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Stop Chasing Unavailable Guys

Truly Eleanor Intuitive Dating Coach

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Welcome to the Stop Chasing Unavailable Guys podcast. This is the show for single women over 40 who are done wasting time on emotionally unavailable guys and ready for real, healthy love.

I’m Truly Eleanor, an intuitive dating coach with over 17 years of experience, and I help women stop chasing, stop doubting, and start choosing relationships that actually feel good.

If you’ve ever thought:
“Why do I keep attracting the same kind of guy?”
“Why does healthy love feel unfamiliar?”
“Why does dating feel harder the moment I start to care?”

You’re in the right place.

This podcast is where emotional healing meets real-world dating, so you can finally trust yourself, spot red flags early, and move toward love that’s calm, mutual, and deeply connected.

And to get started, download my free guide The Top 5 Dating Apps for Women Over 40 (+ How to Spot Unavailable Guys Fast) at https://trulyeleanor.com/datingapps

Love is closer than you think. Let’s get started.

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Ep #60 The Identity Shift That Changes Everything About How You Date

Season 5 · Episode 60

Monday, April 27, 2026 • Duration 17:38

You've been doing the work. The journaling, the reflecting, the quiet moments where something clicked that you can't quite explain yet. This episode is your chance to feel how far you've actually come.

In Episode 60 of the Stop Chasing Unavailable Guys Podcast, we're closing out Season Five with a full-circle look at the identity shift that's been building all season. The shift from the woman who chased emotionally unavailable men and questioned her worth, to the woman who trusts herself, chooses wisely, and lets love meet her there.

This is the episode that brings it all together.

What's Inside This Episode:

The quiet but profound thing that happens on a date when you've genuinely changed
Why dating can finally start to feel intentional, peaceful, and even fun
What it really means to trust yourself in real time, not just in theory
The identity that makes emotional availability your new standard
How to carry everything you've learned into your daily life going forward

🎧 Listen now and give yourself credit for the woman you're becoming.

And grab the free guide The Top 5 Dating Apps for Women Over 40 + How to Spot Unavailable Guys Fast here: https://learn.trulyeleanor.com/datingapps

And if you want support embodying that woman even more deeply, my Magnetic Love Bundle includes guided meditations to help you release fear, reset your energy, and stay open and grounded while attracting emotionally available partners. Click here to find out more 👉 [Magnetic Love Bundle]

You can't make Mr. Unavailable love you, but you can choose someone who does. Love is closer than you think.

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Ep #59 Ready for Love After 40? Or Just Waiting to Feel Ready?

Season 5 · Episode 59

Monday, April 20, 2026 • Duration 12:54

You're not hiding behind healing anymore. You're not stuck in the waiting room. You're actually at the door.

And somehow... you're still not walking through it.

Here's a clue that something has quietly shifted. The guys who once had you glued to your phone, analysing every text, every pause, every "seen at 9pm but no reply until Tuesday" they're starting to feel exhausting. And the calm, consistent guy who actually shows up? He's starting to feel kind of amazing.

That's not a coincidence. That's readiness. And this episode is going to help you recognise it.

What's Inside This Episode:

✨ The surprising way all that healing work trips you up on dates
✨ The subtle sign that you're already more ready for healthy love than you've been telling yourself
✨ What changes when you stop waiting to feel perfect and make this one quiet decision instead
✨ The shift that moves you from exhausted longing into something that finally feels calm and possible
✨ What it feels like to be on a date when you're actually ready to receive love

If you're ready to trust your intuition and date with clarity and confidence, the Intuitive Path to Love Course is linked below.

And grab the free guide The Top 5 Dating Apps for Women Over 40 + How to Spot Unavailable Guys Fast here: https://learn.trulyeleanor.com/datingapps

Intuitive Path To Love Course: https://learn.trulyeleanor.com/IPTL

You can't make Mr. Unavailable love you, but you can choose someone who does. Love is closer than you think.

Episode #50 Stop Overgiving in Dating: How to Finally Receive Love After 40

Season 5 · Episode 50

Monday, February 9, 2026 • Duration 18:05

If you’re dating after 40 and keep finding yourself in the role of emotional caretaker, always understanding, always giving the benefit of the doubt, always staying longer than feels good, this episode is for you.

In Episode 50 of the Stop Chasing Unavailable Guys Podcast, we’re talking about one of the biggest hidden blocks to healthy love: the emotional caretaker identity.

This is the pattern where love gets confused with effort…
where overgiving feels like chemistry…
and where emotionally unavailable men keep showing up because you’ve been trained to manage, fix, and emotionally hold everyone but yourself.

What’s Inside This Episode:

The real reason overgiving feels so automatic (and why it has nothing to do with being “needy”)
What quietly happens to attraction when you become the emotional manager in dating
The surprising truth about why calm, available men can trigger disinterest at first
The identity shift that changes everything—from trying to make it work to simply choosing
What “receiving love” actually looks and feels like when you’ve spent a lifetime earning it

This episode is part of Season 5: Embodiment, Identity & Lasting Love, where we stop trying to date differently and start being someone who dates differently.

✨ Integration prompt from the episode:
“Am I relating to him… or managing him?”

🎧 Listen now and begin releasing the belief that love requires effort, fixing, or emotional labour.

Magnetic Love Bundle: https://learn.trulyeleanor.com/magneticlove

EP #49 Why Healthy Love Feels Unfamiliar: And Why That’s Not a Red Flag

Season 5 · Episode 49

Monday, February 2, 2026 • Duration 17:12

If you’re dating after 40 and keep feeling drawn to emotionally unavailable guys even though what you want is calm, secure love, this episode will help you understand why.

In the first episode of Season 5, we’re talking about something many women experience but rarely question: why healthy love can feel flat or even uncomfortable when your nervous system has been shaped by intensity, uncertainty, or chasing.

For a lot of women, what’s been labeled “chemistry” is actually adrenaline. And when connection feels calm, steady, or emotionally safe, it can be dismissed too quickly as boredom or a lack of attraction. In this episode, I break down how those patterns form, why they repeat, and what begins to shift when you stop chasing love and start choosing it.

We also explore the quieter identity shift that happens when you stop dating from hope, fear, or longing and begin trusting yourself. This isn’t about forcing yourself to like someone you don’t like. It’s about understanding why your body responds the way it does, and how that response can change over time.

What’s Inside the Episode

Why that intense pull toward someone can feel so convincing and what it’s actually signaling
What’s really happening when calm connection feels unfamiliar
The subtle difference between chasing someone and choosing a relationship
How adrenaline gets mistaken for chemistry
The identity shift that quietly changes who you’re drawn to

If your heart knows what it wants but your body hasn’t caught up yet, the Magnetic Love Bundle can help bridge that gap. Grab it here: https://learn.trulyeleanor.com/magneticlove

🎧 Listen to the full episode of Stop Chasing Unavailable Guys and begin the shift from chasing to choosing.

Remember love is closer than you think.

Episode #48 Dating After 40? 3 Steps To Break Old Patterns And Attract Healthy Love

Season 4 · Episode 48

Monday, December 1, 2025 • Duration 16:01

If you’re a single woman over 40 who’s tired of choosing emotionally unavailable guys, doubting yourself, or wondering why dating feels so exhausting, this episode gives you the roadmap you’ve been missing. In this season finale, you’ll learn the 3-step method designed to help you emotionally reset, trust yourself again, and finally attract the kind of healthy, deeply connected love you’ve been longing for.

Season 4 has been all about emotional healing, because healing is what creates clarity, confidence, and the ability to choose men who can actually show up for you. In today’s wrap-up, you’ll see how each part of this season fits together and how these pieces form a proven dating method that helps women over 40 break old patterns and step into the love they truly deserve.

Whether you're feeling stuck, burnt out, or secretly afraid it might be “too late,” this episode shows you why it isn’t and gives you the steps to move forward with intention, self-trust, and hope.

What’s Inside This Episode

The #1 reason emotional healing is non-negotiable for finding real love after 40
The 3-step Method that helps you stop choosing unavailable guys
Why “perfect on paper” relationships fall apart and how to avoid repeating that pattern
The mindset shift that instantly saves you time, energy, and heartbreak in dating after 40

If you’re ready to understand why your dating patterns have repeated and how to finally break free, this finale episode will give you clarity, direction, and hope.

👉 Click now and listen to the Season 4 finale your path to lasting love begins right here.

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Episode #47 Dating Over 40? Here’s How to Silence the Self-Doubt

Season 4 · Episode 47

Monday, November 24, 2025 • Duration 17:37

If you’re dating after 40 and you feel like you are the thing getting in your own way, this episode is going to help you finally move forward. Today we’re unpacking the one pattern that kept me single for years and delayed meeting my husband until I was 44: self-doubt.

In this episode, I’ll walk you through:

Why self-doubt is not a personality flaw, it’s a learned pattern
The surprising connection between childhood conditioning and dating chaos
The exact framework I used to break free
A simple daily heart-expansion exercise that melts self-doubt and builds confidence
The moment I finally stopped believing I was broken—and how everything changed

If you’ve ever gone back and forth on a decision… argued with yourself before a date… doubted every intuitive nudge… or felt like it’s too hard to start trusting yourself, this episode gives you a grounded path out of the mental maze.

You’ll learn how to reconnect with the most powerful guidance system you have: your heart + intuition.

👉 Click play now to learn how to silence self-doubt and step into confident, intuitive dating after 40. Don't forget to grab my free dating guide here: https://trulyeleanor.com/datingapps

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Episode #3 What Is 'Pinch Me' Love?

Season 1 · Episode 3

Monday, October 21, 2024 • Duration 17:50

Hey, friends! I’m so excited you’re here for episode 3 of the Stop Chasing Unavailable Guys Podcast because we’re diving into a topic that’s near and dear to my heart—what I call "Pinch Me Love." You know that feeling when a relationship feels so good, so fulfilling, that you almost have to pinch yourself to believe it's real? Well, we’re going to explore that today, and I can't wait to share my insights and experiences with you.

What We Talked About:

- Defining "Pinch Me Love":It's so easy to focus on what we don’t want in love, but what about what we *do* want? I walk you through why it’s so important to define the kind of love you’re looking for—especially if you’re navigating dating after 40.

- Real Client Stories: I share some heartwarming emails from clients who’ve found their version of *Pinch Me Love* through working with me. You’ll hear stories about how they went from challenging relationships to feeling safe, empowered, and connected in ways they never imagined.

- My Own Journey to Love: After being single into my 40s, I finally found the kind of love I always wanted. I talk about how my husband and I share emotional safety, laughter, and even those small, intimate moments that make me feel so grateful to have him by my side.

Key Takeaways:

- *Pinch Me Love* isn’t about perfection or living in a fairy tale. It’s about finding a love where you feel emotionally safe, deeply connected, and truly seen for who you are—flaws and all.

- Even in the midst of disagreements or tough times, *Pinch Me Love* means you and your partner are committed to working through it with empathy, patience, and dedication. You don’t have to be constantly on the hamster wheel of “self-improvement”—you can just *be* yourself, and that’s enough.

- It’s okay if you’ve never experienced this type of love before, or even if you can’t fully imagine it yet. The key is staying open to the possibility that it’s out there for you—better than you ever thought possible.

I hope you enjoyed the show! Please hit subscribe and leave a review and if you’re ready to take the fastest path to Mr. Right, be sure to join us for the Detox Unavailable Guys Challenge at

Episode #39 Heal the Past, Find Lasting Love: Dating After 40 Without the Baggage

Season 4 · Episode 39

Monday, September 29, 2025 • Duration 16:26

If you’re a single woman over 40 and tired of attracting Mr. Unavailable on repeat, this episode is for you. Dating after 40 doesn’t mean you’re doomed to heartbreak; you can break the cycle and finally create space for the love you deserve.

In this episode of the Stop Chasing Unavailable Guys Podcast, I dive into why releasing old heartbreak is essential if you want to welcome Mr. Right with open arms. We’ll talk about the hidden ways unresolved pain lingers in your body, how it quietly influences your choices in love, and the simple practices that help you release it without waiting years to feel “perfectly healed.”

You’ll hear real client stories, learn practical tools like journaling and daily rituals, and discover how to stop letting the past dictate your future in love. Because when you release old heartbreak, you open yourself up to hope, possibility, and lasting love that feels like home.

What’s Inside This Episode

Why old heartbreak lives in your body (and the sneaky ways it shows up in dating)
The surprising triggers that signal unresolved pain is blocking new love
A client story that proves healing heartbreak makes room for Mr. Right
Practical rituals to gently release heartbreak one layer at a time
How releasing the past transforms the way you see love, men, and your own future

I hope you enjoyed the show! Please hit subscribe and leave a review and if you’re ready to take the fastest path to Mr. Right, be sure to download my free dating guide at https://trulyeleanor.com/datingapps

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Episode #17 How to Recognize Mr. Right: Green Flags in Dating

Season 2 · Episode 17

Monday, February 24, 2025 • Duration 21:20

Hey there! If you're a single woman over 40 looking for love and tired of wasting time on the wrong guys, this episode is for you. As an intuitive love coach, I'm diving into the green flags you should look for in dating—those signs that help you recognize Mr. Right when he's right in front of you. While red flags are important, today is all about focusing on the positives, so you can date with more fun, confidence, and clarity.

What We Cover in This Episode:

Why Green Flags Matter: It’s easy to get caught up in red flags, but focusing on green flags can shift your energy and mindset for better dating experiences.
What Potential Really Means: It’s not just about checking boxes but about feeling at home and at peace when you're with someone.
Mindset Shifts for Dating Success: How to approach dating with an abundance mindset and avoid scarcity traps like "there are no good guys left."
Emotional Green Flags: Feeling safe, calm, and grounded excitement on dates—what those feelings mean and why they matter.
Practical Exercise to Find Your Mr. Right: I walk you through an exercise to identify the top five characteristics, behaviors, and feelings associated with your ideal partner.
Affirmations for Dating with Intention: Powerful affirmations to strengthen your intuition and keep insecurities from making your decisions.

If you’re ready to shift from focusing on red flags to recognizing green flags in dating, this episode will help you feel more hopeful and open-hearted. Start noticing how you feel around potential partners and set the intention to find the guy who makes you feel safe, valued, and authentically yourself.

Stay tuned for our next episode, where we’ll dive into red flags and deal breakers—because yes, those are important too!

I hope you enjoy this episode and feel inspired to approach dating with a fresh perspective. If you loved this conversation, don't forget to subscribe and share it with a friend who might need a little dating encouragement.

I hope you enjoyed the show! Please hit subscribe and leave a review and if you’re ready to take the fastest path to Mr. Right, be sure to join us for the Detox Unavailable Guys Challenge at

Episode #45 How to Stop Believing It’s Too Late for Love: A Guide for Women Over 40

Season 4 · Episode 45

Monday, November 10, 2025 • Duration 20:06

How to Stop Believing It’s Too Late for Love: A Guide for Women Over 40

If you’ve ever had that sinking fear that love has passed you by… you’re not alone. Dating after 40 can feel like a dizzying merri-go-round, with no way to jump off! One minute you’re hopeful, and the next you’re convincing yourself you should just buy the tiny house, adopt five cats, and call it a day. But here’s the real truth: it is not too late for you. And believing that it is? That’s the biggest lie single women over 40 are told.

In this episode, I’m breaking down where that fear really comes from and how it secretly shapes your dating choices (even when you think you’re still “open” to love). You’ll learn how to recognize subtle self-sabotage, rewire those hidden beliefs, and get back into the kind of aligned action that leads to the healthy, devoted relationship you actually want. Because love doesn’t expire… especially when you’re finally ready for the right guy.

If you’re craving hope, clarity, and a path forward that feels empowering instead of exhausting, this is your episode.

What’s Inside This Episode:

• The sneaky ways fear shapes who you date

• The surprising secondary fear hiding under the surface of “what if it never happens?”

• Why feeling fear doesn’t mean you’re blocked and the mantra that moves you forward

• A reframe that instantly gives your confidence a power-up

• The moment I realized I was dating like love was already over and how everything changed

• The 3-part awareness framework that keeps you connected to real possibilities

If you’re tired of letting fear decide who you swipe on, who you chase, and what you believe is possible… hit play now. This episode will help you take the next step toward the love story you still get to have.

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