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In this special bonus episode of The Down & Dirty Podcast, The Professor and Chuck D take a break from the usual format to share wild behind-the-scenes stories, personal party memories, and real advice for navigating the biggest lifestyle events of the season.

From mansion lingerie parties to party buses, epic dance-offs, and stairwell surprises (you know who you are), this one’s packed with laughs, lessons, and real talk about what it takes to truly enjoy events in the lifestyle.

👀 What’s Inside This Episode:

• Craziest things we’ve seen at lifestyle events
• Old school vs. new school swinger party vibes
• How to actually get invited to private events
• Hotel takeovers, mansion parties, and poolside hookups
• Stairwell fails, wax jobs, and Chuck D’s emergency escape plans
• Why being active on CouplesNextDoor matters more than ever

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🎙️ Credits & More:

• Hosts: The Professor & Chuck D
• Produced & Edited by: Down and Dirty Productions
• Music by: Victoria
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🎧 TEASER: Pool Paddle Pickup

Me and Chuck used to go on these wild trips back in the day… We’d wrangle about 10 couples and take over resorts. One time in the Dominican, the two of us ended up in the pool—just two grown ass men, one swimming laps, the other doggy paddling—and somehow, it turned into a scene you wouldn’t believe. 👀

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Join us as we recorded onsite at the White Party Hotel Takeover. We'll hear from your room crawl ambassadors, a couple that's only looking for solo/hall pass males, and a couple that's brand new to the lifestyle!

Hosts and Producers:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ RubyandFox⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ &⁠⁠⁠ Cali10⁠⁠⁠

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Join us as we have conversations with multiple members of the sex positive community while at the legendary White Chocolate end of season pool party! You'll hear insights and advice from lifestyle veterans, business owners, and a previous single male and single female now turned couple.

Hosts and Producers:⁠⁠⁠⁠ RubyandFox⁠⁠⁠⁠ &⁠⁠ Cali10⁠⁠

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In this episode, the hosts interview Kole Snodgrass, the owner of Krazy Kasbh, a lifestyle network in Nebraska. They discuss the various events and websites that Krazy Kasbh offers, including their nationally award-winning events like Crazy Winter Nights and Crazy Summer Nights. Kole emphasizes the importance of creating a safe and respectful environment at their events, with measures like safe tables and on-site security. They also touch on Kole's involvement in the adult industry, including shooting porn and playing the role of Santa in adult films. The conversation also explores the differences between nudist camps and swinger events. Kole Snodgrass discusses the philosophy of inclusion at his events and the impact they have on people's lives. He shares stories of individuals who have felt safe and comfortable exploring their sexuality and pushing their boundaries at his events. Kole also talks about the Crazy Winter Nights event and the wide range of educational seminars and activities it offers. He mentions the Full Swap Radio podcast network and its goal of providing a comprehensive resource for lifestyle information. Kole emphasizes the importance of respecting boundaries and creating a safe and welcoming environment for all attendees.

Burlesque is an art form known as the art of the tease, where performers strip tease on stage. It is a sex-positive, performative art form that allows individuals to express themselves and explore their sexuality. It is a diverse and inclusive community that welcomes people of all backgrounds. It has a rich history, with origins in vaudeville and burlesque houses in the 1830s. Burlesque is especially popular in the United States, with a thriving scene in Minnesota. The burlesque community is inclusive and open to all bodies, genders, and expressions.

To become a part of the burlesque community, it is recommended to see a show and consider taking classes at a local burlesque school. Costumes and choreography are individualized, and performers often have standard acts that they perform at different venues. Burlesque shows often feature individual and group acts, with performers gradually removing their clothing to reveal a G-string and pasties. The art form has evolved over time, with different styles and props being used, such as feather fans, boas, and silks. Costumes and rhinestones are a significant investment for performers. While some shows may be unpaid, many producers pay performers based on the venue and the quality of the show.

Burlesque provides a space for self-expression and vulnerability, and it is a gateway to the sex-positive community for those looking for alternative ways to explore their sexuality.

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Guest (s):⁠ Petty Treason⁠

Hosts:⁠⁠⁠ RubyandFox⁠⁠⁠ &⁠ Cali10⁠

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Producer:⁠⁠⁠ MrOpen⁠⁠⁠

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In this episode, the hosts discuss their experiences and insights into threesomes. They talk about the importance of communication, setting boundaries, and building trust. They also discuss the use of toys and the importance of knowing each partner's preferences. The hosts emphasize the importance of chemistry and being in the moment during a threesome. They also touch on the role of alcohol and the need for consent and check-ins throughout the experience.

In this conversation, Ruby and Cali discuss various sex toys and experiences they have had as a throuple. They talk about different types of dildos, strap-ons, and other toys they use for double penetration and other experiences. They also mention the importance of communication in their throuple dynamic and how therapy has been helpful for them. Overall, they express their happiness and fulfillment in being part of a throuple and the freedom it offers.

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Hosts:⁠⁠ RubyandFox⁠⁠ & Cali10

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In part 2 of this conversation, the hosts discuss various aspects of being in a polyamorous relationship. They touch on topics such as event rules, vetting single males, the challenges of being in a quad, and the importance of clear boundaries and communication. They also emphasize the need for a strong foundation of trust and security in a polyamorous relationship. The conversation provides insights into the positive dynamics AND complexities of polyamory. They share personal stories about dealing with boundary violations and the challenges they have faced. They also emphasize the need for equal attention and validation for men in the lifestyle. The hosts provide tips on how to handle adversity and discuss the significance of dressing well and making an effort to attract others. They conclude by expressing their desire for equality and inclusivity in the lifestyle.

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Hosts:⁠ RubyandFox⁠

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The conversation revolves around the topic of polyamory and the experiences of the hosts in a throuple relationship. They discuss the challenges and dynamics of being in a throuple, including the importance of trust, communication, and maintaining emotional connections. They also touch on the differences between swinging and polyamory, and the various types of non-monogamous relationships within the umbrella term of polyamory. The conversation explores different relationship dynamics within the context of polyamory and throuples. The speakers discuss various labels and terms used in the polyamorous community, such as open relationships, closed relationships, hierarchical polyamory, and poly fidelity. They also touch on the challenges and dynamics of threesomes and orgies. The speakers share their personal experiences and offer advice for navigating polyamorous relationships. They mention some recommended resources, including books and blogs, for those interested in learning more about polyamory. The conversation concludes with a discussion on the importance of communication, trust, and being part of a supportive community.

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Recorded in Sioux Falls, South Dakota with real couples attending the Eye Candy event on May 4, 2024. Couples from Minnesota, South Dakota, North Dakota, Iowa, and Nebraska!

This conversation explores the experiences and perspectives of multiple couples in the swinging lifestyle. Couples discuss how they got into swinging, their fantasies, and their journey of sexual exploration. They also touch on topics such as body confidence, the stigma around swinging, and the importance of open communication in a relationship. The conversation is light-hearted and humorous, with the couple sharing anecdotes and answering fun questions from Esther Perel's"Where Should We Begin"game. In this conversation, the hosts ask couples if they have any questions for them. Masturbation habits and preferences, sexual superpowers, and future plans to attend swinging parties were discussed. They also talk about their Enneagram types and guilty pleasures. The hosts share their wildest sexual experiences and discuss their favorite types of cheese.

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Hosted by: Ruby & Fox

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Production/Editing by: The TA akaMrOpen