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In this episode of the Sex and Bacon podcast, Andrew Daniel joins me to talk about sexual polarity, holistic sex, and emotional vulnerability from a man's perspective.

Andrew helps us navigate important issues on men's perceptions of masculinity, societal expectations of gender roles, and the influence of these elements on personal relationships. He highlights the significance of emotional maturity and self-awareness as key to creating genuine intimacy and having a fulfilling sex life. Andrew suggests that by embracing vulnerability, men can enhance every facet of their life, from relationships to professional success.

Andrew Daniel is an award-winning and international bestselling author and director at the Center for Cinesomatic Development. His Cinesomatics® workshops are held internationally from New York to London, Tuscany to Switzerland—helping professionals see the elusive patterns that hold them back. This methodology leads the world in cinematic movement diagnostics and advanced intuition development integrating approaches from embodiment, shadow work, therapy, and spirituality.

His book, Awaken to Your True Self, is a gold Nautilus Book Awards recipient and #1 Amazon bestseller in the US & UK. In his early career, Andrew coded a particle and physics engine by the age of 18⁠, used by top Fortune 100 companies over the 7 years of his software business. His first teaching work, Holistic Sex (Mindvalley, 2014), provided the world with a new paradigm that bridged the divide between sexuality, spirituality, and the sexes. Andrew is also an advisor for the Alan Watts Organization.

We get into: 

• [0:00] Intro

• [2:48] Why men comes to him for help

• [7:32] Why men do not feel supported in embracing the masculine and feminine

• [16:21] Intimacy is more than just sex

• [21:53] Battle of the sexes

• [24:19] Making someone's pleasure your pleasure

• [28:12] Revisiting our north american views on sex and intimacy vs. other countries

• [36:51] When your body is at odds with your brain

• [38:50] Developing self awareness

• [45:46] What is sexual polarity

• [52:21] Control and safety

• [56:59] Tips for men to start being introspective with themselves and their experiences
  
  

Connect with Andrew

• https://andrewdaniel.org  

Connect with me

• Instagram: http://www.instagram.com/confessionsofafuckaholic 

• Email us: sexandbacon1@yahoo.com 

In this episode of the Sex and Bacon podcast, we talk all about the taboo subject of talking about money in relationships.

My guest, Marci Grossman, highlights how financial stress is a significant contributor to a couple's sex life disruption. Marci discusses the importance of being financially literate to avoid money-related issues in relationships. 

The conversation also focuses on the impact of financial responsibility in relationships, addressing key factors like communication about earnings, debt, retirement, and savings.

We also talk about the importance of having open conversations about financial expectations and circumstances when dating or entering a relationship, and how to manage finances responsibly whenever there's a major shift in life (like losing a job). 

Marci Grossman is a CPA with over 30 years of experience helping individuals and businesses with financial matters. She has worked in public, private, and non-profit accounting. Her passion is helping people to improve their relationship with money. 

We get into: 

• [0:00] Intro

• [2:43] My own experience in my marriage surrounding money

• [6:15] The conversations about money that need to be had before marriage, and Marci's experience in her own marriage

• [10:20] Should we put money together or keep it separate?

• [12:40] Why do people avoid conversations about money while dating

• [14:20] Are there money deal breakers in a relationship?

• [18:35] The problems that finances can cause

• [20:05] Mental health struggles with financial burdens

• [25:50] Tips for couples to start to look at their finances and set themselves up to be in a better position

• [27:15] How much to save for an emergency and retirement

• [33:10] The generational differences between our parents and us
  
  

Connect with Marci

• Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/money.marci/ 

• Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/MoneyMarci/ 

• Links: https://www.moneymarci.com/links 

• www.moneymarci.com 

Connect with me

• Instagram: http://www.instagram.com/confessionsofafuckaholic 

• Email us: sexandbacon1@yahoo.com 

In this episode, we dive deep into the world of relationships, pleasure, and intimacy with renowned Love Educator & Relationship Coach, Railey Molinario.

From overcoming abandonment at birth to becoming a six-figure boss, Railey shares her inspiring journey of transforming pain into a mission of empowering individuals to break free from generational trauma and ignorance. Her teachings on relationship intelligence have been featured on esteemed platforms like the BBC, Medium, and Brainz magazine.

Join us as Railey delves into the nuances of building thriving relationships and lives, providing invaluable tools and techniques for personal growth.

We get into: 

• [0:00] Intro

• [1:40] How Railey's pain and trauma turned into her mission

• [4:40] How to boost your libido

• [7:25] The difference between spontaneous and responsive desire

• [10:50] Women's pleasure, erotica and stories 

• [13:50] Why we need better and more thoughtful foreplay

• [16:10] Why it's so hard for couples to talk about sex, what turns them on, and desire

• [19:20] Making time for sexual intimacy 

• [24:40] How mainstream porn limits our ability to understand and explore amazing sex

• [28:00] What happens when the connection is missing 

• [30:40] The misbeliefs that women have about sex

• [33:20] Why men need to learn about the female body in order to experience deeper pleasure 

• [36:25] Closing the orgasm gap

• [44:25] What feeling safe in a relationship can do

• [48:00] Power couple secrets to have a thriving sex life

• [54:30] What BDSM and fetishes can to do your relationship

Connect with Tara

• Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/raileymolinario/   

• Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/raileymolinarioloveeducator, https://www.facebook.com/groups/224806782933794 

• Website: https://www.raileymolinario.com/   

•  Free Ultimate Guide To A Thriving Relationship https://www.raileymolinario.com/cheatsheet 

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• Email us: sexandbacon1@yahoo.com 

In this episode, Tara Galeano joins me to talk about psychedelic orgasms and reclaiming your sexuality.

She talks about her journey into the space of sexuality, and emphasizes the importance of exploring sexuality and embracing freedom, despite the shame that still surrounds sex and pleasure in society. 

Tara further dives into the concept of psychedelic orgasms and how they are experienced, shedding light on the link between desire and arousal. She talks about the issue of shaming one's own sexuality and emphasizes the importance of overcoming societal conditioning and embracing a healthy attitude towards sexual expression. 

Author Tara Galeano is a certified sex therapist who has worked with women and couples for over two decades to get their sexy back. She knows that there is pleasure in the body, beyond our wildest dreams, and everyone can access it. In her book "Rediscovering My Body" Tara teaches us how to show up for pleasure. 

Through reconnecting with her body, Tara was able to understand what was right and pleasurable for her, how best to proceed from this wisdom, and most importantly, how to teach these valuable lessons to others so that they too can transform their lives and reclaim their sensuality. Tara offers unique couple’s retreats, and ceremonial, sensual journeys that open doors to new experiences and communication with oneself and partners.

We get into: 

• [0:00] Intro

• [1:00] How Tara got into this space

• [3:55] Why having women approach her about sex and sexuality was surprising 

• [5:45] Exploring sexuality and wanting freedom

• [7:40] The shame that still comes with sex and pleasure

• [10:10] The power of an open mind and curiosity

• [11:00] Sex when you're sick or have a debilitating diagnosis 

• [18:45] The biggest issue women have when it comes to accepting their bodies

• [26:00] Reclaiming your sexuality 

• [32:40] What a psychedelic orgasm is

• [35:40] How psychedelic orgasms happen

• [42:40] The link between desire and arousal 

• [46:35] Shaming our own sexuality

• [50:30] One key thing to take from this episode

Connect with Tara

• Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/tara.galeano/ 

• Twitter: https:/www.twitter.com/BoulderSexThera 

• Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/TaraGaleano 

• LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/taragaleano/ 

• YouTube: https://youtube.com/user/BoulderSexTherapy 

• Website: https://rediscoveringmybody.com/ 

• Body Wisdom Journal: https://rediscoveringmybody.mykajabi.com/body-wisdom-journal
  
  

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• Email us: sexandbacon1@yahoo.com 

Get ready to uncover the secrets of female desire and pleasure with Danielle Savory.

In this episode, we explore the psychology behind the shame that women often feel when it comes to casual sex, and the healing work required to connect with our bodies. 

Danielle dishes out some serious insights on how to create an erotic vessel and how to be your own pleasure advocate. We also delve into the burden of emotional responsibility, communication struggles, and the power of working with Danielle as your coach.

Danielle Savory is a master certified coach, podcast host, and expert in the fields of neuropsychology, mindfulness, sexual pleasure and intimacy.  Danielle brings a unique perspective to coaching, helping clients understand the ways in which the brain and body are interconnected and how this connection can be harnessed to experience the sensual pleasure the body is wired for.

As the host of the popular podcast "It's My Pleasure," Danielle has explored a wide range of topics related to sexuality, relationships, and personal growth - empowering women to embrace their sexuality and prioritize their pleasure. Danielle is a master certified coach with over 10 years of experience coaching hundreds of women with her proven process of increasing desire and expanding orgasmic capacity.

Come join us for a juicy conversation on full-body orgasms, mental and physical stimulation, and tantalizing tips to get back in tune with your body.

We get into: 

• [0:00] Intro

• [1:10] How Danielle got into this space

• [3:30] The psychology behind the shame of wanting casual sex as women

• [10:40] The difference between 'desire' when it comes to men and women

• [12:30] The healing women have to do in order to connect to our bodies

• [15:20] Desire for connection

• [18:30] The brain and sex

• [23:10] How to create the most erotic vessel

• [27:50] Learning how to be your own pleasure advocate

• [30:05] Why guys are afraid of intimacy

• [31:45] Why communication is a struggle when it comes to pleasure

• [34:00] Figuring out the kind of connection you want to have

• [35:00] The burden of emotional responsibility and keeping men happy 

• [35:55] Three tips for getting back in tune with your body

• [43:10] Receiving pleasure through pleasuring someone else

• [50:20] The psychology behind having full-body orgasms 

• [57:25] The mental and physical stimulation women need

• [59:30] The power that comes through working with Danielle

Connect with Danielle

• Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thepracticeofpleasure/

• Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/daniellesavorycoaching/

• Website: https://www.daniellesavory.com/

• Join Danielle’s email list: https://www.daniellesavory.com/subscribe

• Podcast: https://www.daniellesavory.com/podcast

• Free Course: https://www.daniellesavory.com/join-fresh

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• Email us: sexandbacon1@yahoo.com 

In a world where sexual trauma and a lack of education on our desires are all too common, my guest Katie Rudland shares her insights on sexual liberation and healing. 

From location-based stigmas to utilizing human design for transformation, she emphasizes the importance of cultivating a relationship with oneself, learning to communicate needs, and healing without being in a relationship. Join her on the journey of sexual transformation and liberation, where healing and true alignment with oneself are possible.

Katie is someone who is always looking to learn and teach. She is passionate about having the freedom to be herself and live authentically. She aims to inspire others to do the same without being dependent on outside authorities.

She is passionate about helping people find emotional freedom within themselves, and she creates and embodies emotional freedom within herself and supports emotional intimacy in others, triggering their healing to birth them onto their own paths and journeys.

Katie guides others to reconnect, heal, and transform, opening them up to transparent intimacy, supporting and empowering them to find freedom of spirit, living in true alignment and union connected to their higher self and infinite wisdom. She is here to help others write their own story, with themselves as the main character.

We get into: 

• [0:00] Intro

• [2:10] Katie's take on sexual trauma

• [6:40] The lack of education around what we truly want from and during sexual experiences

• [7:55] What sexual liberation means

• [11:40] Location and culture-based stigmas around sex

• [15:25] Sexual liberation and trauma healing without being in a relationship

• [18:15] Human design's role in sexuality

• [22:20] Utilizing human design for sexual transformation and healing

• [26:20] The journey of sexual transformation and sexual liberation

• [30:20] How crucial it is to learn to communicate your needs

• [35:10] Cultivating a relationship with yourself first

Connect with Katie

• www.instagram.com/bespoke_journey 

• https://www.facebook.com/yourbespokejourney

• https://www.bespokejourney.co.uk/ 

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• Instagram: http://www.instagram.com/confessionsofafuckaholic 

• Email us: sexandbacon1@yahoo.com 

Have you ever considered a non-monogamous relationship? Are you curious about the difference between this and cheating? How do you get your spouse on board? And is it truly what you want in your life and relationship?

This is what we’re talking about in this episode with Jess Lynn.

Jess is a licensed therapist and ethical non-monogamy relationship coach. After opening her previously monogamous relationship of six years, Jess quickly learned just how little information there was out there from professionals on how to navigate non-monogamy.

Jess is passionate about helping others in taking steps to design and embrace their relationship(S) dreams! She shares her knowledge and personal stories through the lens of a trained clinician, in hopes that others can reach relationship success.

We get into: 

• [0:00] Intro

• [4:50] Is non-monogamy an excuse to cheat?

• [7:05] How she brought up ethical non-monogamy to her husband

• [12:05] How she explained her desires to her husband

• [16:25] The biggest challenges once they opened up their relationship

• [19:30] How to handle the jealousy that may come up

• [23:45] The difference between rules and agreements

• [27:50] Do people end up separating through non-monogamy?

• [34:20] Why people are so judgmental towards it

• [37:30] Non-monogamy vs. cheating

• [39:25] How to become more open-minded

Connect with Jess

• https://www.facebook.com/groups/nonmonogamousnewbies/

• www.instagram.com/nonmonogamous_newbies 

• www.bothandcoaching.com 

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• Instagram: http://www.instagram.com/confessionsofafuckaholic 

• Email us: sexandbacon1@yahoo.com 

What are the juicy details behind Tantra? Are you looking to explore your sexuality even deeper? Or maybe you're curious about the world of Tantra and how it can benefit you? Well, look no further because in this episode, we dive deep into the fascinating world of Tantra and sexuality with Ava Pikul.

Ava is a Transformational Therapist and Tantra Healer certified by the only government accredited institute of tantra in the entire world - The Institute of Authentic Tantra! She has over 1,700+ hours of training in the field of tantra, as well as psychological, emotional, and spiritual healing modalities. Ava believes that healing shouldn't take years, and primarily guides men, women, and couples through a unique and holistic approach to healing and sexual fulfillment. 

From exploring the different types of orgasms women can experience to understanding the psychological side of things, we cover it all. So whether you're a seasoned practitioner or a curious newbie, there's something here for everyone.

In the first few minutes, Ava shares her personal journey and how she got into this work. We then go on to discuss what Tantra is, the difference between Lineage-based Tantra and Neo Tantra, and whether it's something you can do solo or if it's couple-based.

But it's not just about the physical aspects of Tantra. We also explore the psychological and spiritual benefits of the practice and how it can be a tool for holistic healing. And if you're wondering how long it takes to see results, Ava shares her insights on that too.

We also tackle some of the misconceptions about Tantra, using it as a healing modality, and what most women are missing in their sexual experiences. And if you're curious about the impact of porn on Tantra, we delve into that as well.

From semen retention to the difference between women and men's sexuality, we cover a lot of ground in this episode. So if you're ready to unlock the power of Tantra and explore your sexuality, tune in and join the conversation.

We get into: 

• [0:30] How Ava got into this work

• [3:30] Communicating and exploring our own sexuality 

• [7:40] What is Tantra, Lineage-based Tantra and Neo Tantra

• [9:55] Can you do Tantra solo or is it couple-based?

• [12:45] Not rejecting our human conditioning

• [14:10] Tantra as a lifestyle

• [15:20] Starting with the psychological side of things

• [16:30] Tantra as a tool for holistic healing

• [18:30] How long this journey takes

• [21:10] The sexual aspect of Lineage-based Tantra

• [25:10] Developing trust and vulnerability

• [26:50] Misconceptions about Tantra

• [31:00] Using Tantra as a healing modality

• [32:30] What most women are missing in their sexual experiences

• [38:05] Why we turn to porn to get stimulated quickly

• [43:20] Porn and its impact on Tantra

• [46:40] Why we treat the symptom instead of going to that deeper level

• [48:05] Semen retention

• [54:05] The difference between women and men's sexuality

• [58:25] The science and energetic components of orgasms

• [59:40] The different types of orgasms women can experience

• [1:10:00] The power in slowing down and exploring yourself

Connect with Ava

• Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ava.ashe

• https://www.flamewithintantra.com/ 

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• Email us: sexandbacon1@yahoo.com 

In this episode, I sit down with Tristan West, a gay adult entertainment star who has been in the industry for about 9 months. Tristan shares his experiences working with various studios such as Cocky Boys, Naked Sword, Falcon, Next Door Studios, Kink Men, Blacks on Boys, and Creamy Bros. He also talks about presenting awards at the GayVN's and the incredible experiences he's had so far in the industry. 

We talk about every juicy topic, including how he got into the industry, the nerves he had on his first-ever shoot, having sex on camera for pleasure and not just money, natural chemistry vs. forced chemistry, working with straight men in gay porn, and whether being a bottom or top affects his dating life. 

Tristan also shares how he set himself up for success in the industry, how often he goes into the studio to film, his worst experience so far, whether he has ever taken these relationships outside of the studio, and whether it is more intimidating to work with straight men. 

How does he warm up and stretch for the set? And how did he decide what his preferences are? We talk about that too!

Tristan shares his thoughts on electro-stimulation, how porn has opened up his own sexuality, and whether he would ever do a sex scene with a girl. Tune in to learn more about the world of gay adult entertainment from Tristan's perspective.

We get into: 

• [1:05] How he got into the industry

• [4:25] The nerves he had on his first-ever shoot

• [5:25] Having sex on camera for pleasure and not just money

• [6:55] Having natural chemistry vs. forced chemistry

• [7:40] What it's like working with straight men in gay porn

• [9:55] Is Tristan a bottom or a top

• [10:55] Does it affect his dating life?

• [12:05] Did he tell his friends and family?

• [12:40] Setting himself up for success in this industry

• [14:05] How often he goes into studio to film

• [17:30] The worst experience he has had so far

• [19:10] Has he ever taken these relationships outside of the studio?

• [20:00] Is it more intimidating to work with straight men?

• [21:05] How to warm up and stretch for set

• [24:30] How he decided what his preferences are 

• [26:40] What he's most excited about in the industry

• [28:25] Where you can watch his content

• [29:20] Fave production companies to work with

• [31:30] Electro stimulation 

• [32:10] How porn has opened up his own sexuality 

• [36:40] Would he ever do a sex scene with a girl?

Connect with Tristan

• Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/xtristanxwestx

• Twitter: https://mobile.twitter.com/tristanwestxxx

• https://linktr.ee/tristanwestxxx 

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• Email us: sexandbacon1@yahoo.com 

In this episode, Favour Obasi-ike joins me to talk about life before, during and after being in an open relationship and in the lifestyle.

Favour Obasi-ike is a self-driven entrepreneur, business owner, self-taught drummer, and musical artist who has blended entertainment business from a professional and creative angle to navigate through my career in an innovative & disruptive way.

He is the Founder of Work & PLAY Entertainment where the primary goal is to inspire, entertain, and educate the boundless value of problem-solving solutions with innovative products using marketing & advertising implementation strategies with applied SEO (Search Engine Optimization). 

He also hosts the “We Don’t PLAY” podcast, which is available on over 14 podcast platforms with over tens of thousands of downloads and 300+ episodes. 

We talk about the world of open relationships and the swinging lifestyle. He shares his experiences of performance anxiety, being watched by his partner, and playing with other couples outside of clubs. Favour emphasizes the importance of knowing love languages and communicating effectively, as well as having conversations about sex before entering a relationship.

He also addresses the stigma society has around the lifestyle and the misconception that it desensitizes people to traditional sexual relationships. Favour shares what he learned about himself the most through these experiences.

We get into: 

• [0:55] How Favour's business and interests come into play

• [3:46] Getting introduced to the lifestyle and into an open relationship

• [6:40] Having performance anxiety for the first time ever

• [8:55] His first experience being watched by his partner

• [9:30] Was he ever jealous seeing his partner with someone else?

• [12:00] Why knowing love languages and communicating properly is so important

• [13:25] Did they ever play outside the clubs?

• [16:25] How he reacted after that relationship ended

• [17:45] Cross-playing with the other sex

• [20:30] Are conversations about sex important to have before getting in a relationship?

• [24:55] Does being in the lifestyle desensitize people to enjoying sexual relationships in a traditional way

• [26:50] What he learned about himself the most through these experiences

• [28:55] How many people he has fucked in one night

• [31:00] The stigma society has around it

• [34:10] How being in the lifestyle is like having exercise 

Connect with Favour

• All-in-one link: https://zaap.bio/flaevbeatz 

• Website: https://playinc.online 

• SEO Marketing Masterclass: https://quiet-morning-907.myflodesk.com 

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