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In this episode of The Life Shift, we explore a pivotal life shift and the before and after moments that shaped Katie Grimes’ journey toward self-awareness, healing old patterns, and learning to trust herself again.

There are moments in life when you look around and realize you have been carrying the weight of everyone else’s expectations. Maybe you know that feeling. The quiet pressure to keep it all together. The fear that if you slow down even for a second, everything you have been outrunning will finally catch up.

Katie Grimes knows that place well. She grew up trying to earn belonging, trying to stay safe in a home shaped by addiction, fear, and silence. For years, she filled her life with noise and motion and relationships that echoed her earliest wounds. But somewhere inside the chaos, something steady began to rise. A small voice that said it was time to stop pretending and start healing. That voice became her line in the sand moment.

This conversation holds all of that tenderness. The grief she carried. The patterns she had to unlearn. The deep self-awareness she fought for. And the peace she has found in finally listening to herself. I hope that as you hear Katie’s story, you feel a soft reminder that you are not alone in the places that feel messy or unfinished.

1. The loneliness that follows a childhood shaped by addiction and fear
2. How early abandonment patterns echo in adult relationships
3. The breaking point that forced Katie to face her own truth
4. The long, slow climb into recovery and self-awareness
5. How faith, stillness, and support helped her rebuild
6. The quiet strength she carries now as she chooses a different life

Katie Grimes is a business coach, podcast host, and entrepreneur who helps busy business owners build routines they can actually keep. After growing a relationship coaching business to $550,000, she shifted her focus to business coaching, guiding people as they learn to set boundaries, build confidence, and create work that supports a life they love. Through her podcast, Anything for Love, and her digital courses, Katie has helped more than 100,000 people feel their feelings, speak up for what they need, and step away from the constant pressure to do more.

https://www.katiegrimes.com/

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This episode is part of The Things We Carry, a solo series shaped by the themes that keep showing up after more than two hundred conversations on The Life Shift.

Today I am talking about self trust and what it means to rebuild it after years of doubt, shame, or fear. Trusting yourself is not a single moment. It grows slowly through messy progress, small choices, and the courage to keep showing up even when you feel uncertain.

In this reflection, I talk about the back-and-forth nature of healing, the quiet bravery it takes to listen to your own voice, and the way small wins can slowly rewrite the stories you once believed about yourself. Self trust is not perfect confidence. It is the willingness to face your own feelings, try something new, set a boundary, or simply stay with yourself when things feel hard.

If you are in a season where trusting yourself feels out of reach, I hope this episode gives you some gentleness. You do not have to be fully healed to begin. You do not have to silence every doubt. You can start small. You can take one step. You can remember that the younger version of you deserved care, and the current version of you does too. You have always been enough.

This episode is part of The Things We Carry, a solo series shaped by the themes that stay with me after the conversations on The Life Shift.

Today I am talking about how hard we can be on ourselves and what it means to slowly learn gentleness. So many of us move through life with old shame, perfectionism, or fear tucked inside. We push ourselves to be better, to get everything right, or to carry more than we were ever meant to hold.

In this reflection, I talk about the critical voice we learn as kids, the pressure to be perfect, and the way self-compassion feels like a muscle we have to practice again and again. Healing is not a straight line. Some days you feel softer. Some days you slip back into old patterns. The important part is noticing the shift and remembering that you deserve the same care you give to everyone else.

If you have been carrying shame, harshness, or impossible expectations, I hope this episode helps you take one gentler breath. You do not have to earn kindness. You are allowed to give it to yourself, right here, exactly as you are.

Have you ever felt like your true self was hidden behind societal expectations? In this heartwarming episode of the Life Shift podcast, I sit down with Trystan Reese, a transgender man who shares his remarkable journey of self-discovery, love, and family.

Trystan takes us through his early years growing up in the conservative Mojave Desert, where he felt like a "certified weirdo" without many role models. Despite the challenges, his Canadian parents gave him the freedom to explore his identity, setting the stage for his future transformation.

• How Trystan's transition in performing arts school shaped his future
• The unexpected joy of finding true love and acceptance
• Overcoming insecurities and learning to value oneself in a relationship

• Adopting children and creating a unique family structure
• Trystan's groundbreaking experience of giving birth as a transgender man
• The importance of sharing stories to create "possibility models" for others

• Trystan's work in political organizing and deep canvassing
• Writing "How We Do Family" to support LGBTQ+ families and educate others
• Providing coaching and support for neurodivergent individuals and federal employees
• How can you embrace your authentic self, even in the face of societal expectations?
• What "possibility models" have inspired you in your own life?
• How can sharing your story help create a more inclusive and understanding world?

Join us for this inspiring conversation that challenges our perceptions of family, love, and personal growth. Trystan's journey reminds us that by being true to ourselves, we can create a life filled with joy, purpose, and meaningful connections.

Trystan Reese is an award-winning author and facilitator dedicated to diversity, equity, and inclusion. He has nearly two decades of experience in the trans community. His acclaimed book, How We Do Family, was released in 2021, and he co-authored the children's book The Light of You with his partner, Biff Chaplow.

A Lambda Literary Fellow, Trystan's storytelling gained attention through a viral performance on The Moth MainStage, featured in the 2024 anthology A Point Of Beauty. He founded Collaborate Consulting to provide training on LGBTQ+ inclusion and has contributed to various mental health and social justice anthologies. Trystan lives in Portland, Oregon, with Biff and their three children: Riley, Sully, and Leo.

Learn more at Trystan Reese's website and Collaborate Consulting.

https://www.trystanreese.com/

https://collaborate.consulting/

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In this bonus episode of The Life Shift Podcast, I sit down with Angela Hollowell for an honest and inspiring conversation about the challenges and growth that come with creative endeavors. Angela and I reflect on our experiences tackling a 30-day daily podcasting challenge, sharing lessons on vulnerability and authenticity, and redefining success in the creator economy. We also dive into the emotional impact of pushing creative boundaries and balancing personal storytelling with professional goals. This episode is a candid exploration of what it means to embrace the creative process fully, and I can’t wait for you to hear it.

Takeaways:

1. Creative Challenges Push Us to Grow: Taking on a daily podcasting challenge helped both Angela and me step outside our comfort zones, embrace imperfection, and experiment with new formats.
2. Authenticity and Vulnerability Build Deeper Connections: We explore how being open and intentional creates meaningful bonds with audiences and personal fulfillment as creators.
3. Success Is Personal and Not Defined by Numbers: Angela and I reflect on how true success comes from aligning creative work with individual goals, not industry metrics.

Creative Challenges Push Us to Grow

Angela and I took on a 30-day daily podcasting challenge, which was as daunting as it sounds. For Angela, it was a chance to experiment with new formats and bridge the gap between her podcast and newsletter. It was an opportunity to share more of myself and push through the discomfort of imperfection. The challenge reminded us that growth often happens when we step outside our comfort zones, even if the process sometimes feels overwhelming. By the end, we both gained a deeper understanding of our creative potential and how to navigate intense commitments.

Authenticity and Vulnerability Build Deeper Connections

Throughout our conversation, Angela and I emphasized the importance of showing up authentically and being vulnerable. Angela shared how podcasting has allowed her to connect with her audience in new and meaningful ways. Similarly, I reflected on how my podcast creates a space for guests to open up and share personal stories. We both agreed that intentionality and authenticity are key to building genuine connections with listeners and finding joy and purpose in our creative work.

Success Is Personal and Not Defined by Numbers

One of the most valuable lessons we unpacked was that success in podcasting—or any creative endeavor – is deeply personal. Angela and I discussed how the pressure to meet external metrics, like downloads or sponsorships, can overshadow the real purpose of creating. Instead, we’ve both focused on defining success in ways that align with our values. For Angela, that’s about balancing personal storytelling with professional goals. It’s about creating a space where human stories can inspire connection and understanding.

About Angela Hollowell

Angela Hollowell is a creator, podcaster, and advocate for authenticity in the creator economy. Her thoughtful approach to bridging storytelling platforms and experimenting with creative formats has resonated with audiences and creators alike. Angela’s work exemplifies the beauty of vulnerability, intentionality, and creative exploration.

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Visit the website: https://www.honeyandhustle.co

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Twitter: https://twitter.com/honeyandhustle

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This episode features a heartfelt exploration of pivotal life moments as I ask my guests what they would say to their past selves right before their life shifts. Dena Rueb Romero reflects on the journey of writing her book, emphasizing the importance of kindness to oneself during difficult times. Jenn Drummond shares a powerful message about pausing and trusting that things will turn out better than expected, while Ann Anderson Evans highlights the significance of simply being present for others in their struggles. Chad Foster offers a perspective on embracing one's true self, and Nina Rodriguez underscores the value of companionship and support during challenging experiences. Join me as we dive into these inspiring responses that remind us we're not alone in our journeys.

Takeaways:

1. The pivotal moments in our lives often reveal our true resilience and strength.
2. Being kind to ourselves during difficult times is essential for personal growth and healing.
3. It's important to confront painful truths, as they lead to deeper self-understanding.
4. Sometimes, the best support we can offer is simply being present for others.
5. Embracing who we are instead of what we think we should be leads to confidence.
6. Life's challenges can ultimately guide us towards meaningful contributions that align with our values.

Guest Appearances in order:

1. Dena Rueb Romero - www.thelifeshiftpodcast.com/s3e141
2. Jenn Drummond - www.thelifeshiftpodcast.com/s3e144
3. Ann Anderson Evans - www.thelifeshiftpodcast.com/s3e145
4. Chad Foster - www.thelifeshiftpodcast.com/s3e143
5. Nina Rodriguez - www.thelifeshiftpodcast.com/s3e142

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Have you ever felt stuck in a financial rut, wondering if there's a way out? In this inspiring episode of the Life Shift podcast, I sit down with Audrey Faust, a business financial coach who transformed her life from struggling at the poverty line to becoming a millionaire.

Audrey shares her journey of financial transformation, beginning with a pivotal moment when she realized she was eligible for an earned income credit. This eye-opening experience forced her to confront the reality of her financial situation and sparked a determination to create a better future for herself and her family.

• How Audrey's mother's advice shaped her perspective on financial independence
• The impact of childhood beliefs on adult financial decisions
• Strategies for breaking free from limiting money mindsets

• The role of continuous learning in financial growth
• How Audrey leveraged her accounting skills to create multiple income streams
• The importance of adapting your career path to align with your values and goals

• Audrey's transition from bookkeeping to coaching women entrepreneurs
• The power of sharing your financial journey to inspire others
• Key insights from Audrey's book, "She Grows Rich: How to Become a Financial Powerhouse"

Audrey's story is a testament to the power of resilience and self-belief in achieving financial success. Her experiences offer valuable insights for anyone looking to improve their financial situation, regardless of their starting point.

As you listen to this episode, consider:

• What limiting beliefs might be holding you back from financial success?
• How can you leverage your unique skills and experiences to create multiple income streams?
• What small steps can you take today to start building your own path to financial independence?

Join us for this motivating conversation that reminds us it's never too late to take control of your financial future and create the life you desire.

• Audrey Faust is an Expert CFO, Business Financial Coach, and Money Mindset Authority who helps entrepreneurs create financial strategies to scale their businesses for increased profit and growth. Through her unique blend of financial expertise and mindset coaching, Audrey empowers her clients to master their financial data with clarity and confidence. She is the author of She Grows Rich, which provides actionable steps for women to become financial powerhouses. audreyfaustconsulting.com

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Have you ever felt like you don't quite fit into the boxes society tries to put you in? Martha S. Jones, a historian and writer, shares her powerful journey of self-discovery and identity in this thought-provoking episode of the Life Shift podcast.

Born to parents who defied societal norms in the 1950s, Martha grew up navigating the complexities of race and identity in a world that often struggled to understand her. She recounts a pivotal moment in college when a classmate challenged her right to speak about Black history, forcing her to confront questions about who she was and where she belonged.

• How her parents' interracial marriage shaped her upbringing
• The challenges of growing up in a world divided by race
• The importance of understanding one's family story

• Dealing with others' perceptions and assumptions
• Finding the courage to define oneself beyond labels
• The power of resilience in the face of adversity

• How writing her memoir helped her process her experiences
• Finding humor and absurdity in the complexities of race
• Embracing the fullness of her identity and family history

Martha's story is a testament to the power of perseverance and self-reflection. Her experiences offer valuable insights for anyone grappling with questions of identity, belonging, and the impact of family history on our lives.

As you listen to this episode, consider:

• How has your own family history shaped your sense of self?
• In what ways have you felt challenged to fit into societal expectations?
• What stories from your past might help others feel less alone in their experiences?

Join us for this inspiring conversation that reminds us of the beauty and complexity of the human experience, and the importance of sharing our stories with the world.

Martha S. Jones is the Society of Black Alumni Presidential Professor and professor of history at Johns Hopkins University. The prizewinning author and editor of four books, most recently Vanguard, she is a past co-president of the Berkshire Conference of Women Historians and has contributed to the New York Times, Atlantic, and many other publications.

• For more information, please visit her website at https://marthasjones.com/

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This is a preview of the March 4 episode of The Life Shift Podcast. Martha S. Jones shares her journey of navigating identity in this episode. Growing up in a biracial family during the civil rights era, she faced challenges that forced her to confront her sense of belonging.

One pivotal moment she recounts is a classroom experience where a classmate openly questioned her right to speak about influential figures such as Frantz Fanon. This incident sparked profound reflections on her identity and how she fit into a world divided by race.

Through storytelling, Martha transformed painful experiences into opportunities for growth, discovering healing and humor along the way. You won’t want to miss this powerful conversation coming out on Tuesday!

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Have you ever felt like you're running on autopilot, chasing success without truly feeling fulfilled? In this episode of the Life Shift podcast, I sit down with Cathy Christen, a remarkable woman who learned to create a life by design after experiencing profound loss.

Cathy shares her journey of transformation, beginning with the unexpected passing of her cousin at age 23. This tragic event forced her to confront the emptiness of her pursuit of financial success and sparked a deep introspection about what truly matters in life.

• How Cathy shifted from chasing money to pursuing joy and fulfillment
• The power of self-reflection and personal development in shaping your life's direction
• Creating a vision for your future and reverse-engineering the steps to get there

• The importance of nurturing different types of energy: spiritual, mental, emotional, and physical
• Strategies for incorporating self-care and passion projects into a busy lifestyle
• How slowing down can actually lead to greater success and happiness

• Tips for identifying what truly brings you joy and fulfillment
• The impact of intentional choices on relationships, career, and personal growth
• Encouraging the next generation to live purposefully and avoid the pitfalls of societal expectations

Cathy's story is a powerful reminder that it's never too late to reassess your priorities and create a life that truly excites you. Her insights offer valuable guidance for anyone feeling stuck or unfulfilled, showing how small, intentional changes can lead to profound shifts in happiness and purpose.

As you listen to this episode, consider:

• What would your ideal life look like if you were watching it as a movie?
• Are there areas of your life where you're operating on autopilot?
• How can you incorporate more intentional choices into your daily routine?

Cathy Christen is a serial entrepreneur, author, and executive coach with over twenty years of experience helping leaders and business owners thrive without sacrificing what matters most. As the co-founder of GoBundance Women® and CEO of Elevated You, Inc., Cathy empowers individuals to reclaim their time, design vision-aligned lives, and achieve sustainable success. Her book Life is a Masterpiece serves as a blueprint for intentional living and creating a life of purpose and passion.

• Website: CathyChristen.com
• LinkedIn: Cathy Christen

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