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Autistic Masking at Work: Finding the Support You Need with Eric Garcia11 oct. 202600:35:14

What helps an autistic professional navigate a demanding workplace—and how do they recognize and ask for that support?

In the final episode of Patterns of Divergent Minds at Work, Cathy Rashidian speaks with autistic journalist Eric Garcia, author of We’re Not Broken: Changing the Autism Conversation.

Eric shares experiences from newsrooms and political reporting, including asking an editor for clearer instructions, learning from a mentor, and becoming more intentional about his working environment.

We explore:

  • Autistic masking at work and the distinction between hiding your needs and using tools that help you work.

  • How mentorship supported Eric early in his journalism career.

  • How interviewing other autistic people changed his understanding of himself.

  • Why professional capability and support needs can coexist.

  • Autism representation, stigma, and the importance of community.

  • His upcoming book’s exploration of autism and expectations of masculinity.

We close the series by inviting you to consider what you’ve recognized in your own work—and what you might adjust or ask for.

Eric’s upcoming book: Preorder Manly While Stimming: Autism and the Myth of the Masculine Ideal.

Explore your own patterns: Take the free Patterns of Divergent Minds at Work inventory.

Series: Patterns of Divergent Minds at Work · Part 5 of 5.

 

Eric Garcia is the Washington Bureau Chief and Senior Washington Correspondent at the Independent and the author of the book We’re Not Broken: Changing the Autism Conversation. He is also a columnist for MS NOW. He previously worked as an assistant editor at the Washington Post’s Outlook section and an associate editor at The Hill, as well as a correspondent for National Journal, MarketWatch, and Roll Call. He has also written for the Daily Beast, the New Republic, and Salon.com. Garcia is a graduate of the University of North Carolina at Chapel Hill.

Diagnosed with ADHD at 65: Leadership Lessons with Carlos Gutierrez11 oct. 202600:25:07

What can a late ADHD diagnosis reveal after decades of leadership success?

Carlos Gutierrez, former chief executive of Kellogg and former United States Secretary of Commerce, joins Cathy Rashidian to discuss being diagnosed with ADHD at 65—and how that helped him understand his working life.

Drawing on his memoir, Sheer Will: Learning to Lead When There Is No Path, Carlos reflects on ambition, his immigrant experience, and learning to lead through observation, feedback, and trial and error.

We discuss:

  • Taking work home to catch up on tasks postponed during the day—and the cost to family time.

  • The contribution and cost of hyperfocus in his own career.

  • Learning that leadership doesn’t require having every answer.

  • Accepting support and recognizing the skills others bring.

  • How feedback revealed habits he hadn’t noticed.

  • The role of courage, empathy, and trust in leadership.

This conversation continues our exploration of work patterns that support success while demanding more than others may realize.

Carlos’s book: Purchase Sheer Will: Learning to Lead When There Is No Path.

Explore your own patterns: Take the free Patterns of Divergent Minds at Work inventory.

Series: Patterns of Divergent Minds at Work · Part 4 of 5. Carlos Gutierrez has been an influential figure in business and politics for over 35 years, but his route to global leadership was far from the well-worn path of the Ivy League M.B.A. In fact, he never graduated from college and began his life in America without knowing a word of English. When he was only six years old, his family fled the Cuban revolution with almost nothing, travelling to Miami and ultimately emigrating to Mexico. He began working for Kellogg’s selling cereal out of a van, and climbed the ranks until he became the youngest CEO in the company’s hundred-year history. He went on to serve as U.S. Secretary of Commerce for the Bush administration, and later held executive roles in nearly a dozen major companies. Despite his humble beginnings and a lifelong struggle with untreated ADHD—he was not diagnosed with the disorder until age 65—he was able to overcome any challenge and reach incredible levels of success.

People-Pleasing and Imposter Syndrome at Work: When Proving Yourself Becomes Exhausting11 oct. 202600:07:44

You agree to a deadline you’re concerned about, then work late to meet it. You receive positive feedback, but still feel you need to prove you deserve your role. How much effort goes into looking dependable?

In part three of Patterns of Divergent Minds at Work, Cathy Rashidian explores the Adapter and Imposter patterns. We examine experiences that can overlap with people-pleasing and imposter syndrome at work, including suppressing concerns, overpreparing, and repeatedly checking work.

In this episode:

  • How to adapt your communication while keeping your own views and needs visible.

  • The distinction between professional flexibility and masking.

  • Why one mistake can start feeling like a judgment of your overall capability.

  • How to define what “enough” means before beginning a task.

  • How unclear expectations and inconsistent feedback can add to the pressure.

For professionals with ADHD and other neurodivergent experiences, this is an invitation to notice effort that colleagues may never see—and identify one expectation worth clarifying.

Explore your own patterns: Take the free Patterns of Divergent Minds at Work inventory.

Series: Patterns of Divergent Minds at Work · Part 3 of 5.

ADHD Productivity: Overplanning, Overcommitting, and Too Many Ideas11 oct. 202600:07:23

Do you spend more time organizing your work than doing it? Take over a colleague’s task when they only asked for feedback? Start developing several ideas before deciding which one to finish?

In part two of Patterns of Divergent Minds at Work, Cathy Rashidian explores the Architect, Rescuer, and Visionary. For professionals navigating ADHD productivity challenges or other neurodivergent experiences, these patterns offer a way to examine planning, boundaries, prioritization, and follow-through.

We look at:

  • The Architect: When useful structure becomes time-consuming overplanning.

  • The Rescuer: How helping turns into owning someone else’s work.

  • The Visionary: How to choose a small test when you have too many ideas competing for attention.

  • Questions to ask before adding another system, accepting a request, or committing to a project.

  • When you need clearer team priorities, ownership, or support.

The aim is to keep what helps you contribute while adjusting the effort and responsibilities you take on.

Explore your own patterns: Complete the free Patterns of Divergent Minds at Work inventory.

Series: Patterns of Divergent Minds at Work · Part 2 of 5.

Next: people-pleasing, expectations, and the pressure to prove yourself.

ADHD at Work: Why Working Harder Isn’t Helping11 oct. 202600:10:09

You’re delivering good work, but it’s taking more time and energy than you can keep giving. Is working harder still the answer?

In this opening episode, executive and ADHD coach Cathy Rashidian introduces Patterns of Divergent Minds at Work, a special five-part series within Refined Leadership: ADHD Lens.

We explore five recurring work patterns: the Architect, Rescuer, Visionary, Adapter, and Imposter. These approaches can help neurodivergent professionals organize complex work, solve problems, collaborate, and earn trust. They can also become difficult to sustain.

In this episode:

  • What your work patterns contribute—and what they require from you.

  • How workplace expectations, changing priorities, and unclear responsibilities affect your effort.

  • Why these patterns are tools for reflection rather than fixed personality types.

  • How to choose one situation and try a practical adjustment.

This conversation includes ADHD, autism, and broader neurodivergent experiences at work.

Explore your own patterns: Take the free Patterns of Divergent Minds at Work inventory. Its 25 statements provide a starting point for reflection; it is not a diagnostic assessment.

Series: Patterns of Divergent Minds at Work · Part 1 of 5.

Why ADHD Professionals Get Stuck | Overcoming the Wall of Awful03 août 202600:55:38

Why can a capable ADHD professional know exactly what needs to be done—and still find it incredibly difficult to begin?

In this conversation, Cathy Rashidian speaks with Brendan Mahan, MEd, MS, author of Overcoming the Wall of Awful, about the emotional barriers that can build around work we have struggled with before.

A report, email, decision or difficult conversation may look straightforward from the outside. Internally, that task may be carrying frustration, uncertainty, shame, fear of failure or memories of previous struggles.

In this episode, we explore:

  • What can be hiding inside a seemingly simple task such as sending an email

  • How repeated struggles contribute to the Wall of Awful

  • Why caring deeply about the outcome can sometimes make beginning harder

  • The difference between activating under pressure and performing well under pressure

  • How urgency, anxiety, frustration and anger can become a damaging way to smash through the wall

  • What it means to put a door in the wall or climb it

  • How skills, resources and expectations affect workplace performance

  • What leaders often miss when they move straight into problem-solving

  • Questions to ask yourself when you are staring at your own Wall of Awful

Brendan Mahan is an internationally recognized ADHD and executive-function expert, host of the ADHD Essentials Podcast and author of Overcoming the Wall of Awful.

📘 Learn about or pre-order Overcoming the Wall of Awful: https://brendanmahan.com/the-wall-of-awful-book/

🎙 Learn more about Brendan: https://brendanmahan.com/

🌐 Learn more about Cathy Rashidian and Ready Set Choose: https://www.readysetchoose.com/

 

Subscribe for thoughtful conversations about professional and leadership development through an ADHD lens.

#ADHDAtWork #ADHDLeadership #WallOfAwful

I Didn’t Burn Out. My Mask Did.08 mai 202600:09:51

What happens when the mask comes off?

In this episode, Coach Cathy dives into the unique challenges faced by high-achieving professionals with ADHD who feel pressured to conform to traditional leadership molds. Through her personal story of exhaustion and the breaking point that led her to quit her executive role, Cathy shines a light on masking—the exhausting effort to hide your struggles and maintain a polished facade.

She unpacks the toll this takes on your mental bandwidth, decision-making, and ability to lead authentically. Cathy offers clear insights into the signs you might be leading from survival mode, why understanding ADHD is a game-changer, and how small, strategic shifts can help you lead with clarity, sustainability, and alignment with your values.

Whether you’re feeling stuck in the cycle of burnout or navigating your next leadership transition, this episode will leave you with actionable steps to recalibrate your approach in a way that works with your brain, not against it.

Episode Breakdown:

00:00 Introduction: What does it mean to lead with ADHD? 01:09 Personal Story: The moment the mask shattered. 01:31 Understanding Masking: Why it’s so draining and its impact on leadership. 02:46 Survival Mode vs. Authentic Leadership: Recognizing the signs. 04:56 Reflecting on Leadership and ADHD: A new lens for aligned leadership. 07:05 Steps to Aligned Leadership: Practical strategies to start leading differently. 08:37 Invitation to Connect: Learn how ADHD-informed coaching can help you lead authentically.

If you’re tired of performing leadership and ready to step into authenticity, this episode is for you. Tune in to reclaim your energy, find clarity, and lead in a way that feels true to who you are.

Feel free to reach out if you’d like to have a conversation about how you can work together. Schedule a call using this link.

 

Why Knowing Isn't Doing: Adult ADHD Through a CBT Lens | Dr. Russell Ramsay08 mai 202600:51:02

"I know what I need to do, but I don't trust that I'll do it when I need to do it."

If that sentence lands, this conversation is for you.

In this episode of Refined Leadership: ADHD Lens, I sit down with Dr. Russell Ramsay, one of the leading voices in adult ADHD and Cognitive Behavioral Therapy. We talk about his new book, Once I Get Started, and the cognitive theme he believes runs beneath much of adult ADHD: self-mistrust.

This is not a productivity conversation. It is a conversation about what actually happens between knowing what to do and doing it — and why that gap shows up so often for capable, high-performing professionals.

What we explore:

  • Self-mistrust as a possible central cognitive theme of adult ADHD, and how it shapes self-worth, decisions, and follow-through
  • Why ADHD is better understood as a performance problem than a knowledge problem
  • Motivation as an emotion, and why deadline pressure stops being a sustainable strategy
  • Self-regulatory efficacy: why some people disengage early, and what protects against it
  • How thoughts, feelings, and behaviors operate as a braided cord rather than a linear chain
  • People-pleasing, social capital, and why ADHD professionals may overestimate their relational debts
  • Procrastivity, or productive procrastination — when it is adaptive, and when it is avoidance
  • Taskidermy tasks: the items that keep reappearing on your to-do list without moving forward
  • The SAP Method: Specific, Actionable, Pivot Points for getting unstuck
  • How CBT for adult ADHD differs from CBT for depression or anxiety, and why the implementation focus matters
  • Masking, intentional self-presentation, and the difference between coping and concealment

This episode offers language for patterns that often go unnamed at work — and a more grounded way to think about why standard advice keeps falling short.

About Dr. Russell Ramsay: Dr. Russell Ramsay is a psychologist who specializes in the assessment and psychosocial treatment of adult ADHD. He has lectured internationally, published widely, and authored six books on adult ADHD, including his most recent, Once I Get Started. He is a CHADD Hall of Fame inductee.

 

Pre-order Once I Get Started by Russell Ramsay, Ph.D.: https://www.penguinrandomhouse.com/books/783710/once-i-get-started-by-russell-ramsay-phd/

 

 

Connect with Cathy Rashidian: ReadySetChoose.com

Resources:

Adult ADHD Self-Report Scale (ASRS-v1.1) Symptom Checklist Instructions

https://add.org/wp-content/uploads/2015/03/adhd-questionnaire-ASRS111.pdf

 

When ADHD Almost Cost Me My Career11 août 202500:07:15

In this episode of Refined Leadership: ADHD Edition, I’m sharing the story of two career-defining decisions I made at the height of my corporate leadership roles—both of which I now realize were driven by ADHD.

On the outside, they looked like bold, deliberate moves. On the inside, I was in fight-or-flight mode, making fear-based calls that brought short-term relief but long-term consequences.

You’ll hear:

  • How ADHD traits like impulsivity, emotional intensity, and uncertainty intolerance can influence leadership decisions under pressure

  • Why big life transitions (like parenthood) can magnify ADHD tendencies at work

  • The difference between acting from clarity versus acting from discomfort

  • What I wish I had done differently—and how you can apply those lessons in your own leadership role

If you’ve ever left a role, made a major career move, or passed up an opportunity only to later question the decision, this episode will give you tools to pause, assess, and choose with strategy, not stress.

If you are at that tipping point—knowing something needs to change, but not sure what—this is where a pause can change everything. My ADHD-Powered Clarity Pit Stop is a focused, one-on-one session to help you slow down, see the full picture, and make your next move from strategy, not stress.

You can learn more here → ADHD-Powered Clarity Pit Stop

 

Subscribe to our new YouTube channel here: Get leadership insights through the ADHD lens

Leading Yourself with ADHD: The Skill No One Talks About08 mai 202500:10:44

If you’re ADHD and high-performing, here’s what no one tells you — self-leadership is your lifeline.

In this episode, Coach Cathy explores how neurodivergent professionals can lead themselves with more clarity, compassion, and confidence. You’ll learn how to:  • Track your energy patterns (instead of forcing productivity)  • Identify personal anchor practices  • Ask for what you need — without over-explaining

You’ll also hear personal stories, practical tools, and an invitation to connect with others on the same journey.

📍Topics Covered: 0:00 – Welcome 0:32 – What is Self-Leadership? 1:53 – Why Knowing Yourself Changes Everything 4:49 – Owning Your Story 6:59 – Practical Tools That Actually Work 8:39 – Final Thoughts + Community Invite

👉 Join the Quantum Thinkers Community: http://qtcommunity.com

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ADHD Burnout Isn’t Your Fault — But Here’s What’s Keeping You Stuck09 avr. 202500:11:58

Are you constantly pushing through the exhaustion — because slowing down feels like failure?

 

For ADHD professionals, what looks like resilience is often toxic overfunctioning. Burnout doesn’t always show up as collapse — sometimes it looks like perfectionism, people-pleasing, or staying “productive” at all costs.

 

In this episode, “ ADHD Burnout Isn’t Your Fault — But Here’s What’s Keeping You Stuck” we unpack the real traps keeping you stuck:

  • The Self-Sufficiency Trap (when you refuse to ask for help)
  • Overcompensation loops (doing more to prove you’re enough)
  • Hyperfocus disguised as productivity (when you can’t stop even when you want to)

You’ll walk away with:

  • A new lens on resilience through Quantum Thinking
  • Practical tools to recognize burnout patterns early
  • Mindset shifts to protect your energy without guilt

 

 

Burnout doesn’t mean you’re weak. It means your strengths are out of alignment.

 

You don’t have to handle this alone. Join the Quantum Thinkers community and get support that actually gets your ADHD brain:

www.readysetchoose.com/site/quantum-thinkers-community

QTCommunity.com 

Unmasking Leadership: The Quantum Thinkers ADHD Community Review21 mars 202500:17:01

Join us in a special episode featuring a review of the Quantum Thinkers ADHD community.

Discover how this unique space empowers professionals with ADHD by transforming challenges into leadership strengths.

Learn about the community's structure, coaching methodology, and the wealth of resources available to help members thrive in their careers.

Whether you're seeking enhanced leadership skills or a supportive network, this episode provides an insightful look into how Quantum Thinkers can guide your journey toward success.

Tune in and uncover the potential within you.

We kickoff the community as of April 1 - Join us at QTCommunity.com

Refining Leadership for Professionals with ADHD16 mars 202500:15:26

In this episode of Refined Leadership ADHD Lens, Coach Cathy Rashidian explores the unique strengths that neurodivergent leaders bring to the table, including innovative thinking, hyperfocus, and resilience. Learn how these leaders drive innovation, build resilient teams, and make a lasting impact on organizations by harnessing their distinctive cognitive wiring.

Discover practical strategies for turning these strengths into sustainable leadership and creating psychologically safe environments for teams to thrive. Embrace self-awareness, intentional pauses, and authentic leadership to elevate your professional approach.

Checkout QTCommunity.com for group coaching for professionals with ADHD. 

 

Flexible Planning for Leaders with ADHD: Thriving on Your Terms11 févr. 202500:21:15

Welcome to Refined Leadership ADHD Lens with Credentialed Coach Cathy Rashidian, where we delve into refining leadership skills through the ADHD perspective. In this episode, Coach Cathy builds on foundational strategies from the previous discussion, offering actionable steps to clarify and sustain progress despite ADHD challenges.

Discover the MATTER framework - Milestones, Attitude, Tasks, Team, Evaluation, and Revision - designed to help you create a flexible planning system that accommodates change and unpredictability. Move away from perfectionism and embrace a mastery orientation for continual growth.

Witness how Jennifer, a tech product manager, transformed her approach using this framework and achieved success by focusing on progress over perfection.

Remember - Join our Quantum Thinkers ADHD community for tailored insights and support, and learn to lead with confidence and clarity. Celebrate each step as you build a life where you thrive, not just survive.

Navigate Your ADHD: Living in Truth and Purpose22 janv. 202500:19:29

In this episode of Refined Leadership ADHD Lens, join Coach Cathy as she explores the power of living in truth and purpose for leaders with ADHD. Discover practical strategies for creating a personal mission statement and setting meaningful visions and missions. These tools go beyond typical productivity hacks, providing a foundation for decision-making, boundary setting, and building self-esteem.

Navigate the complexities of goal setting and time management with an ADHD-focused approach. Learn how aligning your actions with your authentic self can reduce rumination, indecision, and feelings of overwhelm. This episode is a hands-on training session designed to guide you towards intentional success, free from indecision and self-doubt.

Explore the steps to define your purpose, mission, and vision, and learn how to visualize your success effectively. Get ready to take actionable steps towards aligning your professional and personal life with your true values and strengths.

 

Visit ReadySetChoos.com for a free life values assessment and https://proudlyadhd.pro.viasurvey.org/ for a survey on character strengths.

If you’re part of the Quantum Thinkers Community, log in to access an exclusive worksheet for this exercise and share your progress with other members. Let’s grow together!

 

This episode offers a foundational framework that will be expanded into practical execution strategies in part two.

 

00:00 Introduction to Living in Your Truth and Purpose

02:18 Understanding ADHD and Goal Setting

02:52 Creating a Personal Mission Statement

03:24 Four Key Benefits of a Mission Framework

05:38 Addressing Rumination and Overwhelm

09:00 Steps to Align with Your Truth and Authenticity

09:52 Defining Your Purpose, Mission, and Vision

17:00 Actionable Takeaways and Resources

18:40 Conclusion and Next Steps

Navigating Career Transitions with an ADHD Mind14 déc. 202400:10:29

Join Cathy Rashidian on a transformative episode of Refined Leadership ADHD Lens, where we explore the intricate world of career transitions for those with an ADHD brain. Unlock practical strategies to leverage your unique strengths, gain clarity, and set yourself up for success in your professional journey.

Discover how to balance the excitement and overwhelm of career changes, focusing on what truly aligns with your goals and values. Learn to declutter your career experiences and approach new opportunities with confidence and a clear mindset.

Equip yourself with actionable steps, such as identifying core strengths and advocating for your needs strategically to foster a positive and flourishing work environment.

DOWNLOAD WORK BOOK HERE

 

 

We are back: Unveiling Community and Leadership for ADHD Minds10 déc. 202400:05:00

Welcome to the revitalized podcast, where we embrace the unique strengths of ADHD in leadership and professional growth. Host Cathy Rashidian, an executive coach, returns after a two-year hiatus to share her transformative journey from corporate life to specializing in ADHD coaching.

Discover the power of community through the Quantum Thinkers ADHD group, offering support and connection for high-performing professionals.

Join us on this refreshed platform, now named "Refined Leadership, ADHD Lens," where we get into practical strategies, career advancement techniques, and aligning work with core values for ADHD minds.

Tune in for expert insights and real stories from leaders thriving with ADHD. Subscribe to keep up with new episodes and be part of this exciting growth journey. see you at www.readysetchoose.com  

”Yes, you can talk about mental health at work!” | Guest Melissa Doman, MA09 déc. 202200:48:53

In this episode I am speaking with Melissa Doman, MA, Author of Yes, You Can Talk About Mental Health at Work (Here’s Why And How To Do It Really Well).

We talk about mental health in the workplace and why now more than ever this is so important to be talked about in the workplace. 

Her book is a fantastic handbook on how to approach this sensitive conversation in the workplace.  We addressed the approach of self-advocacy in the workplace as an individual contributor and a leader, the “toxic positivity trend”, and so much more. 

This episode is dedicated to all who are in the workplace and managing mental health. I genuinely wish I had Melissa’s book back in the day in my corporate life, her book is a must-have in each team. 

 

From the amazon book listing:

Taking a realistic approach, through research, stories of lived experience and applied techniques that anyone can use, the book includes information on:-

  • How we bring our beliefs and experiences around mental health and mental illness into the workplace
  • The importance of understanding how the language we use, consciously or unconsciously, impacts us
  • Ways to manage the challenges around having mental health conversations at work
  • ‘How-to’ conversation guides
  • Concrete tips on ways to action this education individually or at a team level

After reading this book, you'll feel empowered and equipped to have constructive, meaningful conversations about mental health in your workplace

 

 

About Melissa:

Melissa Doman, MA is an Organizational Psychologist, Former Clinical Mental Health Therapist, & Author of Yes, You Can Talk About Mental Health at Work (Here’s Why And How To Do It Really Well). Melissa works with companies across industries around the globe – including clients like Google, Dow Jones, Microsoft, Salesforce, Siemens, Estée Lauder, & Janssen.

 

She’s been featured as a subject matter expert in Vogue, the BBC, CNBC, Inc., and in LinkedIn’s 2022 Top 10 Voices on Mental Health. Having lived abroad in South Korea, England, Australia and traveled to 45+ countries, Melissa calls upon her global experiences to inform how she works with companies around the world. She has one core goal: to equip companies, individuals, and leaders to have constructive conversations about mental health in the workplace. Her work and book aim to accomplish just that.

Hormonal Fluctuations & ADHD in Women | Guest Linda Roggli02 déc. 202200:57:21

Discussing the hormonal fluctuation's impact on ADHD and women is one of the most important episodes I have recorded on the Proudly ADHD Podcast.  Conversations on this topic need to continue and be amplified.   

I truly believe so many women diagnosed with ADHD suffer in silence from the negative impacts of, Puberty, Premenstrual dysphoric disorder (PMDD), PMS (premenstrual syndrome), Perimenopause, and Menopause. As these hormonal changes hugely impact and amplify the negative traits of ADHD.

In this episode, my special guest Linda Roggli gives us a view into hormones and what happens with our ADHD.  

We also share our personal experiences and measures we have taken to manage the impact.  

We hope that you find this episode useful and please do share and increase awareness of hormones and ADHD.

 

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More about Lind Roggli

Linda Roggli is the creator of the ADHD Palooza series, a Professional Certified Coach (PCC), an award-winning author, and founder of the A-D-Diva Network for ADHD women 40-and-better. She is recognized as an expert in midlife and senior ADHD.

The online Palooza series now includes ADHD Women, ADHD Parents, and ADHD Couples. Linda’s book Confessions of an ADDiva-midlife in the non-linear lane won first prize for women’s issues in the prestigious Next Generation Indy Book Awards competition. She regularly hosts workshops, organizing groups, and retreats for ADHD women at http://addiva.net

Managing emotions is key to managing ADHD | Guest Tamara Rosier, PhD09 nov. 202200:39:19

Those with ADHD brain wiring feel emotions intensely, it actually may feel like we are constantly living in a state of emotional flood. In this state, all we can do is be on guard, be defensive and look for ways to survive and push through. No wonder we are not able to get shi%t done! 

In this episode, I am delighted to have Tamara Rosier Ph.D., back with us where she shares an effective tool for managing our big emotions so that we can go from fight or flight to present and calm! 

The Emotional Health Ladder created by Tamara Rosier and Cameron Gott, can be used as a daily checkpoint for quick check-in before you start a task, navigate a difficult conversation and so much more.  I consider this tool foundational to managing ADHD. 

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About Tamara Rosier, Ph.D - is founder of the ADHD Center of West Michigan, where she and her staff work with individuals with ADHD (and their families) to learn strategies and develop new skills to live effectively with ADHD. Dr. Rosier is also the president of the ADHD Coaches Organization. She is a popular conference and keynote speaker a frequent guest on podcasts and has published numerous articles about living with ADHD. She lives in West Michigan. https://www.tamararosier.com

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Check out my previous episode with Dr. Rosier, where we go in-depth on the Solve It Grid and her book, Your Brain's not Broken. 

To see visuals of the Emotional Health Ladder visit her Instagram account @dr.tamararosier

Visual of Level 3 on the Emotional health Ladder 

Visual of Level 4 on the Emotional Health Ladder

Treating Trauma and direct benefits to ADHD management06 mai 202200:14:15

In this episode, I open up about my personal story about seeking support to further manage my ADHD through Trauma Therapy.  I knew that this method of therapy was going to be effective and I have always been a huge advocate of therapy but what I didn’t expect was the rapid results that I experienced.       

 

“In total, some 20–50% of children with a history of Childhood Trauma have clinical levels of ADHD (Glod and Teicher 1996; McLeer et al.1994).” 

 

Receiving support for mental health is a journey, from long waits to getting the right doctor to finding the right treatment and medication that will work and also the energy that it takes to keep at it.  But once we do get the right support, magic can happen.  I am beyond grateful to have found the right support team to move through this stage of my life.  If you relate to this post and also to this episode, please don’t give up on your healing journey, keep going! I am cheering for your success. 

ADHD and Burnout: Navigating the Connection | Guest - Brendan Mahan22 avr. 202200:37:48

ADHD and Burnout!!! I can not get enough of this topic, so I decided to have a candid conversation about it with my special guest Brendan Mahan, host of ADHD Essentials Podcast and ADHD Coach.  

“Is it the Fish or the Water? Is the fish sick because the fish is sick? or is the fish sick, Because it's swimming in a toxic ocean.” Brendan unpacks this concept so beautifully in this episode. (Yes we do get into politics in this talk) 

We covered various aspects of how those with ADHD might experience burnout and how to move through it. 

Thank you Brendan for being an amazing guest, really enjoyed this rich conversation and your wisdom.  

#ADHD 

 

About: 

Brendan Mahan, M.Ed., MS., an internationally recognized ADHD/Executive Function coach, a highly engaging, sought-after speaker, and the host of the ADHD Essentials Podcast. A former teacher, mental health counselor, and principal, Brendan helps individuals, families, schools, and businesses manage the challenges of Attention Deficit/Hyperactivity Disorder and neurodiversity through an approach that blends education, collaborative problem-solving, and accountability with compassion, humor, a focus on strengths and growth, and his trademark “Wall of Awful™” model. He has been featured in The Washington Post, ADDitude Magazine, How To ADHD, and Speaker Magazine. Contact him at brendan@ADHDessentials.com.

Flexibility and Creativity: The Benefits of Being Anti-Structure and Anti-Routine18 avr. 202200:15:33
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Job seeking & recruitment with an ADHD lens | Guest: Dan Roth25 mars 202200:38:12

It was my absolute pleasure to have this candid, most genuine conversation with Dan Roth.   He is so damn relatable and lays down some serious truth about job hunting and recruiting for professionals with ADHD.

 

“I don't think that job seekers should be so desperate to take any job that they can. Now I understand that finances are. I am not saying that it is not difficult, but if we do a better job in our communication between the recruiter and the job seeker, then at the end of the day, you're going to be put in the best position where you don't have to worry about being there a year from now, because you have the long-term to look at.” Dan Roth

 

Dan shared his personal experience with ADHD, his view as a recruiter supporting neurodiversity in the workplace. Towards the end of this talk, he shares three success tips when looking for a new job. 

 

Dan, is an internationally recognized recruiter and professional speaker. Having recently been named one of the Top 25 Job Search Experts to Follow by Jobscan, Dan uses his platform to encourage continuous discussions surrounding mental health while being a strong neurodiversity and women's empowerment advocate and an abolotionist.

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Navigating ADHD & Parenting | Guest - Yakini Pierce08 févr. 202200:37:20

In this episode, I had the pleasure of sitting with Yakini Pierce, discussing her journey with ADHD as a parent.  

Yakini Pierce is a mom with ADHD that has two children, both with ADHD. She has an MBA and degrees in engineering and mass communications, but her strong passion is advocating for parents that have children with ADHD, parents, and adults in general that have ADHD through her ADHD Love platform.

I enjoyed listening to her perspective and approach when it comes to parenting kids with ADHD. 

You can find out more about Yakini's work:

 

 

Don’t Dis-My-Ability: A Discussion On Neurodiversity | Guest Shawn Smith19 janv. 202200:32:25

“Rather than be defined by a label, I choose to challenge the boundaries of its perceived limitations.” Shawn Smith

 

I had the pleasure of speaking with Shawn Smith, M.Ed., CCC about ADHD, ASD and his personal journey with it all, and how he supports his clients as a counselor/therapist. 

This conversion was such a delight, Shawn has an amazing way to capture your attention and get to the heart of the discussion. 

 

I enjoyed talking about

  • ADHD and Medication, the long journey to finding treatment that supports ADHD, and how his own experience of medication
  • He shares a unique approach to building confidence through creating challenges 
  • Shawn was recently diagnosed with ASD in addition to his ADHD, he shares how this diagnosis shows up in his life 
  • Navigating friendships as a neurodivergent thinker
  • How to manage rigid thinking 
  • I especially enjoyed his view on masking in social settings and setting boundaries  
  • “no one said being awesome is going to be easy”, Shawn Smith.

 

More About Shawn

Neurodivergent (Autistic and ADHD) Psychotherapist, Consultant, and founder of Don’t dis-my-ability®, a multifaceted company that utilizes my unique gifts that come by way of being uniquely gifted and neurodivergent.

 

Your Brain‘s Not Broken, a book on ADHD | Guest Tamara Rosier Ph.D.21 déc. 202100:39:55

In this episode I speak with Tamara Rosier, Ph.D. about her new book, Your Brain’s Not Broken: Strategies for Navigating Your Emotions and Life with ADHD. 

In Your Brain’s Not Broken, Tamara Rosier, Ph.D., founder of the ADHD Center in West Michigan, shares how those with ADHD can create new thinking habits, identify unhelpful thoughts and emotional patterns, and apply strategies to change them. “Seeing how the ADHD brain works differently from the neurotypical brain helps us understand, accept, and compensate for our differences,” Rosier writes in the book. “This knowledge that ADHD is a complicated disorder that affects each part of a person’s life is the first step to managing it...so that you don’t have to pretend to others and yourself.”

Readers of this book will finally understand why those with ADHD think, feel, and act the way they do. Dr. Rosier applies her 12 years of coaching others to offer the critical practical tools like solving motivational murders, finding predictable patterns, setting boundaries, managing energy expenditure, understanding the ADHD Ladder of Emotional Health, and more. Anyone with ADHD—as well as anyone who lives with or loves someone with ADHD—will find a compassionate, encouraging guide to living well and with hope in this book.

 

About Tamara Rosier, Ph.D - is founder of the ADHD Center of West Michigan, where she and her staff work with individuals with ADHD (and their families) to learn strategies and develop new skills to live effectively with ADHD. Dr. Rosier is also the president of the ADHD Coaches Organization. She is a popular conference and keynote speaker is a frequent guest on podcasts and has published numerous articles about living with ADHD. She lives in West Michigan.

Podcast update and Riff from coach cathy23 nov. 202100:12:54

In this episode, Coach Cathy shares an update on the podcast and some personal reflections on her journey as a coach and mental health advocate. She also offers some tips and insights on how to stay motivated and focused on your goals.

Segment 1: Podcast Update (0:43) Cathy gives listeners an update on the podcast and shares some exciting news about upcoming guests and topics. She also invites listeners to share their feedback and suggestions for future episodes.

Segment 2: Personal Reflections (4:16) Cathy reflects on her journey as a coach and mental health advocate, sharing some of the challenges she's faced and the lessons she's learned along the way. She emphasizes the importance of self-care and setting realistic expectations for yourself.

Segment 3: Staying Motivated and Focused (12:06) Cathy offers some tips and insights on how to stay motivated and focused on your goals, even when facing obstacles or setbacks. She talks about the power of positive thinking, self-talk, and visualization, and offers some practical strategies for staying on track.

Conclusion: Cathy thanks listeners for tuning in and sharing their support for the podcast. She encourages listeners to stay connected and engaged with the community and to continue striving towards their own mental health and wellness goals.

If you enjoyed this episode, please subscribe and leave a review on your favorite podcast platform. 

Exploration of Females with ADHD - research paper review12 oct. 202100:20:13

We’re back with another research review! In this episode, we cover the findings in a paper titled “Females with ADHD: An expert consensus statement taking a lifespan approach providing guidance for the identification and treatment of attention-deficit/ hyperactivity disorder in girls and women" 

Questions explored include: ADHD symptoms in girls/women - are they different? How might this affect rates of diagnosis? How might ADHD treatment differ for girls/women? Tune in to find out more.

 

Detailed show notes:

In today’s episode, we cover the findings in a paper published in 2020 titled “Females with ADHD”. Findings covered in this episode include: 

  • How ADHD symptoms may differ in girls and women compared to boys and men. How behavioural expectations and inattentive ADHD may affect referral rates in girls and women. 
  • The associated vulnerabilities of girls with ADHD - unplanned pregnancies and sexually transmitted infections. 
  • Pharmacological and non-pharmacological treatments of ADHD in girls and women - should there be a difference? 
  • Educational and occupational considerations and adjustments - what might we do in schools and the workplace to support ADHDers?

Full paper: https://bmcpsychiatry.biomedcentral.com/articles/10.1186/s12888-020-02707-9

 

 

Taking Charge of Adult ADHD, Book - 2nd edition | Guest Russell Barkley30 sept. 202100:47:50

In this episode, I am delighted to be reviewing the book, "Taking Charge of Adult ADHD", - 2nd edition with author Russell Barkley, PhD.   

This is a must-have book for all adults with ADHD! and a must-listen conversation 

We talked about:

- Latest research in ADHD

- Medication and ADHD - what's on the horizon

- Emotional dysregulation 

- How to move past the diagnosis and take charge of your ADHD and sooo much more. 

Be sure to order the 2nd edition of Taking Charge of Adult of ADHD 

 

Additional resources - http://www.russellbarkley.org/factsheets.html

The ADHD Report - http://www.russellbarkley.org/newsletter.html

 

About Dr. Barkley 

Russell A. Barkley, Ph.D., is a Clinical Professor of Psychiatry at Virginia Commonwealth University School of Medicine (2016-present).  He is also a retired Professor of Psychiatry and Neurology from the University of Massachusetts Medical Center (1985-2002) and subsequently worked as a Professor of Psychiatry and Health Sciences at the Medical University of South Carolina (2003-2016).  In semi-retirement, he continues to lecture widely and develop continuing education courses for professionals on ADHD and related disorders, as well as consult on research projects, edit The ADHD Report, and write books, reviews, and research articles. He is board-certified in Clinical Psychology (ABPP), Clinical Child and Adolescent Psychology, and Clinical Neuropsychology (ABCN, ABPP).  Dr. Barkley is a clinical scientist, educator, and practitioner who has published 27 books, rating scales, and clinical manuals numbering more than 43 editions, and creator of 7 award-winning professional videos.  He has also published more than 300 scientific articles and book chapters related to the nature, assessment, and treatment of ADHD and related disorders.  He is the founder and Editor of the clinical newsletter, The ADHD Report, now in its 29th year of publication.  Dr. Barkley has presented more than 800 invited lectures in more than 30 countries and appeared on nationally televised shows such as 60 Minutes, the Today Show, Good Morning America, CBS Sunday Morning, CNN, and many others.  He has received numerous awards from professional societies and ADHD organizations for his lifetime achievements, contributions to research and clinical practice, and the dissemination of science.  His website is www.russellbarkley.org.

Importance of healing Trauma for those with ADHD | Guest Dr. Ian Macnaughton14 sept. 202100:36:09

In today’s episode, we have Dr. Ian Macnaughton, Ergos Institute of Somatic Education Faculty Member. We explored trauma and ADHD, somatic experiencing, and the importance of small cycles of completion (bonus interactive demo of somatic experiencing at the end 😏).

 

Detailed show notes: 

In today’s episode, we have Dr. Ian Macnaughton, Ergos Institute Faculty Member. We talked about: 

  • Trauma and ADHD - key characteristics, how it affects your neurophysiology, and re-regulation. 
  • The vagus nerve and its importance - expansion, and contraction, shutdowns, and ramifications of negative experiences.
  • Somatic experiencing - the importance of our senses and how developing them move us towards regulating our entire being. 
  • Completion - why tiny steps matter more than you think, and how it instills hope and agency in people. 

(and a bonus interactive demo of somatic experience with Dr. Macnaughton!)

For more information on Somatic Experiencing visit https://traumahealing.org/

 

Ian Macnaughton MBA, PhD, FEA, SEP, has been a teacher and practitioner of trauma resolution, mind-body and family systems psychotherapy for 50 years and is a Bodynamic Analyst and trainer.  He has worked with Somatic Experiencing since the early 70’s and is Levine Legacy faculty with the Ergos Institute of Somatic Education.  His practice includes a high percentage of executives, medical practitioners and therapists and others in the helping professions both for psychotherapy and supervision.  He maintains an ongoing training group for clinical practitioners, as well as delivering public workshops for helping professionals. 

Ian also has owned a number of businesses and maintains an active practice working

with business families, families of wealth, and various organizations. He is on the

teaching faculty for, and a Fellow of the International Family Firm Institute and his

clients have included many government ministries and corporations. He is the holder of

the Richard Beckhard Practice Award for contributions in the field of Family Business

Advising.

 

Dr. Macnaughton has taught at numerous universities and colleges, both undergraduate

and graduate levels in psychology and in business. His other publications include, Embodying the Mind and Minding the Body, and Body, Breath and Consciousness: A Somatic Anthology, also “Self, Other, and the System” in Catalyzing the Field.  His other writings on family business have been published in a number of venues as well as his work in Systems Science published in Comprehensive Systems Design: A New Educational Technology: NATO Workshop on Systemic Educational Design.

Contact information: www.transitionpoint.ca, ian@macnaughton.ca

 

#81 Creating your own ADHD Playbook | Guest Trey Vives06 sept. 202100:38:57

In today’s episode, we speak with Trey Vives, an entrepreneur in the jewellery and lifestyle industry. Among many topics, we talk about his encounters with suicidal thoughts and how faith saved him, why he views his diagnosis as getting a playbook to his brain, and self-sabotage in pursuit of success.

 

Detailed show notes:

In today’s episode, we speak with Trey Vives https://www.instagram.com/trey_dhd/ , an entrepreneur in the jewellery and lifestyle space https://www.instagram.com/1881g_/. We talked about: 

  • Trey’s journey: how he went from multiple encounters with suicide to owning his jewellery and lifestyle brand.
  • How his Afro-Cuban household played a role in his development and acceptance of himself. 
  • The ultimate playbook: why he views diagnoses in general as an advantage to the individual.
  • Self-sabotage and masking - waning interests, task paralysis, and the art of unmasking.

 

Navigating the emotions of ADHD diagnosis | Guest Inger Shaye Colzie26 août 202100:46:04
  • In today’s episode, I have the pleasure of speaking with a therapist and fellow ADHD coach Inger Shaye Colzie. Among other things, we talked about IngerShaye’s late-in-life diagnosis, how she went from pursuing law to cosmetology to therapy, and her advice for other black women with ADHD.

Detailed show notes: 

In today’s episode, I have the pleasure of speaking with a therapist and fellow ADHD coach Inger Shaye Colzie. Among other things, we talked about: 

 

  • IngerShaye’s late-in-life diagnosis - how it was a relief, and why she thinks that it was advantageous to be diagnosed later in life.
  • The type of environment that she grew up in, and how it was a catalyst for her success despite her undiagnosed ADHD. 
  • How she went from pursuing law to cosmetology to massage therapist to therapist (amazing, I know!).
  • Her advice for other black women with ADHD - managing priorities, expectations, and mental bandwidth. 
  • Inger Shay's Facebook Group:

    Black Women with ADHD Executives and entrepreneurs: https://www.facebook.com/groups/blackwomenwithadhd

About our guest: 

Inger Shaye Colzie is a Black woman, Licensed Clinical Social Worker, and ADHD Coach. She offers the benefits of professional expertise with a lifetime of experience. Inger successfully ran her practice as a therapist and LCSW for 15 years even though undiagnosed until in her 50s. Her specialty is coaching Black female executives/entrepreneurs through clarity, empowerment, resilience, and self-care.

Links:

Facebook Page: https://www.facebook.com/ingershaye

Facebook Group:

Black Women with ADHD Executives and entrepreneurs: https://www.facebook.com/groups/blackwomenwithadhd

IngerShaye website: www.ingershaye.com

Instagram: @ingershaye

ADHD and Justice Sensitivity - research paper review24 août 202100:12:57

In today’s episode, we’re deep-diving into a study exploring the links between ADHD and Social Sensitivity! Why might people with ADHD have a higher sense of justice? What does the evidence tell us? Tune in to find out.

 

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In today’s episode we’re deep-diving into a study by

The Kind Nature Behind the Unsocial Semblance: ADHD and Justice Sensitivity—A Pilot Study

Thomas Schäfer, Thomas Kraneburg : exploring the links between ADHD and Social Sensitivity: 

  • The hypothesis: people with ADHD experience more social rejection, and as a result develop a higher sense of justice as a strategy to be more accepted by the people around them. Did the authors successfully prove this? 
  • What is a justice game, and what are the 4 facets of justice sensitivity? How did the authors approach to measure this? 
  • Doubts, takeaways, and questions for reflection. Where do we go from here?
#78 Connection - the secret sauce in navigating your ADHD11 août 202100:15:23

In today’s episode, we talk about connection! How do you connect with yourself, the people around you, and your life? What are the impediments to achieving these connections? Why bother? We answer these questions and more. 

 

Detailed show notes:

  • How to connect with yourself, and how you will feel and operate as a consequence. [2:31]
  • Link to #71 Authenticity - Normalizing ADHD
  • Questions for reflection - connecting with self (it’s worth pausing!) [4:14]
  • Impediments to connecting with the people around us, and what happens when we can overcome them. [4:49]
  • The single question that will shape how you connect with other people - W.I.I.F.M.T.? [7:49]
  • Questions for reflection - connecting with people [8:56]
  • Purpose, happiness, and meaning - how connected are you with your life as a whole? [9:23]
  • Questions for reflection - connecting with life [11:01]
  • Practices to develop your sense of connection with your everyday interactions [11:34]

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#77 Navigating barriers to ADHD diagnosis, personal story of Dr. Zara Shahangian29 juil. 202100:23:55

In today’s episode we have a heartfelt conversation with Zara, Dr. of Pharmacy. We talked about: 

  • Her late-in-life diagnosis of ADHD, barriers to diagnosis, and the effects of medication on her day-to-day [0:52]
  • Life after diagnosis and medication [6:55]
  • Zara’s go-to tools for focus, productivity, and calm. Understanding the dopaminergic effects of task completion and procrastination. [8:49]
  • Zara’s thoughts on medication and ADHD - addiction, psychiatrist guidance, and medication tolerance [13:03]
  • Zara’s heartwarming message to other late-in-life diagnosed ADHDers, and the top 3 things she thinks you should do after a diagnosis [16:55]

Invitation to upcoming MasterClass - bit.ly/ADHDMasterclass 

 

About: Zahra Darya Shahangian,  Doctor of pharmacy

She served as a pharmacy executive for several healthcare systems developing clinical programs, improving medication safety & quality assurance & implementation of digital health technology to drive healthcare innovation.   Her personal struggles with the pressures of climbing the executive co-operate ladder lead her to pursue Holistic Neuropathic Treatment options to Mental Health Disorders.  Her mission is to help eliminate the stigma around Mental Health and push beyond the pill to incorporate natural remedies to support nutritional deficiencies and optimize  patients treatment regimen.   Connect with Dr. Zara contactdoctorzara@gmail.com

 

 

Confidence & ADHD - let your light shine bright23 juil. 202100:24:01

In this episode, we explore the topic of confidence: 

  • What is confidence? Where does it actually come from? How growing up with ADHD might affect us subconsciously in our adulthood [1:31]
  • The different levels of confidence and how it manifests in our behavior. Fear, competition, challenge avoidance, and our ability to see opportunities [5:59]
  • One simple practice to build confidence - combating our tendency to not celebrate our successes [11:29]
  • How is stress and confidence related to one another? [14:15]
  • ADHD neurology, catastrophizing, and its effects on confidence [16:15] (Link to the full interview with Dr. Hallowell) 
  • The 3 perspectives when approaching your goals, and how certain perspectives inspire more confidence than others [18:25]

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#75 Redesigning your life after ADHD diagnosis | Guest Michael Liss16 juil. 202100:34:46

Earlier this year I sat down with Michael Liss to hear his inspiring story of late in life diagnosis of ADHD at 50.   There is so much compassion and raw honestly in his story.  I encourage you to listen to the entire episode as I am sure many of you will relate to what he shares and will be inspired by how he has moved beyond his ADHD diagnosis. 

 

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ADHD and Medication | Guest Jeff Copper09 juil. 202100:41:22

In this episode, I talk with Jeff Copper - ADHD & Attention Coach,  we bring the Coaches’ point of view on ADHD medication. 

  • At first, Jeff simply explains the scientific facts behind the chemical reactions of our bodies when taking ADHD medications and he clarifies the side effects as well. He stresses the importance of taking the right drug, the right dose at the right time.
  • Jeff and I, later on, have some fruitful discussions about the impacts of taking ADHD drugs and the impacts of NOT taking ADHD drugs and we shared our personal experience as both coaches and as people diagnosed with ADHD.

- Jeff highlights the great importance of education and making “well-informed” decisions based on self-awareness about personal ADHD needs.

  • he shares some useful tips and techniques to articulate ideas to doctors or coaches especially writing your questions and concerns in a piece of paper.
  • On the top of that, Jeff’s best advice is to adjust our expectations about ADHD drugs and create a balanced combination of medications and exercise when necessary.
  • Jeff final words is to be patient, be wise to adjust and increase productivity and my final words are to make your decisions based on what you know and based on your reliable research not what you hear from media to manage your ADHD. Do your homework and understand your beautiful ADHD brain.

 

Join my Quantum Thinkers's Mastermind, managing ADHD does not have to be done all on your own. Lean into the support of our group. 

 

Reference episode from Attention Talk Radio Podcast - https://digcoaching.com/adhd-meds-and-nonstimulants/

 

About Jeff Copper:

Email: jeff@digcoaching.com | Website: www.digcoaching.com

Jeff Copper, MBA, PCC, PCAC, CPCC, ACG, is an attention coach and expert on attention issues. He is the founder of DIG Coaching Practice and founder/host of Attention Talk Radio and Attention Talk Video. He coaches individuals with ADD/ADHD symptoms who are seeking personal and business results by helping them realize their potential. As someone who has had to learn to manage attention and deal with his own challenges, Jeff helps his clients understand themselves and how their minds work. To this end, Jeff developed his anatomy of attention construct to help them regain control of their attention and move past barriers. Using his anatomy of attention construct, they can achieve what they are capable of faster, with less stress, and create productive environments they need to succeed.

#73 How to communicate effectively with ADHD27 juin 202100:34:40

In this episode, I share a few effective tools to use when it comes to creating dynamic conversations.  Often Professionals with ADHD have many struggles with communication, especially when it comes to waiting for their turn to speak, oversharing, speaking with intense emotions and so on.  I wanted this episode to serve as a mini masterclass in teaching a few tools I have learned along the way in my coaching journey.   

 

#72 Fearlessness - You are wired to do hard things20 juin 202100:20:13

In this episode, I cover the 6th discipline of Self-Mastery, Fearlessness. This topic is a mixed bag for me as there are times where my impulsivity became my best asset and pushed the fear down in order for me to do some big things. But other times fear did get in the way. In this episode, I share some of the ways we can move past fear and step into possibilities as I firmly believe we are wired to do hard things. 

#71 Authenticity - Normalizing ADHD11 juin 202100:17:50

In this episode, I share the 5th discipline of self-mastery: Authenticity.  My hope is that after you listen to this episode you walk away feeling empowered that your ADHD brain wiring is simply brain wiring, you are not less than, or broken, and that you don't have to keep up with anyone else. 

You are wired differently and that difference is not a deficit! and when it is nurtured and loved ... well, look out world cause you are about to make magic happen.  

 

#70: What it means to lean into your ADHD brain wiring | Guest Heather Ann Havenwood27 mai 202100:39:46

“When you own all parts of you life becomes much easier,” says Heather Ann Havenwood.  I am delighted to share this inspiring, and candid conversation with you.  

My guest Heather Ann was diagnosed early in life, she shares her journey and strategies on how she leaned into her ADHD brain and has made it her best asset. 

Her energy is so contagious and inspiring and her stellar track record as an Entrepreneur is proof of how she has leaned into her strengths and her Neurodiversity is a testament that if you align to how your brain processes you can be your best self. 

 

Want to launch your podcast and not sure where to start - Heather Ann has an amazing launch program

podcastersclass.com  Starts June 16th 

 

 

More about Heather Ann: 

Heather Ann Havenwood, Award-Winning Media Mogul, know as the 'Chief Sexy Boss', Author of the top selling book: SEXY BOSS™: How Female Empowerment is Changing the Rulebook in Business.  She was recognized by The Stevie Awards as 'The Most Innovative Woman of the Year - in Social Media for 2020', named 'Top Media Mogul 2020' by the Woman of Achievement Association for her work with women.  From making her first dollar online back in 2001; Heather Ann is now on a life legacy Mission: To Help 10,000 people to Start, Launch and Grow a Six-Figure Consulting, Expert and Influencer business online.  She whole heartily believes that every person is an Influencer and a Leader, and it is time for their VOICE to be UnCAGED, to be heard, to Shine, and to EARN Six-Figures and beyond! 

She is the visionary and founder of the "Influencer Growth Academy" along with the 'Influencer Tribe' A Global Entrepreneurial Community.

Podcast Hostess of 'Heather Havenwood - UnCaged' Insights with Influencers, Amazon LIVE Show Hostess 'Sexy Boss Reviews', Named by Huffington Post as Top Female Entrepreneur to Watch, and Founder of the Non-Profit Female Business Association.

#69: Trusting the process - Effective discipline achieving your goals21 mai 202100:21:01

In this episode, I am going back to the Self-Mastery Disciplines and sharing the 4th concept - Trusting the Process.  

If you want to review the first three pls listen to episodes 63 Awareness, 64 Acceptance, and Conscious Choice 67.  

 

ADHD 2.0: New Science and Essential Strategies for Thriving with Distraction | Guest: Dr. Ned Hallowell10 mai 202100:35:58

In this episode, I am excited to welcome back Dr. Ned Hallowell back on the show, this time we are talking about his new book ADHD 2.0.  We do a deep dive into a couple of key areas in his book:

  • Why he likes to change the name from ADHD to VAST (Variable Attention Stimulus Trait), he explains why we do not have a deficit of attention.  How if we manage ADHD it can enhance our lives and can become your superpower.
  • The main focus of this episode is Dr. Ned’s explanation of the regions of the brain called Task Positive Network and Default Mode Network and when these regions are not working effectively we go into extreme negative self-talk.  He talks about a few simple but effective ways of managing negative self-talk.  
  • Towards the end of this episode, he talks about the importance of the cerebellum in the brain that occupies only 10% of brain volume but has 70% of the neurons in the brain and its connection to the executive functions of the brain. 

Also, stay tuned to the end as Dr. Ned continues to share some amazing gold in our wrap-up conversation.  

 

I highly recommend his new book ADHD 2.0, it is truly a simple but yet effective guide to better understand ADHD and effective ways to manage it. 

 

More About Ned:

Edward (Ned) Hallowell, M.D., is a board-certified child and adult psychiatrist, a thought leader, a NY Times bestselling author (including the 1994 Driven to Distraction that sparked a revolution in our understanding of ADHD), a world-renowned keynote speaker, and a leading authority in the field of ADHD. He is a graduate of Harvard College and Tulane Medical School and was a Harvard Medical School faculty member for 21 years.  He is the Founder of The Hallowell Centers in Boston MetroWest, New York City, San Francisco, and Seattle and the host of the popular Distraction podcast.

Follow him on Facebook, Twitter, Pinterest and YouTube,

 

#67: Conscious Choice - The formula to making winning choices29 avr. 202100:15:05

In this episode, I introduce the 3rd discipline of Self-Mastery "Conscious Choice" another key concept that we really need to pay attention to in order to get out of autopilot and into the driver's seat.

I hope you are able to put some of the insights into practice and see a shift in your approach when it comes to decision-making.

#65: How to give yourself grace and freedom after ADHD diagnosis | Guest Brian Fanzo22 avr. 202100:54:20

In this episode, I wanted to introduce you to Brian Fanzo, who shares his journey of a late in life diagnosis.

I was so inspired by his passion for life, family, and most importantly self-compassion as he moves through ADHD in adulthood.

Key points:

  • Journey of ADHD diagnosis as an adult and his perspective and later how he is supporting his child’s diagnosis of ADHD.
  • Brian shares how he sees his ADHD as a superpower and feels loud and proud of his brain wiring.
  • Reflection on how he managed his corporate days while not realizing he had ADHD
  • He leaned into his strengths and successfully transitioned into Entrepreneurship
  • He explains why his zen place is playing Poker
  • Brian’s share his unique way of how he approaches productivity while managing multiple business initiatives
  • and so much more, be sure to listen to the entire episode.

About Brian:

Brian Fanzo is a digital futurist keynote speaker who translates the trends of tomorrow to inspire change today. His customized and personalized programs showcase real-world stories and examples of forward-thinking people and businesses. He teaches companies of all sizes how to leverage technology in real time in order to engage their customers at the right time. Brian has a gift for bringing people together online and offline. He has worked in 76 countries, highlighting his passion for change, collaboration, and technology. At age 14, Brian won a speed typing contest and his love for computers and technology was born. After years of playing The Oregon Trail, creating in Adobe Pagemaker, and using Napster, Brian earned a Computer Science degree. Prior to speaking, he worked for nine years at the Department of Defense where he managed a global team who deployed collaboration and cybersecurity solutions across all branches of the military – which required him to maintain the highest civilian security clearance. He then pursued his dream job as a technology evangelist for a booming cloud-computing startup, helping companies embrace the rate of change and new ways to innovate. Brian is currently the Founder of iSocialFanz, which has helped launch digital and influencer strategies with the world’s most iconic brands like Dell, EMC, Adobe, IBM, UFC, Applebee’s, and SAP.

Brian has been recognized as a Top 20 Digital Transformation Influencer; a Top 50 Most-Mentioned User by CMOs on Twitter, and a Top 25 Social Business Leader of the Future by The Economist. His followers on social media and podcast downloads rank in the hundreds of thousands, resulting in Brian being an influencer for 19 of the Fortune 100 companies.

More about Brian at https://www.isocialfanz.com/adhd-superpowered

https://brianfanzo.com/forced-to-work-from-home-with-adhd-now-what/

https://www.isocialfanz.com/post/what-adhd-can-teach-you-about-entrepreneur-productivity

#64: Acceptance - the crossroads of ADHD diagnosis15 avr. 202100:18:49

In this episode, I am introducing the second principle of self-mastery "acceptance"

I am excited to do a deep dive into this concept and over the next few episodes, I will share other concepts that really provide a framework on tapping into your full potential while using your ADHD as your best asset.

#63: Awareness - separating facts from interpretations09 avr. 202100:14:40

In this episode, I am talking about the power of awareness and the depth and layers of it when it comes to awareness of ourselves, our environment, people, and situations.

I am excited to do a deep dive into this concept and over the next few episodes, I will share other concepts that really provide a framework on tapping into your full potential while using your ADHD as your best asset.

#62: Creating new work because we don't like mundane tasks?!02 avr. 202100:16:33

In this episode, I talk about the vicious circle that I see when it comes to avoiding tasks that we just do not feel the urge to complete however we end up creating new ones because we love to put out fires. I recall the days where I used to proactively look for new problems and fires to put and now I realize I was doing that because I was bored and needed stimulations. However, what I didn't realize at that time was I was not honoring my capacity to how much was already on my plate.

In this episode, I share my view and a few tips to not become the Fire Marshal of every fire.

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