Relationship Coaching School Podcast – Details, episodes & analysis

In this episode, Jayson introduces three powerful trainings designed to transform your life and relationships. 
First, explore the Communication Breakthrough Experience, where hands-on demos and live coaching sessions help you overcome communication barriers and deepen your emotional connections. 
Next, learn about Relationship Coach Training, a program that empowers you to turn your passion for personal growth and relationships into a fulfilling career, making a meaningful impact on others. 
Finally, discover Couples Coach Training, a comprehensive 9-month journey that combines cutting-edge science and experiential therapies to equip you with the skills and confidence to coach couples effectively. Whether you're seeking personal growth, a new career, or the tools to help others, these trainings offer the potential for profound change. Don't miss this opportunity to take your life to the next level!

• 2:43 - Communication Breakthrough Experience
• 5:27 - Relationship Coach Training
• 7:16 - Couples Coach Training

Links:

• Communication Breakthrough Experience
• Apply to Relationship Coach Training
• Couples Coach Training
• U.S. listeners, sign up for relationship tips and support direct to your phone by texting this number: 720-704-4850
• Follow Jayson on social media:
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Do you wish you and your partner still communicated like you did when you first fell in love? In this episode, Jayson delves into the science of infatuation—why we experience it and why it fades. Can you rekindle the magic of the early days of your relationship, or is there something even better ahead? Tune in to discover how to earn your second honeymoon stage.

Timestamps:

• 2:48 - Infatuation
• 6:16 - Falling out of love or working toward relational maturity?
• 9:49 - Learning how to communicate
• 13:48 - Earning your second honeymoon stage

Links:

• Reignite your connection-communicate like you did when you fell in love
• The End The Struggle With Him Roadmap & Monthly Group Coaching Membership
• Follow Jayson on social media:
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IN THIS EPISODE, You will learn:

• To see your partner as a sacred mirror and sanctuary for the growing your greatest actualized self
• The true characteristics of a long-term partnership
• How your partnership is the optimal container for complete transformation of yourself into the highest possible version imaginable
• How to fall in love and why this is more important than being married
• How to take radical responsibility for being loved in every moment of your life
• How to actually get your needs/wants met in a partnership
• How to know if conflict in your relationship is driving you toward or away from more magnificence

There’s a ton in this episode so dive in and go slow.

And, Here’s a great question from Annie to ask yourself if you are trying to decide to stay or leave:

Is the person I’m being called to become by what my partner’s asking me to become (if you take on the growth-development framework), will you become a more extraordinary version of yourself? If who they are asking you to become is a constricted, small, tight version of you, then this is probably not the person you want to be with.

However, if you identify as the smaller version of you, then, you are going to hear your partner’s feedback as criticism and blame and might make them wrong in the process. So, pay attention to these finer points.

Timestamps:

• 1:47 - What are we getting into when we say yes to long-term relationships?
• 6:04 - Becoming the best version of yourself
• 9:49 - Annie's story
• 16:48 - Taking responsibility when we don't feel loved
• 21:35 - Getting out of your victimhood
• 30:34 - When to leave

Links:

• Annie Lalla – Love Coach for Singles & Couples
• Apply to Relationship Coach Training
• Follow Jayson on social media:
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Ellen and I build on what we discussed in last week’s episode. We chat about the single most important family value to have and how it comes into play in how to get your kid to do what you need them to, without resorting to fear, manipulation, or bribery (whether you’re dealing with toddlers, teens, or any age in between).

Useful Links:

• https://relationshipschool.com/rct/
• https://relationshipschool.com/getcoachingnow
• https://www.gettingtozerobook.com

In this episode, Family Values Part 1, Ellen and I discuss the most important family value to have as parents while also remembering to factor in your kid's values, interests & nature. We speak to the relational dynamics that the avoidant family and the emotionally-oriented family struggle with, and share how holding this value in mind can positively impact everyone's experience on a day-to-day basis, and big-picture as your kids grow into contributing humans.

Useful Links:

• https://relationshipschool.com/relationshipmastery/
• https://relationshipschool.com/getcoachingnow
• https://www.gettingtozerobook.com

This week I speak with Dr. Stan Marlan, a Jungian psychoanalyst, clinical psychologist, and author. He writes on Jung, alchemy, the philosopher’s stone, the art of illumination, and speaks to individuation, the individual and collective unconscious, archetypes, psychedelics, and how we introject our parents into the depths of our unconscious… Plus he offers up a little taste of psychoanalysis in action by doing a dream interpretation of a dream I recently had!

Useful Links:

• https://relationshipschool.com/relationshipmastery/
• https://relationshipschool.com/getcoachingnow
• https://www.gettingtozerobook.com

“What are some pointers you’d offer someone who feels unmet in their emotional needs due to their husband’s avoidant emotionally unavailable tendencies?” 

 “What do you do in between counseling sessions when something even more hurtful has just been revealed?” 

“In an avoidant-insecure partnership, is compromising simply a reframe to keep the peace, and am I denying my need for a healthy, working relationship?”

Our TRS Support Group is ripe with like-minded people doing their work, asking hard questions, practicing curiosity, taking accountability for how they show up, garnering compassion for their significant others, and offering moral support. Ellen and I regularly thumb through comments and answer questions here in our Ask Me Anything episodes over a cup of coffee. 

Useful Links:

• https://relationshipschool.com/rct/
• https://relationshipschool.com/getcoachingnow
• https://www.gettingtozerobook.com

This week I spoke with Jeff Salzman about Integral Theory (the idea that culture and consciousness have been, and will continually evolve) and how it applies to what’s shaping our world right now. If you want another frame to help you understand turbulent times, this will be helpful. Listen here for the full episode.

Useful Links:

• https://www.dailyevolver.com/
• https://www.youtube.com/c/DailyEvolver
• https://twitter.com/dailyevolver
• https://relationshipschool.com/relationshipmastery/
• https://relationshipschool.com/getcoachingnow
• https://www.gettingtozerobook.com

Join Ellen and I for a special ‘Ask-Me-Anything’ episode where we tackle some listener questions: What Do I try talking to my husband about something that bothers me and his first and continual reaction is anger and defensiveness? What are your thoughts on dating someone with addictions? Is it reason enough to leave, should people be given grace, Is it a big enough issue to stay away entirely?  Is there a situation where refusing to get an STD test isn’t a red flag?

When kids grow up watching their parents angrily go to their rooms/leave the house which implicitly teaches them that emotions are overwhelming and/or scary. This understanding can easily translate into our kids dissociating from their emotions (retreating into screen addiction,  or other behavioral issues, and later, as adults, into emotional eating, substance abuse, porn addiction, etc.). It starts with you as a parent taking the lead and role modeling for them how to feel/process their emotions, and speak to their experience, without under/over parenting.

Useful Links: 

• https://relationshipschool.com/relationshipmastery/
• https://relationshipschool.com/getcoachingnow
• https://www.gettingtozerobook.com

Do you know the difference between neuro-diverse, neuro-divergent, and neuro-typical? Did you know 1 out of 48 people identify as neuro-divergent, and that nowadays the terms ‘aspergers’ and “high-functioning” are outdated?  Are you confident you’re using language such as ‘the spectrum’ respectfully and accurately?

Join me this week while I speak to Grace Myhill, a couples coach who specializes in working with neuro-diverse clients and learn some of her tools that will help all couples (and ourselves).

Useful Links:

• https://www.gracemyhill.com/
• https://relationshipschool.com/relationshipmastery/
• https://relationshipschool.com/getcoachingnow
• https://www.gettingtozerobook.com