This episode captures what it really feels like to build a family through surrogacy — the anticipation, the uncertainty, and the life-altering joy of becoming parents. In this intimate conversation between IVF DADDIES and DADS.KIDS.MIRACLES, we explore the decisions that shape a family, the emotions that define it, and the support systems that make it all possible.

Every surrogacy journey begins with a decision — a private moment when future parents choose to believe that family can take many forms. But what happens after that choice? What follows is an emotional landscape few people talk about publicly: the waiting, the updates from the surrogate, the moments of fear, and the quiet victories that lead to birth.

Here, you’ll hear how connection, trust, and communication become the foundation of everything. When you’re an intended parent, every call from the surrogate can change the course of your day — and every milestone, no matter how small, feels monumental. The journey is unpredictable, but it’s also deeply human.

We discuss what it means to stay grounded through unexpected news, how to navigate medical uncertainty, and how to hold space for hope even when outcomes are unclear. The story includes moments of premature birth, gratitude, and a love so profound it reshapes what parenthood means.

This isn’t just about IVF or fertility treatments — it’s about identity, partnership, and how family expands beyond biology. It’s about the quiet strength of those who carry life for others, and the deep emotional bond that forms between intended parents and surrogates. It’s about learning that parenthood isn’t only about genetics or timing — it’s about showing up, over and over, no matter what happens.

In this episode, we look at the conversations that matter most:
– How do couples decide that surrogacy is the right path?
– How do they manage the rollercoaster of updates, appointments, and emotions?
– What happens when things don’t go as planned — and what keeps them going?
– How can family, friends, and community be a source of stability?
– And most importantly, how do you stay connected to joy when fear feels closer?

Through honesty and compassion, this episode celebrates the real faces behind modern parenthood — couples, surrogates, and families redefining what love looks like in the 21st century. It’s a reminder that no matter how advanced the science becomes, the heart of surrogacy is still deeply human.

If you’re considering surrogacy, in the middle of a journey, or supporting someone who is, this story offers perspective, comfort, and hope. Because the path to parenthood can be messy, emotional, and imperfect — but it’s also full of meaning, connection, and miracles that change you forever.

Hook line: “You can decide what you do — but parenthood decides who you become.”

Listen now and discover the courage, vulnerability, and beauty behind creating life in a new way.

CHAPTERS:00:00 Introduction to Family Life and Surrogacy00:12 The Journey of Premature Birth01:00 Navigating the Emotional Rollercoaster

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When you change what you feed your attention, you change your life. Julio Gaggia sits down with author and creator Jorge Perez to unpack how focus, language, and perspective shape our reality—plus the origin story behind his book “The Shut the F* Up Method.”** We cover the art of non-complaint, why negativity spreads in groups, and how to redirect energy toward growth, relationships, and purpose (including hard chapters like grief, identity shifts, and IVF journeys).

Author Jorge Perez joins Julio Gaggia to break down The Shut the F** Up Method*: how silence, focus, and attention can reshape stress, relationships, and creativity. A masterclass on energy, grief, and reinvention.

You’ll learn:

• Why where you put attention, energy grows—and how to audit yours in 5 minutes

• The non-complaint protocol to stop feeding negativity at work, home, and in community

• Perspective tools for grief, reinvention, and identity (without toxic positivity)

• Desire vs. attachment: how clutching repels outcomes (career, love, IVF hopes)

• A simple writing ritual to turn frustration into a book-worthy insight

Power quotes:
“Life sucks if we focus on that.” • “Life is great if we put attention there.” • “Where you put your attention, energy grows.”

Chapters
00:00 Why attention is currency
02:24 Reinvention after loss
05:19 Stress, language, and the body
08:17 The STFU Method (non-complaint in practice)
10:28 Inspirations + creative triggers
12:09 Independence vs. partnership
14:06 Identity and transformation
15:59 Friendships that mirror growth
19:01 Lessons from grief & acceptance
23:54 Normalizing death conversations
26:08 Grieving and moving forward
28:22 The IVF & surrogacy chapter
30:50 Tools for navigating fertility stress
37:02 Perspective as a daily practice
39:11 Desire vs. attachment
47:52 Closing doors, opening hearts

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One decision nearly ended our surrogacy journey before it began.In this IVF Daddies episode, Julio & Richard share the little-known red flags that can derail IVF and surrogacy — from medical surprises to emotional landmines. Joined by Dr. Lauren Garrett, we dive deep into genetic testing and why understanding results early is critical for building a healthy family.What you’ll learn:• Why preconception genetic testing matters• What expanded carrier screening actually looks for• How pre-implantation genetic testing (PGT) works• The truth about mosaic embryos and healthy pregnancies• What’s coming next in non-invasive genetic testingComment below: Do you think every IVF patient should do genetic testing before transfer?Subscribe for unfiltered IVF truths, emotional support, and practical insights for modern family building.Submit your anonymous story → https://ivfdaddies-newsletter.beehiiv.com/Chapters00:00 Introduction to Genetics in Fertility02:55 Understanding Preconception Genetic Testing05:45 Embryo Testing: Techniques and Implications08:45 Pre-implantation Genetic Testing Explained11:26 The Future of Genetic Testing in Fertility

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In this conversation, Dr. Nurit WinklerDouble Board-Certified Fertility Specialist & International Reproductive Expert, discusses the complexities of navigating fertility treatment options. Emphasizing the importance of understanding patient needs and preferences, she highlights the balance between medical advice and patient autonomy. The discussion also covers the role of holistic approaches in managing stress during treatment, the significance of early diagnostics, and the various treatment options available based on individual diagnoses. Dr. Winkler advocates for a respectful and collaborative approach to fertility care, ensuring that patients feel empowered in their treatment decisions.

It's important to match treatment options with patient desires.

Respecting patient wishes is crucial in fertility treatment.

Holistic approaches can help manage stress during treatment.

Patients should not feel guilty about their fertility challenges.

Early diagnostics can lead to better treatment outcomes.

Each treatment should be tailored to the individual's diagnosis.

Clomid is not effective for all patients, especially older women.

IVF may not always be the first option for younger patients.

Open communication between doctor and patient is essential.

Navigating fertility options early can expand treatment possibilities.

Chapters

00:00 Introduction to Fertility Treatment Options

01:21 Understanding Patient Needs and Treatment Preferences

04:23 The Role of Holistic Approaches in Fertility

08:47 Navigating Fertility Diagnostics and Early Intervention

11:40 Exploring Treatment Options Based on Diagnosis

Sound Bites

"Don't feel guilty about that."

"Anything that can be done to help you..."

"The sooner you do that, the better..."

In this episode of the IVF Daddies podcast, Dr. Connor Curley shares his journey from being diagnosed with multiple sclerosis to founding Phytofix, a nutrition product company focused on food supplements. He discusses the importance of nutrition in managing health conditions like MS and endometriosis, and how this led to the development of Fertility Fix, a product designed to support fertility in both men and women. The conversation highlights the often-overlooked connection between nutrition and reproductive health, emphasizing the need for holistic approaches in fertility treatments.

Takeaways

Dr. Curley was diagnosed with MS at 15, which shaped his career.

Phytofix focuses on science-based nutrition supplements.

Lifestyle factors play a significant role in managing MS.

Endometriosis is often neglected in healthcare discussions.

Fertility issues affect one in six couples globally.

Fertility Fix was developed based on scientific research.

The product is designed for both men and women.

Nutrition can improve sperm and egg quality.

Some nutrients can help reduce the risk of miscarriage.

Phytofix has already seen success with pregnancies since launching.

Chapters

00:00 Introduction to Dr. Connor Curley and Phytofix

02:25 The Journey from MS to Nutrition Science

05:07 Exploring Endometriosis and Its Impact on Fertility

07:35 The Development of Fertility Fix

09:33 The Importance of Nutrition in IVF and Pregnancy

10:39 Conclusion and Future Directions

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"It's unisex and convenient."

"It tastes really good."

"It's doing something right now."

In this conversation, IVFDADDIES Richard Westoby , and Deirdre A. Conway, MD from the Utah Fertility Center discusses the complexities of choosing a fertility clinic, the importance of patient experience, and the various metrics that define success in fertility treatments. She emphasizes the role of embryology in IVF success and the need for patients to understand and interpret success rates accurately. The discussion highlights the emotional journey of patients and the critical support provided by the entire clinic staff throughout the process.

Takeaways

Choosing a fertility clinic involves multiple touchpoints.

Success in fertility is often defined as having a baby.

Patient experience is as important as clinical success rates.

Embryology plays a crucial role in IVF outcomes.

Success rates can be complicated and vary by clinic.

Patients should compare clinics carefully based on age and statistics.

The lab's protocols significantly impact IVF success rates.

Understanding success metrics is essential for patients.

Communication and support are vital during the fertility journey.

Asking questions is key to navigating fertility treatments.

Chapters

00:00 Choosing the Right Fertility Clinic

02:55 Understanding Success in Fertility Treatments

05:49 The Role of Embryology in IVF Success

09:07 Interpreting Success Rates in Fertility Treatments

11:48 Defining Success Metrics in IVF

Sound Bites

"It's not only the biological success."

"You have to compare apples to apples."

"You want to have a baby in your arms."

Navigating the Fertility Clinic Landscape

Defining Success in Fertility Treatments

In this conversation, In colaboration with IVY Fertility, Richard Westoby from IVFDADDIES and Dr. Meredith Brower, MD discusses the process of frozen embryo transfer, including the preparation of the uterus, the administration of estrogen and progesterone, and what to expect on the day of the transfer. She explains the differences between medicated and natural cycles, the importance of monitoring the uterine lining, and the steps taken during the transfer procedure. The discussion also touches on patient experiences and the emotional aspects of the IVF journey.

Takeaways

The final step in IVF is the embryo transfer.

The uterus lining needs estrogen and progesterone for implantation.

Different methods exist for administering estrogen and progesterone.

Patients can switch methods if one isn't working effectively.

The embryo transfer process involves careful monitoring and preparation.

Natural cycles allow the body to produce its own hormones.

The day of transfer includes identity checks and ultrasound guidance.

Patients can eat and drink normally on transfer day.

Resting after transfer is encouraged, but not strictly necessary.

Pregnancy tests are conducted about 10 days after the transfer.

Chapters

00:00 Understanding Frozen Embryo Transfer

11:06 The Day of the Transfer Process

"What is a frozen embryo transfer?"

"The progesterone's for implantation."

"Thank you very much."

frozen embryo transfer, IVF, embryo transfer process, progesterone, estrogen, natural cycle, medicated cycle, pregnancy test, reproductive health

In this conversation, Dr. Carrie Melissa Wambach , Leading MD from IVY Fertility discusses the multifaceted benefits of Ozempic, a medication primarily used for diabetes management, and its implications for weight loss, hormonal balance, and women's health, particularly in relation to fertility and pregnancy. The discussion highlights how Ozempic can help normalize hormonal levels, improve egg quality, and reduce pregnancy complications associated with higher BMI, while also addressing the complexities of its use in pre-pregnancy and surgical contexts.

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Ozempic is primarily for diabetes management but has other benefits.

It decreases insulin resistance, aiding in weight loss.

Ozempic helps normalize luteinizing hormone (LH) levels in women.

Women on Ozempic may experience regular periods and improved fertility.

The medication lowers testosterone and insulin, contributing to better egg quality.

Patients are advised to stop Ozempic two months before pregnancy.

The drug's effects on gastric emptying can complicate surgical procedures.

Weight management is crucial for reducing pregnancy complications.

Lower BMI is associated with healthier pregnancies and reduced risks.

The exact mechanisms of Ozempic's benefits in fertility are still being studied.

Unlocking the Secrets of Ozempic

Ozempic: A Game Changer for Women's Health

Chapters

00:00 Introduction to Ozempic and Its Benefits

02:53 Ozempic's Impact on Women's Health and Fertility

05:41 The Broader Implications of Weight Management in Pregnancy

Ozempic, diabetes management, weight loss, fertility, women's health, insulin resistance, hormonal balance, pregnancy complications, health benefits

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In this conversation, Dr. Said Daneshmand discusses his extensive experience in helping families navigate the complexities of IVF and surrogacy, particularly focusing on the LGBTQIA+ community. He emphasises the importance of support systems, breaking down barriers, and providing accessible and affordable fertility services. The discussion covers various options available for gay male and female couples, including egg donation, surrogacy, and reciprocal IVF, while highlighting the need for community support and the evolution of fertility services over the years.

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Chapters

00:00 Introduction to Surrogacy and IVF Journey

02:49 Supporting LGBTQIA+ Families in Fertility

06:10 Options for Gay Male Couples

09:02 Family Building for Gay Female Couples

11:53 Access and Affordability in Fertility Care

Keywords

IVF, surrogacy, LGBTQIA+, fertility, egg donation, family building, access, affordability, intended parents, reproductive health

"The joy of parenthood inspires my career."

"Their success is our purpose."

"Building communities for support."

In this episode of the IVF Daddy's Podcast, the hosts delve into various topics surrounding fertility, nutrition, and lifestyle choices. They discuss the controversial effects of Ozempic on pregnancy, the importance of nutrition in fertility, and the strict requirements of IVF and surrogacy. The conversation also touches on the broader implications of diet as medicine and how to navigate nutrition with children, emphasizing moderation and education.

Takeaways

Creating engaging podcast content can be challenging.

Ozempic has been linked to a rise in pregnancies.

Nutrition plays a significant role in fertility and overall health.

IVF and surrogacy require strict lifestyle and dietary adherence.

Food can be seen as medicine in managing health.

Obesity is a growing epidemic with serious implications.

Education about food sources is crucial for children.

Moderation is key in children's diets to prevent cravings.

Nutritionists often cater to what clients want to hear.

Eating habits can impact social interactions and relationships.

Chapters

00:00 Introduction to Podcasting Challenges

02:51 Ozempic and Pregnancy: A Controversial Discussion

05:29 Nutrition's Role in Fertility

12:46 The Dichotomy of IVF and Natural Conception

16:42 Food as Medicine: The Impact of Diet on Health

20:58 Parenting and Nutrition: Educating Children on Food Choices

Sound Bites

"Ozempic babies are on the rise!"

"Food is thy medicine!"

"Cows are raped for milk?"

Keywords

IVF, Ozempic, pregnancy, nutrition, fertility, lifestyle choices, food as medicine, surrogacy, health, parenting

In this episode of the IVF Daddies podcast, hosts Julio and Richard delve into the complexities of endometriosis, an often invisible disease that affects many women. They discuss the societal perceptions surrounding women's health, the disbelief women face regarding their pain, and the lack of standard medical practices for diagnosing and treating conditions like endometriosis. The conversation emphasizes the need for better awareness, education, and empowerment in women's health decisions, advocating for regular health checkups that include fertility assessments and medical imaging for conditions that are often overlooked.

Endometriosis, women's health, invisible disease, medical practices, fertility, societal impact, awareness, gynecological health, health checkups, empowermenttakeaways

• Endometriosis is an invisible disease that often goes undiagnosed for years.
• Women frequently face disbelief regarding their pain and health concerns.
• There is a lack of standard medical practices for women's health issues.
• Societal perceptions often undermine women's health experiences.
• Empowerment in health decisions is crucial for women.
• Medical imaging for conditions like endometriosis is not standard practice.
• Women should have regular checkups that include fertility assessments.
• The conversation around women's health needs to be more open and inclusive.
• Cultural differences affect women's access to healthcare.
• Awareness and education about women's health issues are essential.

• Unveiling Endometriosis: The Invisible Struggle
• Breaking the Silence on Women's Health

• "Endometriosis is an invisible disease."
• "Women frequently face disbelief regarding their pain."
• "Awareness about women's health issues is essential."
• "Endometriosis: The disease no one talks about."

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Chapters

00:00 Understanding Endometriosis

09:49 The Societal Impact on Women's Health

19:59 The Need for Better Medical Practices

23:01 Concluding Thoughts on Women's Health Awareness

In this episode of the RVF Daddy's Podcast, hosts Julio and Richard share their recent travels and delve into the complexities of surrogacy, parenthood, and stepparenting. They discuss the emotional journey of becoming parents through surrogacy, the challenges faced by stepparents, and the importance of therapy in maintaining healthy relationships. The conversation also touches on the legal aspects of surrogacy, misconceptions surrounding it, and the need for increased awareness about infertility and discrimination in surrogacy laws.

takeaways

• Life can change in an instant, especially with parenthood.
• Surrogacy offers a unique journey that involves many hurdles.
• Stepparenting requires a balance between friendship and authority.
• Therapy can provide valuable insights in relationships.
• Surrogacy is often misunderstood as a privilege for the wealthy.
• Infertility awareness is crucial for reducing stigma.
• Legal frameworks around surrogacy can be discriminatory.
• Family is defined by those who choose to support each other.
• Emotional support is vital for parents navigating surrogacy.
• Education and awareness can empower individuals in their fertility journeys.

• Navigating Parenthood Through Surrogacy
• The Emotional Journey of Stepparenting

• "Your life changes in an instant."
• "Family is made out of who chooses to show up."
• "We choose our family every day."
• "You really have to want to do it."

keywords

surrogacy, parenthood, LGBTQIA, stepparenting, therapy, infertility, legal aspects, misconceptions, awareness, discriminationsummary

Chapters

00:00 Welcome Back and Life Updates

03:00 The Journey of Surrogacy and Parenthood

05:58 Navigating Stepparenting Challenges

08:57 The Importance of Therapy in Relationships

12:09 Legal Aspects of Surrogacy and IVF

14:53 Breaking Down Misconceptions About Surrogacy

17:52 Infertility Awareness and Social Stigmas

21:04 Discrimination in Surrogacy Laws

• "Your life changes in an instant."
• "Family is made out of who chooses to show up."
• "We choose our family every day."
• "You really have to want to do it."

In this episode of IVF Daddies, hosts Richard and David open up about the beautiful chaos of parenting as gay dads — from sleepless nights to building an inclusive community where LGBTQ+ families can thrive.

Discover the story behind Hey Gaddies, a brand redefining fatherhood through representation, love, and visibility. We talk about step-parenting, transgender parents, and the power of unlearning old norms to create a new kind of family narrative — one built on authenticity and pride. 🌈

Chapters00:00 Navigating Parenting Challenges02:50 Creating Inclusive Spaces for Gay Dads05:41 Building Community and Identity08:31 The Evolution of Queer Parenting11:25 The Role of Stepparents in Queer Families14:15 Balancing Traditional Roles in Modern Families16:59 Creating a Supportive Environment19:50 The Importance of Community Connections21:59 Building Community as Gay Dads30:48 Navigating Step Parenting in the LGBTQ+ Community38:03 Celebrating Transgender Parents and Representation40:44 Unconscious Bias in Parenting

💡 Key Topics:

• The hardest parts (and best rewards) of parenting as gay dads

• Why visibility for queer and transgender parents matters

• How to build meaningful community connections

• The evolution of Gaddies — from idea to inclusive movement

• The power of creating a “Gaddy’s Day” to celebrate diverse families

🎙️ “We are building role models now.”
🎙️ “I want to create a Gaddy’s Day.”
🎙️ “Nobody is born a bigot.”

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In this conversation, Brian Rosenberg from Gays with Kids shares his journey as an HIV positive dad and the founding of Gays with Kids, an organization dedicated to helping LGBTQ+ individuals navigate parenthood. He discusses the importance of education in family building, the various paths to parenthood available, and the launch of GWK Academy, which aims to empower individuals with knowledge and resources. Brian emphasizes the need for financial accessibility in family building and the significance of finding supportive community and partners in the journey to parenthood.

Brian Rosenberg and his husband Ferd have 3 children through adoption and surrogacy. Their family-building experience led him to launch the popular Gays With Kids website and virtual community in 2014. And now Brian is super excited to announce the launch of the all-new GWK Academy Family Building, Inc. (“GWK Academy” for short), a non-profit spin-off of GWK to guide and support the entire LGBTQ+ community with their family-building journeys. Visit GWKAcademy.org or, to donate, visit https://givebutter.com/GWKAcademyLaunch

Takeaways

Brian and his husband created their family through adoption and surrogacy.

HIV positive individuals can become biological parents with the right medical support.

Education is crucial for LGBTQ+ individuals considering parenthood.

GWK Academy offers resources and courses for aspiring parents.

Financial planning is essential for family building, with various options available.

The LGBTQ+ community needs tailored support in family building processes.

Surrogacy and adoption can be expensive, but there are ways to manage costs.

Finding the right family building partners is vital for success.

Community support and education can alleviate fears and misconceptions.

Brian's mission is to empower others to become confident parents.

Chapters

00:00 Introduction to Gays with Kids and Brian's Journey

05:54 Navigating Parenthood as an HIV Positive Dad

12:05 The Evolution of Gays with Kids and Its Mission

18:02 Expanding Services and Accessibility for LGBTQ+ Families

23:57 The Importance of Education and Community in Family Building

Sound Bites

"Don't get scared with those numbers."

"You can make it work for many budgets."

"I appreciate your support."

Empowering LGBTQ+ Parenthood: Brian Rosenberg's Journey

Navigating Family Building as an HIV Positive Dad

In this episode of IVFDADDIES, Richard Westoby, speaks with Emma Whitney, an experienced embryologist, about the importance of reproductive health education, the complexities of infertility, and the role of embryologists in fertility treatments. They discuss the often-misleading success rates of fertility clinics, the need for informed decision-making, and the significance of clear communication between patients and healthcare providers. Emma emphasizes the importance of understanding what constitutes success in fertility treatments and encourages listeners to ask critical questions when seeking treatment.

Chapters

00:00 Introduction to Reproductive Health Education

02:40 The Role of an Embryologist

05:37 Understanding Success Rates in IVF

09:20 The Importance of Patient-Centric Care

12:16 Navigating the IVF Journey

15:02 Questions to Ask Your Fertility Clinic

17:51 The Reality of Multiple Births in IVF

20:56 Conclusion and Final Thoughts

Education on reproductive health is crucial for young people.

Many people are unaware of the causes of infertility.

An embryologist plays a vital role in fertility treatments.

Success rates in clinics can be misleading.

Patients should ask about their chances of success based on their individual circumstances.

Communication and support from the clinic are essential for patient care.

Understanding the difference between pregnancy rates and live birth rates is important.

Patients should be aware of the potential for multiple births in fertility treatments.

Grieving for lost dreams is a part of the fertility journey.

Informed decision-making can lead to better outcomes in fertility treatments.

Sound Bites

"What is success?"

"Will you treat me?"

"How are we going to communicate?"

Titles

The Importance of Reproductive Health Education

Understanding Infertility: What You Need to Know

In this episode of the IVF Daddies podcast, hosts and guests BOLKO ALEKSIEV and NAOMI TEAL from MABO WELLNESS delve into personal journeys of health and wellness, focusing on Crohn's disease, nutrition, and fertility challenges. They discuss the emotional toll of fertility testing, the importance of open conversations about reproductive health, and the various options available for those facing fertility issues. The conversation highlights the significance of understanding one's body, the impact of nutrition on health, and the need for supportive dialogue around fertility and personal choices.

Takeaways

The journey to wellness often stems from personal health challenges.

Nutrition plays a crucial role in managing chronic conditions like Crohn's disease.

Fertility testing can be an emotional rollercoaster for couples.

Open conversations about fertility are essential for understanding options.

It's important to question medical advice and seek second opinions.

The societal pressure to have children can be overwhelming.

Women often feel the burden of fertility issues more acutely than men.

There are various paths to parenthood beyond traditional methods.

Understanding one's body is key to making informed health decisions.

It's okay to not have a clear answer about wanting children.

Chapters

00:00 Introduction to Wellness and Personal Journeys

02:59 Understanding Crohn's Disease and Its Impact

05:50 The Role of Nutrition in Managing Health

08:43 Fertility Testing and Its Emotional Toll

11:13 Navigating Medical Advice and Options

14:31 Societal Pressures and Personal Choices

17:07 Exploring Future Possibilities and Options

20:04 Empowerment Through Knowledge and Choices

Keywords

IVF, wellness, Crohn's disease, nutrition, fertility, emotional health, health journey, personal stories, reproductive health, holistic health

Sound Bites

"Food is thy medicine."

"It's not as easy as that."

"It's okay to not know."

In this conversation, Richard Westoby and his friend Kat discuss the journey of fertility, cancer diagnosis, and the emotional and physical challenges that come with it. They explore the importance of family, the impact of cancer on personal aspirations, and the options available for building a family after such experiences. The discussion highlights the significance of early detection, the complexities of treatment, and the emotional rollercoaster that accompanies these life-altering events.

"United by Unique" is the powerful theme for World Cancer Day in 2025. Cancer is never just a diagnosis; it’s a deeply personal and transformative journey that touches every part of a person's life. For our wonderful friend Kat, this journey began with a decision to freeze her eggs — a choice that unknowingly led to the discovery of her cancer. What followed was a courageous path through treatment, showing how sometimes, even in the face of the unknown, our lives take unexpected turns toward healing and hope.

Sound Bites

"I think, as said, we met in Malta."

"I was clearly very emotional about it."

"I joined Surrogacy UK."

Chapters

00:00 Adventurous Beginnings

02:00 The Decision to Freeze Eggs

04:01 Facing Cancer: The Diagnosis

05:56 Navigating Treatment and Surgery

10:11 Life After Hysterectomy

12:00 The Impact of Cancer on Family Planning

16:58 Exploring Surrogacy and Future Options

22:04 Reflections on Egg Freezing and Hope

Takeaways

The importance of early detection in cancer treatment.

Navigating the emotional challenges of fertility and cancer.

The role of friendship and support during difficult times.

Understanding the implications of PCOS on fertility.

The significance of having options for family planning.

The impact of surgical procedures on recovery and future health.

Adjusting to hormonal changes after surgery.

The challenges of second cancer diagnosis and treatment.

Advocacy and sharing personal stories to inspire others.

Exploring surrogacy as a viable option for family building.

In this episode of IVF Daddies, Rich Vaughn from the International Fertility Law Group discusses the implications of recent executive orders regarding birthright citizenship and surrogacy. The conversation explores the constitutional basis of birthright citizenship, the nuances of the executive order, and the potential impact on intended parents using surrogacy services in the U.S. Amidst concerns and uncertainties, Rich emphasizes the importance of understanding legal rights and navigating the challenges that may arise for families in the surrogacy process.

Takeaways

Birthright citizenship is part of the 14th Amendment.

Executive orders cannot override constitutional rights.

The executive order suggests a new interpretation of citizenship.

Prong one of the order targets children of illegal immigrants.

Prong two raises concerns for children born to temporary visa holders.

Intended parents may face challenges in obtaining citizenship for their children.

Legal status of parents affects citizenship rights of children.

Temporary travel documents may be needed for international parents.

There are always alternative solutions to legal challenges.

Clarity on the executive order is expected as litigation unfolds.

Chapters

00:00 Introduction to Birthright Citizenship and Executive Orders

02:41 Understanding the 14th Amendment and Birthright Citizenship

05:32 Implications of Trump's Executive Order

08:20 Legal Challenges and Court Proceedings

10:47 Potential Outcomes for Surrogacy and Citizenship

13:39 Conclusion and Future Considerations

Sound Bites

"This week has been monumental."

"There's always a solution."

"You're a superstar, thank you very much."

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Takeaways

The power is already within us, and sometimes we just need a push.

Discipline is key to achieving results in life.

Health choices can significantly impact fertility and overall well-being.

PCOS can be managed and even reversed through lifestyle changes.

Self-care is crucial for parents to be effective caregivers.

Parenting comes with pressures that can lead to comparison and self-doubt.

Therapy can help couples navigate the challenges of parenthood and fertility.

Creating awareness about one's health is the first step to improvement.

Individual health journeys are unique and require tailored approaches.

It's important to focus on personal growth and self-acceptance in parenting.

Summary

In this episode of the IVF Daddies podcast, host Julio speaks with Louisa, a certified life coach, about personal growth, health challenges, and the journey of parenthood. They discuss the importance of discipline, the power within us, and how to navigate health issues like PCOS. Louisa shares her experience with fertility, the significance of self-care for parents, and the pressures of parenting in today's world. The conversation also touches on the value of therapy in relationships and the need for awareness in individual health journeys.

Chapters

00:00 Introduction and Connection

02:51 The Power Within Us

06:09 Navigating PCOS and Health Choices

11:48 The Journey to Parenthood

17:57 Post-Pregnancy Health and Self-Care

23:56 Parenting Perspectives and Challenges

30:03 Therapy and Relationship Dynamics

35:52 Awareness and Individual Health Journeys

Sound Bites

"Discipline gets results."

"You need both 50-50."

"Comparison is a big killer."

Keywords

IVF, surrogacy, PCOS, parenting, self-care, therapy, health, fertility, life coaching, personal growth

Takeaways

The fertility community acts as first responders during crises.

Safety protocols for frozen tissue are robust and reliable.

Real-time monitoring of storage conditions is critical.

Collaboration among fertility centers enhances patient care.

Emergency communication systems are in place for patient updates.

Contingency plans exist for relocating frozen tissue if needed.

Air quality monitoring is essential for embryo safety.

The community's support is vital during challenging times.

Patients can be moved to partner facilities for ongoing treatment.

The fertility industry is united in its response to emergencies.

Chapters

00:00 Introduction to IVF During Crisis

01:57 Ensuring Safety of Frozen Tissue

05:44 Emergency Protocols for Natural Disasters

10:21 Handling Active Treatment During Emergencies

12:42 Community Collaboration in Fertility Care

Summary

In this conversation, Dr. Huang discusses the impact of recent crises in Los Angeles on fertility care, emphasizing the importance of safety protocols for frozen tissue, emergency response strategies, and the collaboration among fertility centers to ensure patient care during emergencies. The dialogue highlights the resilience of the community and the proactive measures taken to safeguard patients' reproductive materials and health.

Sound Bites

"We could message patients in real time."

"We have contingency plans to finish treatments."

"It's brought us together despite the hardship."

In this episode of the IVF Daddy's podcast, hosts Michael Snaric and George share their journey of becoming parents through IVF and surrogacy. They discuss the challenges they faced, including finding the right surrogate, navigating the NICU experience, and the importance of building a supportive community for LGBTQIA+ families. They also highlight their upcoming event aimed at making the family-building process more approachable and fun, featuring drag queens and a focus on inclusivity.

Takeaways

They connected on wanting children from their first date.

The IVF journey was expedited due to family health concerns.

Finding a supportive surrogate was crucial to their journey.

The NICU experience was challenging but manageable.

They emphasize the importance of a strong support system.

Planning date nights is essential for maintaining balance.

They actively seek to build a community for gay dads.

Their upcoming event aims to make IVF discussions fun.

Inclusivity in parenting is a key focus for them.

They advocate for LGBTQIA+ families based on their experiences.

Chapters

00:00 Introduction to the IVF Journey

05:59 Finding the Right Surrogate

12:01 Navigating Parenthood Together

18:14 Building a Supportive Community

23:47 Upcoming Events and Advocacy

Keywords

IVF, LGBTQIA+, surrogacy, parenting, community, NICU, gay dads, family building, support system, drag queens

In this episode of the IVF Daddies podcast, hosts Julio and Richard explore the intersection of reality TV and important topics surrounding women's health, fertility, and parenting. They discuss how reality shows have opened up conversations about painful periods, endometriosis, egg freezing, sperm donation, and the emotional aspects of parenthood. The hosts emphasize the importance of education and breaking taboos surrounding these issues, highlighting the role of public figures in normalizing discussions about fertility and women's rights.

Chapters

00:00 Reality TV as a Source of Information

02:52 Understanding Women's Health Issues

06:03 Egg Freezing and Fertility Options

08:52 Sperm Donation and Its Implications

12:12 The Emotional Aspects of Parenthood

15:01 Abortion and Women's Rights

17:48 The Role of Reality TV in Education

21:12 Navigating Parenthood Decisions

Takeaways

Reality TV can be a surprising source of information.

Many women suffer in silence regarding painful periods.

Endometriosis is often misdiagnosed or ignored.

Egg freezing is a viable option for women.

Sperm donation can create complex family dynamics.

The emotional journey of parenthood is significant.

Abortion is a personal choice that should be respected.

Reality TV can educate viewers on important issues.

Infertility affects a significant portion of the population.

Open discussions can help break societal taboos.

Sound Bites

"Reality TV is my source of information."

"Freezing eggs is a great option."

"It takes a village to raise a child."

"Keep your doors open for family options."

"Thank you for breaking taboos."

Keywords

IVF, reality TV, women's health, egg freezing, sperm donation, abortion, fertility, endometriosis, surrogacy, parenting decisions

In this conversation, Richard Westby from IVF Daddies interviews Dr. Carrie Wambach about Ozempic, a medication primarily used for diabetes management that has shown additional benefits, particularly in weight loss and fertility. Dr. Wambach explains how Ozempic works by decreasing insulin resistance and normalizing hormones like LH and testosterone, which can lead to improved ovulation and egg quality. The discussion also covers the implications of Ozempic on pregnancy, including the need to stop the medication before conception and its potential to lower pregnancy risks associated with higher BMI. Overall, the conversation highlights the multifaceted benefits of Ozempic and its role in enhancing reproductive health.

Takeaways

Ozempic is primarily for diabetes but has other benefits.

It decreases insulin resistance, aiding in weight management.

Normalizes LH levels, improving ovulation in women.

Can lead to better egg quality and regular periods.

Lowering BMI before pregnancy can reduce risks.

Higher weight is linked to complications in pregnancy.

Ozempic may lower inflammation, benefiting fertility.

Pregnancy rates are reportedly increasing with Ozempic use.

The timing of stopping Ozempic before pregnancy is crucial.

Lifestyle changes can further enhance fertility outcomes.

Keywords

Ozempic, diabetes management, weight loss, fertility, pregnancy, insulin resistance, hormonal balance, health benefits

Chapters

00:00 Introduction to Ozempic and Its Uses

03:11 Mechanisms of Action and Benefits for Women

06:01 Impact on Fertility and Pregnancy Outcomes

Sound Bites

"We're seeing your LH normalize."

"We don't know quite how to study it."

"Pregnancy rates are going up."

Let’s be real — most fertility conversations still center straight couples.
Dr. Said Daneshmand is here to change that. In this unfiltered, deeply human episode of IVF Daddies, he opens up about what it actually takes for LGBTQIA+ families to build their dreams through IVF, surrogacy, egg donation, and reciprocal IVF.

From gay male couples navigating surrogacy to lesbian couples sharing pregnancy through reciprocal IVF — this episode exposes the truth, the costs, the options, and the emotional rollercoaster behind modern family creation.

💬 WHAT YOU’LL LEARN:
• The real steps of IVF + surrogacy for LGBTQIA+ couples
• Why access, cost, and transparency still fail queer families
• How egg and sperm donation work — without the clinic jargon
• What “reciprocal IVF” means (and why it’s a love story)
• Why community support isn’t optional — it’s survival
• How Dr. Daneshmand is rebuilding fertility care with empathy

This isn’t a sterile medical chat — it’s a movement.
Because love makes families, but access makes them possible.

🎧 LISTEN NOW — because equality doesn’t stop at marriage; it starts at conception.

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IVF, surrogacy, LGBTQIA+, fertility, family building, egg donation, sperm donation, reproductive health, intended parents, fertility services, gay dads, lesbian moms, reciprocal IVF, queer families, fertility equality, assisted reproduction

In this conversation, Dr. Andy Huang discusses the realities of IVF and surrogacy, debunking myths surrounding women's choices in pregnancy and the confidentiality measures taken in fertility clinics. He emphasizes that most women desire to experience pregnancy but may face challenges that lead them to consider surrogacy. Additionally, he highlights the importance of privacy for patients, especially celebrities, and the lengths to which his clinic goes to ensure discretion.

Takeaways

The majority of women seeking IVF want to experience pregnancy.

Surrogacy is often a necessity rather than a choice for many.

Confidentiality is a top priority in fertility clinics.

Patients are treated equally, regardless of their celebrity status.

Privacy measures include private appointments and discreet waiting areas.

Many patients are hesitant to discuss their fertility struggles openly.

The healthcare system provides robust support for pregnant women.

Gestational carriers are often experienced mothers, reducing risks.

Celebrities often seek privacy due to public scrutiny.

The journey to parenthood can be emotionally challenging for many.

Chapters

00:00 Introduction to IVF and Surrogacy Misconceptions

02:54 Understanding the Journey of Fertility Treatments

05:46 Maintaining Confidentiality in Fertility Clinics

Keywords

IVF, surrogacy, fertility, confidentiality, pregnancy, maternal health, celebrity, healthcare, reproductive health, gestational carrier

Sound Bites

"We treat everybody the same here."

"It's nobody's business; it's them."

"It's an honor to be here today."

It's hard to open up about personal life.

Social media can be a source of support.

Divorce can lead to new beginnings.

Children's feelings should guide parenting decisions.

Being a stepdad comes with unique challenges.

Communication is key in co-parenting.

Setting boundaries is essential for harmony.

Quality time strengthens family bonds.

Understanding roles in blended families is crucial.

Respecting the other parent's role fosters cooperation.

In this episode of the IVF Daddies podcast, hosts Julio and Junior delve into the complexities of parenting, co-parenting, and the unique challenges faced by step-parents. They share personal stories and insights about navigating relationships, setting boundaries, and the importance of communication in blended families. The conversation highlights the emotional weight of parenting decisions and the joy of building meaningful connections with children.

Chapters

00:00 Introduction and Personal Insights

02:49 Navigating Relationships and Parenting Dynamics

06:07 Understanding the Role of a Stepparent

08:57 Communication and Boundaries in Co-Parenting

12:09 The Challenges of Parenting and Step-Parenting

14:56 Quality Time and Building Relationships

17:49 Conclusion and Reflections on Parenting

Keywords

IVF, parenting, co-parenting, step-parenting, family dynamics, relationships, LGBTQ+ families, personal stories, communication, boundaries

Sound Bites

"I'm a little bit nervous, but I'm excited."

"It's hard for me to allow you in."

"He feels like he has three dads."

"I never want to take their place."

In this episode of the IVF Daddies podcast, Romain shares his journey of becoming a father through surrogacy in the United States, the challenges he faced as a French citizen, and the dynamics of co-parenting after divorce. He discusses the cultural differences in parenting, the legal complexities of surrogacy in France, and the impact of celebrity status on family life. The conversation emphasizes the importance of putting children first and navigating the complexities of modern family structures.

Takeaways

Romain's journey to fatherhood through surrogacy in California.

The importance of firsthand information in the surrogacy process.

Navigating the legal complexities of surrogacy in France.

Coping with divorce while prioritizing children's needs.

Cultural differences in parenting between France and the U.S.

The role of celebrity in shaping public perception of LGBTQ+ families.

The significance of co-parenting and shared custody arrangements.

Challenges faced by LGBTQ+ families in conservative environments.

The evolving legal landscape for surrogacy in Europe.

The emotional impact of societal judgment on family dynamics.

Chapters

00:00 Introduction to Surrogacy and Family Dynamics

02:53 Navigating Surrogacy in the United States

05:46 The Journey to Parenthood: Challenges and Triumphs

09:03 Coping with Divorce and Co-Parenting

11:55 Cultural Differences in Parenting: France vs. USA

14:46 Legal Recognition of Parentage in France

18:03 The Impact of Celebrity on Family Dynamics

20:59 Conclusion and Future Aspirations

Sound Bites

"It's a big agency. So we were reassured."

"You have to put away your French mind."

"We didn't succeed in our wedding, but we succeeded in our divorce."

Sound Bites

"It's a big agency. So we were reassured."

"You have to put away your French mind."

"We didn't succeed in our wedding, but we succeeded in our divorce."

We are happy People are listening, and it's great info.

Richard and Julio learned a lot at the IVF conference.

Confidentiality is crucial in celebrity IVF cases.

Celebrities often face the same struggles as others.

IVF can be a personal journey, not a public spectacle.

Psychological support is essential during the IVF process.

Cultural perspectives can influence IVF experiences.

Maintaining boundaries is important for emotional health.

The journey to parenthood can be filled with highs and lows.

Family planning is a deeply personal decision.

Chapters

00:00 Introduction and Podcast Journey

02:56 Insights from the IVF Conference

06:11 Celebrity IVF Experiences

09:05 Emotional Aspects of IVF

12:08 Cultural Perspectives on IVF

14:54 Conclusion and Reflections

Sound Bites

"People are listening, but it's great info."

"I learned a little bit more, still a lot more to dig."

"It's nobody's business, this is your business."

Keywords

IVF, surrogacy, celebrity experiences, emotional journey, cultural perspectives, podcasting, parenting, reproductive health, medical insights, family planning

In this episode of the IVF Daddy's podcast, hosts Julio and Richard discuss the evolving landscape of gay fatherhood, reflecting on their own experiences compared to newer generations. They explore the balance between personal life and parenting, societal perceptions of gay dads, and the reality of raising children in a modern context. The conversation highlights the progress made in acceptance and understanding, while also addressing the challenges that remain.

The experience of gay fatherhood has evolved significantly over the years.

Modern gay dads can plan their social lives around parenting more easily.

Societal acceptance of gay families has improved, but scrutiny remains.

Parenting styles and societal expectations have changed with time.

The importance of showing children a balanced life beyond just parenting.

Gay dads often face different standards of scrutiny compared to straight couples.

The narrative around gay parenting is often sensationalized in media.

Real-life experiences of gay dads are often more mundane than portrayed.

The conversation around parenting should include the right to maintain personal lives.

Understanding and acceptance are key to the evolution of family dynamics.

Chapters

00:00 The Evolution of Gay Fatherhood

02:53 Balancing Parenthood and Personal Life

05:49 Societal Perceptions of Gay Dads

09:10 The Reality of Gay Parenting

12:03 Conclusion and Reflections on Parenting

"It's really interesting how the kids is not a barrier."

"We could raise a family just like anybody else."

"I think it's very different now to how it was then."

IVF, surrogacy, gay dads, parenting, societal perceptions, family life, LGBTQ+

In this episode of the IVF Daddies podcast, Richard and Damien discuss their personal journeys through surrogacy, the challenges faced, and the importance of education and transparency in the surrogacy process. They explore the complexities of surrogacy laws in Australia, the financial aspects of surrogacy, and the altruistic motivations of surrogates. The conversation emphasizes the need for trust and understanding in the surrogacy journey, debunking myths and celebrating the incredible role of surrogates in helping families grow.

Keywords

IVF, surrogacy, family building, intended parents, surrogates, financial transparency, education, challenges, altruism, myths

00:00 Introduction to Family Building Journeys

02:39 Navigating Surrogacy: Challenges and Choices

09:05 The Importance of Education in Surrogacy

17:00 Understanding Costs and Financial Transparency

25:00 The Role of Surrogates and Altruism in Surrogacy

35:12 Debunking Myths and Celebrating Surrogates

Takeaways

Surrogacy can be a long and challenging journey.

Education is crucial for intended parents navigating surrogacy.

Financial transparency is essential in the surrogacy process.

Surrogacy laws vary significantly between countries.

Surrogates often have altruistic motivations for helping families.

The media tends to focus on negative surrogacy stories.

Trust is a key factor in choosing a surrogacy agency.

Costs in surrogacy can be unpredictable and vary widely.

Surrogates undergo extensive screening processes before being matched.

Celebrating surrogates is important for recognizing their contributions.

NewGen Families was founded by Damien Chambers after
becoming a Parent through Surrogacy.
After many years facilitating Surrogacy journeys, we were inspired
to create a modern agency that is focused on improving the
experience for both Surrogates and Future Parents.
We are proud to say that all members of our team have between
5-12 years experience building families through Surrogacy.

"I had always wanted to be a dad."

"My journey was a long one."

"It's tough in Australia because there's a supply and demand issue."

In this episode of the IVF Daddies podcast, the host engages in a heartfelt conversation with Carey, a surrogate, exploring her journey into surrogacy, the emotional and physical challenges she faced, and the importance of mental health support throughout the process. They discuss the dynamics of being a surrogate, the relationships formed with intended parents, and the unique experiences of postpartum as a surrogate. The conversation highlights the altruistic motivations behind surrogacy and the profound impact it has on families.

Carey Flamer-Powell, Founder and Director

Carey Flamer-Powell, Founder and Director of Surrogacy Mentor, is an experienced gestational surrogate, surrogacy agency founder and surrogacy non-profit co-founder, with over a decade of experience in the surrogacy industry.​ She also currently serves as the co-Vice President of SEEDS, The Society for Ethics in Egg Donation and Surrogacy.

As the Founder and former owner of All Families Surrogacy, an award-winning gestational surrogacy agency, Carey spent 6 years helping hundreds of surrogates and parents navigate their journeys. Carey also co-founded and served as Co-President of the Oregon Surrogacy Professionals Association (OSPA), served as the LGBTQ Surrogacy Advisor for Parents Via Egg Donation (PVED), and has served on several committees for SEEDS over the years.

Carey brings her vast surrogacy expertise to Surrogacy Mentor®, in addition to over 25 years in business operations management and PR, to help surrogates find the right agency for them.

In this episode of the IVF Daddies podcast, the host engages in a heartfelt conversation with Carrie, a surrogate mother, exploring her journey into surrogacy, the emotional complexities involved, and the importance of mental health support throughout the process. Carrie shares her motivations for becoming a surrogate, the challenges of failed transfers, and the unique bond she formed with the intended parents. The discussion highlights the evolving landscape of surrogacy, emphasizing the need for strong support networks and the normalization of diverse family structures.

Takeaways

Carey's's journey into surrogacy began with her own experience of becoming a parent.

She felt a strong desire to give back after her own successful pregnancy.

Gestational surrogacy involves carrying a baby that is not genetically related to the surrogate.

Failed transfers can lead to feelings of guilt for surrogates.

A strong support network is crucial for surrogates during the process.

Mental health support is now integrated into the surrogacy process.

Surrogates often face unique social situations when explaining their role.

The bond between a surrogate and intended parents can be profound.

Surrogates do not typically feel a parental connection to the baby they carry.

The emotional recovery after birth can differ significantly for surrogates.

Chapters

00:00 Introduction to Surrogacy Journey

02:48 The Decision to Become a Surrogate

06:02 Understanding Gestational Surrogacy

08:55 Emotional Challenges of Failed Transfers

11:47 Mental Health Support in Surrogacy

14:57 Living Life While Pregnant for Others

18:07 The Connection with Intended Parents

21:00 Postpartum Experience as a Surrogate

23:50 Maintaining Relationships After Birth

Keywords

surrogacy, gestational surrogacy, emotional challenges, mental health, support network, intended parents, pregnancy, IVF, family dynamics, parenting

The conversation revolves around the decision of what to do with frozen embryos. The speakers discuss the ethical and emotional considerations involved in embryo donation and adoption. They explore the concept of embryos as assets versus embryos as life, and the implications of these perspectives. The conversation also touches on the benefits of embryo donation for women and LGBTQIA individuals, as well as the societal and personal factors that influence decision-making.

Takeaways

Embryo donation and adoption are options for individuals with frozen embryos who do not want to use them.

The decision of what to do with frozen embryos involves ethical and emotional considerations.

There is a distinction between viewing embryos as assets versus viewing them as life.

Embryo donation can be a more affordable option for individuals who need assistance in conceiving.

Embryo donation and adoption can empower women and LGBTQIA individuals.

Chapters

00:00 Introduction and Personal Context

01:26 The Decision of What to Do with Frozen Embryos

07:25 Ethical Considerations: Embryos as Assets or Life?

14:07 Embryo Donation: Empowering Women and LGBTQIA Individuals

20:50 Embryo Donation: A More Affordable Option

24:35 The Conceptualization of Embryos

Sound Bites

"What am I going to do with them? They're currently sitting frozen."

"Giving them to somebody else to then have as a child and then to raise as a child as their own."

"Genetically, but again all a family needs is love."

Keywords

embryo donation, embryo adoption, frozen embryos, ethical considerations, emotional considerations, assets versus life

Maya, a psychotherapist and filmmaker, shares her experience with embryo donation and discusses her work with Empower with Moxie, an embryo donation organization. She explains the difference between embryo adoption and embryo donation, emphasizing the importance of education and support for individuals considering embryo donation. Maya highlights the need for a more personal and connected approach to embryo donation, where donors and recipients have the opportunity to know each other and maintain a consensual connection. She also addresses the ethical and legal implications of embryo donation and the challenges of navigating the complex landscape of fertility treatment. Moxie matching is a platform that connects embryo donors and recipients, allowing them to create profiles and find their ideal match. The platform is inclusive and provides options for single women and LGBTQ families. Moxie also offers education and support for individuals navigating embryo donation, including genetic and medical counseling. After a match is made, Moxie facilitates meetings between donors and recipients to ensure compatibility. The ownership of remaining embryos after a successful donation can either revert back to the original donors or be jointly decided by the recipients. Moxie emphasizes the importance of expanding the definition of family and providing children with access to their genetic siblings.

Chapters

00:00 Introduction and Setting the Safe Word

03:08 Embryo Donation as the Next Best Option

07:13 The Types of Families Donating Embryos and Their Motivations

10:13 The Paralysis of Decision-Making and the Emotional Connection to Embryos

13:13 The Difference Between Embryo Adoption and Embryo Donation

16:33 Creating a Personal and Connected Approach to Embryo Donation

21:30 The Need for Education and Support in Embryo Donation

25:33 The Landscape of Embryo Donation and the Importance of Clear Terminology

27:24 Moxie Matching: Connecting Embryo Donors and Recipients

29:15 Inclusivity in Embryo Donation: Options for Single Women and LGBTQ Families

32:56 Education and Support: Genetic and Medical Counseling for Embryo Donation

40:22 Expanding the Definition of Family: Access to Genetic Siblings

Takeaways

Embryo adoption refers to the practice of treating embryo donation as a traditional adoption, which can create legal and ethical complications.

Education and support are crucial for individuals considering embryo donation, as it is not the right choice for everyone and requires careful consideration of the emotional and psychological implications.

Empower with Moxie is an embryo donation organization that aims to provide a more personal and connected approach to embryo donation, ensuring that donors and recipients have the opportunity to know each other and maintain a consensual connection.

The platform is inclusive and provides options for single women and LGBTQ families.

Moxie offers education and support for individuals navigating embryo donation, including genetic and medical counseling.

After a successful donation, the ownership of remaining embryos can either revert back to the original donors or be jointly decided by the recipients.

Maya is the CEO and co-founder of ⁠EM•POWER with Moxi⁠, a company focused on education, support and matching/logistics for directed embryo donation. She is also a Licensed Clinical Social Worker (LCSW) and⁠ psychotherapist⁠ in the field of reproductive medicine and a fertility advocate. Several years ago, Maya and her TV producer husband Noah made a feature length film documenting their tumultuous journey to parenthood, which ended with the birth of their daughter who was conceived via embryo donation. The film, called ⁠One More Shot⁠, debuted on Netflix in January 2018 and is now available on Amazon Prime. 

EM•POWER with Moxi:  ⁠www.empowerwithmoxi.com/⁠ IG: empowerwithmoxi  FB:@empowerwithmoxi 

One More Shot: ⁠http://www.onemoreshotfilm.com/⁠

In this episode, the Julio and Richard discuss the topic of twins, as they themselves are parents of twins. They explore the concept of twins in the context of IVF and surrogacy, discussing the reasons why some people choose to have twins and the risks associated with twin pregnancies. They also delve into the different types of twins, such as identical and fraternal twins, and the various ways in which twins can be conceived. The hosts also touch on the importance of reproductive rights and the impact of the upcoming US elections on these rights.

Keywords

twins, IVF, surrogacy, risks, types of twins, reproductive rights, US elections

Takeaways

The hosts share their personal experience of having twins through IVF and surrogacy.

Twin pregnancies are riskier than single pregnancies, and there are potential risks for both the surrogate and the babies.

The definition of twins can vary, but the hosts believe that twins are embryos that are carried by the same person at the same time.

The decision to have twins is influenced by factors such as cost, success rates, and the desire for siblings to grow up together.

Reproductive rights and the ability to make choices about one's own body are important issues, especially in the context of IVF and surrogacy.

Sound Bites

"Today we're going to be talking about twins."

"If you get two embryos and then you put in the same surrogate, they're twins."

"Anybody telling a woman what they can do to their body is wrong."

Chapters

00:00 Introduction: Exploring the World of Twins

06:18 Understanding the Risks and Considerations of Twin Pregnancies

08:13 Different Types of Twins: Identical vs. Fraternal

11:26 Defining Twins: Carried by the Same Person at the Same Time

14:20 Factors Influencing the Decision to Have Twins

26:16 The Importance of Reproductive Rights in IVF and Surrogacy

Titles

Factors Influencing the Decision to Have Twins

Exploring the World of Twins in IVF and Surrogacy

What happens when chosen family meets real-world adoption?In this powerful episode, Richard from IVF Daddies sits down with Mocca Bonè, the electrifying bearded queen from Drag Race Belgique, to talk about love, identity, and what it really means to build a family when society still hasn’t caught up.From navigating international adoption to confronting stereotypes, this is a story about courage, visibility, and the power of showing up as your full self — no filters, no shame, just heart.Follow:http://instagram.com/ivfdaddies/https://www.instagram.com/mocca_bone/https://www.instagram.com/dragracebelgique/What you’ll hear:• The emotional reality of LGBTQ+ adoption journeys• How visibility in drag culture shifts public perception• Parenting, partnership, and representation in today’s media• Why love—not labels—defines a familyIf you’ve ever wondered what family looks like beyond the headlines, this one’s for you.Watch more stories of love, identity, and modern family at ivfdaddies.comShare your story: ivfdaddies.com/confess🕒 CHAPTERS00:00 – When Chosen Family Becomes Real02:29 – The Adoption Journey No One Talks About04:50 – Facing Judgment with Pride07:32 – Raising Kids in a World That’s Still Learning10:07 – Media, Drag, and Family Representation12:57 – Balancing Spotlight and Parenthood15:26 – Hope, Courage, and What Comes Nexthttps://ivfdaddies-newsletter.beehiiv.com/

In this episode, Julio and Richard discuss the topic of formula feeding for babies. They share their personal experiences and address common questions and misconceptions surrounding formula feeding. They also touch on the stigma associated with formula feeding and the availability of different types of formula. The conversation concludes with a discussion on diapers and the importance of having support and guidance during the early stages of parenthood.

Keywords

formula feeding, breast milk, breastfeeding, stigma, surrogate, nutrition, baby care, diapers

Takeaways

Formula feeding is a common and valid choice for parents who are unable or choose not to breastfeed.

There is a stigma surrounding formula feeding, but it is important to respect the choices and preferences of individual parents.

Formula comes in different stages for different ages, and there are various options available, including vegan formulas.

Breast milk can be donated or purchased from breast milk banks, but it is ultimately up to the surrogate or birth parent to decide if they want to pump breast milk.

Having support and guidance, such as a maternity nurse, can be invaluable for new parents navigating the world of formula feeding and baby care.

Demystifying Formula Feeding: A Valid Choice for Parents

Breast Milk Options: Donating, Pumping, and Breast Milk Banks

Sound Bites

"Did you give your twins breast milk or formula? I was like, no, it was obvious."

"Is milk food? For a baby, there's not a lot to chew until a certain age."

"Breast is best. Trying to promote breastfeeding and all those different things."

Chapters

00:00 Introduction: The Question of Formula Feeding

07:05 Is Milk Food? Understanding the Role of Formula

10:59 The Stigma and Promotion of Breastfeeding

18:28 The Taste of Breast Milk and Formula Ingredients

25:09 Exploring the Composition of Formula

26:28 Potty Training and the Importance of Support

Cynthia, an embryologist and now working with a technology company, TMRW Life Science discusses the need for tools and technology to improve safety and scale in the embryology lab. She emphasizes the importance of ensuring the chain of custody and specimen record for patients. Cynthia also highlights the role of technology in selecting the best sperm and eggs for successful IVF cycles. She explains the challenges faced by clinics in managing the influx of patients seeking egg freezing and the need for operational efficiency. Cynthia discusses the potential of AI algorithms and ultrasound technology to improve efficiency and reduce costs in fertility clinics.

Keywords

embryology lab, safety, scale, chain of custody, specimen record, technology, sperm selection, egg selection, operational efficiency, AI algorithms, ultrasound technology, cost reduction

Chapters

00:00 Introduction and Cynthia's Background

01:27 Improving Safety and Scale in the Embryology Lab

06:13 The Role of Technology in Sperm and Egg Selection

10:03 Challenges and Opportunities in Egg Freezing

17:44 The Potential of AI Algorithms and Ultrasound Technology in Fertility Clinics

Takeaways

Tools and technology are needed to improve safety and scale in the embryology lab, ensuring the chain of custody and specimen record for patients.

Technology plays a crucial role in selecting the best sperm and eggs for successful IVF cycles.

Clinics face challenges in managing the influx of patients seeking egg freezing and the need for operational efficiency.

AI algorithms and ultrasound technology have the potential to improve efficiency and reduce costs in fertility clinics.

Sound Bites

"We need to build some technology and introduce tools to better secure the audit trail, better secure the chain of custody."

"By culturing embryos longer, we have dramatically improved the chances of success per attempt."

"The quality of the sperm is just as important as the quality of the egg."

In this episode, Richard and Julio are joined by Cindy, a top surrogacy lawyer in Canada, to discuss her personal story of having a transgender child. They explore the challenges faced by both the child and the parents, the importance of support and understanding, and the need for education and acceptance. Cindy shares her experiences with her child's school and friends, as well as the emotional toll it can take on both the child and the parents. The conversation emphasizes the need for empathy, grace, and open communication within families.

Keywords

transgender, surrogacy, parenting, support, acceptance, education, mental health

Takeaways

Support and understanding are crucial for transgender children and their parents.

Parents should seek out resources and support networks to navigate the challenges of having a transgender child.

Open communication and empathy within families can help create a safe and accepting environment.

It is important to give oneself grace as a parent and understand that mistakes will be made along the way.

Titles

Supporting Transgender Children: A Parent's Perspective

Navigating the Challenges of Parenting a Transgender Child

Sound Bites

"Lennox goes to an all girls school. How have they handled this situation as an institution? And also how have Lennox's friends handled this?"

"Has Lennox ever come to you thinking about the prospect that all this is too much, that the change is too much, is debilitating emotionally, physically, and then mentioned anything to do with suicide or anything like that?"

"Parents, children, anybody going through any struggles, you're not alone. You're not alone."

Chapters

00:00 Introduction and Background

01:25 The Changing Landscape of Acceptance

03:22 Supporting a Transgender Child

05:11 Finding Support and Resources

08:32 Understanding and Articulating Gender Identity

12:34 Navigating Pronouns and Name Changes

16:19 Dealing with Resistance and Lack of Support

18:41 Supportive School and Friends

21:23 Taking Time for Decision-Making

23:17 Mental Health and Suicide Prevention

25:58 Accessing Support Services

27:13 The Importance of Community and Education

31:03 Final Thoughts and Encouragement

In this episode, Richard and Julio discuss the topic of vulnerability and what it means to be a family. They touch on the anxiety and challenges they face as a blended family, including the reactions of others and the pressure to say and do the right things. They also explore the importance of celebrating love and kindness, and the rewards and sacrifices of parenting. The conversation delves into the complexities of being a stepparent and the impact on both the children and the parents involved. Overall, the episode highlights the personal struggles and growth that come with navigating relationships and family dynamics.

Being a stepparent is a challenging role that requires patience, compromise, and balancing multiple responsibilities.

The definition of family is fluid and can vary for each individual and situation.

Parenting is hard and comes with its own set of anxieties and self-doubt, but the rewards are immeasurable.

It is important to celebrate love and kindness and to support and uplift each other as parents and family members.

vulnerability, family, blended family, anxiety, challenges, reactions, love, kindness, parenting, stepparent, rewards, sacrifices, relationships, family dynamics

Chapters

00:00 Exploring Vulnerability and the Meaning of Family

09:48 The Challenges and Rewards of Being a Stepparent

23:55 Celebrating Love and Kindness in Family Dynamics

Sound Bites

"What makes a kid yours? When it came from their mouth when they said that they feel like they have three parents."

"I need to become obsolete in my children's lives as a parent. And that's when my job has been done properly, when they don't need me, but they want me."

"Parenting is really hard. It's not a walk in the park and the reward is exponential."

In this episode of IVFDADDIES, Julio and Richard discuss the topic of sperm donation and the options available for individuals or couples who need a sperm donor to start a family. They highlight the importance of empowering people to make their own choices and challenge the stigma surrounding sperm donation. The hosts also mention the portrayal of sperm donation in reality TV shows and the need for more education and support for those considering this route. They touch on the process of sperm donation, the different options available, and the importance of reducing inflammation for successful pregnancies.

Takeaways

Sperm donation is a valid option for individuals or couples who need a sperm donor to start a family.

There is a need to empower people and challenge the stigma surrounding sperm donation.

Reality TV shows can provide some insight into the process of sperm donation, but more education and support are needed.

The process of sperm donation involves choosing a sperm donor, purchasing vials of sperm, and using methods like intrauterine insemination (IUI) to conceive.

Reducing inflammation through methods like hyperbaric chambers can increase the chances of successful pregnancies.

sperm donation, options, empowerment, stigma, reality TV, education, support, process, inflammation

Sound Bites

"We're empowering people, we're empowering women."

"Why not go, oh my gosh, that's amazing. How can we support you in that?"

"You'll end up with a family one way or another. It may not be the one you thought you were going to have, but the options are there."

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Lala Kent

Kardashians

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In this conversation, Julio from IVF Daddies interviews Luisana Burgos from HBOT4Life about hyperbaric oxygen therapy (HBOT). They discuss the benefits of HBOT for overall health and fertility, the different types of hyperbaric chambers, the impact of inflammation on the body, and the potential for improving egg quality and fertility through HBOT. Luisana shares success stories of patients who have experienced positive results from HBOT. They also touch on the societal pressure on women to have children and the importance of education and awareness about fertility.

Keywords

hyperbaric oxygen therapy, HBOT, health, fertility, inflammation, egg quality, fertility treatment

Takeaways

Hyperbaric oxygen therapy (HBOT) is a medical treatment that can benefit both individuals with medical conditions and those without any symptoms.

HBOT can improve overall health, boost energy levels, and promote healing and regeneration in the body.

HBOT has the potential to improve egg quality and fertility by oxygenating the eggs and creating a better environment for conception.

There is a lack of education and awareness about fertility, and societal pressure on women to have children can cause stress and anxiety.

HBOT is a promising alternative treatment for various medical conditions, but it requires multiple sessions and a commitment to the treatment process.

The Potential of HBOT for Longevity and Reversing Aging

The Impact of Inflammation on the Body and the Role of HBOT

Chapters

00:00 Introduction and Overview of Hyperbaric Oxygen Therapy

03:17 The Benefits of HBOT for Health and Prevention

11:45 Improving Egg Quality and Fertility with HBOT

24:26 Addressing Societal Pressure and Fertility Education

30:52 Success Stories and the Potential of HBOT for Longevity

Sound Bites

"For me, oxygen therapy or hyperbaric oxygen therapy, it is one of the best ways to actually prevent and to put your body in such a state that you are free of a medical condition as long as you can."

"Hyperbaric chambers can heal tissue that cannot be regenerated anymore. Imagine what it can do for your body for something mild."

"80% of our diet is inflammatory. We drink milk, we eat cheese, we eat yogurt. All that causes an inflammatory response in our body."

The conversation revolves around the experience of witnessing a friend's journey through fertility, from freezing eggs to having a baby, and the emotional impact of being asked to be a godfather. It also touches on the power of hope, support, and inspiration in the context of fertility struggles.

Takeaways

The journey of fertility and IVF can be emotionally impactful and filled with hope and inspiration.

Support and guidance are crucial for individuals going through fertility struggles.

The power of hope and perseverance in the face of fertility challenges is evident in the speaker's experience.

The role of a godparent is seen as an honor and a source of joy and emotional connection.

The impact of sharing personal experiences and providing support to others going through similar challenges is highlighted.

Sound Bite

"I'm not very good at expressing emotions and I typically cry because that's what happens."

"Keep your optionality as far as you can, as much as you can."

"As a gay guy, who would have thought that I would be here, age 48, with twins?"

Keywords

fertility, freezing eggs, IVF journey, emotional impact, hope, support, inspiration

Aemilia shares her journey of freezing her eggs at the age of 40 and undergoing IVF to have a baby at age 47. She emphasizes the importance of taking control of one's fertility and making informed decisions. Aemilia's story highlights the success of her single embryo transfer and the support she received from her friends and medical professionals. She encourages others to consider egg freezing as a way to preserve their options and break the taboo surrounding fertility treatments.

Takeaways

Egg freezing can provide women with the flexibility to decide when to have a baby and alleviate the pressure of the biological clock.

Choosing a single embryo transfer can reduce the risk of multiple pregnancies.

Having a supportive network of friends and medical professionals is crucial throughout the fertility journey.

Breaking the taboo surrounding fertility treatments is important to empower individuals to make informed decisions about their reproductive health.

Chapters

00:00 Introduction and Recap

00:56 Aemilia's Journey from Egg Freezing to Motherhood

03:50 Making the Decision to Have a Family

06:41 Navigating the IVF Process with Support

09:26 Preparing for the IVF Cycle

13:26 Choosing a Single Embryo Transfer

20:30 The Wait and Confirmation of Pregnancy

23:25 Emotional Journey and Support

28:11 The Taboo Surrounding Fertility Treatments

31:02 Conclusion and Final Thoughts

Keywords

egg freezing, IVF, fertility, single embryo transfer, support, decision-making

Sound Bites

"I had already for a year been doing acupuncture with my acupuncture specialist in fertility and knew about this process."

"All eight are viable. 100 percenter."

"Oh, great. The heartbeat. All of you were in tears. Oh my God. And by God, you're pregnant."

In this episode, Julio and Richard discuss their experiences at a Men Having Babies conference in Berlin and the importance of educating people about the basics of IVF and surrogacy. They highlight the mix of attendees at the conference, from newbies to those who have done extensive research. They emphasize the need for more education and understanding about fertility and the various paths to building a family. The conversation also touches on personal topics such as divorce and the emotional challenges of deciding what to do with frozen embryos.

Chapters

00:00 Introduction and Setting

00:30 Attending the Men Having Babies Conference in Berlin

07:14 Starting Conversations and Providing Support

12:02 The Emotional Challenges of Divorce and Frozen Embryos

23:19 Legally Owning Embryos and Future Decisions

26:34 The Emotional Impact of Protecting Children

29:29 The Importance of Providing Information and Personal Experiences

34:57 Conclusion and Future Episodes

Keywords

IVF, surrogacy, Men Having Babies, conference, education, fertility, basics, attendees, research, paths to parenthood, divorce, frozen embryos

Takeaways

Men Having Babies conferences provide valuable information and resources for those interested in IVF and surrogacy.

There is a need for more education and understanding about fertility and the different paths to building a family.

The emotional challenges of divorce and deciding what to do with frozen embryos can be difficult to navigate.

Open and honest conversations about these topics can help provide support and guidance for others going through similar experiences.

Sound Bites

"There is a need for people to understand the basics."

"The need for people to understand the basics."

"Starting the conversation, whether it is good comments or bad comments, it allows us to listen."

In this episode, the guest shares her experience as a Black transgender woman going through the IVF and surrogacy process in New York City. She discusses the importance of understanding empathy and the challenges faced by minority groups in the United States. She also highlights the disparities in access to healthcare for Black women and the high maternal mortality rates. The guest emphasizes the significance of building relationships and finding a supportive community during the IVF journey. She talks about her criteria for choosing an agency and the obstacles she faced in finding information and support.

Takeaways

Understanding empathy is crucial in supporting minority groups going through the IVF and surrogacy process.

There are disparities in access to healthcare and high maternal mortality rates for Black women.

Building relationships and finding a supportive community is important during the IVF journey.

Choosing an agency that aligns with personal values and provides a sense of affinity can enhance the experience.

Finding information and support can be challenging, but connecting with others who have gone through a similar journey can be invaluable.

Chapters

00:00 Introduction: A Powerful Story of Identity and Activism

03:16 Chapter 1: Empathy and Activism: Understanding the Challenges Faced by Minority Groups

16:14 Chapter 2: Building Relationships and Finding Support in the IVF Process

28:58 Chapter 4: Overcoming Obstacles: Finding Information and Support

Sound Bites

"A powerful story of identity and activism"

"New York City: A welcoming and diverse environment for the IVF journey"

"The importance of love and family beyond genetics"

Sound Bites

"A powerful story of identity and activism"

"New York City: A welcoming and diverse environment for the IVF journey"

"The importance of love and family beyond genetics"

Forget polished fertility ads and sugar-coated promises. In this episode, Dr. Sarah Mikowski sits down with IVF Daddies and lays out the raw facts about egg freezing: the decline of egg quality, what your “optimal age” really looks like, the emotional and physical dose of hormonal treatment, and the stats that nobody wants you to know.

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We’re calling out the industry, answering your “what if’s” and “should I’s,” and giving you the freedom to plan YOUR body, not someone else’s timeline.

You’ll walk away knowing:
• When egg freezing actually gives you a statistical advantage
• Why “egg quality” matters more than “egg count”
• What the injections + retrieval really feel like
• How lifestyle, age and partner-status factor in (spoiler: you don’t need a partner)
• How egg freezing doesn’t ruin your future fertility—but you still need to act with eyes wide open

👉 WATCH & LISTEN NOW — because your biological clock shouldn’t be driven by fear, but by data + choice.

Chapters

00:00 Understanding Egg Freezing

02:50 The Optimal Age for Egg Freezing

05:38 The Egg Freezing Process

08:49 Managing Expectations and Side Effects

11:27 Long-term Considerations and Recommendations

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egg freezing, fertility, egg retrieval, egg quality, optimal age, IVF, women’s health, reproductive options, family planning, hormonal treatment, fertility freedom, fertility preservation, fertility education, Dr. Sarah Mikowski

Summary

Dr. Amy Kaing discusses the basics of IVF and the process of residency and fellowship in the medical field. She explains that IVF involves taking eggs and sperm and developing embryos in a laboratory before transferring them to the uterus. She also explains the concept of ectopic pregnancy and the importance of the uterus for a successful pregnancy. Dr. Kaing emphasizes the importance of early fertility planning and recommends getting an AMH test to assess ovarian reserve. She also discusses the challenges faced by individuals with low ovarian reserve and the options available for preserving fertility. Dr. Kaing touches on the topic of transgender individuals and their fertility planning, as well as the impact of age on the success of egg and sperm freezing.

Chapters

00:00 Introduction and Background

06:06 Importance of Early Fertility Planning

14:58 Challenges and Options for Low Ovarian Reserve

23:23 Fertility Planning for Transgender Individuals

Takeaways

IVF involves taking eggs and sperm and developing embryos in a laboratory before transferring them to the uterus.

An ectopic pregnancy occurs when the fertilized egg implants outside the uterus, usually in the fallopian tube.

Early fertility planning is important, and an AMH test can assess ovarian reserve.

Individuals with low ovarian reserve may face challenges in conceiving and may need to consider options like egg donation.

Transgender individuals may need to plan for fertility preservation before starting hormone therapy.

Age is a factor in the success of egg and sperm freezing.

Keywords

IVF, residency, fellowship, basics, ectopic pregnancy, uterus, AMH test, ovarian reserve, fertility planning, low ovarian reserve, preserving fertility, transgender, age, egg freezing, sperm freezing

Sound Bites

"IVF is basically a process of taking eggs and putting it together with sperm in a laboratory setting and developing embryos that we can then grow to a certain stage before we put it back into a uterus."

"Ectopics in general are just pregnancies outside of the uterus where they're meant to grow."

"I'm seeing people in their late 20s, early 30s that are just thinking about their fertility. They aren't actively trying, they're not technically infertile, but they're trying to plan ahead."

In this episode, Richard Westoby interviews Molly O'Brien, a legal expert in surrogacy. They discuss the legal aspects of surrogacy contracts, including the importance of having a contract to establish parental rights, the timing of obtaining a court order, and the potential challenges that may arise. They also touch on the importance of trust and communication between intended parents and surrogates, as well as the financial and emotional aspects of the contract. The conversation concludes with a discussion on termination of pregnancy and the role of compensation in surrogacy.

Keywords

surrogacy, legal aspects, surrogacy contract, parental rights, court order, trust, communication, termination of pregnancy, compensation

Takeaways

Surrogacy contracts are more complex than egg donation contracts because they involve parental rights.

A court order is necessary to establish the intended parents as legal parents and remove the surrogate's legal rights.

Trust and communication are crucial in the relationship between intended parents and surrogates.

Compensation in surrogacy should be fair and not coercive.

Termination of pregnancy should be discussed and agreed upon by both parties in the contract.

Sound Bites

"Surrogacy is a lot more complicated. The legal contract is much longer, more detailed, because we are dealing with parental rights when it comes to surrogacy."

"Everything isn't really completed and secured until after the birth. So in some states there is a little bit of a timeline where the surrogate is technically the legal parent until that paperwork is completed."

"Communication is key. As with everything in life, communication is key."

Chapters

00:00 Introduction and Background

04:17 Financial Aspects of Surrogacy Contracts

09:55 Addressing the Sensitive Topic of Termination

16:22 Psychological Assessment and Compensation

Summary

Joey Guzman, a licensed therapist specializing in fertility, IVF, and surrogacy counseling, shares his personal journey of building a family through surrogacy and egg donation. He discusses the importance of open communication, setting expectations, and navigating the emotional complexities of the process. Joey emphasizes the need for informed decision-making, including considerations for donor selection, single vs. double embryo transfer, and the relational dynamics with surrogates. He also highlights the role of mental health providers in providing education, support, and empathy to intended parents and surrogates throughout their journey.

Takeaways

Open communication and setting expectations are crucial when involving family members in the surrogacy and egg donation process.

Informed decision-making is essential, including considerations for donor selection, single vs. double embryo transfer, and the relational dynamics with surrogates.

Mental health providers play a vital role in providing education, support, and empathy to intended parents and surrogates throughout their journey.

The surrogacy process can be emotionally challenging, and having a strong support system is important for both intended parents and surrogates.

Empathy and understanding are key in navigating the complexities and emotions involved in building a family through surrogacy and egg donation.

Chapters

00:00 Introduction and Personal Journey

03:21 Donor Selection and Embryo Creation

07:22 Navigating Surrogate Selection

10:43 The Role of Mental Health Providers

23:07 Supporting Surrogates and Donors

25:26 Understanding Double Embryo Transfer

29:21 Personal Experience and Emotional Challenges

35:28 Importance of Support and Empathy

Sound Bites

"It is important to have a support system. It is important for you to be able to express yourself and to have your people there because you need people to help you with this."

"There's more to think about than just the thought of we wanna be parents and I wanna have a baby and I wanna transfer two embryos."

"You nearly made me cry. That must've been so tough. I'm really sorry that you went through that."

Keywords

fertility, IVF, surrogacy, counseling, donor selection, embryo transfer, mental health, support, empathy

Dr. Rothenberg discusses transgender and non-binary fertility, including the rise in patients identifying as trans or non-binary. She explains gender affirming treatment and how it can affect fertility. Dr. Rothenberg emphasizes the importance of creating a safe and inclusive space for patients and normalizing the fertility process for all individuals. She also discusses the hormone process for transgender individuals with ovaries and the options for fertility preservation. Additionally, she addresses the challenges and experimental options for fertility preservation in transgender children who have not yet gone through puberty. Dr. Stephanie Rothenberg discusses fertility options for transgender and non-binary individuals. She explains the process of fertility preservation, including egg and sperm freezing, and the challenges faced by young people who are transitioning. Dr. Rothenberg also addresses the psychological and emotional aspects of fertility for transgender individuals, as well as the importance of having a supportive family and access to insurance coverage. She emphasizes that there is never a wrong time to talk to a fertility doctor and encourages individuals to make their own choices about starting a family.

More people are identifying as trans or non-binary, but not all pursue gender affirming treatment.

Fertility preservation options depend on the individual's gender identity, hormone therapy, and desired family-building methods.

Creating a safe and inclusive space for transgender and non-binary individuals is crucial in fertility care.

Fertility preservation in transgender children who have not yet gone through puberty is still experimental, but may become a viable option in the future. Fertility preservation options, such as egg and sperm freezing, are available for transgender and non-binary individuals.

Young people who are transitioning may face challenges in accessing fertility care, including the need for a supportive family and insurance coverage.

Coming off hormone therapy can have physical and psychological effects, and it is important to consider fertility preservation options before starting hormone therapy.

Transgender individuals can pursue various paths to parenthood, including IVF, surrogacy, and adoption.

It is important to find a fertility clinic that is knowledgeable and affirming of transgender and non-binary individuals.

Reproductive autonomy is crucial, and individuals should feel empowered to make their own choices about starting a family.

Titles

Creating a Safe and Inclusive Fertility Space

Understanding Transgender and Non-Binary Fertility Finding a Knowledgeable and Affirming Fertility Clinic

Embracing Reproductive Autonomy: Making Your Own Choices

Chapters

00:00 Introduction and Background of Dr. Stephanie Rothenberg

01:15 Understanding Transgender and Non-Binary Fertility

12:21 Navigating Hormone Therapy and Fertility Preservation

25:46 Fertility Options for Transgender and Non-Binary Individuals

30:44 Challenges and Considerations for Young People Transitioning

36:20 The Importance of Supportive Families and Insurance Coverage

39:21 Navigating the Psychological and Emotional Aspects of Fertility

41:05 Exploring Paths to Parenthood for Transgender Individuals

42:41 Finding a Knowledgeable and Affirming Fertility Clinic

45:02 Embracing Reproductive Autonomy: Making Your Own Choices