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This episode captures what it really feels like to build a family through surrogacy — the anticipation, the uncertainty, and the life-altering joy of becoming parents. In this intimate conversation between IVF DADDIES and DADS.KIDS.MIRACLES, we explore the decisions that shape a family, the emotions that define it, and the support systems that make it all possible.

Every surrogacy journey begins with a decision — a private moment when future parents choose to believe that family can take many forms. But what happens after that choice? What follows is an emotional landscape few people talk about publicly: the waiting, the updates from the surrogate, the moments of fear, and the quiet victories that lead to birth.

Here, you’ll hear how connection, trust, and communication become the foundation of everything. When you’re an intended parent, every call from the surrogate can change the course of your day — and every milestone, no matter how small, feels monumental. The journey is unpredictable, but it’s also deeply human.

We discuss what it means to stay grounded through unexpected news, how to navigate medical uncertainty, and how to hold space for hope even when outcomes are unclear. The story includes moments of premature birth, gratitude, and a love so profound it reshapes what parenthood means.

This isn’t just about IVF or fertility treatments — it’s about identity, partnership, and how family expands beyond biology. It’s about the quiet strength of those who carry life for others, and the deep emotional bond that forms between intended parents and surrogates. It’s about learning that parenthood isn’t only about genetics or timing — it’s about showing up, over and over, no matter what happens.

In this episode, we look at the conversations that matter most:
– How do couples decide that surrogacy is the right path?
– How do they manage the rollercoaster of updates, appointments, and emotions?
– What happens when things don’t go as planned — and what keeps them going?
– How can family, friends, and community be a source of stability?
– And most importantly, how do you stay connected to joy when fear feels closer?

Through honesty and compassion, this episode celebrates the real faces behind modern parenthood — couples, surrogates, and families redefining what love looks like in the 21st century. It’s a reminder that no matter how advanced the science becomes, the heart of surrogacy is still deeply human.

If you’re considering surrogacy, in the middle of a journey, or supporting someone who is, this story offers perspective, comfort, and hope. Because the path to parenthood can be messy, emotional, and imperfect — but it’s also full of meaning, connection, and miracles that change you forever.

Hook line: “You can decide what you do — but parenthood decides who you become.”

Listen now and discover the courage, vulnerability, and beauty behind creating life in a new way.

CHAPTERS:00:00 Introduction to Family Life and Surrogacy00:12 The Journey of Premature Birth01:00 Navigating the Emotional Rollercoaster

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When you change what you feed your attention, you change your life. Julio Gaggia sits down with author and creator Jorge Perez to unpack how focus, language, and perspective shape our reality—plus the origin story behind his book “The Shut the F* Up Method.”** We cover the art of non-complaint, why negativity spreads in groups, and how to redirect energy toward growth, relationships, and purpose (including hard chapters like grief, identity shifts, and IVF journeys).

Author Jorge Perez joins Julio Gaggia to break down The Shut the F** Up Method*: how silence, focus, and attention can reshape stress, relationships, and creativity. A masterclass on energy, grief, and reinvention.

You’ll learn:

• Why where you put attention, energy grows—and how to audit yours in 5 minutes

• The non-complaint protocol to stop feeding negativity at work, home, and in community

• Perspective tools for grief, reinvention, and identity (without toxic positivity)

• Desire vs. attachment: how clutching repels outcomes (career, love, IVF hopes)

• A simple writing ritual to turn frustration into a book-worthy insight

Power quotes:
“Life sucks if we focus on that.” • “Life is great if we put attention there.” • “Where you put your attention, energy grows.”

Chapters
00:00 Why attention is currency
02:24 Reinvention after loss
05:19 Stress, language, and the body
08:17 The STFU Method (non-complaint in practice)
10:28 Inspirations + creative triggers
12:09 Independence vs. partnership
14:06 Identity and transformation
15:59 Friendships that mirror growth
19:01 Lessons from grief & acceptance
23:54 Normalizing death conversations
26:08 Grieving and moving forward
28:22 The IVF & surrogacy chapter
30:50 Tools for navigating fertility stress
37:02 Perspective as a daily practice
39:11 Desire vs. attachment
47:52 Closing doors, opening hearts

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Because attention is a choice—and your life follows it.

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One decision nearly ended our surrogacy journey before it began.In this IVF Daddies episode, Julio & Richard share the little-known red flags that can derail IVF and surrogacy — from medical surprises to emotional landmines. Joined by Dr. Lauren Garrett, we dive deep into genetic testing and why understanding results early is critical for building a healthy family.What you’ll learn:• Why preconception genetic testing matters• What expanded carrier screening actually looks for• How pre-implantation genetic testing (PGT) works• The truth about mosaic embryos and healthy pregnancies• What’s coming next in non-invasive genetic testingComment below: Do you think every IVF patient should do genetic testing before transfer?Subscribe for unfiltered IVF truths, emotional support, and practical insights for modern family building.Submit your anonymous story → https://ivfdaddies-newsletter.beehiiv.com/Chapters00:00 Introduction to Genetics in Fertility02:55 Understanding Preconception Genetic Testing05:45 Embryo Testing: Techniques and Implications08:45 Pre-implantation Genetic Testing Explained11:26 The Future of Genetic Testing in Fertility

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In this conversation, Dr. Nurit WinklerDouble Board-Certified Fertility Specialist & International Reproductive Expert, discusses the complexities of navigating fertility treatment options. Emphasizing the importance of understanding patient needs and preferences, she highlights the balance between medical advice and patient autonomy. The discussion also covers the role of holistic approaches in managing stress during treatment, the significance of early diagnostics, and the various treatment options available based on individual diagnoses. Dr. Winkler advocates for a respectful and collaborative approach to fertility care, ensuring that patients feel empowered in their treatment decisions.

It's important to match treatment options with patient desires.

Respecting patient wishes is crucial in fertility treatment.

Holistic approaches can help manage stress during treatment.

Patients should not feel guilty about their fertility challenges.

Early diagnostics can lead to better treatment outcomes.

Each treatment should be tailored to the individual's diagnosis.

Clomid is not effective for all patients, especially older women.

IVF may not always be the first option for younger patients.

Open communication between doctor and patient is essential.

Navigating fertility options early can expand treatment possibilities.

Chapters

00:00 Introduction to Fertility Treatment Options

01:21 Understanding Patient Needs and Treatment Preferences

04:23 The Role of Holistic Approaches in Fertility

08:47 Navigating Fertility Diagnostics and Early Intervention

11:40 Exploring Treatment Options Based on Diagnosis

Sound Bites

"Don't feel guilty about that."

"Anything that can be done to help you..."

"The sooner you do that, the better..."

In this episode of the IVF Daddies podcast, Dr. Connor Curley shares his journey from being diagnosed with multiple sclerosis to founding Phytofix, a nutrition product company focused on food supplements. He discusses the importance of nutrition in managing health conditions like MS and endometriosis, and how this led to the development of Fertility Fix, a product designed to support fertility in both men and women. The conversation highlights the often-overlooked connection between nutrition and reproductive health, emphasizing the need for holistic approaches in fertility treatments.

Takeaways

Dr. Curley was diagnosed with MS at 15, which shaped his career.

Phytofix focuses on science-based nutrition supplements.

Lifestyle factors play a significant role in managing MS.

Endometriosis is often neglected in healthcare discussions.

Fertility issues affect one in six couples globally.

Fertility Fix was developed based on scientific research.

The product is designed for both men and women.

Nutrition can improve sperm and egg quality.

Some nutrients can help reduce the risk of miscarriage.

Phytofix has already seen success with pregnancies since launching.

Chapters

00:00 Introduction to Dr. Connor Curley and Phytofix

02:25 The Journey from MS to Nutrition Science

05:07 Exploring Endometriosis and Its Impact on Fertility

07:35 The Development of Fertility Fix

09:33 The Importance of Nutrition in IVF and Pregnancy

10:39 Conclusion and Future Directions

IVF, fertility, nutrition, endometriosis, multiple sclerosis, health supplements, Phytofix, fertility fix, pregnancy, wellness

"It's unisex and convenient."

"It tastes really good."

"It's doing something right now."

In this conversation, IVFDADDIES Richard Westoby , and Deirdre A. Conway, MD from the Utah Fertility Center discusses the complexities of choosing a fertility clinic, the importance of patient experience, and the various metrics that define success in fertility treatments. She emphasizes the role of embryology in IVF success and the need for patients to understand and interpret success rates accurately. The discussion highlights the emotional journey of patients and the critical support provided by the entire clinic staff throughout the process.

Takeaways

Choosing a fertility clinic involves multiple touchpoints.

Success in fertility is often defined as having a baby.

Patient experience is as important as clinical success rates.

Embryology plays a crucial role in IVF outcomes.

Success rates can be complicated and vary by clinic.

Patients should compare clinics carefully based on age and statistics.

The lab's protocols significantly impact IVF success rates.

Understanding success metrics is essential for patients.

Communication and support are vital during the fertility journey.

Asking questions is key to navigating fertility treatments.

Chapters

00:00 Choosing the Right Fertility Clinic

02:55 Understanding Success in Fertility Treatments

05:49 The Role of Embryology in IVF Success

09:07 Interpreting Success Rates in Fertility Treatments

11:48 Defining Success Metrics in IVF

Sound Bites

"It's not only the biological success."

"You have to compare apples to apples."

"You want to have a baby in your arms."

Navigating the Fertility Clinic Landscape

Defining Success in Fertility Treatments

In this conversation, In colaboration with IVY Fertility, Richard Westoby from IVFDADDIES and Dr. Meredith Brower, MD discusses the process of frozen embryo transfer, including the preparation of the uterus, the administration of estrogen and progesterone, and what to expect on the day of the transfer. She explains the differences between medicated and natural cycles, the importance of monitoring the uterine lining, and the steps taken during the transfer procedure. The discussion also touches on patient experiences and the emotional aspects of the IVF journey.

Takeaways

The final step in IVF is the embryo transfer.

The uterus lining needs estrogen and progesterone for implantation.

Different methods exist for administering estrogen and progesterone.

Patients can switch methods if one isn't working effectively.

The embryo transfer process involves careful monitoring and preparation.

Natural cycles allow the body to produce its own hormones.

The day of transfer includes identity checks and ultrasound guidance.

Patients can eat and drink normally on transfer day.

Resting after transfer is encouraged, but not strictly necessary.

Pregnancy tests are conducted about 10 days after the transfer.

Chapters

00:00 Understanding Frozen Embryo Transfer

11:06 The Day of the Transfer Process

"What is a frozen embryo transfer?"

"The progesterone's for implantation."

"Thank you very much."

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In this conversation, Dr. Carrie Melissa Wambach , Leading MD from IVY Fertility discusses the multifaceted benefits of Ozempic, a medication primarily used for diabetes management, and its implications for weight loss, hormonal balance, and women's health, particularly in relation to fertility and pregnancy. The discussion highlights how Ozempic can help normalize hormonal levels, improve egg quality, and reduce pregnancy complications associated with higher BMI, while also addressing the complexities of its use in pre-pregnancy and surgical contexts.

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Ozempic is primarily for diabetes management but has other benefits.

It decreases insulin resistance, aiding in weight loss.

Ozempic helps normalize luteinizing hormone (LH) levels in women.

Women on Ozempic may experience regular periods and improved fertility.

The medication lowers testosterone and insulin, contributing to better egg quality.

Patients are advised to stop Ozempic two months before pregnancy.

The drug's effects on gastric emptying can complicate surgical procedures.

Weight management is crucial for reducing pregnancy complications.

Lower BMI is associated with healthier pregnancies and reduced risks.

The exact mechanisms of Ozempic's benefits in fertility are still being studied.

Unlocking the Secrets of Ozempic

Ozempic: A Game Changer for Women's Health

Chapters

00:00 Introduction to Ozempic and Its Benefits

02:53 Ozempic's Impact on Women's Health and Fertility

05:41 The Broader Implications of Weight Management in Pregnancy

Ozempic, diabetes management, weight loss, fertility, women's health, insulin resistance, hormonal balance, pregnancy complications, health benefits

Summary

We are Honored of partnering with Ivy Fertility who opened their doors to us to ask all the questions you have been asking us, we got the answers in a special collaboration with the best experts in the IVF Field.

In this conversation, Dr. Said Daneshmand discusses his extensive experience in helping families navigate the complexities of IVF and surrogacy, particularly focusing on the LGBTQIA+ community. He emphasises the importance of support systems, breaking down barriers, and providing accessible and affordable fertility services. The discussion covers various options available for gay male and female couples, including egg donation, surrogacy, and reciprocal IVF, while highlighting the need for community support and the evolution of fertility services over the years.

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Chapters

00:00 Introduction to Surrogacy and IVF Journey

02:49 Supporting LGBTQIA+ Families in Fertility

06:10 Options for Gay Male Couples

09:02 Family Building for Gay Female Couples

11:53 Access and Affordability in Fertility Care

Keywords

IVF, surrogacy, LGBTQIA+, fertility, egg donation, family building, access, affordability, intended parents, reproductive health

"The joy of parenthood inspires my career."

"Their success is our purpose."

"Building communities for support."

In this episode of the IVF Daddy's Podcast, the hosts delve into various topics surrounding fertility, nutrition, and lifestyle choices. They discuss the controversial effects of Ozempic on pregnancy, the importance of nutrition in fertility, and the strict requirements of IVF and surrogacy. The conversation also touches on the broader implications of diet as medicine and how to navigate nutrition with children, emphasizing moderation and education.

Takeaways

Creating engaging podcast content can be challenging.

Ozempic has been linked to a rise in pregnancies.

Nutrition plays a significant role in fertility and overall health.

IVF and surrogacy require strict lifestyle and dietary adherence.

Food can be seen as medicine in managing health.

Obesity is a growing epidemic with serious implications.

Education about food sources is crucial for children.

Moderation is key in children's diets to prevent cravings.

Nutritionists often cater to what clients want to hear.

Eating habits can impact social interactions and relationships.

Chapters

00:00 Introduction to Podcasting Challenges

02:51 Ozempic and Pregnancy: A Controversial Discussion

05:29 Nutrition's Role in Fertility

12:46 The Dichotomy of IVF and Natural Conception

16:42 Food as Medicine: The Impact of Diet on Health

20:58 Parenting and Nutrition: Educating Children on Food Choices

Sound Bites

"Ozempic babies are on the rise!"

"Food is thy medicine!"

"Cows are raped for milk?"

Keywords

IVF, Ozempic, pregnancy, nutrition, fertility, lifestyle choices, food as medicine, surrogacy, health, parenting