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This is Part 1 of a 2-part series where Shannon dives into why uncertainty can feel overwhelming for children on the autism spectrum and how it often leads to escalating behaviors like hyperactivity, meltdowns, or resistance. She shares relatable stories from families and explains how disrupted routines and unpredictable situations, like holiday chaos, can amplify anxiety for our kids.

In this episode, Shannon unpacks strategies for creating a sense of predictability, including mental maps, structured routines, and sensory tools to help your child feel more secure. You’ll gain practical tips to navigate these challenging moments and be reminded that even when it feels hard, you are doing AMAZING at this mom thing.

Don’t miss this insightful discussion about understanding your child’s behavior and preparing for the follow-up episode next week in part 2 where we’ll explore resistance and opposition even further!

Tune in for encouragement, strategies, and the reminder that you’re stronger than you think. 💙

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⁠74. You Cannot Fix All the Things ALL the Time

201. Breaking Barriers; Why Low Expectations Hold Our Kids Back

Being a mom is hard, but being a mom to a child on the autism spectrum? That’s a whole new level of challenging.

In this episode, Shannon dives into the pressure many of us feel as we strive to be “perfect” and why striving for perfection often leads to burnout and frustration.

She shares personal stories from her journey with Jordan, including the early years of isolation and what she’s learned about the importance of community, self-care, and letting go of comparison. From advocating effectively for your child to rediscovering your own identity, this episode is packed with relatable scenarios and actionable tips to help you find balance.

Remember, your child doesn’t need a perfect mom—they need a happy, present one. Tune in to learn how to thrive on this unexpected parenting journey while still taking care of yourself.

Tune in for encouragement, strategies, and the reminder that you’re stronger than you think. 💙

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⁠74. You Cannot Fix All the Things ALL the Time

201. Breaking Barriers; Why Low Expectations Hold Our Kids Back

In this episode of Not Your Average Autism Mom, Shannon dives into one of the most challenging aspects of raising a child on the spectrum—managing behaviors. With heartfelt stories from her own journey as Jordan’s mom and insights from moms in the NYAAM community, she explores how to balance understanding and validating your child while setting clear boundaries and expectations.

Shannon shares practical strategies for managing meltdowns, teaching replacement behaviors, and building your resilience muscle along the way. You’ll learn why it’s okay not to have all the answers and how every twist and turn is an opportunity for growth—for both you and your child.

Whether you’re navigating aggression, sensory challenges, or emotional outbursts, this episode reminds you that you’re not alone. Together, you and your child will figure it out, one step at a time.

And as always, YOU, Mama, are doing AMAZING at this MOM thing.

Tune in for encouragement, strategies, and the reminder that you’re stronger than you think. 💙

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⁠110. Have You Ever Secretly Hated Autism?

181. Impulse IQ; The Maze of Impulsivity

In this episode of the Not Your Average Autism Mom podcast, Shannon dives into the fascinating and often puzzling world of sensory processing, exploring the touch avoidance/seeking paradox many autistic children experience. Why does your child cringe at the light touch of water from the shower but crave the firm pressure of a tight hug? How can they both avoid touch and seek it out?

Shannon breaks down the science behind these seemingly contradictory behaviors and shares real-life examples to help you understand your child’s unique sensory needs.

From morning dressing struggles to navigating touch sensitivities in public, Shannon provides practical strategies to help you build trust, respect boundaries, and support your child’s sensory processing in a way that works for your family. Whether your child is clingy, cautious, or somewhere in between, this episode is packed with insights and tools to help you better connect with them.

Every episode will give you encouragement, insights, and actionable advice to help you keep going, stay strong, and never give up. You’ve got this!

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⁠79. Uncharted Territory in Special Education⁠

⁠133. Beyond Helicopter Parenting, Fostering Independence

In this episode of Not Your Average Autism Mom, Shannon dives into the world of vocal stimming, a common yet often misunderstood behavior in autism. Vocal stimming—whether it’s humming, repeating words, or making rhythmic sounds—can serve many purposes, from regulating sensory input to expressing emotions or simply exploring the joy of sound.

Shannon unpacks why vocal stimming happens, what it means for our kids, and how we can manage those moments when it feels overwhelming. She shares practical strategies for creating boundaries, modeling verbal thinking, and finding alternatives, all while respecting the vital role vocal stimming plays in our children’s lives.

Whether your child hums, scripts, or just loves making sounds, this episode will help you understand their world a little better and provide you with tools to navigate those noisy but meaningful moments.

Tune in and remember, you're not alone on this journey—Shannon is here to support you every step of the way.

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⁠Episode 146. The Myth of “One Day”; Spectrum of Strengths⁠

⁠Episode 149. Parenting Imperfectly; Guilt Free Zone

In this episode, Shannon explores all-or-nothing thinking in children with autism—a mindset often labeled as rigid or inflexible but one that also comes with unique strengths. This way of seeing the world can be challenging, leading to meltdowns when things don’t go as planned, but it can also be a source of focus and determination in areas of passion. Shannon shares real-life examples of how black-and-white thinking can impact daily life and provides practical strategies to help parents guide their children through moments of rigidity.

You'll learn tools for preparing for transitions, calming techniques, and ways to encourage flexibility over time gently.

Remember, not everything will go right every time—and that’s okay. This episode is all about embracing the journey, finding strength in the challenges, and continuing to believe in your child and yourself, no matter what.

Tune in and find encouragement, practical advice, and a reminder that you’re not alone on this path.

Listen now and learn how to embrace your child's emotional world!

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157. Reframing Defeat; Your Child’s Progress is Closer Than You Think

83. Assessing Your Child’s IEP

In this episode, host, Shannon Urquiola gets into strategies for keeping your autistic child motivated to learn. Many children on the spectrum aren't driven by traditional praise or external rewards, so it's essential to tap into what truly motivates them—their interests and strengths.

We'll explore using your child's favorite activities and skills to make learning fun and meaningful. From tailoring lessons to their learning style to pacing new information in a way that feels comfortable, this episode is packed with practical tips and real-life examples to help you teach in a way that works for them.

Whether you're tackling homework or just everyday learning, you'll walk away with actionable strategies to boost your child's motivation and engagement.

Tune in for insights that can make learning a more positive and successful experience for you and your child!

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156. Disconnect to Reconnect; The Impact of Screen Addiction

79. Uncharted Territory in Special Education

In this episode, we dive into the importance of teaching self-awareness to children on the autism spectrum. When children understand their unique strengths and challenges, they are better equipped to navigate a world that often feels confusing or overwhelming.

I’ll explore how early conversations about autism can build confidence and lead to successful self-advocacy as they grow. From practical strategies for breaking down sensory, social, and emotional differences to preparing your child for independence, this episode is packed with insights to help your child thrive.

Join Shannon as we discuss why self-awareness is the key to unlocking your child’s full potential.

If you found value in today’s episode, please take a moment to leave a review and share it with other moms who need this message. And don’t forget to sign up for our FREE webinar, "Finding Strength and Resilience: A Mom's Guide to Autism Parenting," where she’ll dive deeper into strategies to help you build strength, resilience, and balance in your life.

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196. The Social Side of Autism; Myths, Facts and Reality

161. The Resilient Parent; Reframing the Journey

In this episode of Not Your Average Autism Mom, host Shannon Urquiola challenges the common phrase, “They can’t,” and explores how low expectations can hold autistic children—both boys and girls—back more than their diagnosis ever will.

Shannon unpacks the myths surrounding autism and intelligence, sharing real-life examples of individuals who’ve shattered labels and exceeded expectations.

You’ll learn practical strategies for supporting your child’s development, including the power of reframing “They can’t” into “They don’t... yet,” using visual supports, individualized instruction, and incorporating sensory breaks. Shannon highlights the critical role that mindset and high expectations play in helping your child, no matter their gender, reach their full potential.

Join Shannon for an inspiring conversation about raising the bar for your child and believing in their abilities, no matter what others might say. Whether you have a son or daughter on the spectrum, this episode will remind you to stop saying “They can’t” and start believing in “They will.”

Tune in for encouragement, insights, and actionable advice to help you keep going, stay strong, and never give up. You’ve got this!

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70. What Do You Make Their Behavior Mean?

124. What To Do When They Say No (Special Education Edition)

Welcome to the 200th episode of Not Your Average Autism Mom! In this special milestone episode, Shannon dives deep into what it means to not just survive, but thrive as a mom raising a child on the autism spectrum.  

Shannon dives deep into a topic that resonates with many moms raising children on the autism spectrum—the longing for the "old" you, the person you were before autism entered your life. With compassion and understanding, Shannon explores the daily choice of acceptance and how to find strength and joy in this unplanned parenting journey.

Life can feel chaotic, overwhelming, and exhausting, but today Shannon shares how you can find balance, peace, and strength amidst the daily challenges. Through relatable scenarios and practical strategies, this episode offers encouragement and insights to help you navigate the overwhelming and isolating moments.

Discover why you might not be destined to return to your old self and how embracing the new you can be empowering and beneficial.

Don't miss this emotional and uplifting episode designed to remind you that you are stronger than you think, and you are exactly who your child needs.

If you found value in today’s episode, please take a moment to leave a review and share it with other moms who need this message. And don’t forget to sign up for our FREE webinar, "Finding Strength and Resilience: A Mom's Guide to Autism Parenting," where she’ll dive deeper into strategies to help you build strength, resilience, and balance in your life.

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129. Getting a Grip on Escalating Behaviors

158. Navigating Hygiene Struggles; Path to Cleanliness

In this episode of Not Your Average Autism Mom, we’re tackling the whirlwind of fast emotions and intense behaviors that can overwhelm children on the autism spectrum. When your child goes from calm to chaotic in an instant, how do you help them slow down and stay regulated? Today, we’re diving into practical strategies, including the powerful technique of “pacing.”

Learn how matching your child’s intensity with calmness can make a huge difference in both emotional and behavioral regulation. We’ll break down easy-to-apply methods to keep your child grounded and connected while helping them manage those big emotions.

Tune in for encouragement, insights, and actionable advice to help you keep going, stay strong, and never give up. You’ve got this!

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85. Understanding Pragmatic Language

170. The Ripple Effect; Skill-Building Secrets

In this episode, we explore why autistic children may respond to emotions and social cues differently and how these differences show up in everyday life. From missing non-verbal cues to leaning on logic over emotion, autistic kids process the world uniquely—and that’s okay. We’ll dive into specific examples of how this might look in your parenting journey and give you practical strategies to better understand your child’s emotional responses. Whether it’s delayed reactions, difficulty expressing feelings, or offering problem-solving instead of comfort, you’ll gain insights on how to navigate these moments with compassion and clarity.

Tune in to discover how to build stronger communication and connection with your autistic child, one step at a time.

Listen now and learn how to embrace your child's emotional world!

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157. Reframing Defeat; Your Child’s Progress is Closer Than You Think

83. Assessing Your Child’s IEP

In this episode of the Not Your Average Autism Mom podcast, we’re tackling an often uncomfortable but incredibly important topic: sexual curiosity in our autistic children. As our kids grow, they naturally become curious about their bodies and the bodies of others. But for children on the spectrum, understanding boundaries and social norms around these behaviors can be especially challenging.

Today, we’re discussing how to handle situations where “show me and I’ll show you” games might come into play, and why it’s critical to address these moments early on. I’ll share practical strategies for having open, positive conversations about sexuality, teaching boundaries, and ensuring our kids understand the difference between what’s appropriate in private versus public spaces. Plus, we’ll talk about when it might be time to seek professional help for more complex situations.

This is not an easy subject, but it’s one we need to be prepared for. Join me as we navigate this together, giving our children the knowledge and guidance they need to explore safely and confidently.

Tune in for encouragement, insights, and actionable advice to help you keep going, stay strong, and never give up. You’ve got this!

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143. Social Expectations vs Autism Reality

70. What Do You Make Their Behavior Mean

In this episode of Not Your Average Autism Mom podcast, we tackle a common misconception: the idea that someone can be "too social" to be autistic.

Autism looks different for everyone, and social interaction isn’t as simple as being shy or outgoing. We’ll explore how many autistic individuals enjoy socializing but might struggle with the unwritten social rules, like picking up on cues or managing group dynamics.

In this episode, your host, Shannon Urquiola shares real-life examples, breaks down why social skills development may require direct teaching, and offers practical tips for parents to help their children navigate social situations with confidence. Whether your child craves social interaction or feels overwhelmed by it, this episode will help you understand how to support them in building meaningful connections.

Tune in to learn why the "too social for autism" myth is outdated, and how you can advocate for your child's unique way of interacting with the world.

Every episode will give you encouragement, insights, and actionable advice to help you keep going, stay strong, and never give up. You’ve got this!

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⁠143. Social Expectations vs Autism Reality⁠

⁠70. What Do You Make Their Behavior Mean

Join Shannon in this insightful episode of "Not Your Average Autism Mom" as she explores the powerful impact of shifting your focus from negative behaviors to positive ones.

Discover practical strategies that have helped countless families create a more harmonious home environment by celebrating and reinforcing their children's successes.

From documenting daily positives to creating a "Me" book and setting up success moments, Shannon provides real-life examples and expert advice to help you transform your parenting journey.

Tune in to learn how spotlighting the positive can reduce challenging behaviors, boost your child's confidence, and build stronger bonds. Don't miss out on these valuable tips that can make a world of difference for you and your child.

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56. Pushing the Boundaries of Routine

In this episode of the Not Your Average Autism Mom podcast, we tackle the complex and often puzzling topic of regression in autism. Regression can be a challenging part of the autism journey, where children may lose skills they previously acquired, such as language, social abilities, or motor functions.

Join us as we explore what regression looks like, share real-life examples, and provide practical strategies to help your child regain their skills and confidence.

We’ll discuss ways to support your child through this phase, from speech therapy and visual aids to creating a safe environment and managing stress. Remember, regression is often a part of the journey, and with patience, understanding, and the right tools, you and your child can navigate through it successfully. Tune in for encouragement, insights, and actionable advice to help you keep going, stay strong, and never give up. You’ve got this!

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143. Social Expectations vs Autism Reality

70. What Do You Make Their Behavior Mean

In this episode of the Not Your Average Autism Mom podcast, Shannon dives into the often confusing and challenging topic of manic behaviors in children with autism. Manic behaviors, such as impulsivity, repetitive activities, sleep disturbances, and increased stimming, can be overwhelming for both the child and their family.

Shannon breaks down these behaviors, providing specific examples and practical strategies to help manage and support your child. From creating a safe environment for impulsive actions to establishing calming bedtime routines, this episode offers a wealth of insights and actionable tips.

Join Shannon as she navigates the highs and lows of manic episodes, helping you better understand and support your child's unique needs. Whether you're dealing with constant pacing, pressured speech, or intense irritability, this episode is packed with valuable information to make your parenting journey a bit smoother. Tune in and remember, you're not alone on this journey—Shannon is here to support you every step of the way.

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Episode 146. The Myth of “One Day”; Spectrum of Strengths

Episode 149. Parenting Imperfectly; Guilt Free Zone

In this heartfelt episode of the Not Your Average Autism Mom podcast, Shannon dives into the diverse and unique ways autism can manifest in our children's lives. Inspired by a powerful piece shared by Cassandra Papich, Shannon shares real-life experiences and examples from her journey with her son Jordan, highlighting the wide spectrum of autism.

From communication challenges to sensory experiences, physical expressions, and behavioral variations, Shannon explores the many faces of autism with honesty and positivity. She discusses the struggles and triumphs of raising a child on the spectrum, offering encouragement and understanding to fellow autism moms.

Join Shannon as she celebrates the small victories, embraces the quirks, and finds pride in the journey of raising an autistic child. This episode is a reminder that every child with autism brings unique joy and immense pride, making the parenting journey truly special.

Tune in for an episode filled with real stories, practical insights, and heartfelt support for all the amazing autism moms out there.

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⁠⁠Episode 126. I Know you Have Asked... Autism or ?⁠⁠

⁠⁠Episode 161. The Resilient Parent; Reframing the Journey⁠

In this episode of Not Your Average Autism Mom, Shannon dives into the fascinating world of splinter skills in autism. These unique abilities, often impressive and puzzling, can be both a source of pride and frustration for parents.

Shannon explains what splinter skills are, why they occur, and how they manifest in our children. From hyperlexia to extraordinary memory, she provides real-life examples that many parents will recognize.

Join Shannon as she explores strategies to support your child’s splinter skills, helping them bridge the gap between isolated talents and practical, everyday applications. Learn how to celebrate your child’s unique abilities while fostering a broader understanding and skill set.

Whether your child can recite entire movie scripts or solve complex math problems, this episode offers insights and actionable advice to help you navigate and support their developmental journey.

Tune in to discover how to turn your child’s splinter skills into strengths and create meaningful connections in their learning and growth. Don’t miss this enlightening and supportive discussion, perfect for any parent looking to understand and embrace the unique aspects of autism.

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⁠Episode 96. Our Parenting Journey is Different⁠

⁠Episode 74. You Cannot Fix All the Things All the Time⁠

In our final Best Of Summer Series episode, your host, Shannon Urquiola dives into a critical issue that many parents and caregivers face: the impact of electronics on our kids and the risk of screen addiction. This topic is especially relevant for families raising children on the autism spectrum, who can be particularly vulnerable to the negative aspects of excessive screen time.

Have you ever questioned the effects of social media, YouTube videos, and video games on your child's overall well-being? Do you find yourself encouraging them to go outside or read, only to see them choose screens over everything else? You're not alone. Shannon explores these common concerns, emphasizing that while electronics and the internet can be valuable tools, offering learning opportunities, connections, and entertainment, they also come with significant downsides.

In this episode, Shannon discusses the pros and cons of screen time, highlighting how some families have discovered that the benefits of unplugging far outweigh the challenges. She addresses the issue of children, especially those on the spectrum, getting lost in a never-ending rabbit hole of screen time, missing out on real-life experiences.

Shannon shares practical strategies and tools to help parents manage their children's screen time effectively, creating a healthier balance. This episode serves as a guide to understanding the impact of electronics on kids and offers actionable advice for fostering better habits.

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• Episode 7: Electronics and the Benefits of Screen Time Limits
• Episode 72: Ripping the Band-Aid Off on Electronics

Tune in to gain insights on managing screen time and creating a supportive environment for your child's unique needs.

In this episode, host Shannon Urquiola, Life and Parent Coach, goes deep into the unique dynamics parents face when raising autistic children, especially when their parenting styles don't align. Parenthood is often described as a rollercoaster of emotions, and it takes a unique turn when partners find themselves on opposite ends of the parenting spectrum.

Are your differences in parenting currently a source of negativity and conflict in your relationship? Shannon explores this common scenario, where one parent often takes the lead in research and advocacy, while the other may have different perspectives on their child's behavior. Emphasizing the importance of unity in parenting, Shannon discusses the three main parenting styles: authoritarian, permissive, and authoritative.

Recognizing and embracing each partner's parenting style is key. Shannon highlights the power of self-awareness and the willingness to adapt, noting that meaningful change starts with oneself. She also addresses how childhood experiences impact parenting styles, discussing how parents may unconsciously recreate or react against their upbringing.

Listeners will gain practical strategies and actionable goals for fostering a healthy relationship between parents, including effective communication, private discussions, and avoiding disagreements in front of children. This episode serves as a guide for parents raising autistic children, offering a roadmap to navigate challenges, promote unity, and create a supportive environment for their child's unique needs.

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115. Judgment and Parent Shaming

89. Calming Down BIG Emotions

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In this Best Of Summer Series episode, we tackle the complex topic of societal expectations and social norms, particularly how they affect families raising children on the autism spectrum. Our society often values conformity and can overlook individual differences, which can be challenging for our kids.

Social norms are the unwritten rules that dictate appropriate behavior in interactions. Neurotypical children usually pick up these norms naturally through observation, but for children on the spectrum, these social cues can be confusing and overwhelming. Understanding personal space, appropriate touch, and suitable conversation topics can be particularly difficult, leading to misunderstandings and sometimes negative perceptions from others.

These societal expectations can take a toll on families like ours, causing emotional, mental, and even physical strain. Striving to meet these norms can leave parents feeling anxious, isolated, and worried that their child may be judged or excluded.

But there's hope. By shifting our perspective and advocating for awareness, we can pave the way for a more inclusive and understanding world. Challenging societal expectations and promoting acceptance is crucial. As parents, we have the power to shape the lives of our children and unlock their fullest potential with unwavering belief in their abilities.

If you're looking for strategies and tools to improve your life on this autism parenting journey, consider joining Not Your Average Autism Mom. We offer the best online resources for moms raising autistic children, including training on Special Education, live Zoom calls with advocates, and a private community for connection and support.

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⁠145. Differently Wired; A Glimpse Into Autism Parenting

⁠109. Why Waiting is So Difficult⁠

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Together, we can build a more compassionate and inclusive society for our children.

In this episode of our Best Of Summer Series, your host, Shannon Urquiola discusses processing speed and how it impacts our children on the autism spectrum. Processing speed is the time it takes for someone to take in information, make sense of it, and respond. This can be visual, auditory, or related to motor planning.

For many of our children, processing speed can be a significant challenge. They might struggle with tasks that seem simple to others, like reading, listening, or physical activities such as tying their shoes. It's important to understand that slow processing speed isn't about intelligence. In fact, many very intelligent people process information slowly. It's just the way their brains work.

Unfortunately, slow processing can affect many areas of their lives, including social interactions and school performance. People might mistakenly think that our kids are unmotivated, lazy, or unfocused, but that's usually not the case.

In this episode, we'll explore how to support our kids by slowing down and adopting a less rushed approach to life. Sometimes, the best thing we can do is allow them to be themselves and move at their own pace. This understanding can make a huge difference in their confidence and overall well-being.

Tune in to learn more about how we can create a supportive environment for our children and help them thrive.

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93. When Your Autistic Child Isn't Your Only Child

⁠139. Summer Survival; Successfully Navigating Summer

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In this "Best of Summer Series" episode, host Shannon Urquiola talks about the common challenge of perseveration in children on the autism spectrum.

Perseveration, or getting stuck on a particular behavior, activity, or thought, can be a source of frustration for both parents and children.

Shannon explores the reasons behind this phenomenon, emphasizing the weak executive functions in the frontal cortex of the brain that often contribute to the difficulty in shifting focus.

Drawing from personal experiences and expert advice, the episode provides practical strategies for parents. From using warnings and visual timers to creating concrete endings and incorporating oneself into the child's activity, Shannon shares actionable tips for easing transitions.

The episode highlights the importance of understanding that perseveration is a neurological challenge, requiring gentle assistance rather than demanding an immediate stop.

Furthermore, Shannon addresses the emotional toll perseveration can take on parents and offers self-care strategies.

The episode closes with a message of support, reminding listeners that they are not alone in facing these challenges and encouraging a sense of community strength.

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158. Navigating Hygiene Struggles; Path to Cleanliness

109. Why Waiting is So Difficult

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In this episode of the Not Your Average Autism Mom podcast, Shannon talks about a topic that is often confusing and sometimes problematic, labels of "high functioning" and "low functioning" autism. She explains why these terms can be misleading and shares practical strategies for parents to support their children regardless of these labels.

Shannon begins by encouraging parents of young children showing developmental delays to seek support immediately, without waiting for a formal diagnosis. She emphasizes that the label "autism" alone doesn't provide a complete picture of a child's abilities or challenges.

The episode highlights common scenarios, such as the variability in functioning labels among school-aged children and the misunderstandings that can arise from them. Shannon shares stories of children who are labeled "high functioning" yet face severe autistic traits and those labeled "low functioning" who possess remarkable cognitive abilities once given the right communication tools.

Listeners are reminded of the importance of assuming competence in their children and focusing on their unique needs and strengths. Shannon also discusses the daily variability in autism and provides strategies for managing these fluctuations.

Tune in for an insightful discussion that challenges common misconceptions about autism and offers practical advice for supporting your child's growth and development. Whether your child is labeled "high functioning" or "low functioning," this episode will inspire you to see beyond the labels and believe in your child's potential.

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Join Shannon as she uncovers (3) hidden truths you need along this parenting journey you weren't prepared for.

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⁠109. Why Waiting is So Difficult⁠ 

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In episode 189 of the Not Your Average Autism Mom podcast, Shannon tackles the challenging topic of explosive behavior as a form of escape behavior in children with autism. She explains why these behaviors often occur due to frustration, sensory overload, or discomfort and highlights the importance of understanding why your children feel the need to escape.

Shannon shares practical strategies for managing these behaviors, including lowering demands, providing support, and teaching alternative communication, such as using words or hand signals to indicate the need for a break or help. She emphasizes the importance of matching interaction styles to the child's needs and reinforcing new, appropriate behaviors through consistent practice and positive reinforcement.

By adjusting the environment and reinforcing appropriate behaviors, you can help your children feel more in control and less overwhelmed. Shannon emphasizes the need for patience and consistency, reminding listeners that progress takes time and consistency, but reassures you that you are doing amazing on this sometimes challenging journey.

Tune in to learn effective ways to navigate and manage explosive behaviors while supporting your child's unique needs.

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Episode 168. Navigating the Autistic Brain; A Complex Journey⁠

⁠Episode 165. Confidence in Uncertainty; Finding Strength in the Unknown

In this episode of Not Your Average Autism Mom podcast, Shannon tackles a common challenge for many families raising children on the autism spectrum: going out in public. Feeling confined to the safety of home is a familiar struggle, but Shannon shares practical strategies to make outings not only possible but also enjoyable.

Key topics include:

• Sensory Considerations: Use tools like iPods, fidget toys, and strategic seating to minimize sensory overload.
• Special Arrangements: Plan seating and physical space to ensure your child’s comfort.
• Handling Waiting Times: Bring activities to occupy your child and reduce wait times by planning ahead.
• Clarify and Verify: Use visual supports and clear communication to explain the outing's steps.
• Preview and Review: Create picture stories to prepare and review outings with your child.
• Giving a Sense of Control: Involve your child in the outing process to reduce anxiety.
• Preparing for Overwhelm: Develop a proactive plan to handle overwhelming situations.
• Reaction Strategies: Have a plan for addressing unanticipated behavior challenges.
• Graded Exposure: Gradually increase the complexity of outings to build confidence and success.

Join Shannon as she shares these valuable insights and encourages families to take small, manageable steps toward successful community integration.

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⁠Episode 96. Our Parenting Journey is Different⁠

⁠Episode 74. You Cannot Fix All the Things All the Time⁠ 

In this episode of the Not Your Average Autism Mom podcast, we're tackling the ups and downs of video gaming for children on the autism spectrum. Video games can be both a source of joy and frustration, providing excitement and a sense of control but also leading to emotional meltdowns when things don't go as planned. We dive into why video games are so appealing to autistic children and discuss the challenges they face when playing.

Key topics covered include:

• Understanding the Appeal: Why video games are so engaging for children on the spectrum.
• Setting Boundaries: How to gradually reduce gaming time and set clear expectations.
• Emotional Regulation: Strategies to help your child manage their emotions during and after gaming.
• Managing Game Complexity: Identifying which games cause more frustration and how to handle it.
• Teaching Coping Skills: Using video games as a tool to teach emotional control and frustration tolerance.
• Partnering in Play: Playing alongside your child to coach them through challenging game stages.
• Building Competency: Focusing on positive reinforcement and building your child's coping skills.

Join us as we share practical tips and real-life scenarios to help you navigate the world of video games with your autistic child. With these strategies, you can turn gaming time into an opportunity for growth and learning.

Tune in to learn more about managing video game frustrations and helping your child enjoy their gaming time while also developing essential life skills.

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⁠⁠Episode 124. What to Do When They Say No [SPECIAL EDUCATION EDITION]⁠⁠

⁠⁠Episode 27. Special Education Things You Should Know [SPECIAL EDUCATION EDITION]⁠

⁠Episode 35. Early Intervention and IFSP Explained [SPECIAL EDUCATION EDITION]⁠

⁠Episode 73. Let's Clear Up the Confusion About Category of Eligibility [SPECIAL EDUCATION EDITION]

Join host Shannon Urquiola on the Not Your Average Autism Mom podcast as she explores the theme of embracing the unexpected on the journey of autism parenting. Think of this episode as the encouragement and pep talk you need on a tough day.

In this episode, Shannon shares her personal experiences and insights, from the initial fear and uncertainty of receiving her son's diagnosis to the unexpected joys and blessings that have unfolded along the way.

Shannon highlights the strength found in community, and the redefinition of success in the autism journey. She also discusses the challenges faced and the resilience cultivated, emphasizing the celebration of uniqueness and the joy and happiness found in embracing the unexpected.

Tune in to discover how embracing the unexpected can transform your perspective, and gain inspiration and encouragement for your autism parenting journey.

Join us as we navigate the complexities of parenthood, finding joy amidst the highs and lows, and embracing the extraordinary in the not-so-ordinary. 💙

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127. Seeing the Forest through the Trees

137. Explaining Our Children's Differences

In this episode of the Not Your Average Autism Mom podcast, Shannon talks about autistic meltdowns and shutdowns—two very different ways that kids on the autism spectrum might react when things get too overwhelming.

She helps listeners spot the signs of each and understand what causes them.

Shannon shares helpful ways to handle these tough situations, giving advice for both right when they happen and for the long run. Whether your child has loud, upset reactions or goes very quiet and withdrawn, this episode gives you practical advice to help them through these times.

Tune in to learn how to support your child with kindness and understanding, making sure they feel safe and supported.

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⁠129. Getting a Grip on Escalating Behaviors⁠

⁠124. What to do When They Say No (Special Education Edition)

In this episode of the Not Your Average Autism Mom podcast, Shannon gets passionate about building independence and ways you can begin teaching independence through everyday things.

She discussed the importance of teaching life skills from early childhood through the teenage years, highlighting the potential consequences of neglecting this aspect.

Throughout the episode, she shares practical strategies and real-life examples to guide you in supporting your children's journey toward independence.

From establishing routines and incorporating life skills into play to introducing chores and responsibilities, she provides actionable tips for you, regardless of where you are along your journey.

By the end of the episode, you will have gained a deeper understanding of the significance of promoting independence and will leave with concrete strategies to implement at home.

Join us as we navigate the complexities of parenthood, finding joy amidst the highs and lows, and embracing the extraordinary in the not-so-ordinary. 💙

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⁠141. The Lying Paradox; Exploring Truth & Autism ⁠

⁠139. Summer Survival; Successfully Navigate Summer

In this episode of the Not Your Average Autism Mom podcast, host Shannon Urquiola explores the concept of acceptance in the context of parenting children on the autism spectrum.

She discusses how accepting your child's diagnosis changes the trajectory of parenthood and reshapes the plans you once had.

Then she shares the concept of secondary losses - the unforeseen shifts and changes that accompany your journey. From the loss of certain milestones and expectations to the shift in social circles and relationships, she shares the impact of these secondary losses on your life.

Despite the challenges, you will find resilience, strength, and joy in the unexpected twists and turns of this parenting journey you weren't prepared for.

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127. Seeing the Forest through the Trees

137. Explaining Our Children's Differences

In Episode 182 of Not Your Average Autism Mom Podcast, we explore the complexities of sharing your child's autism diagnosis with others. This episode addresses the tough questions that arise as well as the conversations that may come up.

Host Shannon Urquiola navigates the intricacies of disclosure, discussing when, why, and how parents should share this information with family, friends, and caregivers. Drawing from personal experiences and expert insights, Shannon offers practical advice for handling this sensitive topic.

Listeners will gain valuable insights into the potential benefits and challenges of disclosure, as well as strategies for managing both positive and negative reactions from those they confide in. From dispelling myths to navigating meaningful conversations, this episode highlights the importance of autism awareness and understanding within our inner circles.

Join us as we unravel the autism disclosure dilemma and empower parents to make informed decisions that best support their child's unique journey. Tune in for heartfelt discussions, expert tips, and compassionate guidance on this vital aspect of the autism parenting experience.

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⁠150. From Struggles to Strength; Relationship Survival Guide

⁠136. The Truth About Being Triggered⁠

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In this episode of the Not Your Average Autism Mom Podcast, host, Shannon Urquiola goes pretty deep into the complex topic of impulse control in individuals with autism.

Shannon provides valuable insights into understanding impulsivity and its impact on daily life for both children, parents, teachers, and caregivers. Exploring practical strategies, she discussed the importance of consistency, patience, and finding personalized approaches to help manage impulsivity effectively.

Additionally, the episode covered the role of medications in addressing impulsive behaviors, emphasizing the importance of careful consideration and professional guidance. Whether you're seeking practical tips or a deeper understanding of impulsivity, this episode provides valuable guidance and support.

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⁠177. From Anxious to Assured; The Q & A Maze⁠

⁠173. Front Seat Chronicles; Your Passengers Make a Difference

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In this episode of the "Not Your Average Autism Mom Podcast," host Shannon Urquiola goes deep into the intricate world of autism processing, exploring the differences between intellectual and emotional realms.

Listeners gain a deeper understanding of the cognitive differences between these two worlds, as Shannon expertly unpacks scenarios faced by autism moms and offers practical strategies for successful navigation.

From communicating emotional needs to managing sensory overload, each scenario is met with thoughtful guidance aimed at fostering understanding, connection, and empowerment.

Throughout the episode, Shannon emphasizes the importance of bridging the gap between emotional and intellectual processing, advocating for empathy, acceptance, and collaboration within the autism community and beyond.

With engaging anecdotes, expert insights, and actionable advice, "Bridging Emotional and Intellectual Worlds" leaves listeners inspired to embrace the diversity of the autism spectrum and build meaningful connections.

Tune in to this insightful episode to gain a deeper understanding of autism processing and discover practical tips for navigating the unique challenges and opportunities it presents.

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⁠Episode 148: Shifting Perspective; Looking Through A Different Lens⁠

⁠Episode 48. Differentiating a Speech Delay and/or Autism

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In Episode 179 of the Not Your Average Autism Mom Podcast, host Shannon Urquiola dives into the world of understanding and addressing stressors for children on the autism spectrum.

Shannon breaks down the seven common stressors faced by these children, including sensory challenges, level of interest, uncertainty, degree of control, performance demands, social demands, and length of time. She explores real-life scenarios where these stressors might show up and provides practical examples and strategies to support our children proactively.

Listeners learn how to recognize and lessen sensory overload, navigate uncertainties, provide their children with a sense of control, and ease social and performance-related stressors. Shannon emphasizes the importance of understanding and accommodating these stressors to set our children up for success in various environments.

When you can assess the stressors and plan appropriate accommodations, you can help your children navigate challenges with confidence and resilience.

For Not Your Average Autism Mom members, there is a 7-Stressors Worksheet for you to download in the portal in the Behavior Support section that will help you figure out potential stressors in different situations and plan appropriate accommodations.

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Is the educational journey overwhelming and confusing for you?  Our member portal has an array of training and resources with everything you need to know about Special Education and you can join LIVE ZOOM calls with an Advocate to get any of your specific questions answered.  

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These are our most downloaded Special Education Editions.

We have these and many others too. It's important you understand what your expectations should and shouldn't be.

⁠Episode 124. What to Do When They Say No [SPECIAL EDUCATION EDITION]⁠

⁠Episode 27. Special Education Things You Should Know [SPECIAL EDUCATION EDITION]

Episode 35. Early Intervention and IFSP Explained [SPECIAL EDUCATION EDITION]

Episode 73. Let's Clear Up the Confusion About Category of Eligibility [SPECIAL EDUCATION EDITION]

In episode 178 of the "Not Your Average Autism Mom Podcast," host Shannon Urquiola dives into the complexities of Pathological Demand Avoidance (PDA) within the autism spectrum.

Shannon emphasizes why a specific PDA diagnosis isn't always paramount when autism is already in the picture. She walks listeners through common scenarios, parents, may encounter, offering practical strategies for navigating the challenges associated with severe avoidance and anxiety.

The episode explores the fear of uncertainty, unexpected events, and the need for control that often characterizes the behavior of children with PDA or intense anxiety within autism. Shannon provides real-life examples to illustrate these concepts, helping parents relate to the daily struggles they might face. She dives into the importance of understanding and respecting a child's comfort zone, regardless of the diagnostic label, and highlights the significance of collaboration over control.

Throughout the episode, Shannon provides specific strategies for parents, emphasizing the importance of predictability, consistency, and reducing external pressure. She addresses the performance anxiety and social challenges these children may encounter, offering valuable insights into building trust and minimizing meltdowns.

In the end, the episode encourages parents to focus on the unique needs of their children, emphasizing collaboration, understanding, and support. Whether dealing with PDA or severe anxiety within autism, this episode serves as a guide for parents navigating the intricate world of their extraordinary children.

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141. The Lying Paradox; Exploring Truth and Autism

162. From Silence to Celebration; A Rollercoaster of Emotions

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In this episode of the Not Your Average Autism Mom Podcast, your host, Shannon Urquiola is talking about the complex world of repeated questioning in our autistic children.

As parents, we know firsthand the exhaustion and frustration that can come with hearing the same question over and over again. But why do our children engage in this behavior, and how can we lessen its impact on both them and you?

Shannon explores the various reasons behind repeated questioning, from seeking reassurance to managing anticipatory anxiety or simply craving attention. Understanding the underlying motives is crucial in developing effective strategies to address this behavior.

She discusses how repeated questioning impacts your emotional well-being and the importance of validating your child's attempt to communicate.

The heart of this episode lies in practical strategies. I'll guide you through techniques that reduce questioning and build communication. Shannon talks about the power of reciprocal interaction, providing answers that go beyond a simple 'yes' or 'no,' and expanding on topics to redirect your child's attention.

Moreover, we discuss the emotional toll repeated questioning can take on parents and offer self-care strategies to maintain our well-being amidst the challenges. By fostering open communication, setting realistic expectations, and prioritizing our own needs, we can navigate this journey with resilience and compassion.

Tune in as we embark on a journey to transform frustration into connection, one question at a time.

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57. The Benefits of Setting Boundaries

53. Rigid Thinking and the Inability to be Flexible

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In this episode of the Not Your Average Autism Mom Podcast, host Shannon Urquiola digs into the complex world of socialization within the autism spectrum.

Shannon explores the diverse social interests and preferences among autistic individuals, shedding light on the challenges they face in navigating social interactions while also emphasizing the beauty of their unique perspectives.

Drawing from personal experiences and insights from autistic adults, she discusses the detrimental effects of conforming to neurotypical social norms, commonly referred to as "masking." She highlights the exhaustion, anxiety, and loss of self-identity that often accompany efforts to suppress autistic tendencies in favor of fitting in.

However, Shannon also offers hope and practical strategies for parents and caregivers. She emphasizes the importance of understanding each child's strengths, interests, and comfort zones when it comes to social connections.

Throughout the episode, she emphasizes the power of authenticity over conformity, urging listeners to embrace the unique qualities of their child and celebrate their diverse ways of relating to the world.

Tune in to learn how to break free from societal expectations.

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129. Getting a Grip on Escalating Behaviors

124. What to do When They Say No (Special Education Edition)

In this episode of "Not Your Average Autism Mom" podcast, Shannon digs into the challenging world of self-injurious behaviors in children with autism.

We explored the various forms these behaviors can take, from hand/arm biting to head banging, and discussed why they occur, often as a means of releasing stress chemicals when the nervous system becomes overwhelmed.

Throughout the episode, we provided practical strategies for parents and caregivers to address these behaviors effectively.

Listeners learn the importance of identifying triggers and reducing stressors, as well as the value of teaching alternative communication methods for nonverbal children.

We emphasized the need to understand the function the behavior serves and to replace it with healthier alternatives through consistent practice and reinforcement.

By empowering parents with knowledge and actionable steps, we aimed to provide hope and support for families navigating the complexities of autism-related self-injury. Through understanding and compassionate intervention, we can help our children overcome these challenges and thrive.

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127. Seeing the Forest through the Trees

137. Explaining our Children's Differences

In this episode, host Shannon Urquiola goes deep into the complex world of disciplining children on the autism spectrum.

She begins by emphasizing the importance of setting clear boundaries and expectations for all children, particularly for those on the spectrum who may struggle with understanding unwritten social rules.

She provides practical strategies for parents, such as using visual aids and consistent consequences, to help their children navigate these boundaries effectively.

Throughout the episode, Shannon illustrates these strategies with specific scenarios that parents commonly encounter, such as managing public meltdowns and handling homework battles. By empowering parents with practical tools and strategies,

Shannon aims to help you navigate the unique journey of disciplining children on the autism spectrum with confidence, compassion, and above all consistency.

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Episode 148: Shifting Perspective; Looking Through A Different Lens

Episode 48. Differentiating a Speech Delay and/or Autism

In this episode of the Not Your Average Autism Mom Podcast, host Shannon Urquiola takes the wheel and guides you through the essential art of staying in control while parenting a child on the autism spectrum.

Drawing on her expertise as a Life and Parent Coach exclusively for moms on this journey, Shannon explores the metaphorical road trip of autism parenting, emphasizing the importance of being the driver and choosing your passengers wisely.

From teachers and professionals to friends and relatives, Shannon discusses the valuable support you'll encounter along the way.

Discover the importance of positive conversations, maintaining a collaborative spirit, and gracefully letting go of those who hinder your progress. Through relatable examples, Shannon illustrates how to navigate challenges, overcome roadblocks, and celebrate the triumphs of this unique journey.

As the podcast unfolds, Shannon shares practical advice on taking breaks, regrouping, and enjoying the scenic moments with your child. The episode closes with a poignant reminder that this is not a race but a long journey, urging listeners to stay positive, collaborate, and revel in the joy of the ride.

Tune in to gain insights, tips, and a renewed sense of empowerment for your autism parenting journey. Whether you're just starting or further along the road, "Driving with Purpose" offers a roadmap for a fulfilling and positive experience. Don't miss this transformative episode - your front-row seat to navigating the autism journey awaits!

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Episode 96. Our Parenting Journey is Different

Episode 74. You Cannot Fix All the Things All the Time 

In Episode 172 of the Not Your Average Autism Mom Podcast, host Shannon Urquiola talks about the challenges faced by individuals with autism on the journey to self-actualization.

Inspired by her son Jordan, she explores the delicate balance of fitting in while ensuring our loved ones receive the dignity they deserve.

In a world that may perceive them differently, finding this balance is necessary. The struggles, from clothing mishaps to social norms, highlight the unique lens through which individuals with autism experience the world.

As parents, we advocate for embracing diversity while equipping our children with the tools to navigate the world successfully.

A plea goes out to educators, caregivers, and administrators to treat our children with the same care and respect they would afford their own. Collaboration is key, and concerned parents are encouraged to speak up in IEP meetings, seeking support from their teams.

Mindblindness adds complexity to the challenge, emphasizing the importance of respect and fostering self-awareness. The spotlight extends beyond visible struggles to include all children, deserving acceptance and understanding in every environment.

The episode concludes with a reminder that self-awareness is a journey for both parents and children. Reflecting on love, joy, anxieties, fears, passions, and priorities is a vital step in understanding.

Your time with us is valued, and if you found this episode meaningful, please consider leaving a review. Your reviews contribute to spreading awareness and building a supportive community.

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Episode 40. The Impact of Mind Blindness

Episode 64. Self-Injurious Behaviors and Autism

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In this episode, host Shannon Urquiola goes deep into the often misunderstood challenges of self-initiation and sustained attention in autistic children.

Acknowledging the frustration parents may feel when their child appears unmotivated, Shannon emphasizes the importance of understanding these difficulties as linked to executive functioning skills rather than attributing them to laziness.

She provides insights into the workings of the pre-frontal cortex, the brain's command center responsible for managing tasks, making decisions, and regulating emotions.

Shannon explores the hurdles autistic children face in initiating tasks and sustaining attention, highlighting the tendency for misconceptions due to these challenges.

She encourages parents to support their children by breaking down tasks into manageable steps, offering visual checklists, and providing gentle prompts. The paradox of sustained attention is discussed, emphasizing the need to comprehend why children can focus on preferred activities but struggle with seemingly mundane tasks.

Practical strategies for parents are outlined, including building structured schedules, implementing visual morning routines, preparing for transitions, and avoiding assumptions of incompetence.

She shares insights on homework strategies, mealtime challenges, and bedtime routines, offering practical tips to support initiation and sustained attention.

The episode concludes with a call to maintain high expectations for autistic children, advocating for active participation and independence while acknowledging ongoing support needs.

Shannon urges parents to help their children get started but allow them to finish, emphasizing the importance of providing necessary support to navigate their unique brain differences.

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Episode 30. The Eligibility Determination Meeting & The Differences of a 504 Plan and an IEP

Episode 24. STOP Taking Other People's Opinions Personally

In this episode, host Shannon Urquiola takes you on a journey into the world of routine mastery and skill-building for children on the spectrum.

Shannon guides listeners through practical strategies to integrate new skills seamlessly into existing routines.

Discover how to celebrate progress, reward success, and stay motivated in the face of setbacks. Uncover the secrets of being specific and realistic to ensure lasting success.

Join Shannon as she explores the nuances of routine mastery, and shares insights, examples, and tips to create positive changes in your family's life.

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Episode 168. Navigating the Autistic Brain; A Complex Journey

Episode 165. Confidence in Uncertainty; Finding Strength in the Unknown

In this episode, Shannon explores the unique challenges our children on the spectrum face in understanding and navigating the social world.

The episode sheds light on the difficulty some children have in predicting how others think or feel. Shannon provides practical strategies for parents to help their children develop these essential social skills.

The goal is to help our children build the skills necessary to actively engage in social interactions while predicting and adjusting their responses based on an understanding of the social setting.

The episode encourages parents to make the learning process enjoyable, turning it into a game and fostering a mindset of being a "social detective."

Shannon guides parents through things they can do to practice these skills, making the learning process enjoyable for both parents and children.

The episode encourages a fun approach to social learning, emphasizing the role of parents as detectives and social interpreters in their child's journey.

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In Episode 168 of the Not Your Average Autism Mom Podcast, host Shannon Urquiola takes listeners on a fascinating journey into the intricate world of the autistic brain.

The episode begins by unraveling the consequences of overload – impaired processing, deteriorating levels of cognition, and the accumulation of stress chemicals that lead to physical pain and panic. Communication becomes a challenge, with language skills weakening, and attempts to reason often exacerbating the overwhelm. The heightened senses of autistic individuals add an extra layer to this complex experience.

Shannon then introduces the concept of the brain as a circuit, illustrating the relationships between the brain stem, limbic system (emotion center), and frontal cortex (thinking center). The metaphorical racecar encounters a double whammy as poor filtering systems bombard the Limbic System with intense stimulation, while weak connections with the frontal cortex render thinking centers unable to control emotional floods. This dynamic often results in strong emotional reactions.

The explanation of how these dynamics contribute to meltdowns, where processing, thinking, and problem-solving skills fall apart, provides valuable insights into the challenges faced by autistic individuals.

She explores shutdown as a protective mechanism when the brain is overwhelmed. Gradual exposure to stress may lead to a shutdown, where one or more senses close down, and the individual becomes lethargic and unresponsive. Unfortunately, this defensive response is often misread as daydreaming or noncompliance, leading to increased prompting and potential meltdowns.

Listeners are encouraged to embrace a deeper understanding of the autistic experience, recognizing that the challenges are rooted in brain-wiring rather than intentional behavior.

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⁠Episode 96. Our Parenting Journey is Different⁠

⁠Episode 74. You Cannot Fix All the Things All the Time⁠ 

In this episode, we get into one of the most common challenges faced by parents of children with autism: sleep disruptions.

Join host Shannon Urquiola as she provides a comprehensive guide to understanding the intricate relationship between autism and sleep, along with practical tips and strategies to improve your child's sleep and overall well-being.

She explores the impact of sleep disruptions on behavior, talks about common sleep challenges faced by children on the spectrum, and uncovers potential causes that might be keeping your child awake at night.

If you're a parent seeking to enhance your child's well-being through better sleep, this episode is a must-listen. Join us as we navigate the path to more restful nights and happier days.

Tune in now to discover practical strategies and gain valuable insights on how to improve your child's sleep journey.

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Episode 96. Our Parenting Journey is Different

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In this empowering episode of Not Your Average Autism Mom Podcast, host Shannon Urquiola explores a crucial topic: the journey to understand and appreciate the unique neurology of individuals on the autism spectrum.

Inspired by a thought-provoking article titled "Be True to Their Neurology," Shannon discusses the pitfalls of trying to mold individuals with autism into neurotypical expectations.

Delving into the concept of neurology, Shannon emphasizes the importance of embracing the diverse neurological profiles that shape how individuals experience the world.

Listeners are invited to reflect on the profound insights shared in the article, encouraging a shift in perspective towards fostering the strengths inherent in each individual's neurological makeup.

The episode encourages listeners to reflect on the unique neurological profiles we all possess.

As Shannon explores the profound insights from the article, she invites the audience to join the conversation, making this episode a powerful exploration of neurodiversity, authenticity, and the path to true happiness.

This episode invites you to celebrate the uniqueness of the autism spectrum. Join Shannon as she advocates for a world where differences are not just acknowledged but celebrated.

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In Episode 166 of the Not Your Average Autism Mom Podcast, host Shannon Urquiola delves into the common challenge of perseveration in children on the autism spectrum.

Perseveration, or getting stuck on a particular behavior, activity, or thought, can be a source of frustration for both parents and children.

Shannon explores the reasons behind this phenomenon, emphasizing the weak executive functions in the frontal cortex of the brain that often contribute to the difficulty in shifting focus.

Drawing from personal experiences and expert advice, the episode provides practical strategies for parents. From using warnings and visual timers to creating concrete endings and incorporating oneself into the child's activity, Shannon shares actionable tips for easing transitions.

The episode highlights the importance of understanding that perseveration is a neurological challenge, requiring gentle assistance rather than demanding an immediate stop.

Furthermore, Shannon addresses the emotional toll perseveration can take on parents and offers self-care strategies.

The episode closes with a message of support, reminding listeners that they are not alone in facing these challenges and encouraging a sense of community strength.

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