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Not As We Planned
Tash Gershfield & Carly Harris
Frequency: 1 episode/8d. Total Eps: 139
New episodes every Thursday, with exclusive bonus episodes every Monday on Patreon.
Welcome to Not As We Planned, the honest podcast about relationships, dating, marriage, divorce and motherhood, and all the things no one really talks about.
From becoming a mum and navigating divorce, to rebuilding life as a single mum and dating again in your 30s, we’re sharing the real, messy and unexpected sides of it all.
Life doesn’t always go to plan, and neither do relationships. This is a space for open conversations, shared experiences and saying the things most people avoid.
If you have a question or want to share your story, email us at notasweplannedpodcast@gmail.com
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81. Men Are From Mars, Women Are From Venus
Season 1 · Episode 81
jeudi 20 mars 2025 • Duration 42:39
We talk about the difference between mums and dads and how men get praised for doing the bare minimum, getting told your marriage is over with a letter left in the kitchen and we give advice about that first break up after divorce
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80. Are They Swingers?
jeudi 13 mars 2025 • Duration 47:53
We discuss the clues of trying to spot a swinger, finding out your friend was having an affair with your husband and realising it’s time to call it a day with your cheating partner!
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71. We May Be The Villain But They Are The Clowns
jeudi 9 janvier 2025 • Duration 41:16
Tash shares a big update in her relationship, we are hit with a dilemma when you find out your partner cheated on you 2 years ago at the beginning of your relationship, a thank you from a grateful follower for repairing her marriage and realising you chose the wrong man to have a baby with!
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70. If She Asks, Say I Was With You!
jeudi 2 janvier 2025 • Duration 43:41
Happy new year you to all our amazing listeners! We kick off our first episode of 2025 seeing cracks beginning to show in a new relationship and if someone can really put on a front for a year? Going through a breakup after divorce and wondering how to trust again and it’s time to write down that one goal for 2025!!
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69. He’s Unstable
jeudi 19 décembre 2024 • Duration 49:31
Our last episode of 2024, we discuss our 2025 goals, we get a final update from the fuck buddy situationship, knowing you should run a mile but can’t seem to stop and finding out your husband is gay.
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68. And People Say Men Can’t Multitask
Season 1 · Episode 68
jeudi 12 décembre 2024 • Duration 38:37
When you find a new partner but you’re missing the bad boy, a segment of women in male fields, struggling to let go of your abusive ex and we finish with a gorgeous happy ending after a narcissistic relationship.
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67. He Would Shag His Mum If He Could
Season 1 · Episode 67
jeudi 5 décembre 2024 • Duration 40:38
When your partner just ups and leaves for no reason, talking about how divorce doesn’t fuck up the kids, when he leaves you for his ex and hearing from a man who wants our advice on coparenting
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66. I’m a Girlfriend
jeudi 28 novembre 2024 • Duration 42:41
Tash makes an announcement about her relationship, Carly has an emotional birthday, we share some epic hacks you’re going to want to know and a fiancé gets up to no good on his stag!
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65. I Knew He Was Proposing
Season 1 · Episode 65
jeudi 21 novembre 2024 • Duration 46:24
An email that has us disagreeing with the outcome, having someone leave you and blaming it on your weight, how to find hope on dating apps and a confession about a proposal!!!
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64. You’ve been Exposed!!
Season 1 · Episode 64
jeudi 14 novembre 2024 • Duration 39:39
We get a response from the woman who got cheated on by the man who wrote in to us a few weeks ago!!! We get such a warm felt update from an OG, we hear about a swinging holiday and someone’s feedback on taking our advice.
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