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Shailey & Katie's Lemonade Stand: Design Moms Finding the Happy Balance as Creative Entrepreneurs

Shailey Murphy and Katie Day

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Frequency: 1 episode/25d. Total Eps: 147

Two business-owning, design moms who are laughing their way through parenthood. Shailey Murphy: video producer, interior designer and mom of two. Katie Day: habit coach, photographer, graphic designer, improviser, comedy writer for a late night talk show mom of 4.

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Alignment Over Achievement: How to Find Happiness Through Your Unique Core Values

Season 11 · Episode 19

Monday, May 4, 2026 • Duration 01:02:11

In this season finale of Shailey & Katie’s Lemonade Stand, we’re making a case for something that might feel a little rebellious: happiness doesn’t come from achievement—it comes from alignment.

We unpack the difference between chasing external wins and actually feeling internally right in your life. Because alignment? It’s quieter. More intuitive. And honestly… easier to ignore. Until it’s not. Misalignment has a way of showing up anyway—burnout, resentment, procrastination, that low-grade “something’s off” feeling you can’t quite name.

We walk through a core values exercise to help you get honest about what actually matters to you (not what should matter, not what looks good on paper). We also talk about the reality that you cannot care about everything—and trying to will leave you exhausted. Choosing your values means choosing your lane.

From there, we get practical: how to check in with your values regularly, how to spot misalignment earlier, and how to course-correct without blowing up your entire life.

We also zoom out into the bigger picture—what it looks like to build a life that balances predictability and novelty, structure and spontaneity. Because yes, routines create safety… but adventure creates aliveness. You need both.

We talk about nervous system regulation (because if your body doesn’t feel safe, alignment will feel impossible), and how creativity, joy, and lightness aren’t extras—they’re signals you’re on the right track.

We get into the real-life trade-offs too. Alignment doesn’t always look like the most impressive choice. Sometimes it looks like prioritizing quality of life over achievement. Sometimes it looks like slower growth, or different goals entirely.

We also touch on summer planning, family values, and how to make decisions that actually reflect the life you want to be living—not just the one you’ve been defaulting into.

And finally, we share a bit about the book-writing process, creativity, and what it looks like to choose joy on purpose—even when it would be easier to chase something more “impressive.”

If something feels off lately, this episode is your invitation to pause, check in, and realign.

Because you can always choose again.

Takeaways

The secret to happiness is alignment, not achievement

Alignment is internal; achievement is external

Intuition is a powerful guide—if you’re willing to listen

Misalignment often shows up as burnout, resentment, or procrastination

You don’t have to care about everything—choose what matters most

Core values create clarity and direction

Regular check-ins prevent long-term drift

Feeling “off” is often a signal, not a problem

Life needs both predictability and novelty

Exploration and play are part of a fully aligned life

Nervous system regulation supports everything else

Creativity and joy are indicators of alignment

Quality of life can be a higher value than achievement

Your choices should reflect your values—not someone else’s

Intentional summer plans can strengthen family connection

Writing and creating can be a tool for self-discovery

Joy is something you can choose—on purpose

Title Ideas

Alignment Over Achievement

The Secret to Happiness (It’s Not What You Think)

When Success Isn’t Enough

The Alignment Check You Didn’t Know You Needed

Build a Life That Actually Feels Good

Choosing Your Values (and Letting the Rest Go)

Sound Bites

“The secret to happiness is alignment.”

“You don’t need to care about everything.”

“If you feel off, check your values.”

“Alignment is internal. Achievement is external.”

“You can always choose again.”

“Joy is a signal—not a reward.”

“Quality of life is a value.”

“You need both safety and adventure.”

“Not every ‘good’ thing is yours to carry.”

“The book kind of writes itself when you’re aligned.”

Chapters

00:00 The Secret to Happiness: Alignment
03:09 Alignment vs. Achievement
06:03 Trusting Your Intuition
08:50 Signs of Misalignment
12:00 Core Values Exercise
14:49 Choosing What Actually Matters
18:09 Practical Alignment Steps
31:00 Predictability vs. Novelty
32:48 Core Values + Habits
33:44 Alignment Audit
35:57 Nervous System + Work
39:07 Creativity, Joy, Lightness
42:54 Values + Life Choices
46:35 Quality of Life vs. Achievement
51:50 Summer + Family Values
59:06 Writing, Creativity, Choosing Joy

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Kitchen + Dining Design & Organization Hacks

Season 11 · Episode 17

Monday, April 13, 2026 • Duration 49:49

Design a kitchen for real life—not a photoshoot. (But, like, also make it cute) We challenge the idea that kitchens need to be pristine to be “good,” and instead reframe mess, wear, and lived-in energy as proof that a space is working.

We explore how to create functional, inviting spaces that support your daily rhythm, from rethinking formal dining rooms to embracing multi-use areas that actually get used. We share practical, budget-friendly ways to improve your kitchen without a full remodel—often starting with simply rearranging what you already have.

We also introduce simple systems to reduce overwhelm, including the Dish Zero Rule as a way to automate dish management and keep the kitchen flowing. Throughout the episode, we normalize clutter (especially in homes with kids), while offering strategies to keep it intentional and manageable.

You’ll walk away with actionable ideas, a fresh perspective on what “organized” really means, and a listener challenge designed to help you solve one small-but-annoying problem in your kitchen—for good.

Takeaways

Design for real life, not perfection
The kitchen is the heart of the home—and it should function like it
Mess and wear are signs of a working space
Start with your household’s actual rhythm before changing anything
Rearranging often works better (and cheaper) than replacing
Design for people, not photos
You don’t need a formal dining room if it doesn’t serve you
Create spaces that invite connection and conversation
Daily habits shape your kitchen more than design ever will
Normalize the mess—especially with kids
“Cute clutter” can add warmth when it’s intentional
Systems reduce decision fatigue and daily overwhelm
The Dish Zero Rule keeps dishes from piling up
Aim for ~80% full in drawers and cabinets
Identify your biggest friction point and solve that first
Regularly purge what you don’t use
Small updates can make a big visual impact

Kids’ Rooms That Actually Work

Season 11 · Episode 16

Monday, March 23, 2026 • Duration 01:11:10

If kids come with stuff… what do we actually do with all of it?

In this episode, Shailey and Katie break down how to create kids’ spaces that actually work—for real life, not Pinterest. We’re talking functional layouts, calming environments, and systems that help kids take ownership of their space (without you becoming the full-time cleanup crew).

We get into the balance every parent is navigating: creating a home that feels good and letting kids be kids. That means normalizing mess, designing for independence, and letting go of perfection in favor of something way more sustainable.

You’ll walk away with practical ways to simplify clutter, rethink how kids’ rooms are set up, and build systems that grow with your child—while also making peace with the fact that childhood is a little loud, a little chaotic… and that’s not a problem to solve.

TAKEAWAYS

• A kids’ room should function first—and look cute second
• Design for who your kid is now (and who they’re becoming)
• Skip overly themed rooms—think flexible, livable spaces
• Calm environments support better sleep and regulation
• Create simple “zones” (sleep, play, get ready)
• Choose furniture that can grow and shift over time
• Visibility + accessibility = kids actually using the system
• “Clean your room” is a learned skill—teach it specifically
• Kids are more invested when they help design their space
• Independence grows when kids manage their own stuff
• Mess isn’t a failure—it’s part of childhood
• Expect clutter, then build systems that can handle it
• Fewer items = easier maintenance (for everyone)
• Regular toy edits > one big overwhelming purge
• Your home can be functional and still feel fun
• This phase is temporary—design for sustainability, not perfection

SOUND BITES

• “Kids come with stuff. That’s not the problem—the system is.”
• “We’re not designing for Pinterest. We’re designing for Tuesday afternoon.” • “Clean isn’t intuitive. It’s taught.” • “Mess is expected—not a personal failure.” • “If they can’t see it, they won’t use it.” • “The goal isn’t less mess. It’s manageable mess.” • “Let them have ownership—even if it’s not your aesthetic.” • “Childhood is loud. Your house can handle it.” • “Fewer things = fewer decisions = less overwhelm.” • “You’re not behind. You just need a better system.”

Transform Your Living Room: Tips for a Cozy Space

Season 11 · Episode 15

Monday, March 9, 2026 • Duration 48:02

In this episode, Shailey climbs up on her living room soapbox — and honestly, it’s a hill she’s willing to die on. The living room is the most used, most judged, and most confusing room in the house… and somehow we’ve all been convinced it’s supposed to look like a catalog instead of a place where people actually live.

We talk about why so many living rooms feel “off,” the biggest mistakes people make (your rug is probably too small), and why furniture scale, lighting, and layout matter way more than buying new stuff. Shailey shares how she transformed an awkward, underused room in her own house into the family’s favorite gathering space — cats, kids, chaos and all.

From anchor pieces and conversation-friendly layouts to the power of lamps (overhead lighting slander included), this episode is full of practical tweaks that can make a room feel better immediately — often without spending a dollar.

We also end with a living room audit challenge and a rapid-fire round of product opinions, including Shailey’s unfiltered thoughts on Lovesac couches and the mysterious purpose of decorative trays.

If your living room feels slightly awkward… slightly unfinished… or like no one actually wants to sit in it, this episode will help you see it with fresh eyes.

Takeaways

A living room should reflect your life, not a catalog.

Don't let the pressure of perfection steal your energy.

Identify what works in your living room and enhance it. Scale of furniture is crucial for a comfortable living room.

An anchor piece can define and enhance your space.

Lighting should be warm and ambient, not harsh and clinical.

Rearranging furniture can dramatically improve a room's feel.

Every seating area should have a place for drinks to enhance comfort

Happy Home Organization & Style Series Part 1: Konmari and the life-changing magic of tidying up

Season 11 · Episode 14

Monday, February 2, 2026 • Duration 45:48

Intentional living, home organization, and why winter has us suddenly side-eyeing every drawer in the house. We dig into the emotional side of decluttering, not just the “get rid of stuff” part, but the identity, guilt, and nostalgia wrapped up in it. Shailey shares what actually stuck with her from the KonMari method, especially the idea that letting something go can be an act of gratitude, not failure. Katie brings the real-life perspective of how homes refill themselves mysteriously and why alignment matters more than aesthetic perfection.

Practical, very doable strategies for creating a home that feels calming and functional without turning your life into one big organizing project. Shailey talks travel routines (including why expired hotel skincare needs to go) and shares her love for a visual timer as a game-changer for time awareness and productivity. The conversation wraps with a lighthearted look at sentimental clutter and the surprisingly deep emotions tied to “random” household items.

If you’ve ever wanted your home to feel better without needing to become a minimalist or buy matching bins, this one’s for you.

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**Key Takeaways**

* Decluttering is emotional, not just physical, and that’s normal

* You can thank items for what they taught you instead of keeping them out of guilt

* Home organization works best when it aligns with your actual lifestyle

* Small, gentle wins beat all-or-nothing clean-out marathons

* Visual timers can create structure without pressure

* Your home is an ongoing relationship, not a one-time project

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Dopamine Detox: Katie’s Story: curiosity, addiction, and reclaiming her own life

Season 11 · Episode 13

Saturday, January 10, 2026 • Duration 33:45

In this episode, Katie gets honest about her dopamine detox era — what kicked it off, what surprised her, and what actually changed on the other side. Addiction, sober-curious, codependency and learning to save her own life. We talk about how modern life quietly trains our brains to chase constant stimulation, why numbing behaviors can increase anxiety instead of reducing it, and what happens when you remove the crutches long enough to hear yourself think again. From sobriety and self-trust to creativity, confidence, and joy that doesn’t require a reward button — this conversation is equal parts reflective, practical, and encouraging.

If you’ve ever wondered whether you’re actually tired or just overstimulated… this one will land.

What we cover:

What a dopamine detox really is (and what it isn’t)

How numbing behaviors can increase anxiety and disconnection

Being "addicted" to validation from others, codependency

Why sobriety can unlock creativity and clarity

Letting go of patterns that quietly sabotage mental health

Building confidence without substances or external rewards

Why a detox period can lead to healthier moderation later

The power of self-discovery in personal growth

Creating a “sober bucket list” that actually feels fun

Finding joy that doesn’t depend on anything outside of you

Resources mentioned:

Dopamine Nation by Dr. Anna Lembke
https://www.amazon.com/Dopamine-Nation-Finding-Balance-Indulgence/dp/152474672X

Katie’s current offers & completely unhinged sale

Your Habit Personality, Motivation & Why Knowing Yourself Changes Everything

Season 11 · Episode 12

Monday, December 29, 2025 • Duration 40:31

One-Size-Does NOT-Fit-All! Ever wonder why some people thrive with strict rules… while others immediately want to do the opposite the second a rule exists? In this episode, Katie and Shailey dig into why motivation isn’t one-size-fits-all—and why so many wellness plans fail simply because they ignore personality.

Register for Katie's habit workshop: Habits That Stick at ohkatieday.com/workshop

We explore three powerful frameworks that explain how and why people take action:

-The Four Tendencies

-Abstainers vs. Moderators (do you need clear lines or flexible lanes?)

-The Enneagram as a lens for understanding values, motivations, and internal drivers

This conversation is all about permission—permission to stop forcing yourself into systems that don’t fit, to design habits that align with how your brain actually works, and to realize that needing fun, freedom, or structure isn’t a flaw… it’s data.

If you’ve ever thought, “Why is this so easy for other people but so hard for me?”—this episode is for you.

What You’ll Learn

Why Upholders meet expectations easily—and why Rebels instinctively push back
How Obligers can reduce resentment by understanding the why behind a task
Why Abstainers love clear, black-and-white rules (and Moderators… don’t)
How the Enneagram reveals deeper motivations—not just surface behavior
Why customization is essential for sustainable habits and wellness
How autonomy and choice increase follow-through (especially for Rebels)
How pre-deciding rules can dramatically reduce decision fatigue
Why “fun” isn’t frivolous—it’s often a requirement for consistency

Creativity, The Artist’s Way (even for non-artists!), Habits, and Katie’s big news!

Season 11 · Episode 11

Tuesday, December 23, 2025 • Duration 56:32

In this episode, we’re talking about The Artist’s Way—what it actually is, why it keeps coming back into culture, and how to approach creativity without turning it into another self-improvement pressure cooker.We explore curiosity over productivity, rebuilding trust with yourself, and how small creative habits can quietly change everything. Plus, Katie shares an absolutely unhinged prism story that turns into one of those “wait… WHAT?” moments—and if you stick to the end, she shares big, life-hanging news that’s been quietly unfolding behind the scenes.

What We Cover in This Episode

• What The Artist’s Way really is (and what it’s not)

• Why creativity shuts down under pressure and perfectionism

• How habits can support creativity instead of suffocating it

• Morning Pages: what they’re for, how to do them imperfectly, and why “doing them wrong” still works

• Artist Dates as curiosity practice, not performance

• The difference between discipline and devotion

• Letting creativity be data, not identity

• Why rest, play, and boredom are essential creative inputs

• A wild prism moment that feels straight out of The Artist’s Way

• Staying curious when something big is shifting in your life

Key Takeaways

• Creativity doesn’t respond to pressure—it responds to safety

• You don’t need to be “good” at creativity to benefit from it

• Small, consistent practices beat intense, sporadic effort

• Curiosity is a more sustainable motivator than discipline

Confidence, Style, & Dressing the Body You Have: Stop Settling for Clothes That Don’t Fit Your Life

Season 11 · Episode 10

Tuesday, December 9, 2025 • Duration 53:42

Style That Feels Like Home. We dive into the empowering relationship between clothes, confidence, and the bodies we live in. We explore what it actually means to feel “at home” in your own skin—and your own style—without chasing trends, shrinking yourself, or trying to dress like someone you’re not.

The conversation moves through body neutrality, signature style, and why comfort matters just as much as aesthetics. From color choices to fit to outerwear as a confidence tool, we reframe fashion as a form of self-trust rather than self-criticism. At its core, this episode is an invitation to stop settling—for uncomfortable clothes, outdated rules, or someone else’s version of what looks “right”—and start choosing what actually feels good.

Key Takeaways

Body neutrality is a powerful and accessible starting point.
Personal style should feel like home—not a costume.
The most confident outfits come from self-trust, not trends.
Comfort and confidence are directly connected.
Every body has styles that support it—no fixing required.
Trends are optional. Personal style is lasting.
Great outerwear can change everything.
Experimentation is how clarity is built.
Self-acceptance always comes before self-expression.

Sound Bites

“Your style should feel like home.”
“There is no bad body.”
“We don’t SETTLE anymore.”
“If it’s not comfortable, it’s not confidence.”

Chapters

00:00 – Style, Body Image, and Why This Conversation Matters
02:47 – Comfort, Clothes, and Self-Trust
05:52 – Body Types Without the Shame
09:06 – What a Signature Style Really Is
12:08 – Letting Yourself Experiment14:49 – Color, Patterns, and Personality18:09 – Style for Real Life and Real Movement21:01 – Why Outerwear Is a Power Move23:45 – Pulling the Whole Look Together27:25 – Seeing Beauty Without Conditions30:05 – Body Positivity vs. Body Neutrality34:29 – Finding What Actually Feels Like You35:54 – Trends: Use Them or Ignore Them40:45 – Navigating Fashion Without Losing Yourself46:31 – Laughing at Past Fashion Choices49:24 – Growth, Coaching, and Owning the Next Chapter

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