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Aren and Trina talk with us about their struggle with chronic Lyme disease and the loss of their son, Ori, after a life-limiting diagnosis.

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Ministry referenced in the interview that helps families who are pregnant with a baby with a life-limiting diagnosis: Abelspeaks.org

Author and speaker Shannon Cramer shares about her journey with chronic illness (Narcolepsy and POTS), and why many chronic illness sufferers struggle with the question, "Is God Punishing Me?"

Shannon's website.

Shannon's book: How To Keep Believing When You're Suffering

Host: David Heflin

Producer: Andres Ruiz

Editor: John Shields

We welcome Micah Heflin (my son) and Katum Redfearn on this episode of In The Seams, a junior and senior in high school respectively. They both struggle with significant chronic illness and pain. We discuss how chronic illness changes the lives of teenagers, how their social relationships are impacted, their relationship with God, and their outlook on their future. Chronic illness is a teenage problem too! These two teenagers open their hearts to us as we hear their hard-earned wisdom and faith due to their suffering. Also in the episode we mentioned Sara Willoughby and The Diamond Conference. Here is the website: http://sgwilloughby.com/ Finally, there are some minor microphone issues in the background. It doesn't affect your ability to hear the speakers.

In this episode, I interview Jeremy Harrison and Jeremy Wright, two faithful Christians and ministers, who have wives living with chronic illness. Both Jeremys open up about their personal struggles with faith and purpose in their loved one's pain and their grief on their behalf.

This one is especially for those of you watching a loved one go through the struggle and dealing with the helplessness you often feel when you can't take the pain away from them and can't get God to do it either. How do we go forward in a life we never envisioned? How do we hold onto each other and to God?

Jeremy Wright mentioned a book he couldn't remember in the podcast. Later he told me it is called "This Too Shall Last: Finding Grace When Suffering Lingers" by K.J. Ramsey. You can find on Christianbook.com here: https://www.christianbook.com/shall-finding-grace-when-suffering-lingers/k-j-ramsey/9780310107255/pd/0107255?utm_source=google&kw=29064775092&mt=&dv=c&event=PPCSRC&p=1186432&gclid=CjwKCAiA0JKfBhBIEiwAPhZXDxuJTHIiVrGENhSeQ6Av74LAfsV1RSyWTn-UQBMBiIDnd1gdVjH_CBoCFX0QAvD_BwE

Professor and minister Timothy Gunnells shares his journey with chronic pain and its impact on his family life and career and how his faith has sustained him through his worse days into some brighter days. Tim shares his perspective on how we can stay thankful through even the painful days.

Reflections from David Heflin on the eve of surgery concerning what the Christian attitude should be toward medical care and expensive interventions in the midst of a land where we take these sort of things for granted. David reflects on our approach to healthcare as a whole, compassionate responses to those who have greater needs, and the concerning trend to use medical care to end life instead of save it.

Trigger Warning: This episode deals with a real-life story of homicide and suicide. If you have experienced trauma in you own life, please proceed with caution. Jessye Wilden, author of the upcoming book We Wrote Your Name In Color, joined us to share the story of when her brother-in-law killed his wife and then himself. Jessye and her husband Ryan were best friends with both Ryan's little sister and her husband. They began raising their children after the homicide/suicide.

How can such tragedy and pain lead to forgiveness, hope, and healing for the Wilden family as well as their small community in northern California? We talk about that and the overlapping issues of mental health (depression and anxiety) and suicide in the chronic pain community. We also talked how forgiveness is possible even in the hardest of circumstances.

Jessye's book comes out on 10/19. Get more information and pre-order on her website: https://www.jessyewilden.com/.

Chronic illness robs people of so much they enjoy doing, but it does it mean we have less value as servants of God? In this episode, David Heflin explores this question through Paul's metaphor of "jars of clay" in 2 Cor. 4. A paradox of the gospel is that the weaker we are the more God's glory/power are made known through

Esther Smith has a book being released on 6/22/22 called A Still and Quiet Mind: Twelve Strategies for Changing Unwanted Thoughts. While the book addresses a general Christian audience, the issue of chronic illness' impact on unwanted thoughts is addressed through Esther's own experience with chronic illness and her professional experience as a counselor. Here's the Amazon link for the book: https://www.amazon.com/Still-Quiet-Mind-Strategies-Changing/dp/1629959219 and the Publisher link: https://www.prpbooks.com/book/a-still-and-quiet-mind

Esther's website is here: https://esthermariesmith.com/. Here counseling site: https://www.christiantraumacounseling.com

Additionally, we had a blog interview about Esther's personal story here: https://brokenandmended.com/2022/03/22/conversation-with-esther-smith/

What happens when your life is going great and chronic illness shows up to crash the party? Tara Cole and I talk about it and more. "God does a lot with our little."

Tara's website is https://taralcole.com/. You can subscribe to Tara's newsletter and receive a free e-book here: https://www.subscribepage.com/taralcole-subscribe_copy2

Here's the five-day Abide challenge that Tara mentions in the podcast: https://taralcole.com/abide/ and her content for subscribers is here: https://www.patreon.com/overacup