Explore every episode of the podcast Somebody You Love
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| 74. Somebody You Love had a stalker Pt 2 | 05 Sep 2024 | 01:08:34 | |
CW: Stalking, harassment, sexual assault Welcome to part 2, and apologies for the darkness of these episodes! This time Holly & Jenna each share another story of stalking/harassment, as well as talk about the red flags they’ve learnt to watch out for, parasocial relationships, hitting on people at work, and female perpetrators. MERCH: https://www.somebodyyoulove.net/store | |||
| 73. Somebody You Love had a stalker Pt 1 | 22 Aug 2024 | 00:58:57 | |
CW: Stalking, harassment, sexual assault, animal death. We use the term “grandfathered” in this episode. We understand this term has very racist origins, and we apologise for the mistake. A better term would have been “legacy rates” While we are not more likely to be victims of violence because we sell sex, we are more likely to be victims of violence because people think the fact that we sell sex makes us less than human. Which is the whole reason this podcast exists. Today Holly & Jenna are each sharing one of the more harrowing experiences they have had in this industry. MERCH: https://www.somebodyyoulove.net/store | |||
| 64. Turned On: Songs about Sex Work | 18 Jan 2024 | 00:35:41 | |
Spotify playlist: https://open.spotify.com/playlist/41U6nuxshQciTYfLLnIsfb?si=a50dc606af40463e Mandatory article: https://www.mandatory.com/culture/1066689-the-10-best-songs-about-prostitutes Song list: Patreon (from $3AUD/month): http://www.patreon.com/somebodyyoupod For more info on sex work in Australia, please check out the following organisations: Scarlet Alliance: https://www.scarletalliance.org.au/ MERCH: https://www.somebodyyoulove.net/store | |||
| 63. Somebody You Love is non-binary (Charlie Bear) | 04 Jan 2024 | 01:11:37 | |
TW: Shit People Say mentions sexual assault Meet Charlie Bear, a trans, non-binary sex worker based in Melbourne, on Wurundjeri land. They were assigned female at birth, but currently live in a body that falls between female and male, and use they/them pronouns. They see clients of all genders, and are on the show today to talk about the gender binary, the SWERF 'n' TERF lunch special, and both the privileges and pressures that come with being an 'out' non-binary sex worker. Charlie’s website: charliebearbookings.com Intersex Human Rights Australia: https://ihra.org.au/ Patreon (from $3AUD/month): http://www.patreon.com/somebodyyoupod For more info on sex work in Australia, please check out the following organisations: Scarlet Alliance: https://www.scarletalliance.org.au/ MERCH: https://www.somebodyyoulove.net/store | |||
| 62. Somebody You Love does Christmas! | 21 Dec 2023 | 01:00:40 | |
Holly spreads the festive fun while Jenna tries to maintain her strong boundaries around frivolity. 04:32: Sexy Gift Giving Guide 2023 20:50: Porno or not-porno? 26:30: Holiday traditions 50:17: New Years Booking Wishlists Pipedream Fantasy for her – Her ultimate pleasure: https://www.randyfox.com.au/fantasy-for-her-her-ultimate-pleasure-licking-sucking-pleasure-pump.html Alliance Ultra Plush MIcrofibre Pillow: https://www.mydeal.com.au/alliance-ultra-plush-microfibre-pillow-standard-4260271 Spareparts Joque Unisex Strap-on Harness: https://www.lovehoney.com.au/sex-toys/strap-ons/strap-on-kits/p/spareparts-hardwear-unisex-joque-strap-on-harness/a18043g22339.html Australian Wildlife Sanctuary: https://www.australianwildlifesanctuary.com.au/ Exit: The Game Advent Calendar: https://www.gameology.com.au/products/exit-the-game-advent-calendar-the-silent-storm MERCH: https://www.somebodyyoulove.net/store | |||
| 61. The Problem with (cishet) Male Escorts | 07 Dec 2023 | 01:07:03 | |
Season 4 is here and we’re finally tackling the minefield of a topic that is male escorts! Patreon (from $3AUD/month): http://www.patreon.com/somebodyyoupod For more info on sex work in Australia, please check out the following organisations: Scarlet Alliance: https://www.scarletalliance.org.au/ MERCH: https://www.somebodyyoulove.net/store | |||
| 60. Somebody You Love still has a podcast | 31 Aug 2023 | 01:19:48 | |
CW: Deaths of peers 54:29 - 1:00:00 Bella Green’s book ‘Happy Endings’: https://www.booktopia.com.au/happy-endings-bella-green/book/9781760982768.html Patreon (from $3AUD/month): http://www.patreon.com/somebodyyoupod For more info on sex work in Australia, please check out the following organisations: Scarlet Alliance: https://www.scarletalliance.org.au/ MERCH: https://www.somebodyyoulove.net/store | |||
| 59. Somebody You Love lost 50kgs (Lex Leigh) | 01 Jun 2023 | 00:54:52 | |
CW: Weight loss, fatphobia Holly & Jenna interview Lex Leigh - a nerdy gamer girl who has worked in the adult industry her entire adult life, including online and in person, and over the last few years has lost a total of 50kgs. She shares with us her reasons for wanting to lose weight, the physical and mental toll it has taken on her, and the reactions of clients/fans and her peers. Instagram: http://www.instagram.com/somebodyyoupod
ACT (SWOP ACT): https://meridianact.org.au/swop/ MERCH: https://www.somebodyyoulove.net/store | |||
| 58. The Problem with the P-word | 13 Apr 2023 | 01:04:13 | |
CW: SW slurs Why don't we like to be called "prostitutes"? When did this start and what are the alternatives? What is the harm in using slurs? What are the common arguments people use to continue saying the p-word? We know we've said we don't like the word on our show, but we've not gone into depth and we've received a few questions about it, so here's a whole hour dedicated to this gross word (that SWers are welcome to reclaim if they wish)! Instagram: http://www.instagram.com/somebodyyoupod Twitter: http://www.twitter.com/somebodyyoupod Facebook: http://www.facebook.com/somebodyyoupod
ACT (SWOP ACT): https://meridianact.org.au/swop/ NSW (SWOP NSW): https://swop.org.au/ NT (SWOP NT): https://www.ntahc.org.au/swopnt Qld (Respect Inc): https://respectqld.org.au/ SA (SIN): http://www.sin.org.au/sindex.html Tas (Scarlet Alliance): https://scarletalliance.org.au/links/ Vic (Vixen Collective): https://www.vixencollective.org/vc WA (SWEAR):http://sexworkerrightswa.org WA (Magenta): http://magenta.org.au MERCH: https://www.somebodyyoulove.net/store | |||
| 57. Somebody You Love is a gay male escort | 16 Mar 2023 | 00:48:47 | |
Charlie has many years experience in different areas of the industry, having started initially in Aotearoa (New Zealand) doing online work as well as full service. He is currently the Male Project Worker at SWOP NSW and he joins us today to talk to us about how and where M4M sex work takes place, hookup culture and opportunistic work, resources and access to community, and safer sex practises. 1:52: Main segment 41:07: Shit People Say Instagram: http://www.instagram.com/somebodyyoupod Twitter: http://www.twitter.com/somebodyyoupod Facebook: http://www.facebook.com/somebodyyoupod For more info on sex work in Australia, please check out the following organisations: ACT (SWOP ACT): https://meridianact.org.au/swop/ NSW (SWOP NSW): https://swop.org.au/ NT (SWOP NT): https://www.ntahc.org.au/swopnt Qld (Respect Inc): https://respectqld.org.au/ SA (SIN): http://www.sin.org.au/sindex.html Tas (Scarlet Alliance): https://scarletalliance.org.au/links/ Vic (Vixen Collective): https://www.vixencollective.org/vc WA (SWEAR):http://sexworkerrightswa.org WA (Magenta): http://magenta.org.au MERCH: https://www.somebodyyoulove.net/store | |||
| 56. Somebody You Love is a transgender escort | 16 Feb 2023 | 00:59:08 | |
Sophie is renowned for being the only German trans mistress in Australia and she recently announced her intentions to retire from SW this year, due to the negative experiences she has encountered as a trans person within the industry. We’ve had gender diverse people on the show before, but thus far we haven't delved into the challenges unique to this community, so we invited Sophie on the show to share her perspective. Meaningful Work: Transgender Experiences in the Sex Trade: https://www.transequality.org/sites/default/files/Meaningful%20Work-Full%20Report_FINAL_3.pdf Kirby Institute 2018 Australian Trans and Gender Diverse Sexual Health Survey: https://kirby.unsw.edu.au/report/2018-australian-trans-and-gender-diverse-sexual-health-survey-report-findings Patreon (from $3AUD/month): http://www.patreon.com/somebodyyoupod Instagram: http://www.instagram.com/somebodyyoupod Twitter: http://www.twitter.com/somebodyyoupod Facebook: http://www.facebook.com/somebodyyoupod For more info on sex work in Australia, please check out the following organisations: Scarlet Alliance: https://www.scarletalliance.org.au/ ACT (SWOP ACT): https://meridianact.org.au/swop/ NSW (SWOP NSW): https://swop.org.au/ NT (SWOP NT): https://www.ntahc.org.au/swopnt Qld (Respect Inc): https://respectqld.org.au/ SA (SIN): http://www.sin.org.au/sindex.html Tas (Scarlet Alliance): https://scarletalliance.org.au/links/ Vic (Vixen Collective): https://www.vixencollective.org/vc WA (SWEAR): http://sexworkerrightswa.org WA (Magenta): http://magenta.org.au MERCH: https://www.somebodyyoulove.net/store | |||
| 55. Somebody You Love is a sex worker's parent (Jenna's mum) | 19 Jan 2023 | 00:41:04 | |
Jenna managed to convince her mum to be on the show, and here she is - giving us the full, honest lowdown on what it’s like to have your daughter tell you she’s a sex worker. Patreon (from $3AUD/month): http://www.patreon.com/somebodyyoupod Instagram: http://www.instagram.com/somebodyyoupod Twitter: http://www.twitter.com/somebodyyoupod Facebook: http://www.facebook.com/somebodyyoupod
For more info on sex work in Australia, please check out the following organisations: Scarlet Alliance: https://www.scarletalliance.org.au/ ACT (SWOP ACT): https://meridianact.org.au/swop/ NSW (SWOP NSW): https://swop.org.au/ NT (SWOP NT): https://www.ntahc.org.au/swopnt Qld (Respect Inc): https://respectqld.org.au/ SA (SIN): http://www.sin.org.au/sindex.html Tas (Scarlet Alliance): https://scarletalliance.org.au/links/ Vic (Vixen Collective): https://www.vixencollective.org/vc WA (SWEAR):http://sexworkerrightswa.org WA (Magenta):http://magenta.org.au MERCH: https://www.somebodyyoulove.net/store | |||
| 72. Turned On: Pretty Woman | 08 Aug 2024 | 01:07:25 | |
Holly finally convinced Jenna to watch Pretty Woman and here we are! For more info on sex work in Australia, please check out the following organisations: Scarlet Alliance: https://www.scarletalliance.org.au/ MERCH: https://www.somebodyyoulove.net/store | |||
| 54. Somebody You Love gets an STI test | 29 Dec 2022 | 01:06:41 | |
CW: Mentions of sexual assault This week Holly & Jenna explain what you might expect when going to get STI tests and share some of their own horror stories of going to do so. Jenna shares a Shit People Say interaction with someone who thinks she is running a sting operation, and a listener sends in a thoughtful and nuanced question about how we can best support providers when they are going through a horrible time. 1:19: Main Segment: Sexual health gaps in the medical system 51:46: Shit People Say: r u a cop 55:36: Question of the Week: How should a client respond when a worker announces they have suffered an assault in the workplace? Patreon (from $3AUD/month): http://www.patreon.com/somebodyyoupod Instagram: http://www.instagram.com/somebodyyoupod Twitter: http://www.twitter.com/somebodyyoupod Facebook: http://www.facebook.com/somebodyyoupod
For more info on sex work in Australia, please check out the following organisations: Scarlet Alliance: https://www.scarletalliance.org.au/ ACT (SWOP ACT): https://meridianact.org.au/swop/ NSW (SWOP NSW): https://swop.org.au/ NT (SWOP NT): https://www.ntahc.org.au/swopnt Qld (Respect Inc): https://respectqld.org.au/ SA (SIN): http://www.sin.org.au/sindex.html Tas (Scarlet Alliance): https://scarletalliance.org.au/links/ Vic (Vixen Collective): https://www.vixencollective.org/vc WA (SWEAR): http://sexworkerrightswa.org WA (Magenta): http://magenta.org.au MERCH: https://www.somebodyyoulove.net/store | |||
| 53. Somebody You Love is married to a sex worker (Mr Love) | 15 Dec 2022 | 00:49:29 | |
Mr Love is Jenna’s husband and primary partner of 13 years. He’s also our sound engineer, and probably would’ve preferred to keep it that way, but Jenna & Holly somehow managed to convince him to make a guest appearance on the show, so here he is! Patreon (from $3AUD/month): http://www.patreon.com/somebodyyoupod For more info on sex work in Australia, please check out the following organisations: MERCH: https://www.somebodyyoulove.net/store | |||
| 52. Turned On: Nude Next Door | 08 Dec 2022 | 00:53:00 | |
Today Holly and Jenna are giving their uncensored opinions on the Australian Broadcasting Corporation 's (ABC) Compass TV Special 'Nude Next Door', while hoping they don't get sued. Nude Next Door featured our very own Jenna Love, along with Billie Beever, Coralea Jade, Billie Peques, and Phoebe Thompson. For more info on sex work in Australia, please check out the following organisations: MERCH: https://www.somebodyyoulove.net/store | |||
| 51. Somebody You Love has childhood trauma (and that's okay) | 17 Nov 2022 | 00:39:14 | |
TW: Trauma (obviously), and sexual trauma Instagram: http://www.instagram.com/somebodyyoupod Twitter: http://www.twitter.com/somebodyyoupod Facebook: http://www.facebook.com/somebodyyoupod Somebody You Love is sponsored by Assembly Four, empowering sex workers through technology: https://assemblyfour.com/
For more info on sex work in Australia, please check out the following organisations: Scarlet Alliance: https://www.scarletalliance.org.au/ ACT (SWOP ACT): https://meridianact.org.au/swop/ NSW (SWOP NSW): https://swop.org.au/ NT (SWOP NT): https://www.ntahc.org.au/swopnt Qld (Respect Inc): https://respectqld.org.au/ SA (SIN): http://www.sin.org.au/sindex.html Tas (Scarlet Alliance): https://scarletalliance.org.au/links/ Vic (Vixen Collective): https://www.vixencollective.org/vc WA (SWEAR): http://sexworkerrightswa.org MERCH: https://www.somebodyyoulove.net/store | |||
| 50. Somebody You Love has group sex | 08 Sep 2022 | 00:48:50 | |
It’s the threesome episode! We talk about both the emotional and physical things you might want to consider before jumping into group sex… including boundaries, safer sex, and voyeurism. And for Shit People Say Jenna shares some insights from clients on the subtleties of her screening process.
Patreon (from $3AUD/month): http://www.patreon.com/somebodyyoupod Instagram: http://www.instagram.com/somebodyyoupod Twitter: http://www.twitter.com/somebodyyoupod Facebook: http://www.facebook.com/somebodyyoupod Somebody You Love is sponsored by Assembly Four, empowering sex workers through technology: https://assemblyfour.com/
For more info on sex work in Australia, please check out the following organisations: Scarlet Alliance: https://www.scarletalliance.org.au/ ACT (SWOP ACT): https://meridianact.org.au/swop/ NSW (SWOP NSW): https://swop.org.au/ NT (SWOP NT): https://www.ntahc.org.au/swopnt Qld (Respect Inc): https://respectqld.org.au/ SA (SIN): http://www.sin.org.au/sindex.html Tas (Scarlet Alliance): https://scarletalliance.org.au/links/ Vic (Vixen Collective): https://www.vixencollective.org/vc WA (SWEAR): http://sexworkerrightswa.org WA (Magenta): http://magenta.org.au MERCH: https://www.somebodyyoulove.net/store | |||
| 49. Somebody You Love gets jealous | 01 Sep 2022 | 01:00:14 | |
It’s the jealousy episode! Do we get jealous of each other? Of other providers? Does Mr Love get jealous about Jenna’s clients? We talk about jealousy in the world of non-monogamy, answer a question about naked spooning mechanics, and hear from someone who simply cannot NOT give their uninformed opinion on sex work. 1:11 Main Segment: Jealousy 36:05 Misconception: Polyamorous people don’t experience jealousy 45:07 Question of the week: How to spoon?? 50:30 Shit People Say “I simply cannot NOT give my opinion” Patreon (from $3AUD/month): http://www.patreon.com/somebodyyoupod Instagram: http://www.instagram.com/somebodyyoupod Twitter: http://www.twitter.com/somebodyyoupod Facebook: http://www.facebook.com/somebodyyoupod Somebody You Love is sponsored by Assembly Four, empowering sex workers through technology: https://assemblyfour.com/
For more info on sex work in Australia, please check out the following organisations: Scarlet Alliance: https://www.scarletalliance.org.au/ ACT (SWOP ACT): https://meridianact.org.au/swop/ NSW (SWOP NSW): https://swop.org.au/ NT (SWOP NT): https://www.ntahc.org.au/swopnt Qld (Respect Inc): https://respectqld.org.au/ SA (SIN): http://www.sin.org.au/sindex.html Tas (Scarlet Alliance): https://scarletalliance.org.au/links/ Vic (Vixen Collective): https://www.vixencollective.org/vc WA (SWEAR): http://sexworkerrightswa.org WA (Magenta): http://magenta.org.au MERCH: https://www.somebodyyoulove.net/store | |||
| 48. Decrim Qld: Bonus Interview | 29 Aug 2022 | 00:09:30 | |
As promised, here is the little bonus clip for this week. which is a short interview with an Asian migrant sex worker based in Queensland MERCH: https://www.somebodyyoulove.net/store | |||
| 48. Somebody You Love needs decrim in Queensland | 24 Aug 2022 | 00:46:41 | |
Jenna is joined this week by Janelle and Carly from Decrim QLD, a committee of sex workers who have joined with Respect Inc., to progress the removal of harmful and discriminatory sex work laws and achieve decriminalisation in Queensland. They talk about the current QLRC Review, what needs to change, and what we're afraid may not change. For more info on sex work in Australia, please check out the following organisations: ACT (SWOP ACT): https://meridianact.org.au/swop/ MERCH: https://www.somebodyyoulove.net/store | |||
| 47. Clients Behaving Badly | 18 Aug 2022 | 01:12:06 | |
Too many messages, obsessions with chairs, filthy tongues & poopy bums: today Holly & Jenna are sharing some of the reasons they have had to “fire” their clients. TW: Non-consensual sexual activity, boundary pushing 6:14 Main segment: Clients behaving badly Patreon (from $3AUD/month): http://www.patreon.com/somebodyyoupod Instagram: http://www.instagram.com/somebodyyoupod Twitter: http://www.twitter.com/somebodyyoupod Facebook: http://www.facebook.com/somebodyyoupod Somebody You Love is sponsored by Assembly Four, empowering sex workers through technology: https://assemblyfour.com/
For more info on sex work in Australia, please check out the following organisations: Scarlet Alliance: https://www.scarletalliance.org.au/ ACT (SWOP ACT): https://meridianact.org.au/swop/ NSW (SWOP NSW): https://swop.org.au/ NT (SWOP NT): https://www.ntahc.org.au/swopnt Qld (Respect Inc): https://respectqld.org.au/ SA (SIN): http://www.sin.org.au/sindex.html Tas (Scarlet Alliance): https://scarletalliance.org.au/links/ Vic (Vixen Collective): https://www.vixencollective.org/vc WA (SWEAR): http://sexworkerrightswa.org WA (Magenta): http://magenta.org.au MERCH: https://www.somebodyyoulove.net/store | |||
| 46. Somebody You Love is not a qualified therapist | 11 Aug 2022 | 01:01:18 | |
Prompted by a patron question, Holly & Jenna discuss where the line is between sex work and therapy, what’s appropriate to discuss with a sex worker, and how to broach the tough topics. The misconception this week is that oral sex is safe sex and for Shit People Say Jenna shares one of the more amusing (and lucrative?) interactions she’s had in a long time! The Satisfaction Project episode ‘Sex work or therapy?’: https://open.spotify.com/episode/6oKlBqIGEJ7tqadDzHCwk0?si=MLMm21ZrQJi_W2Haii2oUQ SHIPS: https://www.shipspsychology.com.au Patreon (from $3AUD/month): http://www.patreon.com/somebodyyoupod Instagram: http://www.instagram.com/somebodyyoupod Twitter: http://www.twitter.com/somebodyyoupod Facebook: http://www.facebook.com/somebodyyoupod Somebody You Love is sponsored by Assembly Four, empowering sex workers through technology: https://assemblyfour.com/
For more info on sex work in Australia, please check out the following organisations: Scarlet Alliance: https://www.scarletalliance.org.au/ ACT (SWOP ACT): https://meridianact.org.au/swop/ NSW (SWOP NSW): https://swop.org.au/ NT (SWOP NT): https://www.ntahc.org.au/swopnt Qld (Respect Inc): https://respectqld.org.au/ SA (SIN): http://www.sin.org.au/sindex.html Tas (Scarlet Alliance): https://scarletalliance.org.au/links/ Vic (Vixen Collective): https://www.vixencollective.org/vc WA (SWEAR): http://sexworkerrightswa.org WA (Magenta): http://magenta.org.au MERCH: https://www.somebodyyoulove.net/store | |||
| 71. Somebody You Love wrote a book about sluts (Dr Hilary Caldwell) | 25 Jul 2024 | 00:53:21 | |
Note: we had some technical issues when recording this episode, so unfortunately the audio isn’t at the level we usually like to deliver! Buy SLUTDOM: https://www.uqp.com.au/books/slutdom-reclaiming-shame-free-sexuality Dr Hilary Caldwell has been a sex worker for over 20 years and decided to come out of hiding to publish her first book. She is an academic with a Masters in Health Science and Applied Science. Her doctorate, ‘Women Who Buy Sex in Australia’ was the first study in the world to explore women buying sexual services and was informed by her sex work and professional career in the field of sexology. She is kinky and queer, a mother and grandmother. Dr Caldwell has recently released her first book, Slutdom, which argues convincingly and passionately for women’s enjoyment of sex as a force to advance gender equality. Delving into topics such as pleasure, pain, empowerment, and including real women’s stories and saucy tips, we are welcoming Dr Caldwell on the show to discuss her research, the Slutdom movement and her experiences as an academic and secret sex worker. Patreon (from $3AUD/month): http://www.patreon.com/somebodyyoupod For more info on sex work in Australia, please check out the following organisations: Scarlet Alliance: https://www.scarletalliance.org.au/ MERCH: https://www.somebodyyoulove.net/store | |||
| 45. Turned On: Louis and the Brothel | 04 Aug 2022 | 01:00:36 | |
Unfortunately the audio for this episode is not great, we’re sorry! Turned On is a series in which Holly & Jenna react to different representations of sex work in media. In this episode, they are reacting to ‘Louis and the Brothel’, Louis Theroux’s 2003 documentary where he visits a Nevada brothel. Patreon (from $3AUD/month): http://www.patreon.com/somebodyyoupod Instagram: http://www.instagram.com/somebodyyoupod Twitter: http://www.twitter.com/somebodyyoupod Facebook: http://www.facebook.com/somebodyyoupod Somebody You Love is sponsored by Assembly Four, empowering sex workers through technology: https://assemblyfour.com/
For more info on sex work in Australia, please check out the following organisations: Scarlet Alliance: https://www.scarletalliance.org.au/ ACT (SWOP ACT): https://meridianact.org.au/swop/ NSW (SWOP NSW): https://swop.org.au/ NT (SWOP NT): https://www.ntahc.org.au/swopnt Qld (Respect Inc): https://respectqld.org.au/ SA (SIN): http://www.sin.org.au/sindex.html Tas (Scarlet Alliance): https://scarletalliance.org.au/links/ Vic (Vixen Collective): https://www.vixencollective.org/vc WA (SWEAR):http://sexworkerrightswa.org WA (Magenta):http://magenta.org.au MERCH: https://www.somebodyyoulove.net/store | |||
| 44. Somebody You Love is a touring escort | 28 Jul 2022 | 00:53:32 | |
Jenna is our special guest today! Holly interviews her about how she organises tours around the country. They talk about the misconception that sex workers can’t say no to particular clients and/or services. Holly shares a classic Shit People Say, and they discuss trends over time in sex work requests and services, like choking, golden showers, rimming, pegging, and cuddling! CHAPTERS 2:27 Main Segment: SYL is a touring escort 36:05 Misconception: That SWers can’t say no 41:38 Shit People Say: “I’m looking for sex, not English classes” 45:11 Question of the Week: Sex work trends Patreon (from $3AUD/month): http://www.patreon.com/somebodyyoupod Instagram: http://www.instagram.com/somebodyyoupod Twitter: http://www.twitter.com/somebodyyoupod Facebook: http://www.facebook.com/somebodyyoupod Somebody You Love is sponsored by Assembly Four, empowering sex workers through technology: https://assemblyfour.com/
For more info on sex work in Australia, please check out the following organisations: Scarlet Alliance: https://www.scarletalliance.org.au/ ACT (SWOP ACT): https://meridianact.org.au/swop/ NSW (SWOP NSW): https://swop.org.au/ NT (SWOP NT): https://www.ntahc.org.au/swopnt Qld (Respect Inc): https://respectqld.org.au/ SA (SIN): http://www.sin.org.au/sindex.html Tas (Scarlet Alliance): https://scarletalliance.org.au/links/ Vic (Vixen Collective): https://www.vixencollective.org/vc WA (SWEAR): http://sexworkerrightswa.org WA (Magenta): http://magenta.org.au MERCH: https://www.somebodyyoulove.net/store | |||
| 43. Somebody You Love is a sex work historian (Kaytlin Bailey) | 21 Jul 2022 | 00:52:35 | |
Kaytlin Bailey is a contrarian by nature and a provocateur by trade. She is an internationally touring stand-up comic, sex worker rights advocate and writer. In 2020 she founded Old Pros where she continues her stubborn crusade against whorephobia and today she is talking to Holly & Jenna about why the history of sex work matters, who her favourite old pros are, and some of the complexities of advocacy and exploitation. Old Pros: https://oldprosonline.org/
10:11 Money for feelings: political fundraising vs sex work 12:44 What is Old Pros? 19:23 Why the history of sex work matters 25:27 Kaytlin’s favourite whores of yore 43:19 Adversity and diversity in advocacy 48:53 Conversations about exploitation Instagram: http://www.instagram.com/somebodyyoupod Twitter: http://www.twitter.com/somebodyyoupod Facebook: http://www.facebook.com/somebodyyoupod Somebody You Love is sponsored by Assembly Four, empowering sex workers through technology: https://assemblyfour.com/
For more info on sex work in Australia, please check out the following organisations: ACT (SWOP ACT): https://meridianact.org.au/swop/ NSW (SWOP NSW): https://swop.org.au/ NT (SWOP NT): https://www.ntahc.org.au/swopnt Qld (Respect Inc): https://respectqld.org.au/ SA (SIN): http://www.sin.org.au/sindex.html Tas (Scarlet Alliance): https://scarletalliance.org.au/links/ Vic (Vixen Collective): https://www.vixencollective.org/vc WA (SWEAR):http://sexworkerrightswa.org WA (Magenta): http://magenta.org.au MERCH: https://www.somebodyyoulove.net/store | |||
| 42. Turned On: 6 Sex Workers vs 1 Secret Virgin | 14 Jul 2022 | 00:48:02 | |
Turned On is a new series in which Holly & Jenna react to different representations of sex work in media. For this first episode, they are reacting to Jubilee’s YouTube video ‘6 Sex Workers vs 1 Secret Virgin’ from their Odd One Out series. Watch the video first: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eKVGUfbDP2g Patreon (from $3AUD/month): http://www.patreon.com/somebodyyoupod Instagram: http://www.instagram.com/somebodyyoupod Twitter: http://www.twitter.com/somebodyyoupod Facebook: http://www.facebook.com/somebodyyoupod Somebody You Love is sponsored by Assembly Four, empowering sex workers through technology: https://assemblyfour.com/
For more info on sex work in Australia, please check out the following organisations: Scarlet Alliance: https://www.scarletalliance.org.au/ ACT (SWOP ACT): https://meridianact.org.au/swop/ NSW (SWOP NSW): https://swop.org.au/ NT (SWOP NT): https://www.ntahc.org.au/swopnt Qld (Respect Inc): https://respectqld.org.au/ SA (SIN): http://www.sin.org.au/sindex.html Tas (Scarlet Alliance): https://scarletalliance.org.au/links/ Vic (Vixen Collective): https://www.vixencollective.org/vc WA (SWEAR):http://sexworkerrightswa.org WA (Magenta): http://magenta.org.au MERCH: https://www.somebodyyoulove.net/store | |||
| 41. Somebody You Love is a Deaf sex worker (Katia Schwartz, Dahlia Daye) | 07 Jul 2022 | 00:53:35 | |
Welcome to season 3! To kick things off, Holly & Jenna are joined by Deaf full service sex worker and owner of Sydney's Sky Sirens, Katia Schwartz, her creative surrogate, Auslan qualified interpreter and sex worker Dahlia Day, and Auslan interpreter Amanda. This special episode is available in both audio and video formats, with the video including Auslan interpretation and captions, and the audio being accompanied by a transcript (see below). Watch the video here: https://youtu.be/Jv01cpNLzyA Twitter: http://www.twitter.com/somebodyyoupod Facebook: http://www.facebook.com/somebodyyoupod Somebody You Love is sponsored by Assembly Four, empowering sex workers through technology: https://assemblyfour.com/
For more info on sex work in Australia, please check out the following organisations: ACT (SWOP ACT): https://meridianact.org.au/swop/ NSW (SWOP NSW): https://swop.org.au/ NT (SWOP NT): https://www.ntahc.org.au/swopnt Qld (Respect Inc): https://respectqld.org.au/ SA (SIN): http://www.sin.org.au/sindex.html Tas (Scarlet Alliance): https://scarletalliance.org.au/links/ Vic (Vixen Collective): https://www.vixencollective.org/vc WA (SWEAR): http://sexworkerrightswa.org WA (Magenta): http://magenta.org.au MERCH: https://www.somebodyyoulove.net/store | |||
| The Satisfaction Project: Everyday Activism with Holly Harte | 12 May 2022 | 00:49:50 | |
This week we are again bringing you an episode of Georgie Wolf’s podcast The Satisfaction Project while Holly, Mr Love, and I enjoy a break between seasons 2 and 3 of Somebody You Love. The Satisfaction Project is your ultimate resource for enjoyable experiences with escorts and other independent, hands-on sex workers. The episode we are sharing with you today is called Everyday Activism with Holly Harte and yep, that’s our girl Holly chatting to Georgie about practical sex work activism - everyday ways that you can stand up for us. You can go to satisfactionproject.com to find a plethora of resources, and you can find the other episodes of the podcast wherever you listen to podcasts! We’ll be back in a few weeks with season 3 of Somebody You Love, but in the meantime we hope you enjoy The Satisfaction Project! MERCH: https://www.somebodyyoulove.net/store | |||
| The Satisfaction Project: Mythbusting with Jenna Love | 28 Apr 2022 | 00:40:34 | |
While we are taking a much needed break between seasons, we wanted to share with you some episodes from our dear friend Georgie Wolf’s podcast, The Satisfaction Project. The Satisfaction Project is your ultimate resource for enjoyable experiences with escorts and other independent, hands-on sex workers. You may remember Georgie from episode 23 - Somebody You Love is a Satisfaction Expert. Georgie has given us permission to share the very first episode of her podcast, titled Mythbusting with Jenna Love and yep, you guessed it - it features our Jenna. Jenna and Georgie talk about a whole bunch of misconceptions around the sex industry, some of which we have also covered on Somebody You Love. You can go to satisfactionproject.com to find a plethora of resources, and you can find the other episodes of the podcast wherever you listen to podcasts! MERCH: https://www.somebodyyoulove.net/store | |||
| 40. Somebody You Love sleeps with married men | 14 Apr 2022 | 00:57:08 | |
It’s the season 2 finale! Join us while we ponder some big questions while trying not to get canceled… why do people cheat? And why do they do it with sex workers? Do we judge our clients who are cheating? Do we take responsibility for helping to facilitate it? 44:43 Misconception: Most of our clients are married men 51:28 Awesome Shit People Say: “Ladies of the night”
Patreon (from $3AUD/month): http://www.patreon.com/somebodyyoupod Instagram: http://www.instagram.com/somebodyyoupod Twitter: http://www.twitter.com/somebodyyoupod Facebook: http://www.facebook.com/somebodyyoupod Somebody You Love is sponsored by Assembly Four, empowering sex workers through technology: https://assemblyfour.com/
For more info on sex work in Australia, please check out the following organisations: Scarlet Alliance: https://www.scarletalliance.org.au/ ACT (SWOP ACT): https://meridianact.org.au/swop/ NSW (SWOP NSW): https://swop.org.au/ NT (SWOP NT): https://www.ntahc.org.au/swopnt Qld (Respect Inc): https://respectqld.org.au/ SA (SIN): http://www.sin.org.au/sindex.html Tas (Scarlet Alliance): https://scarletalliance.org.au/links/ Vic (Vixen Collective): https://www.vixencollective.org/vc WA (SWEAR): http://sexworkerrightswa.org WA (Magenta): http://magenta.org.au MERCH: https://www.somebodyyoulove.net/store | |||
| 39. Somebody You Love is a client of sex workers | 07 Apr 2022 | 00:58:33 | |
We put a shout-out on Patreon to ask if anyone who is a client of the sex industry would like to come on the show, and thus this episode was born! Maria and Steve join us to speak candidly about their reasons for visiting sex workers, how their first experiences went, and the impact it has had on their lives. 2:52: Maria 31:06: Steve Instagram: http://www.instagram.com/somebodyyoupod Twitter: http://www.twitter.com/somebodyyoupod Facebook: http://www.facebook.com/somebodyyoupod Somebody You Love is sponsored by Assembly Four, empowering sex workers through technology: https://assemblyfour.com/
For more info on sex work in Australia, please check out the following organisations: ACT (SWOP ACT): https://meridianact.org.au/swop/ NSW (SWOP NSW): https://swop.org.au/ NT (SWOP NT): https://www.ntahc.org.au/swopnt Qld (Respect Inc): https://respectqld.org.au/ SA (SIN): http://www.sin.org.au/sindex.html Tas (Scarlet Alliance): https://scarletalliance.org.au/links/ Vic (Vixen Collective): https://www.vixencollective.org/vc WA (SWEAR):http://sexworkerrightswa.org WA (Magenta): http://magenta.org.au MERCH: https://www.somebodyyoulove.net/store | |||
| 38. Just The Tips: So you want to be an independent escort? | 31 Mar 2022 | 00:54:55 | |
TW: Assault of a SWer The first episode of our Just The Tips series designed for sex workers! Jenna & Holly break down what they did wrong so you don’t make the same mistakes! Is being an independent escort right for you? What is involved in running your own escorting business? Where can you go for information? How do you pick your name? Do you need to get professional photos? Do you need a separate email? Phone number? Social media accounts? Patreon (from $3AUD/month): http://www.patreon.com/somebodyyoupod Instagram: http://www.instagram.com/somebodyyoupod Twitter: http://www.twitter.com/somebodyyoupod Facebook: http://www.facebook.com/somebodyyoupod Somebody You Love is sponsored by Assembly Four, empowering sex workers through technology: https://assemblyfour.com/
For more info on sex work in Australia, please check out the following organisations: Scarlet Alliance: https://www.scarletalliance.org.au/ ACT (SWOP ACT): https://meridianact.org.au/swop/ NSW (SWOP NSW): https://swop.org.au/ NT (SWOP NT): https://www.ntahc.org.au/swopnt Qld (Respect Inc): https://respectqld.org.au/ SA (SIN): http://www.sin.org.au/sindex.html Tas (Scarlet Alliance): https://scarletalliance.org.au/links/ Vic (Vixen Collective): https://www.vixencollective.org/vc WA (SWEAR): http://sexworkerrightswa.org WA (Magenta): http://magenta.org.au MERCH: https://www.somebodyyoulove.net/store | |||
| 70. Somebody You Love helps you ask sticky questions | 18 Apr 2024 | 01:07:33 | |
How do I ask how recently they were tested for STIs? How do I ask for us to do something different this time? What if I get down there and it smells really bad? Holly & Jenna give you tips on how to tackle tricky topics and sticky subjects. They also answer the listener question “Is there room for older ladies to succeed in SW?” For more info on sex work in Australia, please check out the following organisations: Scarlet Alliance: https://www.scarletalliance.org.au/ MERCH: https://www.somebodyyoulove.net/store | |||
| 37. Somebody You Love is a male escort for women (Darian Rye) | 24 Mar 2022 | 00:56:59 | |
Darian Rye is a male escort for women and couples, based in Canberra, Australia. He entered the adult industry in 2016, and since then has grown a successful business in keeping women company. We talk about what female clients are looking for, maintaining boundaries, and Darian hides in a closet. Literally. 31:56 Patron questions: Advice for first-timers, funny stories, dogs or cats? Instagram: http://www.instagram.com/somebodyyoupod Twitter: http://www.twitter.com/somebodyyoupod Facebook: http://www.facebook.com/somebodyyoupod Somebody You Love is sponsored by Assembly Four, empowering sex workers through technology: https://assemblyfour.com/
For more info on sex work in Australia, please check out the following organisations: ACT (SWOP ACT): https://meridianact.org.au/swop/ NSW (SWOP NSW): https://swop.org.au/ NT (SWOP NT): https://www.ntahc.org.au/swopnt Qld (Respect Inc): https://respectqld.org.au/ SA (SIN): http://www.sin.org.au/sindex.html Tas (Scarlet Alliance): https://scarletalliance.org.au/links/ Vic (Vixen Collective): https://www.vixencollective.org/vc WA (SWEAR):http://sexworkerrightswa.org WA (Magenta): http://magenta.org.au MERCH: https://www.somebodyyoulove.net/store | |||
| 36. Somebody You Love has suspicious bank accounts | 17 Mar 2022 | 00:59:54 | |
TW: Sex trafficking, Eating disorders Today we are looking at an absurd document released earlier this year by AUSTRAC. For Shit People Say, Jenna and Holly both go on rants about supposed “compliments”, our Misconception is that sex work is easy, and the Question of the Week is a doozy (TW: ED for the Question) 1:49 Main Segment: AUSTRAC’s Guide to Detecting and Stopping Forced Sexual Servitude 29:05 Shit People Say: “Learn to take a compliment” 46:25 Misconception: Sex work is easy, a lazy option 52:17 Question of the week: Do you report her to the site to try to help her or leave her be to earn a little money? The AUSTRAC Guide: https://www.austrac.gov.au/sites/default/files/2022-02/AUSTRAC_FCG_DetectingAndStoppingForcedSexualServitude_web.pdf Patreon (from $3AUD/month): http://www.patreon.com/somebodyyoupod Instagram: http://www.instagram.com/somebodyyoupod Twitter: http://www.twitter.com/somebodyyoupod Facebook: http://www.facebook.com/somebodyyoupod Somebody You Love is sponsored by Assembly Four, empowering sex workers through technology: https://assemblyfour.com/
For more info on sex work in Australia, please check out the following organisations: Scarlet Alliance: https://www.scarletalliance.org.au/ ACT (SWOP ACT): https://meridianact.org.au/swop/ NSW (SWOP NSW): https://swop.org.au/ NT (SWOP NT): https://www.ntahc.org.au/swopnt Qld (Respect Inc): https://respectqld.org.au/ SA (SIN): http://www.sin.org.au/sindex.html Tas (Scarlet Alliance): https://scarletalliance.org.au/links/ Vic (Vixen Collective): https://www.vixencollective.org/vc WA (SWEAR): http://sexworkerrightswa.org WA (Magenta): http://magenta.org.au MERCH: https://www.somebodyyoulove.net/store | |||
| 35. Somebody You Love is a supersize BBW (Isabella Martin) | 10 Mar 2022 | 00:58:47 | |
Isabella Martin is a proud “fatgirl” and the creator of the the BBW Badgirl Podcast. She is a Mexican/Irish super-size BBW sexworker based out of Los Angeles, CA. Over the last 10+ years she has worked multiple facets of sexwork: in person as an escort and dominatrix, as well as, pre-pandemic virtual work including phone sex, cam girl and most recently content creating on platforms like Onlyfans. 1:26 Main Segment: Sex work as a supersize BBW 32:05 Patron questions: Guns, body positivity, how to be with bigger bodies, loving your body 49:47 Shit People Say: “no one ever will perpetrate violence towards overweight women” Instagram: http://www.instagram.com/somebodyyoupod Twitter: http://www.twitter.com/somebodyyoupod Facebook: http://www.facebook.com/somebodyyoupod Somebody You Love is sponsored by Assembly Four, empowering sex workers through technology: https://assemblyfour.com/
For more info on sex work in Australia, please check out the following organisations: ACT (SWOP ACT): https://meridianact.org.au/swop/ NSW (SWOP NSW): https://swop.org.au/ NT (SWOP NT): https://www.ntahc.org.au/swopnt Qld (Respect Inc): https://respectqld.org.au/ SA (SIN): http://www.sin.org.au/sindex.html Tas (Scarlet Alliance): https://scarletalliance.org.au/links/ Vic (Vixen Collective): https://www.vixencollective.org/vc WA (SWEAR):http://sexworkerrightswa.org WA (Magenta): http://magenta.org.au MERCH: https://www.somebodyyoulove.net/store | |||
| 34. Somebody You Love cannot enter the USA | 03 Mar 2022 | 00:57:23 | |
Happy International Sex Worker Rights Day! Why do many sex workers hide or blur their faces? Spoiler alert: It’s not because they are ugly. We’re talking today about all of the negative consequences faced by those of us who show our faces in our advertising. And Jenna shares an in-person Shit People Say experience. Shit People Say: 43:56 "No, you're a man" Patreon (from $3AUD/month): http://www.patreon.com/somebodyyoupod Instagram: http://www.instagram.com/somebodyyoupod Twitter: http://www.twitter.com/somebodyyoupod Facebook: http://www.facebook.com/somebodyyoupod Somebody You Love is sponsored by Assembly Four, empowering sex workers through technology: https://assemblyfour.com/
For more info on sex work in Australia, please check out the following organisations: Scarlet Alliance: https://www.scarletalliance.org.au/ ACT (SWOP ACT): https://meridianact.org.au/swop/ NSW (SWOP NSW): https://swop.org.au/ NT (SWOP NT): https://www.ntahc.org.au/swopnt Qld (Respect Inc): https://respectqld.org.au/ SA (SIN): http://www.sin.org.au/sindex.html Tas (Scarlet Alliance): https://scarletalliance.org.au/links/ Vic (Vixen Collective): https://www.vixencollective.org/vc WA (SWEAR):http://sexworkerrightswa.org WA (Magenta): http://magenta.org.au MERCH: https://www.somebodyyoulove.net/store | |||
| 33. Somebody You Love tells embarrassing stories Pt 2 | 24 Feb 2022 | 00:48:17 | |
It’s time to tell the rest of the embarrassing work stories our peers submitted anonymously - so might not be the best time to eat your lunch if you’re squeamish! In awesome news, Susan Sarandon posted about being pro-sex work. In bad news, that brought the SWERFs out to play. In okay news, that meant we had some content for Shit People Say this week. Main Segment: 1:39 Anonymous story time Shit People Say: 31:27 “If you can’t service your father it isn’t a job” Patreon (from $3AUD/month): http://www.patreon.com/somebodyyoupod Instagram: http://www.instagram.com/somebodyyoupod Twitter: http://www.twitter.com/somebodyyoupod Facebook: http://www.facebook.com/somebodyyoupod Somebody You Love is sponsored by Assembly Four, empowering sex workers through technology: https://assemblyfour.com/
For more info on sex work in Australia, please check out the following organisations: Scarlet Alliance: https://www.scarletalliance.org.au/ ACT (SWOP ACT): https://meridianact.org.au/swop/ NSW (SWOP NSW): https://swop.org.au/ NT (SWOP NT): https://www.ntahc.org.au/swopnt Qld (Respect Inc): https://respectqld.org.au/ SA (SIN): http://www.sin.org.au/sindex.html Tas (Scarlet Alliance): https://scarletalliance.org.au/links/ Vic (Vixen Collective): https://www.vixencollective.org/vc WA (SWEAR): http://sexworkerrightswa.org WA (Magenta): http://magenta.org.au MERCH: https://www.somebodyyoulove.net/store | |||
| 32. Somebody You Love got decrim! ...or did they? (Jules Kim, Dylan O'Hara) | 17 Feb 2022 | 00:59:42 | |
Today on the show we have a very special episode focusing on the most recent developments in the sex work decrim space. On Thursday 10th February, the Sex Work Decriminalisation Bill 2021 was passed in Victorian parliament and, while we have all been celebrating the extraordinary work of everyone who contributed to this historic milestone, it has been somewhat bittersweet. Dylan O’Hara, the Acting Manager of Vixen, Victoria's peer only sex work organisation, and Jules Kim, the CEO of Scarlet Alliance, Australian Sex Workers Association, join Holly & Jenna to explain the good and the bad. 1:37 Main Segment: Decrim of sex work in Victoria Victorian sex worker? Get involved with Vixen: info@vixencollective.org Scarlet Alliance’s Twitter: https://twitter.com/scarletalliance Vixen’s Twitter: https://twitter.com/VixenCollective Scarlet Alliance’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/scarlet_alliance Scarlet Alliance’s FB page: https://www.facebook.com/scarletalliance.org.au/ Scarlet Alliance website: https://scarletalliance.org.au/ Instagram: http://www.instagram.com/somebodyyoupod Twitter: http://www.twitter.com/somebodyyoupod Facebook: http://www.facebook.com/somebodyyoupod Somebody You Love is sponsored by Assembly Four, empowering sex workers through technology: https://assemblyfour.com/
For more info on sex work in Australia, please check out the following organisations: ACT (SWOP ACT): https://meridianact.org.au/swop/ NSW (SWOP NSW): https://swop.org.au/ NT (SWOP NT): https://www.ntahc.org.au/swopnt Qld (Respect Inc): https://respectqld.org.au/ SA (SIN): http://www.sin.org.au/sindex.html Tas (Scarlet Alliance): https://scarletalliance.org.au/links/ Vic (Vixen Collective): https://www.vixencollective.org/vc WA (SWEAR):http://sexworkerrightswa.org WA (Magenta): http://magenta.org.au MERCH: https://www.somebodyyoulove.net/store | |||
| 31. Somebody You Love tells embarrassing stories | 10 Feb 2022 | 00:53:58 | |
We put a call out to the hooker brains trust and asked them to submit their most embarrassing work stories… anonymously. So this episode we’re pretty much just reading out tales of blood, poop, and vomit. Soz about that. Plus Holly gets a bingo score card of a Shit People Say enquiry. Main Segment: 8:35 Anonymous story time Shit People Say: 41:24 “twice a fortnight” Patreon (from $3AUD/month): http://www.patreon.com/somebodyyoupod Instagram: http://www.instagram.com/somebodyyoupod Twitter: http://www.twitter.com/somebodyyoupod Facebook: http://www.facebook.com/somebodyyoupod Somebody You Love is sponsored by Assembly Four, empowering sex workers through technology: https://assemblyfour.com/
For more info on sex work in Australia, please check out the following organisations: Scarlet Alliance: https://www.scarletalliance.org.au/ ACT (SWOP ACT): https://meridianact.org.au/swop/ NSW (SWOP NSW): https://swop.org.au/ NT (SWOP NT): https://www.ntahc.org.au/swopnt Qld (Respect Inc): https://respectqld.org.au/ SA (SIN): http://www.sin.org.au/sindex.html Tas (Scarlet Alliance): https://scarletalliance.org.au/links/ Vic (Vixen Collective): https://www.vixencollective.org/vc WA (SWEAR): http://sexworkerrightswa.org WA (Magenta): http://magenta.org.au MERCH: https://www.somebodyyoulove.net/store | |||
| FOSTA/SESTA and the impact it had on us | 31 Jan 2022 | 00:21:14 | |
This week we are taking a break from our main episodes and instead giving you a clip from January's Boners Episode - which is available to all $10+ Patrons (and as a video for $20+ Patrons)! MERCH: https://www.somebodyyoulove.net/store | |||
| 30. Somebody You Love loves their job | 27 Jan 2022 | 00:57:23 | |
We’re rubbing it in this week! Sharing all of the best parts of our jobs and why we absolutely love what we do. Plus we share some words from one of our Patrons about clients with disabilities. Main Segment: 1:30 The perks of sex work Question of the Week: 50:22 Clients with disabilities Touching Base: https://www.touchingbase.org/ Patreon (from $3AUD/month): http://www.patreon.com/somebodyyoupod Instagram: http://www.instagram.com/somebodyyoupod Twitter: http://www.twitter.com/somebodyyoupod Facebook: http://www.facebook.com/somebodyyoupod Somebody You Love is sponsored by Assembly Four, empowering sex workers through technology: https://assemblyfour.com/
For more info on sex work in Australia, please check out the following organisations: Scarlet Alliance: https://www.scarletalliance.org.au/ ACT (SWOP ACT): https://meridianact.org.au/swop/ NSW (SWOP NSW): https://swop.org.au/ NT (SWOP NT): https://www.ntahc.org.au/swopnt Qld (Respect Inc): https://respectqld.org.au/ SA (SIN): http://www.sin.org.au/sindex.html Tas (Scarlet Alliance): https://scarletalliance.org.au/links/ Vic (Vixen Collective): https://www.vixencollective.org/vc WA (SWEAR): http://sexworkerrightswa.org WA (Magenta): http://magenta.org.au MERCH: https://www.somebodyyoulove.net/store | |||
| 29. Somebody You Love is dangerous in the bedroom | 20 Jan 2022 | 00:51:53 | |
We’re chatting about mishaps and accidents during (or immediately before) bookings! There are injuries involving blood and broken bones, and somehow we end up talking about poop again. So if those things make you squeamish, be warned! In Shit People Say Jenna realises she has been sassing someone who might not actually be a troll and the Question of the Week is about regular female clients. 2:47 Main Segment: Things get dangerous… and kinda gross. 40:11 Shit People Say: Banging buddies 43:30 Question of the Week: Do either of you have regular individual female clients? If so, what is the proportion between your regular female and male clientele? Patreon (from $3AUD/month): http://www.patreon.com/somebodyyoupod Instagram: http://www.instagram.com/somebodyyoupod Twitter: http://www.twitter.com/somebodyyoupod Facebook: http://www.facebook.com/somebodyyoupod Somebody You Love is sponsored by Assembly Four, empowering sex workers through technology: https://assemblyfour.com/
For more info on sex work in Australia, please check out the following organisations: Scarlet Alliance: https://www.scarletalliance.org.au/ ACT (SWOP ACT): https://meridianact.org.au/swop/ NSW (SWOP NSW): https://swop.org.au/ NT (SWOP NT): https://www.ntahc.org.au/swopnt Qld (Respect Inc): https://respectqld.org.au/ SA (SIN): http://www.sin.org.au/sindex.html Tas (Scarlet Alliance): https://scarletalliance.org.au/links/ Vic (Vixen Collective): https://www.vixencollective.org/vc WA (SWEAR): http://sexworkerrightswa.org WA (Magenta): http://magenta.org.au MERCH: https://www.somebodyyoulove.net/store | |||
| 69. Just The Tips: So you want to be an Independent Escort Pt 3 | 28 Mar 2024 | 00:53:30 | |
In part three of this series (make sure you’ve listened to parts 1 & 2 if you’re new or thinking about joining the industry!), we’re talking about the actual booking - how do you keep time, how to set up for and run a booking, how to do health checks, tips for building assertiveness, and what mental self care is necessary in this job. Patreon (from $3AUD/month): http://www.patreon.com/somebodyyoupod Instagram: http://www.instagram.com/somebodyyoupod Twitter: http://www.twitter.com/somebodyyoupod Facebook: http://www.facebook.com/somebodyyoupod For more info on sex work in Australia, please check out the following organisations: Scarlet Alliance: https://www.scarletalliance.org.au/ ACT (SWOP ACT): https://meridianact.org.au/swop/ NSW (SWOP NSW): https://swop.org.au/ NT (SWOP NT): https://www.ntahc.org.au/swopnt Qld (Respect Inc): https://respectqld.org.au/ SA (SIN): http://www.sin.org.au/sindex.html Tas (Scarlet Alliance): https://scarletalliance.org.au/links/ Vic (Vixen Collective): https://www.vixencollective.org/vc WA (SWEAR): http://sexworkerrightswa.org WA (Magenta): http://magenta.org.au MERCH: https://www.somebodyyoulove.net/store | |||
| 28. Somebody You Love doesn't do it for free (Despo Debby) | 13 Jan 2022 | 00:53:47 | |
CW: discussions of racism 0:51 Main Segment: Debby doesn’t do it for free 28:43 Patron questions: What does Blak mean? What do people get wrong about Indigenous sex workers? What is your favourite reality tv show? 48:20 Shit People Say: “I’ll pray for you” The Debbys on Twitter: https://twitter.com/the_debbys The Debbys on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/debbydoesntdoitforfree Decolonise Sex Work: https://www.instagram.com/decolonisesexworkau Instagram: http://www.instagram.com/somebodyyoupod Twitter: http://www.twitter.com/somebodyyoupod Facebook: http://www.facebook.com/somebodyyoupod Somebody You Love is sponsored by Assembly Four, empowering sex workers through technology: https://assemblyfour.com/
For more info on sex work in Australia, please check out the following organisations: ACT (SWOP ACT): https://meridianact.org.au/swop/ NSW (SWOP NSW): https://swop.org.au/ NT (SWOP NT): https://www.ntahc.org.au/swopnt Qld (Respect Inc): https://respectqld.org.au/ SA (SIN): http://www.sin.org.au/sindex.html Tas (Scarlet Alliance): https://scarletalliance.org.au/links/ Vic (Vixen Collective): https://www.vixencollective.org/vc WA (SWEAR):http://sexworkerrightswa.org WA (Magenta): http://magenta.org.au
MERCH: https://www.somebodyyoulove.net/store | |||
| 27. Somebody You Love uses a fake name | 06 Jan 2022 | 00:53:34 | |
We’re talking pseudonyms this week. What the deal is with having a fake name, why clients are so obsessed with finding out our “real” name, what you should do if you discover someone’s private information, and some yuck experiences with people invading our privacy. Our misconception of the week is that everything sex workers say is a lie to make money, and our question of the week is about things we never thought we would enjoy but that we actually love! CHAPTERS 0:54 Main Segment: A rose by any other name… 44:42 Misconception: Everything SWers say is insincere and only to make money 48:31 Question of the Week: What did you think you would never do when you first started in the industry? Patreon (from $3AUD/month): http://www.patreon.com/somebodyyoupod Instagram: http://www.instagram.com/somebodyyoupod Twitter: http://www.twitter.com/somebodyyoupod Facebook: http://www.facebook.com/somebodyyoupod Somebody You Love is sponsored by Assembly Four, empowering sex workers through technology: https://assemblyfour.com/
For more info on sex work in Australia, please check out the following organisations: Scarlet Alliance: https://www.scarletalliance.org.au/ ACT (SWOP ACT): https://meridianact.org.au/swop/ NSW (SWOP NSW): https://swop.org.au/ NT (SWOP NT): https://www.ntahc.org.au/swopnt Qld (Respect Inc): https://respectqld.org.au/ SA (SIN): http://www.sin.org.au/sindex.html Tas (Scarlet Alliance): https://scarletalliance.org.au/links/ Vic (Vixen Collective): https://www.vixencollective.org/vc WA (SWEAR):http://sexworkerrightswa.org WA (Magenta): http://magenta.org.au MERCH: https://www.somebodyyoulove.net/store | |||
| 26. Somebody You Love has a family | 30 Dec 2021 | 01:01:57 | |
Would you be okay with YOUR daughter being a prostitute? People always want to know what our parents think of our work, because apparently that has an impact on the validity of it for some reason. Holly & Jenna share the highly personal stories of coming out to their families, how the people in their lives reacted, and what those relationships are like now. For Shit People Say Jenna tells the story of when she unexpectedly came out to her husband’s family. CHAPTERS 2:28 Main Segment: Yeah, our fathers ARE proud of us, actually. 51:14 Shit People Say: “That’s not a thing!” Manscaped: https://www.manscaped.com/ use the code [SOMEBODY] for 20% off and free shipping! Patreon (from $3AUD/month): http://www.patreon.com/somebodyyoupod Instagram: http://www.instagram.com/somebodyyoupod Twitter: http://www.twitter.com/somebodyyoupod Facebook: http://www.facebook.com/somebodyyoupod Somebody You Love is sponsored by Assembly Four, empowering sex workers through technology: https://assemblyfour.com/
For more info on sex work in Australia, please check out the following organisations: Scarlet Alliance: https://www.scarletalliance.org.au/ ACT (SWOP ACT): https://meridianact.org.au/swop/ NSW (SWOP NSW): https://swop.org.au/ NT (SWOP NT): https://www.ntahc.org.au/swopnt Qld (Respect Inc): https://respectqld.org.au/ SA (SIN): http://www.sin.org.au/sindex.html Tas (Scarlet Alliance): https://scarletalliance.org.au/links/ Vic (Vixen Collective): https://www.vixencollective.org/vc WA (SWEAR):http://sexworkerrightswa.org WA (Magenta): http://magenta.org.au MERCH: https://www.somebodyyoulove.net/store | |||
| 25. Just The Tips: how to be a better client Pt 3 | 23 Dec 2021 | 00:52:18 | |
It’s time for the third and final (or is it?) edition of Just The Tips for clients. In part 1 we talked about things leading up to the booking, in part 2 we talked about the booking itself, and in this episode we talk about what happens after the booking and some other bits and pieces - last minute bookings, not hearing back, contact between bookings, time off the clock, business advice, and safety fears. Instagram: http://www.instagram.com/somebodyyoupod Twitter: http://www.twitter.com/somebodyyoupod Facebook: http://www.facebook.com/somebodyyoupod Somebody You Love is sponsored by Assembly Four, empowering sex workers through technology: https://assemblyfour.com/
For more info on sex work in Australia, please check out the following organisations: Scarlet Alliance: https://www.scarletalliance.org.au/ ACT (SWOP ACT): https://meridianact.org.au/swop/ NSW (SWOP NSW): https://swop.org.au/ NT (SWOP NT): https://www.ntahc.org.au/swopnt Qld (Respect Inc): https://respectqld.org.au/ SA (SIN): http://www.sin.org.au/sindex.html Tas (Scarlet Alliance): https://scarletalliance.org.au/links/ Vic (Vixen Collective): https://www.vixencollective.org/vc WA (SWEAR):http://sexworkerrightswa.org WA (Magenta):http://magenta.org.au MERCH: https://www.somebodyyoulove.net/store | |||