COURTESAN MASTERY TRAINING - WEBINAR

Lauren and I talk about our expanded Courtesan Mastery Training, and our upcoming Dominatrix Training, Level I in Tulum, December 8-14.

CONVERSATION TOPICS:

• Expanding from Dominatrix Training towards a fuller COURTESAN MASTERY curriculum.
• Dark Eros is one aspect of a Courtesan’s mastery.
• The Courtesan Archetype is one of the most ancient and elegant feminine archetypes through history.
• The Courtesan as Muse, as Consort, as Influencer.
• Self-activation is a necessary cornerstone for a Courtesan’s embodiment of her mastery.
• How much Permission we have for pleasure is a big determinant regarding how much pleasure we feel or allow ourselves to feel.
• Skills in Somatic Mastery are going to be in high demand through the AI job demolishment apocalypse of the next 5  - 10 years.
• Testimonials from Priestess graduates.
• Erotic expansion as an aspect of Spiritual growth.
• People often let their Dom see them more deeply than they allow their therapist to see them.
• The Dom holds space for whatever comes out of a submissive during a scene.

Please reach out if you have any questions.  Lauren and I are happy to get on a zoom call to answer your questions and concerns.

COURTESAN MASTERY CURRICULUM : https://omrupani.org/#/modern-priestess-of-eros/

PRIESTESS OF DARK EROS, LEVEL I : https://omrupani.org/the-priestess-of-dark-eros

EROS IN HER HANDS : https://omrupani.org/eros-in-her-hands

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ALEX LEHMANN PODCAST

TOPICS:

• What can men get out of BDSM training?
• Holding FRAME vs. Giving CONTAINMENT.
• Leadership is needed to be a good Dom, to hold a scene from beginning to end.
• A man needs to be self-contained first if he is going to contain anyone else.
• It takes a while for men to come into their own.  It makes sense that women pair with men older than themselves.
• First contain your woman, then see what problems still exist in your dynamic.
• Women are getting sick of weak men, en masse.
• There is a difference between showing a woman your heart and asking her to contain you.
• Arousal lives on the other side of Containment.
• Understanding archetypes and their necessity.
• The Dom & sub archetypes hold the erotic reservoir; the husband & wife archetypes do not hold eros.
• Role Play is a gateway to switching over from domestic archetypes.
• Human beings seem experts today in screwing up great Loverships.
• Mastery as a genuine source of self-esteem.
• Contribution as a genuine source of self-esteem.
• The man who finds himself right is very attractive.
• It’s good for men to fail early and often.
• Leadership mastery translates to different domains — from erotic to professional.
• Leaders promise a brighter future.

— Om Rupani 

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WHY MEN SHOULD ATTEND MY TRAININGS — BECAUSE WOMEN ARE INDEED SCARY!

Many men out there follow my writings and podcasts.  They write to me expressing that they are benefiting from my material.  They express desire to deepen their mastery and to learn more and go deeper.  When it comes time to show up for a workshop I’m offering, many of those same men hesitate, stall and disappear.

I can be pretty hard on men when I coach them.  My first inclination tends to be to yell at them for not following through.  But this phenomena of not showing up has been going on for so long that I’ve had the opportunity to talk to many of the men and gain some understanding of what is happening for them underneath the surface.  The more I see and understand, the more I sympathize.

What keeps men from showing up to be trained in sensuality in a class alongside women is FEAR.  It not just one fear, it is a stack of fears.  It is a layer-cake of fears.

And these fears the men are facing are nothing to scoff at.  This is tender stuff.  I will list three main categories of their fears:

1. They fear getting a report card from women that they, the men, have always been mediocre lovers.

2.  They fear getting a direct and live confirmation from women in front of others that the women don’t prefer this particular man.  That the women prefer other men over him.

3.  They fear being publicly humiliated by being publicly evaluated as sexually incompetent and undesirable.

This is a pretty scary list!  I feel like hiding under the covers when I read.

I can’t completely assuage these fears for men.  I know they are real and they are brutal.  

What I can try to do is express some counterpoints to these concerns in this video.  I have the follow 3 counter propositions for you:

1.  LET WOMEN INITIATE YOU!

2.  ENTER THIS HUMILIATION SCENE VOLUNTARILY!

3.  KNOW THAT ANY FAILURE IS NOT FINAL!

Hope to see some of you in class.

Next Course : Austria, August 5-11.

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One prominent phenomenon I see these days is how much women are projecting their own esteem issues onto the men they are relating with.

It isn't so much that the men they are with are doing anything bad or abusive to devalue the women.  It's simply that the the woman is FEELING devalued.

This phenomenon is very parallel to what people with Narcissistic Personality Disorders experience.  Somebody, somewhere does or says something, and the Narcissist FEELS hurt; they feel offended; they feel diminished.  This is called a Narcissistic Injury.

Nobody is out to cause a Narcissist this Narcissistic Injury.  It occurs because the narcissist's self-esteem is always hanging by a thread.

Once the injury has occurred, what does the Narcissist do?  They seek revenge.  They hurt the other.

I see women demolishing their relationship with men in similar fashion.  They are rejecting men not for who those men are.  They are rejecting them after projecting their own insecurities and negative feelings about themselves onto the men.

Nobody can solve our esteem issues for us.  It isn't anybody else's job to make us see and feel our own value.

-- Om Rupani
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IF YOU ARE CONTROLLING YOUR MAN, YOU HAVEN’T COMMITTED TO HIM YET.

The central element needed for functionality and peace between men and women is AGREEMENT.

If there is one poisonous impact that Feminism and Patriarchy Theory has had on the psyches of modern women, it is to convince them that they should never come into agreement with a man, with their man, with men in general, with masculinity.

This lack of agreement is the poison pill in man-woman relating.

It is all that is needed to sabotage, distort, fill with misery and scuttle man-woman intimate relationships.

With this piece of poisonous programming installed in their brains, what are women prone to doing in regards to their approach towards men?

Women still need men.  They still want to be with men.  They still want to seduce men.  They still want to go after qualified men.  They still want those men to pick them.  They want those men to ‘bond’ with them and get into long term relationships and marriages with them.

If women want all this with men, while retaining that faulty bit of programming that says, ‘Never cooperate with a man!’, how are women to proceed?

They proceed with control.  Control is the replacement for agreement.

Coming into agreement with their man would have offered women a win-win possibility with their men.

Control is an antagonistic technique.  We try to control our enemies.  We control and manipulate people we are NOT acting in good faith with.  We control and manipulate people we are playing a zero-sum game with — where we are trying to win OVER them, where we are trying to win at their cost.

This destructive attitude is quite prevalent in our man-woman relating culture these days.  Listen to women talk about why they want to get in relationships and what they want out of the men they are looking for, and you will hear a laundry list of stuff that the women want to get OUT of the men.  What you don’t hear is how the women want to PARTNER with men.

You don’t hear from the women how they want to COOPERATE with their men.

You don’t want to hear what the women are willing and happy to sacrifice in order to come into AGREEMENT with their men.

In the absence of agreement, women never really commit to any man they are with.  Commitment is about two people being on the same side.  Commitment is about being in a win-win relation with each other.  There is no room for CONTROL in a committed relationship. Control and manipulation only erodes the commitment two people have made to each other.

— Om Rupani

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WHAT IS A SUBMISSIVE WOMAN ANYWAY?

A submissive woman is one who wants to pair with a Dominant Man.

A submissive woman is one who is no longer is in shadow about wanting a Dominant Man.

A submissive woman is one who wants to play the complimentary role to a Dominant Man.

A submissive woman desires and values men’s masculinity, their masculine strength and masculine leadership.  

She never competes with men.  

Instead, she is brilliant at cooperating with strong and dominant men.  

She values their leadership and is a brilliant follower to their leadership.  

She cherishes and  nourishes men’s masculine virtues.  

She embodies the complimentary energy to strong, dominant men.

A submissive woman is foremost a feminine woman.  

She embodies feminine characteristics and feminine virtues at every level.  

She is feminine, supple, graceful and gracious — in her appearance, in her speech, in her energy, in her very core.

— Om Rupani

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PODCAST WITH LEAH PIPER & DR. WILLOW BROWN - 2022

—BDSM as a path to self-discovery.

—Bridge between Tantra & BDSM.

—How to take responsibility for new sensual investigations.

—Emotional release as erotic movement.

—Catharsis in BDSM play.

—The separation of giving and receiving.

—Balancing Giving & Receiving in BDSM dynamics.

—The fallacy of seeking healing through receiving rather than giving.

—Reviving stale relationships with introducing Dom-sub play.

—Distinguishing consensual D/s from cultural trauma.

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THE NON-CONSENSUAL DYNAMICS IN VANILLA RELATIONSHIPS

Dom-sub dynamics are built on Consent.

Dom-sub dynamics are built on the two people being in Agreement with each other.

Without this agreement/consent, there is no scene between Dom and sub; there is no dynamic between Dom and sub; there is no relationship between Dom & sub.

We even create a provision for both Dom & sub to exit their scene in case either of them comes out of consent in the middle of a scene.  This what safe-words are for.

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By contrast, vanilla relationships are rife with lack of agreement between the two people.

Husbands and wives live in a state of disagreement with each other.

Boyfriends and girlfriends are in a constant state of negotiation and bickering with each other.

From the perspective of Consent, these people are NOT in consent in their relationships.

Most husband-wife relationships, most boyfriend-girlfriend relationships are occurring out of consent!

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Living in this state of non-consent is the crucial problem at the center of most relationships.

To create happiness, come into agreement with your partner.

It is entirely up to you who you partner with, but if you want a functioning and thriving relationship, the key to that harmonious relationship is that the two people be in agreement with each other.

— Om Rupani

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AGREEMENT DEFICIENCY IS KILLING WOMEN’S RELATIONSHIPS TO MEN

The one ingredient you need to make any relationship work is — AGREEMENT!

This applies to romantic relationships.

It applies to filial and family relationships.

It even applies to relationships within a group and a tribe.

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One piece of poisonous programming that the modern woman has swallowed, thanks to feminism, is that coming into agreement with one’s man is considered a point of weakness for the modern, empowered woman.

It has become part of women’s identity to keep testing men, to judge men, to disapprove of men, to question men, to challenge men, to instill doubt in their systems and to disagree with men.

This one piece of poisonous programming is sufficient to entirely sabotage the possibility of happiness between women and their partners.

—Om Rupani

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I have a 6-month program for practitioners who are interested in bringing BDSM skills into their session work.  

I teach this intensive with my dear friend Lauren Harkness.  

This is a conversation with one of our students about her experience with this course.

You can find our more about this program at : https://omrupani.org/practitioner-mastery

Best,
Om

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WOMEN ARE FULL OF SHIT IN THEIR SEXINESS.

*(This is a module from the course : CREATING THE DOMINANT MAN)

Women’s sexiness is the most alluring part of their bullshit.  It looks so good.  It smiles so good.  It laughs so sexy.  Those eyes, those lips, those heels, that dress, that look in their eyes and then another look in their eyes.  The lilt of their laughter.  That sway of their hips as they walk by you.

Ohhhh sooo good.  It’s all so, so good.  It’s all so beautiful.  It is all so downright delectable!

I certainly don’t want women to stop being beautiful and alluring.  I don’t want women to stop presenting their beauty to the world or stop charming and alluring everyone (men and women) with their physicality.

And yet, there is a darker and deeper conversation that needs to be had with men regarding women’s sexiness and women’s presentation.  This conversation, this understanding truly separates the boys from the men.  It separates the boys — whom women know they can bullshit, from the men that women have to fess up their true face to.

Women’s sexiness, when they are in full presentation mode is like counterfeit currency.  That sexiness is a counterfeit hundred dollar bill.  And most women carry a stack of these counterfeit C Notes in their purse.

If you had a stack of counterfeit bills in your possession, how would your proceed?  

This is what you would do : You would try to pay as many people with the counterfeited money as you could.  You know what the difference between the two notes is.  You know which currency is fake and worthless and which bill is actually worth its full $100.  If people allow you to hand them the fake bills, you will be buying stuff with the fake bills all day long.

When would you ever give somebody a real bill?  

You would give the real money only to someone who recognized your fake bill when you gave it to them and they threw that fake money back in your face.

Lying is easy.  Lying is efficient.  If you allow women to lie to you, women will keep lying to you.

If they know they can lie to you, they will not respect you.

If a woman does not respect you because she knows she can manipulate you with her sexiness, she will never bond with you in any real way.  You will for ever be just one of her marks, and she will act towards you like a hustler.

I see a lot of men who think they are in real relationships with their women, but who in fact are in this Hustler-mark dynamic, because these men have no capacity or clarity to perceive or call out their women’s bullshit.

*(more on this inside the course)

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SEXINESS IS ABOUT HAVING CONTROL OVER THE MAN.

GOOD SEX HAPPENS WHEN A WOMAN SURRENDERS CONTROL TO HER MAN.

The idiot man thinks that when a woman is hurling sexiness at him, that she is offering him control over her.  This is a hustler’s move on the woman’s part; it’s a slight-of-hand.  Through sexiness, a woman makes a man feel powerful over her while she maintains all the power and control over the man.

If a man can’t recognize this con, whatever ensues, it is at least partly the man’s own fault.  You accepted her counterfeit bill, you didn’t recognize the Fugazi.  So you are the chump.

*(more on this inside the course)

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FEMINISM HAS FAILED!  WHAT’S NEXT?

Feminism has given us a generation of angry and disappointed women and a generation of broken and self-doubting men.

In this conversation with Kelly Brogan we discuss the current state of masculinity and femininity, all that is dysfunctional in our modern culture and where we might go from here.

— Om Rupani

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THE MODERN WOMAN IS ENERGETICALLY CONSTIPATED IN RELATION TO THE MASCULINE

I think the modern woman is more interested in being disappointed in men than in being happy with men.

This is an energetic and spiritual crucible.

The feminine ego is deriving a certain satisfaction in being this perpetually disappointed in the masculine.

What are the egos satisfactions?

She gets to be special in her misery and disappointment.

She gets to be right.

She gets to be better than men since they are the one disappointing her perpetually.

She gets to be superior to men.

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Women’s disappointment in men shuts down their receptivity to men.

This lack of receptivity sets men up to fail with the women.  And it keeps women in regular confirmation of their justified disappointment.

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I offer women an exercise to reverse this energetics:

GO CONTRIBUTE TO THE LIVES OF 3 MEN YOU CONSIDER WORTHY!

Instead of living in the perpetual story around how men are not giving to you, go give to men.

Contribute to their life.

Make their lives better.

—Om Rupani
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WHY WOMEN SHOULD COME TO MY BDSM TRAINING

I see the men and women who come to my training benefiting slightly different from what I offer.  I wanted to make two videos sharing what benefits I see my students gaining.  Men’s video to follow soon.

1.RECEIVE GOOD CONTAINMENT

2.GET IN TOUCH WITH YOUR LITTLE GIRL

3.YOU WILL KNOW HOW TO VET A DOM GOING FORWARD 

Or truly, how to vet any man you are considering of taking as a lover or a partner.

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AUSTRIA - August 5-11; 2025

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DOMINICAN REPUBLIC - February 8-14; 2026

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Both retreats are $3200 per student.  Room & Board included in course fee.

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MEN SHOULD STOP CARING ABOUT WOMEN’S EMOTIONS.

Women’s emotions have become too important to men.

This is counterproductive.  This is actually neither good for men, nor for women.

Men caring so much for women’s emotions is destroying Man-Woman relating.

Women’s emotions are flooding Men’s energetic and emotional bodies in two big ways:

1.  Women’s emotionality is triggering men’s emotionality.
2.  Women’s emotionality is influencing men’s actions.

Both of these influences are disastrous for both men and women.

— Om Rupani

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WHAT ARE YOU BUILT FOR AS A MAN?

We all must inquire from time to time, ‘What the hell am I doing here anyway?  What is my Purpose?  Why am I here?’

Maybe instead of turning to the heavens and inquiring about our purpose, we can take a more introverted approach and ask, ‘What exactly am I built for?’

Here today, as you are, what are you built for?

As Barbara Walters might ask, if you were a dog, what kind of dog would you be?

Are you retriever who is built for retrieving birds that your master has shot down?

Are you a herding dog who is built to herd sheep?

Are you a blood hound used to track deer or even humans?

Are you a terrier built to kill rats?

Are you a Saint Bernard that was bred to rescue people caught in mountain storms.

Are you a Newfoundland Dog built to rescue drowning fishermen in the north Atlantic?

Which dog breed are you?

What are you built for?

How does a man determine what kind of breed he is?

Ask yourself these questions:

What is the level of burden you are built to carry?  Are you carrying that much?  Are you carrying too much?  Are you carrying too little?

Where have you served others?  What have others found you useful for?  What have others sought you out for?  What have others used you for?

What can you not stand seen done badly?  In what field are you a snob, where you judge the work of others harshly because you know their work can be done better and you know how to do it better?

In what area of life do you feel inspiration and insight comes to you more easily?  What is the field in which, when you seek assistance, assistance is given.  When you make inquiries in this field, answers appear?

In which field, if you were to engage your energies fully, you would go to bed each night properly tired and peaceful.  Not that you were getting rich or world famous or on your way to great success.  But you would feel well-used.

In which task or field have people been readily willing to pay you for what you bring?

After all that, we may more fruitfully ask ourselves, ‘What is my Soul Purpose?’

—- Om Rupani

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HOW DO I A MAKE A WOMAN MISS ME?  PART 3 OF 3 - ABSENCE!

Men underestimate how important their ABSENCE is in the establishment of their value and attraction to women.  A man’s absence is the silent part of his seduction and his confidence.

Something for men to consider regarding their Absence:

It’s in your absence that a woman actually makes up her mind about you.

It’s in your absence that a woman truly gets to evaluate how she feels about you.

It’s in your absence that a woman gets to feel into how attracted she is to you.

If you are not on a woman’s mind in your absence, you should know that you have not left much of an impression on her with your presence.

The art of generating desire and interest in a woman is as much dependent on how much desire and interest she feels towards you when you are no longer in her presence.

Not understanding all this, most men under-value and under-use the power of their absence.

If you make yourself too available as a man, you are diluting the power of your absence.

If you are always reaching out and showing interest, you do the same.

If you really want to seduce a woman, if you really want to make her miss you, learn to use your Absence in a potent way.

— Om Rupani

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HOW DO I MAKE A WOMAN MISS ME?  Part 2 of 3 : EMOTION!

Men often ask, ‘How do I make a woman miss me?’

Most often men ask this question after their woman has left them.  In which case, this is a useless question to ask.  Trying to make a woman who has already left you miss you is unproductive.

It’s understandable that your feelings might be hurt after you have been left.  It’s understandable that you may hope that that the woman REGRETS leaving you.  But the more productive inquiry is, ‘How do I make a woman miss me in the beginning and middle part of an ongoing relationship’…not after she has left you.

In this 3 part talk I share that there are in fact three powerful energies that you can create in your dynamic that will cause a woman to think of you, to be attracted to you, to want more with you.  These energies are:

1.  ATTENTION
2.  EMOTION
3.  ABSENCE

In the first part of this three part series, we talked about the power of Quality Attention that a man can put on a woman to build attraction.

In this talk, we go into the power of EMOTION in generating attraction.

WOMEN WANT TO FEEL!

The man who makes her feel more wins!!!

— Om Rupani

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HOW TO MAKE A WOMAN MISS YOU 01 - ATTENTION

Men often ask this question after the woman has left, which makes the asking of this question rather pointless.  Hankering to make a woman miss you after she has already decided to leave you is a waste of time.  Instead, men should focus on how they might be able to make a woman miss them while they are still seducing her or while they are still in a relationship with the woman.

Asking how to make a woman miss you while she is still into you is a more fruitful inquiry.  And my answer to that inquiry is that you make a woman miss you in three ways:

1.  ATTENTION
2.  EMOTION
3.  ABSENCE

In this talk we cover the power of a man’s ATTENTION.  In the following two recordings, we’ll cover EMOTION & ABSENCE

—Om Rupani

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AN INVITATION TO MEN TO MEDITATE ON THEIR WORTHLESSNESS

What do we lie about?  How do we misrepresent ourselves?  Why do we misrepresent ourselves?

Often we are lying to convey value and esteem that we do not possess.  We lie about who we are, what we are, how qualified we are so that others will think well of us.  We are stealing other’s impression of us.  

We lie to lay calm to esteem that we do not possess.

Our worthlessness becomes a big part of our SHADOW.  We then do many things to keep this shadow piece of our worthlessness covered and camouflaged.  In extreme cases, as is the case with people with Narcissistic personalities, people go to extraordinary steps to maintain this denial of one’s worthlessness.

What if we steered directly into our worthlessness?  

This is a third chakra practice we can take on.  

Let’s face our worthlessness.  Let’s sit in it.  Let’s accept our worthlessness.  

What follows from there?

Do we die?  Do we disappear?  

What is left after we have relinquished the drive to establish our worth?  

What is left after we have stopped making efforts to convey our worth to others?

—Om Rupani

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CONTAINMENT IS EMOTIONAL & ENERGETIC, NOT PHYSICAL

Women are looking for emotional and energetic Containment from their men.  They want to feel held, protected, safe.  A great part of receiving this energy from men has to do with the internal constitutions of men.  If the man is weak, doubtful, too emotional, he will not be able to provide this containment to his woman.

This is a gap in their maturity that men need to fill.  They need to develop their own containment first.  This is often not occurring simply because weakness and emotionality are being presented as the new and correct template for masculinity.

Women are paying the price for this.  Men themselves are paying the price for this.  And nobody is happy.

— Om Rupani

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STRENGTHEN CONTAINMENT BY CHOOSING IT 


Containment is that feeling of groundedness and integration we feel at the emotional and energetic level when someone gives us a good hug that we are very receptive to. 


We all need energetic Containment.  Women need Containment quite a bit more than Men.


Men providing this energetic and emotional Containment to their women is one of the bigger ways they can contribute to their woman’s well being and hold her well and lead her.  Women are hungry to receive this feeling from their men of feeling held, feeling protected, feeling contained by their men’s strength and ferocity.
 

Most men today are failing miserably at giving this good Containment to their women.  As a result, their women are anxious, unhappy, irate.  They may not have the language to describe that this lack of Containment is what is at cause for so much of their negative emotions, but once you understand this concept, you will be able to trace much of your man-woman breakdown to the woman not receiving the containment that she needs and wants from her man.  And most men today are lousy at providing this Containment.


The reason men are so bad at providing Containment are discussed in this conversation.  The main reason for men’s failure to provide Containment is that they are simply not focused on it.  Being able to provide Containment is simply not one of the manly virtues that men are being taught these days.


In its place, we are putting other emphasis on how men should be — we are encouraging men to be vulnerable, we are encouraging men to be feminine — none of which is actually helping men give their women what they need and want from their men.


— Om Rupani

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CONTAINMENT BY OTHER NAMES

Containment is the inner feeling we have when we are feeling grounded, coherent, stable, calm, collected.

Loss of that inner Containment makes us feel discombobulated, triggered, upset, unfocused, frazzled, emotional and many other darker emotions that are often associated with old pain and narrative.

When loss of Containment occurs, our tendency is to try and track down its origin to the many different things that may be happening on the outside in our circumstances of the moment. Or we may try and track the current upset down to old pain and pattern and wounds.  Often times, this attempt to trace back the origin of our loss of Containment is not a fruitful undertaking.

When we are upset, the best thing is to come out of that upset first.  When we are feeling Un-Containted, the thing that really needs to happen next is that we need to find our way back into Containment.  Attempting to solve problems while we are Un-Contained is a bad idea.  Attempting to have conversations about our relationship with our partner while we are Un-Contained usually only aggravates the situation.

In Man-Woman relating, I feel Men have the opportunity to offer this Containment to their women when she experiences a loss of Containment.  If we could build our understanding of this phenomenon and learn how to solve it with greater skill, we could resolve a lot of ancillary problems that often get attached to the painful experience of the loss of Containment, especially in the feminine.

Some of the feelings women often describe when they are experiencing loss of their energetic Containment: 

PERCEPTIONS AND FEELINGS DIRECTED TOWARDS HER MAN:

1. Feeling Abandoned by him.
2. Feeling Dropped by him.
3. Not being able to feel her man.
4. Feeling he is not present.
5. Feeling she doesn’t have his attention.
6. Feeling not seen by her man.
7. Feeling he is not taking her seriously.
8. Feeling he doesn’t get it.
9. Feeling alone even in his company.
10. Feeling not heard.
11. Feeling disconnected.
12. Feeling he does not make her a priority.
13. Feeling neglected.
14. Feeling she is not important to him.
15. Feeling he is choosing other people and things over her.

INNER FEELINGS THAT TRIGGER LOSS OF CONTAINMENT

1. Feeling overwhelmed.
2. Feeling alone.
3. Feeling she has to handle everything herself.
4. Feeling nobody has her back.
5. Feeling unchosen.
6. Feeling unworthy.
7. Feeling things are only going to get worse.
8. Feeling panicked.
9. Feeling anxious.
10. Feeling her life situation and choices are in error.

These issues may be something real that need to be addressed in your life or your relationship , or they may not be.  But if these feelings are being experienced DURING the loss of energetic Containment, then the best, first step is to restore Containment.  Visit the relational issues afterwards.  

Often times, these feelings are emotional distortions that are a symptom of loss of Containment.  In which case, resorting Containment is the main thing that needs to happen.

-- Om Rupani
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WHAT IS CONTAINMENT, AND WHY MEN SHOULD LEARN IT.

Containment is that good feeling we feel on the INSIDE of our body when someone we care for gives us a nice, grounding hug.  We welcome their touch and their embrace.  We sink into their body.  We let their groundedness ground us.  Our breathing and heart rate slows down.

We feel more calm and less anxious.  Emotionally & Energetically, we feel more Contained.

Although a physical act like a hug or other grounding touch can be very effective at creating Containment, the location of Containment itself is in our energetic and emotional body.  We all benefit and feel nourished from receiving this Containment of our emotional and energetic system.

I think women in general have a greater need for Containment, and I think men are better built naturally to provide this Containment.  Being in a dynamic where the Man is providing good Containment to his woman on a regular basis can be a very positive aspect to have in one’s relating.

Containment also plays a crucial role in the arousal dynamics of a couple.  Arousing energy is always more pleasurable and effective when it follows good Containment.  A Contained system is more receptive to arousal than an uncontained and frazzled system.  So, the understanding of this energetics of Containment is crucial for the love life and the romantic life of a couple at multiple levels.

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UNDERSTANDING WOMEN’S FUCKING ENERGY

I believe women have at least two distinct modalities of turn-on or arousal.  I believe there is a particular ‘frequency’ of women’s arousal that is their fucking energy — where they want to be penetrated.

Men’s erections occur in response to this energy.

If this observation is correct, the implications that come out of it are many.

This is a starting conversation on this topic and on this premise.  Others to follow soon.

— Om Rupani

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Couples are afraid of each other's growth.  We are afraid that if our partner grows too much, expands too much, has breakthroughs, they may in fact outgrow us and leave us behind.

Couples hold each other back in order to insure their own security in the relationship. We don't always feel that our partner expanding is necessarily in our best interest.

So we hold each other back.  And the only way we can accomplish this is through lies and camouflage.  Nobody is going to step up and confess that they are making an effort to hold their partner back in life.  So we have to invent a cover and lie with skill to get the job done.

What's more, often times the lies are operating on both sides.  It's not so much that one partner is lying to another.  It's more that both partners are engaged in a conspiracy of lies to stay stuck and stagnant in their current state.

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5 REASONS YOU SHOULDN’T PARTNER WITH NEGATIVE PEOPLE

1.  NEGATIVE PEOPLE ACTUALLY DON’T KNOW HOW TO DO RELATIONSHIPS.

A successful relationship is two are more people coming into agreement.

Chronically unhappy people tend to be out of agreement with life itself.

They are ungracious.

They are ungrateful.

They have no appreciation for the good that is around them.

Such a person has true inclination to be gracious towards other humans, to be thankful for the good that others bring into their life.  

If a person seem determined to not come into agreement with you or with life, you will not have a successful connection with them.

2.  NEGATIVE PEOPLE ARE DREAM KILLERS

To be negative is to be negative about the future.

I would in fact define whether a person is officially negative or not by this particular metric : WHAT’S THEIR ATTITUDE TOWARDS THE FUTURE — THIER OWN FUTURE AND THE WORLD’S FUTURE?

If a person is future-forward, they are not negative.

Those who are negative people by this definition — don’t ever share your future plans with these people.  They will do their utmost to snuff your flame.

3.  YOU WILL FAIL AS A ROMANTIC PARTNER WITH THEM.

This particular point applies even more to men than women.  We all have the desire to please our partner, but men feel this metric at an even deeper level.  When our woman is happy, we feel like kings.  When she is unhappy, it lands in us as failure.

Pick a woman who is chronically unhappy, and you set yourself to being and feeling like a chronic failure.

4.  THEIR NEGATIVITY IS OFTEN MALEVOLENT

Maybe there is a small number of negative and pessimistic people who just live their sully ives in the corner, but most people who are future-negative are deeply envious of others who are optimistic, future-forward, creative, endeavoring, taking chances, succeeding.

Be double careful of inviting such malevolent energy into your creation and production circle.  They are saboteurs.

5.  AS YOUR PARTNER, THE NEGATIVE PERSON IS ROOTING FOR YOUR FAILURE

A truly negative person cannot tolerate progress and success anywhere.  They won’t make an exception for you even if you are married to them.

The very core purpose of a good relationship ought to be that the two people are rooting for each other.  You are a stand for each other.  You want the other to succeed and thrive.  If you can’t say this about yourself, you suck as a partner and your other will suffer because of it, and vice versa.

— Om Rupani

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THERE ARE 2 TYPES OF WOMEN IN THE WORLD

1.  Those who believe that their full SOUL EXPRESSION can only occur independent of any   man, independent or any relationship with a man, independent of any marriage with a man.  

That taking her full soul journey as a woman is a solo path, independent of men and relationships with men, and that men and relationships with men are distractions, detours and obstacles to that true SOUL journey of hers.

2.  Women who believe their SOUL JOURNEY can only be completed through the archetypes of wife and mother.  

That only in a deep partnership with a man, only in a deep marriage with a man, in going through all the ups and downs that a marriage entails, in upholding and living out all the marriage vows of sickness and in health, for richer or poor, that only in that life-long journey can she realize and make her SOUL JOURNEY.

My prompt to women is that they examine their belief system and see what programming they are carrying in their system.  Be true to the belief you are carrying.  

If you are in the first category, please stop trying to pair bond with men, please stop seeking long-term partnerships with men; please don’t even cohabitate with a man, and most certainly, please don’t get married.  It wont’ work out for you.  You yourself will sabotage your relationships, because your core belief is not in agreement with long-term bonding with a man.

— Om Rupani

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PODCAST WITH KELLY BROGAN - BDSM SCENE CONSTRUCTIONS FOR CATHARSIS

Timestamps:

[00:00] Introduction

[03:05] How BDSM intersects with trauma, pleasure, and healing

[05:12] Understanding the father-daughter dynamic in relationships

[06:08] How childhood experiences shape adult desires

[07:20] Why reenacting childhood wounds can be healing

[08:14] Common father-daughter wounds and their emotional impact

[09:05] Revisiting painful childhood memories in a controlled way

[10:18] How a dom can rewrite past trauma

[11:10] Why people internalize childhood neglect as self-blame

[12:02] How reenacting childhood wounds can change self-perception

[13:15] The role of theater and psychodrama in BDSM

[14:09] How women can relive and heal rejection from their fathers

[15:30] Why BDSM scene design is structured like a play

[16:22] Examples of how childhood wounds show up in adult relationships

[19:02] The impact of revisiting parental rejection in scene play

[20:10] The emotional release that comes from reenacting past pain

[21:04] The psychological effects of feeling preferred or not preferred

[22:15] The deep-rooted nature of childhood wounds in adult life

[23:09] How re-experiencing childhood emotions can reframe memories

[24:03] The importance of acknowledging that parents are human

[25:12] Using BDSM to address self-worth issues rooted in childhood

[26:08] Why people carry childhood pain into adulthood

[27:00] The difference between memory, narrative, and reality

[28:15] The role of the dom in guiding emotional catharsis

[29:05] How the body holds onto past trauma

[30:10] The connection between physical sensations and emotional healing

[31:12] How BDSM can address and release stored trauma

[32:20] The impact of feeling powerless as a child

[33:08] How physical expression can help process past pain

[34:04] Why talk therapy alone cannot resolve deep trauma

[35:10] Jealousy as a common relationship challenge

[36:02] How BDSM can be used to work through jealousy

[38:00] How playing out jealousy can lessen its intensity

[41:08] Why understanding your fears can give you more agency

[42:04] How women can shift their perspective on their partner’s attraction to others

[45:02] How body shame impacts relationships and intimacy

[46:10] How BDSM can help heal body insecurities

[47:15] Why body shaming is common in BDSM play

[48:02] How men and women experience different types of body shame

[49:08] The role of worship and cherishment in healing body shame

[50:05] Why aftercare is essential in BDSM scenes

[51:10] How physical play can anchor emotional healing

[52:02] Why BDSM is not just for “kinky” people

[53:08] How scene play can be an effective tool for personal growth

[54:12] Why BDSM should not be stigmatized in therapeutic settings

[55:05] How this approach can complement traditional therapy

[56:02] The importance of embracing taboo topics for healing

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ANSWER YOUR CALL!  OR GET OFF THE POT!

Lauren and I giving some tough love to you women who are on the fence about answering your call.  We wholeheartedly urge you to take courage and step towards the bit of uncertainty that might be the start of an adventure.

With love.

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PODCAST WITH EYLA CUENCA —

TOPICS:

I feel for you people who binge watch my material.

Containment for a birth doula.  Containment in birth space.

The energetics of Containment.

Containment in Man-Woman dynamic.

Men’s initiations, or lack there of, these days.

Where the men drop contentment and boundaries, women step in to pick up the slack.

You will never get the best out of a woman who is chronically uncontained.

What women look like after a good scene.

The downward spiral of distrust that results in long-term frustrations.

Reversing the downward spirals.

Men want to be found right.

Discerning non-consensual Domination & submission from the consensual.

Using scene-play for release and catharsis.

Flipping trauma for Eros.

The coolness of the Dom energy.

Balancing energies between Dom & sub.

Archetypical mismatch when both woman and men are submissives.

Women being more yes to their submission than men are to their Domination.

A functional dom-sub dynamic is a co-conspiracy.

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WEBINAR—COURTESAN TRAINING FOR PERSONAL EXPANSION

Lauren and I have designed our COURTESAN MASTERY CURRICULUM to be a robust enough training to create superlative practitioners.  But this is also a training that can be tremendously valuable to women simply for their own activation and expansion.  A good 30%-40% of women who have done our training have done it simply for their own benefit.

In this conversation, we focus on these personal aspects that each of our course modules can serve for women.

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SHIFTING PRIESTESS TRAINING FROM VIENNA TO NEW JERSEY

Hello Everyone.  Lauren and I are pivoting our next Priestess Training from Vienna back to Jersey City, NJ.

We are doing so in response to the needs and desires of our students.  Many more students are a yes to doing it here right now than traveling to Europe for it.

Please look at the course page if you are interested : https://omrupani.org/practitioner-mastery

Please reach out if you have any questions.  Lauren and I are happy to get on a zoom call with you to answer your questions.

— Om Rupani

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POLARITY GLITCHES : 01 ARE YOU FOLLOWING YOUR MAN?  OR, ARE YOU ‘LETTING HIM LEAD’?

Many couples who have switched from an egalitarian model of relating towards a more polarized form of relating are still feeling quite exhausted.  The sweet rewards of ease and greater functionality that polarity relating has promised them still seem elusive in their dynamic.  The women are still feeing over-stretch and tired.  The men are not quite feeling like they have arrived in their element in leading in their relationship.

When I’m coaching couples and listening to their conflicts and complaints, I am often able to spot a handful of glitches in their dynamic.  It’s almost as if their habits and ways of doing things need to be ‘debugged’ like in a computer program.  I thought I’d make a series of videos addressing these glitches.

This video deals with one of the most common shadow pieces I see — where the woman thinks or acts like she is really in favor of her man leading, but in fact she is stuck in the shadow energy of ‘letting him lead’,  or ‘allowing him to lead’.  

There is a world of difference between trusting and following your man and this underhanded energy of ‘letting him lead’.

There are many beliefs and energies that can live behind this phenomenon of ‘letting your man lead’ instead of whole-heartedly wanting his leadership.  Here are 2 of them:

1. You simply don’t know how to turn off your controlling mechanism.  Behind this drive to control is a deep distrust — perhaps of everyone, but more likely a distrust towards men and the masculine.
2. You feel following your man makes you inferior to him.  So you are holding your surrender in reserve, because you don’t want to render yourself weaker and inferior to him according to your beliefs.  Constantly checking your man, on the other hand, implies you are more competent than him and thus superior to him.

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PRIESTESS TRAINING - BALANCING PERSONAL & PROFESSIONAL ENERGIES

It’s a common inquiry among women considering this training about balancing their work life with their desires for personal partnerships.  Lauren and I discuss this topic in this video.

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PODCAST : WOMEN’S DISCONTENTMENT WILL END THE WORLD. 

TOPICS:

Challenges of Eros in long-term relationships.

The correct purpose of a long-term partnership.

Dropping birth rates.

Adversity as the source of meaning.

Accumulating experiences of betrayal in hook-up culture.

The chronic dissatisfaction of the modern woman.

Men want to make women happy; modern woman has vowed to not be happy.

For most women, submission is weakness.

Women’s submissions as men’s reward and fuel.

Ownership in relationships.

It’s not a man’s job to bring a woman into submission.

Attitude towards naysayers.

Women’s fantasies.

BDSM in long-term relationships.

Your Permission Field in a relationship.

Men’s path to dominance.

Real sexual mastery.

Casual sex vs. partnership.

Women’s sex and self-worth.

Women can’t submit to a man they don’t respect.

Money beliefs in family lineage.

Healthy dynamic between mother and son.

Masculinity in media.

Feminism’s efficiency in destroying man-woman relationships.

Relationship mastery as prerequisite to sexual connection.

Too many men these days are boring.

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Priestess Training in Vienna!  March - July 2025

The next run of the Priestess Training will be in Vienna.

All the course details are at : https://omrupani.org/practitioner-mastery

Please reach out if you have any questions.

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Of Vegans and Nice Guys and Submissives

A broad conversation on my favorite topics of BDSM, Masculinity and Man-Woman Relating in today's culture.

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SUCCESSFUL RELATIONSHIPS ARE ABOUT GIVING YOUR PARTNER WHAT THEY NEED, WANT & DESIRE.

My personal relationship philosophy is no more complex than the above statement.  Give your partner want your partner wants.  Contribute to them.  Make their life easier.  Make their life better.  Contribute to their expansion.  

Two people doing that for each other — that’s the golden state.  That’s heaven on earth as far as human relating is concerned.

Do whatever works.  

I personally have no particular philosophy or ideology on HOW A WOMAN SHOULD BE, or HOW A MAN SHOULD BE.

Be however you want.  You are a free and sovereign soul.  Do your thing.  Express yourself as you please.  Your life is yours to live.

But, if you want to play the man-woman game, or any relational game, then who you are, how you are, what you do, how you do it - all of that goes into whether you will succeed or fail at being able to give your partner what your partner needs, desires and wants from you.

Everything I teach and talk about is constructed on this metric.  My personal approach to creating successful man-woman relating is trying to find as many big pieces that are valid generalizations as to what men want from women and what women want from men.  I personally have no other measuring stick, no authority, no higher source regarding men & women.  What works?  What works most of the time?  Let’s try that.

What generalizations are consistent regarding what women want from men?

What generalizations are consistent regarding what men want from women?

Let’s follow those.  Let’s build on that data.  It’s a pretty reasonable approach.

What makes this simple approach a bit more complicated to implement, is that human beings are not obvious creatures.  Our needs and desires are not always plain to see and understand.  Many times, men and women themselves don’t have clear understanding of their true needs and desires.  This is where a little digging is needed.  This is where insight into our nature is needed.

These insights often ruffle feathers among people when they go against people’s self-concepts of what it means to be a good man or woman.  But arguing with the insight, or the insight-bringer, is not really necessary.  You be the judge of what is working in your relationships.  If you and your partner are mutually happy and thriving, ignore everyone blabbering their relationship advice.  What do you care?  You are already succeeding at your relationships.  You are happy and thriving.  Keep doing what you are doing.

If what you have been doing has not been working and creating great results in your relationships, then it might be worthwhile to consider that some new data and action might be needed for you to create the needed success.  Try something new if you want, or don’t.  All up to you.

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10 BDSM Skills That Can Inform All Relationships : 06 - Own Each Other! / Or, How Relationships Die!

Owning a human being is a concept that is a bit out of date by normal standards.

As with all things in the BDSM realm, distinctions need to be made between the CONSENSUAL and the NON-CONSENSUAL.

Consensual Ownership might be an energy that is direly needed in our culture today.

My offer is that ownership is at the heart of what makes all relationships work.  This certainly applies to romantic relationships, whether they be kinky or not.  Beyond that, it even applies to familial relationships and even work relationships. 

Our life energy flow into that which we own.  When we own the people we care for, we nurture them, and as a result, those relationships flourish.

When we withdraw our ownerships energies from a relationship, that relationship begins to wither and deteriorate.

It could even be said that the bulk of the lies we perpetrate in relationships are lies about how much we truly own someone.

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ANNOUNCING NEW IN-PERSON, 7-DAY RETREAT.  IN CYPRUS!  FEBRUARY ’25.

I’m very excited to be announcing a new Intensive BDSM Retreat that I will be offering, starting in February 2025.  

The workshop is titled BDSM PRINCIPLES & DOM-SUB EXPLORATION.  Over the course of 7days / 6 nights, we will take a deeper dive into the various possible in this realm.

Please explore the course page for full details : https://omrupani.org/bdsm-principles-dom-sub-exploration-course

— Om Rupani

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TALKING TO MY FRIEND JENELLE - A GRADUATE OF OUR PRIESTESS TRAINING.

Janelle came into the Priestess Training with little to no knowledge about BDSM, and with very little connection to her own Dominant or submissive archetypes.

It’s been fun to watch her journey and to see her come into her own.  These days she considers herself a rather effective advocate for the possibilities that this realm has to offer everyone, including the women she works with as well as couples.

We chat about her arc and how she sees herself differently after her own journey and what she feels she is now contributing to others.

You can learn more about her here : https://www.feelwildlyalive.com/

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DOM-SUB WISDOM FOR OTHER DOMAINS

Lauren and I discuss how mastering the Dominant and Submissive archetypes can have applications in other areas of our life.

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DO WOMEN NEED TO BE KEPT IN CHECK?

Not all women.  

But the women who have the desire for being in a hierarchical relationship should understand this point : One of the functions and responsibilities of the person higher in the hierarchy is to keep the people lower in the hierarchy in check.

This is a point that even the people who are actively pursuing polarized dynamics are grasping are often failing to grasp.

I see a lot of women who are ready to be with men who are strong and dominant and grounded and making something of themselves in the world.  The women do want their men to ‘take the lead’.  But when it comes to decision-making and directing action, the women are firmly planted in the feminist egalitarian model that all important decisions should be made by democratic vote, and everybody’s thoughts and feelings should be taken under consideration.  All of a sudden, the Dom-sub dynamic collapses into an Occupy Wall Street meeting full of gentle and considerate hand signals.

There is no advocacy here on my part.  I am not saying women should take directions from men.  I most certainly am not saying that all the men of the world should keep all the women of the world in check.  There is no ideology here.  

What I do want to point out is a cornerstone of hierarchical dynamic that is in the blindspot of many people who are wondering why their dynamic still feels like more work than enjoyment.  

If you want a hierarchical dynamic, find a man whose decision making, clarity and judgement you trust and respect above your own.  I grant you, finding this man is not easy.  But these are the basic requirements of functional hierarchy — find someone better than yourself to follow.  And then follow them.

Following them means you don’t direct their actions.

Following them means they can direct your actions.

Following him means he gets to veto your decisions.

Following him means, when there is a difference in opinion between you and him, his decision is the final one.

He needs to be a man who can hold that position of leadership with ethos, a big heart and desire for a win-win outcome.

Find that man.  Then, follow him.

— Om Rupani

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MEN - DON’T TRY TO PARTNER WITH A WOMAN WHO DOESN’T NEED YOU!

Men need to be needed.  

Men want to be useful.

Men’s esteem is intricately connected to them making themselves into the kind of men who are useful to the people around them.  All people — your family, your friends, your bosses and employees, your parents, your brothers, your children, and also your woman.

This need is not some kind of a weakness.  It is sane and healthy interdependence.  It means you belong to your tribe.  You belong to your family.  You belong to your loved ones.

Your use to others is how you bond with others.

If you disconnect from this good and healthy need, you will create failure in your life in a multitude of directions:

You will make yourself into the kind of man who is useless to anyone and everyone around you.

This will make you into a loner.  Men will not feel much pull to have you as a friend.  

Women, most certainly will not be attracted to you.  

Nor will you be productive or generative in society.  

Nor will you be able to generate value and money and wealth.

The healthy esteem of a man is contextual.  We build our value in the context of how we are connecting and what we are providing to the people in our tribe.

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Your connection with your woman is no exception to this.  In fact, a thriving connection to your woman ought to be the centerpiece of your usefulness, your competence and your contribution.

Your woman should pick you because you are tremendously useful to her.

She should pick you because her life is better with you than without you.

She should pick you because you are able to bring riches into her life that she cannot bring into her own life.

If all that is in place, she will look up to you if she is a gracious and balanced woman.  She will acknowledge the contribution you are making to her life.  She will acknowledge how valuable you are to her.  This acknowledgment is an integral part of her respect for you.

You should earn this respect.  You should aim to inspire this respect in her.

If you are failing to inspire this respect in a particular woman, proceed no further with her.

If you are failing to inspire this respect in all women, you need to look at your own life and do better.  Build a fuller and richer life to invite a woman into.  Make yourself more useful to others, including women.

If you are proud of who you are and the life you are leading, then, when you are with a particular woman who acts as if you are brining nothing special into her life, move on; that’s not your woman.

If you stumble upon a woman who on principle declares, ‘I don’t need no man’, please keep moving.  You don’t need to take offense at her stance.  You don’t need to argue with her.  Please don’t try to change her mind.

Rest in your inner wisdom and self-knowledge that you need to be with a woman who needs you, who admires you for what you bring to her, because she can’t bring those aspects to her own life.  You need to be with a woman who respects you for your strengths, abilities and your contributions to her life.

Any and all women who fall out of this important parameter, please move away from those women.  Don’t try to partner with them.  Even if they are making advances for partnership towards you while in this attitude, do not start a relationship with them.

The vast majority of women in the world today are stuck in their GIRLFRIEND archetype and in their MODERN WOMAN archetype.  Both of these energetic configurations are shadowy energies tha

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What is a Reclaimed Woman - with Kelly Brogan MD

Kelly discusses her new book, The Reclaimed Woman which unpacks bitterness and resentment of the modern day woman through rich narratives and thoughtful critiques. It challenges conventional notions of feminism, exploring how societal influences and expectations shape personal identity and relational dynamics. 

She exposes layers of societal conditioning, revealing the struggles women face in reclaiming their autonomy and voice, inviting a reevaluation of what it means to be empowered, urging a return to authenticity and an embrace of the unique power inherent in the feminine. 

This work promises to spark thoughtful discussions on the nature of personal growth, the impact of societal narratives on identity, and opportunity we have to heal the root cause of pain, fear, shame, and suffering for women.

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ASK A PRODOMME!

Conversation with Geraecka Lyonns about:

The cathartic possibilities in BDSM play.

Architecting humiliation play.

Releasing shame and guilt through punishment scenes.

Pain as a pathway towards rebalancing the psyche.

Why powerful men seek out takedown scenes.  

The importance of Containment.

The freedom to explore inside of Containment.

The breakdown of Containment in man-woman relating.

The fatigue in the modern women due to lack of Containment.

The difficulty in the modern woman embodying her sensuality while she is un-contained.

Men building their Containment through facing challenges and doing hard work.

The drawback in men outsourcing their warrior energy.

Reversing self-absorption to build Containment and reduce anxiety.

Containment as prerequisite for healing in any modality.

D/s dynamic as a superb invitation for exploring polarity.

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OM’S UPCOMING BDSM TRAININGS:

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