Licensed therapists, Amanda White, LPC and Sam Dalton, LCSW discuss the topic of boundaries and how they are often misconstrued. They explore the difference between boundaries, norms, and expectations, emphasizing the importance of understanding intentions and allowing for mistakes. They highlight the need for nuance and grace in navigating boundaries, both in personal relationships and online interactions. The conversation also touches on the impact versus harm debate and the role of repair in building trust and understanding.

In this conversation, Amanda and Sam discuss the importance of flexible boundaries and the dangers of rigid boundaries. They explore the idea that boundaries should be adaptable and considerate of others' boundaries. They emphasize the need for communication and context when setting boundaries, as well as the importance of self-reflection and self-trust. They also discuss the role of vulnerability and the power of articulating why certain boundaries are in place.

If you would like us to answer your question call us at 813-444-8683. Follow us on Instagram or TikTok- Sam (@Sam.the.therapist) Amanda (@Therapyforwomen) To learn more about therapy and get on one of our waitlists, reach out to Therapy for Women Center, therapyforwomencenter.com. We have therapists licensed in 43 states across the country and have offices if you are local to the Philadelphia area.

Amanda White, LPC and Sam Dalton, LCSW introduce their new podcast, Nuance Needed, and discuss why they created it. They talk about their frustration with social media and how it has impacted mental health content. They emphasize the importance of nuance and the dangers of oversimplification. They also discuss the difference between normal human experiences and mental health disorders.

Overall, they aim to create a space where they can navigate complex topics and model the process of exploring different perspectives. In this conversation, Amanda and Sam discuss their personal experiences with sobriety and the challenges they faced. They explore the importance of therapy and self-reflection in overcoming addiction and building a life in alignment with their values. Thank you so much for listening!

If you would like us to answer your question call us at 813-444-8683. Follow us on Instagram or TikTok- Sam (@Sam.the.therapist) Amanda (@Therapyforwomen) To learn more about therapy and get on one of our waitlists, reach out to Therapy for Women Center, therapyforwomencenter.com. We have therapists licensed in 43 states across the country and have offices if you are local to the Philadelphia area.

The internet is saturated with content that talks about mental health in all the wrong ways. Licensed therapists, Amanda White and Sam Dalton, know firsthand the harm and confusion that this causes. We are on a mission to bring nuance back to the internet and help you make sense of it all. Together, we’ll psychoanalyze internet culture, debunk TikTok trends, and teach you how to *actually* care for your mental health while being online. Join us every Wednesday as we give you the tools to turn your doom scrolling into hope scrolling.  

For more information about us and therapy, check out therapyforwomencenter.com

In this episode, Amanda and Sam delve into the Hulu series 'The Secret Lives of Mormon Wives,' exploring the cultural implications and personal experiences tied to Mormonism. They discuss the impact of reality TV on perceptions of the culture, the struggles with shame and accountability, and the complexities of emotional responses within a patriarchal framework.

This episode is especially important because as some of you may know, Sam grew up Mormon and has a unique perspective on the show and Mormon culture. Sam also shares about her faith deconstruction journey and gives listeners tips for how they can start this process or support themselves if they are on a similar journey.

If you would like us to answer your question call us at 813-444-8683. Follow us on Instagram or Tiktok- Sam (@Sam.the.therapist) Amanda (@Therapyforwomen) To learn more about therapy and get on one of our waitlists, reach out to Therapy for Women Center, therapyforwomencenter.com. We have therapists licensed in 43 states across the country and have offices if you are local to the Philadelphia area.

* Please note we recorded this during the evacuation, so the audio is not up to our normal level. We appreciate you understanding* In this episode of the Nuance Needed Podcast, Amanda White, LPC and Sam Dalton, LCSW discuss the complexities of navigating personal experiences during natural disasters, particularly focusing on the recent hurricane. They explore the emotional impact of such events, the role of misinformation on social media, and the ethical responsibilities of influencers in crisis situations. The conversation emphasizes the importance of media literacy, community support, and setting boundaries with media consumption to maintain emotional well-being during crises. In this conversation, Sam and Amanda explore the complexities of online validation, the chaotic nature of influencer content during crises, and the backlash against influencers. They discuss the nuance of disasters the role of anxiety in crisis communication, and the importance of trusting legitimate information sources. The conversation also touches on the historical context of societal chaos and the need for balance in engaging with crises while maintaining personal relationships.

For more information about Sam and Amanda, or to book an appointment visit therapyforwomencenter.com. For feedback, episode topic requests or to ask us a question, call 813-444-8683

The influencer we discussed who we loved-- Meaghan Martin, a local pediatric emergency room physician, @beachgem10

In this episode of the Nuance Needed Podcast, Amanda and Sam delve into the recent backlash surrounding artist Chappell Roan, particularly focusing on her decision to cancel performances for mental health reasons. They explore the complexities of social media reactions, the pressures of fame, and the importance of nuanced discussions in the face of polarized opinions.They explore the challenges faced by artists in managing fan expectations, the impact of public reactions on mental health, and the importance of understanding the consequences of one's actions.

The discussion emphasizes the need for emotional management and the significance of building trust with oneself to navigate the chaotic landscape of fame and public perception. If you would like us to answer your question call us at 813-444-8683. Follow us on Instagram or Tiktok- Sam (@Sam.the.therapist) Amanda (@Therapyforwomen) To learn more about therapy and get on one of our waitlists, reach out to Therapy for Women Center, therapyforwomencenter.com. We have therapists licensed in 43 states across the country and have offices if you are local to the Philadelphia area.

Licensed therapists Sam Dalton, LCSW and Amanda White, LPC explore the challenges of navigating mental health content on social media and the importance of discernment. They highlight the need to focus on basic self-care before diving into niche trends. They discuss the impact of social media on mental health and the difficulty of finding accurate and helpful information. They emphasize the importance of therapy in exploring emotions and finding deeper meaning behind diagnoses.

They also discuss the limitations of coaches compared to licensed therapists in providing comprehensive support. In this conversation, Sam and Amanda discuss the challenges of navigating social media and the overwhelming amount of content available. They emphasize the importance of self-awareness and self-compassion in managing the impact of social media on mental health. They also highlight the need to set realistic goals and make small changes to avoid feeling overwhelmed.

If you would like us to answer your question call us at 813-444-8683. Follow us on Instagram or Tiktok- Sam (@Sam.the.therapist) Amanda (@Therapyforwomen) To learn more about therapy and get on one of our waitlists, reach out to Therapy for Women Center, therapyforwomencenter.com. We have therapists licensed in 43 states across the country and have offices if you are local to the Philadelphia area.

In this emergency episode of the Nuance Needed Podcast, Amanda and Sam discuss their emotional responses to the recent election results, exploring themes of grief, coping strategies, and the impact of social media on mental health. We answer your questions that you submitted such as "how do I tell my kids what happened?", "what do I do about people in my life who voted for Trump?" "how do I go on if I feel like I can't go on?" and "how can I find hope?". We emphasize the importance of acknowledging feelings and how to take care of yourself right now. The conversation also delves into the historical context of America's political landscape, reminding you that the current situation is not new but rather a continuation of ongoing struggles for equity and justice. We discuss the role of action in combating anxiety, and the power of community in fostering connection. We hope this helps you feel a little less alone. We appreciate you!

If you are interested in seeing a therapist at Therapy for Women Center, we have therapists licensed in 43 states across the country with 3 offices in the Philadelphia area. We would love to support you during this time. Reach out to therapyforwomencenter.com for more information.

If you would like to connect with us be sure to follow us on Instagram or Tiktok @TherapyforWomen and @Sam.The.Therapist

To call into the podcast or ask us a question or leave us feedback, call and leave a message at 813-444-8683

If you can believe it we have EVEN MORE TO SAY about wellness TikTok trends. In this bonus episode, Amanda and Sam revisit their previous discussion on TikTok trends, particularly focusing on how it can be even more confusing on social media when real doctors and licensed providers have products and are the ones sharing information. We explore the implications of self-tanner usage, the overwhelming nature of social media trends, and the impact of consumerism on personal style.

The conversation also touches on the dangers of following influencer trends without critical assessment. Finally, Amanda shares a story about decorative trash can covers and how the company came after her for talking about them on instagram.

If you would like us to answer your question call us at 813-444-8683. Follow us on Instagram or Tiktok- Sam (@Sam.the.therapist) Amanda (@Therapyforwomen) To learn more about therapy and get on one of our waitlists, reach out to Therapy for Women Center, therapyforwomencenter.com. We have therapists licensed in 43 states across the country and have offices if you are local to the Philadelphia area.

We have a bit of a lighter episode planned this week and second part coming tomorrow in order to help distract you and keep you company during this election week! In this conversation, Amanda White, LPC and Sam Dalton, LCSW discuss the frustration and misinformation surrounding wellness trends and beauty standards. They highlight the dangers of believing in made-up terms like 'cortisol face' and the pressure to constantly fix perceived flaws. They emphasize the importance of seeking professional advice and being mindful of the content we consume. The conversation also touches on the need for self-discipline, self-awareness, and the acceptance of our natural human experiences.

In this conversation, Sam and Amanda discuss the culture of overconsumption and the pressure to constantly buy products in order to improve our lives. They explore the idea that many of these products are unnecessary and can actually contribute to stress and anxiety. They encourage listeners to pause and reflect on their purchasing habits, asking themselves why they feel drawn to certain products and whether they truly need them. They also share their own impulsive and regrettable purchases, highlighting the importance of being intentional with our spending.

If you would like us to answer your question call us at 813-444-8683. Follow us on Instagram or Tiktok- Sam (@Sam.the.therapist) Amanda (@Therapyforwomen) To learn more about therapy and get on one of our waitlists, reach out to Therapy for Women Center, therapyforwomencenter.com. We have therapists licensed in 43 states across the country and have offices if you are local to the Philadelphia area.

Licensed therapists, Amanda White, LPC and Sam Dalton, LCSW have a conversation about the public's reaction to celebrity relationships and breakups, focusing on the recent reunion and divorce of Jennifer Lopez and Ben Affleck. It delves into the pressure and expectations placed on celebrities and the projection of our own desires onto their relationships.

The hosts discuss the impact of social media and the creation of parasocial relationships, where we feel connected to celebrities despite not knowing them personally. They also touch on the need for permanence in relationships and the challenges of navigating public perception. Overall, the conversation highlights the importance of recognizing our own attachments and understanding that celebrity relationships do not define our own experiences.

In this conversation, Sam and Amanda discuss the complexities of being single and the grief that can come with it. They explore the concept of parasocial relationships and how they can both validate and challenge our life choices. If you would like us to answer your question call us at 813-444-8683. Follow us on Instagram or Tiktok- Sam (@Sam.the.therapist) Amanda (@Therapyforwomen) To learn more about therapy and get on one of our waitlists, reach out to Therapy for Women Center, therapyforwomencenter.com. We have therapists licensed in 43 states across the country and have offices if you are local to the Philadelphia area.

In this episode of the Nuance Needed podcast, Amanda White, LPC and Sam Dalton, LCSW delve into the complex topic of family estrangement, exploring its rising prevalence among younger generations and its seeming trend on social media. We discuss the generational differences in parenting styles, the impact of trauma, and the importance of accountability and repair in relationships.

The conversation emphasizes the validity of individual experiences and the emotional layers involved in the decision to go no contact with family members. In this conversation, we explore into the complexities of family relationships, particularly focusing on the concept of 'no contact' as a potential solution for those struggling with difficult familial dynamics and what you should think about if you have been toying with going no contact or low contact with your own family.

We discuss the nuances of estrangement, the importance of current relationships, and the emotional toll that decisions regarding family can take. We emphasize that there is no one-size-fits-all answer and give suggestions for how you can engage in careful consideration and self-reflection. We also touch on the impact of social media on family dynamics and the importance of setting boundaries while navigating these relationships. As always, we explore this controversial topic with a whole lot of nuance. Enjoy!

In this episode, licensed therapists Amanda White and Sam Dalton, we explore the pervasive impact of all-or-nothing thinking in our digital world and how to find balance amidst the extremes. Through personal stories (including Sam's endearing confession about her fear of whales), we dive into how social media algorithms reward black-and-white thinking and extreme takes, making it challenging to maintain nuanced perspectives. We share our own struggles with content consumption - from Amanda's climate change spirals to Sam's political doom-scrolling - while acknowledging that even as therapists trained in recognizing cognitive distortions, we're not immune to these patterns.

The conversation takes several amusing turns as we discuss our different ways of finding joy online, from Broadway content to Taylor Swift videos, while exploring deeper themes about hope, activism, and meaningful engagement. We examine how to shift from passive content consumption to active, intentional engagement with social media, and share practical strategies for maintaining mental well-being in our digital world.

Along the way, we explore the importance of knowing your values and recognizing when you need to step back from overwhelming content. We wrap up with actionable homework for listeners about values exploration and challenging rigid thinking patterns.

Have questions or topics you'd like us to discuss? Call our podcast hotline at 813-444-8683. Follow us on Instagram or Tiktok- Sam (@Sam.the.therapist) Amanda (@Therapyforwomen) To learn more about therapy reach out to Therapy for Women Center, therapyforwomencenter.com. We have therapists licensed in 43 states across the country and have offices if you are local to the Philadelphia area.

In this conversation, Amanda and Sam discuss the topic of whether or not to have children. They explore their own experiences and Amanda shares her perspective on being someone who was not sure if she wanted children and how she decided she wanted one. Now she shares her experience form the other side-- specifically the challenges and joys that come with it.

We also touch on the importance of individual choice and the need to prioritize personal values and well-being when making decisions about having children. The conversation explores the challenges and decisions surrounding parenthood. It highlights the importance of having support, flexibility, and financial stability as a parent. We discuss the need for self-reflection and self-acceptance when making decisions about parenthood and emphasize that there is no right or wrong choice.

We encourage listeners to give themselves breathing room and make choices that align with their values and desires. If you would like more on this topic, find Amanda's substack "Fence Sitter". https://amandaewhite.substack.com/.

If you would like us to answer your question call us at 813-444-8683. Follow us on Instagram or Tiktok- Sam (@Sam.the.therapist) Amanda (@Therapyforwomen) To learn more about therapy and get on one of our waitlists, reach out to Therapy for Women Center, therapyforwomencenter.com. We have therapists licensed in 43 states across the country and have offices if you are local to the Philadelphia area.

In this episode of the Nuance Needed podcast, Amanda White, LPC and Sam Dalton, LCSW delve into the complexities of being single in today's society. We discuss the cultural shift towards women choosing to remain single, the empowerment that comes with financial independence, and the challenges of navigating relationships while maintaining personal ambition.

As some may know, Sam has been single for a long time, while Amanda is married, so this conversation is a really great balance of sharing Sam's best tips on how to enjoy your life being single (even if you want a partner), while also sharing with Amanda what she wishes her partnered friends knew. Our conversation highlights the importance of self-discovery, finding fulfillment in one's own life, and embracing vulnerability.

We touch on societal expectations and the loneliness that can accompany being single, ultimately encouraging listeners to focus on their own desires and aspirations. We also discuss the complexities of navigating different seasons of life, the importance of embracing the present moment, and the challenges of loneliness and societal pressures. They discuss how to build a fulfilling life, maintain friendships through changes, and the reality of negative emotions that persist regardless of life circumstances. As always, we embrace this topic with a whole lot of nuance and really think this episode will benefit whether you are single or partnered!

Want to prevent estrangement in your kids? This is the second part of our conversation with Whitney Goodman, LMFT. For the first part, please listen to the "Calling Home" podcast. In the first part of this conversation, we cover, what social media gets wrong about parental estrangement and what the nuance is that is missing online. In this second part of the conversation, we discuss.

- How becoming a parent has impacted how Whitney and Amanda see parental estrangement

- The single most important thing you can do to prevent estrangement with your child

- How to repair with your child (or anyone), when you make a mistake

Want to join the conversation? EMAIL- info@therapyforwomencenter.com or LEAVE US A MESSAGE at 813-444-8683. Follow us on Instagram or Tiktok- Sam (@Sam.the.therapist) Amanda (@Therapyforwomen) To learn more about therapy reach out to Therapy for Women Center, therapyforwomencenter.com. We have therapists licensed in 42 states across the country and have offices if you are local to the Philadelphia area.

Whitney Goodman, LMFT is a licensed therapist and the founder of Calling Home, a community for adults who want to have better relationships with their family. To join check out www.callinghome.co or check out Whitney on instagram www.instagram.com/sitwithwhit

Has "setting boundaries" turned into an excuse for treating people like they're disposable? We're seeing a concerning trend in our therapy rooms: people are using self-care language to justify ghosting, dishonesty, and basic human decency.

In conversation, we tackle:

• The wild disconnect between how we treat strangers IRL vs. potential partners online
• Why your "I don't owe anyone anything" mindset might be sabotaging your chances at real connection
• The uncomfortable truth about why you're really keeping those dating app matches around
• How friend groups can enable poor behavior (yes, we're looking at those "slay queen" responses)
• What evolution and psychology tell us about why we actually DO need each other
• Tips for how to maintain boundaries while also being a more caring person

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Want to join the conversation?

EMAIL- info@therapyforwomencenter.com or LEAVE US A MESSAGE at 813-444-8683.

Follow us on Instagram or Tiktok- Sam (@Sam.the.therapist) Amanda (@Therapyforwomen)

To learn more about therapy reach out to Therapy for Women Center, therapyforwomencenter.com. We have therapists licensed in 42 states across the country and have offices if you are local to the Philadelphia area.

In this raw and personal bonus episode, Sam and Amanda process their feelings on Inauguration Day, sharing a candid conversation about:

• Dealing with political anxiety and finding hope amid uncertainty
• Sam's experiences working in healthcare during COVID-19, including confronting conspiracy theorists and managing the hospital's COVID response
• The importance of local government and understanding political structures that remain in place
• Historical perspectives on social movements and resistance
• Practical ways to take action while maintaining mental health
• The balance between acknowledging difficult realities and maintaining hope

Want to join the conversation? CALL us at 813-444-8683 or EMAIL info@therapyforwomencenter.com Follow us on Instagram or Tiktok- Sam (@Sam.the.therapist) Amanda (@Therapyforwomen)

To learn more about therapy reach out to Therapy for Women Center, therapyforwomencenter.com. We have therapists licensed in 42 states across the country and have offices if you are local to the Philadelphia area.

In this candid episode, therapists Sam and Amanda discuss Sam's recent experience with a TikTok going viral. After posting about friendship and flaking culture, Sam faced unexpected backlash leading to a broader conversation about social media, nuance, and connection in today's world. The hosts explore:

• How legitimate concerns about accessibility and mental health can sometimes be weaponized to avoid discomfort
• The erosion of our collective ability to say "this doesn't apply to me" and keep scrolling
• The importance of maintaining friendships despite busy lives and different life stages
• Practical ways to maintain connections when you have limited capacity
• The difference between genuine barriers to connection and avoidance
• How social media has complicated our expectations for socializing
• The long-term investment of friendship and why it matters.

Want to join the conversation? EMAIL- info@therapyforwomencenter.com or LEAVE US A MESSAGE at 813-444-8683.

Follow us on Instagram or TikTok- Sam (@Sam.the.therapist) Amanda (@Therapyforwomen)

To learn more about therapy reach out to Therapy for Women Center, therapyforwomencenter.com. We have therapists licensed in 42 states across the country and have offices if you are local to the Philadelphia area.

In this episode of the Nuance Needed podcast, Amanda and Sam delve into their favorite mental health advice and life lessons. They explore the concept of numbing emotions, the importance of yoga and mindfulness in personal growth, and the significance of understanding one's emotions through interoception.

The conversation emphasizes the need for self-advocacy, embracing both good and bad experiences, and living intentionally by considering how one's future self would respond to challenges. In this conversation, Amanda and Sam explore the importance of morning routines, self-care, and finding stability amidst chaos.

• 0:40-13:40 You cannot selectively numb.
• 13:47-35:50 How would future me want to respond to this?

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Want to join the conversation? EMAIL- info@therapyforwomencenter.com or LEAVE US A MESSAGE at 813-444-8683.

Follow us on Instagram or Tiktok- Sam (@Sam.the.therapist) Amanda (@Therapyforwomen)

To learn more about therapy reach out to Therapy for Women Center, therapyforwomencenter.com. We have therapists licensed in 42 states across the country and have offices if you are local to the Philadelphia area.

In this episode of the Nuance Needed podcast, Amanda and Sam share their best mental health tips, focusing on the importance of understanding emotions, accountability, and self-reflection. They discuss how current feelings can distort perceptions of the past and future, and emphasize the need for personal responsibility in navigating life's challenges. The conversation highlights the significance of recognizing one's role in various dynamics and the power of reframing thoughts to foster personal growth and emotional well-being.

• 1:10-8:09 How you feel right now, is not how you will feel in the future.
• 10:50-21:35 How do you contribute to the dynamics you are in?
• 21:36-28:07 You can commit to make things right once you know better.
• 28:30-42:02 You don't eat the fruit the day you plant the seed.

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We hate resolutions, but we love setting realistic goals. In this episode, we discuss their thoughts on the New Year, resolutions, and explore the difference between resolutions and goals, emphasizing the need for planning and the impact of shame on personal progress. The conversation also touches on the significance of specificity in goal setting and building a healthy relationship with food.

We explore the distinction between resolutions and goals, emphasizing the importance of setting realistic and relevant objectives that align with personal values. We also discuss the significance of celebrating progress, understanding the motivations behind goals, and the necessity of meeting oneself where they are in their journey of self-improvement.

Want to join the conversation? Call us at 813-444-8683 or email info@therapyforwomencenter.com Follow us on Instagram or Tiktok- Sam (@Sam.the.therapist) Amanda (@Therapyforwomen) To learn more about therapy reach out to Therapy for Women Center, therapyforwomencenter.com. We have therapists licensed in 42 states across the country and have offices if you are local to the Philadelphia area.

In this holiday episode of the Nuance Needed podcast, Amanda and Sam discuss the emotional complexities of the holiday season, offering insights on how to navigate feelings of pressure and sadness. They emphasize the importance of self-care, finding comfort in traditions, and the freedom to enjoy the holidays in a way that feels right for each individual. The conversation also touches on the New Year, encouraging listeners to embrace the present without the burden of resolutions.

Want to join the conversation? Call us at 813-444-8683. Follow us on Instagram or Tiktok- Sam (@Sam.the.therapist) Amanda (@Therapyforwomen) To learn more about therapy reach out to Therapy for Women Center, therapyforwomencenter.com. We have therapists licensed in 43 states across the country and have offices if you are local to the Philadelphia area.

How are we feeling post Eras Tour? Amanda and Sam delve into the aftermath of Taylor Swift's Eras Tour, discussing the mixed reactions from fans, the overwhelming conspiracy theories, and the pressures of celebrity culture. We explore the expectations set by Taylor's performances, the marketing strategies surrounding her music releases, and the need for more nuanced discussions within the fandom.

We delve into the multifaceted world of Taylor Swift, exploring her artistry, the complexities of her lyrics, and the intense dynamics of her fandom. We use this as a jumping off point to discsuss how to break out of black and white thinking, and add more naunce into our lives. We hope you enjoy this lighter episode during an often stressful time of year!

Want to join the conversation? Call us at 813-444-8683. Follow us on Instagram or Tiktok- Sam (@Sam.the.therapist) Amanda (@Therapyforwomen) To learn more about therapy reach out to Therapy for Women Center, therapyforwomencenter.com. We have therapists licensed in 42 states across the country and have offices if you are local to the Philadelphia area.

How exactly do people change? In this episode we dive deep into the messy reality of personal change, sharing Sam's recent cross-country move from Utah to Florida as a launching point to explore how real transformation happens. We discuss our professional and personal experiences with change, challenging the common misconception that change should feel good or comfortable. From Sam's enlightening moment in Kensington Gardens to our collective understanding of the five stages of change, we unpack why the "storm" of emotions - including anxiety, grief, and uncertainty - isn't a sign you're making the wrong choice, but rather evidence that you're doing the necessary work.

We explore why people get stuck in the contemplation phase, constantly gathering data and waiting to feel "ready." Through personal stories and professional insights, we emphasize how change requires sitting with discomfort and learning to trust yourself, even when it feels counterintuitive. The conversation weaves between practical advice and deeper reflections on how societal expectations, especially for women, can keep us from honoring our true needs.

Want to join the conversation? Call us at 813-444-8683. Follow us on Instagram or Tiktok- Sam (@Sam.the.therapist) Amanda (@Therapyforwomen) To learn more about therapy reach out to Therapy for Women Center, therapyforwomencenter.com. We have therapists licensed in 43 states across the country and have offices if you are local to the Philadelphia area.

Is your commitment to being perfect or good actually the enemy of your growth? In this episode we discuss:

- The subtle ways perfectionism masquerades as preparation and protection

- How perfectionism can become a form of self-harm and procrastination

- The connection (and important differences) between perfectionism and people-pleasing

- Why letting go of perfectionism can feel like losing your foundation

- The role of defensiveness in maintaining perfectionist behaviors

- How social media has transformed perfectionism from an internal to an external expectation.

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Want to join the conversation? EMAIL- info@therapyforwomencenter.com or LEAVE US A MESSAGE at 813-444-8683. We’d love to hear what you think!

Follow us on Instagram or Tiktok- Sam (@Sam.the.therapist) Amanda (@Therapyforwomen) To learn more about therapy reach out to Therapy for Women Center, therapyforwomencenter.com. We have therapists licensed in 42 states across the country and have offices if you are local to the Philadelphia area.

Buckle up! We get radically candid about our own (very different) journeys with people-pleasing. We share:

* How Amanda discovered her "thoughtful gift-giving" was actually manipulation to avoid accountability

* Why Sam's role as a childhood caregiver shaped her people-pleasing patterns

* How Sam learned to stop apologizing for existing

* Their personal struggles with being "the nice one"

* Why they both ended up becoming therapists for the "wrong" reasons

* The uncomfortable truth about using "niceness" as control

* What happens when your whole identity is built on being agreeable

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Want to join the conversation? EMAIL- info@therapyforwomencenter.com or LEAVE US A MESSAGE at 813-444-8683. We’d love to hear what you think!

Follow us on Instagram or Tiktok- Sam (@Sam.the.therapist) Amanda (@Therapyforwomen) To learn more about therapy reach out to Therapy for Women Center, therapyforwomencenter.com. We have therapists licensed in 42 states across the country and have offices if you are local to the Philadelphia area.

Tired of understanding all your patterns but still feeling stuck? In this episode, we're diving into the uncomfortable truth about why all that self-help content and therapy insight isn't actually changing your life.

In conversation, we tackle:

• Why being "the self-aware friend" might be your newest form of avoidance
• How instant access to information is making us worse at solving our own problems
• Why validation without action is just spicy procrastination
• The uncomfortable truth about why therapy isn't just about feeling seen
• What your endless TikTok scrolling says about your fear of change
• How technology is teaching us to avoid sitting with hard emotions
• Why waiting to feel "ready" means waiting forever
• The difference between productive discomfort and tolerating what needs to change
• Practical steps for moving from understanding to action

Want to join the conversation? EMAIL- info@therapyforwomencenter.com or LEAVE US A MESSAGE at 813-444-8683. We’d love to hear what you think!

Follow us on Instagram or Tiktok- Sam (@Sam.the.therapist) Amanda (@Therapyforwomen) To learn more about therapy reach out to Therapy for Women Center, therapyforwomencenter.com. We have therapists licensed in 42 states across the country and have offices if you are local to the Philadelphia area.

Ready to get uncomfortably honest about why being "the nice one" is leaving you feeling resentful? This is part 2 of our people pleasing episode. Go listen to the first episode before diving into this one!

In conversation, we tackle:

* The exhausting cycle of expecting people to read your mind

* How avoiding conflict actually creates MORE conflict

* Why assertiveness feels like aggression when you're used to people pleasing

* Sam’s experience learning to stop apologizing for existing

* How resentment builds when you don't express your needs

* Why your passive aggression isn't as subtle as you think

* The freedom that comes from letting people be upset with you

* Amanda's story of making amends at Wawa

Want to join the conversation? EMAIL- info@therapyforwomencenter.com or LEAVE US A MESSAGE at 813-444-8683. We’d love to hear what you think!

Follow us on Instagram or Tiktok- Sam (@Sam.the.therapist) Amanda (@Therapyforwomen) To learn more about therapy reach out to Therapy for Women Center, therapyforwomencenter.com. We have therapists licensed in 42 states across the country and have offices if you are local to the Philadelphia area.

Tired of oversimplified self help advice? US TOO! Today we are diving into our controversial take on why we don't like the "Let Them" theory by Mel Robbins.

Listen to hear...

- The problematic oversimplification in viral mental health theories

- Why the original "Let Them" poem by Cassie Phillips carries more depth and nuance

- The problem with shame-based approaches to personal development

- The difference between temporary inspiration and lasting transformation

- The inherent privilege in telling someone to "just let them"

- What we actually recommend INSTEAD

Want to join the conversation? EMAIL- info@therapyforwomencenter.com or LEAVE US A MESSAGE at 813-444-8683. We’d love to hear what you think!

Follow us on Instagram or Tiktok- Sam (@Sam.the.therapist) Amanda (@Therapyforwomen) To learn more about therapy reach out to Therapy for Women Center, therapyforwomencenter.com. We have therapists licensed in 42 states across the country and have offices if you are local to the Philadelphia area.

Kate Kennedy, author of One in a Millenial and host of Be There in Five Podcast, is here (!!) for a deep dive into how friendship has fundamentally changed since our own childhoods, and what that means for the next generation.

In conversation, we explore:

- The lost art of unstructured playtime and being bored

- The "no sleepovers" trend

- How social media has changed the experience of being left out

- What happens when every moment needs to be "enriching"

-What its like being a millenial content creator in the age of clickbait

And so much more!!

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Kate Kennedy is the author of the NYT Bestselling Book, One in a Millennial, now available in paperback. She is also the host of the Be There in Five Podcast!

We are here today with a bit of a last minute casual episode. We recorded this on Thursday April 3rd after watching panic and anxiety on social media and thought it may be helpful to hear Sam give Amanda a pep talk to calm her down about the current state of the country. Skip if you aren't interested in political content.

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IDK about you but we have THOUGHTS about SkinnyTok trend on Tiktok and how its infiltrating other social media platforms. In this episode, we're diving into the why this trend is problematic and how it's impacting our relationship with our bodies and food.

In conversation, we tackle:

- Why glorifying thinness as the ultimate goal is a dangerous path to self-hate

- How phrases like "nothing tastes as good as skinny feels" are eating disorder dog whistles

- The misrepresentation of body positivity and intuitive eating concepts

- Some influencers behind this harmful trend and their tactics

- Why basing happiness on appearance creates a foundation that inevitably crumbles

- The connection between SkinnyTok and other conservative-rooted trends

- Practical ways to approach content that inspires rather than influences

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What happens when the trendy concept of "manifesting" collides with real-life tragedy? In this vulnerable episode, we start discussing manifesting and end up deep in conversation about grief, caregiving, and finding meaning when life doesn't go as planned.

In this episode, we explore:

- The problem with manifesting coaches who claim "if something negative is happening to you, you're just not manifesting hard enough"

- How easily manifesting can slip into harmful magical thinking, especially during crisis moments

- Sam's experience with prayer and spirituality from her religious background and how it parallels manifesting concept

- Amanda's current struggle with magical thinking as she has navigated her mom’s cancer diagnosis

- The complex reality of being a lifelong caregiver for a disabled family member and the emotional toll it takes

- Finding moments of joy and meaning even in life's darkest times

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When did telling a friend about a tough time become "trauma dumping"? In this episode, we dissect how misusing therapy concepts is creating barriers to authentic friendship.

In conversation, we tackle:

• The viral text where someone got accused of "trauma dumping" for simply mentioning their grandmother died
• What trauma dumping ACTUALLY is vs. how it's being misused to shut down normal conversations
• Why you CAN'T trauma dump on your therapist (that's literally what they're there for!)
• How "annoyance is the price you pay for community" might be the most important relationship concept we've forgotten
• How Amanda and Sam balance their friendship in different life stages, and our real thoughts on how if single women and moms can be friends
• Amanda's strategy for overcoming chronic flakiness when you don't feel like showing up

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Want to join the conversation? EMAIL- podcast@therapyforwomencenter.com or LEAVE US A MESSAGE at 813-444-8683. We’d love to hear what you think!

In this preview episode of Sam's History Corner, Sam shares why she's launching this special series on Substack and gives us a deep dive into the life of Eleanor Roosevelt.

In this episode, Sam explores:

Eleanor Roosevelt's tragic childhood marked by parental loss and emotional abuse

- Why Eleanor's lifelong insecurities never stopped her from taking meaningful action

- How we can apply Eleanor's approach to making change in our own -lives

- The importance of starting where you are—whether that's with family or community

- Why concrete action matters more than online outrage

This monthly series is where Sam discusses inspiring people from history to use as inspiration, is available on the Nuance Needed Substack, along with weekly videos from Sam, bonus episodes, mental health guides and more. Join us at nuanceneeded.substack.com

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Want to join the conversation? EMAIL- podcast@therapyforwomencenter.com or LEAVE US A MESSAGE at 813-444-8683. We’d love to hear what you think!

Tired of hearing everyone labeled a "narcissist"? In this episode with therapist Britt Frank, we're diving into the nuanced reality of narcissism and why this term is both overused and misunderstood.

In conversation, we tackle:

* Why labeling everyone a "narcissist" gives too many people too much credit

* The key difference between narcissism, being narcissistic, and actually having NPD

* The "Narcissist Relationship Matrix" - how narcissists create distinct categories for people in their lives

* Why confusion is the #1 sign you might be dealing with narcissism

* The difference between lying and gaslighting

* Why narcissists never truly discard their "primary source of supply"

* The empowering truth: rather than asking "why did they do that?" ask "what am I tolerating?"

Britt Frank, MSW, LSCSW, SEP, is a clinician, educator, and trauma specialist. She is the author of the bestselling book, “The Science of Stuck.” GET HER NEW BOOK , available for preorder, “Align Your Mind” anywhere you get books.

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When you're completely depleted, even the smallest decisions feel impossible. In Part 2, we tackle your most pressing questions about recognizing, navigating, and recovering from burnout.

In Part 2, we discuss:

* The crucial difference between "cosmetic" changes and "structural" problems at work

* Why adding self-care tasks can feel like poison when you're exhausted (but it's actually medicine)

* How to support someone with burnout

* The uncomfortable truth about making changes when you have no energy left to make them

* Why we need to treat burnout like a physical injury

* How setting boundaries with news and social media creates crucial breathing room

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Is the world rigged for burnout or are we just not trying hard enough?

In this episode, we unpack why we're collectively exhausted and how our connected world has created the perfect conditions for burnout to thrive - in ways our brains simply weren't designed to handle This is a two part episode- second one comes out tomorrow!

In Part 1, we explore:

* Why our brains aren't wired to process information about billions of people

* How constant exposure to others' interpretations (not just facts) is draining our capacity

* The vulnerability of living in uncertain times and what that does to our nervous systems

* Sam's powerful story of trauma and burnout in hospital emergency settings

* Why measuring your worth through productivity makes burnout an identity crisis

* What happens when you've been running on empty for too long

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Skip to minute 11 to get right into burnout content

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Tired of the oversimplified financial advice flooding social media? In this episode, we're diving into the uncomfortable truth about why money management is 10% math and 90% emotional intelligence with Chelsea Fagan, founder of The Financial Diet.

In conversation, we tackle:

* How growing up in a low-income household surrounded by affluence shaped Chelsea's complicated relationship with money

* Why you can't have stable mental health when you're financially unstable

* The problem with analysis paralysis around money decisions and practical first steps for those feeling overwhelmed

* How social media creates unrealistic timelines for financial milestones, making people feel they should be financially set by their 30s

* Why "relatability" online often reinforces bad financial habits, even among high-earning content creators

* Why understanding money is less about mathematical skills and more about emotional regulation

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Guest Bio: Chelsea Fagan is the founder of The Financial Diet, a media company focused on money. She brings nuanced perspectives to personal finance, steering away from the oversimplifications common in financial advice. Find her on social media @faganchelsea and at thefinancialdiet.com.

In this deeply personal episode, Sam shares her experience growing up Mormon in New York and her eventual move to Utah, where she spent 15 years navigating a much more intense religious culture. In conversation, we explore:

- Sam's unique experience as a "non-Utah Mormon" and how her family's more relaxed approach differed from the mainstream

- The cultural quirks of Mormonism that most people don't understand (like special undergarments and dating pressure)

- How personal choices about substances (coffee, alcohol, cigarettes) are influenced by religious upbringing

- The overwhelming pressure to marry young and have children in Mormon culture

- What it's like trying to build a social life in Utah when you don't fit the traditional Mormon template

- The gradual realization that trying to make it work wasn't serving her anymore

This candid conversation sheds light on the subtle ways high-demand religious cultures can shape identity and limit personal growth, even when you're trying to carve your own path within them.

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Is the 'cool girl’ trope just a patriarchal trap designed to exhaust women? Amanda and Sam tackle this question while sharing their drastically different approaches to being unpopular in school.

In conversation, we explore:

• The phenomenon of "coolness" and how it shapes our identities
• How social media has created a never-ending popularity contest that extends far beyond high school
• Breaking down the iconic Gone Girl monologue that perfectly captured women's impossible balancing act
• How maintaining "coolness" requires constant adaptation to rapidly shifting trends
• Finding liberation in recognizing these systems and choosing what actually works for you

This revealing discussion examines how we internalize cultural pressures and the freedom that comes when we finally stop trying so hard to fit impossible standards.

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In the second part of our conversation about Sam's Mormon deconstruction, we dive into her emotional journey leaving Utah and the church. In conversation, we explore:

- The powerful moment of driving away from Utah and feeling unprecedented relief

- The unexpected grief that followed - not about leaving, but about staying so long

- The complicated process of deciding what beliefs and values to keep versus discard

- How to rebuild trust with yourself after leaving a high-demand religious environment

- Finding peace with being a "late bloomer" and embracing a more authentic life

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When did raising children become a high-stakes competitive sport? In this extremely nuanced conversation, we are examining the culture of intensive parenting from a parent (Amanda) and a non-parent (Sam). In this conversation, we tackle:

* How social media algorithms reinforce parental anxiety by promoting rigid, conflicting approaches

* The rise of intensive parenting and the pressure to optimize every aspect of childhood

* The confusion around "gentle parenting" and why it often slides into permissive parenting

* Amanda's experience navigating food choices with her toddler while healing from her own eating disorder

* The suffocating pressure on mothers that begins during pregnancy and only intensifies after birth

* How fear of judgment keeps parents from sharing their real experiences and decisions

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Tired of the stigma and oversimplification around BPD? In this episode with trauma therapist Britt Frank, we're diving into why this controversial diagnosis deserves a complete rethinking.

In conversation, we tackle:

* Why BPD may be better understood as a response to trauma rather than a "personality disorder"

* How clinicians' fear of "difficult clients" perpetuates harmful stigmas

* The problematic gender bias in BPD diagnosis (it's diagnosed predominantly in women)

* The problem with social media creating identity around mental health diagnoses

* Why suicidality needs to be discussed openly rather than feared

* Why Britt believes recovery is possible, despite what clinical wisdom suggests

Britt Frank, MSW, LSCSW, SEP, is a clinician, educator, and trauma specialist. She is the author of the bestselling book, “The Science of Stuck.” GET HER NEW BOOK, “Align Your Mind” anywhere you get books.

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Skip to minute 11 to get right into burnout content

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Feeling exhausted despite your nightly "relaxation" routine? In this episode, Sam challenges our collective delusion about what true rest actually looks like in a world of constant stimulation.

In conversation, we explore:

• Why your "cool girl summer" aesthetic might be missing the most important element: actual rest
• The uncomfortable truth about how scrolling TikTok is stimulation, not recovery
• How we've mistaken digital consumption for downtime and why it's depleting us
• The critical difference between brain stimulation and genuine nervous system recovery
• Why even "self-care" can become another performance when it's aestheticized for social media
• Practical strategies for creating technology boundaries that actually work
• How to identify activities that provide true restoration versus those that just look restful
• Sam's personal approach to balancing comfort shows with genuine disconnection
• Why reading a physical book might be the revolutionary act your brain is craving

This episode invites you to consider a "soft girl self-care, non-technology based aesthetic" for summer—focusing on what nurtures you rather than what looks good online.

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What’s really happening behind the dreamy farmhouse aesthetic of tradwife content? In this episode with journalist Jo Piazza, we're exploring the complex reality behind the perfectly curated images of traditional womanhood.

In conversation, we tackle:

* Why tradwives are a "political branding machine designed to make women participate in their own oppression"

* How many of these women are renting houses, staging content, and creating fake versions of their lives

* Why conservative groups have been funding and boosting tradwife content for nearly a decade

* The hypocrisy of tradwife influencers benefiting from feminist progress while trying to deny it to others

* How Mormon women became some of the earliest and most successful mom influencers

* What we can all do to combat these dangerous narratives while still respecting women's actual choices

Jo Piazza is a journalist and author. Her new book, EVERYONE IS LYING TO YOU, is about Trad Wives and is out next month!

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Today we examine the explosion of "shadow work" content on social media and why psychological tools in untrained hands may do more harm than good.

* The commercialization of shadow work through viral journals, courses, and TikTok content

* How spiritual coaches adopt psychological concepts without proper training or oversight

* The origins of shadow work in Jungian psychology and its connection to modern therapy

* Why "opening wounds" without proper guidance for integration can leave people worse off

* The powerful scalpel metaphor: "Just because you have a surgical tool doesn't mean you know how to use it"

* How to approach self-help tools with appropriate caution while seeking proper support

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Ever wanted a therapist's take on reality TV? In this episode, we're breaking down "The Secret Lives of Mormon Wives”. We discuss-

* The emotional immaturity masked as empowerment

* The missed opportunity to explore the repressive religious culture these women were raised in

* Why claiming to "change the world" while engaging in manufactured drama feels particularly hollow

* How that barbecue scene with Taylor's family perfectly encapsulates Mormon toxicity and gender double standards

* The problem with filming vulnerable moments (like therapy sessions) without proper context or follow-through

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How do we raise children who can navigate life's challenges when our instinct is to protect them from every discomfort? We are not parenting experts, but Amanda is a parent and together we come up with some ideas for how we may be able to parent without losing our minds and falling into intensive parenting.

In this conversation, we tackle:

* The "harbor and ship" metaphor: how parents can provide a safe port while allowing children to venture into the world

* How our cultural fear of risk has limited children's independence and growth opportunities

* Why parenting choices are so much more scrutinized and criminalized for mothers than fathers

* How the erosion of community and third spaces has isolated parents and made raising children harder

* The cruel irony of a society that claims to value families while providing minimal support

This very nuanced episode offers a more balanced vision of parenting—one that acknowledges both the challenges of modern parenthood and the importance of allowing children to develop the skills they need to thrive.

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Want to join the conversation? EMAIL- podcast@therapyforwomencenter.com or LEAVE US A MESSAGE at 813-444-8683. We’d love to hear what you think!