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You want to bring toys into the bedroom… but every time you try, it feels awkward, forced, or like it kills the vibe. So the toys go back in the drawer and you go back to “just us” — even if “just us” has started to feel a little routine.

In this episode of Talk Sex with Annette, I’m joined by Kate Cova (In Bed With Kate) — sex educator, product developer, and one of the most trusted voices in the pleasure product world. Together, we break down exactly how to use sex toys without making it weird, and how to turn them into foreplay that actually brings you closer.

Whether your partner is hesitant, you’re scared of making it awkward, or you’re just tired of guessing what goes where, this episode gives you the language, the mindset, and the toy ideas to start tonight.

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If you’ve ever “faked it” just to wrap things up faster — you’re not alone.
 But what if your body could learn to create the kind of deep, full-body pleasure you’ve been pretending to have?

In this episode, I’ll show you how to train your pleasure rhythm — the real key to unlocking authentic, lasting orgasms. You’ll learn how rhythm shapes connection, syncs partners physically and emotionally, and helps your body respond naturally to real sensation.

I’m demonstrating it using the Kiiroo Fuse, a smart dual-stimulation vibrator with built-in touch sensors that respond to depth and pressure — helping you feel, not fake, your pleasure.

✨ You’ll learn:
 • Why rhythm is the secret to full-body pleasure
 • How to use breath and movement to deepen arousal
 • How to sync your rhythm with your partner (even long distance)
 • Why practicing with tech can make you better at real-life intimacy

This is about connection — not performance.
 When you train your rhythm, you train your body to feel again.

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What if the hottest thing you could do for your partner… was not come?

Welcome to Talk Sex with Annette, where we’re diving into one of the most misunderstood—and surprisingly intimate—kinks out there: male chastity. Whether you’ve seen the cages popping up all over your feed this “Locktober,” or you’re just curious what all the denial hype is about, this episode breaks down how to try chastity play without freaking out, fumbling it, or killing the mood.

You’ll learn:
 💥 What chastity play actually is (and isn’t)
 🔒 Why so many men say orgasm denial made them better lovers
🔥 How to safely explore it with your partner—whether you’re the one wearing the cage or holding the key

And stay tuned—on Wednesday, Annette’s joined by a real-life keyholder who shares how locking it up unlocked more pleasure, trust, and connection in her relationship.

It’s kinky, psychological, and maybe even life-changing.
 The question is: can you handle the cage?

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 Unlock the secrets of fetishes and discover how they can transform your sexual experiences in this provocative episode of Masturbation Monday. I’m Annette Benedetti, and I’ll be your guide as we explore the captivating world of fetishes—what sets them apart from kinks, and how they often overlap in fascinating ways. Dive deep into the top five fetishes and learn how these desires shape arousal and satisfaction, from the sensory allure of a foot fetish to the power dynamics inherent in leather and latex. We’ll explore how these fetishes manifest in both sexual and non-sexual settings, offering unique pathways to fulfillment and pleasure. Whether you're a curious beginner or a seasoned enthusiast, this episode invites you to rethink what drives your arousal and how embracing your desires can enhance your intimate experiences.

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Have you heard about Soft Cock Appreciation Week? It's a thing, and in this episode I dive into what it is along with the art of “cockversations” with Soft Cock Appreciation Weeks hostess Erica Leroye, the visionary behind Creative Body Release. Known as the "Chief Erotic Officer," Erica brings her expertise as a Certified Sexological Bodyworker and Erotic Educator to this unique, pleasure-positive celebration of men’s sexual health. We explore how Soft Cock Appreciation Week challenges the rigid expectations around erections and champions a more relaxed, playful approach to intimacy. Erica spills secrets on embracing and enjoying soft cock play, shares juicy insights on letting go of performance pressure, and reveals how partners can unlock deeper, more sensual connections by supporting men’s journeys to self-acceptance. With humor, heart, and some sexy tips, Erica invites us all to rethink what “good” sex means and embrace the magic of going soft.

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 Welcome to today's episode of Masturbation Monday! We’re diving into "The Top 5 Sex Mistakes Married People Make—and How to Fix Them!" Whether you've been married for years or are in a long-term relationship, it’s easy to get stuck in a rut when it comes to sex. Statistics show that sexual satisfaction drops significantly over time for all orientations—often due to lack of novelty, mismatched libidos, and communication gaps. But don’t worry! We’ve identified the top research-backed reasons why sex can fizzle and gathered practical, sexy solutions to help you reignite the spark. From overcoming the “mind-reader” myth to adding playful variety, we’ll cover it all. Let’s jump in and discover ways to keep the passion alive!

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 Ready to upgrade your flirting from 'meh' to mind-blowing? In this episode, I bring in my besties, Andi and Carrie, to dish on exactly what makes women say, "Yes, please!" We’re spilling our juiciest secrets—from giving her friends a little extra love in group settings to dropping compliments that hit harder than basic pick-up lines. Think you know how to flirt? Think again. We’ve got real stories and spicy tips to keep you from fumbling, whether it's a wild night out or a first message on a dating app. Grab a drink, tune in, and get ready to flirt like a pro.

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Today my two close girlfriends join me for a frank conversation about common bedroom moves men make that aren't just bad, they're downright painful.  We tell you what they are, how to identify when a woman isn't enjoying what you are doing, and what to do instead! We are also asking men to weigh in with some of the most common things women do in bed that they wish they would stop! Comment below or send me a message!

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 Can jealousy turn juicy? In this episode, we’re diving into the seductive and transformative world of compersion—the sizzling feeling of joy for your partner’s pleasure with someone else. Join me and Dr. Marie Thouin, the groundbreaking expert on this juicy topic, as we explore how compersion can heat up your love life, whether you're in a monogamous or non-monogamous relationship. We’re flipping the script on jealousy, turning it from a painful emotion into a powerful tool for deeper intimacy, emotional growth, and electric connections. Ready to go from jealousy to juicy? This is the episode for you!

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 In this episode, we're diving headfirst into the world of kinks—some common, some wildly surprising, and all backed by some truly eye-opening research. From the mindfulness benefits of BDSM to why foot fetishes are more “wired” than weird, we’re unpacking the 10 most fascinating and unexpected kinks people indulge in. With shocking facts (like how balloons can be a major turn-on!) and a few laughs along the way, this is a no-holds-barred look at the secret desires people have and the science behind them. Get ready to rethink everything you thought you knew about human sexuality!

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