companion who serves women. 

Her story: Melissa was an RN for 9 years and left 12 years ago. But had 7 babies in the system. She had a total of 7 miscarriages but 6 were in a 20 months span. 

Melissa got pregnant with her last baby and had a wild pregnancy and freebirth with her family. He was a meconium baby, nuchal hand, and still don't know why but his cord came out already white! She was thinking his hand was pinching the cord during birth descent! Turns out meconium, nuchal hand and white cord can all be a form of natural, normal birth ! Can’t wait for you to hear Melissa’s wisdom! 

****Turn up the Volume in this episode, some parts in this episode with Melissa microphone was acting up and she also had a nursing babe playing with it during parts!!!  This is truly a noble mothers platform ♥️

Victoria Nicholas 

Website : https://thenoblemother.com/

Melissa Handles: 

https://www.instagram.com/littlewayofmotherhood?igsh=MXBjdDc2cm82aHFmbQ==

Melissa email : hello@littlewayofmotherhood.com

Billie’s Harrigan course: https://billieharrigan.com/

A Love Letter To Humanity With Billie Harrigan -Podcast Episode I reference

in episode

https://open.spotify.com/episode/6TmMNl47yzmTo3bU5saoZ2?si=iOf-W_F4SE2YcNJ11JkSkA

Maryn's episode Indie Birth Sables Loss:

https://indiebirth.org/the-birthdeath-of-sable-sage/

Lift and Tuck pelvis  spinning babies Melissa and I talked about her doula doing during her birth in episode. 

https://www.spinningbabies.com/pregnancy-birth/techniques/abdominal-lift-tuck/

First time mama, Bec, joins me to share her transformational journey from Maiden-to-Mother. Bec shares so much wisdom in this episode, the grief associated with moving from maiden to mother, Bec shares the realities of her back labour and her powerful home birth of her first daughter Addison. You don't want to miss this beautiful episode filled with so much story medicine.

Bec’s story encompasses ALL parts of herself-mind, body and soul and began years ago, long before she would welcome her daughter wombside. 

As a child, pregnancy, birth and motherhood were pieces she romanticized about often. They were brought to life when she would breastfeed her dolls and step into the roll of Mother in any game of house, barbies, etc. 

As a teenager and young adult, these pieces still showed up strong for her, just in a different light. 

Professionally, a career with children at the core unfolded after she graduated with her Advanced Diploma in Child and Youth Care.

Personally, it wasn’t time to role play anymore. It was time to dive in. To do the ‘heartwork’. To heal. To transmute traumas and addictions that no longer served… “it ran in my family, until it ran into me” is a quote that has always resonated with Bec and the path she leads. 

Last year at this time, ‘right timing’ prevailed and with the unwavering support and trust from her partner of 11 years, Sean, a profound journey of conscious conception, a wild pregnancy and out-of-system Homebirth, supported by Traditional Birth Companions, unfolded and they recently welcomed their beautiful daughter, Addison, earthside November 2023. 

This is a story of radical self-responsibility, spiritual growth and a whole lot of MAGIC.

Bec’s Info 

IG: @thehippiehousee 

Email: rebecca.seabrook@hotmail.com

Birth Companions 

Claire Gallager 

Website: https://birth-ourway.ca

Sandy Schad 

New Hope Birth (Facebook)

Lactation Consultant

Somer Marontate 

Website: https://durhamtonguetielaserclinic.ca/our-team/

Email: somer.marontate@gmail.com

Photographer

Allison Hadley 

IG: @allisonhadleyphotography 

Website: www.allisonhadleyphotography.ca

Sacred Birth Playlist 

https://open.spotify.com/playlist/1vRmw9rSLHtPZwCuHBqscL?si=it6bxGlwT3CdU0FnD297mA&pi=u-MBXzb1IPScqq

Walchers technique- https://www.spinningbabies.com/pregnancy-birth/techniques/other-techniques/walchers-open-the-brim/

Grandmother song: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=agsNj-6GhPk

Sacred Birthing,: Birthing a New Humanity, 3rd Edition, 2020. ⁠https://a.co/d/0GFO7yP⁠

Placenta - The Forgotten Chakra ⁠https://a.co/d/gX715zG⁠

A solo episode with me your host Victoria Nicholas. This is a love letter of sorts to my birth companions Billie & Jen who have held me for my sons births. This is also a bit of a diary entry into my first year postpartum with Finn, and musings around the ways my companions created safe and loving space for me in my pregnancies and births.

Work With Victoria-The Noble Mother

https://thenoblemother.com/

Billie HarrigaCompanion

https://billieharrigan.com/

Email : billie@billieharrigan.com

Jen Thrall-Companion

Morebabies2311@gmail.com

Jenthrall@protonmail.com

Lily Nichols Book: Real Food For Pregnancy

Dr. Brewers 

http://www.drbrewerpregnancydiet.com/

Dr sarah Buckley: Gentle Birth Gentle Mothering

Birthing from within by Pam England

Indie Birth Podcast Archive 

https://indiebirth.org/podcastarchive/

Finn’s birth podcast 

https://podcasts.apple.com/ca/podcast/the-noble-mother/id1648141172?i=1000605213854

Ryan’s podcast episode 

https://podcasts.apple.com/ca/podcast/the-noble-mother/id1648141172?i=1000632480317

Birthday Cake Recipe

https://www.joyoushealth.com/341-recipe-flourless-gluten-free-dark-chocolate-cake

photographer

Ashleigh Turco

https://www.instagram.com/ashleighturcophotography?igsh=MTRlaHczejFjZTY5Zw==