Sex, Money & Rage – Details, episodes & analysis

Ever wondered about the fascinating world of somatic sexology? Join us as we uncover this intriguing field with Uma Ayelet from the Institute of Somatic Sexology. 

Our enlightening conversation gathers momentum as Uma shares her unique journey that beautifully amalgamates the spiritual aspects of sex with the practical techniques of somatic sexology. 

This body-based approach to sex - focusing on the physical aspects - brings about a new perspective on how the mind and body interact, leading to a more satisfying sexual experience for you and your partner. 

In our discussion, Uma sheds light on how individual arousal and pleasure can be enhanced, giving you the tools to be more present and in-tune during your sexual experiences. 

Uma emphasizes the importance of mindfulness and experimenting with various types of touch, showcasing how this practice can lead to a more intimate and pleasurable sexual journey. We also explore the fascinating world of hormonal cycles and how understanding these can empower you in your sexual life. 

We discuss the importance of somatic sex coaching and how it can help people gain a better understanding of their bodies, arousal patterns, and self-practice (which can vastly improve their romantic and sexual relationships.  

We also explore the empowering practice of taking responsibility for your own pleasure. Get ready to be enlightened as we share the wisdom and insights of Uma and the intriguing world of somatic sexology. Dive in, the water's warm!

Connect with Uma: https://instituteofsomaticsexology.com/

Past episodes and show notes are located here: https://www.sexmoneyrage.com/podcast

"Genuinely thank you for creating this space for people like-minded to talk openly and feel OK to talk about these things." Beau, Australia

Disclaimer:
I do not promote trying plant medicine or psychedelics (they are a whole other beast). All information provided is for general information and educational purposes only. Please consult with your doctor and do your own research before diving in. There are risks involved, it can interact with certain medications, and it's illegal in most Western countries.

I'm not a doctor, therapist, or counsellor, and nothing said on the podcast is a substitute for professional medical advice, diagnosis, treatment, or a professional therapeutic relationship. All content is intended to provide general health information for educational purposes only.

Ready to unpack the enormity of your childhood, parents and their life-altering impact on you? 

Join us for a profound conversation with Ayla Inja, a researcher from Douglas Mental Health Institute, as we traverse the shadowy pathways of psychological trauma, narcissistic parenting, and emotional abuse. 

Ayla leads us on this journey to shed light on the intricate mechanics of our ego, defence mechanisms, and the reactions embedded in our nervous systems.

We discuss the dynamics of a narcissistic family and the implications of emotional abuse on children. We explore the fight, flight, freeze, and fawn responses that act as our nervous system's bodyguards, and how they display themselves in our adulthood.

Moreover, we dive into the awakening process, Golden Child Syndrome, and the shadow self - complex concepts that are part of the trauma narrative.

In our final segments, we explore some of the causes of suicide, its correlations with trauma, and the science behind childhood maltreatment leading to suicidal thoughts in adulthood. 

We explore the cycle of depression and anxiety, with Ayla providing key strategies to prevent spiralling into these debilitating states. 

Most importantly, we talk about the importance of self-awareness, self-reflection, and recognition of our dysfunctional behaviours and thought patterns that chain us to our past. 

Tune in for an enlightening conversation that promises transformation and growth.

Read Ayla's article here: https://findingyourselfagain.com/blog/the-spiritual-awakening-faux-pas

Connect with Ayla: https://findingyourselfagain.com/

Past episodes and show notes are located here: https://www.sexmoneyrage.com/podcast

"Genuinely thank you for creating this space for people like-minded to talk openly and feel OK to talk about these things." Beau, Australia

Disclaimer:
I do not promote trying plant medicine or psychedelics (they are a whole other beast). All information provided is for general information and educational purposes only. Please consult with your doctor and do your own research before diving in. There are risks involved, it can interact with certain medications, and it's illegal in most Western countries.

I'm not a doctor, therapist, or counsellor, and nothing said on the podcast is a substitute for professional medical advice, diagnosis, treatment, or a professional therapeutic relationship. All content is intended to provide general health information for educational purposes only.

Have you ever felt like your life was spiralling out of control until a single practice changed everything?

You're not alone.

Chase Moore is a Huachumero (a San Pedro cactus facilitator) and black-belt jiu-jitsu teacher living in Peru.

From self-defence techniques to the powerful world of plant medicine, we dived deep into how Jiu-Jitsu and San Pedro cactus have transformed Chase's life.

And how they can help you take control of yours.

We ventured into the world of plant medicine and psychedelics (namely - San Pedro cactus).

We discussed how these plant medicines can bring about personal growth, transformation, and healing in powerful, life-changing ways.

This episode is about finding yourself and releasing old identities that keep you stuck.

So listen in as we explore the amazing journey of Chase Moore, and learn how to transform your life today (without having to wear white, do yoga six days a week, become a monk, or be super "spiritual").

Connect with Chase: thespiritcooperative.com 

5:45 – Jiu-Jitsu for Personal Growth
16:28 – Self-Defence, Overcoming Fear, and Safety
25:55 – San Pedro’s De-escalation Benefits
36:06 – The Power of Plant Medicine
42:02 – Healing Trauma and Choosing Change
57:21 – Authenticity, Community, and Overcoming Fear
1:02:39 – Exploring Personal Growth Through Plant Medicine1:11:18 – Plant Medicine and Community Fulfilment
1:23:26 – San Pedro Cactus Ceremonies and Self-Acceptance

Past episodes and show notes are located here: https://www.sexmoneyrage.com/podcast

"Genuinely thank you for creating this space for people like-minded to talk openly and feel OK to talk about these things." Beau, Australia

Disclaimer:
I do not promote trying plant medicine or psychedelics (they are a whole other beast). All information provided is for general information and educational purposes only. Please consult with your doctor and do your own research before diving in. There are risks involved, it can interact with certain medications, and it's illegal in most Western countries.

I'm not a doctor, therapist, or counsellor, and nothing said on the podcast is a substitute for professional medical advice, diagnosis, treatment, or a professional therapeutic relationship. All content is intended to provide general health information for educational purposes only.

"I love being afraid." - said no one ever.

Or ...

"I just love feeling angry."

Paula Conroy is an ex-banker turned entrepreneur who runs retreats to help women face their fears. To embrace who they are. To feel their emotions. 

And to overcome them.

No one wants to feel their darkest, heaviest emotions.

Rage, fear. terror, anxiety, grief, depression, sadness.

Everyone is planning their furious escape from these delightful, fun-loving demons.

People want to feel alive. Joyful. On top of the world.

But everyone goes through stressful situations in life, and as humans, we feel the full spectrum of emotions.

Most people try to deal with their emotions mentally.

Or by attempting to shift external circumstances.

But unless you learn to feel your emotions and create space for them in your body -- they'll stay stuck.

Because the real shifts happen inside of you.

In your body and in your nervous system.

Connect with Paula.

Past episodes and show notes are located here: https://www.sexmoneyrage.com/podcast

"Genuinely thank you for creating this space for people like-minded to talk openly and feel OK to talk about these things." Beau, Australia

Disclaimer:
I do not promote trying plant medicine or psychedelics (they are a whole other beast). All information provided is for general information and educational purposes only. Please consult with your doctor and do your own research before diving in. There are risks involved, it can interact with certain medications, and it's illegal in most Western countries.

I'm not a doctor, therapist, or counsellor, and nothing said on the podcast is a substitute for professional medical advice, diagnosis, treatment, or a professional therapeutic relationship. All content is intended to provide general health information for educational purposes only.

Zachary Zane aka The Boyslut (his words, not mine) - is an incredible writer, sex expert, and columnist who doesn't shy away from sex.

Zach has written for big publications like the New York Times, Rolling Stone, Cosmo, GQ, and many others.

He's also the "editor-in-chief of Boyslut Zine, which publishes real sex stories from kinksters worldwide."

Despite growing up in a supportive, sex-positive family, Zach still wrestled with sexual shame growing up.

He came out as bisexual at a time when no one understood or knew what it was.

He was judged for it.

Told - "This is just a step towards becoming gay".

But Zach is bisexual, not gay.

So despite being ostracised for who he was, Zach decided to embrace everything about himself.

He went all in with sex.

And it made all the difference.

Past episodes and show notes are located here: https://www.sexmoneyrage.com/podcast

"Genuinely thank you for creating this space for people like-minded to talk openly and feel OK to talk about these things." Beau, Australia

Disclaimer:
I do not promote trying plant medicine or psychedelics (they are a whole other beast). All information provided is for general information and educational purposes only. Please consult with your doctor and do your own research before diving in. There are risks involved, it can interact with certain medications, and it's illegal in most Western countries.

I'm not a doctor, therapist, or counsellor, and nothing said on the podcast is a substitute for professional medical advice, diagnosis, treatment, or a professional therapeutic relationship. All content is intended to provide general health information for educational purposes only.

If you've ever been told you "scream like a girl", are a "spoilt princess",  or "be a good girl" - then this episode is for you.

Because .. those sayings are bullshit.

Soraya Chemaly is a writer, feminist, activist and best-selling author of Rage Becomes Her.

She reveals the power of women's rage.

Soraya explains that if you suppress your rage, it makes you physically sick.

It takes a toll on your relationships.

When researching for her book Rage Becomes Her, Soraya uncovered the impact of race and gender on rage.

For men - they're allowed to be angry.

It's expected of them.

Rewarded even.

But - men are not allowed to be sad.

For women?

It's the opposite.

This is what our society and culture tells us.

But Soraya argues that emotions shouldn't be gendered.

We all feel the full spectrum of emotions, and when you suppress them, it negatively impacts your whole life.

So click the play button right now and fuel your inner rage... 🔥

--

Past episodes and show notes are located here: https://www.sexmoneyrage.com/podcast

"Genuinely thank you for creating this space for people like-minded to talk openly and feel OK to talk about these things." Beau, Australia

Disclaimer:
I do not promote trying plant medicine or psychedelics (they are a whole other beast). All information provided is for general information and educational purposes only. Please consult with your doctor and do your own research before diving in. There are risks involved, it can interact with certain medications, and it's illegal in most Western countries.

I'm not a doctor, therapist, or counsellor, and nothing said on the podcast is a substitute for professional medical advice, diagnosis, treatment, or a professional therapeutic relationship. All content is intended to provide general health information for educational purposes only.

Louisa Seton negotiated situations with armed tribes in Africa.

Some of them were holding AK-47s.

Growing up in Nairobi, Kenya, Louisa saw a whole side to life that most of us don't.

And she fell in love with photographing indigenous and African cultures and tribes.

Especially the women — many of whom are forced to go through female circumcision (even though it's illegal). 

Imagine having zero pleasure during sex.

Being physically mutilated.

It's horrific.

And yet - these African women are so strong.

Beautiful.

Courageous.

Louisa Seton is a world-renowned photographer featured in Vogue, Daily Mail, and various publications around the world.

Her photography is nothing short of incredible.

Over the last few years, Louisa has been offering sacred feminine photography shoots in Australia.

She helps women overcome their body insecurities and find confidence within.

Letting go of perfectionism.

And embracing who you are.

This was an incredible, inspiring episode - click the play button right now...

Connect with Louisa Seton:

• louisaseton.com
• Instagram

Past episodes and show notes are located here: https://www.sexmoneyrage.com/podcast

"Genuinely thank you for creating this space for people like-minded to talk openly and feel OK to talk about these things." Beau, Australia

Disclaimer:
I do not promote trying plant medicine or psychedelics (they are a whole other beast). All information provided is for general information and educational purposes only. Please consult with your doctor and do your own research before diving in. There are risks involved, it can interact with certain medications, and it's illegal in most Western countries.

I'm not a doctor, therapist, or counsellor, and nothing said on the podcast is a substitute for professional medical advice, diagnosis, treatment, or a professional therapeutic relationship. All content is intended to provide general health information for educational purposes only.

Hyperbits (Serik) recently started exploring the world of psychedelics.

Because sooner or later we all get curious, right?

When your back is against a wall, and you’re overwhelmed with grief, terror, fear or rage — sometimes you have to look beneath the surface.

And maybe — you’ll find the wild world of psychedelics.

That’s what happened to Serik.

Hyperbits is an epic music producer and creative entrepreneur. He runs the best online music production school in the world.

Serik teaches intermediate and advanced producers how to master their mixing and mastering, while creating chart-topping tracks.

And he’s back to making fresh melodic house music that makes your whole body explode with gold confetti.

So if you’re ready to trip out to this latest episode… hit the play button right now.

Hyperbits Masterclass
Hyperbits.com
Instagram
 

Past episodes and show notes are located here: https://www.sexmoneyrage.com/podcast

"Genuinely thank you for creating this space for people like-minded to talk openly and feel OK to talk about these things." Beau, Australia

Disclaimer:
I do not promote trying plant medicine or psychedelics (they are a whole other beast). All information provided is for general information and educational purposes only. Please consult with your doctor and do your own research before diving in. There are risks involved, it can interact with certain medications, and it's illegal in most Western countries.

I'm not a doctor, therapist, or counsellor, and nothing said on the podcast is a substitute for professional medical advice, diagnosis, treatment, or a professional therapeutic relationship. All content is intended to provide general health information for educational purposes only.

If Gigi Engle had a dollar for every time someone said 'I'm into some kinky stuff,' she'd be richer than Jeff Bezos.

Gigi is a sexpert extraordinaire.

She's a sex educator, sex writer, psychotherapist in training, and lead sex expert at 3Fun.

Her advice is like foreplay for your brain.

Whether you're into alien dildos, spanking, rope play, or wedgie fantasies (the jock and the nerd, anyone?) - Gigi has seen it all. 

And ... she's probably written an article about it too.

Gigi started out as a journalist, working for Elite Daily back when they had only 30 employees.

She now works as a freelance sex educator and writer, for Cosmo, Vogue, Allure, Marie Claire,  Elle Magazine, and Women's Health.

Gigi loves researching and writing about the most 'out-there' sexual topics you could imagine.

And she's super passionate about working with clients who want to explore open relationships, BDSM, and crazy sexual fantasies.

Being part of the queer community, Gigi also loves working with the queer, poly, and kink subsets - people who are often shamed by traditional therapists.

Gigi is a master at helping people untangle their emotional ties when it comes to sex.

Because in BDSM (or any sexual act), safety, consent, and communication are essential.

And of course - having fun.

Sex can be a safe space for adults to play.

You can be curious.

Feel sensations in your body that you never knew existed.

Explore your deepest passions.

Your wildest fantasies.

And let all of your sexual energy flow.

Why?

Because sex improves motivation, creativity, and passion.

So if you're suppressing your sexual desires - you're suppressing a whole lot of good stuff.

Sex helps you set boundaries, get better at asking for what you want - and helps give you the confidence to march into your boss's office and ask for a raise.

Plus, orgasms are good for your health.

Want better skin, better sleep, and a stronger immune system?

Have an orgasm a day (thanks Gigi).

Gigi Engle helps her clients navigate the psychological aspects of BDSM and power play.

 Because maybe you're into being dominated and your partner isn't. 

Or maybe your partner wants to be tied up and whipped, and you're not sure how to handle it. 

Gigi helps couples negotiate their sexual fantasies - and encourages her clients to create "Yes/No/Maybe" lists of what they're comfortable with.

Learning to negotiate in the bedroom leads to better negotiations in life.

So, what's the takeaway from all of this?

That pleasure is important.

That creativity, passion, and playfulness are vital to our wellbeing.

And that

Past episodes and show notes are located here: https://www.sexmoneyrage.com/podcast

"Genuinely thank you for creating this space for people like-minded to talk openly and feel OK to talk about these things." Beau, Australia

Disclaimer:
I do not promote trying plant medicine or psychedelics (they are a whole other beast). All information provided is for general information and educational purposes only. Please consult with your doctor and do your own research before diving in. There are risks involved, it can interact with certain medications, and it's illegal in most Western countries.

I'm not a doctor, therapist, or counsellor, and nothing said on the podcast is a substitute for professional medical advice, diagnosis, treatment, or a professional therapeutic relationship. All content is intended to provide general health information for educational purposes only.

Arne Giske has a "shit-fan map". 

It outlines what to do when shit hits the fan.

I mean...

What a great idea.

And I loooove the name.

Because we ALL know, sooner or later, shit is gonna hit the fan 💩

It's inevitable.

Either in your business, at work, or in your personal life.

Arne Giske built his "Millennial Entrepreneur Community" Facebook group to over 80,000 engaged, meme-loving members.

That gave him a huge, super keen audience where he could launch his products, courses and other businesses.

Because there's no point if you have the best product or service in the world -- but no audience.

And after his rapid success building a mega Facebook group, he started teaching other people how to do the same.

Arne launched a Facebook Group course and in less than a year - made over $250k.

Pretty cool, right?

It's even more epic because it's a software business (i.e. super low overheads).

And...

It can be run from anywhere in the world (oh how I love you, online business).

Now - this podcast episode is not about getting rich quick.

There's no such thing.

Building wealth takes time, effort, and more stamina than that guy Sisyphus who rolled a big, beautiful boulder up a hill for eternity.

Arne is passionate about being in the ring when it comes to business.

Because you never know when those big ideas are going to flow.

It all comes down to solving problems.

The bigger the problem = the more money you can make.

And the ideas will come along the way.

Arne's first business was running a pedi-cab in Seattle (those groovy three-wheeled tricycles that carry passengers around the city).

He was 19 years old, made $20 per trip and loved having the cash.

Despite going to business school, most of what Arne's learned about business came from first-hand experience.

Arne's Facebook group product started at just $37, then over time he raised the price as he created more content, videos, and value.

As Arne raised his prices over time, his confidence and excitement skyrocketed.

He created new businesses, invested in new opportunities, and built a solid network of income streams.

Now?

He's focused on The Insider Investors Club, building his various businesses, and travelling the world.

And he's helping others do the same.

So check it out, and learn how to stop SHTF...

Connect with Arne: Facebook

Past episodes and show notes are located here: https://www.sexmoneyrage.com/podcast

"Genuinely thank you for creating this space for people like-minded to talk openly and feel OK to talk about these things." Beau, Australia

Disclaimer:
I do not promote trying plant medicine or psychedelics (they are a whole other beast). All information provided is for general information and educational purposes only. Please consult with your doctor and do your own research before diving in. There are risks involved, it can interact with certain medications, and it's illegal in most Western countries.

I'm not a doctor, therapist, or counsellor, and nothing said on the podcast is a substitute for professional medical advice, diagnosis, treatment, or a professional therapeutic relationship. All content is intended to provide general health information for educational purposes only.