Kingdom Sexuality is the Christian sex podcast for married couples who want a thriving, God-honoring sex life.
We’re Alana, Kyle, and Tiera — three friends tackling the questions the church forgot to answer. Through interviews, “sex-timonies,” listener Q&As, and real talk from our own marriages, we’re here to help you grow a fulfilling, passionate, and deeply connected sex life.Kingdom Sexuality. The Christian sex podcast that goes where the church won’t.
Because yes, Christians can talk about sex too!
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219: Q&A: Having Sex in Public, How Often to Have Sex, Initiating with Confidence, Getting Spark Back Postpartum and more
Season 10 · Episode 6
Monday, January 20, 2025 • Duration 31:43
Don't miss our first Q&A of the New Year! It started out as a "throwback" Q&A with Kyle and Alana then Tiera joined in part-way through! The team answers questions like "How do I serve my husband when my desire is low?" and "How often should couples be having sex each week?"- you won't want to miss it!
Links from today’s episode:
Interview with Josh Spurlock
My Counselor Online: You get $25 off your first month when you sign up with our link
Better Help Counseling
Engagement Guide
Wedding Night Guide
Newlywed Guide
Starting Life Together Bundle
Awaken Love Book
180: Pregnancy & Postpartum Q&A!
Question Time Stamps:
2:20- What are your thoughts on “adult-only” resorts?
3:55- How often should you have sex in marriage?
5:25- How to keep the spark alive when engaged and long distance?
6:18- A good first episode to introduce my spouse to the podcast?
7:50- How to get over my nerves initiating with my spouse?
9:50- What advice would you give newlyweds 6 months into marriage?
13:00- How to serve my husband when my desire is low?
18:00- About to get married and don’t know much about sex- any tips?
21:00- Is it okay to want to have sex where the risk of getting caught is very high? (In public)
22:58- How to reignite the intimate life post-baby?
26:12- How much time do you spend on KS each week?
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218: Sex Fasting: What Is It & Why Would You Do It?
Season 10 · Episode 5
Monday, January 13, 2025 • Duration 37:53
Tune into this very special episode where Kyle and his wife Samantha chat about the sex fast they did a few years ago. Was it helpful? Would they do it again? Listen now!
Links from today’s episode:
Kyle’s Sextimony (Episode 94)
"My Husband Was Addicted To Porn" part 1 (Episode 96)
"The Impact Of His Porn Addiction On Me" part 2 (Episode 97)
Jay Stringer’s Book: Unwanted
6 Pillars of Intimacy Book
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209: Does This Count As Porn??
Season 9 · Episode 5
Monday, November 11, 2024 • Duration 26:50
Have you ever asked yourself, after consuming some form of media, "Does this count as porn?". Tune into this episode to hear the KS team unpack this!
Special thanks to Covenant Eyes for sponsoring this episode series on pornography! Use the code KS30 to get your first 30 days free.
Links from today’s episode:
Covenant Eyes: KS30 for your first 30 days free!
Plugged In
IMDB
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197: Masturbation episode
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120: PATRONS CHOICE! Thoughts During Sex
Season 7 · Episode 5
Monday, February 27, 2023 • Duration 41:28
The incredible Kingdom Sexuality patrons were the ones who chose this weeks episode, so a huge THANK YOU to them!!
Do you ever struggle with your thoughts during sex? Thinking about a past relationship experience, something you saw in porn, or even just your mind is wandering thinking about what's for dinner tomorrow?? This episode is for you!
Alana, Kyle, and Tiera chat about what we do when/if we struggle with wrong thoughts during sex or if our mind wanders during intimacy. They also share some tips and things you can do to get your mind back in the zone during sex! The team gets really practical here, sharing simple tips like: make eye contact, be aware of your senses, and how "mindfulness" could also be a big help!
And if you're not already be sure you check Kingdom Sexuality out on Instagram @kingdomsexuality. That's where you'll see even more of the KS content! Weekly sex positions for you to try, connect questions, content geared towards men, and more!! Have a topic suggestion for the team? Send a DM or email them at kingdomsexuality@gmail.com. Don't forget to check out their website www.kingdomsexualityministry.com and the new Facebook Group! They're also on Patreon now! So support Kingdom Sexuality there for some exciting and exclusive perks! And, don't forget to leave them a review on Apple Podcasts!
Links from today's episode:
Come As You Are
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119: Navigating Arousal, the Science of Sexual Desire & more! with Brandi K. Harris
Season 7 · Episode 7
Monday, February 20, 2023 • Duration 52:11
This is an episode you won't want to miss! Alana sits down with Brandi K. Harris, MS, LPC & LMFT. Brandi is a professional counsellor, author, speaker, teacher, and coach and her and Alana dive into all sorts of really good topics. They chat sexual education, when to have "those talks" with your kids, the science behind sexual desire, how to reignite the spark in your marriage, and so much more!! Brandi does a beautiful job of explaining arousal and desire and how these are actually two different things. You can find more of Brandi on Instagram @brandikharris, or check out her website!
And if you're not already be sure you check Kingdom Sexuality out on Instagram @kingdomsexuality. That's where you'll see even more of our content! Weekly sex positions for you to try, connect questions, content geared towards men, and more!! Have a topic suggestion for us? Send a DM or email us at kingdomsexuality@gmail.com. Don't forget to check out our website www.kingdomsexualityministry.com and our new Facebook Group! We're also on Patreon now! So support us there for some exciting and exclusive perks! And, don't forget to leave them a review on Apple Podcasts!
Links from today's episode:
Journal of Adolesence
Come as You Are
Episode 5: Let's Spice It Up!
Jay Stringer: Unwanted
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118: When's and If's of Family Planning with Tiera Reed
Season 7 · Episode 6
Monday, February 13, 2023 • Duration 34:54
Along with being a great episode on the when's and if's of family planning- it's also an exciting episode where Alana and Kyle get to introduce Kingdom Sexuality's NEWEST MEMBER!! Tiera is a wealth of knowledge when it comes to the topic of fertility and women's health and KS is absolutely thrilled to have her apart of the team! Her sextimony will be coming in a few weeks, so this episode doesn't go too in depth into who Tiera is- instead it's an episode where the team chats about "how do you know when you're ready to have kids?" and "how do you know when to be done growing your family?". Questions that KS gets often from followers.
And if you're not already be sure you check Kingdom Sexuality out on Instagram @kingdomsexuality. That's where you'll see even more of our content! Weekly sex positions for you to try, connect questions, content geared towards men, and more!! Have a topic suggestion for us? Send a DM or email us at kingdomsexuality@gmail.com. Don't forget to check out our website www.kingdomsexualityministry.com and our new Facebook Group! We're also on Patreon now! So support us there for some exciting and exclusive perks! And, don't forget to leave them a review on Apple Podcasts!
Kyle and I are SO excited to have Tiera join us on the team. God has brought her to us at the perfect time and we feel so confident that she's the exact person we needed to come alongside us on this beautiful journey. We can't wait for you guys to get to know her better! -Alana
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117: Date Ideas & What if Your Spouse Hates Feb 14th...
Season 7 · Episode 5
Monday, February 6, 2023 • Duration 26:53
In case you were unaware... Valentine's Day is fast approaching! So with that in mind, Alana and Kyle thought it would be a fun idea to share some date night ideas! There's something for those of you who want to stay in, those who want to go out, and those of you who want something spicy. But they don't just end it there, they also touch on something that might be prevalent in your life around this time in February... what if your spouse just isn't into Valentine's Day? How do you navigate that? Where does there need to be compromise and heart inspection? Tune in!
And if you're not already be sure you check Kingdom Sexuality out on Instagram @kingdomsexuality. That's where you'll see even more of our content! Weekly sex positions for you to try, connect questions, content geared towards men, and more!! Have a topic suggestion for us? Send a DM or email us at kingdomsexuality@gmail.com. Don't forget to check out our website www.kingdomsexualityministry.com and our new Facebook Group! We're also on Patreon now! So support us there for some exciting and exclusive perks! And, don't forget to leave them a review on Apple Podcasts!
Links from today's episode:
Intimately Us App
Married Dance (use the code KINGDOMSEXUALITY for 10% off!)
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116: PATRON'S CHOICE! What the Women Want Men to Know About Sex...
Season 7 · Episode 4
Monday, January 30, 2023 • Duration 26:39
The incredible Kingdom Sexuality patrons were the ones who chose this weeks episode, so a huge THANK YOU to them!!
The KS Team put a questions box up on Instagram asking women who follow us "what do you wish men knew about sex?" and this episode is all of those responses!! (Ladies, share this with your man!) From vocalizing things in the bedroom, go slow and soft, to "when we say keep going- KEEP GOING- don't change speed!" This episode has it all!
And if you're not already be sure you check Kingdom Sexuality out on Instagram @kingdomsexuality. That's where you'll see even more of our content! Weekly sex positions for you to try, connect questions, content geared towards men, and more!! Have a topic suggestion for us? Send a DM or email us at kingdomsexuality@gmail.com. Don't forget to check out our website www.kingdomsexualityministry.com and our new Facebook Group! We're also on Patreon now! So support us there for some exciting and exclusive perks! And, don't forget to leave them a review on Apple Podcasts!
Links from today's episode:
Episode 98: Emotional Intimacy with One Extraordinary Marriage
Prayers for Your Wife ebook
Prayers for Your Husband ebook
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115: ORAL SEX: Fellatio
Season 7 · Episode 3
Monday, January 23, 2023 • Duration 01:18:21
Kyle and Alana put a lot of work into this Oral Sex Series finale so that it wouldn't blow... (pun intended). But in all seriousness, these oral sex episodes have had so much thought, research, and data behind them. So in this weeks finale oral sex episode they talk about fellatio (aka: oral sex being done on a man, a blow job, or BJ). Alana and Kyle discuss some of the statistics from the survey's they put out over the past few weeks, why many women have a difficult time giving oral sex on their husband, some tips to help, how to go about bringing up the subject of oral sex with your spouse, and so much more!
And if you're not already be sure you check Kingdom Sexuality out on Instagram @kingdomsexuality. That's where you'll see even more of our content! Weekly sex positions for you to try, connect questions, content geared towards men, and more!! Have a topic suggestion for us? Send a DM or email us at kingdomsexuality@gmail.com. Don't forget to check out our website www.kingdomsexualityministry.com and our new Facebook Group! We're also on Patreon now! So support us there for some exciting and exclusive perks! And, don't forget to leave them a review on Apple Podcasts!
Links we mentioned in today's episode:
Married Dance (use the code KINGDOMSEXUALITY for 10% off!)
Oral Blessings article
Hot, Holy, & Humorous article
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114: ORAL SEX: Cunnilingus
Season 7 · Episode 2
Monday, January 16, 2023 • Duration 01:17:04
Well, we said this episode is coming and here it is! You wanted to hear more information about cunnilingus? Listen in! It's a longer episode but Alana and Kyle tackle SO much really valuable information. Things like: how do you even begin to start talking about oral sex with your spouse? and why do some women struggle when it comes to receiving oral sex?
Kyle and Alana also ran a big survey before doing this series and gathered a bunch of data. You’ll hear it woven in throughout this episode and NEXT week’s episode as well. They got almost 4,500 responses, so the data is from a decent-sized sample and data set! Also, if you haven't listen to episode 112: Deep Dive Into Anatomy it's recommended to go listen to that one first, as there's quite a bit of anatomy talk in this episode and the one to come.
And if you're not already be sure you check Kingdom Sexuality out on Instagram @kingdomsexuality. That's where you'll see even more of our content! Weekly sex positions for you to try, connect questions, content geared towards men, and more!! Have a topic suggestion for us? Send a DM or email us at kingdomsexuality@gmail.com. Don't forget to check out our website www.kingdomsexualityministry.com and our new Facebook Group! We're also on Patreon now! So support us there for some exciting and exclusive perks!
Links from today's episode:
She Comes First
- US Link
- Canadian Link
Opposites: Wants
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