Welcome to the How to Reign When it’s Raining Podcast with Abi and Dolina, a REAL mum and daughter team celebrating stories of resilience, strength and limitless potential. This podcast is for you if you're seeking inspiration, expert advice or practical guidance to transform your mindset and create a life you love. There truly are no limits to what you can achieve.
We're dedicated to helping people find the courage and confidence to move forward and create the life they truly want.
If you've faced challenging times but are determined to step into your future with confidence, you're in the right place. We understand the emotional hurdles you’re facing, and we’re here to remind you—you’re not alone.
With years of experience, proven techniques and using our methods, including hypnotherapy and NLP, we’re passionate about transforming mindsets, overcoming self-limiting beliefs and helping you realise your full potential.
Join us every week for inspiring, transformative real-life stories from our guests and insights from our incredible listeners. Together, we’ll build a supportive community where you can heal, grow and thrive. Welcome to the Reignmaker family!
Subscribe/follow now on your favourite platform, and thank you for being part of this powerful journey.
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In our latest episode we have a brilliant conversation with the fabulous Katie Keith, founder of Lead Rebellion - a bold and empowering leadership platform designed to elevate senior women leaders, founders and entrepreneurs. We talk about the 'itty bitty shitty committee' concept, the importance of dancing and music for healing, the challenges of burnout and the impact of emotional and physical well-being on personal growth. Katie’s mission is to challenge outdated leadership norms, inspire bold action and empower leaders to step into their full potential with confidence and impact. Join us for topics of self-awareness, rethinking commitments and the power of community and accountability.
00:00 Introduction and Catching Up
00:13 Launching Lead Rebellion
00:49 Overcoming Corporate Security
01:15 The Itty Bitty Shitty Committee
03:22 Transformative Speaking Course
04:18 The Power of Music and Dance
05:03 Realising Personal and Professional Goals
07:11 Commitment: Strength and Weakness
08:18 Dealing with Burnout
09:16 Understanding Trauma and Transformation
16:10 Scientific Approach to Health
18:38 Leadership and Authenticity
22:06 Aligning with Core Values
24:39 Overcoming Perfectionism and Procrastination
26:47 The Journey to Lead Rebellion
28:53 Building a Community and Movement
30:41 Transformational Leadership Coaching
32:40 The CCR3 Assessment
35:11 Embracing Growth and Overcoming Challenges
39:17 Reflections on Life and Career Transitions
42:15 The Importance of Continuous Learning
45:21 Podcasting and Embracing New Skills
As a Business Growth & Change Strategist, Katie supports leaders and organisations in building effective relationships, expanding market reach and increasing visibility in global markets. With over 25 years of experience in corporate leadership, business growth and change management strategies, Katie has worked extensively across international markets. She holds an MSc from Henley Business School in Executive Coaching and Behavioural Change, and an Advanced Dip in Organisational Systemic Change, equipping her with deep expertise in leadership development and transformation. Through transformational coaching, strategic leadership development, and her signature L.E.A.D. framework, she helps leaders break barriers and achieve extraordinary success.
This week, choose one activity or goal that makes you feel nervous or uncomfortable. Acknowledge that nervous energy as a positive sign that you are growing. How can you use that energy to fuel your progress?
If you're part of our Facebook group (How to Reign When It’s Raining), let us know or share it on instagram and tag us @reignwhenitsraining and use the hashtag #reignmaker
We'd love to connect and hear how you’re finding ways to thrive. What are your dreams? What's holding you back? Questions? Stories? Ideas?
Welcome back, Reignmakers! Today’s episode is a little different - it's just me, Abi, as Mumma Dolina is resting and recovering this week. We’re sending her lots of love! 💛
In this minisode, I’m sharing a personal experience that reminded me just how much our bodies hold onto emotions, trauma and unprocessed feelings. If you’ve ever felt tension, pain or discomfort that didn’t seem to have a clear cause, this episode is for you. Our bodies speak to us all the time - we just need to listen.
00:00 Introduction and Missing Mumma
00:39 A Personal Experience of Unprocessed Emotions
01:46 Physical Manifestations of Emotional Trauma
03:31 Healing Through Body Awareness
03:49 Practical Exercise for Emotional Awareness
04:56 Reflecting on the Healing Process
06:48 Conclusion and Listener Engagement
Your Homework Exercise: Body Check-In & Emotional Release
This week, take 5-10 minutes to check in with your body using this simple exercise:
Find a quiet space where you can sit or lie down comfortably.
Close your eyes and take three deep breaths in through your nose and out through your mouth.
Scan your body from head to toe - notice any tension, discomfort or tightness.
Pause and ask yourself:Where do I feel this in my body? Could this be connected to an emotion I haven’t fully processed? If this sensation had a message for me, what would it say?
Allow yourself to release. If you feel emotions rise, let them. You might cry, sigh or feel a shift in your body.
End with gentle movement - roll your shoulders, stretch or shake out any lingering tension.
Write about what came up for you. Did you notice any patterns? Any past experiences resurfacing?
Have you ever experienced a moment where your body held onto an emotion? We'd love to hear from you! Share in our facebook group or send us a message - your story might help someone else feel less alone.
Harmonising the Mind: Rob Stephenson on Mental Health and Music
In our latest epsiode, wellbeing advocate and DJ Robbie J shares his personal journey of living with bipolar disorder and how it has shaped his mission to create happier, healthier and higher performing workplaces. From his early struggles and near-suicidal experience to his innovative use of music for mental wellness, Rob talks about the importance of seeking help, being open about mental health and the therapeutic power of music.
00:00 Introduction and Warm Welcome
00:12 Connecting Through Music
01:49 The Power of Dance and Wellbeing
03:18 Professional Journey and Mental Health Advocacy
04:16 Personal Struggles and Bipolar Disorder
08:47 The Turning Point: Sharing My Story
21:44 Challenges of Social Media on Mental Health
30:31 Understanding Mental Health Struggles
30:57 Achievements and Misunderstandings
32:24 Therapy and Family Insights
33:18 Speaking and Advising on Mental Health
34:38 The Power of Music in Mental Health
42:11 Advice for Mental Health Management
45:00 Post-Traumatic Growth and Resilience
47:55 The Role of Music in Personal Healing
53:03 Future Plans and Reflections
59:03 Final Thoughts and Messages of Hope
Rob Stephenson is the founder of The InsideOut LeaderBoard, a charity with the mission of smashing the stigma of mental ill-health in the workplace by showcasing senior leader role models with lived experiences of mental ill-health. As a consultant, Rob works with senior leadership teams to help elevate wellbeing as a performance enabler. He is the Founder of FormScore, a technology platform that helps managers understand the wellbeing and performance readiness of their teams with real-time people analytics. Rob is also co-founder of the InsideOut Awards, an annual celebration of those championing workplace mental health and wellbeing. In his keynote talks, he inspires audiences to think dierently about mental health and wellbeing. Rob grounds his talks in his personal story of living and working with bipolar and always gives practical tips and ideas. He has also developed an innovative concept - a Music & Mental Health performance which combines live DJ elements and public speaking to get people thinking differently about mental health & wellbeing via the medium of music.
In our latest episode we talk the powerful yet universal emotion of fear—its roots, its impact and how to manage it effectively (after some initial random chat about Botox and Christmas :)
Sharing personal stories of overcoming our own fears, we discuss how fear often holds us back from realising our true potential and the surprising transformation that comes with stepping out of your comfort zone. With practical advice, visualisations and actionable strategies, this episode inspires you to take bold steps toward your goals. The conversation ends with a challenge: to reframe fear as a driving force for growth and to embrace courage, even in small moments.
Welcome to the How to Reign When it’s Raining Podcast with Abi and Dolina, a REAL mum and daughter team celebrating stories of resilience, strength and limitless potential. This podcast is for you if you're seeking inspiration, expert advice or practical guidance to transform your mindset and create a life you love. There truly are no limits to what you can achieve.
We're dedicated to helping people find the courage and confidence to move forward and create the life they truly want.
If you've faced challenging times but are determined to step into your future with confidence, you're in the right place. We understand the emotional hurdles you’re facing, and we’re here to remind you—you’re not alone.
With years of experience, proven techniques and using our methods, including hypnotherapy and NLP, we’re passionate about transforming mindsets, overcoming self-limiting beliefs and helping you realise your full potential.
Join us every week for inspiring, transformative real-life stories from our guests and insights from our incredible listeners. Together, we’ll build a supportive community where you can heal, grow and thrive. Welcome to the Reignmaker family!
Subscribe/follow now on your favourite platform, and thank you for being part of this powerful journey.
How Mindset Transforms Lives: Financial Struggles to Spiritual Growth with Simon Welch
In our latest episode, the wonderful entrepreneur, life and business coach Simon Welch shares his transformative journey of overcoming financial hardship, his personal battles with drinking and finding success through personal and spiritual development. We discuss the importance of gratitude, kindness, forgiveness and continually learning. Simon emphasises the pivotal role of self-improvement, spiritual growth and delves into the influence of notable mentors like Bob Proctor, highlighting the power of helping others and positive thinking. This episode is a profound reflection on life, spirituality and achieving true success.
00:00 Introduction and Technical Difficulties
02:34 Starting a Business: The Journey Begins
06:37 Overcoming Financial Struggles
11:40 The Power of Self-Development
18:07 Spiritual Beliefs and Intuition
32:18 Forgiveness and Personal Growth
35:44 Adoption and Early Life
36:36 Foster Family and Adoption
37:45 Gratitude for Adoptive Parents
38:15 Thoughts on Birth Parents
39:51 Discovering Adoption
41:42 Adoption and School Life
47:41 Personal Development Journey
51:47 The Power of Awareness
53:08 Daily Practices for Success
59:36 Kindness and Energy
01:02:43 Future Plans and Advice
01:06:29 Conclusion and Final Thoughts
Connect with Simon: Insta: https://www.instagram.com/everything_is_spirit?igsh=MTQ2YWw2MnJ1eHR4Zw== https://www.instagram.com/tilesupplysolutions?igsh=NGw5cjJxbzR0ZDhv https://www.instagram.com/olive_oil_solutions?igsh=MTkyNTNtMzA2NWd4dQ==
As a relationship and family coach, featured in Tappler and on the BBC, our lovely guest Nichole offers insights on improving communication, connection and conflict resolution within relationships. We discuss her book, 'The Balance Relationship Blueprint,' her upcoming membership programme, and how her own past has shaped her mission to help others build strong, fulfilling relationships. Tune in for a deep dive into the complexities of blended families, co-parenting and the keys to maintaining a loving, connected partnership.
00:00 Introduction and Personal Background
00:12 Growing Up in Norfolk
00:58 Challenges of Small Town Mentality
01:40 Transition to London
03:20 Career Beginnings and Reflections
03:49 Becoming a Relationship and Family Coach
05:29 Blended Family Dynamics
08:10 Impact of Parental Relationships
17:25 Communication and Connection in Relationships
26:18 Navigating Relationship Expectations
26:38 Balancing Modern Relationships
27:06 Breaking the Cycle of Divorce
28:10 Healthy Conflict Resolution
33:44 The Importance of Relationship Maintenance
37:33 The Role of Physical and Emotional Connection
41:52 Personal Journey and Overcoming Challenges
46:59 Launching a Relationship Movement
47:57 Conclusion and Future Plans
Nichole Farrow is a seasoned relationship and family coach with over seven years of experience helping couples build stronger, healthier partnerships. She’s been featured on BBC 5 Live, Tatler, and Spears Magazine, offering her expert insights on navigating the ups and downs of modern relationships, especially for parents. Nichole’s passion is helping couples reconnect, reduce conflict, and create a nurturing environment so they can thrive as a family and role model for the next generation.
She’s also the co-host of the Parenting and Marriage in the Digital Age podcast, where she and her husband Ben where they dive into the ups and downs of modern parenting and relationships with humour, realism, and insight. Whether you’re looking to reconnect with your partner or find balance between parenthood and partnership, this podcast offers real, actionable advice to help you thrive. Plus, doors to our Relationship Revolution Membership open on18th November—sign up now for priority access to life-changing tools, live Q&As, and a supportive community!
In this heartfelt episode, we sit down with Robyn as she opens up about her deeply personal journey through infertility and IVF. Together, we explore the physical and emotional challenges she faced, from navigating intense medical treatments to the impact on her closest relationships. Robyn shares her experiences with traumatic miscarriages, genetic hurdles and the immense financial and emotional toll of trying to start a family. Through her story, she reminds us of the power of resilience, the importance of self-care and how a supportive community can make all the difference when facing life’s hardest battles.
00:00 Introduction and Background
00:52 Initial Fertility Challenges
02:24 IVF Journey Begins
02:58 Egg Extraction and Embryo Process
06:16 Emotional and Physical Toll
09:13 Support System and Writing the Book
13:28 Miscarriages and Genetic Testing
23:31 Reflections and Moving Forward
30:28 Switching Clinics and New Challenges
30:59 Reaching a Breaking Point
31:17 Embracing Life After Fertility Treatments
31:59 The Joy of Skydiving
32:33 Writing as a Coping Mechanism
33:15 The Addictive Nature of Fertility Treatments
33:55 Developing Respect for My Body
44:55 The Importance of Community Support
47:54 Lessons Learned and Moving Forward
52:14 Promoting the Book and Future Plans
Robyn is a lover of all the ‘f’ words: family, friends and fun. A recovering perfectionist living in an imperfect world on a mission toward finding inner peace and gaining perspective. Robyn's three truths: Love yourself, fill your love cup and always choose love.
Download Robyn's Ebook on Amazon without a physical Kindle (link options below depending on your location) or you can search for it on your Kindle.
Healing After Trauma: Journey of Grief, Growth, and New Beginnings
In this emotional episode, we take a significant shift in our podcast's focus toward supporting individuals who have experienced trauma. Our Co-host Abi shares her own powerful and personal journey of overcoming the sudden loss of her partner, Matt, and the challenges of dealing with grief, PTSD, and the complex process of healing. From the heart-wrenching recount of that fateful day to the supportive role of friends, family and therapy in her recovery, this episode also touches on themes of resilience and transformation, including a bold move to Dubai, a major milestone in her path toward personal growth. It's a testament to human strength, the importance of self-care and the belief that true happiness is possible after trauma.
In our latest episode, we dive into the transformative journey of Sophie, a seasoned yoga instructor and survivor of an abusive marriage. Sophie shares her insights on the importance of pranayama (breathing techniques) in yoga for physical and mental health. We discuss how breathwork, combined with yoga, meditation, and plant medicine retreats, aided her in healing and self-discovery after escaping a toxic relationship. Sophie also reflects on the role of hypnotherapy in uncovering and addressing personal traumas, ultimately leading to personal growth and independence. With honesty and courage, Sophie narrates her journey from fear and manipulation to empowerment and the joy of embracing life fully.
00:00 Introduction to Breathwork and Pranayama
00:55 The Importance of Breath in Yoga
03:51 Personal Experiences with Yoga and Teaching
13:09 The Emotional Impact of Yoga and Meditation
14:59 Overcoming Personal Trauma through Therapy
25:17 Support System and Personal Growth
25:53 Advice for Those in Similar Situations
26:57 Understanding Narcissism and Self-Education
29:07 Breaking Free and Finding Independence
30:44 Family Support and Transitioning to Single Parenthood
32:03 Legal Support and Financial Challenges
33:39 Healing Through Psychedelic Retreats
34:52 Experiences with Plant Medicine
36:03 Reflections and Personal Discoveries
41:12 Future Aspirations and Dating
44:32 Concluding Thoughts and Gratitude
Sophie is available for 121 and small group classes in East Sussex, Kent and London. Group timetable:
Monday
9.15-10.15 - Barn Gym, Etchingham
11-12 Vinyasa Online (teams)
18.00 Vinyasa, 19.30 yang to yin - Birchwood Studio, Flimwell Park
Tuesday
13.00-14.00 Raja - 186 Fleet Street
We'd love to connect and hear how you’re finding ways to thrive. What are your dreams? What's holding you back? Questions? Stories? Ideas?
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Homework for this week:
Daily Dance Challenge: Dedicate 5–10 minutes a day to dancing or listening to your favorite music. Notice how it makes you feel in the moment. Write down any positive changes in mood or energy.
If you’re happy to, be brave and post your boogie on social media, tag us and use the hashtag #reignmaker
Thank you for listening!
Homework for this week:
Every day, take one bold action that pushes you slightly outside your comfort zone—whether it’s making a difficult call, sharing an idea, or writing that email.
Share how you’re getting on with us! We can check on your progress to keep you accountable. If you’re happy to, be brave and post it on social media, tag us and use the hashtag #reignmaker
If you enjoyed this episode, please rate and/or leave us a review. It really helps us to help more people like you!
Homework for this week:
Visualise Your Future Success
Dedicate 5 minutes each day to deeply visualising one specific goal you want to achieve.
Create a Quiet Space
Set Your Goal and be specific. It could be career success, a personal milestone, or any meaningful achievement.
Imagine Every Detail: Add in as many sensory details as possible.
Feel the Success: Engage your emotions. Allow yourself to feel everything that comes with this achievement.
End with Gratitude: Thank yourself for dedicating this time to your future.
Reflect: At the end of each week, take a moment to note down any shifts in your mood, energy or motivation.
Tip: Consistency is key! Try to practice at the same time each day—whether it’s in the morning to set a positive tone or in the evening to wind down with inspiration.
Share how you’re getting on with us! We can check on your progress to keep you accountable. If you’re happy to, be brave and post it on social media, tag us and use the hashtag #reignmaker
If you enjoyed this episode, please rate and/or leave us a review. It really helps us to help more people like you!
Homework for this week:
Share your goal and first step with us and we will check on your progress to keep you accountable. If you’re happy to, be brave and post it on social media, tag us and use the hashtag #reignmaker
To Infertility and Beyond: My Personal Journey
(US website) (Covers several countries where there isn’t a dedicated Amazon website in the area)
This book is an account of Robyn's personal journey battling infertility. It covers a three-year period and there are no-holds barred. It’s full of personal prose. Perhaps you will cry, hopefully you’ll laugh… much like she learnt on what felt like a road to nowhere. There’s a little bit of everything. The very beginning where she embarks on the process to conception, to the hardcore realities of undergoing fertility treatment, and the life changing outcomes – favourable or not.
If you enjoyed this episode, please rate and/or leave us a review. It really helps us to help more people like you!
Homework for this week: Reflect on a time when life took an unexpected turn that ultimately benefited you. Write about what you learned and how it shaped you. When facing uncertainty, remind yourself of your ability to adapt and grow through life’s changes.
If you’d like to, share your story with us! Do a post on social media and tag us and use the
Create a vision board (physical or digital) that reflects the life you want to build, despite your past experiences. Include images, words and symbols that represent your hopes and dreams for the future.
If you’d like to, share your board with us! Do a post or story on social media and tag us and use the hashtag #reignmaker
If you liked this episode, please support us and rate/leave kind words/ review. It really helps us to help more people like you.
If you enjoyed this episode, please rate and/or leave us a review. It really helps us to help more people like you!
Homework for this week:
Create a Self-Love Mantra
Write a self-love mantra or affirmation that supports your healing journey. Repeat it daily, especially during challenging times or moments of self-doubt.
Examples of mantras include “I am worthy of love and respect,” or “I trust myself and my inner wisdom.” Write it on a sticky note and place it where you’ll see it regularly.
Doing this will reinforce a positive self-image and build your inner confidence
If you’d like to, share your self love mantra with us and we will remind you of this each week to help you. If you’re happy to, be brave and post it on social media, tag us and use the hashtag #reignmaker
Thank you for listening!
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