Explore every episode of the podcast The Betrayal Recovery Transformation Podcast
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| One-sided Healing with Lyschel Burket | 03 Feb 2026 | 01:05:14 | |
Healing after betrayal is hard enough—but what happens when you’re doing the work alone? In this honest and hope-filled conversation, we sit down with Lyschel Burket, founder of Hope Redefined Ministries, to explore the realities of one-sided healing. Lyschel brings deep compassion, biblical truth, and hard-earned wisdom to a topic many women quietly carry. Together, we unpack why one-sided healing is so common in betrayal recovery, how to stay grounded when your partner isn’t doing their work, and how women can release responsibility that was never theirs to carry—without losing hope, faith, or themselves. Key Takeaways from the Episode: • One-sided healing occurs when a betrayed partner is pursuing growth, boundaries, and restoration while the other person remains disengaged, resistant, or unsafe. • Many women find themselves healing alone because they cannot control another person’s willingness to change—only their own responses and choices. • Carrying someone else’s responsibility creates exhaustion, resentment, and confusion; healthy healing requires clear emotional and spiritual boundaries. • Staying anchored in one-sided healing often involves grounding practices such as prayer, Scripture, community support, and trauma-informed tools. • Women frequently battle lies about their worth, responsibility, or “failure” when healing alone—truth replaces those lies with clarity, dignity, and freedom. • Unexpected growth can emerge through one-sided healing, including deeper identity, resilience, discernment, and spiritual maturity. • Even in the middle of unresolved circumstances, hope is not lost—God’s work in you is never wasted. Connect with Lyschel Burket:
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| Book Release: Broken to Brave with Tammy Gustafson | 29 Jan 2026 | 00:54:22 | |
Healing after betrayal is not about rushing forward or "getting over it”—it’s about courageously reclaiming yourself, one brave step at a time. In this episode, we welcome back licensed professional counselor, coach, and author Tammy Gustafson for a powerful conversation about what it truly means to move from brokenness to bravery after intimate betrayal. Tammy shares insights from her brand-new book, Broken to Brave: Your Courageous Act of Healing After Intimate Betrayal. Drawing on years of clinical experience, extensive survey research, and the many voices of betrayed women she's worked with over the past 15 years, Tammy explores the stages of betrayal healing, common places where women get stuck, and why courage, curiosity, and even fun are essential to long-term recovery. This episode offers deep hope for anyone wondering if trust, joy, or dreaming again is still possible. Key Takeaways from the Episode: • Betrayal healing unfolds in stages, and understanding where you are can reduce shame and self-blame while increasing compassion for yourself • Tammy shares what inspired Broken to Brave and why this book was written specifically to meet women where they actually are in healing • Research from Tammy’s survey revealed powerful patterns in betrayal recovery, including surprising insights into what women most need to move forward • What sets Broken to Brave apart is its integration of clinical wisdom, real-life stories, and practical tools for every stage of healing • Many women get stuck in healing through over-functioning, hyper-vigilance, or fear of joy, and Tammy explains how “fun” can be a legitimate and healing practice • Even after deep betrayal, it is possible to trust yourself again, reclaim hope, and begin dreaming about a future that feels meaningful and free Connect with Tammy Gustafson Learn more about Tammy’s work, counseling services, and upcoming book through her ministries:
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| How Our Voice Can Help Us Heal with Amy Elysse | 24 Apr 2025 | 00:53:45 | |
This week on The Betrayal Recovery Transformation Podcast, we’re joined by Amy Elysse—vocal coach, faith-filled encourager, and a radiant light in her community. Amy opens up about her own betrayal story and shares how the human voice, primarily through singing, can become a powerful tool for healing. Whether you’re musically inclined or simply longing to express yourself more fully, Amy brings warmth, insight, and practical wisdom to the conversation. And she's created a free recording to guide you through a healing exercise. As a mom and coach, Amy helps women reclaim their voices and step into confidence through song and self-expression. She reminds us that healing doesn’t have to be heavy; it can be joyful, playful, and freeing. Key Takeaways from the Episode:
Connect with Amy: Follow Amy on Instagram at @tunedintograce Connect with Us: Visit our website: Watermark Coach Follow us on Instagram: @WatermarkCoaching Thank you for listening! Don’t forget to subscribe, rate, and review our podcast to stay updated on future episodes and help others find the hope and support they deserve. Produced and edited by Kris Rocha & Cory Gonzalez. Sponsored by Pure Life Alliance | |||
| Breaking Free: Accountability and The Healing Church with Sam Black | 02 Apr 2025 | 01:08:48 | |
Pornography addiction is one of the most misunderstood struggles in the church today, often shrouded in shame and secrecy. Sam Black, Director of Recovery Education at Covenant Eyes and author of The Healing Church: What Churches Get Wrong About Pornography and How to Fix It, joins us to share how real freedom comes through accountability, grace, and informed support. Drawing from his journalism background and over 70 interviews with pastors, counselors, and people in recovery, Sam offers practical wisdom for churches, couples, and individuals navigating the path to healing. Key Takeaways:
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| Helping Men Build Empathy After Betrayal with Dr. Anthony Walker | 19 Feb 2025 | 00:47:57 | |
Dr. Anthony Walker joins us to share how he helps men navigate the healing process after betrayal. He provides insights from Help Her Heal, a workbook by Carol Jergensen Sheets, and discusses how men can develop emotional attunement, overcome resistance, and strengthen their relationships. Key Talking Points:
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| Reality Collapse & Betrayal Violence with Hope Ray | 06 Feb 2025 | 01:08:38 | |
In this episode, we welcome Hope Ray, a Licensed Professional Counselor who coined Betrayal Violence. Hope is a leader in the field of betrayal trauma, offering deep insights into the effects of secrecy, deception, and relational power imbalances. She is also the creator of Complex Partner Trauma magazine, available on Amazon, which provides resources and support for betrayed partners. Throughout our conversation, we dive into Reality Collapse, the disorientation that betrayed partners experience, and explore how betrayal violence impacts healing and recovery. Hope shares her expertise on recognizing and navigating these complex emotional experiences, helping listeners regain clarity and reclaim their sense of reality. Key Takeaways from the Episode: 🔹 Understanding Reality Collapse – Hope explains what Reality Collapse is, why it occurs, and how often a betrayed partner might experience it. 🔹 Identifying Reality Collapse – We discuss the key signs that indicate someone is experiencing a Reality Collapse and how it can distort their perception of past and present experiences. 🔹 Betrayal Violence and Its Effects – Hope unpacks how betrayal violence exacerbates trauma and why it’s essential to recognize its impact. 🔹 Endangerment in Betrayal Trauma – What does endangerment mean in the context of betrayal trauma? Hope explains how betrayed partners can assess and safeguard their emotional and physical well-being. 🔹 Processing Betrayal and Reality Collapse – Hope shares how Reality Collapse affects a betrayed partner's ability to process their experiences and the symptoms that indicate they may be struggling. 🔹 Steps Toward Healing and Reclaiming Reality – Practical strategies for those who have experienced Reality Collapse, including steps to rebuild trust in themselves and their perceptions. Connect with Us: 👉 Website: hoperay.com 👉 Follow us on Instagram: @WatermarkCoaching 🌟 Thank you for listening! Don’t forget to subscribe, rate, and review The Betrayal Recovery Transformation Podcast. Your feedback helps us grow and ensures more people can find the hope and support they deserve. This podcast is sponsored by and produced with the support of Pure Life Alliance. | |||
| The Intimacy Pyramid with Joanna & Matthew Raabsmith | 14 Jan 2025 | 01:01:23 | |
We had the privilege of sitting down with Matthew and Joanna Raabsmith to discuss the transformative power of the Intimacy Pyramid. With their personal story of betrayal, addiction, and healing as the backdrop, the Raabsmiths shared actionable insights and hope for couples looking to rebuild trust, connection, and relational intimacy. The Raabsmiths are passionate leaders in the field of marriage and relationship restoration. Combining their expertise with their lived experience, they empower couples to overcome the challenges of betrayal and relational trauma. As creators of the Intimacy Pyramid, they provide a structured and compassionate approach to help couples rediscover trust, deepen connection, and cultivate true intimacy. Learn more about their groundbreaking work at https://intimacypyramid.com/. Key Takeaways from the Episode:
Connect with Us: 👉 Visit Matthew and Joanna Raabsmith’s website 👉 Free Resource from the Raabsmiths! 👉 Follow us on Instagram: @WatermarkCoaching 🌟 Thank you for listening! Don’t forget to subscribe, rate, and review The Betrayal Recovery Transformation Podcast. Your feedback helps us grow and ensures more people can find the hope and support they deserve. This podcast is sponsored by and produced with the support of Pure Life Alliance. | |||
| Rest, Redemptive Gifts and Unlocking Dominion Authority with Dr. Laura Sanger | 20 Dec 2024 | 01:05:56 | |
We’re excited to welcome Dr. Laura Sanger back to The Betrayal Recovery Transformation Podcast! Dr. Sanger’s first episode remains the top fan favorite, and we are thrilled to have her return with another timely and profound message—this time focusing on rest, just in time for the holiday season. Dr. Sanger is a clinical psychologist, author, and the founder of No Longer Enslaved (www.nolongerenslaved.com), where she equips individuals to live free in their God-given identity, authority, and purpose. In this episode, we explore: 🌟 What is the importance of entering into Sabbath Rest? Dr. Sanger shares how Sabbath rest is more than physical; it’s a spiritual posture of trust and renewal. 🌟 What are the redemptive gifts of Romans 12? We dive into the unique ways God has wired us to bring His light into the world. 🌟 What does it mean to walk in dominion authority? Learn what it looks like to walk confidently in the birthright authority Christ has given us. This discussion is packed with insight, encouragement, and practical applications for embracing rest, stepping into your gifts, and walking in victory. Why this episode matters: As we approach Christmas, the message of entering into God’s rest couldn’t be more relevant. Whether navigating life’s busyness, recovering from betrayal, or simply seeking a deeper relationship with God, this episode will inspire and equip you. Connect with Us: 👉 Follow us on Instagram: @WatermarkCoaching 🌟 Thank you for listening! Don’t forget to subscribe, rate, and review The Betrayal Recovery Transformation Podcast. Your feedback helps us grow and ensures more people can find the hope and support they deserve. This podcast is proudly sponsored by and produced with the support of Pure Life Alliance. | |||
| Post Betrayal Growth with Stacey Smith | 12 Dec 2024 | 01:06:42 | |
On today's episode of The BRT Podcast, we welcome the amazing Stacey Smith. She’s the Chief Clinical Officer and a Clinical Therapist at Daring Ventures. With a personal recovery journey from betrayal and "stinkin' thinkin'," Stacey uses her lived experience and professional expertise to guide betrayed partners and those suffering from addiction toward healing. She is certified in EMDR therapy and specializes in helping people overcome attachment wounds and shame. Stacey is passionate about creating a healing partnership with her clients and believes in the transformative power of therapy. Key Highlights: Stacey shares the acronym "Empower" to teach us about Post Betrayal Growth. E - Embrace Change M - Movement P -Positive Mentality/Mindset O - Own Your Life W- Welcome Power E - Elect a Choice R - Resolve to Choose Connect with Us:
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| Resilience Through Betrayal Intensive with Elizabeth Abbruzza | 13 Nov 2024 | 01:02:07 | |
We are thrilled to welcome Elizabeth Abbruzza, the Co-Founder and Clinical Director of the Bellevue Trauma Recovery Center, to the podcast. With a deep focus on relational trauma and betrayal, Elizabeth shares her expertise and details about the impactful Resilience Through Betrayal (RTB) intensives offered at her center. About Elizabeth Abbruzza: Elizabeth holds a Master's degree in Clinical Mental Health Counseling from Gonzaga University and specializes in addressing relational trauma, sex addiction, and problematic sexual behaviors. As a primary therapist for the Resilience Through Betrayal intensives, she empowers individuals to navigate healing after betrayal, offering therapeutic expertise and compassionate care. Key Highlights:
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| Intimacy Atrophy with Karen Rellos | 29 Oct 2024 | 01:04:05 | |
Introduction: Kris and Jenn sit down with Karen Rellos, founder of Restored Hope Coaching and Redeeming Love Marriage Ministry. Karen, a certified betrayal trauma coach, joins the conversation to shed light on a topic that affects many relationships—Intimacy Deprivation, also known as Intimacy Atrophy (IA). With her extensive background in helping women navigate betrayal trauma, Karen offers valuable insights into the causes, impacts, and healing journey surrounding intimacy deprivation in relationships. Key Highlights:
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| When Sex Addiction Becomes Abuse with Diane Schnickels | 28 Aug 2024 | 01:17:30 | |
In this episode, we welcome Diane Schnickels, founder of Living Waters of Hope and a dedicated advocate for survivors of domestic abuse. Diane brings her extensive experience and compassionate approach to discuss when sex addiction crosses the line into abuse. She has developed crucial resources like the Oasis Bible Study and the Hope Giver Essentials training program, empowering women to heal and reclaim their lives. Today, Diane shares her insights on recognizing the signs of abuse related to sex addiction and provides valuable guidance on supporting those affected. Key Highlights:
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| Forgiveness: What It Is, What It Isn’t, and Why It Matters with Andrew Arthur | 26 Jan 2026 | 01:09:23 | |
Forgiveness is one of the most misunderstood and emotionally loaded concepts in betrayal recovery. In this episode, Kris sits down with Andrew Arthur, founder of Genesis Christian Mediation, to unpack what forgiveness really means—and what it does not mean—after deep relational betrayal. Together, they explore how forgiveness fits into the healing journey without minimizing pain, bypassing grief, or forcing reconciliation. This conversation brings clarity, biblical grounding, and emotional safety to a topic that is often weaponized or rushed, helping betrayed spouses understand how forgiveness can become a step toward freedom rather than another burden to carry. Key Takeaways from the Episode: • Forgiveness is not the same as reconciliation, restoration, or trust—it is a separate and deeply personal process. • Healthy forgiveness does not require minimizing harm, excusing behavior, or silencing pain. • Forgiveness is often a process, not a one-time decision, especially after trauma and betrayal. • Biblical forgiveness is rooted in truth, justice, and wisdom—not pressure, performance, or spiritual bypassing. • Setting boundaries and pursuing safety are not signs of unforgiveness; they are often necessary for healing. • Forgiveness can release the betrayed spouse from ongoing emotional bondage, even when outcomes remain uncertain. Connect with Andrew Arthur: Website: https://www.genesischristianmediation.com Connect with Us: Website: https://www.watermarkcoach.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/watermarkcoaching | |||
| A Message for Pastors & Clergy: Supporting Betrayed Spouses Well with Nick Stumbo | 28 Jul 2024 | 01:14:40 | |
On this episode of BRT, we have a special guest, Pastor Nick Stumbo. Nick is the Executive Director of Pure Desire Ministries and has an extensive background in pastoral ministry. He began his ministry career at East Hills Alliance Church in Kelso, Washington, where he served as lead pastor for over a decade. Confronted with his own pornography addiction, Nick and his wife, Michelle, found hope and healing through Pure Desire’s counseling and group ministries. His public disclosure led to a revival of forgiveness and healing within his church, and he continues to lead the way in helping churches become places of healing. Episode Description: In this episode, Kris, Jenn, and Nick share a powerful message for pastors and clergy on effectively supporting women going through betrayal trauma. Using the analogy of how a paramedic would treat a severe wound, they provide six key steps for clergy and support personnel to follow: Key Highlights:
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| Understanding Trauma with Debby Flanagan | 18 Jul 2024 | 00:58:53 | |
Welcome to the 20th episode of The Betrayal Recovery Transformation Podcast! This is a significant milestone for us, and we're thrilled to celebrate it with a special guest, Debby Flanagan. Debby is a clinician with Pure Desire Ministries, where she serves as a Pastoral Sex Addiction Professional. She holds a Bachelor's degree from Corban University and has an Advanced Certification through the International Institute for Trauma and Addiction Professionals (IITAP). Debby is dedicated to helping individuals who are struggling with sexual and emotional issues, guiding them through their healing journey with compassion and expertise. Episode Description: In this milestone episode, we dive deep into the topic of trauma with Debby Flanagan. Debby shares her profound knowledge of trauma, how it affects our brain and body, and its impacts on our relationships. She also discusses common signs and symptoms of trauma, how to recognize it within ourselves, practical strategies for recovery, and ways to support someone who is dealing with trauma. Key Highlights:
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| The Four Phases of Healing After Betrayal with Tammy Gustafson | 26 Jun 2024 | 01:08:03 | |
Join hosts Kris Rocha and Jenn Howie for another enlightening episode of The Betrayal Recovery Transformation Podcast. Today, we welcome back Tammy Gustafson, a renowned betrayal trauma coach, therapist, writer, and speaker. Tammy is here to delve deeper into her "Four Phases of Healing After Betrayal," sharing her expert insights and personal experiences. This episode is packed with valuable information, laughter, and heartfelt moments. About Tammy Gustafson: Tammy Gustafson is the founder of Betrayal Healing, a platform dedicated to helping women navigate the painful healing journey after betrayal. With over 15 years of experience as a licensed professional counselor specializing in trauma and PTSD, Tammy brings both professional expertise and personal understanding to her work. She is passionate about empowering women to reclaim their peace, confidence, and self-worth. Key Highlights:
Conclusion: Tune in to this insightful episode as Tammy Gustafson breaks down her Four Phases of Healing After Betrayal. Laugh with us, learn from Tammy's profound wisdom, and take away practical tools to aid in your own healing journey. Subscribe to The Betrayal Recovery Transformation Podcast for more empowering stories and expert guidance on recovery and transformation. Connect with Us:
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| The Impact of Snooping with Dr. Jill Manning | 06 Jun 2024 | 01:12:16 | |
In this mind-shifting, insightful episode of The Betrayal Recovery Transformation Podcast, Jenn and I had the pleasure of hosting Dr. Jill Manning. Dr. Manning is warm, caring, knowledgeable, and passionate about helping women heal. Today, she shares her expertise on a topic she's passionate about ... the impact of snooping, especially in the context of betrayal trauma. Get your notebooks ready, friends. This episode is packed with excellent information, tools, and tips. About Dr. Jill Manning: Dr. Manning is a respected expert in the field of betrayal trauma. Her compassionate approach and wealth of knowledge demonstrate her dedication to helping women navigate their healing journeys. Key Points Discussed:
You can contact Dr. Jill Manning here: Insta: @drjillmanning To receive Dr. Jill's FREE "The Impact of Snooping" handout, please email us at thebrtpodcast@gmail.com. Thank you for listening! Don't forget to subscribe, rate, and review our podcast to stay updated on future episodes and help others find the help and support they need. 🌟
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| Supporting a Friend Through Trauma with Adrienne Friesen | 23 May 2024 | 00:56:44 | |
Adrienne Friesen joins us on this episode about supporting a friend through trauma. She has been our friend for over 20 years and we can attest that she is naturally gifted at supporting and comforting friends during difficult and traumatic times in their lives. Today, she shares her wisdom and practical advice on how to be a steadfast friend during difficult times. Key Points Discussed:
Tune in to this episode for insightful tips and heartfelt advice on being a supportive friend to someone navigating the rough waters of trauma. Thank you for listening! Don't forget to subscribe, rate, and review our podcast to stay updated on future episodes. 🌟
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| Story Spotlight: Author and Speaker, Tess Scott | 22 Apr 2024 | 01:02:20 | |
Join hosts Kris Rocha and Jenn Howie in this special Story Spotlight episode of The Betrayal Recovery Transformation Podcast. Today, they are honored to feature author and speaker Tess Scott, who shares her inspiring journey of overcoming shame and replacing it with forgiveness and stepping into God's purpose for her life. About Tess Scott: Tess Scott is a hilarious Christian speaker, a "black sheep turned Jesus girl", and the award-winning author of "Listen, Sister! Finding Hope in the Freakshow of Life." As a Canadian mother of 8, Tess is on a mission to help women with messy stories shed their shame and find hope. Key Highlights:
Tess is passionate about helping others eliminate toxic shame and finding transformative freedom in Christ. She'd love to hear from you! Connect with Tess here: Home - Listen, sister... (tessscott.com) Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/listensistertessscott Insta: Listen Sister Encouragement (@listensister_encouragement) • Instagram photos and videos *** If you found this episode valuable, don't forget to subscribe, rate, and share The Betrayal Recovery Transformation Podcast to help others find the help and healing they need. ***
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| Secondary Trauma with Kris Rocha & Jenn Howie | 13 Mar 2024 | 01:03:03 | |
Grab a coffee or your favorite cup of tea and curl up with hosts Kris Rocha and Jenn Howie in this enlightening episode inspired by Dr. Jill Manning's thought-provoking Instagram post on Secondary Trauma. This conversation balances depth and lightness as they explore Dr. Manning's list of secondary trauma examples. Key Highlights:
You have a seat at the table for an episode that goes beyond the surface, providing information and a sense of camaraderie and understanding. We're so glad you're here! *** If you found this episode valuable, don't forget to subscribe, rate, and share The Betrayal Recovery Transformation Podcast to help others find the help and healing they need. ***
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| Generational Iniquity & Breaking Strongholds with Dr. Laura Sanger | 20 Feb 2024 | 01:14:13 | |
In this POWERFUL episode of The Betrayal Recovery Transformation Podcast, we are honored to host Dr. Laura Sanger, a dedicated scholar, prophetic intercessor, and spiritual warrior. Dr. Sanger brings a wealth of knowledge, blending her expertise in theology and clinical psychology, to delve into the profound topic of generational iniquity. Key Topics Explored: 1) Generational Iniquity: Dr. Sanger unpacks the concept of generational iniquity, offering profound insights into how the patterns of the past can influence and enslave our present and future, affecting generations to come if left unaddressed. 2) Spiritual Mapping and Breaking Strongholds: Listeners gain valuable teachings on spiritual mapping and the process of breaking strongholds, understanding the spiritual warfare involved in overcoming generational iniquity. 3) Bible History and References: Dr. Sanger enriches the episode with an impressive array of Bible history, facts, references, and teachings, providing a deep dive into the scriptural foundations of her profound insights. 4) Coping with Significant Loss: Addressing the impact of significant loss on one's perspective, Dr. Sanger offers empathetic reflections on how such experiences can skew our identity, hope, and worldview. 5) The Healing Power of Gratitude: The episode concludes with a transformative discussion on the healing power of gratitude. Dr. Sanger emphasizes the importance of thankfulness as a life preserver, referencing the wisdom of Ann Voskamp: "Gratitude isn't merely the way we feel some of the time. Gratitude is the way we frame all of our lives." Join us as Dr. Laura Sanger guides us through the intricacies of spiritual warfare, the significance of breaking strongholds, and the transformative power of gratitude in renewing our minds. About Dr. Laura Sanger: Holding an M.A. in Theology and a Ph.D. in Clinical Psychology from Fuller Theological Seminary, she has spent years researching and writing extensively, notably with the authorship of her book The Roots of the Federal Reserve. Dr. Sanger is not just a scholar but a passionate advocate for spiritual freedom, having experienced the liberating power of Jesus firsthand. To Connect with Dr. Laura: Instagram: @laurasanger444hz YouTube Channel: @nolongerenslaved
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| How Grief Helps Us Heal with Hannah Wachter | 16 Jan 2024 | 01:05:26 | |
On this episode of The BRT Podcast we're joined by the remarkable Hannah Wachter—a coach, encourager, and "a warm cup of tea for your grieving heart" with over fourteen years of experience as a grief expert. Hannah has a unique, personal journey that has equipped her with a compassionate lens to guide others and walk beside them in their pain, and help them heal. Key Takeaways: 1. Transforming Pain into Purpose: Becoming a grief coach after losing her mother unexpectedly is a testament to Hannah's gift of transforming pain into purpose. With kindness and clarity, she encourages others to embrace their value and worth. On the podcast, she shares her expertise on navigating grief and the therapeutic benefits for our minds, bodies, souls, and spirits. 2. Understanding Grief: Hannah provides deep insights into what grief truly is, breaking down the stages of grief and unraveling the complexities that come with it. She emphasizes that grief is not a sign of a broken head but a broken heart—a perspective that reshapes how we approach and support those in deep grief. 3. Supporting Others in Grief: Learn valuable tips on how to support someone in the throes of grief. Hannah's wisdom extends to practical advice on being present, offering comfort, and understanding that the only cure for grief is, indeed, grieving. 4. The 15 Minute Method: Hannah introduces the therapeutic approach of The 15-minute method—an insightful way to process grief and navigate its waves. Discover how this method can be a gentle yet effective tool in your healing journey. About Our Guest - Hannah Wachter: Certified in The Grief Recovery Method, Hannah holds a Masters in Christian Leadership and a BA in Religious Studies. Currently serving as the Minister of Music at Pleasant Valley Church in Happy Valley, Oregon, she brings a unique blend of spirituality and practicality to her coaching. A gifted writer, speaker, and singer, Hannah is determined to use her voice to help others know and believe in their own value and worth. To find out more about working with Hannah, visit her website: https://hannahwachter.squarespace.com/ If you found this episode valuable, don't forget to subscribe, rate, and share The Betrayal Recovery Transformation Podcast to help others find the help and healing they need. Coaching with Jenn & Kris: This podcast is produced with the support of: | |||
| Reclaiming Your Life After Betrayal with Tammy Gustafson | 05 Jan 2024 | 01:05:41 | |
Welcome back to another empowering episode of The Betrayal Recovery Transformation Podcast! In this edition, we're honored to host Tammy Gustafson, a renowned betrayal trauma coach, writer, and speaker. With over 13 years of experience as a licensed professional counselor specializing in PTSD and trauma, Tammy is a fount of wisdom and healing. In this episode, she takes us on a journey of reclaiming our lives after betrayal. Key Takeaways: 1. Rebuild with Tammy's 4-Phase Process: Tammy Gustafson unveils her transformative 4-phase process for healing after betrayal. In this episode, she delves specifically into the Rebuild phase—the crucial stage where individuals find the strength to reconstruct their lives. To explore which phase you're in, take the free quiz Tammy has crafted at [www.betrayalhealing.com/quiz]. 2. Tools for Transformation: Delve into a rich conversation filled with practical tools and applicable wisdom. Tammy shares insights on healing from betrayal, understanding and managing the effects of trauma, and the art of setting healthy boundaries. These tools are invaluable for anyone navigating the tumultuous aftermath of betrayal. 3. Betrayal Healing Conference: Learn about Tammy's impactful initiative—the Betrayal Healing Conference. Discover how this platform brings together individuals seeking healing and provides a supportive community for shared stories, insights, and collective empowerment. 4. Reparenting for Healing: Tammy sheds light on the profound concept of reparenting, a vital aspect of the healing journey. Discover how nurturing and caring for your inner self can be a catalyst for profound personal transformation. 5. Forgiveness: Tammy, Kris and Jenn share insights on forgiveness—an integral part of the healing process. Understand the power of forgiveness in freeing yourself from the shackles of betrayal, when to forgive, and how to forgive, and so much more. These key takeaways offer a glimpse into the transformative wisdom Tammy Gustafson imparts in this episode, providing not just insights, but actionable steps for your healing process and empowerment. For more information on Tammy Gustafson, go to: www.instagram.com/tammylgustafson www.betrayalhealing.com If you found this episode valuable, don't forget to subscribe, rate, and share The Betrayal Recovery Transformation Podcast to help others find the help and healing they need. Thank you for joining us for this important conversation about navigating conflict and fostering healthy resolutions. Coaching with Jenn & Kris: This podcast is produced with the support of: | |||
| Divorce After Betrayal with Rae Emmerson | 05 Jan 2026 | 01:00:54 | |
Divorce after betrayal trauma can feel confusing, isolating, and even more painful than staying. In this conversation, Rae Emmerson from Healing Talks Back joins the podcast to explore why healing after a terminally wounded relationship is uniquely complex—and why the end of a relationship does not automatically bring relief. Rae helps listeners understand the emotional, relational, and identity-level challenges faced by partners whose relationships do not survive betrayal. With clarity and validation, she gives language to the grief, marginalization, and “in-between” space many survivors experience after separation or divorce—while also offering hope for healing, meaning, and forward movement, even when the ending looks different from what was expected. Key Takeaways from the Episode: • Healing from betrayal looks different when a relationship ends, and those differences deserve to be acknowledged and supported. • Divorce does not automatically resolve trauma and can intensify grief, fear, and nervous system dysregulation. • Many divorced partners feel disconnected or marginalized within traditional partner-support spaces and long for environments that reflect their lived reality. • Separation and divorce often surface “new, big, and brave” questions about identity, safety, faith, and the future. • An “alternative ending” can still hold meaning, power, and hope—even without a traditional happily-ever-after. • Survivors are not broken for struggling after divorce; their reactions make sense in the context of trauma. Connect with Rae Emmerson: Website: www.healingtalksback.com Connect with Us: Website: www.watermarkcoach.com Instagram: @watermarkcoaching | |||
| 🎄✨ A Christmas Message from Jenn and Kris ✨🎄 | 22 Dec 2023 | 00:02:24 | |
This Christmas, we want to acknowledge the bittersweet reality that the holidays can be tough, especially when you're carrying the weight of betrayal and grief. In the midst of twinkling lights and festive cheer, we recognize that for some, the holidays magnify feelings of loss and heartache. It's okay to feel that ache, and it's okay to prioritize your healing during this time. Together, let's embrace the complexities, honor our emotions, and find moments of solace. Join us for a brief episode that reminds you that you're not alone in navigating the unique challenges of this season. Your feelings are valid, and we're here to offer support, understanding, and a message of hope. Betrayal Coaching with Jenn or Kris: This podcast is produced with the support of: | |||
| Navigating Conflict: A Guide to Healthy Resolution with Andrew Arthur | 21 Dec 2023 | 00:37:13 | |
On today's episode, we have the privilege of hosting Andrew Arthur, a seasoned conflict management expert, certified mediator, and CPS (Certified Co-Parent Specialist). Andrew brings more than 25 years of experience in coaching and guiding individuals through the intricate landscape of conflict. In this episode, he unravels the critical steps to healthy conflict resolution: Repair, Resolve, Reconcile, and Restore. Key Takeaways: 1. The Journey of Healthy Conflict: Andrew guides us through the transformative journey of healthy conflict. He emphasizes that conflict, when managed properly, can be a catalyst for growth and stronger relationships. The key lies in understanding the dynamics and approaching it with intention. 2. Conflict Styles and Relationship Skills: Delving into the intricacies of conflict, Andrew discusses different conflict styles and the crucial role of relationship skills in navigating disagreements. Understanding these aspects can be transformative in how we approach and engage with conflict in our personal and professional lives. 3. Steps to Healthy Conflict Resolution: Andrew introduces us to the four essential steps—Repair, Resolve, Reconcile, and Restore—that form the foundation of healthy conflict resolution. These steps offer a roadmap for individuals and families to navigate conflicts in a way that brings about peaceful resolutions and restores relational harmony. 4. The Critical Art of Listening: One of the cornerstones of conflict resolution, according to Andrew, is the critical art of listening. He shares insights into how effective listening can de-escalate conflicts, build empathy, and pave the way for understanding. About Our Guest - Andrew Arthur: As a certified mediator and CPS, Andrew has dedicated his career to helping people repair, resolve, reconcile, and restore relationships strained by conflict. His extensive experience in coaching, leadership, and mediation has made him a valuable guide for individuals navigating conflicts in their community, workplace, and personal lives. For more information about Andrew Arthur and his conflict management services, visit https://genesismediation.com. If you found this episode valuable, don't forget to subscribe, rate, and share The Betrayal Recovery Transformation Podcast. Thank you for joining us for this important conversation about navigating conflict and fostering healthy resolutions. Coaching with Jenn & Kris: This podcast is produced with the support of: | |||
| Marriage Recovery and Pure Life Alliance Ministries with Jeremy Waldridge | 06 Dec 2023 | 00:38:40 | |
Our guest on today's podcast is the Executive Director of Pure Life Alliance Ministries, Jeremy Waldridge. Jeremy shares a little about his own story, marriage recovery, the origins of Pure Life Alliance, and what the ministry is passionate about - helping couples recover and heal from unwanted sexual behavior and betrayal trauma. From their website: "Pure Life Alliance is committed to restoring wholeness for those affected by sexual brokenness. Our vision is to see lives change through a network of people passionate about sexual purity." Jeremy shares with us the impactful work of Pure Life Alliance Ministries in supporting individuals and couples on their journey of recovery and sheds light on the unique programs and resources offered by the organization to facilitate lasting healing and restoration. Join us for candid conversation, valuable guidance, relatable experiences, and a few laughs! We hope you'll feel seen, supported, validated, and equipped with new tools and options as you move forward. To learn more about Pure Life Alliance Ministries and discover additional resources for marriage recovery, visit their website, www.purelifealliance.com. Don't forget to subscribe to the Betrayal Recovery Transformation Podcast for more empowering conversations, and please be sure to leave a review wherever you listen to podcasts. This will help others find us and get the help and support they need. Thank you for joining us! Coaching with Jenn & Kris: This podcast is produced with the support of: | |||
| The Benefits of Betrayal Trauma Groups with Ally & Sarah | 08 Nov 2023 | 00:45:01 | |
Friends ... Jenn and I are so honored and excited to introduce you all to two incredible women, Ally and Sarah. They just happen to be two of our favorite women on the planet, and we have no doubt you'll have the same opinion of them by the end of this episode! Ally and Sarah opened their hearts and shared the experiences and benefits they realized from joining a betrayal trauma recovery group, reminding us all of the healing power found in shared stories, gathering trusted community, and compassionate connections. Key Takeaways: 1. Community and Compassion: Ally and Sarah emphasize the importance of community in their healing journey. Within their betrayal trauma group, they found a safe space among women who understood their pain intimately. This shared understanding cultivated an atmosphere of compassion, providing the foundation for their healing. 2. The Power of Shared Stories: Hearing the experiences of other women provided countless pivotal moments for Ally and Sarah. The shared stories not only validated their own reality but also offered diverse perspectives and healing strategies. These shared narratives became beacons of hope, illuminating their path toward recovery. 3. Learning New Healing Tools: The betrayal trauma group introduced Ally and Sarah to a plethora of healing tools. From learning the importance of self-care to therapeutic techniques, they learned valuable skills to help them navigate the complexities stemming from betrayal trauma. These tools became essential in their process of pursuing their own healing. 4. Processing Experiences and Finding Validation: Processing their experiences within the group provided Ally and Sarah with a sense of validation. The group offered them a platform to express their pain, fears, questions and hopes without judgment. Being heard and understood by others who had walked similar paths was profoundly validating, reinforcing their resilience. 5. Vulnerability Leading to Lifelong Friendships: While the initial step of joining a group of strangers felt vulnerable, Ally and Sarah discovered that vulnerability led to profound connections. In the process, they formed life-long friendships. The group became a support network they depended on almost daily, which transformed their healing process and demonstrated the enduring power of human connection. 6. Gratitude and Empowerment: Ally and Sarah express their deep gratitude for their betrayal trauma group. Their experiences highlight the transformational journey from vulnerability to empowerment. They share how this newfound strength empowers them to face life's challenges with courage and resilience. To learn more about betrayal trauma support groups and discover additional resources, please visit our websites listed below. For more inspiring conversations and empowering stories, subscribe to The Betrayal Recovery Transformation Podcast and please consider leaving a review. This helps others find us. Thank you for joining us! Coaching with Jenn & Kris: This podcast is produced with the support of: | |||
| Internal Family Systems Therapy & Betrayal Trauma with Jenna Riemersma | 20 Oct 2023 | 00:55:12 | |
On this amazing episode of BRT, we are honored to welcome the delightful and inspiring Jenna Riemersma! She is the founder and clinical director of The Atlanta Center for Relational Healing. Jenna, a distinguished teaching faculty member at the International Institute of Trauma and Addiction Professionals (IITAP), is a beacon of wisdom in the realms of mental health and trauma recovery. As a Licensed Professional Counselor (LPC), Level III Internal Family Systems (IFS) Therapist, EMDR therapist, Certified Sex Addiction Therapist Supervisor (CSAT-S), Certified Multiple Addiction Therapist Supervisor (CMAT-S), and a National Certified Counselor (NCC), Jenna brings a wealth of knowledge and experience to our conversation. Jenna has a profound dedication to Internal Family Systems (IFS) Therapy and loves to share her remarkable knowledge and insights with others, providing hope and acute healing to all who listen. You're going to LOVE her as much as we do! Key Takeaways: 1. Journey into IFS Therapy: Jenna takes our listeners on a deep and insightful exploration of Internal Family Systems (IFS). Through her compassionate guidance, she unveils this powerful therapeutic approach, revealing its transformative potential for personal healing and relational growth. 2. The Power of Faith and Authentic Living: Drawing from her personal experiences and professional expertise, Jenna teaches us about our "parts" and the intersection of faith, mental health, and authentic living. 3. Guided IFS Therapy Session: In a truly transformative segment, Jenna leads our listeners through a guided IFS therapy session. This immersive experience allows you to witness the power of IFS Therapy firsthand, providing a glimpse into the healing potential it offers. 4. Infusing Hope and Life-Giving Information: Throughout the episode, Jenna infuses hope. and validation. Her genuine warmth and deep knowledge of IFS create an atmosphere of safety and understanding. Listeners will walk away not only enlightened but also empowered, armed with life-giving information to aid their own healing journeys .5. Jenna’s Best-Selling Book: "Altogether You" and Upcoming Release "Altogether Us": Learn about Jenna’s best-selling book, "Altogether You," a source of comfort and guidance for countless readers. Discover exciting insights about her upcoming release, "Altogether Us," a book poised to provide further wisdom and support to those seeking healing through IFS. Prepare to be inspired, informed, and encouraged! Coaching with Jenn or Kris: This podcast is produced with the support of: To explore Jenna Riemersma's work, including her best-selling book "Altogether You" and updates on the forthcoming "Altogether Us," visit her website: https://jennariemersma.com, For more empowering conversations and expert insights, subscribe to The Betrayal Recovery Transformation Podcast wherever you listen to podcasts, and please leave a review. This will help others to find us. Thank you for joining us! | |||
| Trauma & Self-regulation with Eileen Fagan | 03 Oct 2023 | 00:39:03 | |
Therapist Eileen Fagan, an expert in trauma therapy, shares her unique approach to trauma and self-regulation, guiding us through an "order of operations" - SAFE - that can help navigate the stormy seas of emotional turmoil. Drawing wisdom from God's word and modern therapeutic techniques, Eileen sheds light on how we can find solace and strength amidst trauma. 1. STOP - Slow down and be still (Psalm 23:1): Eileen introduces the first step, encouraging us to pause amidst the chaos. Through stillness, we find clarity. She beautifully connects this practice to the calming verses of Psalm 23:1, emphasizing the importance of slowing down to regain control of our emotions. 2. ACCEPT - Accept the discomfort and get curious (Psalm 23:4): Eileen delves into the art of acceptance, urging us to acknowledge our discomfort. By embracing our feelings, we open doors to understanding and healing. Referencing Psalm 23:4, Eileen teaches us to be curious about what lies beneath the discomfort, fostering a profound sense of self-awareness. 3. FEAST - Practice gratitude and remember blessings (Psalm 23:5): Gratitude becomes a transformative tool in Eileen's "order of operations." She encourages us to feast on the blessings we have, even amidst pain. Drawing from the wisdom of Psalm 23:5, Eileen reminds us that practicing gratitude can illuminate even the darkest of days, reassuring us that our pain is not in vain. 4. ENCOURAGE - Believe in God's plan and take heart (Psalm 23:6): Eileen shares the empowering final step, where faith takes center stage. Referencing Psalm 23:6, Eileen instills a profound sense of hope, reminding us to remember God's faithfulness and goodness. "He uses our pain in the present with purpose for our future. In God, nothing is wasted." Eileen Fagan: www.transformationcounseling.org Coaching with Jenn & Kris: This podcast is produced with the support of: | |||
| Building Resilience with Dr. Steve Stephens | 26 Sep 2023 | 00:50:11 | |
We're honored to host the amazing Dr. Steve Stephens, a seasoned psychologist with over 35 years of experience and the author of an astounding 45 books! Dr. Steve is not only a renowned life coach but also a captivating speaker, university teacher, and a true expert in the art of building resilience and overcoming hardship. Join us as we embark on an enlightening conversation with Dr. Steve about a subject that lies at the heart of resilience. In a world filled with challenges, setbacks, and betrayals, building resilience becomes essential. Dr. Steve's wealth of knowledge and expertise will help guide us through this journey of personal growth, empowerment, and transformation. Discover the keys to bouncing back from adversity, learning from life's toughest moments, and emerging stronger than ever before. Dr. Steve's profound insights and practical advice are not to be missed. Whether you're navigating the aftermath of betrayal or simply seeking to enhance your resilience, this episode offers valuable wisdom for all. S - Self-care O - Optimism L - Learn I - Identify D - Dream G - Gratitude O - Offer (pay it forward) G - Gifts P - Passions S - Strengths " We are the image of God ... and dirt." - Dr. Steve Stephens Dr. Steve's new book: A World Away From Home can be purchased on Amazon: https://www.amazon.com/World-Away-Home-Icelandic-Restless/dp/1667898191/ref=sr_1_1?crid=1690WAMSL9SL3&keywords=A+world+away+from+home&qid=1695702556&sprefix=a+world+away+from+home%2Caps%2C155&sr=8-1 Coaching with Jenn & Kris: This podcast is produced with the support of: | |||
| Unveiling Your Story with Ashley Sears | 20 Sep 2023 | 00:49:27 | |
On our 4th episode of The BRT Podcast, we're excited to introduce you all to Ashley Sears, the founder of Stories Unveiled! Join us as Ashley shares her deeply personal journey, which led her to uncover the transformative power of storytelling and inspired her to create an annual conference dedicated to helping others find freedom and purpose in the telling of their stories. In her words, "The Stories Unveiled Conference was designed to break down the walls around our stories and create a place for women to share their lives and how God has redeemed them." Episode Overview:Introduction: We're delighted to have Ashley Sears, the visionary behind Stories Unveiled, join us as a guest. Through her own compelling narrative, Ashley invites us to discover the beauty and strength that emerge from sharing our stories of pain and triumph. Personal Story Ignites a Passion: Ashley delves into her own past, sharing pivotal moments that sparked her journey of healing and self-discovery. Her personal experiences not only laid the foundation for her resilience but also ignited the fire that led to the creation of Stories Unveiled. Unveiling Stories Unveiled: Learn about Stories Unveiled, an annual conference that empowers women to find purpose within their narratives and break free from the chains of their past. Ashley's passion for creating a safe space for sharing, healing, and growth shines through as she describes the heart behind this transformative event. Transformative Power of Sharing: Ashley shares how opening up about her own story allowed her to connect with others on a profound level. She reveals the liberating impact of vulnerability and how it has the potential to create an unbreakable bond between individuals who have faced similar struggles. Finding Freedom Through Storytelling: Discover how Stories Unveiled provides a platform for individuals to step into their truth and embrace their stories – both the pain and the triumphs. Ashley's insights highlight the importance of giving voice to our experiences and how it can lead to profound healing. Connect with Stories Unveiled: Ashley directs listeners to the Stories Unveiled website (https://www.storiesunveiledconference.com) where they can learn more about the conference, its mission, and how to participate. Coaching with Jenn & Kris: This podcast is produced with the support of: | |||
| Get To Know Your Host: Kris Rocha | 04 Sep 2023 | 00:51:00 | |
Welcome to another episode of "The Betrayal Recovery Transformation Podcast," where we feature a compelling and hopeful story in our "Story Spotlight" series. Your host, Kris Rocha, opens up about her challenging upbringing within a complex family system centered on image, and how she found healing, freedom, and transformation through the unexpected catalyst of betrayal trauma. Kris shares the tools and strategies she employed to break free from toxic patterns and "get the fork out", emphasizing the power of forgiveness, reconciling her God concept, and understanding her God-purposed and respectfully created identity. Tune in to hear Kris's inspirational journey of recovery, gratitude, and resilience, and learn that God truly does not waste our pain. Coaching with Jenn & Kris: This podcast is produced with the support of: | |||
| Get To Know Your Host: Jenn Howie | 30 Aug 2023 | 00:38:27 | |
In this heartfelt episode of The Betrayal Recovery Transformation Podcast, your host Jenn Howie opens up about her personal journey – a journey that has shaped her into the compassionate advocate for healing she is today. Jenn shares a powerful narrative that sheds light on the complexities of betrayal, the arduous path to recovery, and the profound transformation that's possible when we find the strength to heal. Her courage in sharing her vulnerabilities creates a space of connection and understanding for listeners on a similar path. Join us for this intimate and moving episode as Jenn Howie shares her story. We hope you'll find hope, help, and a healing dose of encouragement. Coaching with Jenn & Kris: This podcast is produced with the support of: | |||
| Attachment & Connection with Dr. Jake Porter | 27 Oct 2025 | 00:54:57 | |
Rebuilding safety and intimacy after betrayal begins with understanding how our attachment styles shape the way we connect—and disconnect—with others. In this eye-opening conversation, Dr. Jake Porter, Founder and President of Daring Ventures, returns to the podcast to unpack how attachment wounds form, why they matter in recovery, and how couples can move from fear and self-protection toward trust and closeness. Drawing from his Couple-Centered Recovery® model, Dr. Porter helps us see that attachment isn’t just psychology—it’s also spiritual and neurological. Healing happens when we integrate brain science, faith, and relational repair. Whether you’re married or single, betrayed or the betrayer, this episode will help you better understand your own patterns and offer hope that broken bonds can truly be restored. Key Takeaways from the Episode:
Connect with Dr. Jake Porter: Website: www.daringventures.com Instagram: @drjakeporter Connect with Us: Website: www.watermarkcoach.com Instagram: @watermarkcoaching Listen on: The Betrayal Recovery Transformation Podcast | |||
| A Betrayal Survival Guide with Kris Rocha & Jenn Howie | 07 Aug 2023 | 00:41:33 | |
Welcome to the inaugural episode of the Betrayal Recovery Transformation Podcast with your hosts Kris Rocha and Jenn Howie. In this episode, we're diving deep into the tumultuous journey that begins when you've just discovered your partner's betrayal. Whether you're just starting on this path or need a reminder along the way, this episode acts as a survival guide to help you navigate the trauma you're experiencing and help you find your way to healing quickly. Episode Overview:
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| Welcome! | 13 May 2023 | 00:02:22 | |
Enjoy this introduction of The Betrayal, Recovery, Transformation Podcast hosted by Jenn Howie and Kris Rocha. Full episodes will drop in August 2023. We’re so glad you’re here and we look forward to walking this journey together. You are not alone. | |||
| Reconciling Your God Concept with Paul Marc Goulet | 22 Oct 2025 | 01:07:05 | |
Over 36 years ago, Kris sat in the classroom of her Bible college professor, Paul Marc Goulet, learning lessons that would profoundly shape her understanding of God, cognitive function, and the power of the stories we tell ourselves. Decades later, their paths cross again for a deeply meaningful conversation about how our God concepts—what we believe about who God is—shape every part of our faith, healing, and daily life. A pastor, author, counselor, and global leader, Paul draws from his extensive background in psychology and theology to unpack the ways distorted beliefs about God can keep us trapped in emotional pain and confusion. He introduces us to one of his most impactful teachings, “the Vat,” a concept describing how our thoughts and experiences create a mental and spiritual environment that either nurtures truth or reinforces distortion. Together, Kris and Paul explore how to reconcile our view of God with life’s hardest moments—especially for those walking through betrayal and trauma. This episode invites listeners to reframe suffering, rediscover who God really is, and find freedom in knowing His love is consistent, kind, and unwavering. Key Takeaways from the Episode:
Connect with Paul Marc Goulet: 🌐 www.paulmarcgoulet.com 📖 Books: Breakthrough, Crack the Code (coming soon) 🌍 Follow his global initiatives and leadership training in Madagascar and beyond. Connect with Us: 🎧 Listen & Subscribe: Betrayal Recovery Transformation Podcast 🌐 Visit: www.watermarkcoach.com 📸 Follow: @watermarkcoaching 💬 Produced by Kris Rocha & Jeremy Waldridge | |||
| Recognizing & Healing Spiritual Abuse with Stacey Smith | 20 Oct 2025 | 00:57:42 | |
Stacey Smith, a trusted voice at Daring Ventures, returns to the Betrayal Recovery Transformation Podcast to unpack the often-hidden topic of spiritual abuse. With deep wisdom and a passion for justice, Stacey helps individuals heal from trauma, reclaim their identity, and walk in the truth of who God created them to be. In this conversation, Stacey joins Kris and Jenn to explore how spiritual abuse can take root within faith communities—often cloaked in tradition or twisted theology—and how women can move from confusion and pain toward clarity, courage, and freedom. She shares how recognizing God’s true character brings restoration and empowers women to rediscover their voice and worth in Him. Key Takeaways from the Episode:
Connect with Stacey: Daring Ventures: www.daringventures.com Connect with Us: www.watermarkcoach.com @watermarkcoaching Thank you for listening! Don’t forget to subscribe, rate, and review our podcast to stay updated on future episodes and help others find the hope and support they deserve. Sponsored by and produced with the support of www.purelifealliance.com | |||
| The Gifts of Betrayal Healing with Gigi Hopkins | 14 Aug 2025 | 00:56:26 | |
Gigi Hopkins, Professional Certified Coach (PCC) and Director of Wives Care at Be Broken Ministries, joins us for a candid conversation about how healing from betrayal can produce unexpected gifts. With over 24 years of ministry experience and a passion for walking alongside women in the midst of betrayal trauma, Gigi offers both professional insight and deep personal compassion. She shares her “Gifts of Betrayal” list, encouraging us to see how God can transform pain into growth, maturity, and stronger relationships. From growing in faith to developing healthier boundaries, Gigi helps us recognize the ways God uses even the most devastating experiences to shape us into who we were created to be. Whether your marriage has ended or become stronger through healing, this conversation will remind you that hope and wholeness are possible. Key Takeaways from the Episode:
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Connect with Us: Thank you for listening! Don’t forget to subscribe, rate, and review our podcast to stay updated on future episodes and help others find the hope and support they deserve. Sponsored by and produced with the support of www.purelifealliance.com | |||
| Integrity Driven Healing with Dr. Jake Porter | 18 Jul 2025 | 01:12:17 | |
In this special episode, we’re joined by Dr. Jake Porter, renowned relational trauma expert, coach, and founder of Daring Ventures. Known for his groundbreaking work helping individuals and couples heal from betrayal and rebuild trust, Jake brings deep insight and compassion to the recovery journey. Together, we explore the transformative power of integrity-centered healing and learning to be comfortable being uncomfortable. Jake shares his personal experience participating in a program called Men and Women of Discomfort, and how its lessons have shaped his understanding of growth, resilience, and the human capacity to endure and overcome. It was truly an honor to have Jake on the show. His heart for helping others heal, combined with the impactful work of Daring Ventures, continues to bring hope and clarity to those navigating some of life’s most painful chapters. Key Takeaways:
Connect with Dr. Jake Porter & Daring Ventures: 📸 Instagram: @daringventures Connect with Watermark Coaching: 📸 Instagram: @watermarkcoaching 🌟 Thank you for listening! Don’t forget to subscribe, rate, and review The Betrayal Recovery Transformation Podcast. Your feedback helps us grow and ensures more people can find the hope and support they deserve. This podcast is sponsored by and produced with the support of Pure Life Alliance. | |||
| Therapeutic Disclosure 101 with Dan Drake | 21 May 2025 | 01:08:18 | |
How much truth is too much truth? What if you feel ready for disclosure, but your partner doesn't? What’s the actual goal of a therapeutic disclosure—and how do you know when you’re ready? In this episode, we sit down with Dan Drake, a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist and expert in betrayal trauma and sex addiction recovery. Dan unpacks the basics of therapeutic disclosure, a structured process where the full truth of sexual betrayal is disclosed in a safe, supported setting. He shares the potential risks and profound benefits of doing disclosure correctly, and clears up common misconceptions, especially among the men preparing to disclose and the women bracing for impact. Whether you’re just beginning the recovery process or preparing for a formal disclosure, this conversation offers compassionate guidance, clinical insight, and hope for deeper healing on the other side of the truth. About Our Guest: Dan Drake, LMFT, LPCC, CCPS-S, CSAT-S, is the founder of The Banyan Group, a therapy and coaching practice specializing in betrayal trauma, compulsive sexual behavior, and couples recovery. With over 20 years of clinical experience, Dan is widely respected for his work helping couples rebuild trust through the process of therapeutic disclosure and long-term recovery. Learn more about Dan’s work at www.thebanyangroup.org. Key Topics Discussed:
Connect with Us: 🌐 www.watermarkcoach.com🎙️ Betrayal Recovery Transformation Podcast📸 Instagram: @watermarkcoaching🔍 Looking for a trained guide to walk you through disclosure? Visit Kintsugi Recovery Partners and explore the Find a Guide section for professionals trained in Dan and Dr. Janice Caudill’s disclosure process. Sponsored by Pure Life Alliance | |||