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The Secret To Feeling Sexy (And It's Not Losing Weight) - with Sarah in Yellow | #1623 Jun 202601:17:24

What if the reason you don't feel sexy has nothing to do with your body?

In this powerful conversation with body image coach Sarah Simpson, also known as "Sarah in Yellow", we unpack why so many women postpone confidence, love, pleasure, photoshoots, dating, and even great sex until they finally lose the weight. Sarah shares her journey from obsessive dieting and eating disorders to discovering that true confidence comes from building a life that excites you—not shrinking yourself to fit someone else's standards.

If you've ever thought, "I'll be happy when...", this episode is for you.

🎧 Listen now and discover why feeling sexy starts long before your body changes.


In this episode, Sarah and I explore:

  • Why so many women tie their worth and attractiveness to a number on the scale
  • What happened when Sarah finally achieved her "dream body" and still felt unhappy
  • The childhood experiences that quietly shape body image for decades
  • Why your belly is probably not the real problem
  • The hidden connection between body confidence, self-worth, and sexuality
  • How body image affects dating, intimacy, and feeling desirable
  • Why women become obsessed with fixing their bodies
  • The surprising reason confidence feels easier for some women than others
  • How to stop making happiness conditional on your appearance
  • Why exciting experiences and a fulfilling life make your appearance matter less
  • The role of nervous system safety in confidence and self-love
  • How retreats, travel, and new experiences can accelerate healing
  • The concept of becoming "the coolest person you know"
  • Why fear is not a good enough reason to stay stuck
  • The real secret to feeling sexy in the body you have today


Connect with Sarah:

→ Instagram: www.instagram.com/sarahinyellow/
→ Website: www.sarahinyellow.com


⭐️ If You Loved This Episode…

Please take 60 seconds to leave a 5-star rating and review. It helps more and more people find this powerful work and reclaim their sensuality. Thank you for being here.

Follow me on Instagram: www.instagram.com/shari.vandecraen

Follow my sensual photography account on instagram: www.instagram.com/project.radiance

Visit my website for freebies and my latest courses: www.sharivandecraen.com

Real Lessons From a Professional Dominatrix - with Brittany Swanson | #1509 Jun 202600:48:54

What can a professional dominatrix teach us about power, pleasure, surrender, and feminine embodiment? A lot more than you might think.

In this fascinating episode of Get Sexy With Shari, I sit down with professional dominatrix, embodiment coach, relationship coach, and fellow VITA™ coach Brittany Swanson to explore the often misunderstood world of domination and submission.

What started as a conversation about BDSM quickly evolved into a much deeper discussion about feminine power, communication, self-responsibility, pleasure, and the many archetypes available to us as women.

Together we explore why so many successful women crave surrender, why powerful men often seek submission, and how both dominance and surrender can become pathways toward deeper intimacy and self-discovery.

We also dive into sensual domination—a style of dominance centered around presence, anticipation, embodiment, breath, and connection rather than force or control.



In this episode, we discuss:

  • How Brittany became a professional dominatrix
  • What domination actually is (and what it isn't)
  • The biggest misconceptions about BDSM
  • Why so many women long to surrender
  • Why successful men are often drawn to submission
  • The role of communication in creating safety and pleasure
  • How to discover what you actually want in the bedroom
  • Why your pleasure is your responsibility
  • Sensual domination versus humiliation-based domination
  • The power of anticipation, presence, and embodiment
  • The Queen archetype and how to embody feminine authority
  • Practical ways to explore your dominant side as a woman


Connect with Brittaney:

→ Instagram: @alwaysbembodied

Let’s Stay Connected
→ Instagram: @shari.vandecraen
→ Website: www.sharivandecraen.com


⭐️ If You Loved This Episode…

Please take 60 seconds to leave a 5-star rating and review. It helps more and more people find this powerful work and reclaim their sensuality. Thank you for being here.


Follow me on Instagram: www.instagram.com/shari.vandecraen

Follow my sensual photography account on instagram: www.instagram.com/project.radiance

Visit my website for freebies and my latest courses: www.sharivandecraen.com

Why Your Sex Drive Isn’t ‘Low’—You’re Just Speaking a Different Language - with Sarah Ward | #0605 Aug 202501:09:12

In this episode of Get Sexy with Shari, I’m joined by Erotic Blueprints™ coach and sex, love & relationship mentor Sarah Ward to bust one of the biggest myths about desire:
👉 If you’re not in the mood, it doesn’t mean you’re broken. It might just mean you’re speaking a different erotic language.

We unpack the 5 Erotic Blueprints™ — a revolutionary framework created by Jaiya - that helps you understand your turn-ons, overcome shame, and stop expecting yourself (or your partner) to fit into a one-size-fits-all sexual script.


What We Dive Into:

  • Why your sex drive might feel “off” — and why that’s totally normal
  • The 5 Erotic Blueprints™: Energetic, Sensual, Sexual, Kinky & Shapeshifter
  • How partners with different blueprints can stop clashing and start connecting
  • What it really means when you shut down, feel too much, or feel not enough in bed
  • How to feed your own desire so you’re not waiting for someone else to turn you on

Whether you’re single, in partnership, or somewhere in between — this episode will leave you feeling seen, turned on, and empowered to explore your pleasure in a way that actually works for you.


🔗 Resources & Links

Take the free Erotic Blueprints™ quiz: https://go.theblueprintbreakthrough.net/t?orid=1043477&opid=4
Follow Sarah Ward on Instagram: www.instagram.com/sarahward.co/


Love this episode?

Leave a quick review — it helps the podcast grow and reach more women who are ready to feel sexy, magnetic, and deeply turned on in their own bodies.
And don’t forget to subscribe — next week’s guest is going to blow your mind in all the right ways.


xoxo Shari

Follow me on Instagram: www.instagram.com/shari.vandecraen

Follow my sensual photography account on instagram: www.instagram.com/project.radiance

Visit my website for freebies and my latest courses: www.sharivandecraen.com

When to Have Sex & What to Say First: Conscious Dating in a Fast-Moving World - with Alexa Lynn | #0529 Jul 202500:31:38

In this raw and radically honest episode, I sit down with conscious dating and empowerment coach Alexa Lynn to explore how to date with intention, embodiment, and confidence—even in a world that constantly rushes us into the next thing.

Together, we unravel what it means to pause after a breakup, stop being the CEO of the story factory, and let your authentic woman drive the car instead of the people-pleasing “nice girl.” We also explore the powerful R-B-D-S-M framework for clear, sexy, and safe communication before becoming intimate.

And yes—there’s a pre-date pleasure ritual to help you shift from “Will they like me?” to “I am the prize.” You’ll want to try this one.


🔥 In This Episode, We Cover:

  • Why healing after a breakup is a sacred responsibility to yourself and your next partner

  • How to stop repeating old patterns and start dating from a place of truth

  • Alexa’s signature R-B-D-S-M tool to have intentional, magnetic conversations about intimacy

  • The difference between a “nice girl” and an authentic woman

  • A sensual embodiment practice to ground into your worth before a date


Connect with Alexa Lynn
🔗 Website: www.notanicegirl.com
 📸 Instagram: @alexalynncoaching


💌 Let’s Connect:


⭐ If You Loved This Episode…

Please subscribe, leave a 5-star review, and share it with a friend who needs this. Your support helps the podcast grow and keeps these powerful conversations going.

Follow me on Instagram: www.instagram.com/shari.vandecraen

Follow my sensual photography account on instagram: www.instagram.com/project.radiance

Visit my website for freebies and my latest courses: www.sharivandecraen.com

How to Speak Up in the Bedroom, without killing the mood | #0422 Jul 202500:43:32

In this intimate episode of Get Sexy with Shari, I sit down with one of my Tantric Teachers and Communication Queen Arja Hendrikx to talk about one of the most important (and most avoided) skills in intimacy: speaking up in the bedroom.

We dive into why so many women stay silent during sex, how to express what you want without killing the mood, and why real pleasure starts with honest, embodied communication. You’ll walk away with practical tools, mindset shifts, and maybe even the permission you’ve been waiting for.

Whether you're in a long-term relationship or newly dating, this episode will help you feel more confident, connected, and deeply met in your intimate experiences.


🔥 In This Episode, We Talk About:

  • Why so many women fake pleasure—and how to stop
  • How to communicate before, during, and after sex
  • Speaking up without being “too much” or “too needy”
  • Using body language when words feel hard
  • How your desires can be sexy, playful, and clear
  • Turning communication into connection (and foreplay!)


Connect with Arja:
Connect with Arja on Instagram for her latest offerings and courses: @arja_hendrikx or via ww.instagram.com/templeofradiance/


Let’s Connect:


If You Loved This Episode…
Please subscribe, leave a 5-star review, and share it with a friend who needs this. Your support helps the podcast grow and keeps these powerful conversations going.


Follow me on Instagram: www.instagram.com/shari.vandecraen

Follow my sensual photography account on instagram: www.instagram.com/project.radiance

Visit my website for freebies and my latest courses: www.sharivandecraen.com

From “Too Much” to Magnetic: How Embodiment Heals Your Love Life - with Leen S. | #0315 Jul 202501:23:34

Welcome back to Get Sexy with Shari — the podcast that turns you on to the life, love, and sex you actually crave.

In today’s juicy episode, I sit down with erotic ecstasy and sex & relationship expert Leen S to talk about long-term love, polarity, emotional safety, and what it really means to stay sexy and connected — even when your partner isn’t “doing the work.”

Whether you’re in a relationship that feels off… or you’ve been told you’re “too much”… or you’re just tired of doing all the emotional labor — this episode is your permission slip to drop the pressure and come back home to your body.

We explore:

  • What to do when your partner isn’t growing with you (without nagging or shrinking)
  • How to inspire change in your relationship through embodiment, not force
  • Why polarity (Alpha & Omega energy) is the missing link in long-term attraction
  • The power of slow, sacred sex — and how to unlock your cervix for cosmic pleasure
  • What it means to become your own best mother, father, and lover

PS: stay tuned until the end where Leen guides you through a gorgeous embodiment practice to feel your Alpha and Omega energies inside of you.


Connect with Leen:
🌹 Instagram: /www.instagram.com/leen.s.coaching/
🌹 Join her program “Unstoppable Lovers”: a 4 months deep and sexy journey for couples: https://leen-s.com/unstoppable-lovers/

🌹 Catch her free free masterclass for couples “Deeper” : https://leen-s.com/deeper/ 

🌹Sensational Love Night - a tantric date night for couples: https://leen-s.com/sensational-love-night/


Want more? Here’s how to dive deeper with me:
 Feel alive and turned-on by embracing and awakening your sensual side through “Sensual Reclamation for just 21 euros: https://www.sharivandecraen.com/sensual-reclamation 


Let’s stay sexy together.
Leave a review, share the love, and tag me on IG @shari.vandecraen when you listen — I LOVE hearing your takeaways.


xoxo

Shari 💋

Follow me on Instagram: www.instagram.com/shari.vandecraen

Follow my sensual photography account on instagram: www.instagram.com/project.radiance

Visit my website for freebies and my latest courses: www.sharivandecraen.com

From Starfish to Sensual Queen - my real sensual awakening | #0208 Jul 202500:27:22

In this powerful first episode, I pull back the curtain on my own sensual awakening—how I went from shame, disconnection, and performative sex… to full-body pleasure, body confidence, and unapologetic turn-on.

I share the real, raw moments that changed everything:

  • The day I realized I’d lived 27 years in my body without knowing what that actually meant
  • Why I used to fake orgasms (and how I stopped performing)
  • How slowing down through self-pleasure became a doorway to reclaiming my feminine power
  • What it really means to become a sensual woman—one who leads with embodiment instead of approval-seeking
  • And why you’re not broken—you’ve just been taught to disconnect from your body

If you’ve ever thought “something’s wrong with me” or “I should just try harder”… this episode will hit you straight in the soul.


💋 In this episode, you'll learn:

  • Why your body isn’t the problem—the pressure is
  • How to begin feeling sexy again, without needing to “fix” yourself
  • The truth about performance vs. presence in intimacy
  • How self-pleasure can reconnect you to your truth, your power, and your voice


🔗 Links & Resources


🎧 Subscribe & Leave a Review

If this episode stirred something in you, please take a moment to subscribe, leave a review, and share with a friend who needs to hear this.
 This is how we unleash a generation of turned-on women together.

Follow me on Instagram: www.instagram.com/shari.vandecraen

Follow my sensual photography account on instagram: www.instagram.com/project.radiance

Visit my website for freebies and my latest courses: www.sharivandecraen.com

The Truth About Bedroom Communication: What 20 Women Revealed | #0102 Apr 202500:09:09

Most women feel pressure when asked what they like in bed—because they don’t actually know. In this episode, I share eye-opening insights from 20 women about why communication in the bedroom feels so difficult. We’ll unpack where we really learn about sex (hint: it’s not what you think it is), how to start discovering your turn-ons.

And in true Get Sexy with Shari-style, we'll end with a gentle pleasure practice to find pleasure in non-genital areas of your body. You can only ask for pleasure when you truly know what it is that you want. So let's get to it.


JUICY SHOW NOTES

Sign up to the waitlist for Pillow Talk: www.sharivandecraen.com/pillowtalk



Follow me on Instagram: www.instagram.com/shari.vandecraen

Follow my sensual photography account on instagram: www.instagram.com/project.radiance

Visit my website for freebies and my latest courses: www.sharivandecraen.com

Relearning Love: The Relationship Skills Nobody Taught You - with Eri Kardos | #1412 May 202601:05:35

“Healthy relationships are not conflict-free relationships. They are relationships that know how to repair.” 

What if the biggest relationship struggles you experience today… are rooted in patterns you learned before the age of 7?

In this deeply honest and eye-opening conversation, I sit down with internationally acclaimed relationship expert, bestselling author, TEDx speaker, and founder of Relearn Love, Eri Kardos, to explore the relationship skills most of us were never taught: emotional safety, conflict repair, conscious communication, nervous system awareness, intimacy, and how to stop repeating the same painful cycles in love. 

We dive into:

  •  Why couples keep having the same fights
  • The hidden patterns underneath conflict
  • How childhood conditioning shapes adult relationships
  • Emotional triggers, nervous system safety & repair
  • Walking on eggshells in relationships
  • Conscious communication tools that actually work
  • Why your sex life reflects your communication patterns
  • The “sandbox vs bench” analogy for navigating triggers
  • The importance of proactive relationship check-ins
  • How to create deeper intimacy without pressure
  • The “Love Lab” practice to transform connection & pleasure

One of my favorite parts of this episode is when Eri explains that most couples are trying to solve the problem before creating emotional safety first and how learning to repair instead of react can completely change your relationship. 


We also talk about:

  •  conscious marriage & yearly relationship renewals 
  •  how triggers show up in friendships, family, leadership & business 
  •  why healthy love is a learnable skill 
  •  and how to stop making your partner “the enemy.” 


If you’ve ever:

  •  struggled to express your truth 
  •  feared conflict 
  •  felt emotionally unsafe 
  •  repeated the same relationship patterns 
  •  walked on eggshells 
  •  wanted deeper intimacy & connection 
  •  or wondered why love can feel so hard...

…this episode is going to shift something in you.


Connect with Eri Kardos

  • Website: https://www.relearnlove.com
  • Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/relearnlove/ 
  • Take Eri's free quiz: www.RelearnLove.com/quiz
  • Message Eri Kardos via her Instagram to get 50% off a 1:1 session to decode your pattern and get clarity on how to break the pattern.


Let’s Stay Connected
→ Instagram: @shari.vandecraen
→ Website: www.sharivandecraen.com


⭐️ If You Loved This Episode…

Please take 60 seconds to leave a 5-star rating and review. It helps more and more people find this powerful work and reclaim their sensuality. Thank you for being here.

Follow me on Instagram: www.instagram.com/shari.vandecraen

Follow my sensual photography account on instagram: www.instagram.com/project.radiance

Visit my website for freebies and my latest courses: www.sharivandecraen.com

Follow me on Instagram: www.instagram.com/shari.vandecraen

Follow my sensual photography account on instagram: www.instagram.com/project.radiance

Visit my website for freebies and my latest courses: www.sharivandecraen.com

Masturbation May: How Self-Pleasure Transforms Your Sex Life03 May 202600:49:59

“The way you make love to yourself is the way you make love to others.”

What if the way you’ve been experiencing pleasure… is only scratching the surface?

Masturbation May is your invitation to completely rewrite the way you relate to pleasure.

In this raw solo episode, I share how rushed, hidden self-pleasure patterns shape your entire sex life—and how to shift into slow, embodied, deeply fulfilling experiences that transform how you show up with lovers.

Here’s the reality about masturbation:

Most of us learned self-pleasure in secrecy: fast, quiet and goal-oriented. And without realizing it we bring those exact same patterns into our sex lives.

In this episode, I share my personal journey: from rushing, and disconnected self-pleasure to slow, embodied, deeply fulfilling experiences and how this shift completely transformed the way I show up as a lover.

This is your invitation to move beyond performance and into real pleasure.


In This Episode, You’ll Learn:

  •  Why the way you touch yourself directly impacts your sex life 
  •  How early self-pleasure patterns shape intimacy and connection 
  •  The difference between functional “masturbation” and embodied self-pleasure 
  •  How to shift from chasing orgasm to experiencing full-body pleasure 
  •  The role of breath, sound, and movement in expanding sensation 
  •  Why your entire body—not just your genitals—is a source of pleasure 
  •  How understanding your “lover type” changes your experience of intimacy 
  •  What it means to actively receive pleasure (instead of just “lying there”)


Go Deeper


If this episode resonated with you, I’d love to hear from you. Send me a DM on Instagram @shari.vandecraen or share this episode with someone who needs to hear this.

And if you loved it: don’t forget to leave a review, love.


xoxo Your Pleasure Expert
Shari Van de Craen 💋

Follow me on Instagram: www.instagram.com/shari.vandecraen

Follow my sensual photography account on instagram: www.instagram.com/project.radiance

Visit my website for freebies and my latest courses: www.sharivandecraen.com

The True Power of Your Genitals (That No One Talks About) - with Simon Paul Sutton | #1203 May 202601:16:13

What if your genitals were never just physical, but a gateway to deeper connection, aliveness, and even consciousness?

In this episode, I sit down with Simon Paul Sutton to explore the true power of being comfortable with your own sexual center and the power of self pleasure.

Because instead of feeling, we’ve been conditioned to perform in the bedroom.

This conversation is a deep dive into what happens when you move beyond technique, beyond pressure, and start relating to your body as something alive, intelligent, and deeply powerful.

I don’t just guide this conversation. I also open up about my own experiences with dating, vulnerability, and the moments where I catch myself disconnecting from my body.


In This Episode, We Explore:

  •  Why your genitals are not just physical, but an access point to deeper awareness and connection
  •  The difference between performance-based intimacy vs. embodied intimacy
  •  How conditioning and shame disconnect you from your natural pleasure response
  •  The overlooked power of softness, slowness, and subtle sensation
  •  Why many people are chasing intensity instead of true aliveness
  •  The pressure on men to perform—and how it impacts both partners 
  •  How your body communicates through sensation, energy, and presence
  •  Why real intimacy starts with honest communication and emotional safety
  •  The role of your inner patterns (inner girl/boy) in intimacy and dating 
  • "Shifting Awareness" practice starting as of 01:01:11


Personal Shares From Me In this Episode:

  •  My own experience of dating and going into my head instead of my body
  •  The moment of realizing: “There’s attraction… but no safety”
  •  How lack of clarity creates tension and disconnection in intimacy
  •  The courage it takes to ask: “What is this actually?”
  •  My growing compassion for men and the pressure they carry to perform
  •  Why I believe true intimacy requires both safety + self-expression


Key Takeaways

  •  Your body is not a tool—it’s an intelligent system of sensation and awareness
  •  Pleasure expands when you shift from doing → feeling
  •  The real power of your genitals lies in connection, not performance
  •  Slowness and presence unlock levels of intimacy most people never reach 
  •  Communication is what allows your body to fully relax and open


🔗 Connect with Simon Paul Sutton:


Let’s Stay Connected
→ Instagram: @shari.vandecraen
→ Website: www.sharivandecraen.com


⭐️ If You Loved This Episode…

Please take 60 seconds to leave a 5-star rating and review. It helps more and more people find this powerful work and reclaim their sensuality. Thank you for being here.

Follow me on Instagram: www.instagram.com/shari.vandecraen

Follow my sensual photography account on instagram: www.instagram.com/project.radiance

Visit my website for freebies and my latest courses: www.sharivandecraen.com

From Pleasing to Pleasure: How to Expand Your Erotic Range | #1101 Nov 202500:29:50

You don’t need to fix your sex life — you just need to expand it.
 In this episode, Shari dives into what it really means to broaden your sexual range: moving from performance and people-pleasing into authentic exploration, curiosity, and connection. She shares vulnerable personal stories (including her journey with anal and kink) and offers tangible tools to communicate, de-armor shame, and turn on curiosity as your compass.


 🎧 The free Cosmic Menu of Pleasure is available around the 7th of November. Drop me a DM on Instagram with "MENU" or email me on hello@sharivandecraen.com to be the first one to receive it.


Here’s what you’ll learn in this episode:
💋 The real reason many women feel “numb” or disconnected from desire
💋 Why curiosity is more powerful than confidence in bed
💋 How communication creates deeper erotic safety
💋 A free tool — The Cosmic Menu of Pleasure — to map your desires


Connect with me on Instagram: @shari.vandecraen

Follow me on Instagram: www.instagram.com/shari.vandecraen

Follow my sensual photography account on instagram: www.instagram.com/project.radiance

Visit my website for freebies and my latest courses: www.sharivandecraen.com

How to Be an Epic Lover — It Starts Long Before the Bedroom | #1021 Oct 202500:41:06

Most people think being a better lover means learning new positions, lasting longer, or performing better.
But the truth?
Epic lovemaking starts long before you’re naked.

In this solo episode, Shari takes you back to a moment that changed everything — a conversation in a sun-soaked jungle cabin in Nicaragua that sparked the very idea for this podcast.
 When a fellow traveler asked her, “What would you tell me if I wanted to be a better lover?” … she realized it’s not about technique. It’s about connection — with yourself, your body, and the person in front of you.

Inside this juicy, heart-opening episode, you’ll learn:
 ✨ Why being an epic lover begins with how you love yourself
✨ The 5 bodies that come together during true intimacy — physical, mental, emotional, energetic, and spiritual
✨ How to communicate your desires and create emotional safety in bed
✨ The secret to rewiring shame around your genitals and feeling confident in your pleasure
✨ Why following the path of pleasure leads to more connection, deeper orgasms, and pure embodiment

This isn’t about performance. It’s about presence.
 It’s about bringing your full self — body, heart, and energy — into every moment of intimacy.

So if you’ve ever wondered how to become a more connected, magnetic, and unforgettable lover… this episode is your invitation to slow down, feel more, and fall back in love with your own body.

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LINKS

I have 2 coaching opportunities open starting as of mid-November: send me an email with your desire to hello@sharivandecraen.com and let's see if there is a match.


If you're interested in the course on How to Pleasure the Penis, click here: https://sharivandecraen.plugandpay.nl/checkout/secrets-of-sensual-touch


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Connect with Shari

Follow @shari.vandecraen on Instagram for sensual tools, embodiment practices, and weekly turn-on inspo.
 Listen to more episodes, explore workshops, and download your pleasure guides at → www.sharivandecraen.com


Follow me on Instagram: www.instagram.com/shari.vandecraen

Follow my sensual photography account on instagram: www.instagram.com/project.radiance

Visit my website for freebies and my latest courses: www.sharivandecraen.com

The Real Sex Ed We All Deserve—with Dr. Saida Désilets & Aaron Michael | #0914 Oct 202501:08:50

Most of us grew up learning that sex was either dangerous, shameful, or mechanical. But what if sex could be healing? Empowering? A path to deep embodiment?

In this powerful episode, Shari is joined by Dr. Saida Désilets, a pioneer in feminine embodiment and sexual sovereignty, and Aaron Michael, co-founder of Suction Sex and Embodied Love University, to explore the truth about the kind of sexuality education we actually need.

Together, they unravel the myths around “normal” sex, break down the difference between friction sex vs. suction sex, and invite us into a new paradigm of relaxed arousal, co-regulation, and embodied love.


You’ll learn:

  • Why most sex education is missing the most important piece—pleasure
  • The mechanics of suction sex and why it leads to deeper intimacy
  • How to move from stress or numbness into turn-on through your breath and body
  • The difference between sexual literacy, sexuality education, and sexual embodiment
  • Why your body deserves to be led by pleasure, not pressure
  • A powerful guided practice to help you feel connected to your heart, genitals, and nervous system

This isn’t just another conversation about sex. It’s a reclamation of your erotic power, your body’s wisdom, and your right to feel fully alive.


🔗 Mentioned in This Episode:


Let’s Stay Connected
→ Instagram: @shari.vandecraen
→ Website: www.sharivandecraen.com


⭐️ If You Loved This Episode…

Please take 60 seconds to leave a 5-star rating and review—it helps more women find this powerful work and reclaim their sensuality. Thank you for being here.


Follow me on Instagram: www.instagram.com/shari.vandecraen

Follow my sensual photography account on instagram: www.instagram.com/project.radiance

Visit my website for freebies and my latest courses: www.sharivandecraen.com

The Power of Desire: From People-Pleasing to Erotic Aliveness - with Nadine Hamilton | #0822 Aug 202501:04:54

What does it take to stop abandoning yourself and start living from desire?

In this juicy episode of Get Sexy with Shari, I sit down with the radiant Nadine Hamilton — a VITA-certified sex, love & relationship coach and somatic sexologist whose erotic aliveness practically drips through the microphone.


Together, we dive deep into:

  • Why intimacy begins with YOU (and how self-pleasure sets the tone for everything else)
  • The hidden ways people-pleasing sneaks into sex and love
  • A simple 3-minute practice to reconnect with what you really want
  • How longing can become pleasure instead of pain
  • The power of one-way touch and devotional intimacy in relationships


And — in true Get Sexy with Shari style — Nadine guides us through a luscious “Honeypot” practice to drop into your body, stir up your erotic energy, and taste what happens when you give yourself permission to want.

This conversation is an invitation to stop apologizing, stop performing, and step into the juiciness of your own desires.

🎧 Listen now and get ready to drip with honey.


Resources & Links:


Follow me on Instagram: www.instagram.com/shari.vandecraen

Follow my sensual photography account on instagram: www.instagram.com/project.radiance

Visit my website for freebies and my latest courses: www.sharivandecraen.com

The 5 Bodies of the Embodied Woman with Amanda Biccum | #0712 Aug 202501:00:14

What does it really mean to be embodied?

In this episode of Get Sexy with Shari, I sit down with the radiant and wise Amanda Biccum—my own teacher and co-founder of Temple of Radiance—to unpack the five bodies every woman holds: the mental, physical, emotional, energetic, and spiritual. If you’ve ever felt disconnected, “in your head,” or like something is missing from your self-care routine… this conversation will light a fire under your ass and inside your heart.

Together, we explore how embodiment isn’t about doing more, but about being deeply aware and deeply present with what’s already here. Whether you're craving more aliveness, deeper intimacy, or a stronger sense of self—this episode is your invitation back home.

Amanda also guides you through a mini embodiment practice you can do right now to drop into your body and feel your own presence on a whole new level.


 In this episode, we explore:

  • What the term “embodiment” really means (and how we misuse it)
  • The difference between looking embodied and being embodied
  • Why the emotional body is the secret to your magnetism
  • How to access your energy body and use it in intimacy
  • How spirituality and sensuality are linked in the fifth body
  • Tips to navigate the awkwardness when you start to change


Practice inside:
Stick around until the end for a powerful drop-in guided by Amanda to bring you back into your body, your breath, and your truth. It’s short—but potent.


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