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| 7 Things You Do on a Date That Tell Her How You’ll Be in Bed (And Keep Her From Bringing You Home) | 09 nov. 2026 | 00:19:10 | |
7 Things You Do on a Date That Tell Her How You’ll Be in Bed What a man does on a date tells a woman whether he’ll be good or bad in bed, and she decides it long before the bedroom. The head-turn so your kiss lands on her cheek. The “I’ve got an early morning” instead of an invite up. That was her answer. She watched your actions all night and drew a straight line to how you’d be in bed. In this episode, I break down 7 behaviors that are secretly “intimacy tells,” what each one signals to her, what the research says, and the one thing to practice that actually changes it. And here’s the part that matters: these same skills are the exact ones that make you good in bed. Fix them out there, and you become the guy she can’t stop thinking about once you’re in it. Most of these will surprise you. At least one is probably the reason your last date didn’t invite you up, and you had no idea you were doing it. Not one of these tells happens in bed. That’s the whole point, she knows before you ever get there, and every one is a skill you can build. Ladies, if you’re nodding the whole way through, send this to him or drop it in the group chat. Fellas, watch to the end, then pick the tell that stung the most and do the opposite of your old habit the very next chance you get. 🔥 Full guide + every episode: https://talksexwithannette.com get on that newsletter. 📩 https://she-explores-life.kit.com/e9760c390c It’s the one place we’ll never lose each other. Where else to find me:
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| What Kind of Sub Are You? Every Type Explained | 04 nov. 2026 | 01:04:51 | |
There’s no single type of submissive, and Fifty Shades only ever showed you one narrow version of it. So this week, I brought kink consultant Amanda Dames back to break down every kind of sub there is, and help you figure out which one you are. There’s the brat who talks back just to get caught. The little who wants to be taken care of. The service sub, the pleasure sub, the rope bunny, the pay pig, and the slave. Some of these will surprise you. At least one will probably make you go, “wait, that’s me.” By the end, you’ll know what kind of sub you are, how to find the right dom for you, and how to keep yourself safe doing it. (And yes, I finally tell the story about vetting a potential dom that ended with me realizing I could have been on a date with Ted Bundy. It’s a wild one.) In this episode:
This is the companion to our Types of Doms episode, so if you haven’t heard that one, go grab it too. Together they’re your full map of dominance and submission. Want the complete breakdown of every type, plus the full guide to vetting a dom safely? Read it here: https://talksexwithannette.com/episodes/types-of-doms/ Guest: Amanda Dames, The Kink Consultant, @the_kinkconsultant on Instagram, and host of The Kink Consultant Podcast. get on that newsletter. 📩 https://she-explores-life.kit.com/e9760c390c It’s the one place we’ll never lose each other. Where else to find me:
get on that newsletter. 📩 https://she-explores-life.kit.com/e9760c390c It’s the one place we’ll never lose each other. Get 15% Off Blended Orgasms at Womanizer.com with my code ANNETTE15! Go to https://talksexwithannette.com/go/sp/womanizer-blend The viral lemon-shaped toy everyone’s talking about — get 25% off with code ANNETTE25 at https://talksexwithannette.com/go/sp/hello-nancy-lem 🍋 Head to Only Fans or https://talksexwithannette.com/talk-sex-with-me/ to join. 15% Off With my Code Annette15 at myfirmtech.com/annettebenedetti Your New Favorite 365 Days of Orgasms Tool! 15% Off with code ANNETTE15 at Womanizer.com: https://talksexwithannette.com/go/sp/womanizer Watch on My Site: talksexwithannette.com
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| 10 Things That Make a Man Great at Sex (According to Women and Science) | 03 nov. 2026 | 00:28:58 | |
Every woman has one: the lover she still thinks about. The way he kissed her, the way he took his time, the way he looked at her like she was the only thing in the room. She’s probably never going to tell you what he actually did differently, so I will. I asked women what the best lover they ever had actually did, then I checked their answers against the research, and they lined up almost every time. This is the real list, and not one thing on it is about size, lasting forever, or some move you saw in porn at 2 a.m. Every single one is a skill, which means any man can learn it. In this episode:
Ladies, if you’re nodding the whole way through, send this to the special guy in your life so he’s not shooting in the dark. Fellas, pick one thing, learn it, and try it tonight. Want the full written guide with all the research and every move spelled out? Read it on my website: Episodes mentioned in this one (go deeper):
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| Sometimes Being a Bad Girl Doesn’t Feel So Good (But I’m Back) | 29 oct. 2026 | 00:27:32 | |
My YouTube channel is back, and I wanted to take a moment to really talk to you about what this whole experience taught me, and what’s coming next. In this one I’m getting personal: the gratitude I feel for the way this community showed up for me at a low point, what actually got me in trouble, how things are changing going forward, and all the exciting things I’m building for you. First things first, the most important thing you can do: 📩 Sign up for my e-newsletter →https://she-explores-life.kit.com/e9760c390c Here’s why it matters more than ever: platforms come and go (we just learned that the hard way together), but my newsletter is how I reach you no matter what. It’s where I send every episode, every new guide, every free tool, and all the how-tos that can’t live on YouTube. If you only do one thing, do this, so we never lose each other again. In this episode:
A huge thank you to the people who showed up for me: Where else to find me:
Send me your ideas, your questions, and the things you wish I’d do differently, I’m heavily influenced by you, and I want to keep building this with you. (Yes, the rimming episode is officially on the calendar, because you asked.) But seriously, before you do anything else: get on that newsletter. 📩 https://she-explores-life.kit.com/e9760c390c It’s the one place we’ll never lose each other. Thank you, thank you, thank you. I love you all. Until next time, I’ll see you in the locker room. Cheers. Get 15% Off Blended Orgasms at Womanizer.com with my code ANNETTE15! Go to https://talksexwithannette.com/go/sp/womanizer-blend The viral lemon-shaped toy everyone’s talking about — get 25% off with code ANNETTE25 at https://talksexwithannette.com/go/sp/hello-nancy-lem 🍋 Your New Favorite 365 Days of Orgasms Tool! 15% Off with code ANNETTE15 at Womanizer.com: https://talksexwithannette.com/go/sp/womanizer Watch on My Site: talksexwithannette.com
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| Female-Led Relationships: Why Men Secretly Want This | 28 oct. 2026 | 00:41:49 | |
Say "female-led relationship" and most people picture whips and chastity cages, but it's so much bigger than that, and most of it has nothing to do with kink. This week, licensed psychologist and certified sex therapist Dr. Kate Balestrieri walks me through what a female-led relationship actually is: the four levels (from barely-there to full-time), the surprising benefits for BOTH partners, and exactly how to start one. In this episode:
Want the full breakdown, all four levels, the benefits, and how to start? Read the complete guide: 🔥 What Is a Female-Led Relationship? The 4 Levels, Benefits, and How to Start: https://talksexwithannette.com/episodes/what-is-a-female-led-relationship/ Guest: Dr. Kate Balestrieri, Modern Intimacy, @drkatebalestrieri, host of Get Naked with Dr. Kate. Sign up for my e-newsletter here: https://she-explores-life.ck.page/8a1d9ba932 Join me on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/annettebenedetti/ Catch ALL My Videos at Talksexwithannette.com Get 15% Off Blended Orgasms at Womanizer.com with my code ANNETTE15! Go to https://talksexwithannette.com/go/sp/womanizer-blend The viral lemon-shaped toy everyone’s talking about — get 25% off with code ANNETTE25 at https://talksexwithannette.com/go/sp/hello-nancy-lem 🍋 Head to Only Fans or https://talksexwithannette.com/talk-sex-with-me/ to join. Your New Favorite 365 Days of Orgasms Tool! 15% Off with code ANNETTE15 at Womanizer.com: https://talksexwithannette.com/go/sp/womanizer Watch on My Site: talksexwithannette.com
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| Make Her Wet With Words: The Dirty Talk Framework That Works | 27 oct. 2026 | 00:12:28 | |
Most men think turning a woman on is all about touch. But here’s the truth: you can make her turned on, wet, and craving you with words alone, before you ever lay a hand on her. This week I’m breaking down exactly how to talk dirty to a woman the right way. Not the aggressive, porn-style lines that make her shut down, but the kind of words that actually build arousal, spark her imagination, and leave her aching for more. It’s not magic. It’s how women’s arousal really works, and once you get it, you can turn her on anytime, anywhere. In this episode, you’ll learn:
By the end, you’ll know how to turn her on with your voice alone, and have the exact words to do it. Want the full framework, every script, and the mistakes to avoid, all written out so you can save it? Read the complete guide here: https://talksexwithannette.com/advice/sex-techniques/how-to-talk-dirty-to-a-woman/ If you’re looking for a wing woman and cheerleader on your own intimacy journey, my coaching books are open, find out more at talksexwithannette.com. Until next time, I’ll see you in the locker room. Cheers. Sign up for my e-newsletter here: https://she-explores-life.ck.page/8a1d9ba932 Join me on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/annettebenedetti/ Catch ALL My Videos at Talksexwithannette.com Get 15% Off Blended Orgasms at Womanizer.com with my code ANNETTE15! Go to https://talksexwithannette.com/go/sp/womanizer-blend Your New Favorite 365 Days of Orgasms Tool! 15% Off with code ANNETTE15 at Womanizer.com: https://talksexwithannette.com/go/sp/womanizer Watch on My Site: talksexwithannette.com
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| 9 Sex Myths About Women That Are Wrecking Your Sex Life | 21 oct. 2026 | 01:04:57 | |
Content note: this episode discusses sexual violence and assault. We all absorbed a set of ideas about women and sex so early we never thought to question them: that women want it less, that desire fades with age, that if it hurts, that’s just how it is. Most of it came to us dressed up as fact, and most of it is quietly wrecking our sex lives. This week I sit down with Natasha Sinjanovic, an award-winning journalist, former NPR producer, and creator of the podcast Women Like Sex, who decided to actually fact-check the myths about female sexuality and hold them up against the evidence. Together we unmask nine of the sex myths women are still taught, where they come from, why they’re false, and what believing them is costing all of us in the bedroom. In this episode, we debunk:
This one went somewhere I didn’t expect, and it may be the most important conversation I’ve had on this show. Because these myths don’t stay in our heads, they walk into the bedroom with us, and you can’t have the sex life you want until you name them. Want the full breakdown of all nine myths, with the evidence that debunks each one? Read the complete guide on my website: Guest: Natasha Sinjanovic, host of Women Like Sex. Find her at womenlikesex.com and @WomenLikeSex. Sign up for my e-newsletter here: https://she-explores-life.ck.page/8a1d9ba932 Join me on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/annettebenedetti/ My YouTube is still down. But now you can catch ALL My Videos at Talksexwithannette.com Help me get my YouTube back! Please like and reshare my posts on X and LinkedIn and tag @teamYoutube requesting reinstatement. X: https://x.com/TalkSexAnnette/status/2093043800029741222?s=20 Get 15% Off Blended Orgasms at Womanizer.com with my code ANNETTE15! Go to https://talksexwithannette.com/go/sp/womanizer-blend The viral lemon-shaped toy everyone’s talking about — get 25% off with code ANNETTE25 at https://talksexwithannette.com/go/sp/hello-nancy-lem 🍋 Head to Only Fans or https://talksexwithannette.com/talk-sex-with-me/ to join. 15% Off With my Code Annette15 at myfirmtech.com/annettebenedetti Your New Favorite 365 Days of Orgasms Tool! 15% Off with code ANNETTE15 at Womanizer.com: https://talksexwithannette.com/go/sp/womanizer Watch on My Site: talksexwithannette.com
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| How To Explore Fantasy Together & Reignite Your Sex Life | 20 oct. 2026 | 00:16:56 | |
If your bedroom has gone quiet, settled into the same couple of moves on the same couple of nights, the fastest way back to heat isn’t a new position or a new toy. It’s fantasy. This week I’m giving you real, do-it-tonight tools for exploring fantasy together: how to figure out what your fantasies actually are (even if your honest answer right now is “I don’t know”), how to share them in a way that feels safe instead of scary, and a whole menu of low-pressure ways to start playing together. In This Episode, I Mentioned CHEEX. CHEEX is a sexual wellness platform where you can explore pleasure, desire, and sexuality in an open, aesthetic, and shame-free space. From beautifully made content to genuine sex education, CHEEX is built to help you discover what turns you on and feel good about it. New customers can try the annual membership free of charge for 7 days using my code. There’s no minimum term, you can cancel anytime, and you can choose the annual membership that fits you. And it’s the perfect companion to this episode, because CHEEX brings together everything you need to explore fantasy together in one place:
So as you work through today’s steps, CHEEX is a genuinely great tool for that “explore it together” part, watching, listening, and learning side by side with zero pressure. In this episode, you’ll learn:
Want the full written guide, plus all my other resources on dirty talk, kink, and keeping desire alive? Read the complete guide on my website: Sign up for my e-newsletter here: https://she-explores-life.ck.page/8a1d9ba932 Join me on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/annettebenedetti/ My YouTube is still down. But now you can catch ALL My Videos at Talksexwithannette.com Help me get my YouTube back! Please like and reshare my posts on X and LinkedIn and tag @teamYoutube requesting reinstatement. X: https://x.com/TalkSexAnnette/status/2093043800029741222?s=20 Get 15% Off Blended Orgasms at Womanizer.com with my code ANNETTE15! Go to https://talksexwithannette.com/go/sp/womanizer-blend Your New Favorite 365 Days of Orgasms Tool! 15% Off with code ANNETTE15 at Womanizer.com: https://talksexwithannette.com/go/sp/womanizer Watch on My Site: talksexwithannette.com
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| What Kind of Dom Are You? Every Type Explained. | 14 oct. 2026 | 01:08:59 | |
Think a dom is just leather, whips, and someone kneeling on the floor? You’re missing almost everything. Dominance isn’t one thing, it’s a whole spectrum, and this week I’m decoding all of it with Amanda Dames, better known as The Kink Consultant: a certified somatic sex and relationship coach, certified sexologist, and former professional dominatrix who’s been featured in Cosmopolitan and Women’s Health. Together we break down every type of dom so you can finally figure out which kind you are, or which kind you’re looking for. (And I’ll be honest, this one got personal, because I’m on my own search for my dom right now.) In this episode, you’ll learn:
Whether you want to be a dom or find one, you’ll walk away knowing exactly what lights you up, and how to go get it. Want the full breakdown, every type explained in detail, plus how to find your match? Read the complete guide on my website: Guest: Amanda Dames, The Kink Consultant, @The_KinkConsultant on Instagram. Visit her website: https://www.amandadames.com Sign up for my e-newsletter here: https://she-explores-life.ck.page/8a1d9ba932 Join me on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/annettebenedetti/ My YouTube is still down. But now you can catch ALL My Videos at Talksexwithannette.com Help me get my YouTube back! Please like and reshare my posts on X and LinkedIn and tag @teamYoutube requesting reinstatement. X: https://x.com/TalkSexAnnette/status/2093043800029741222?s=20 Get 15% Off Blended Orgasms at Womanizer.com with my code ANNETTE15! Go to https://talksexwithannette.com/go/sp/womanizer-blend The viral lemon-shaped toy everyone’s talking about — get 25% off with code ANNETTE25 at https://talksexwithannette.com/go/sp/hello-nancy-lem 🍋 Head to Only Fans or https://talksexwithannette.com/talk-sex-with-me/ to join. 15% Off With my Code Annette15 at myfirmtech.com/annettebenedetti Your New Favorite 365 Days of Orgasms Tool! 15% Off with code ANNETTE15 at Womanizer.com: https://talksexwithannette.com/go/sp/womanizer Watch on My Site: talksexwithannette.com
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| The 10 Most Common Kinks (You’re More Normal Than You Think) | 13 oct. 2026 | 00:12:39 | |
What gets you off probably isn’t nearly as rare as you think. We’re halfway through Kinktober, so this week I’m pulling back the curtain on the 10 most common kinks, from the mild to the wild, with real science-backed research along the way. I’m talking BDSM, foot fetishes, cuckolding, exhibitionism, furries, sploshing, sensory deprivation, medical play, age play, and yes, balloon-loving looners. Some of these will surprise you, some will make you laugh, and at least one will probably make you feel a lot more normal than you expected. In this episode, you’ll learn:
Whether you’re into bondage or balloons, you are not alone, and there’s probably a study explaining exactly why you’re into what you’re into. Want the full breakdown with all the research, every kink explained, and how to start exploring yours safely? Read the complete guide on my website: And if you want to explore your own kinks or figure out how to bring them to a partner, my intimacy coaching books are open, learn more at https://talksexwithannette.com. Sign up for my e-newsletter here: https://she-explores-life.ck.page/8a1d9ba932 Join me on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/annettebenedetti/ My YouTube is still down. But now you can catch ALL My Videos at Talksexwithannette.com Help me get my YouTube back! Please like and reshare my posts on X and LinkedIn and tag @teamYoutube requesting reinstatement. X: https://x.com/TalkSexAnnette/status/2093043800029741222?s=20 Get 15% Off Blended Orgasms at Womanizer.com with my code ANNETTE15! Go to https://talksexwithannette.com/go/sp/womanizer-blend Your New Favorite 365 Days of Orgasms Tool! 15% Off with code ANNETTE15 at Womanizer.com: https://talksexwithannette.com/go/sp/womanizer Watch on My Site: talksexwithannette.com
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| How to Fix a Dead Bedroom: A 31-Day Plan to Reignite Desire | 07 oct. 2026 | 00:52:15 | |
Your sex life isn't broken, it's just gone quiet. And quiet is fixable. This week I'm handing you an actual plan: a 31-day sex challenge to reignite desire, reconnect, and get curious again, no dramatic overhaul, no painful heart-to-heart, just one small, low-pressure invitation at a time. My guest is Alicia Sinclair, a certified sex educator with nearly 25 years in intimate wellness, founder and CEO of COTR (the company behind B-Vibe and Le Wand), and 2026 XBIZ Sexpert of the Year. Together we built you a real calendar you can follow, one nudge a day. In this episode, we break down:
Whether you've been together fifteen years or fifteen days, you'll have somewhere to start tonight, and a whole month mapped out after that. Most days cost nothing. All of them are low-pressure. Grab the full 31-day calendar, every prompt, plus the toys and discount codes we mention, right here: 🔥 BDSM Checklist: 107 Kinks and Limits to Rate With Your Partner Guest: Alicia Sinclair, @aliciasinclair. Her brands: B-Vibe, Le Wand, Cowgirl, and Together Toys. Grab my codes and every toy we talk about in my e-newsletter at talksexwithannette.com. My listeners should never pay full price for their pleasure. Until next time, I'll see you in the locker room. Cheers. Sign up for my e-newsletter here: https://she-explores-life.ck.page/8a1d9ba932 My YouTube is still down. But now you can catch ALL My Videos at Talksexwithannette.com Help me get my YouTube back! Please like and reshare my posts on X and LinkedIn and tag @teamYoutube requesting reinstatement. X: https://x.com/TalkSexAnnette/status/2093043800029741222?s=20 Catch ALL My Videos at Talksexwithannette.com And Substack: https://substack.com/@talksexwithannette Get 15% Off Blended Orgasms at Womanizer.com with my code ANNETTE15! Go to https://talksexwithannette.com/go/sp/womanizer-blend The viral lemon-shaped toy everyone’s talking about — get 25% off with code ANNETTE25 at https://talksexwithannette.com/go/sp/hello-nancy-lem 🍋 Head to Only Fans or https://talksexwithannette.com/talk-sex-with-me/ to join. Your New Favorite 365 Days of Orgasms Tool! 15% Off with code ANNETTE15 at Womanizer.com: https://talksexwithannette.com/go/sp/womanizer Watch on My Site: talksexwithannette.com
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| Nipplegasm: How to Have an Orgasm From Nipple Play | 05 oct. 2026 | 00:16:06 | |
Yes, nipple orgasms are real, and you can learn to have one. This week I'm breaking down the nipplegasm: a full orgasm, felt in the genitals, that starts entirely from nipple play. I had my first one through my own self-pleasure practice, so everything here comes from real experience plus the research. No gear required to start, and it works on any body with nipples. In this episode, I break down:
By the end, you'll know exactly how to have, or give, a nipplegasm, and have a whole new way to orgasm in your toolkit. Sign up for my e-newsletter here: https://she-explores-life.ck.page/8a1d9ba932 Want the full written guide, plus every toy and discount code I mention? Read it here: More from my clitoral pleasure set: My YouTube is still down. But now you can catch ALL My Videos at Talksexwithannette.com Help me get my YouTube back! Please like and reshare my posts on X and LinkedIn and tag @teamYoutube requesting reinstatement. X: https://x.com/TalkSexAnnette/status/2093043800029741222?s=20 Catch ALL My Videos at Talksexwithannette.com And Substack: https://substack.com/@talksexwithannette Get 15% Off Blended Orgasms at Womanizer.com with my code ANNETTE15! Go to https://talksexwithannette.com/go/sp/womanizer-blend Your New Favorite 365 Days of Orgasms Tool! 15% Off with code ANNETTE15 at Womanizer.com: https://talksexwithannette.com/go/sp/womanizer Watch on My Site: talksexwithannette.com
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| How to Build a Dom/Sub Dynamic Into Everyday Life (No Cuffs Required) | 30 sept. 2026 | 01:20:43 | |
Most people think dominance and submission means a dungeon full of gear, and they never get past the shopping list. This week I'm showing you the part that actually builds the heat. This is a foundational episode with power-exchange couple Auntie Carmen, the Desire Midwife, and her dom Linwood, the "dom domestic" who cooks, runs the house, and hands the power right back to her. You almost never get both halves of a real D/S couple in one room being this honest, and they hold nothing back (there's a zucchini story you won't forget). In this episode, I break down:
By the end, you'll have a real on-ramp into power exchange instead of a scary idea you never act on, and it's landing just in time for Kinktober. Want to see the full conversation? The video version is on my website, and you can grab every toy, lube, and discount code I mention in my e-newsletter at talksexwithannette.com. My listeners should never pay full price for their pleasure. Until next time, I'll see you in the locker room. Cheers. Guest: Auntie Carmen, the Desire Midwife, Find her at: https://shameproofyourdesires.com/ Sign up for my e-newsletter here:https://she-explores-life.ck.page/8a1d9ba932 Want the full written guides? Read them here: Catch ALL my videos at Talksexwithannette.com and Substack: https://substack.com/@talksexwithannette Get 15% Off Blended Orgasms at Womanizer.com with my code ANNETTE15! Go to https://talksexwithannette.com/go/sp/womanizer-blend The viral lemon-shaped toy everyone’s talking about — get 25% off with code ANNETTE25 at https://talksexwithannette.com/go/sp/hello-nancy-lem 🍋 Head to Only Fans or https://talksexwithannette.com/talk-sex-with-me/ to join. 15% Off With my Code Annette15 at myfirmtech.com/annettebenedetti Your New Favorite 365 Days of Orgasms Tool! 15% Off with code ANNETTE15 at Womanizer.com: https://talksexwithannette.com/go/sp/womanizer Watch on My Site: talksexwithannette.com
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| 20 Ways to Touch a Clit (& The One That Matters Most!) | 28 sept. 2026 | 00:21:18 | |
Most people know exactly one way to touch a clit, and they run it into the ground. This week I'm giving you twenty. This is the third in my clitoral pleasure set, right alongside my fingering guide and my yoni massage guide, and now that I'm off YouTube I get to be completely direct with you. No code, no tiptoeing, just the real, explicit how-to, from the softest warm-up all the way to the finish. In this episode, I break down:
By the end, you'll have a full toolkit instead of the one move you've been repeating, and you'll know how to give her the kind of orgasm she reschedules her whole week for. Want to see these demonstrated? The visual version of this episode is on my website, and I demo several of them live over on my OnlyFans. Grab my discount codes and every lube and toy I mention in my e-newsletter at talksexwithannette.com. My listeners should never pay full price for their pleasure. Until next time, I'll see you in the locker room. Cheers. Sign up for my e-newsletter here: https://she-explores-life.ck.page/8a1d9ba932 Want the full written guides? Read them here: My YouTube is still down. But now you can catch ALL My Videos at Talksexwithannette.com Help me get my YouTube back! Please like and reshare my posts on X and LinkedIn and tag @teamYoutube requesting reinstatement. X: https://x.com/TalkSexAnnette/status/2093043800029741222?s=20 Catch ALL My Videos at Talksexwithannette.com And Substack: https://substack.com/@talksexwithannette Get 15% Off Blended Orgasms at Womanizer.com with my code ANNETTE15! Go to https://talksexwithannette.com/go/sp/womanizer-blend Your New Favorite 365 Days of Orgasms Tool! 15% Off with code ANNETTE15 at Womanizer.com: https://talksexwithannette.com/go/sp/womanizer Watch on My Site: talksexwithannette.com
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| Cocks on Lockdown: How to Do Locktober (with Dominatrix Lucy) | 23 sept. 2026 | 01:25:35 | |
Curious about male chastity but have no idea where to start? This one's your guide. My resident dominatrix Lucy is back, and for the first time she's on camera showing the gear, to walk us through Locktober: the month-long challenge of keeping a cock locked up. We get into what male chastity actually is, why people love it (more affection, more anticipation, and yes, more chores getting done), and the part most people rush: how to choose a cage that actually fits without hurting anyone. Lucy breaks down the different cage types, the safety rules that are non-negotiable, keeping a key accessible, building up wear time slowly, watching for warning signs, and all the playful ways to keep both partners satisfied for a full month, from sheaths to teasing to handing over control for the day. Whether you're cage-curious or ready to lock up for the whole month, you'll leave this episode knowing how to do Locktober safely and actually enjoy it. In this episode:
Watch the full episode and read the complete guide at talksexwithannette.com. Here: https://talksexwithannette.com/advice/kink-bdsm/locktober-male-chastity/ Want the full video and written guides? Read them here:
My YouTube is still down. But now you can catch ALL My Videos at Talksexwithannette.com Help me get my YouTube back! Please like and reshare my posts on X and LinkedIn and tag @teamYoutube requesting reinstatement. X: https://x.com/TalkSexAnnette/status/2093043800029741222?s=20 Get 15% Off Blended Orgasms at Womanizer.com with my code ANNETTE15! Go to https://talksexwithannette.com/go/sp/womanizer-blend The viral lemon-shaped toy everyone’s talking about — get 25% off with code ANNETTE25 at https://talksexwithannette.com/go/sp/hello-nancy-lem 🍋 Head to Only Fans or https://talksexwithannette.com/talk-sex-with-me/ to join. 15% Off With my Code Annette15 at myfirmtech.com/annettebenedetti Your New Favorite 365 Days of Orgasms Tool! 15% Off with code ANNETTE15 at Womanizer.com: https://talksexwithannette.com/go/sp/womanizer Watch on My Site: talksexwithannette.com
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| Male Chastity 101: Can You Handle the Cage? (Locktober) | 21 sept. 2026 | 00:15:01 | |
What if the hottest thing he could do for you was not come? That's the whole dare of Locktober, and this week I'm walking you through male chastity from the ground up. It's one of the most misunderstood kinks out there, and also one of the most magnetic, because when you stop treating his orgasm as the finish line, sex turns into a shared playground and a whole lot of couples say they've never felt closer or more connected. This one's for the curious on both sides of the lock: the person thinking about wearing the cage, and the one who wants to hold the key. In this episode, I break down:
By the end, you'll know exactly how to try this without freaking out or messing it up, whether you want one night or all thirty days. Want the cage sizing and buying guide? It's in my e-newsletter, along with my discount codes and every link you need. My listeners should never pay full price for their pleasure. Until next time, I'll see you in the locker room. In fact, I'll be holding the key to it. Cheers. Sign up for my e-newsletter here: https://she-explores-life.ck.page/8a1d9ba932 Want the full written guides? Read them here:
My YouTube is still down. But now you can catch ALL My Videos at Talksexwithannette.com Help me get my YouTube back! Please like and reshare my posts on X and LinkedIn and tag @teamYoutube requesting reinstatement. X: https://x.com/TalkSexAnnette/status/2093043800029741222?s=20 Get 15% Off Blended Orgasms at Womanizer.com with my code ANNETTE15! Go to https://talksexwithannette.com/go/sp/womanizer-blend Your New Favorite 365 Days of Orgasms Tool! 15% Off with code ANNETTE15 at Womanizer.com: https://talksexwithannette.com/go/sp/womanizer Watch on My Site: talksexwithannette.com
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| One of You Wants Sex. One of You Doesn't. Here's How to Fix It | 16 sept. 2026 | 01:05:11 | |
One of you wants sex. One of you doesn't. And somewhere along the way, that gap stopped being a difference and turned into a fight you keep having with your clothes on. Here's what nobody tells you: the gap was never the problem. It's the two stories you each start telling — one of you hears "you don't want me anymore," the other hears "you only want me for sex and you don't see everything I'm carrying." Both of you feel powerless. Both of you decide the other one is what's broken. This week I sit down with Tarah and EJ Kerwin — a married couple, both licensed therapists, and co-founders of Relationship Renovation. They're living proof this is survivable: two people with all the clinical tools in the world who still spent the better part of a decade finding their way back to each other after four kids in eighteen months detonated the sex life they used to have. They're not here to tell you how many times a week you should be doing it. They're here to hand you the actual way back. In this episode:
Come as you are, bring your partner if you've got one, and know this: there's a path back to each other if you both want it. 🎧 Find Tarah & EJ at relationshiprenovation.com and on the Relationship Renovation podcast relationshiprenovation.com/podcast. My YouTube is still down. But now you can catch ALL My Videos at Talksexwithannette.com Help me get my YouTube back! Please like and reshare my posts on X and LinkedIn and tag @teamYoutube requesting reinstatement. X: https://x.com/TalkSexAnnette/status/2093043800029741222?s=20 Get 15% Off Blended Orgasms at Womanizer.com with my code ANNETTE15! Go to https://talksexwithannette.com/go/sp/womanizer-blend The viral lemon-shaped toy everyone’s talking about — get 25% off with code ANNETTE25 at https://talksexwithannette.com/go/sp/hello-nancy-lem 🍋 Head to Only Fans or https://talksexwithannette.com/talk-sex-with-me/ to join. 15% Off With my Code Annette15 at myfirmtech.com/annettebenedetti Your New Favorite 365 Days of Orgasms Tool! 15% Off with code ANNETTE15 at Womanizer.com: https://talksexwithannette.com/go/sp/womanizer Watch on My Site: talksexwithannette.com
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| Pegging For Beginners: A Couple's Guide | 15 sept. 2026 | 00:15:37 | |
Everybody assumes wanting this says something about who he is. It doesn't. He's got a prostate loaded with nerve endings — his own version of the spot everybody obsesses over in women — and it's been sitting there his whole life while he drove right past it. This week I'm handing you the couple's beginner guide to pegging. It's up 200% among straight couples, and the men brave enough to try it are having some of the deepest, most full-body orgasms of their lives. This one's for both of you — the partner curious about receiving it and too nervous to say so, and the partner who wants to give it and has no clue where to start. In this episode, I break down:
By the end, you'll go from a partner he'd never dare ask to the one brave enough to give him something most men never get to feel. Grab your discount codes and every toy I mention in my e-newsletter at talksexwithannette.com — my listeners should never pay full price for their pleasure. Until next time, I'll see you in the locker room. Cheers. Sign up for my e-newsletter here: https://she-explores-life.ck.page/8a1d9ba932 Want the full written guide? Read it here:
Help me get my YouTube back! Please like and reshare my posts on X and LinkedIn and tag @teamYoutube requesting reinstatement. X: https://x.com/TalkSexAnnette/status/2093043800029741222?s=20 Get 15% Off Blended Orgasms at Womanizer.com with my code ANNETTE15! Go to https://talksexwithannette.com/go/sp/womanizer-blend Your New Favorite 365 Days of Orgasms Tool! 15% Off with code ANNETTE15 at Womanizer.com: https://talksexwithannette.com/go/sp/womanizer Watch on My Site: talksexwithannette.com
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| What a Male Escort Knows About Her Desire That Most Men Don't | 09 sept. 2026 | 00:58:39 | |
There are things women want in bed they'll never say out loud — not to their husband, not to their boyfriend, not to anyone who actually knows them. But they'll say them to George. Women pay him for his time, but really they're paying for something else: a space safe enough to finally name a desire they've been holding their whole lives. And the thing he does to create that safety? Anyone can learn it. This week I sit down with George Goulburn — a professional male companion who left a 25-year corporate career to do this work, trained in consent, trauma-informed practice, tantra, and kink. He's sat with hundreds of women in the exact moment they finally drop their guard, and he's telling us who they really are, what they actually want, and how to build that same safety in your own bedroom. In this episode:
Bring a pen — and maybe your partner. This one's a jump-off point for the conversation you've been avoiding. 🎧 Find George at georgegoulburn.com and @georgegoulbournofficial on socials. Sign up for my e-newsetter here: https://she-explores-life.ck.page/8a1d9ba932 Catch ALL My Videos at Talksexwithannette.com Help me get my YouTube back! Please like and reshare my posts on X and Linked in and tag @teamYoutube requesting reinstatement. X: https://x.com/TalkSexAnnette/status/2093043800029741222?s=20 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/annette-benedetti-b8602342b/ And Substack: https://substack.com/@talksexwithannette Get 15% Off Blended Orgasms at Womanizer.com with my code ANNETTE15! Go to https://talksexwithannette.com/go/sp/womanizer-blend The viral lemon-shaped toy everyone’s talking about — get 25% off with code ANNETTE25 at https://talksexwithannette.com/go/sp/hello-nancy-lem 🍋 Head to Only Fans or https://talksexwithannette.com/talk-sex-with-me/ to join. 15% Off With my Code Annette15 at myfirmtech.com/annettebenedetti Your New Favorite 365 Days of Orgasms Tool! 15% Off with code ANNETTE15 at Womanizer.com: https://talksexwithannette.com/go/sp/womanizer Watch on My Site: talksexwithannette.com
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| How to Give Face Sitting So Good She Never Wants to Get Up | The Giver's Masterclass | 08 sept. 2026 | 00:19:04 | |
Everybody assumes the person on top has all the power. And sure — she's up there, she's on the throne, she's in charge. But the partner flat on his back underneath? He's the reason she wants to climb up there again, and again, and again. This week I'm handing you the giver's masterclass. If your whole plan when someone sits on your face is to hold still and hope, you're wasting the single hottest position you've got access to — because when she's up there, you get better access, a better angle, and every bit of her movement telling you exactly what she wants. You just have to know how to read it. In this episode, I break down:
By the end, you'll go from a partner the queen tolerates to the reason she wants to climb on the throne every single night. Grab your discount codes, props, and every toy I mention in my e-newsletter at talksexwithannette.com — my listeners should never pay full price for their pleasure. Until next time, I'll see you in the locker room. Cheers. Sign up for my e-newsetter here: https://she-explores-life.ck.page/8a1d9ba932 Want the full written guides? Read them here:
Help me get my YouTube back! Please like and reshare my posts on X and Linked in and tag @teamYoutube requesting reinstatement. X: https://x.com/TalkSexAnnette/status/2093043800029741222?s=20 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/annette-benedetti-b8602342b/ Catch ALL My Videos at Talksexwithannette.com And Substack: https://substack.com/@talksexwithannette Get 15% Off Blended Orgasms at Womanizer.com with my code ANNETTE15! Go to https://talksexwithannette.com/go/sp/womanizer-blend Your New Favorite 365 Days of Orgasms Tool! 15% Off with code ANNETTE15 at Womanizer.com: https://talksexwithannette.com/go/sp/womanizer Watch on My Site: talksexwithannette.com
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| The Scent of a Woman: Everything You Should Know About Her Vagina | 02 sept. 2026 | 00:50:00 | |
Almost every woman has wondered it in silence: Is my scent normal? Do I taste okay? Is something wrong with me down there? Almost none of us were ever given the information to answer — so we carry the worry straight into the bedroom, where it quietly steals our confidence and our pleasure. This week, we fix that. This is the owner's manual nobody handed you. I sit down with Wendy Strgar — vaginal microbiome health expert, lovologist, and founder of Good Clean Love, the company she started in her own kitchen to solve her own problems. We get into what's actually normal, what's not, and why understanding this body — yours or your partner's — is the foundation for everything good that happens in bed. In this episode:
Bring a pen — the takeaways are worth writing down. 🎧 Find Wendy at https://goodcleanlove.com/
Get 15% off when you shop Good Clean Love with code ANNETTE. Shop: https://goodcleanlove.com/ANNETTE Subscribe to my e-newsletter Here: https://she-explores-life.ck.page/8a1d9ba932 📩 Subscribe on Substack — get every new episode sent straight to your inbox: https://talksexwithannette.substack.com/ 💋 Want the explicit demos and deeper guides? Find me on OnlyFans — https://talksexwithannette.com/talk-sex-with-me/ Get 15% Off Blended Orgasms at Womanizer.com with my code ANNETTE15! Go to https://talksexwithannette.com/go/sp/womanizer-blend The viral lemon-shaped toy everyone’s talking about — get 25% off with code ANNETTE25 at https://talksexwithannette.com/go/sp/hello-nancy-lem 🍋 Head to Only Fans or https://talksexwithannette.com/talk-sex-with-me/ to join. Your New Favorite 365 Days of Orgasms Tool! 15% Off with code ANNETTE15 at Womanizer.com: https://talksexwithannette.com/go/sp/womanizer Watch on My Site: talksexwithannette.com
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| Double Penetration: Everything You've Been Too Afraid to Ask | 01 sept. 2026 | 00:22:07 | |
Sixty percent of people have fantasized about being filled two ways at once — and almost nobody says it out loud. This week, I'm changing that. This is your complete, no-shame beginner's guide to double penetration. I'm breaking down what it actually is, the real anatomy behind why it feels so intense (there's a reason it hits differently than anything else), and why it's just as good for the giving partner as the one receiving. Then I walk you through the whole staircase — how to explore it safely by yourself first, how to bring it into partnered play with one toy, and how to build up to a third person the right way. And I'm finally saying the quiet part out loud: why women are afraid to admit they want this, why men are afraid to bring it up, and why there's absolutely nothing shameful about wanting to feel that full. In this episode:
This is exactly the kind of guide I can finally give you completely now that I'm off YouTube — uncensored, in plain language, no decoding required. Help Me Get My YouTube Channel Back: https://www.buzzsprout.com/admin/1692988/episodes/19715188-help-me-save-talk-sex-with-annette-youtube-took-it-down Products mentioned in this episode (15% off with code ANNETTE15 at lovehoney.com & we-vibe.com):
▶️ Watch the full uncensored video version: https://talksexwithannette.com/double-penetration-guide/ Subscribe Here: https://she-explores-life.ck.page/8a1d9ba932 📩 Subscribe on Substack — get every new episode sent straight to your inbox: https://talksexwithannette.substack.com/ 💋 Want the explicit demos and deeper guides? Find me on OnlyFans — https://talksexwithannette.com/talk-sex-with-me/ Get 15% Off Blended Orgasms at Womanizer.com with my code ANNETTE15! Go to https://talksexwithannette.com/go/sp/womanizer-blend Your New Favorite 365 Days of Orgasms Tool! 15% Off with code ANNETTE15 at Womanizer.com: https://talksexwithannette.com/go/sp/womanizer Watch on My Site: talksexwithannette.com
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| Help Me Save Talk Sex With Annette (YouTube Took It Down) | 28 août 2026 | 00:09:20 | |
Thank you for listening. Here are the ways you can help: #1: Boost me on X/Twitter Go to the tweet and boost it now: https://x.com/TalkSexAnnette/status/2093043800029741222?s=20 #2: Send YouTube your feedback directly Individual feedback from real viewers is what triggers a manual human review. This takes 2 minutes. Open YouTube while signed in Here is a Template if you need one. You can change it and make it your own: "I'm requesting a review of the termination of Annette Benedetti's 'Talk Sex with Annette' channel. This was expert-led, science-based sexual health education — age-restricted, clinically grounded, and consistent with educational guidelines. This channel was an important resource for me and should not have been classified as explicit material. Please review and reinstate it: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC_0_oA_nWLLwLGZVsNJ-KSA More options:You can reshare my posts on Instagram, LinkedIn, and FB.You Can Still Watch My VideosThe good news is I SAVED ALL OF MY VIDEOS. I am working as fast as I can to get all of them back up somewhere safe where they can't be taken down. You can now watch all of my episodes on my Website at https://talksexwithannette.com/ You can also subscribe and watch them on https://talksexwithannette.substack.com/ where they will be published and sent directly to your inbox every week. Please subscribe to my E-newsletter so you don't miss a thing: https://she-explores-life.kit.com/e9760c390c Any support you give will be greatly appreciated. Get 15% Off Blended Orgasms at Womanizer.com with my code ANNETTE15! Go to https://talksexwithannette.com/go/sp/womanizer-blend Your New Favorite 365 Days of Orgasms Tool! 15% Off with code ANNETTE15 at Womanizer.com: https://talksexwithannette.com/go/sp/womanizer Watch on My Site: talksexwithannette.com
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| Surrender: The Secret to Her Best Orgasms (Why She Can't Let Go) | 26 août 2026 | 00:57:02 | |
She holds it all together all day — the job, the kids, the house, everyone’s emotional weather. Then she gets into bed and still can’t stop managing. And orgasm requires the one thing she’s trained herself never to do: let go. This week I sit down with Regina Thomashauer, better known as Mama Gena, founder of the School of Womanly Arts, New York Times bestselling author of Pussy: A Reclamation, and author of the new book On Our Knees. We get into why control quietly costs a woman her pleasure, and why surrender — not submission, not collapse — is the doorway back to her own body. In this episode:
This one got vulnerable. Bring a pen — you’ll want to write the practices down. 🎧 Find Regina at mamagenas.com and @mamagena on Instagram. Get On Our Knees wherever you buy books and on Amazon 📩Check out my video content at https://talksexwithannette.com/ Subscribe to my FREE Substack to receive my video episodes right in your inbox every week: https://talksexwithannette.substack.com/ Join in my 365 Days of Orgasms Journey Here: https://talksexwithannette.com/365-days-of-orgasms/ annette@talksexwithannette.com 📩Sign Up for My Newsletter: https://she-explores-life.kit.com/e9760c390c Subscribe to my OF: https://talksexwithannette.com/talk-sex-with-m/ Get 15% Off Blended Orgasms at Womanizer.com with my code ANNETTE15! Go to https://talksexwithannette.com/go/sp/womanizer-blend The viral lemon-shaped toy everyone’s talking about — get 25% off with code ANNETTE25 at https://talksexwithannette.com/go/sp/hello-nancy-lem 🍋 Head to Only Fans or https://talksexwithannette.com/talk-sex-with-me/ to join. 15% Off With my Code Annette15 at myfirmtech.com/annettebenedetti Your New Favorite 365 Days of Orgasms Tool! 15% Off with code ANNETTE15 at Womanizer.com: https://talksexwithannette.com/go/sp/womanizer Watch on My Site: talksexwithannette.com
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| 5 Things Men Are Told About Sex That Are Killing Her Desire | 25 août 2026 | 00:21:07 | |
There's an entire ocean of online content teaching men about sex and women — and a huge amount of it is written by people who have no idea what they're talking about. Today I'm grading five pieces of the worst advice men are being fed, and giving you what actually works instead. Savage on the advice. Kind to the men who got fed it. What you'll learn: 📩Check out my video content at https://talksexwithannette.com/ Subscribe to my FREE Substack to receive my video episodes right in your inbox every week: https://talksexwithannette.substack.com/ Join in my 365 Days of Orgasms Journey Here: https://talksexwithannette.com/365-days-of-orgasms/ annette@talksexwithannette.com 📩Sign Up for My Newsletter: https://she-explores-life.kit.com/e9760c390c Subscribe to my OF: https://talksexwithannette.com/talk-sex-with-m/ Get 15% Off Blended Orgasms at Womanizer.com with my code ANNETTE15! Go to https://talksexwithannette.com/go/sp/womanizer-blend Your New Favorite 365 Days of Orgasms Tool! 15% Off with code ANNETTE15 at Womanizer.com: https://talksexwithannette.com/go/sp/womanizer Watch on My Site: talksexwithannette.com
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| Cock Worship: The Bedroom Move That's Hot for BOTH of You | 19 août 2026 | 01:02:20 | |
Everybody knows men want to be worshipped in bed. That's not news. The real question — the one nobody asks — is what's in it for the person doing the worshipping. Because done right, cock worship isn't a favor. It isn't service with a fake smile. It's one of the hottest things you can do for your own pleasure — slow, powerful, deeply erotic, and the giver holds all the control. Elle and Vee from Girls Gone Deep join me to break it all down: what phallus worship actually is, why it feels incredible on both sides, the healing it offers men carrying shame about their bodies, and then the full step-by-step how-to — setup, touch, the words, cock warming, aftercare — everything you need to try it tonight. In this episode:
🔗 Find Elle & Vee: https://www.girlsgonedeep.com/ 🎙️ Connect with Me Subscribe for new episodes every week, and drop a comment if this helped. Join in my 365 Days of Orgasms Journey Here: https://talksexwithannette.com/365-days-of-orgasms/ 📩 annette@talksexwithannette.com 📩Sign Up for My Newsletter: https://she-explores-life.kit.com/e9760c390c Subscribe to my OF: https://talksexwithannette.com/talk-sex-with-m/ Get 15% Off Blended Orgasms at Womanizer.com with my code ANNETTE15! Go to https://talksexwithannette.com/go/sp/womanizer-blend The viral lemon-shaped toy everyone’s talking about — get 25% off with code ANNETTE25 at https://talksexwithannette.com/go/sp/hello-nancy-lem 🍋 Head to Only Fans or https://talksexwithannette.com/talk-sex-with-me/ to join. 15% Off With my Code Annette15 at myfirmtech.com/annettebenedetti Your New Favorite 365 Days of Orgasms Tool! 15% Off with code ANNETTE15 at Womanizer.com: https://talksexwithannette.com/go/sp/womanizer Watch on My Site: talksexwithannette.com
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| How to Give Her a Cervical Orgasm She'll Feel Everywhere | 17 août 2026 | 00:16:10 | |
The cervical orgasm is often described as the deepest, most full-body climax a woman can experience — and it's the one the fewest people know how to reach. First studied in depth by researchers mapping how different kinds of stimulation affect the brain, it turns out the cervix has its own distinct pleasure pathway, wired directly to the brain through the vagus nerve. This is a complete educational guide to understanding it — including the safety essentials most videos leave out. What you'll learn: ✔ What a cervical orgasm is and why it feels different from every other kind ✔ The vagus-nerve science behind its full-body, rolling sensation This is an educational sexual-wellness video intended for adult audiences. My toy picks for this episode — We-Vibe Rave 2 https://talksexwithannette.com/go/ss/we-vibe-rave-2 (for depth) & Womanizer Next Liberty (for the clitoral blend) https://womanizer-north-america.sjv.io/VmvR9J: 15% off with code ANNETTE15 🎙️ Connect with Me Subscribe for new episodes every week, and drop a comment if this helped. Join in my 365 Days of Orgasms Journey Here: https://talksexwithannette.com/365-days-of-orgasms/ Watch 365 Days Playlist on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=b2D5TFyt2Q8&list=PL9sLRET3FJyVns_2_wXvOoGrBeHyU1DDp 📩Sign Up for My Newsletter: https://she-explores-life.kit.com/e9760c390c 🎧 Subscribe for weekly sex and intimacy how-tos on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@talksexwithannette Subscribe to my OF: https://talksexwithannette.com/talk-sex-with-m/ Get 15% Off Blended Orgasms at Womanizer.com with my code ANNETTE15! Go to https://talksexwithannette.com/go/sp/womanizer-blend Your New Favorite 365 Days of Orgasms Tool! 15% Off with code ANNETTE15 at Womanizer.com: https://talksexwithannette.com/go/sp/womanizer Watch on My Site: talksexwithannette.com
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| The Kinks Couple's Secretly Want & How to Actually Try Them | 12 août 2026 | 00:59:14 | |
Every couple has them — the things they're curious about but have never said out loud. Today we're pulling them into the light. Deborah Kat — certified tantric educator, relationship coach, and host of the Better Sex podcast — walks us through the three categories couples are most curious about right now, and the part that matters most: exactly how to bring them up with your partner without it landing weird or killing the mood. In this episode:
🔗 Find Deborah: https://www.deborahkat.com/ | Better Sex podcast | @deborahtantrakat Deb's Free Gift! https://www.deborahkat.com/relationship-lab-opt 🎙️ Connect with Me Subscribe for new episodes every week, and drop a comment if this helped. Join in my 365 Days of Orgasms Journey Here: https://talksexwithannette.com/365-days-of-orgasms/ Watch 365 Days Playlist on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=b2D5TFyt2Q8&list=PL9sLRET3FJyVns_2_wXvOoGrBeHyU1DDp 📩Sign Up for My Newsletter: https://she-explores-life.kit.com/e9760c390c 🎧 Subscribe for weekly sex and intimacy how-tos on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@talksexwithannette Subscribe to my OF: https://talksexwithannette.com/talk-sex-with-m/ Get 15% Off Blended Orgasms at Womanizer.com with my code ANNETTE15! Go to https://talksexwithannette.com/go/sp/womanizer-blend The viral lemon-shaped toy everyone’s talking about — get 25% off with code ANNETTE25 at https://talksexwithannette.com/go/sp/hello-nancy-lem 🍋 Head to Only Fans or https://talksexwithannette.com/talk-sex-with-me/ to join. 15% Off With my Code Annette15 at myfirmtech.com/annettebenedetti Your New Favorite 365 Days of Orgasms Tool! 15% Off with code ANNETTE15 at Womanizer.com: https://talksexwithannette.com/go/sp/womanizer Watch on My Site: talksexwithannette.com
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| THE A-SPOT: HER DEEPEST ORGASM (AND HOW TO REACH IT) | 10 août 2026 | 00:16:47 | |
The A-spot, or anterior fornix, is a deep erogenous zone on the front vaginal wall that many people have never learned about. First identified in clinical research in 1997, it's associated with increased natural lubrication, heightened arousal, and deeper, more full-body pleasure. This is a complete educational guide to understanding and locating it — whether you're exploring your own body or learning with a partner. What you'll learn: This is an educational sexual-wellness video intended for adult audiences. Subscribe for evidence-based episodes on intimacy, pleasure, and connection. Here is a link to my Womanizer Duo 2 Review: https://youtu.be/a_gMOi---ZQ Here is the link to the Womanizer Duo 2 use ANNETTE15 for 15% Off Here: https://talksexwithannette.com/go/apple/womanizer-duo-2 Here is the link to my We-Vibe Rave 2 reveiw: https://youtu.be/JE_Q9F5otpI Here is the link to the Rave 2 use ANNETTE15 for 15% Off Here: https://talksexwithannette.com/go/apple/we-vibe-rave-2 🎙️ Connect with Me Subscribe for new episodes every week, and drop a comment if this helped. Join in my 365 Days of Orgasms Journey Here: https://talksexwithannette.com/365-days-of-orgasms/ Watch 365 Days Playlist on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=b2D5TFyt2Q8&list=PL9sLRET3FJyVns_2_wXvOoGrBeHyU1DDp 📩Sign Up for My Newsletter: https://she-explores-life.kit.com/e9760c390c 🎧 Subscribe for weekly sex and intimacy how-tos on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@talksexwithannette Subscribe to my OF: https://talksexwithannette.com/talk-sex-with-m/ Get 15% Off Blended Orgasms at Womanizer.com with my code ANNETTE15! Go to https://talksexwithannette.com/go/sp/womanizer-blend Your New Favorite 365 Days of Orgasms Tool! 15% Off with code ANNETTE15 at Womanizer.com: https://talksexwithannette.com/go/sp/womanizer Watch on My Site: talksexwithannette.com
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| The Good Girl Trap: Why So Many Women Never Feel Sexually Free | 05 août 2026 | 00:43:28 | |
What if the woman you're with isn't "low libido" or "vanilla" at all? What if she's spent her entire life being taught that wanting sex, enjoying pleasure, or expressing desire makes her a "bad woman"? In this eye-opening conversation, I'm joined by sexologist and researcher Chanelle Jolly Marshall to unpack the hidden cultural conditioning that keeps so many women disconnected from their sexuality—and how it quietly impacts relationships, desire, intimacy, and pleasure. We dive into:
Whether you're a woman trying to understand your own relationship with desire or a partner wondering why intimacy feels difficult, this episode offers compassionate, research-backed insights that can change the way you think about sex forever. 💬 I'd love to hear from you: What's one message about sex you were taught growing up that you're still unlearning? Let me know in the comments. ❤️ If you enjoyed this episode, please Like, Subscribe, and Share. It helps more people find honest, shame-free conversations about sex and relationships. Connect with Chanelle Jaali Marshall 📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jaali_co 🎙️ Connect with Me Subscribe for new episodes every week, and drop a comment if this helped. Join in my 365 Days of Orgasms Journey Here: https://talksexwithannette.com/365-days-of-orgasms/ Watch 365 Days Playlist on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=b2D5TFyt2Q8&list=PL9sLRET3FJyVns_2_wXvOoGrBeHyU1DDp 📩Sign Up for My Newsletter: https://she-explores-life.kit.com/e9760c390c 🎧 Subscribe for weekly sex and intimacy how-tos on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@talksexwithannette Subscribe to my OF: https://talksexwithannette.com/talk-sex-with-m/ Get 15% Off Blended Orgasms at Womanizer.com with my code ANNETTE15! Go to https://talksexwithannette.com/go/sp/womanizer-blend The viral lemon-shaped toy everyone’s talking about — get 25% off with code ANNETTE25 at https://talksexwithannette.com/go/sp/hello-nancy-lem 🍋 Head to Only Fans or https://talksexwithannette.com/talk-sex-with-me/ to join. Your New Favorite 365 Days of Orgasms Tool! 15% Off with code ANNETTE15 at Womanizer.com: https://talksexwithannette.com/go/sp/womanizer Watch on My Site: talksexwithannette.com
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| Say This And Unleash Her Kinky Side! the Dirty Talk Cheat Sheet! | 03 août 2026 | 00:16:51 | |
Almost every woman has a kinky side she's never shown you — not because she doesn't trust you, but because she's waiting to find out if it's safe. This is the cheat sheet for using your words to unlock her fantasies. What you'll learn: Subscribe for new episodes every week, and drop a comment if this helped. Join in my 365 Days of Orgasms Journey Here: https://talksexwithannette.com/365-days-of-orgasms/ Watch 365 Days Playlist on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=b2D5TFyt2Q8&list=PL9sLRET3FJyVns_2_wXvOoGrBeHyU1DDp 📩Sign Up for My Newsletter: https://she-explores-life.kit.com/e9760c390c 🎧 Subscribe for weekly sex and intimacy how-tos on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@talksexwithannette Subscribe to my OF: https://talksexwithannette.com/talk-sex-with-m/ Get 15% Off Blended Orgasms at Womanizer.com with my code ANNETTE15! Go to https://talksexwithannette.com/go/sp/womanizer-blend Your New Favorite 365 Days of Orgasms Tool! 15% Off with code ANNETTE15 at Womanizer.com: https://talksexwithannette.com/go/sp/womanizer Watch on My Site: talksexwithannette.com
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| She Built an AI Lover to Heal. Then Had the Best Sex of Her Life | 29 juil. 2026 | 00:51:51 | |
What if AI could actually help you heal your sex life — and have the best sex of your life on the other side? Women recovering from sexual trauma, bad relationships, and years of performing instead of feeling are turning to AI sexual companions — and what's happening is not what anyone expected. Today's guest didn't just use one. She built one. Morgan Hewett — two-time founder, former Meta, Harvard Business School grad, and founder and CEO of Devin — joins me to break down what these companions actually are, why women are turning to them, and what it does for their real sex lives with real partners. In this episode:
🔗 Find Morgan & Devin: Subscribe for new episodes every week, and drop a comment if this helped. Join in my 365 Days of Orgasms Journey Here: https://talksexwithannette.com/365-days-of-orgasms/ Watch 365 Days Playlist on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=b2D5TFyt2Q8&list=PL9sLRET3FJyVns_2_wXvOoGrBeHyU1DDp 📩Sign Up for My Newsletter: https://she-explores-life.kit.com/e9760c390c 🎧 Subscribe for weekly sex and intimacy how-tos on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@talksexwithannette Subscribe to my OF: https://talksexwithannette.com/talk-sex-with-m/ Get 15% Off Blended Orgasms at Womanizer.com with my code ANNETTE15! Go to https://talksexwithannette.com/go/sp/womanizer-blend The viral lemon-shaped toy everyone’s talking about — get 25% off with code ANNETTE25 at https://talksexwithannette.com/go/sp/hello-nancy-lem 🍋 Head to Only Fans or https://talksexwithannette.com/talk-sex-with-me/ to join. Your New Favorite 365 Days of Orgasms Tool! 15% Off with code ANNETTE15 at Womanizer.com: https://talksexwithannette.com/go/sp/womanizer Watch on My Site: talksexwithannette.com
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| How to Beat Performance Anxiety in Bed — The 5-Move Reset | 27 juil. 2026 | 00:19:06 | |
The harder you try to make it work, the worse it gets — and that's not in your head, it's how your body is wired. An erection runs on the calm half of your nervous system, so the second you start monitoring it, you kill it. This is the five-move reset that gets you out of your head and back into your body, tonight. What you'll learn: TechRing & RingMate linked below with my full review. Code ANNETTE15 for 15% off: https://myfirmtech.com/pages/annette Subscribe for new episodes every week, and drop a comment if this helped. Join in my 365 Days of Orgasms Journey Here: https://talksexwithannette.com/365-days-of-orgasms/ Watch 365 Days Playlist on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=b2D5TFyt2Q8&list=PL9sLRET3FJyVns_2_wXvOoGrBeHyU1DDp 📩Sign Up for My Newsletter: https://she-explores-life.kit.com/e9760c390c 🎧 Subscribe for weekly sex and intimacy how-tos on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@talksexwithannette Subscribe to my OF: https://talksexwithannette.com/talk-sex-with-m/ Get 15% Off Blended Orgasms at Womanizer.com with my code ANNETTE15! Go to https://talksexwithannette.com/go/sp/womanizer-blend Your New Favorite 365 Days of Orgasms Tool! 15% Off with code ANNETTE15 at Womanizer.com: https://talksexwithannette.com/go/sp/womanizer Watch on My Site: talksexwithannette.com
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| How to Get Her Wet Again: A Gynecologist's Fix for Midlife Sex | 22 juil. 2026 | 00:48:35 | |
She starts avoiding sex. He takes it personally. Nobody says a word. That silence has a name — the Bedroom Gap — and the gynecologist who coined the term is here with the fix. Dr. Maria Sophocles — board-certified gynecologist with 30 years in menopause and female sexual health, author of The Bedroom Gap, and TED speaker with 1.3M+ views — breaks down exactly what's happening in her body, why his fix (the pill) made her problem worse, and how to bring pleasure back at any age. In this episode:
🔗 Find Dr. Sophocles: Join in my 365 Days of Orgasms Journey Here: https://talksexwithannette.com/365-days-of-orgasms/ Watch 365 Days Playlist on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=b2D5TFyt2Q8&list=PL9sLRET3FJyVns_2_wXvOoGrBeHyU1DDp 📩Sign Up for My Newsletter: https://she-explores-life.kit.com/e9760c390c 🎧 Subscribe for weekly sex and intimacy how-tos on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@talksexwithannette Subscribe to my OF: https://talksexwithannette.com/talk-sex-with-m/ Get 15% Off Blended Orgasms at Womanizer.com with my code ANNETTE15! Go to https://talksexwithannette.com/go/sp/womanizer-blend The viral lemon-shaped toy everyone’s talking about — get 25% off with code ANNETTE25 at https://talksexwithannette.com/go/sp/hello-nancy-lem 🍋 Head to Only Fans or https://talksexwithannette.com/talk-sex-with-me/ to join. Your New Favorite 365 Days of Orgasms Tool! 15% Off with code ANNETTE15 at Womanizer.com: https://talksexwithannette.com/go/sp/womanizer Watch on My Site: talksexwithannette.com
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| What To Do After You Come — She's Hoping You Know This | 20 juil. 2026 | 00:18:16 | |
Round two isn't just possible — it might be the best sex she's ever had. Even if you already finished, even if you finished before she did, the night isn't over. This episode is the full playbook for the second half: the real science of the recovery window, why it's more in your control than you think, what to do the moment you soften, and the one thing to do in round one that makes going again effortless. What you'll learn: Firmtech Ring (ANNETTE15 for 15% Off): https://myfirmtech.com/annettebenedetti Womanizer for the Enhance (ANNETTE15 for 15% Off): https://talksexwithannette.com/go/sp/womanizer How to Stay Hard When You Have Slow Sex: https://youtu.be/iHqgEO1BDU0 Join in my 365 Days of Orgasms Journey Here: https://talksexwithannette.com/365-days-of-orgasms/ Watch 365 Days Playlist on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=b2D5TFyt2Q8&list=PL9sLRET3FJyVns_2_wXvOoGrBeHyU1DDp 📩Sign Up for My Newsletter: https://she-explores-life.kit.com/e9760c390c 🎧 Subscribe for weekly sex and intimacy how-tos on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@talksexwithannette Subscribe to my OF: https://talksexwithannette.com/talk-sex-with-m/ Get 15% Off Blended Orgasms at Womanizer.com with my code ANNETTE15! Go to https://talksexwithannette.com/go/sp/womanizer-blend Your New Favorite 365 Days of Orgasms Tool! 15% Off with code ANNETTE15 at Womanizer.com: https://talksexwithannette.com/go/sp/womanizer Watch on My Site: talksexwithannette.com
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| Why Powerful Men Pay a Dominatrix to Take Control (Most Men Will Never Admit This) | 15 juil. 2026 | 00:51:24 | |
Mistress Marley — professional dominatrix, financial domination specialist, and founder of Haus of Dominance, where she's taught over 10,000 students — breaks down what men are actually paying for, what submission really means, and how to explore giving up control in your own bedroom. In this episode:
Find Mistress Marley: https://www.servemistressmarley.com/ Join in my 365 Days of Orgasms Journey Here: https://talksexwithannette.com/365-days-of-orgasms/ Watch 365 Days Playlist on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=b2D5TFyt2Q8&list=PL9sLRET3FJyVns_2_wXvOoGrBeHyU1DDp 📩Sign Up for My Newsletter: https://she-explores-life.kit.com/e9760c390c 🎧 Subscribe for weekly sex and intimacy how-tos on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@talksexwithannette Subscribe to my OF: https://talksexwithannette.com/talk-sex-with-m/ Get 15% Off Blended Orgasms at Womanizer.com with my code ANNETTE15! Go to https://talksexwithannette.com/go/sp/womanizer-blend The viral lemon-shaped toy everyone’s talking about — get 25% off with code ANNETTE25 at https://talksexwithannette.com/go/sp/hello-nancy-lem 🍋 Head to Only Fans or https://talksexwithannette.com/talk-sex-with-me/ to join. Your New Favorite 365 Days of Orgasms Tool! 15% Off with code ANNETTE15 at Womanizer.com: https://talksexwithannette.com/go/sp/womanizer Watch on My Site: talksexwithannette.com
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| 5 Steps to Anal She'll Actually Love (Most Couples Rush #1) | 14 juil. 2026 | 00:19:48 | |
Anal is one of the most searched sex topics on the internet — and one of the least talked about in actual bedrooms. Everyone's curious. Almost nobody's saying it out loud. This episode is for both of you: the woman who's curious and never said it, and the partner who wants to ask without making it weird. The conversation (including the ten seconds that decide everything), the safety rules nobody explains properly, why her body is genuinely wired to love this, and the five steps from curious to craving it — on her timeline, built around her pleasure. What you'll learn: Subscribe for new episodes on desire, pleasure, and becoming the partner she can't stop thinking about. Join in my 365 Days of Orgasms Journey Here: https://talksexwithannette.com/365-days-of-orgasms/ Watch 365 Days Playlist on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=b2D5TFyt2Q8&list=PL9sLRET3FJyVns_2_wXvOoGrBeHyU1DDp 📩Sign Up for My Newsletter: https://she-explores-life.kit.com/e9760c390c 🎧 Subscribe for weekly sex and intimacy how-tos on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@talksexwithannette Subscribe to my OF: https://talksexwithannette.com/talk-sex-with-m/ Get 15% Off Blended Orgasms at Womanizer.com with my code ANNETTE15! Go to https://talksexwithannette.com/go/sp/womanizer-blend Your New Favorite 365 Days of Orgasms Tool! 15% Off with code ANNETTE15 at Womanizer.com: https://talksexwithannette.com/go/sp/womanizer Watch on My Site: talksexwithannette.com
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| She Checks Out During Sex. Here's Why — And How to Bring Her Back | 08 juil. 2026 | 00:47:22 | |
You've felt it. That moment mid-sex when she goes somewhere you can't follow. She's still moving — but she's gone. It's called dissociation. It's not about you, it's not about attraction, and it's not permanent. Vanessa Cushing — AASECT Certified Sex Therapist and founder of Cushing Counseling and Sex Therapy Pro — breaks down what's actually happening and how to bring her back. And this one took a turn I didn't expect: men dissociate too. It just looks completely different. In this episode:
Find Vanessa Cushing Here: https://www.cushingcounseling.com/ Join in my 365 Days of Orgasms Journey Here: https://talksexwithannette.com/365-days-of-orgasms/ Watch 365 Days Playlist on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=b2D5TFyt2Q8&list=PL9sLRET3FJyVns_2_wXvOoGrBeHyU1DDp 📩Sign Up for My Newsletter: https://she-explores-life.kit.com/e9760c390c 🎧 Subscribe for weekly sex and intimacy how-tos on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@talksexwithannette Subscribe to my OF: https://talksexwithannette.com/talk-sex-with-m/ Get 15% Off Blended Orgasms at Womanizer.com with my code ANNETTE15! Go to https://talksexwithannette.com/go/sp/womanizer-blend The viral lemon-shaped toy everyone’s talking about — get 25% off with code ANNETTE25 at https://talksexwithannette.com/go/sp/hello-nancy-lem 🍋 Head to Only Fans or https://talksexwithannette.com/talk-sex-with-me/ to join. Your New Favorite 365 Days of Orgasms Tool! 15% Off with code ANNETTE15 at Womanizer.com: https://talksexwithannette.com/go/sp/womanizer Watch on My Site: talksexwithannette.com
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| The 5-Step Mouth & Hands Technique for Blended Orgasms | 06 juil. 2026 | 00:17:51 | |
In this episode, we break down the 5-step Mouth & Hands technique for blended orgasms—a simple, intentional way to combine oral and manual stimulation so the experience feels more connected, more consistent, and more intense. Most people switch between techniques instead of combining them. But when you learn how to coordinate your mouth and hands, everything changes in how her arousal builds and how her body responds. I walk you through:
If you’ve ever felt like you were doing a lot but not getting the reaction you expected, this episode will shift how you approach foreplay entirely. Link to the Womanizer Enhance Code ANNETTE15 for 15% Off at Womanizer: https://talksexwithannette.com/go/sp/womanizer Catch my Edging Episode: https://youtu.be/vhuayH9cBzY Get 15% Off Blended Orgasms at Womanizer.com with my code ANNETTE15! Go to https://talksexwithannette.com/go/sp/womanizer-blend Your New Favorite 365 Days of Orgasms Tool! 15% Off with code ANNETTE15 at Womanizer.com: https://talksexwithannette.com/go/sp/womanizer Watch on My Site: talksexwithannette.com
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| Bi Girls Guide To Better Sex: Inside Secrets That Blow Her Mind | 01 juil. 2026 | 01:04:06 | |
Two bi women. One podcast. A real guide to better sex built from the inside out. Bi women know something about pleasuring women that most people never figure out. Because they've been on both sides — they know what it feels like to receive, and they know what it takes to give it well. That combination is a cheat code. And today we're handing it over. Samia Mounts — queer, non-binary writer, actor, and host of Happy Slut podcast — joins me to share what bi and pan women know about the female body, desire, and pleasure that most people spend a lifetime missing. In this episode:
🔗 Find Samia: https://www.instagram.com/samia.mounts https://samiamounts.substack.com/ Join in my 365 Days of Orgasms Journey Here: https://talksexwithannette.com/365-days-of-orgasms/ Watch 365 Days Playlist on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=b2D5TFyt2Q8&list=PL9sLRET3FJyVns_2_wXvOoGrBeHyU1DDp 📩Sign Up for My Newsletter: https://she-explores-life.kit.com/e9760c390c 🎧 Subscribe for weekly sex and intimacy how-tos on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@talksexwithannette Subscribe to my OF: https://talksexwithannette.com/talk-sex-with-m/ 🎧 Subscribe for weekly sex and intimacy how-tos on YouTube: Get 15% Off Blended Orgasms at Womanizer.com with my code ANNETTE15! Go to https://talksexwithannette.com/go/sp/womanizer-blend The viral lemon-shaped toy everyone’s talking about — get 25% off with code ANNETTE25 at https://talksexwithannette.com/go/sp/hello-nancy-lem 🍋 Head to Only Fans or https://talksexwithannette.com/talk-sex-with-me/ to join. 15% Off With my Code Annette15 at myfirmtech.com/annettebenedetti Your New Favorite 365 Days of Orgasms Tool! 15% Off with code ANNETTE15 at Womanizer.com: https://talksexwithannette.com/go/sp/womanizer Watch on My Site: talksexwithannette.com
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| 5 Spanking Fantasies She Has — And Exactly How to Give Her Each One | 30 juin 2026 | 00:17:43 | |
Up to 60% of women have fantasized about being dominated — and almost none of them have said it out loud. This one's for the men who want to deliver what she's been replaying in her head and never asked for. Five spanking fantasies, the psychology behind each, and exactly how to make them land sexy instead of awkward — including how to talk about it first, how to keep it safe, and the aftercare most men skip. What you'll learn: ✔ How to bring it up so she actually says yes — and why consent makes her let go Subscribe for new episodes on desire, pleasure, and becoming the partner she can't stop thinking about. Join in my 365 Days of Orgasms Journey Here: https://talksexwithannette.com/365-days-of-orgasms/ Watch 365 Days Playlist on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=b2D5TFyt2Q8&list=PL9sLRET3FJyVns_2_wXvOoGrBeHyU1DDp 📩Sign Up for My Newsletter: https://she-explores-life.kit.com/e9760c390c 🎧 Subscribe for weekly sex and intimacy how-tos on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@talksexwithannette Subscribe to my OF: https://talksexwithannette.com/talk-sex-with-m/ 🎧 Subscribe for weekly sex and intimacy how-tos on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@talksexwithannette Get 15% Off Blended Orgasms at Womanizer.com with my code ANNETTE15! Go to https://talksexwithannette.com/go/sp/womanizer-blend Your New Favorite 365 Days of Orgasms Tool! 15% Off with code ANNETTE15 at Womanizer.com: https://talksexwithannette.com/go/sp/womanizer Watch on My Site: talksexwithannette.com
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| Pegging Is Up 200% Among Straight Men Here's Why & How to Do It | 24 juin 2026 | 00:51:47 | |
He's googling it at 2 AM and erasing his search history. Because he still thinks wanting to be pegged means something about who he is. It doesn't. And tonight we're blowing that myth wide open. Interest in pegging among straight men is up 200% according to Feeld's 2025 annual report. Not in some dark corner of the internet — on mainstream dating apps. Men are putting it on their sexual bucket lists, bringing it up on second dates, and still going silent when it matters most. Today I sat down with Luna Matatas — sex and pleasure educator with over two decades of experience and the creator of Peg the Patriarchy — to talk about what pegging actually is, what men are really asking for when they ask for it, and what women get out of strapping it on. In this episode:
🔗 Find Luna: https://lunamatatas.com/en-us | @lunamatatas Join in my 365 Days of Orgasms Journey Here: https://talksexwithannette.com/365-days-of-orgasms/ Watch 365 Days Playlist on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=b2D5TFyt2Q8&list=PL9sLRET3FJyVns_2_wXvOoGrBeHyU1DDp 📩Sign Up for My Newsletter: https://she-explores-life.kit.com/e9760c390c 🎧 Subscribe for weekly sex and intimacy how-tos on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@talksexwithannette Subscribe to my OF: https://talksexwithannette.com/talk-sex-with-m/ 🎧 Subscribe for weekly sex and intimacy how-tos on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@talksexwithannette Get 15% Off Blended Orgasms at Womanizer.com with my code ANNETTE15! Go to https://talksexwithannette.com/go/sp/womanizer-blend The viral lemon-shaped toy everyone’s talking about — get 25% off with code ANNETTE25 at https://talksexwithannette.com/go/sp/hello-nancy-lem 🍋 Head to Only Fans or https://talksexwithannette.com/talk-sex-with-me/ to join. Your New Favorite 365 Days of Orgasms Tool! 15% Off with code ANNETTE15 at Womanizer.com: https://talksexwithannette.com/go/sp/womanizer Watch on My Site: talksexwithannette.com
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| How to Make Her Come From Penetration — Maybe for the First Time in Her Life | 22 juin 2026 | 00:19:30 | |
82% of women don't reliably come from penetration alone. Here's what's actually missing — and the five moves that fix it. If she's never finished while you're inside her, it's not her body and it's not yours. It's anatomy. And once you understand it, everything changes. What you'll learn: Subscribe for new episodes every week. 🔗 FirmTech Tech Ring + RingMate — code ANNETTE15 for 15% off Join in my 365 Days of Orgasms Journey Here: https://talksexwithannette.com/365-days-of-orgasms/ Watch 365 Days Playlist on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=b2D5TFyt2Q8&list=PL9sLRET3FJyVns_2_wXvOoGrBeHyU1DDp 📩Sign Up for My Newsletter: https://she-explores-life.kit.com/e9760c390c 🎧 Subscribe for weekly sex and intimacy how-tos on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@talksexwithannette Subscribe to my OF: https://talksexwithannette.com/talk-sex-with-m/ 🎧 Subscribe for weekly sex and intimacy how-tos on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@talksexwithannette Get 15% Off Blended Orgasms at Womanizer.com with my code ANNETTE15! Go to https://talksexwithannette.com/go/sp/womanizer-blend Your New Favorite 365 Days of Orgasms Tool! 15% Off with code ANNETTE15 at Womanizer.com: https://talksexwithannette.com/go/sp/womanizer Watch on My Site: talksexwithannette.com
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| She's Reading Smut Instead of Having Sex with You — Here's Why | 17 juin 2026 | 00:50:00 | |
She's not hiding her book because she's embarrassed. She's hiding it because what she's reading is giving her something her sex life isn't — and nobody's asking what that means for your relationship. Romance is the fastest-growing category in print. 51 million units sold in the last year. One in four NYT hardcover fiction bestsellers was romantasy. Women aren't casually reading this stuff. They're consuming it. Today I sat down with Carolyn Hood — certified sex therapist, licensed clinical social worker, and author of Sex Begets Sex: Reclaiming Desire as an Act of Female Empowerment — to decode exactly what's going on. In this episode:
🔗 Find Carolyn: https://www.desireinreallife.com @desireinreallife Join in my 365 Days of Orgasms Journey Here: https://talksexwithannette.com/365-days-of-orgasms/ Watch 365 Days Playlist on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=b2D5TFyt2Q8&list=PL9sLRET3FJyVns_2_wXvOoGrBeHyU1DDp 📩Sign Up for My Newsletter: https://she-explores-life.kit.com/e9760c390c 🎧 Subscribe for weekly sex and intimacy how-tos on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@talksexwithannette Subscribe to my OF: https://talksexwithannette.com/talk-sex-with-m/ 🎧 Subscribe for weekly sex and intimacy how-tos on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@talksexwithannette Get 15% Off Blended Orgasms at Womanizer.com with my code ANNETTE15! Go to https://talksexwithannette.com/go/sp/womanizer-blend The viral lemon-shaped toy everyone’s talking about — get 25% off with code ANNETTE25 at https://talksexwithannette.com/go/sp/hello-nancy-lem 🍋 Head to Only Fans or https://talksexwithannette.com/talk-sex-with-me/ to join. Your New Favorite 365 Days of Orgasms Tool! 15% Off with code ANNETTE15 at Womanizer.com: https://talksexwithannette.com/go/sp/womanizer Watch on My Site: talksexwithannette.com
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| Perimenopause Killed Her Orgasm — 5 Moves to Get It Back | 16 juin 2026 | 00:16:37 | |
A listener wrote in: "I'm 47 years old and going through perimenopause. Previously I would orgasm with my husband 90-95% of the time. Now I only orgasm 5-10% of the time." She's not alone. Roughly half of all women experience orgasm changes during perimenopause — and almost none are told why or what to do about it. This episode covers the physiology behind the shift, the medical options most women don't know exist (including why the FDA just reversed 20 years of warnings about hormone therapy), and the five moves that bring pleasure back. What you'll learn: Join in my 365 Days of Orgasms Journey Here: https://talksexwithannette.com/365-days-of-orgasms/ Watch 365 Days Playlist on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=b2D5TFyt2Q8&list=PL9sLRET3FJyVns_2_wXvOoGrBeHyU1DDp 📩Sign Up for My Newsletter: https://she-explores-life.kit.com/e9760c390c 🎧 Subscribe for weekly sex and intimacy how-tos on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@talksexwithannette Subscribe to my OF: https://talksexwithannette.com/talk-sex-with-m/ 🎧 Subscribe for weekly sex and intimacy how-tos on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@talksexwithannette Get 15% Off Blended Orgasms at Womanizer.com with my code ANNETTE15! Go to https://talksexwithannette.com/go/sp/womanizer-blend Your New Favorite 365 Days of Orgasms Tool! 15% Off with code ANNETTE15 at Womanizer.com: https://talksexwithannette.com/go/sp/womanizer Watch on My Site: talksexwithannette.com
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| Role Play 101: From Cringe to Craving | 10 juin 2026 | 00:49:48 | |
97% of adults have sexual fantasies. Less than a third ever act on them. The fear is almost never accurate — and in this episode, we're closing the gap between what you want and what you actually do. I'll be honest: role play has always given me the ick. So I brought in Emma Velicski — romance author and founder of Saturday Box, the company turning kink and role play into a game you can actually play with your partner — to figure out why so many of us freeze, and how to finally get started. We get into:
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| Squirting: 5 Moves That Get Her There! | 09 juin 2026 | 00:21:54 | |
Most men have tried to make this happen. Most have done it wrong. And almost none of them understand what's actually going on in her body when it does. This episode covers the real anatomy behind this response, why the technique most men learned from the internet actually works against them, the one thing she's going to say in the moment that most men completely misread, and why relaxation — not force — is what makes this possible. What you'll learn: ✔ The anatomy behind this response that most men have never been taught ✔ Why the most common technique is the reason it's not working Join in my 365 Days of Orgasms Journey Here: https://talksexwithannette.com/365-days-of-orgasms/ Watch 365 Days Playlist on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=b2D5TFyt2Q8&list=PL9sLRET3FJyVns_2_wXvOoGrBeHyU1DDp 📩Sign Up for My Newsletter: https://she-explores-life.kit.com/e9760c390c 🎧 Subscribe for weekly sex and intimacy how-tos on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@talksexwithannette Subscribe to my OF: https://talksexwithannette.com/talk-sex-with-m/ 🎧 Subscribe for weekly sex and intimacy how-tos on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@talksexwithannette Get 15% Off Blended Orgasms at Womanizer.com with my code ANNETTE15! Go to https://talksexwithannette.com/go/sp/womanizer-blend Your New Favorite 365 Days of Orgasms Tool! 15% Off with code ANNETTE15 at Womanizer.com: https://talksexwithannette.com/go/sp/womanizer Watch on My Site: talksexwithannette.com
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| Good Men, Bad Sex: Why Purity Culture Is Still in Your Bedroom (Even If You Left the Church) | 04 juin 2026 | 01:02:48 | |
You never signed a purity pledge. Maybe you never set foot in a church. But the rules got in anyway — through locker rooms, movies, the way women around you were talked about, the bodies that got shamed. And now they're in your bedroom, quietly wrecking everything. Today I'm talking with Erika Smith — award-winning sexuality educator, 25 years in the field, and creator of the Purity Culture Dropout program — about the specific ways purity culture shows up in men who consider themselves good allies. Men who want their partners to have orgasms. Men who are still, without knowing it, making it impossible for her to ask for what she wants. We get into:
This one's for the men who are trying. And the women who love them. Find Erika at: https://www.ericasmitheac.com/the-purity-culture-dropout-program Join in my 365 Days of Orgasms Journey Here: https://talksexwithannette.com/365-days-of-orgasms/ Watch 365 Days Playlist on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=b2D5TFyt2Q8&list=PL9sLRET3FJyVns_2_wXvOoGrBeHyU1DDp 📩Sign Up for My Newsletter: https://she-explores-life.kit.com/e9760c390c 🎧 Subscribe for weekly sex and intimacy how-tos on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@talksexwithannette Subscribe to my OF: https://talksexwithannette.com/talk-sex-with-m/ 🎧 Subscribe for weekly sex and intimacy how-tos on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@talksexwithannette Get 15% Off Blended Orgasms at Womanizer.com with my code ANNETTE15! Go to https://talksexwithannette.com/go/sp/womanizer-blend The viral lemon-shaped toy everyone’s talking about — get 25% off with code ANNETTE25 at https://talksexwithannette.com/go/sp/hello-nancy-lem 🍋 Head to Only Fans or https://talksexwithannette.com/talk-sex-with-me/ to join. 15% Off With my Code Annette15 at myfirmtech.com/annettebenedetti Your New Favorite 365 Days of Orgasms Tool! 15% Off with code ANNETTE15 at Womanizer.com: https://talksexwithannette.com/go/sp/womanizer Watch on My Site: talksexwithannette.com
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| How to Edge Her Until She Begs: My 5 Move System | 01 juin 2026 | 00:17:50 | |
You can take her to a regular orgasm. Or you can take her to one she'll be thinking about for weeks. Edging is the difference. In this episode, I'm breaking down 5 moves for how to edge her with your hands until she begs you to let her finish. The four signs that tell you she's at the edge. How to pull her back without losing her. Why each climb gets faster. How many edges actually work. And how to let her finish in a way that triggers a rolling orgasm she's never had with anyone. This episode also addresses something most edging content ignores: what to do with a partner who struggles to orgasm at all. I'm one of those women, and I'm walking through how to build toward edging when she can't easily get to the edge in the first place. We're covering: Whether you're doing this with a partner who comes easily or one who's never been able to with you — this episode changes the game. Toys mentioned in the episode can be found at the links below. Use my code ANNETTE15 for 15% Off Womanizer Premium 2: https://talksexwithannette.com/go/sp/womanizer-premium-2 Womanizer Enhance: https://talksexwithannette.com/go/sp/womanizer-enhance Womanizer Next: https://talksexwithannette.com/go/sp/womanizer-next Womanizer Next Duo: https://womanizer-north-america.sjv.io/vDxxjA Womanizer Blend: https://talksexwithannette.com/go/sp/womanizer-blend Join in my 365 Days of Orgasms Journey Here: https://talksexwithannette.com/365-days-of-orgasms/ Watch 365 Days Playlist on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=b2D5TFyt2Q8&list=PL9sLRET3FJyVns_2_wXvOoGrBeHyU1DDp 📩Sign Up for My Newsletter: https://she-explores-life.kit.com/e9760c390c 🎧 Subscribe for weekly sex and intimacy how-tos on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@talksexwithannette Subscribe to my OF: https://talksexwithannette.com/talk-sex-with-m/ 🎧 Subscribe for weekly sex and intimacy how-tos on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@talksexwithannette Get 15% Off Blended Orgasms at Womanizer.com with my code ANNETTE15! Go to https://talksexwithannette.com/go/sp/womanizer-blend Your New Favorite 365 Days of Orgasms Tool! 15% Off with code ANNETTE15 at Womanizer.com: https://talksexwithannette.com/go/sp/womanizer Watch on My Site: talksexwithannette.com
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| How Porn Ruined Men's Foreplay — And the 3-Word Cheat Sheet That Fixes It | 27 mai 2026 | 00:59:53 | |
Most men learned foreplay from porn. And porn doesn't do foreplay — it does a sped-up, skip-to-the-good-part performance that taught an entire generation that touching a woman is just a formality. She's lying there wondering why she isn't feeling it. It's not her. It's the script. Today's guest has spent 17 years collecting real-world data on exactly what porn got wrong — and what women actually need. Cindy Gallop is the founder and CEO of MakeLoveNotPorn, the world's first real-world sex platform, former Advertising Woman of the Year, and one of the most talked-about TED speakers in history. In this episode:
Findy Cindy Here On Substack: https://dearcindy.substack.com/p/yes-you-really-can-ask-me-anything All of Cindy's Links: https://linktr.ee/cindygallop Join in my 365 Days of Orgasms Journey Here: https://talksexwithannette.com/365-days-of-orgasms/ Watch 365 Days Playlist on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=b2D5TFyt2Q8&list=PL9sLRET3FJyVns_2_wXvOoGrBeHyU1DDp 📩Sign Up for My Newsletter: https://she-explores-life.kit.com/e9760c390c 🎧 Subscribe for weekly sex and intimacy how-tos on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@talksexwithannette Subscribe to my OF: https://talksexwithannette.com/talk-sex-with-m/
🎧 Subscribe for weekly sex and intimacy how-tos on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@talksexwithannette Get 15% Off Blended Orgasms at Womanizer.com with my code ANNETTE15! Go to https://talksexwithannette.com/go/sp/womanizer-blend The viral lemon-shaped toy everyone’s talking about — get 25% off with code ANNETTE25 at https://talksexwithannette.com/go/sp/hello-nancy-lem 🍋 Head to Only Fans or https://talksexwithannette.com/talk-sex-with-me/ to join. 15% Off With my Code Annette15 at myfirmtech.com/annettebenedetti Your New Favorite 365 Days of Orgasms Tool! 15% Off with code ANNETTE15 at Womanizer.com: https://talksexwithannette.com/go/sp/womanizer Watch on My Site: talksexwithannette.com
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