Fiji & Autumn explore sex, relationships, and personal identity through an intersectional feminist lens where pop culture, internet culture, and reality collide.
We unpack tough topics and challenge norms to expand our understanding of self and the society that shapes it. From the online gender wars to misunderstood kinks to relearning how to date, we’re somewhere between wet, dry, and fxcking confused.
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This week on s0 wet s0 dry, Fiji and Autumn deep dive the political and dating gender wars with part 3 of this 3-part series.
Should we really blame algorithms for the gender wars? How does self-improvement content effect the gender wars? Do we need more censorship? Are the gender wars all the manosphere’s fault? Can feminism get toxic? What does bell hooks have to say about all of this? How does loneliness and heartbreak play a role in the gender wars?
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the s0 wet s0 dry team:
Autumn (host, editor)
instagram: @autumnkaira
twitter: @autumnkaira
tiktok: @autumnkaira
Fiji (host, editor)
instagram: @s0wet
twitter: @s0wet
tiktok: @fijithesiren
youtube: @s0wet
Mylao (Graphic Designer, and Artist)
instagram: @xlaomedia
email: xlaomedi4@gmail.com
A.I.R. (Music Producer)
instagram: @airgoincrazy
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a gender wars timeline: from #metoo to alpha males (Part 2)
Thursday, December 19, 2024 • Duration 02:17:44
This week on s0 wet s0 dry, Fiji and Autumn deep dive the political and dating gender wars with part 2 of this 3-part series.
From the me too movement and rise of Andrew Tate to the popularity of The Wizard Liz and SheraSeven, we’re running through an intersectional timeline of the gender wars to see how tf we got here.
Part 1: https://youtu.be/2XOze-LgmY0?si=ExT1SQn3VAGKSO2n
Part 3 will be out next week for a full analysis of the political and dating gender wars.
We WILL leave things out because we couldn’t possibly fit everything into one episode, but if there is a pivotal moment that you think we left out please please comment below and share. Our goal is to start a conversation and share insights🫶🏻
Humiliation content and onlyfans: https://youtu.be/j3GlbzodE0k?si=1qxBpIM1K_WgGXta
Sex positive feminism: https://youtu.be/Y1kRMxoO6Uc?si=AieSdtvbCuq2Us9P
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competition, business, & female friendship break ups: can we work it out on the remix?
Thursday, October 17, 2024 • Duration 03:10:54
Fiji and Autumn check in this week with new Netflix shows Te Perfect Couple and Average Joe, Eat Predators controversy, and my dog’s adoption day.
Next, we dive into this week’s podcast/ video essay topic: the depth of female friendship and friendship breakups. Why are we all competing and when can we just work it out on the remix?
We’re talking: Early female friendships, romanticizing girlhood, the differences between male and female friendships, how female friendships are similar to romantic relationships, the depth of female friendships, painful friendship breakups, female rivalry, competition between women, mean girls, performative friendships/ friendships for PR, Kim Kardashian and Paris Hilton, Charlie XCX and Lorde, Brat’s focus on female dynamics, how the media pits women against each other, comparing yourself to other women, Ice Spice and Cleotrapa, colorism, business relationships with other women, JT and Yung Miami, listener stories, and more!👀
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our journey as small podcast/ youtube creators: what we've learned
Sunday, October 13, 2024 • Duration 24:32
Fiji and Autumn sat down to get real about what we've learned in the past year and a half as small podcast and youtube video essay creators. We share insights into our creator journey, the tools and equipment we use, advice for creators that are just getting started, and what to expect in terms of growth, money, and brand deals.
If you guys are new here, welcome! We drop weekly episodes on Thursdays where we explore duality through deep diving topics about sex, relationships, and personal identity where internet trends and reality collide. From the online gender wars to misunderstood kinks to relearning how to date, we’re somewhere between wet, dry, and fxcking confused. Listen in on our FaceTime calls for the nuanced reality check that only a best friend (and some research) can provide.
Join our community of confused pxssies and philosophical slxts💦🌵💕
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the s0 wet s0 dry team:
Autumn (host, editor)
instagram: @autumnkaira
twitter: @autumnkaira
tiktok: @autumnkaira
Fiji (host, editor)
instagram: @s0wet
twitter: @s0wet
tiktok: @fijithesiren
youtube: @s0wet
Mylao (Graphic Designer, and Artist)
instagram: @xlaomedia
email: xlaomedi4@gmail.com
A.I.R. (Music Producer)
instagram: @airgoincrazy
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minisode: revolt world recap as small creators
Thursday, October 10, 2024 • Duration 21:29
On this week's episode of s0 wet s0 dry (or vlog) Fiji and Autumn are reunited in Atlanta for Revolt World! Join us for our takeaways from the Revolt World as small podcast creators trying to make it.
If you guys are new here, welcome! We drop weekly episodes on Thursdays where we explore duality through deep diving topics bout sex, relationships, and personal identity where internet trends and reality collide. From the online gender wars to misunderstood kinks to relearning how to date, we’re somewhere between wet, dry, and fxcking confused. Listen in on our FaceTime calls for the nuanced reality check that only a best friend (and some research) can provide.
Join our community of confused pxssies and philosophical slxts💦🌵💕
follow us on instagram, twitter, youtube, and tiktok @s0wets0dry
the s0 wet s0 dry team:
Autumn (host, editor)
instagram: @autumnkaira
twitter: @autumnkaira
tiktok: @autumnkaira
Fiji (host, editor)
instagram: @s0wet
twitter: @s0wet
tiktok: @fijithesiren
youtube: @s0wet
Mylao (Graphic Designer, and Artist)
instagram: @xlaomedia
email: xlaomedi4@gmail.com
A.I.R. (Music Producer)
instagram: @airgoincrazy
*This content is for entertainment, journalistic, and educational purposes. We do not own the rights to the content from other creators in this episode.*
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the glamorization of sugar dating: tiktok is lying to you
Thursday, September 19, 2024 • Duration 03:03:48
Fiji and Autumn check in this week with Revolt world, new jobs, seasonal allergies, and being off my meds.
Next, we dive into this week’s podcast/ video essay topic: sugar dating.
We’re talking: The history of sugar dating, types of sugar daddies, Seeking, transactional relationships, who are sugar babies, Lola, The Girlfriend Experience, how we portray sex workers in the media, sugar baby experiences, tiktok creators giving how to advice, the glamorization of sugar dating, the realities of sugar dating, listener stories, and more!👀
What’s got us s0 wet and s0 dry this week 00:03:33 - 00:09:04
Defining sugar relationships and the history of sugar relationships 00:09:04 - 00:28:48
Sugar relationship stats 00:28:48 - 00:50:07
Types of sugar daddies 00:50:07 - 00:59:53
The power dynamics of sugar relationships 00:59:53 - 01:16:23
Breaking down Seeking the sugar daddy app 01:16:23 - 01:27:46
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therapy speak: a tool or a weapon?
Thursday, September 12, 2024 • Duration 02:53:36
Fiji and Autumn check in this week with more literature events, Sabrina Carpenter’s new album, wanting to quit cigarettes, and messaging my delusional crush.
Next, we dive into this week’s podcast/ video essay topic: a deep dive into therapy speak.
We’re talking: Defining therapy speak and therapy terms, BetterHelp, TikTok therapists, bad therapists, media literacy, the mental health crisis, access to healthcare, distancing ourselves from our emotions, the mental health stigma, is therapy speak ruining relationships?, can you have too much therapy?, weaponized therapy speak, therapy speak in romantic relationships, friendships, and family relationships, listener stories, and more!👀
Humiliation content wouldn’t exist without OnlyFans creators
Wednesday, September 4, 2024 • Duration 03:15:39
Fiji and Autumn check in this week with finding literature and arts events in Atlanta, love from our supporters, technical difficulties, and missing stripping.
Next, we dive into this week’s topic: humiliation content and the influencer to OnlyFans pipeline.
We’re talking: the LMS for a rate era, smash or pass, top OnlyFans earners, is OnlyFans easy work?, influencers struggling to make money, the rise in popularity of OnlyFans, 20 girls 1 rapper, pop the balloon, promo opportunities, what humiliation content says about our society, the impact on the black community, male validation, natural bodies vs BBLs, does this content reflect the dating scene?, using the system to your advantage, Huak Tuah, the downsides of OnlyFans, the whatever podcast, the manosphere, incels, ant-sex work beliefs, listener stories, and more!👀
in pursuit of beauty: the paradox of effortlessness
Thursday, August 29, 2024 • Duration 02:19:53
Fiji and Autumn check in this week with finding new events in the city, sex dreams, high levels of stress, and another quarter life crisis
Next, we dive into this week’s topic: the pursuit of beauty and the paradox of effortlessness.
We’re talking: beauty sickness, the double-bind of beauty, our early memories of beauty, are men beautiful?, beauty vs comfort, pretty privilege, the art of beauty, is beauty anti-feminist?, white-washed beauty standards, how to engage in beauty in a healthy way, natural beauty vs botox beauty, Love Island UK, plastic surgeon tiktok, beauty influencers, anti-aging products, why the media doesn’t want older women, the cost of beauty, Kylie Jenner, the feeling of being perceived, the correlations between botox and relationships, perception drift, listener stories, and more!👀
What’s got us s0 wet and s0 dry this week 00:02:42 - 00:08:13
What is the pursuit of beauty? 00:08:13 - 00:17:11
Would life be better if we weren’t in pursuit of beauty? 00:17:11 -00:29:00
Should women live in the pursuit of beauty? 00:29:00 - 00:36:00
Beauty obsession and beauty sickness 00:36:00 - 00:51:47
Plastic surgery and reality TV 00:51:47 - 01:18:48
The double-bind of beauty and the allure of effortlessness 01:18:48 - 01:37:06
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trauma dumping and oversharing as entertainment: a deep dive
Thursday, August 22, 2024 • Duration 02:49:23
Fiji and Autumn check in this week with F.D Signifier’s video essays, How I Met Your Mother, free online concerts, a failed night out, and having a hard time sleeping.
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Next, we dive into this week’s topic: trauma dumping and oversharing as entertainment.
We’re talking: The gendered and internet history of “oversharing”, oversharing memes, social media as a third space, finstas, the right to tell your story, storytelling as an art form, profiting off of oversharing/ trauma dumping, Reesa Tessa, Brooke Schofield, Who tf did I marry, Hayley Baylee, truth vs fiction, creators as entrepreneurs/ artists, put a finger down tiktok, Tana Mongeau, Alex Cooper and Call Her Daddy, exploiting your life for money, watching creators grow up in real-time, the addiction loop of posting, the trauma plot, the traumaification of reality tv, Joey the Bachelor, the trauma candy salad, does trauma make you funny?, listener stories, and more!👀
What’s got us s0 wet and s0 dry this week 00:02:41 - 00:08:13
The gendered and internet history of “oversharing” 00:08:13 - 00:13:15
What is oversharing online? 00:13:15 - 00:25:53
Who tf did I marry tiktok: the ethics of oversharing and trauma dumping as storytelling 00:25:53 - 00:39:50
The rise of the storytime era: Tana Mongeau and Oversharing as storytelling 00:39:50 - 00:47:51
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the s0 wet s0 dry team:
Autumn (host, editor)
instagram: @autumnkaira
twitter: @autumnkaira
tiktok: @autumnkaira
Fiji (host, editor)
instagram: @s0wet
twitter: @s0wet
tiktok: @fijithesiren
youtube: @s0wet
Mylao (Graphic Designer, and Artist)
instagram: @xlaomedia
email: xlaomedi4@gmail.com
A.I.R. (Music Producer)
instagram: @airgoincrazy
*This content is for entertainment, journalistic, and educational purposes. We do not own the rights to the content from other creators in this episode.*
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Sugar baby and benefactor experiences 01:27:46 - 02:06:54
The Girlfriend Experience 02:06:54 - 02:14:55
The problem with sugar baby tiktok and glamorization 02:14:55 - 02:29:34
The stigma around sugar dating 02:29:34 - 02:50:45
What’s got us wet, dry, and still confused about sugar relationships 02:50:45 - 03:03:48
follow us on instagram, twitter, youtube, and tiktok @s0wets0dry
the s0 wet s0 dry team:
Autumn (host, editor)
instagram: @autumnkaira
twitter: @autumnkaira
tiktok: @autumnkaira
Fiji (host, editor)
instagram: @s0wet
twitter: @s0wet
tiktok: @fijithesiren
youtube: @s0wet
Mylao (Graphic Designer, and Artist)
instagram: @xlaomedia
email: xlaomedi4@gmail.com
A.I.R. (Music Producer)
instagram: @airgoincrazy
*This content is for entertainment, journalistic, and educational purposes. We do not own the rights to the content from other creators in this episode.*
The mental health crisis, the rise of tele-therapy, and why are we using therapy speak? 01:29:48 - 01:54:59
The problems with therapy speak 01:54:59 - 02:17:31
The case for therapy speak 02:17:31 - 02:29:07
Are we doing too much therapy? 02:29:07 - 02:38:54
What’s got us wet, dry, and still confused about therapy speak 02:38:54 - 02:53:36
follow us on instagram, twitter, youtube, and tiktok @s0wets0dry
the s0 wet s0 dry team:
Autumn (host, editor)
instagram: @autumnkaira
twitter: @autumnkaira
tiktok: @autumnkaira
Fiji (host, editor)
instagram: @s0wet
twitter: @s0wet
tiktok: @fijithesiren
youtube: @s0wet
Mylao (Graphic Designer, and Artist)
instagram: @xlaomedia
email: xlaomedi4@gmail.com
A.I.R. (Music Producer)
instagram: @airgoincrazy
*This content is for entertainment, journalistic, and educational purposes. We do not own the rights to the content from other creators in this episode.*
What’s got us s0 wet and s0 dry this week 00:02:33 - 00:09:51
Early stages of dating/ relationship content 00:09:51 - 00:12:30
Some background and history of OnlyFans and the Influencer to OnlyFans pipeline 00:12:30 - 00:37:10
New age dating content aka humiliation content: 20 girls 1 rapper, pop the balloon, and more 00:37:10 - 01:33:56
Why do women do onlyfans? 01:33:56 - 02:02:09
Manosphere podcasts and onlyfans creators 02:02:09 - 02:40:56
Humiliation and onlyfans content’’s impact on society 02:40:56 - 02:59:28
Wrap Up: What’s got us wet, dry, and still confused about the topic 02:59:28 - 03:15:39
follow us on instagram, twitter, youtube, and tiktok @s0wets0dry
the s0 wet s0 dry team:
Autumn (host, editor)
instagram: @autumnkaira
twitter: @autumnkaira
tiktok: @autumnkaira
Fiji (host, editor)
instagram: @s0wet
twitter: @s0wet
tiktok: @fijithesiren
youtube: @s0wet
Mylao (Graphic Designer, and Artist)
instagram: @xlaomedia
email: xlaomedi4@gmail.com
A.I.R. (Music Producer)
instagram: @airgoincrazy
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The Correlations between Botox and Relationships 01:58:23 -02:09:24
Wrap up: What’s got us wet, dry, and confused about the topic 02:09:24 02:19:53
follow us on instagram, twitter, youtube, and tiktok @s0wets0dry
the s0 wet s0 dry team:
Autumn (host, editor)
instagram: @autumnkaira
twitter: @autumnkaira
tiktok: @autumnkaira
Fiji (host, editor)
instagram: @s0wet
twitter: @s0wet
tiktok: @fijithesiren
youtube: @s0wet
Mylao (Graphic Designer, and Artist)
instagram: @xlaomedia
email: xlaomedi4@gmail.com
A.I.R. (Music Producer)
instagram: @airgoincrazy
*This content is for entertainment, journalistic, and educational purposes. We do not own the rights to the content from other creators in this episode.*
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