Cultivating H.E.R. Space: Uplifting Conversations for the Black Woman – Details, episodes & analysis

Calling all of the foxy cowgirls to the floor! If Beyonce’ got you excited with Cowboy Carter let Cultivating H.E.R. Space keep the good times rolling by introducing you to the dynamic trio making waves in country music. Chapel Hart is a Nashville-based country group with roots in Mississippi taking the genre by storm.

The two sisters, Danica and Devynn Hart, and their cousin Trea Swindle join Terri and Dr. Dom for a lively, spunky, real conversation about the ups and downs breaking into a traditionally white, male genre. They talk about how getting their start in church gave them a solid foundation to not only keep themselves motivated, but also to keep their eyes on their own paper and run their race. This advice has taken the group far as a self-funded indie group letting their voices be heard on the America’s Got Talent stage (leading to them making it to the finals in 2022) and on the Grand Old Opry stage (where they received four standing ovations).

They drop gems about what it means to own your dreams and not let anything deter you from being as successful as you want to be. Tune in for a fun and inspiring episode! 

Quote of the Day:
"Don't you try to please no one except the one inside." 
– Chapel Hart  

Wisdom Wednesdays with Terri
Cultivating H.E.R. Space Sanctuary  

Where to find Chapel Hart:
Website: Chapel Hart
Apple Music: Chapel Hart
Amazon Music: Chapel Hart
YouTube: Chapel Hart
Instagram: @chapelhartband
Twitter: @ChapelHartBand
Facebook: Chapel Hart  

Resources:
Dr. Dom’s Therapy Practice
Branding with Terri
Melanin and Mental Health
Therapy for Black Girls 

Psychology Today
Therapy for QPOC  

Where to find us:
Twitter: @HERspacepodcast
Instagram: @herspacepodcast
Facebook: @herspacepodcast
Website: cultivatingherspace.com

Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/cultivating-h-e-r-space-uplifting-conversations-for-the-black-woman--5470036/support.

Hey lady! Checking in here to ask you one important question – how’s your self-talk these days? We know how hard it can be to keep yourself uplifted during these turbulent, unprecedented times. The truth of the matter is that the only way to get through the day is by staying true to yourself and doing YOU! How? Dr. Dom and Terri offer practical tips for increasing your self-regard, self-compassion, and authenticity. Listen to this episode when you need a boost or incorporate it into your daily affirmation playlist and allow yourself to believe in your greatness. Let Dr. Dom take you to church as she reminds you that your worth is not dependent on external validation even when it may seem as though your livelihood depends on it. Head to Patreon for more tips on how to create a lifestyle of positive self-image that will keep you anchored during the storms of life.

Quote of the Day:
“The best thing I can do for myself, my loved ones, and my community is to heal myself, love myself, and be true to myself.” – Terri Lomax  

Wisdom Wednesdays with Terri
Cultivating H.E.R. Space Sanctuary  

Resources:
Dr. Dom’s Therapy Practice
Branding with Terri
Melanin and Mental Health
Therapy for Black Girls 
Psychology Today
Therapy for QPOC  

Where to find us:
Twitter: @HERspacepodcast
Instagram: @herspacepodcast
Facebook: @herspacepodcast
Website: cultivatingherspace.com

Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/cultivating-h-e-r-space-uplifting-conversations-for-the-black-woman--5470036/support.

Hey lady! This week it’s game time! That’s right, this week Dr. Dom and Terri play the classic game “Never Have I Ever” as a way to discuss their decision-making processes and how they keep a growth mindset in their self-development toolbelt. Life is full of lessons and can be a beautiful adventure if you allow yourself to apply them. So, how are you adding dimension and color to your story? And, how can you expand your point-of-view in a way that removes judgment and expands your capacity to have a psychologically rich experience?

Terri and Dr. Dom offer powerful insights for increasing your ability to make solid decisions, but they spill hot tea in the Aftershow about where some of those decisions have taken them. Check them out on Patreon! 

1. Embrace New Experiences     
"Never have I ever" moments often highlight things we've never tried. Step out of your comfort zones and try new activities. 
Lesson: Life is enriched by new experiences. Don’t be afraid to try something new, even if it seems daunting at first.

2. Learn from Missed Opportunities 
Reflect on things you haven’t done and consider why. Was it fear, lack of opportunity, or something else?    
Lesson: Understanding the reasons behind your "never" moments can provide insight and help you overcome barriers in the future.

3. Value of Shared Experiences     
Sharing “Never Have I Ever” stories can foster connections and understanding. It can be surprising to see how much you have in common with others. 
Lesson: Shared experiences, even those you haven't had yet, can bring people together and create a sense of community.

4. Growth Through Challenges 
Identify times when trying something new led to personal growth or overcoming a challenge. 
Lesson: Challenging yourself to try new things, even if they’re outside your comfort zone, can lead to significant personal growth.

5. Appreciate Individual Journeys 
Everyone's list of "Never Have I Ever" will be different. Appreciate and respect each person's unique journey.     
Lesson: Everyone’s life path is unique, and that's what makes our stories rich and diverse.

6. Reflect on the Past, Plan for the Future 
Reflect on things you’ve never done and consider making a list of things you’d like to try in the future.    
Lesson: Reflecting on the past can help set meaningful goals for the future.

Quote of the Day:
"I don't have to be perfect. All I have to do is show up and enjoy the messy, imperfect, and beautiful journey of my life." 
— Kerry Washington  

Wisdom Wednesdays with Terri
Cultivating H.E.R. Space Sanctuary  

Resources:
Dr. Dom’s Therapy Practice
Branding with Terri
Melanin and Mental Health
Therapy for Black Girls 
Psychology Today
Therapy for QPOC  

Where to find us:
Twitter: @HERspacepodcast
Instagram: @herspacepodcast
Facebook: @herspacepodcast
Website: cultivatingherspace.com

Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/cultivating-h-e-r-space-uplifting-conversations-for-the-black-woman--5470036/support.

Hey lady, we know right now it’s a bit trendy to talk about some of the trauma you may have inherited from a parental figure, but what about the good stuff? What are some of the awesome and amazing things that you’ve learned and experienced from your mother? Do you have cool traditions that you look forward to because of your mother, or a certain way of being because of how she interacted with you? Dr. Dom and Terri have a touching conversation about the complex relationships that we, as Black women, have with our mothers. Now, that you’re grown, what are the things that make you grateful for the relationships you’ve cultivated with your mother and the mother figures in your life? We want to hear from you. Visit us on IG and let us know some of the dope lessons you’ve picked up along the way.

Quote of the Day:
"A child's first teacher is its mother."
-Peng Liyuan

Register here for the Vibrate Higher Empowerment Workshop!

Wisdom Wednesdays with Terri
Cultivating H.E.R. Space Sanctuary

Resources:
Dr. Dom’s Therapy Practice
Branding with Terri
Melanin and Mental Health
Therapy for Black Girls
Psychology Today
Therapy for QPOC

Where to find us:
Twitter: @HERspacepodcast
Instagram: @herspacepodcast
Facebook: @herspacepodcast
Website: cultivatingherspace.com

Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/cultivating-h-e-r-space-uplifting-conversations-for-the-black-woman--5470036/support.

Ah, amor! Isn’t it sweet? Lady, if you are a romantic – or want to be – this episode is for you. Codie Elaine Oliver, CEO, and co-founder of Black Love, Inc., a fast-growing media company comprised of the Black Love+ app, joins Dr. Dom and Terri for a real conversation about what Black love means in today’s modern times. Codie shares how her love has fueled and informed her work while she still sought to maintain her identity. The three have a fun, lighthearted conversation about the joys and the pains of Black love, and why telling those stories is necessary for the vitality of Black people. Whether you are in love, looking to be in love, or just a lover of good storytelling you don’t want to miss this week’s episode!

Quote of the Day:
"Black love isn’t always easy, but it’s worth it."
-Codie Elaine Oliver

Where to find Codie Elaine Oliver:

Website: Black Love Summit
Podcast: The Mama’s Den
Podcast: My New BFF
IG: @codieco
App: Black Love App

Register here for the Vibrate Higher Empowerment Workshop!

Wisdom Wednesdays with Terri
Cultivating H.E.R. Space Sanctuary

Resources:
Dr. Dom’s Therapy Practice
Branding with Terri
Melanin and Mental Health
Therapy for Black Girls
Psychology Today
Therapy for QPOC

Where to find us:
Twitter: @HERspacepodcast
Instagram: @herspacepodcast
Facebook: @herspacepodcast
Website: cultivatingherspace.com

Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/cultivating-h-e-r-space-uplifting-conversations-for-the-black-woman--5470036/support.

Hey lady, there is so much going on in the world that it is near impossible to not feel like it’s your duty to get involved and help. But where does one start and what does “help” actually mean in the context of activism for social change? This week Charlene A. Carruthers, activist, and filmmaker, joins Dr. Dom and Terri to discuss how her activism fuels her creativity and how both her activism and creativity are answered callings from those who preceded her on this Earth. Sometimes the best way to get started is to take a look around you and dive into your personal history to see the path laid out before you. Tune in and find out how you can make a meaningful impact in this world in a way that makes sense for YOU.

Quote of the Day:
"May I do what I came here to do."
-Charlene Carruthers

Where to find Charlene A. Carruthers:
Website: Charlene A. Carruthers
Facebook: Charlene A. Carruthers
IG: @charlenecarruthers
Twitter: @CharleneCac

Register here for the Vibrate Higher Empowerment Workshop!

Wisdom Wednesdays with Terri
Cultivating H.E.R. Space Sanctuary

Resources:
Dr. Dom’s Therapy Practice
Branding with Terri
Melanin and Mental Health
Therapy for Black Girls
Psychology Today
Therapy for QPOC

Where to find us:
Twitter: @HERspacepodcast
Instagram: @herspacepodcast
Facebook: @herspacepodcast
Website: cultivatingherspace.com

Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/cultivating-h-e-r-space-uplifting-conversations-for-the-black-woman--5470036/support.

Hey lady, it is often said that we are the sum of our parts. But, what do you do when some of your parts are scattered across the diaspora waiting to be discovered? Today, Dr. Crystal Menzies, founder, and creator of EmancipatED – an education company supporting Black households seeking more representation in their education while building community sits with Dr. Dom and Terri to discuss the rich history in our roots. Dr. Menzies shares her journey through education – both as a student and educator – and offers insight into her vision for accessibility to our cultural legacies as Black people. Our roots spread wide, and our stories are waiting to be told. Tune in and find out how you can tap further into your personal history and deepen your relationship with self.

Quote of the Day:
"Despite what most history books teach us – Black folks consistently resisted enslavement and oppression."
-Dr. Crystal Menzies

Where to find EmancipateED:
Website: EmancipateED
Shop: EmancipateED
Twitter: @EmancipatED
TikTok: @emancipate_ed
IG: @emancipate_ed

Register here for the Vibrate Higher Empowerment Workshop!

Wisdom Wednesdays with Terri
Cultivating H.E.R. Space Sanctuary

Resources:
Dr. Dom’s Therapy Practice
Branding with Terri
Melanin and Mental Health
Therapy for Black Girls
Psychology Today
Therapy for QPOC

Where to find us:
Twitter: @HERspacepodcast
Instagram: @herspacepodcast
Facebook: @herspacepodcast
Website: cultivatingherspace.com

Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/cultivating-h-e-r-space-uplifting-conversations-for-the-black-woman--5470036/support.

Hey lady, we have a question for you. What do you do when "one of those days" feels like it’s lasting longer than normal? How do you care for yourself when you barely have the energy to get up? We know days like those exist and we want you to know that not only are you not alone – they are totally normal. Dr. Dom and Terri have a tender, honest conversation about what it feels like to thrive as you experience depression. They keep it real about all of the places the mind can go when life feels unbearably heavy and share their personal toolkits of tried-and-true ways to help them become the light out of their respective darkness. As a Black woman, we hope you always know that being real about how you’re feeling is one of the greatest signs of strength. And asking for help is another. If you or a loved one are struggling with suicidal ideation, please check the links below for resources and text 988, the suicide crisis hotline for additional support. Remember, we’re glad you’re here.

Quote of the Day:
"On particularly rough days when I'm sure I can't possibly endure, I like to remind myself that my track record for getting through bad days so far, is 100% and that's pretty good." - HealthyPlace.com

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Wisdom Wednesdays with Terri
Cultivating H.E.R. Space Sanctuary

Resources:
Dr. Dom’s Therapy Practice
Branding with Terri
Melanin and Mental Health
Therapy for Black Girls
Psychology Today
Therapy for QPOC

Where to find us:
Twitter: @HERspacepodcast
Instagram: @herspacepodcast
Facebook: @herspacepodcast
Website: cultivatingherspace.com

Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/cultivating-h-e-r-space-uplifting-conversations-for-the-black-woman--5470036/support.

Calling all of the sex-positive people! Lady, this episode is for the grown folk. This week, Terri and Dr. Dom sit with Jet Setting Jasmine and King Noire to bust some…myths about porn and the ways that a colonial mindset keeps us from the pleasure we all deserve. The guests break down why creating a sex-positive environment in your life and in your home can lead to empowering ourselves, and our children, to make healthy choices that bring pleasure, excitement, and bodily autonomy. Whether you like to be in front of the camera or in front of the computer screen, these two tell you how to bring the heat so you can spice up your sex life. Normally, we tell you to grab your journal but for today’s episode grab a towel – it’s sure to make you "sweat"!

Where to find King Noire and Jet Setting Jasmine:

Website: King Noire and Jet Setting Jasmine
Shop: King Noire and Jet Setting Jasmine
Podcast: Royal Fetish Radio
Facebook: @JetsettingJasmine
Twitter: @JetsettingJasmine
IG: @royaltyfetishradio

Quote of the Day:
"If you're in a relationship where you don't feel that you're comfortable to be able to share who you are naturally with somebody, chances are you're probably in the wrong relationship."

-King Noire

Register here for the Vibrate Higher Empowerment Workshop!

Wisdom Wednesdays with Terri
Cultivating H.E.R. Space Sanctuary

Resources:
Dr. Dom’s Therapy Practice
Branding with Terri
Melanin and Mental Health
Therapy for Black Girls
Psychology Today
Therapy for QPOC

Where to find us:
Twitter: @HERspacepodcast
Instagram: @herspacepodcast
Facebook: @herspacepodcast
Website: cultivatingherspace.com

Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/cultivating-h-e-r-space-uplifting-conversations-for-the-black-woman--5470036/support.

Hey lady, when was the last time you felt like yourself? That was the question Britteny Floyd-Mayo, better known as Trap Yoga Bae, asked herself years ago as she began her own healing journey. In this episode, Trap Yoga Bae shares with Terri and Dr. Dom how her passion for personal power and freedom comes as a result of hard-earned wisdom gained through the greatest teacher – life. Over time, Trap Yoga Bae has built a community of women who are ready to show up in life as their most fierce, amazing, confident selves. If you need some inspiration or some twerk-spiration, tune in and find out how you can own loving yourself loudly and unapologetically. Period.

Quote of the Day:
"Yes, you may have had some of your darkest days when things didn’t go as planned before. But, if you follow those feelings up with inner work 🔨 and self-compassion 🥰 you'd notice that it’s all just a part of your origin story, developing you into the phenomenal human you are destined to be."
-TrapYogaBae

Where to find Trap Yoga Bae:
Website: Trap Yoga Bae
Shop: Trap Yoga Bae
Facebook: @trapyogabae
Twitter: @trapyogabae
IG: @trapyogabae
LinkedIn: Britteny Floyd-Mayo
TikTok: Trap Yoga Bae

Register here for the Vibrate Higher Empowerment Workshop!

Wisdom Wednesdays with Terri
Cultivating H.E.R. Space Sanctuary

Resources:
Dr. Dom’s Therapy Practice
Branding with Terri
Melanin and Mental Health
Therapy for Black Girls
Psychology Today
Therapy for QPOC

Where to find us:
Twitter: @HERspacepodcast
Instagram: @herspacepodcast
Facebook: @herspacepodcast
Website: cultivatingherspace.com

Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/cultivating-h-e-r-space-uplifting-conversations-for-the-black-woman--5470036/support.