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Today, Jo talks about her struggles with dealing with Chad's negative emotions, and how her trying to "fix" it, trying to "manage" it, actually made things way worse.
You can be loving and supportive AND let your partner deal with their own negative, uncomfortable emotions. In fact, they aren't going to be able to move past them if they aren't allowed the freedom of dealing with their own emotions.

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Jo is joined today by her best friend Steph. They went to Westport, Washington to check out the Westport Hotel Takeover hosted by Club Sapphire out of Seattle. We wanted to share our thoughts and experiences while we were there. Enjoy!

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This is a short mini episode about self-love, and the things that get lost, the things that hide and keep you from the happiness and healing you are seeking.

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Rejection is a part of life, and a part of the lifestyle. There will undoubtably be times when you aren't interested in someone, and you need to tell them that. It's hard for a lot of people to tell other people they aren't interested in them. Jo talks about why it's hard, but also why it's so important. She also gives you some tips to make it a little easier.

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Music: X Ray Vision by Slynk

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In today's episode, Jo talks about the fear of being rejected. She talks about the fact that acceptance is needed for connection, and connection is a basic human need. And that means the fear of not being accepted leads to the fear of being rejected. This is true in everyday life, and it's true in the Lifestyle. Swingers want to connect with other swingers, but often that fear of being rejected stops them from doing things they really want to do. Jo gives you 10 tips to manage that fear, so you don't let it stop you from making all your sexy Lifestyle dreams come true.

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Music: X Ray Vision by Slynk
"The Top Five Regrets Of The Dying" book by Bronnie Ware

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In this episode, Jo explores what happens when your body shuts down when it turns to sexy naked time. She explores some reasons why this could be happening. And she offers some tips to help.
Music: X Ray Vision by Slynk

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Jo continues talking about communication in the Lifestyle. In this episode, she talks about how to communicate after trust has been broken, or boundaries have been crossed. According to the book Atlas of the Heart by Brene Brown, trust has 7 elements, boundaries, reliability, accountability, vault, integrity, non-judgment, and generosity. Jo explores each of these elements as it relates to the Lifestyle. And she offers tips to repair and grow stronger in your relationship after trust has been broken.
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Music: X Ray Vision by Slynk

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New music (episodes 80+): The Heat by Vladimir Ershov

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Send Jo some panties! Size large or xl; send them to PO Box 294 Strafford, MO 65757

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Connect with Jo. Email her at jo@theconfidentswinger.com, or connect with her on Facebook Jo Leavitt | Facebook

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Jo continues talking about communication in the Lifestyle. This week, she talks about communicating with your partner when you aren't on the same page. Sometimes, people have different wants, needs, and desires. When that happens, it's important to come together and find a compromise that is acceptable and agreeable for both people. She talks about the 4 levels of communication, and gives some tips for effective communication.

Unf*ck Your Intimacy by Faith G. Harper, PhD
Music: X Ray Vision by Slynk
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New music (episodes 80+): The Heat by Vladimir Ershov

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Send Jo some panties! Size large or xl; send them to PO Box 294 Strafford, MO 65757

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Jo continues the communication series by talking about communicating your wants, needs, and desires with your partner. Exploring your wants, needs, and desires with your partner is an important part of your relationship, especially in the Lifestyle. Jo talks about why it's so important, the different communication styles, and she offers tips for navigating this conversation in a safe, healthy way.
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Music: X Ray Vision by Slynk

Support the show

Old music (<80): X Ray Vision by Slynk
New music (episodes 80+): The Heat by Vladimir Ershov

Join the waitlist for the upcoming Get Out of Your Head (& into their bed) program:
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Send Jo some panties! Size large or xl; send them to PO Box 294 Strafford, MO 65757

Book a free discovery call and let's talk about working together
The Confident Swinger

Connect with Jo. Email her at jo@theconfidentswinger.com, or connect with her on Facebook Jo Leavitt | Facebook

Check out her website to learn more about Jo and her coaching services:
Home | The Confident Swinger

And become a subscriber to support the show and get awesome perks!
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Jo talks about communication. This is the first episode in a series on communication. She talks about the whole communication process, and why it's important. She also talks about why communication is so difficult, and what effective communication looks like. Then she gives some tips on effective communication.
Connect with Jo on FB Jo Leavitt | Facebook
Or email her at jo@theconfidentswinger.com.
Check out the website, www.theconfidentswinger.com
Music: X Ray Vision by Slynk

Support the show

Old music (<80): X Ray Vision by Slynk
New music (episodes 80+): The Heat by Vladimir Ershov

Join the waitlist for the upcoming Get Out of Your Head (& into their bed) program:
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Send Jo some panties! Size large or xl; send them to PO Box 294 Strafford, MO 65757

Book a free discovery call and let's talk about working together
The Confident Swinger

Connect with Jo. Email her at jo@theconfidentswinger.com, or connect with her on Facebook Jo Leavitt | Facebook

Check out her website to learn more about Jo and her coaching services:
Home | The Confident Swinger

And become a subscriber to support the show and get awesome perks!
The Confident Swinger | Build Your Confidence & Embrace Your Badassery | Patreon