Explore every episode of the podcast Get Sexy with Shari
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| The Secret To Feeling Sexy (And It's Not Losing Weight) - with Sarah in Yellow | #16 | 23 Jun 2026 | 01:17:24 | |
What if the reason you don't feel sexy has nothing to do with your body? In this powerful conversation with body image coach Sarah Simpson, also known as "Sarah in Yellow", we unpack why so many women postpone confidence, love, pleasure, photoshoots, dating, and even great sex until they finally lose the weight. Sarah shares her journey from obsessive dieting and eating disorders to discovering that true confidence comes from building a life that excites you—not shrinking yourself to fit someone else's standards. If you've ever thought, "I'll be happy when...", this episode is for you. 🎧 Listen now and discover why feeling sexy starts long before your body changes. In this episode, Sarah and I explore:
Connect with Sarah: → Instagram: www.instagram.com/sarahinyellow/ ⭐️ If You Loved This Episode… Please take 60 seconds to leave a 5-star rating and review. It helps more and more people find this powerful work and reclaim their sensuality. Thank you for being here. Follow me on Instagram: www.instagram.com/shari.vandecraen Follow my sensual photography account on instagram: www.instagram.com/project.radiance Visit my website for freebies and my latest courses: www.sharivandecraen.com | |||
| Real Lessons From a Professional Dominatrix - with Brittany Swanson | #15 | 09 Jun 2026 | 00:48:54 | |
What can a professional dominatrix teach us about power, pleasure, surrender, and feminine embodiment? A lot more than you might think. In this fascinating episode of Get Sexy With Shari, I sit down with professional dominatrix, embodiment coach, relationship coach, and fellow VITA™ coach Brittany Swanson to explore the often misunderstood world of domination and submission. What started as a conversation about BDSM quickly evolved into a much deeper discussion about feminine power, communication, self-responsibility, pleasure, and the many archetypes available to us as women. Together we explore why so many successful women crave surrender, why powerful men often seek submission, and how both dominance and surrender can become pathways toward deeper intimacy and self-discovery. We also dive into sensual domination—a style of dominance centered around presence, anticipation, embodiment, breath, and connection rather than force or control.
Connect with Brittaney: → Instagram: @alwaysbembodied Let’s Stay Connected
Please take 60 seconds to leave a 5-star rating and review. It helps more and more people find this powerful work and reclaim their sensuality. Thank you for being here. Follow me on Instagram: www.instagram.com/shari.vandecraen Follow my sensual photography account on instagram: www.instagram.com/project.radiance Visit my website for freebies and my latest courses: www.sharivandecraen.com | |||
| Why Your Sex Drive Isn’t ‘Low’—You’re Just Speaking a Different Language - with Sarah Ward | #06 | 05 Aug 2025 | 01:09:12 | |
In this episode of Get Sexy with Shari, I’m joined by Erotic Blueprints™ coach and sex, love & relationship mentor Sarah Ward to bust one of the biggest myths about desire: We unpack the 5 Erotic Blueprints™ — a revolutionary framework created by Jaiya - that helps you understand your turn-ons, overcome shame, and stop expecting yourself (or your partner) to fit into a one-size-fits-all sexual script.
Whether you’re single, in partnership, or somewhere in between — this episode will leave you feeling seen, turned on, and empowered to explore your pleasure in a way that actually works for you.
Take the free Erotic Blueprints™ quiz: https://go.theblueprintbreakthrough.net/t?orid=1043477&opid=4 Love this episode? Leave a quick review — it helps the podcast grow and reach more women who are ready to feel sexy, magnetic, and deeply turned on in their own bodies. xoxo Shari Follow me on Instagram: www.instagram.com/shari.vandecraen Follow my sensual photography account on instagram: www.instagram.com/project.radiance Visit my website for freebies and my latest courses: www.sharivandecraen.com | |||
| When to Have Sex & What to Say First: Conscious Dating in a Fast-Moving World - with Alexa Lynn | #05 | 29 Jul 2025 | 00:31:38 | |
In this raw and radically honest episode, I sit down with conscious dating and empowerment coach Alexa Lynn to explore how to date with intention, embodiment, and confidence—even in a world that constantly rushes us into the next thing. Together, we unravel what it means to pause after a breakup, stop being the CEO of the story factory, and let your authentic woman drive the car instead of the people-pleasing “nice girl.” We also explore the powerful R-B-D-S-M framework for clear, sexy, and safe communication before becoming intimate. And yes—there’s a pre-date pleasure ritual to help you shift from “Will they like me?” to “I am the prize.” You’ll want to try this one. 🔥 In This Episode, We Cover:
Connect with Alexa Lynn 💌 Let’s Connect:
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| How to Speak Up in the Bedroom, without killing the mood | #04 | 22 Jul 2025 | 00:43:32 | |
In this intimate episode of Get Sexy with Shari, I sit down with one of my Tantric Teachers and Communication Queen Arja Hendrikx to talk about one of the most important (and most avoided) skills in intimacy: speaking up in the bedroom. We dive into why so many women stay silent during sex, how to express what you want without killing the mood, and why real pleasure starts with honest, embodied communication. You’ll walk away with practical tools, mindset shifts, and maybe even the permission you’ve been waiting for. Whether you're in a long-term relationship or newly dating, this episode will help you feel more confident, connected, and deeply met in your intimate experiences. 🔥 In This Episode, We Talk About:
If You Loved This Episode… Follow me on Instagram: www.instagram.com/shari.vandecraen Follow my sensual photography account on instagram: www.instagram.com/project.radiance Visit my website for freebies and my latest courses: www.sharivandecraen.com | |||
| From “Too Much” to Magnetic: How Embodiment Heals Your Love Life - with Leen S. | #03 | 15 Jul 2025 | 01:23:34 | |
Welcome back to Get Sexy with Shari — the podcast that turns you on to the life, love, and sex you actually crave. In today’s juicy episode, I sit down with erotic ecstasy and sex & relationship expert Leen S to talk about long-term love, polarity, emotional safety, and what it really means to stay sexy and connected — even when your partner isn’t “doing the work.” Whether you’re in a relationship that feels off… or you’ve been told you’re “too much”… or you’re just tired of doing all the emotional labor — this episode is your permission slip to drop the pressure and come back home to your body. We explore:
PS: stay tuned until the end where Leen guides you through a gorgeous embodiment practice to feel your Alpha and Omega energies inside of you. Connect with Leen: 🌹 Catch her free free masterclass for couples “Deeper” : https://leen-s.com/deeper/ 🌹Sensational Love Night - a tantric date night for couples: https://leen-s.com/sensational-love-night/ Want more? Here’s how to dive deeper with me: Let’s stay sexy together. xoxo Shari 💋 Follow me on Instagram: www.instagram.com/shari.vandecraen Follow my sensual photography account on instagram: www.instagram.com/project.radiance Visit my website for freebies and my latest courses: www.sharivandecraen.com | |||
| From Starfish to Sensual Queen - my real sensual awakening | #02 | 08 Jul 2025 | 00:27:22 | |
In this powerful first episode, I pull back the curtain on my own sensual awakening—how I went from shame, disconnection, and performative sex… to full-body pleasure, body confidence, and unapologetic turn-on. I share the real, raw moments that changed everything:
If you’ve ever thought “something’s wrong with me” or “I should just try harder”… this episode will hit you straight in the soul. 💋 In this episode, you'll learn:
🔗 Links & Resources
🎧 Subscribe & Leave a Review If this episode stirred something in you, please take a moment to subscribe, leave a review, and share with a friend who needs to hear this. Follow me on Instagram: www.instagram.com/shari.vandecraen Follow my sensual photography account on instagram: www.instagram.com/project.radiance Visit my website for freebies and my latest courses: www.sharivandecraen.com | |||
| The Truth About Bedroom Communication: What 20 Women Revealed | #01 | 02 Apr 2025 | 00:09:09 | |
Most women feel pressure when asked what they like in bed—because they don’t actually know. In this episode, I share eye-opening insights from 20 women about why communication in the bedroom feels so difficult. We’ll unpack where we really learn about sex (hint: it’s not what you think it is), how to start discovering your turn-ons. And in true Get Sexy with Shari-style, we'll end with a gentle pleasure practice to find pleasure in non-genital areas of your body. You can only ask for pleasure when you truly know what it is that you want. So let's get to it. JUICY SHOW NOTES Sign up to the waitlist for Pillow Talk: www.sharivandecraen.com/pillowtalk Follow me on Instagram: www.instagram.com/shari.vandecraen Follow my sensual photography account on instagram: www.instagram.com/project.radiance Visit my website for freebies and my latest courses: www.sharivandecraen.com | |||
| Relearning Love: The Relationship Skills Nobody Taught You - with Eri Kardos | #14 | 12 May 2026 | 01:05:35 | |
“Healthy relationships are not conflict-free relationships. They are relationships that know how to repair.” What if the biggest relationship struggles you experience today… are rooted in patterns you learned before the age of 7? In this deeply honest and eye-opening conversation, I sit down with internationally acclaimed relationship expert, bestselling author, TEDx speaker, and founder of Relearn Love, Eri Kardos, to explore the relationship skills most of us were never taught: emotional safety, conflict repair, conscious communication, nervous system awareness, intimacy, and how to stop repeating the same painful cycles in love. We dive into:
One of my favorite parts of this episode is when Eri explains that most couples are trying to solve the problem before creating emotional safety first and how learning to repair instead of react can completely change your relationship. We also talk about:
If you’ve ever:
…this episode is going to shift something in you. Connect with Eri Kardos
Let’s Stay Connected
Please take 60 seconds to leave a 5-star rating and review. It helps more and more people find this powerful work and reclaim their sensuality. Thank you for being here. Follow me on Instagram: www.instagram.com/shari.vandecraen Follow my sensual photography account on instagram: www.instagram.com/project.radiance Visit my website for freebies and my latest courses: www.sharivandecraen.com Follow me on Instagram: www.instagram.com/shari.vandecraen Follow my sensual photography account on instagram: www.instagram.com/project.radiance Visit my website for freebies and my latest courses: www.sharivandecraen.com | |||
| Masturbation May: How Self-Pleasure Transforms Your Sex Life | 03 May 2026 | 00:49:59 | |
“The way you make love to yourself is the way you make love to others.” What if the way you’ve been experiencing pleasure… is only scratching the surface? Masturbation May is your invitation to completely rewrite the way you relate to pleasure. In this raw solo episode, I share how rushed, hidden self-pleasure patterns shape your entire sex life—and how to shift into slow, embodied, deeply fulfilling experiences that transform how you show up with lovers. Here’s the reality about masturbation: Most of us learned self-pleasure in secrecy: fast, quiet and goal-oriented. And without realizing it we bring those exact same patterns into our sex lives. In this episode, I share my personal journey: from rushing, and disconnected self-pleasure to slow, embodied, deeply fulfilling experiences and how this shift completely transformed the way I show up as a lover. This is your invitation to move beyond performance and into real pleasure. In This Episode, You’ll Learn:
Go Deeper
If this episode resonated with you, I’d love to hear from you. Send me a DM on Instagram @shari.vandecraen or share this episode with someone who needs to hear this. And if you loved it: don’t forget to leave a review, love. xoxo Your Pleasure Expert Follow me on Instagram: www.instagram.com/shari.vandecraen Follow my sensual photography account on instagram: www.instagram.com/project.radiance Visit my website for freebies and my latest courses: www.sharivandecraen.com | |||
| The True Power of Your Genitals (That No One Talks About) - with Simon Paul Sutton | #12 | 03 May 2026 | 01:16:13 | |
What if your genitals were never just physical, but a gateway to deeper connection, aliveness, and even consciousness? In this episode, I sit down with Simon Paul Sutton to explore the true power of being comfortable with your own sexual center and the power of self pleasure. Because instead of feeling, we’ve been conditioned to perform in the bedroom. This conversation is a deep dive into what happens when you move beyond technique, beyond pressure, and start relating to your body as something alive, intelligent, and deeply powerful. I don’t just guide this conversation. I also open up about my own experiences with dating, vulnerability, and the moments where I catch myself disconnecting from my body. In This Episode, We Explore:
Personal Shares From Me In this Episode:
Key Takeaways
🔗 Connect with Simon Paul Sutton:
Please take 60 seconds to leave a 5-star rating and review. It helps more and more people find this powerful work and reclaim their sensuality. Thank you for being here. Follow me on Instagram: www.instagram.com/shari.vandecraen Follow my sensual photography account on instagram: www.instagram.com/project.radiance Visit my website for freebies and my latest courses: www.sharivandecraen.com | |||
| From Pleasing to Pleasure: How to Expand Your Erotic Range | #11 | 01 Nov 2025 | 00:29:50 | |
You don’t need to fix your sex life — you just need to expand it.
Here’s what you’ll learn in this episode: Connect with me on Instagram: @shari.vandecraen Follow me on Instagram: www.instagram.com/shari.vandecraen Follow my sensual photography account on instagram: www.instagram.com/project.radiance Visit my website for freebies and my latest courses: www.sharivandecraen.com | |||
| How to Be an Epic Lover — It Starts Long Before the Bedroom | #10 | 21 Oct 2025 | 00:41:06 | |
Most people think being a better lover means learning new positions, lasting longer, or performing better. In this solo episode, Shari takes you back to a moment that changed everything — a conversation in a sun-soaked jungle cabin in Nicaragua that sparked the very idea for this podcast. Inside this juicy, heart-opening episode, you’ll learn: This isn’t about performance. It’s about presence. So if you’ve ever wondered how to become a more connected, magnetic, and unforgettable lover… this episode is your invitation to slow down, feel more, and fall back in love with your own body. --- LINKS I have 2 coaching opportunities open starting as of mid-November: send me an email with your desire to hello@sharivandecraen.com and let's see if there is a match. If you're interested in the course on How to Pleasure the Penis, click here: https://sharivandecraen.plugandpay.nl/checkout/secrets-of-sensual-touch --- Connect with Shari Follow @shari.vandecraen on Instagram for sensual tools, embodiment practices, and weekly turn-on inspo. Follow me on Instagram: www.instagram.com/shari.vandecraen Follow my sensual photography account on instagram: www.instagram.com/project.radiance Visit my website for freebies and my latest courses: www.sharivandecraen.com | |||
| The Real Sex Ed We All Deserve—with Dr. Saida Désilets & Aaron Michael | #09 | 14 Oct 2025 | 01:08:50 | |
Most of us grew up learning that sex was either dangerous, shameful, or mechanical. But what if sex could be healing? Empowering? A path to deep embodiment? In this powerful episode, Shari is joined by Dr. Saida Désilets, a pioneer in feminine embodiment and sexual sovereignty, and Aaron Michael, co-founder of Suction Sex and Embodied Love University, to explore the truth about the kind of sexuality education we actually need. Together, they unravel the myths around “normal” sex, break down the difference between friction sex vs. suction sex, and invite us into a new paradigm of relaxed arousal, co-regulation, and embodied love. You’ll learn:
This isn’t just another conversation about sex. It’s a reclamation of your erotic power, your body’s wisdom, and your right to feel fully alive.
Please take 60 seconds to leave a 5-star rating and review—it helps more women find this powerful work and reclaim their sensuality. Thank you for being here. Follow me on Instagram: www.instagram.com/shari.vandecraen Follow my sensual photography account on instagram: www.instagram.com/project.radiance Visit my website for freebies and my latest courses: www.sharivandecraen.com | |||
| The Power of Desire: From People-Pleasing to Erotic Aliveness - with Nadine Hamilton | #08 | 22 Aug 2025 | 01:04:54 | |
What does it take to stop abandoning yourself and start living from desire? In this juicy episode of Get Sexy with Shari, I sit down with the radiant Nadine Hamilton — a VITA-certified sex, love & relationship coach and somatic sexologist whose erotic aliveness practically drips through the microphone. Together, we dive deep into:
And — in true Get Sexy with Shari style — Nadine guides us through a luscious “Honeypot” practice to drop into your body, stir up your erotic energy, and taste what happens when you give yourself permission to want. This conversation is an invitation to stop apologizing, stop performing, and step into the juiciness of your own desires. 🎧 Listen now and get ready to drip with honey. Resources & Links:
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| The 5 Bodies of the Embodied Woman with Amanda Biccum | #07 | 12 Aug 2025 | 01:00:14 | |
What does it really mean to be embodied? In this episode of Get Sexy with Shari, I sit down with the radiant and wise Amanda Biccum—my own teacher and co-founder of Temple of Radiance—to unpack the five bodies every woman holds: the mental, physical, emotional, energetic, and spiritual. If you’ve ever felt disconnected, “in your head,” or like something is missing from your self-care routine… this conversation will light a fire under your ass and inside your heart. Together, we explore how embodiment isn’t about doing more, but about being deeply aware and deeply present with what’s already here. Whether you're craving more aliveness, deeper intimacy, or a stronger sense of self—this episode is your invitation back home. Amanda also guides you through a mini embodiment practice you can do right now to drop into your body and feel your own presence on a whole new level.
Don’t miss out: If this episode lit something up in you, please rate & review the podcast—it helps other women find this work. Follow me on Instagram: www.instagram.com/shari.vandecraen Follow my sensual photography account on instagram: www.instagram.com/project.radiance Visit my website for freebies and my latest courses: www.sharivandecraen.com | |||