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September: A Podcast For Loveships
Alexis Pauline Gumbs
Frequency: 1 episode/7d. Total Eps: 17

September is a weekly podcast for Loveships. It explores the tools and technologies that build and sustain life-changing love relationships. Hosted by writer and facilitator Alexis Pauline Gumbs and artist and entrepreneur Sangodare Wallace, this intimate show draws on their 17-year partnership built on the premise of Loveship as a spiritual practice and Loveship as a resource in community.
From conflict and contrast, responsibility and repair, to emotional intimacy and navigating the ever-changing seasons of life, Alexis and Sangodare share insights that nurture not only couples but also families, friends, and communities.
Tune in each week for heartfelt conversations that honor relationships as sacred ground—an offering to ourselves, our people, our ancestors, and spirit.
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12. I Love Myself Enough
dimanche 7 décembre 2025 • Duration 18:00
In this episode, hosts Alexis and Sangodare discuss the continuous journey of self-discovery and self-love, drawing inspiration from Essex Hemphill's ceremony of affirmation in the face of external and internalized oppression. They share personal experiences of self-realization, touching on the challenges and triumphs of understanding one's identity. The hosts outline three 'North Stars' to guide listeners on their journey, and address a listener's question about cultivating patience while seeking a divine partner. The conversation underscores that the path to self-awareness and love is ongoing and multi-faceted.
- Exploring Self-Awareness
- The Journey of Self-Discovery
- Wisdom from Essex Hemphill
- Personal Anecdotes about Growth
- North Stars for Self-LoveListener Questions and Advice
- Manifesting Your Desires
For more on our coaching and community building offerings, Click Here
https://www.mobilehomecoming.org/loveship
To go deeper into your self-love journey access the replay of Alexis’s “I Love Your Face” writing workshop for your youngest wisest self: https://sangodare.podia.com/i-love-your-face-a-writing-workshop-for-your-smallest-most-expansive-self
Or the Inner Child Summer School Practice space: https://sangodare.podia.com/inner-child-summer-school
Let us know what you think through the social channels below, and please leave a review so that like-minded people can find us.
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11. Partner and Parent Patterns!
dimanche 30 novembre 2025 • Duration 14:29
In this episode, Alexis and Sangodare reflect on the impact of family-of-origin dynamics on how we love romantically. With a grounding sacred text from Audre Lorde's essay “Eye to Eye”, they reveal how recognizing these patterns can lead to healing and liberation. The episode emphasizes intentionality in relationships, the importance of community support, and celebrates the love and influence of family, exemplified by a super special listener testimonial. The session concludes by inviting listeners to embrace these insights for personal transformation.
Navigating Relationships and Family Dynamics
Personal Reflections and Breakthroughs
North Stars for Healing and Growth
A special listener testimonial
For more on our coaching and community building offerings, Click Here
https://www.mobilehomecoming.org/loveship
The mother ourselves manifesta is here: https://blackfeministmind.wordpress.com/2011/01/16/motheringourselves-manifest/
To access Repetition is Sacred: Practicing Seven Generations (the course Alexis mentioned) go to: https://sangodare.podia.com/repetition-is-sacred-practicing-seven-generations
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2. The Power of Dedication: Cultivating Love as Spiritual Practice
dimanche 28 septembre 2025 • Duration 27:59
In this episode, hosts Sangodare and Alexis introduce Dedication as a spiritual technology for enriching relationships and community, emphasizing that recognizing our connections to others can transform mundane interactions into powerful experiences. They explore the importance of dedication in bringing forth the best versions of ourselves and fostering deeper connections. They also share practices to help cultivate self-love and improve relationships, highlight the influence of historical and ancestral connections and encourage listeners to integrate dedication into their daily lives. The episode ends with listener questions about self-love and expanding love in material ways, offering insights and practical advice for deepening one’s spiritual and relational growth.
- Practicing Dedication: Personal anecdotes on how dedication has impacted their relationship.
- The Importance of Community: Discussion on how dedication helps in understanding that we are part of a broader community and not isolated.
- Expanding the Concept: How dedication can transform various types of relationships and interactions.
- Listener Questions: Addressing inquiries about self-love and practical ways to expand love.
- Mirroring Ancestral Practices: How historical and cultural practices inform current dedication rituals.
- Upcoming Events: Announcement of virtual playdates and trust-building cohorts for lovebirds seeking romantic partnership.
Thanks for listening! Let us know what you thought through the social channels below, and please leave a review so that like-minded people can find us.
Are you seeking intentional partnership? Consider our 8 week cohort: TRUST FALL: Activation and Accompaniment for Lovebirds. For more information click here: https://sangodare.podia.com/trust-fall-activation-and-accompaniment-for-lovebirds
For more on all of our offerings, Click Here
https://www.mobilehomecoming.org/loveship
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See a Film School version of Sangodare’s Dreamgirl Music Video on Patreon (FREE)
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1. Manifesting Love as a Spiritual Practice: Technology
dimanche 21 septembre 2025 • Duration 23:14
In this heartfelt first episode of their podcast, Sangodare and Alexis celebrate their 17th anniversary and discuss their journey of relationship as a spiritual practice. They delve into topics such as manifesting a partner through self-awareness and intention, healing from past relationships, and the importance of knowing and articulating desires. They share personal stories, including Sangodare’s meticulous creation of a list of desired partner traits and Alexis's healing journey from a past abusive relationship. The episode emphasizes three “North Stars” for a successful relationship: getting clear on desires, being willing to change, and sharing those desires openly. The episode also includes a special dedication to Uncle Dwayne and Aunt Carol Gumbs for their exemplary love and support. Additionally, they answer listener questions on finding supportive partners and staying open to love while maintaining self-trust.
- Welcome and Anniversary Celebration
- Dedication to Uncle Dwayne and Aunt Carol
- Introduction to Relationship as Spiritual Practice
- The Power of a List and Self-Development
- Manifesting Love and Personal Growth
- Navigating Love and Trust After Heartbreak
- Three North Stars for Relationship Success
- Finding a Supportive Partner
- Staying Open to Love After Grief
- Q&A: Aligning with Spirit in Relationships
- Final Thoughts and Community Engagement
Thanks for listening! Let us know what you thought through the social channels below, and please leave a review so that like-minded people can find us.
Are you seeking intentional partnership? Consider our 8 week cohort: TRUST FALL: Activation and Accompaniment for Lovebirds. For more information click here: https://sangodare.podia.com/trust-fall-activation-and-accompaniment-for-lovebirds
For more on all of our offerings, Click Here
https://www.mobilehomecoming.org/loveship
Produced by Wowow Podcasts
Trailer - Welcome to September: A Podcast For Loveships!
jeudi 11 septembre 2025 • Duration 02:42
Welcome! Join us, Alexis Pauline Gumbs and Sangodare Wallace, as we share our 17-year journey of approaching our romantic relationship as a sacred gift and offering to the community. In this podcast, we explore the transformative power of relationships and discuss what it means to love as a spiritual practice. Each week, we will share our insights and respond to questions from the community, focusing on joy, intimacy, and rituals that keep love alive. Whether you are partnered or single, nurturing friendships, family ties, or romantic bonds, this podcast is for anyone who believes in the power of love to change the world.
10. AffOrmations: The Answer is in the Question
dimanche 23 novembre 2025 • Duration 15:52
In this solo episode, Sangodare unpacks afformations (not to be confused with affirmations) and their transformative power in all areas of life. Sangodare explores their learnings from the book ‘Afformations: The Miracle of Positive Self-Talk’ by Noah St. John, emphasizing the importance of belief, generative practices, and asking the right questions. They highlight how altering self-talk can create new possibilities and enrich the relational experience while addressing the challenges of balancing self-love and community engagement.
- Affirmations vs. Afformations
- Exploring Afformations and Self-Talk
- The Science Behind Afformations (Brain Science)
- Practical Application of Afformations
- Listener Question: Balancing Boundaries and Community
For more on our coaching and community building offerings, Click Here
https://www.mobilehomecoming.org/loveship
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9. Embracing Celebration: Celebrating Community, Relationships, and Personal Growth
dimanche 16 novembre 2025 • Duration 13:14
In this episode hosts Sangodare and Alexis celebrate the power of joy and gratitude within their community, relationships, and personal growth. they emphasize the importance of celebrating their elders, relationships, and the journey of black lesbians. The hosts introduce celebration as a technology, which they leverage to foster community and progress. They share personal anecdotes about turning gratitude into tangible growth, illustrating three 'North Stars' guiding their practice: always finding something to celebrate, celebrating before manifestations, and embracing creativity in celebrations. The episode encourages listeners to reflect on and practice gratitude daily, amplifying the impact of positive energy in their lives.
- The Power of Celebration
- Gratitude as a Practice, not Toxic Positivity
- Gratitude and Manifestation
For more on our coaching and community building offerings, Click Here
https://www.mobilehomecoming.org/loveship
Let us know what you think through the social channels below, and please leave a review so that like-minded people can find us.
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See a Film School version of Sangodare’s Dreamgirl Music Video on Patreon (FREE)
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8. Embracing the Power of Requests: A Loveship Practice
dimanche 9 novembre 2025 • Duration 20:19
In this episode, Alexis and Sangodare unpack the power of making requests, emphasizing the importance of learning to make and receive requests in relationships as a practice of vulnerability and community building. They discuss how asking for what we want can enhance cooperation and trust. The episode encourages listeners to see requests as acts of generosity and steps towards deeper connections.
- The Power of Requests
- Practicing Requests in Relationships
- The Importance of an Honest Yes and an Honest no.
Thanks for listening! Also, Sangodare mentions QUIRC which you can learn more about at https://quirc.app.
We also mentioned the activities that dive deeper into requests in our online course Sustaining Sweetness. You can learn more about the course here: https://sangodare.podia.com/sustaining-sweetness-a-practice-for-loveships
For more on our coaching and community building offerings, Click Here
https://www.mobilehomecoming.org/loveship
Let us know what you think through the social channels below, and please leave a review so that like-minded people can find us.
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See a Film School version of Sangodare’s Dreamgirl Music Video on Patreon (FREE)
Produced by Wowow Podcasts
7. Boundaries as Blessings in Loveships
dimanche 2 novembre 2025 • Duration 35:14
In this episode, hosts Sangodare and Alexis discuss profound themes around communicating desires and boundaries in Loveships. They share personal anecdotes, highlight insights from black feminists like June Jordan and Prentis Hemphill, and provide guidance on practicing healthy caring, non-codependent relationships. They emphasize the importance of community, mutual respect, and open communication in fostering spiritual growth within intimate relationships, and they address a listener's question about maintaining boundaries while valuing community.
- Boundaries as Blessings
- The Importance of Communication
- Practicing Accountability in Relationships
- Community and Support Systems
- Innovation and Growth in Relationships
- Understanding Fear in Relationships
- Listener Question: Communicating Boundaries in Community
- Final Thoughts and Farewell
Thanks for listening! Let us know what you thought through the social channels below, and please leave a review so that like-minded people can find us.
Are you seeking intentional partnership? Consider our 8 week cohort: TRUST FALL: Activation and Accompaniment for Lovebirds. For more information click here: https://sangodare.podia.com/trust-fall-activation-and-accompaniment-for-lovebirds
For more on all of our offerings, Click Here
https://www.mobilehomecoming.org/loveship
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See a Film School version of Sangodare’s Dreamgirl Music Video on Patreon (FREE)
Produced by Wowow Podcasts
6. Inherently Valuable: Worthiness in Relationships
dimanche 26 octobre 2025 • Duration 21:13
This discussion highlights our universal need for love and intimacy, and how the perceived scarcity of these elements can lead to lowered standards and feelings of unworthiness. Drawing on Ntozake Shange’s mantra “I found God in myself and I loved her fiercely, the episode underscores the importance of recognizing our intrinsic worth and the examples of love and intimacy that truly resonate with our authentic selves.
- The Universal Need for Love and Intimacy
- Scarcity and Compromising Standards
- Knowing you are inherently Deserving of Love
- Perceptions of Love and Intimacy
Thanks for listening! Let us know what you thought through the social channels below, and please leave a review so that like-minded people can find us.
Are you seeking intentional partnership? Consider our 8 week cohort: TRUST FALL: Activation and Accompaniment for Lovebirds. For more information click here: https://sangodare.podia.com/trust-fall-activation-and-accompaniment-for-lovebirds
For more on all of our offerings, Click Here
https://www.mobilehomecoming.org/loveship
RESOURCES
CONNECT WITH US
See a Film School version of Sangodare’s Dreamgirl Music Video on Patreon (FREE)
Produced by Wowow Podcasts


