In this episode, I dive deep into a topic that hits close to home for many ambitious women: self-sabotage. You’ve worked hard, set big goals, and are on the verge of reaching new heights—and then, something happens. Fear, doubt, or overwhelm creeps in, and suddenly, you’re standing in your own way. Sound familiar?

I’m sharing my personal journey of recognizing self-sabotage and how I learned to overcome it. You’ll hear real stories from my own experience, moments when success felt so close, yet fear caused me to pull back. But here’s the good news: once you recognize the patterns of self-sabotage, you can break them and continue moving forward with confidence and joy.

In this episode, you’ll learn:

- The subtle ways self-sabotage shows up in your life (often without you realizing it)

- Why success can sometimes trigger fear and hesitation

- How to shift from fear to fun, and find joy in your journey

- Actionable steps to break through self-sabotage and keep moving forward

- How to cultivate the right mindset for long-term success and fulfillment

If you’ve ever felt stuck or frustrated by your own behaviors just when things were going well, this episode is for you. I’ll guide you through practical tips to help you stop holding yourself back and start embracing the success you deserve—without the fear or self-doubt.

**Listen in now to learn how to recognize and overcome self-sabotage on your path to success!**

And don’t forget to leave a review or share your thoughts—it helps other women find the show and break through their own barriers!

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Self-sabotage, empowerment, female leaders, personal growth, joy, mentorship, overcoming fear, success, inspiration.

-- Susan Veldkamp

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In this episode, I’m sharing the one key shift that will unlock the fastest path to personal and professional growth. Whether you’re looking to level up in your career, take your business to new heights, or simply step into the next chapter of your life, this strategy will accelerate your progress.

Drawing from my own experiences as a business owner and mentor to hundreds of women, I’ll guide you through the process of overcoming the common obstacles that keep so many people stuck in their comfort zones. Growth doesn’t have to be slow and painful—it can be fast, energizing, and deeply fulfilling if you take this crucial step.

In this episode, you’ll discover:

• The surprising factor that could be slowing down your growth

• How to get out of your own way and unlock your full potential

• Why stepping out of your comfort zone is key to massive growth

• A mindset shift that will help you break through your biggest barriers

• Real-world examples of women who achieved rapid success with this approach

If you’re ready to stop playing small and start accelerating your journey to success, this episode is for you. It’s time to step into your power and experience the massive growth you’ve been waiting for.

Tune in now to discover how to get there sooner! Don’t forget to leave a review and share your insights—your feedback helps others find the show and fast-track their own growth!

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Personal growth, female leadership, self-awareness, mentorship, empowerment, stepping into light, overcoming shadows, leadership development, personal development, growth mindset.

-- Susan Veldkamp

-- Position yourself so no one can ignore you (anymore)!

In this episode, we're diving deep into one of the most powerful yet simple tools to help you navigate challenging interactions with difficult, energy-draining people. Whether it's in the workplace, in social settings, or even within your own family, annoying people are a reality. But what if you could flip the script? What if you could position yourself with strength and clarity, turning these encounters into opportunities?

The answer lies in one crucial question.

Here’s what we’ll explore in this episode:

• Why annoying people trigger you — and what that reveals about your deeper desires.

• The secret to taking control of interactions without trying to change others.

• How to position yourself powerfully in any situation.

• Practical tips for meetings and conversations where someone else drains your energy.

• Shifting your mindset to turn frustration into an opportunity for growth and self-leadership.

By the end of this episode, you’ll be equipped with a simple, effective strategy that empowers you to stop losing energy and start positioning yourself for success—even when surrounded by the most annoying people.

Listen in and learn how to ask yourself the one question that will transform how you handle every interaction!

**Join the Conversation**

I’d love to hear your thoughts on today’s episode. Share your experiences in the comments or on LinkedIn tagging @susanveldkamp.

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Annoying people, personal leadership, energy management, self-reflection, motivation, relationships.

-- Susan Veldkamp

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Ladies, it’s time to break the chains of undervaluation and claim the salary you deserve! 💪 In this empowering episode, we dive deep into the art of salary negotiation, helping you push past the discomfort and ask for what you're truly worth.

💡 Here’s what you’ll learn:

• Recognizing Your Worth: It’s time to see your value beyond titles and experience. Learn how to get crystal clear on your strengths and bring them to the table during negotiations.

• The Psychology of Negotiation: Why negotiating for yourself feels so much harder than when you're advocating for others—and how to overcome it!

• Key Salary Negotiation Tactics: Proven strategies that help you confidently navigate salary offers, whether you're switching jobs or renegotiating at your current company.

• Getting Comfortable with Uncomfortable Numbers: Why stepping outside your comfort zone is the secret to achieving a higher salary and creating lasting financial growth in your career.

• Real-Life Success Stories: Hear how women just like you have negotiated their way to higher incomes and long-term professional success.

🌟 Don’t Miss Out: Whether you’re self-employed, a corporate leader, or just stepping into the job market, these tips will help you demand what you're worth and boost your financial well-being.

🎧 Tune in now and let’s put an end to self-doubt and salary underestimation. Your career, and your bank account, will thank you!

**Join the Conversation**:

I’d love to hear your thoughts on today’s episode. Share your experiences in the comments or on LinkedIn tagging @susanveldkamp.

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Money, salary negotiation, self-worth, female leaders, career growth, comfort zone, negotiation skills, income, self-employment, financial empowerment.

-- Susan Veldkamp

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Today, I’m diving into a topic that’s really close to my heart—the power of saying “no” to opportunities that seem amazing on the surface but don’t truly align with your bigger vision.

A few weeks ago, I was invited to contribute to a book that celebrates extraordinary women. It felt like a huge honor. My ego was thrilled, and initially, I said yes. But as I thought more deeply about it, I realized this wasn’t the right opportunity for me. In this episode, I’ll share the tough decision-making process I went through and why I ultimately said no, even though it hurt to do so.

You’ll hear about:

• Why turning down great opportunities can sometimes be the best choice

• How to evaluate offers based on your long-term goals rather than the immediate excitement

• The rabbit story that changed my perspective on focus and prioritization

• The role of ego in decision-making and how to quiet its influence

• How to stay aligned with your true vision and avoid getting distracted by things that don’t serve your larger purpose

If you’ve ever been torn between saying yes to a tempting offer or staying committed to your bigger dreams, this episode will speak to you. As female leaders, we’re often expected to juggle everything, but the truth is, you can’t chase every opportunity and expect to reach your ultimate goal.

Join me as I reflect on my decision, and let’s explore together how you can confidently say no when necessary and stay focused on what truly matters.

**Join the Conversation**:

I’d love to hear your thoughts on today’s episode. Share your experiences in the comments or on LinkedIn tagging @susanveldkamp.

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Choices, personal growth, focus, opportunities, decision making, women empowerment, life goals, self-awareness, priorities, dreams.

-- Susan Veldkamp

-- Position yourself so no one can ignore you (anymore)!

In this deeply personal episode, I share a raw and transformative moment in my journey as a female leader and entrepreneur. For years, my ego has been a constant companion—keeping me safe, but also holding me back from growth. My ego is trying to protect me from stepping into the unknown.

Join me as I take you through a recent challenge, where my ego kicked in during a critical moment in my business. You’ll hear the vulnerable story of how self-doubt crept in, trying to convince me I wasn’t good enough to reach my goals. But this time, I didn’t let it win.

In this episode, I’ll talk about how I identified my ego’s voice, the steps I took to confront it head-on, and ultimately, the letter I wrote to my ego—one that shifted my entire mindset. If you’ve ever felt like you’re fighting yourself while chasing your dreams, this episode is for you.

Uou'll discover:

• How to recognize when your ego is holding you back

• Why your ego acts as a protector, and how to work with it, not against it

• The power of acknowledging your fears without letting them control you

• My personal letter to my ego, and how it helped me regain control of my journey

If you’ve ever struggled with self-doubt or felt like your inner critic was keeping you from reaching your potential, this episode will show you how to lovingly let go of the limitations your ego creates.

Remember: success comes when we align our hearts and our minds, and sometimes, that means asking our ego to step aside.

Listen now and take the first step towards freeing yourself from the ego’s grip.

**Join the Conversation**

I’d love to hear your thoughts on today’s episode. Share your experiences in the comments or on LinkedIn tagging @susanveldkamp.

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Ego, Personal Growth, Empowerment, Fear, Change, Self-Reflection, Leadership, Courage, Mindfulness, Self-Discovery

-- Susan Veldkamp

-- Position yourself so no one can ignore you (anymore)!

In this episode, I dive deep into a critical but often overlooked question: *How do you think you exist in someone else’s mind?* It's more than just a curiosity—it's a powerful tool for personal and professional growth. Understanding how others perceive you can help you build stronger relationships, position yourself for success, and ultimately, reach your goals faster.

**Key Takeaways:**

1. Perception is Reality: What others think of you often determines how they interact with you. If you want to be seen as a leader or a go-to expert, you need to consciously shape that perception.

2. **Breaking Free from Assumptions**: Too often, we assume that just because we’re good at something, people will automatically notice. But success requires more than just skill—it requires visibility. Learn how to effectively communicate your strengths and ambitions to the right people.

3. **Positioning Yourself Like a Brand**: Just like major companies invest heavily in branding, you need to consistently reinforce your presence and ambitions with others. We explore how to strategically share your goals with those who can help you grow.

4. **The Power of Repetition**: One conversation isn’t enough. Just like advertising campaigns, you need to consistently remind others of your value and goals. Discover the art of repeating your message without being overbearing.

**Join the Conversation**:

I’d love to hear your thoughts on today’s episode. How do you think others see you? Have you used this awareness to your advantage? Share your experiences in the comments or on LinkedIn tagging @susanveldkamp.

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self-perception, external perception, ambition, career growth, positioning, networking, female leaders, personal development

-- Susan Veldkamp

-- Position yourself so no one can ignore you (anymore)!

In this episode of the Female Leaders Podcast, Susan dives into the crucial topic of boundaries and the common misconception that saying "no" makes us rude or selfish. Susan shares powerful insights on how to reclaim your time and energy by setting boundaries that align with your values and goals, especially as a leader.

You'll hear a real-life example from one of Susan's mini training sessions, where a self-employed lawyer struggled to balance free advice with paid services. Together, they explore how to handle situations where others take advantage of your time, and why learning to say "no" is one of the most important acts of self-respect.

Key Takeaways:

• Boundaries Aren't Selfish: Why protecting your time and energy is essential for your well-being and success.

• Why "No" is Powerful: Understand why saying no isn't rude, but necessary to prevent burnout.

• The Lawyer's Dilemma: A story about a lawyer overwhelmed by unpaid requests, and how she learned to set boundaries with confidence.

• Self-Worth & Boundaries: How setting limits is tied to your self-worth and self-care.

• Rude to Others vs. Rude to Yourself: Susan’s key question: Is it okay to be rude to yourself by not setting boundaries, but rude to others when you do?

• Actionable Tips: Practical steps to start setting boundaries today and regain control of your time without guilt.

Action Steps:

• Reflect on where you may be overextending yourself or saying "yes" too often.

• Practice saying, "Let me sleep on it," before committing to requests.

About:

Boundaries, self-care, self-worth, personal development, female leaders, assertiveness, communication, self-love, professional growth, emotional intelligence.

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• If you found this episode helpful, make sure to subscribe for more insights on female leadership.

• Join the Program: Interested in more in-depth coaching? Join Susan’s leadership program with like-minded women.

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• LinkedIn: ⁠Susan Veldkamp's LinkedIn⁠

• Website: ⁠www.susanveldkamp.com⁠

-- Susan Veldkamp

-- Position yourself so no one can ignore you (anymore)!

-- #15

In this episode, Susan explores how female leaders can navigate key career decisions by applying three powerful decision-making strategies. Drawing on both masculine and feminine perspectives, Susan provides practical tools to help leaders make choices with confidence, trust, and adaptability.

Whether you're dealing with opportunities that suddenly arise or strategic career decisions, this episode will give you the mindset and methods to move forward with clarity and confidence.

Key Takeaways:

Three Approaches to Decision-Making:

1. Masculine Approach (Does this make my boat go faster?): A results-driven method focused on efficiency and progress.
2. Feminine Approach (Trust vs. Fear): A reflective approach asking whether decisions are made from a place of abundance and confidence or from fear and scarcity.
3. Just Pick and Make It Work: A flexible approach emphasizing that any decision can be the right one as long as you commit to making it successful.

Balancing Masculine and Feminine Energy:

Susan discusses the importance of balancing masculine action-oriented strategies with feminine, intuitive approaches to create well-rounded, confident decisions.

Actionable Insights:

Ask yourself these questions when faced with a decision:

• Does this make my boat go faster?

• Is this decision based on fear or trust?

• Can I just pick any choice and make it work?

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Decision making, career opportunities, feminine leadership, masculine energy, trust, abundance, fear of missing out, personal growth, coaching, female empowerment.

• Recognize that both temporary and permanent promotions are valid achievements.

• Self-acknowledgment is crucial for career advancement.

Follow and Subscribe:

If you found this episode helpful, make sure to subscribe for more insights on female leadership.

Join the Program:

Interested in more in-depth coaching? Join Susan’s leadership program for online coaching sessions with like-minded women.

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• Website: www.susanveldkamp.com

• LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/susanveldkamp/

-- Susan Veldkamp

Position yourself so no one can ignore you (anymore)!

Whatever (temporary) promotion you get, whatever compliment someone gives you, this is something you never do. Never.

About

Female leadership, ownership, self-worth, compliments, career growth, personal development, confidence, professional achievements, empowerment, women in leadership.

Takeaways

• Take ownership of your achievements to be recognized as a (female) leader.
• Downsizing your achievements diminishes your self-worth.
• Accept compliments graciously without downplaying your success.
• It's important to create a positive perception in others' minds.
• Avoid making excuses when receiving praise.
• Recognize that both temporary and permanent promotions are valid achievements.
• Self-acknowledgment is crucial for career advancement.

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-- Susan Veldkamp

Position yourself so no one can ignore you (anymore)!

In this episode I delve into a deeply personal journey of moving away from seeking validation from others and embracing my own self-worth. I explore the significance of approval—both external and internal—and how relying on others for validation can limit your growth, happiness, and authenticity.

Discover the importance of living true to yourself rather than for others' expectations.

About

Self-worth, validation, approval, personal growth, inner beauty, self-acceptance, empowerment, self-discovery, happiness, career success, well-being.

Takeaways

• The emotional and psychological impact of seeking external validation.
• How internal validation forms the foundation of a successful and fulfilling life.
• Ways to overcome the mindset of “I’m not good enough.”
• Practical tips for focusing on your accomplishments and inner strength.
• Why letting go of others’ expectations frees you to achieve your own dreams.

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-- Susan Veldkamp

Position yourself so no one can ignore you (anymore)!

In this episode, I share the key strategies for effectively positioning yourself in the workplace. I challenge the misconceptions around visibility and explain that positioning is a tool to achieve your goals, not a goal in itself.

I discuss how important it is to be recognized and seen in the right way, and how closing the gap between how you see yourself and how others see you can open up new opportunities for career growth and success.

About

Positioning, personal branding, perception, career growth, visibility, female leaders, self-awareness, communication, ambition, influence.

Takeaways

• Positioning yourself is a means to achieve your goals.

• Visibility is important, but not the ultimate goal.

• Your perception is influenced by both facts and opinions.

• You must communicate your ambitions repeatedly to be remembered.

• Understanding how others perceive you is crucial for positioning.

• The gap between self-perception and others' perception can be significant.

• You can influence how people think of you.

• Positioning is about creating a lasting impression.

-- Susan Veldkamp

Position yourself so no one can ignore you (anymore)

In this episode, I explore one of the most essential skills for any leader—how to effectively deal with resistance. Whether you're facing pushback from your team, challenges in negotiations, or simply dealing with unexpected obstacles in your personal life, knowing how to handle resistance can transform how you lead and achieve success.

I’ll dive into why resistance often feels like pushing against the current, and how shifting your perspective can make everything feel more effortless. You’ll learn how to approach resistance, not as a setback, but as a powerful opportunity for growth and self-development. Drawing from personal experiences, I share actionable strategies for embracing resistance, using it to strengthen your leadership skills, and ultimately positioning yourself for long-term success.

In this episode, you’ll discover:

• Why resistance is a natural part of leadership and growth

• How to shift from fighting resistance to flowing with it

• Practical strategies to turn obstacles into opportunities

• The mindset shift you need to thrive in challenging situations

• How to strengthen your leadership presence in the face of opposition

If you've ever felt drained by constant pushback or frustrated by obstacles on your path to success, this episode is for you. By learning to deal with resistance effectively, you'll unlock a new level of ease and confidence in your leadership journey.

Tune in now to discover how to turn resistance into an opportunity for growth! Don’t forget to leave a review and share your thoughts—it helps others find this episode and empowers more women to lead with confidence.

**Join the Conversation**

I’d love to hear your thoughts on today’s episode. Share your experiences in the comments or on LinkedIn tagging @susanveldkamp.

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Resistance, personal growth, leadership, overcoming obstacles, mindset, sales, empowerment, team management, contrast, resilience.

-- Susan Veldkamp

-- Position yourself so no one can ignore you (anymore)!

This episode is about a woman, whose identity has been overshadowed by labels like "the mom of three" or "the wife of," realizes that these roles no longer support her personal and professional growth.

The breakthrough happens when I asked her just one single question.

This powerful shift in mindset and illustrates the importance of reclaiming one’s identity and confidently embracing leadership.

About

Female leadership, personal development, career growth, ambition, self-awareness.

Takeaways

The importance of women taking charge of their careers.

Positioning oneself is a means to achieve personal goals.

Clarity in what one wants is crucial for career advancement.

Many people struggle to articulate their ambitions clearly.

Self-awareness is key to understanding personal desires.

The energy you project is influenced by your clarity of goals.

Taking steps forward requires a proactive approach.

Success starts with understanding what you want for yourself.

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-- Susan Veldkamp

Position yourself so no one can ignore you (anymore)!

This episode is all about the power of self-empowerment and persistence when it comes to reaching your career goals, especially as a woman in leadership. I share a story from a coaching session where I emphasized how crucial it is to take full responsibility for your own ambitions and handle workplace dynamics with confidence. We dive into how you can turn rejection into opportunities and stay proactive in pursuing what you really want in your professional life.

About

Female leadership, workplace dynamics, empowerment, persistence, ambition, sustainability, career growth, coaching, personal development, overcoming rejection.

Takeaways

• Awareness can change many aspects of your life.
• Taking responsibility is crucial for career advancement.
• Persistence is key when facing rejection.
• A 'no' can be a stepping stone to a 'yes'.
• Meetings should be seen as ongoing processes, not endpoints.
• Sharing ambitions with colleagues can foster support.
• Self-importance is essential for pursuing ambitions.

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-- Susan Veldkamp

-- Position yourself so no one can ignore you (anymore)!

Overcoming fear and embracing growth. This episode is all about how to make fearless decisions towards your next carreer step, dreams and desires.

About

Dreams, desires, ego, authentic self, personal growth, decision making, self-discovery, empowerment, female leaders.

Takeaways

• The ego protects us by keeping us in our comfort zone.

• Your authentic self wants to grow and explore.

• Aligning ego with authentic self allows for progress.

• Asking the right questions can reveal true desires.

• Ego can prevent us from making decisions.

• Listening to your true self is crucial for growth.

• Making decisions from authenticity leads to forward movement.

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-- Susan Veldkamp

-- Position yourself so no one can ignore you (anymore)!

Tips & tricks are insufficient to successfully position yourself. Find out where the real key can be found!

About

Career positioning, decision making, energy management, personal development & female leadership.

Takeaways

• It's not about tips and tricks.
• Success starts with a decision to act.
• There are three types of decision-makers, only one is successfull
• Energy is key to effective positioning.
• Preparation for meetings can shift your energy positively.
• Your energy defines the success of a meeting.
• Positioning happens in connection with others.
• You have the power to decide how to position yourself.
• Focus on how you want to feel in interactions.

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-- Susan Veldkamp

-- Position yourself so no one can ignore you (anymore)!

We all know achieving goals doesn’t bring you the happiness if you weren’t happy on your journey. But how do you master the gap from where you are now to where you want to be?

About

Happiness, goals, self-improvement, mindfulness, Eckhart Tolle, journey, law of attraction, personal development, female leaders, self-awareness, position yourself.

Takeaways

• The present moment is the only time we truly have.

• Enjoying the journey is key to finding happiness.

• Goals should serve as a focus, not a source of stress.

• You can dream big while being content in the now.

• Certainty in outcomes allows for a more relaxed pursuit of goals.

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-- Susan Veldkamp

-- Position yourself so no one can ignore you (anymore)!

Starting something new can be challenging. Like this podcast. Hours of work and no followers and no likes. And also no problem! This is why…

About

Starting from scratch, no listeners, no followers, learning, improvement, making mistakes en personal growth.

Takeaways

• It's important to enjoy what you're doing and not get discouraged by the lack of initial success.

• Give yourself time to learn and improve, and don't be afraid of making mistakes.

• Not having an audience yet can be beneficial as it allows for personal growth and learning.

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-- Susan Veldkamp

-- Position yourself so no one can ignore you (anymore)!

𝗗𝗿𝗲𝗮𝗺𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝗕𝗶𝗴 𝗙𝗲𝗲𝗹𝘀 𝗥𝗲𝗮𝗹𝗹𝘆 𝗖𝗼𝗺𝗳𝗼𝗿𝘁𝗮𝗯𝗹𝗲. You know you have them. You enjoy the fact that they can come true. And in the meantime, you keep doing what you’re doing.

About

Dreams, comfort zone, taking action, big dreams and stepping out of comfort zone.

Takeaways

• Getting too comfortable with your dreams can prevent you from taking action.

• Stepping out of your comfort zone is necessary to make your dreams a reality.

• Every big dream starts with a small step, so don't be afraid to start small.

• Overcoming your ego and fear of failure is crucial in pursuing your dreams.

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-- Susan Veldkamp

-- Position yourself so no one can ignore you (anymore)!

This episode discusses the topic of being an introvert and how it relates to positioning yourself. Being an introvert does not mean you cannot successfully position yourself or connect with others.

About

Introvert, extrovert, positioning, authenticity, connection, energy!

Takeaways

• Being an introvert does not hinder your ability to successfully position yourself as a leader.

• Authenticity is key in positioning yourself, regardless of whether you are an introvert or extrovert.

• Introverts may have limited energy for social interactions.

• Quality connections are more important than quantity when it comes to building relationships.

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-- Susan Veldkamp

-- Position yourself so no one can ignore you (anymore)!

This podcast is all about your untapped potential that exists within you!

There is no good or bad, right or wrong, but rather a realization of the immense potential that lies within you.

About

Potential, untapped potential, self-worth, achievements and successes!

Takeaways

"There is so much potential inside of you that you're not using."

"Your focus is constantly on what's not there."

"If you spend more time on what's already there, your world changes."

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-- Susan Veldkamp

-- Position yourself so no one can ignore you (anymore)!

When you run out of excuses to put off a dream, there is only one option: a giant leap of faith.

That happened exactly twelve days ago and this is step one.

- Susan Veldkamp

- Position yourself so no one can ignore you (anymore)

In this episode, we dive into the iconic story of Queen and Freddie Mercury, revealing how their unwavering confidence in their vision can transform the way you approach negotiations. Inspired by the movie Bohemian Rhapsody, I share one powerful lesson that will change the way you present yourself in any negotiation—whether it’s with a colleague, your boss, or even your kids.

You’ll hear about the moment Freddie Mercury fearlessly challenged a record label. That boldness, that certainty in knowing their worth, is the key to success in any negotiation. It’s not just about what you say; it’s about how you show up.

In this episode, you’ll learn:

• How to embody confidence in negotiations, no matter the stakes

• Why staying true to your vision leads to better outcomes

• How Freddie Mercury’s approach can shift your mindset and energy

• The power of presence and how it impacts your success

• Practical strategies to position yourself for success in any conversation

This episode is for you if you’ve ever struggled with standing your ground or doubting your worth in negotiations. It’s time to channel your inner rockstar and approach every discussion with the confidence of someone who knows exactly what they bring to the table.

Tune in and discover how to negotiate like a rockstar! Don’t forget to leave a review and share your thoughts—it helps others find the show and step into their own power.

**Join the Conversation**

I’d love to hear your thoughts on today’s episode. Share your experiences in the comments or on LinkedIn tagging @susanveldkamp.

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Negotiation, Freddie Mercury, Bohemian Rhapsody, authenticity, confidence, energy, communication, self-worth, Queen, personal growth.

-- Susan Veldkamp

-- Position yourself so no one can ignore you (anymore)!

In this episode, I tackle one of the biggest challenges women face in leadership and self-development—understanding the difference between self-importance and ego. We often confuse valuing ourselves with being egotistical, and that misconception holds us back from taking the steps we need to position ourselves for long-term success.

I break down how ego-driven decisions, whether they come from a place of superiority or insecurity, can sabotage your growth. But here’s the truth: finding yourself important isn’t about ego. It’s about self-love and having the courage to prioritize your vision, your goals, and what you want to achieve.

In this episode, you’ll learn:

• The key differences between ego and authentic self-importance

• Why valuing yourself is essential for positioning and success

• How to move from ego-driven reactions to authentic leadership

• The power of self-love in making bold, aligned decisions

• Practical steps to ask yourself the right questions and stop playing small

If you’ve ever struggled with feeling guilty about putting yourself first, or wondered when ego is speaking versus your authentic self, this episode will give you the clarity and confidence to own your self-worth. Learn how to embrace your authentic power, lead with intention, and position yourself as a true force in your field.

Tune in now to discover the power of self-importance and how to align with your authentic self for lasting success! Don’t forget to leave a review and share your thoughts—you’ll not only help me, but also others who need this message.

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Self-value, ego, authentic self, self-love, personal growth, women empowerment, positioning, self-awareness, personal development, self-compassion.

-- Susan Veldkamp

-- Position yourself so no one can ignore you (anymore)!

In this episode, I take you through my personal journey of going from trying to fit in as "one of the guys" to fully embracing what makes me unique—and how that shift led to true success. For years, I thought being compared to my male colleagues was the highest compliment, but over time, I realized that suppressing my feminine traits was holding me back from reaching my full potential.

I share my story of working in male-dominated environments, the gender bias I encountered, and the pivotal moment when I recognized that my authentic self was my greatest asset. By blending both masculine and feminine characteristics, I discovered the power of authenticity and how it positions you as a true leader.

In this episode, you’ll learn:

- How gender bias impacts the way we see ourselves in professional spaces

- Why trying to fit in can undermine your true potential

- The benefits of embracing both masculine and feminine traits in leadership

- How to position yourself as unique, authentic, and irreplaceable in your field

- Practical tips to stop following someone else’s blueprint and start leading with your own strengths

If you've ever felt like you had to tone down or change who you are to succeed, this episode will show you why embracing your true self is the key to standing out and positioning yourself for long-term success. Your authenticity is your strength—it's time to own it.

**Tune in to this empowering episode and discover how to position yourself for success by being unapologetically you!** Don’t forget to leave a review, share your thoughts, and help others discover this episode.

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Gender bias, female leadership, authenticity, personal stories, masculine characteristics, feminine characteristics, personal leadership, self-awareness, women in business, empowerment.

-- Susan Veldkamp

-- Position yourself so no one can ignore you (anymore)!

In this eye-opening episode, I take you on a journey to uncover the subtle ways we lose self-confidence over the years—and, more importantly, how to reclaim it. As kids, we had this innate, unshakeable confidence. But as we grow older, external opinions, disapproval, and the need for approval slowly chip away at our self-trust.

I dive deep into why so many women (and men) find themselves doubting their abilities later in life, despite once moving through the world with confidence and certainty. Using real-life examples, I show you how these small moments of disapproval, whether from family, colleagues, or society, lead us to adjust ourselves in ways that drain our confidence.

But here’s the good news: you can take back every single bit of confidence you’ve lost. It’s not easy, but it's possible. By questioning your habitual reactions, understanding the root causes of your self-doubt, and learning to prioritize your own voice, you can rebuild your self-confidence and live a life that feels authentic to you.

In this episode, you’ll discover:

• Why self-confidence naturally declines as we grow older

• How seeking approval costs you pieces of yourself over time

• The key questions you need to ask yourself to reclaim your self-trust

• Practical steps to rebuild your confidence, one decision at a time

• How living for others leads to regret—and how to prevent it from happening to you

If you’ve ever felt like you’ve lost yourself or your confidence along the way, this episode is for you. Learn how to stop living by others’ standards and start living for you.

Tune in now and start taking back your confidence! Don’t forget to leave a review or rating if this episode resonates with you—it helps others discover the show too.

Listen now and reclaim the self-confidence you deserve!

**Join the Conversation**

I’d love to hear your thoughts on today’s episode. Share your experiences in the comments or on LinkedIn tagging @susanveldkamp.

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Self-confidence, personal growth, identity, self-discovery, approval, disapproval, life regrets, decision making, NLP, female leaders.

-- Susan Veldkamp

-- Position yourself so no one can ignore you (anymore)!

In this powerful episode, I dive deep into the concept of personal leadership when life throws curveballs. Whether you're stuck in a traffic jam on the way to an important meeting or dealing with that one colleague who always monopolizes the conversation, it's not about controlling the chaos—it's about mastering your reaction.

I share my personal journey of learning the hard way that fighting what you can't change is a losing battle. Instead, embracing the art of letting go and shifting focus can unlock a new level of flow and ease in both your professional and personal life. From team meetings that test your patience to unexpected roadblocks, this episode teaches you how to shift from frustration to flow by taking leadership over what you can control—your response.

By the end of this episode, you'll walk away with actionable insights on how to:

• Let go of fighting situations you can’t control

• Shift your focus from obstacles to opportunities

• Stay in flow during challenging moments at work and in life

• Lead yourself with ease, even in the face of life's unpredictability

Whether you're leading a team or leading your own life, mastering your reaction is the key to staying calm, confident, and in control. Tune in and start transforming frustration into personal leadership!

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Acceptance, personal leadership, flow, obstacles, life lessons, mindset, resilience, focus, challenges, self-improvement.

-- Susan Veldkamp

-- Position yourself so no one can ignore you (anymore)!

Ever felt frustrated by those who seem to talk a big game but don’t deliver? You know the ones—blowhards. They dominate the room, take credit, and somehow get ahead without the results to back it up. In this episode, I break down how her irritation with blowhards led to an important realization: positioning yourself is the key to success.

Being good at your job isn’t enough. To rise in your career, you need to master the art of self-promotion—but on your terms. Susan shares her personal story of turning envy and frustration into empowerment, using her own style to gain visibility, respect, and career growth. You’ll learn why it’s not about mimicking the blowhards—it’s about positioning yourself authentically to achieve your goals.

What You’ll Learn in This Episode:

• Why simply being excellent at your job won’t get you ahead

• How to shift from frustration to empowerment when dealing with office blowhards

• The importance of positioning yourself strategically in your career

• Susan’s step-by-step journey from feeling overlooked to becoming a top saleswoman

• How to find your voice, share your wins, and make sure your hard work is noticed

• The secret to making self-promotion feel authentic, not arrogant

Key Quotes:

• “Being good is not enough—being excellent is not even enough. You have to position yourself.”

• “If a blowhard can position themselves successfully, then so can you—but in your own way.”

• “When you stop letting others drain your energy and focus on your own path, your results will be mind-blowing.”

Listen to this episode if you:

• Are tired of seeing less qualified colleagues get ahead

• Struggle with self-promotion and want to learn how to do it authentically

• Want to unlock the key to positioning yourself for career success

• Need a shift in mindset to reclaim your power in the workplace

Tune in and start positioning yourself fort he career you deserve!

**Join the Conversation**:

I’d love to hear your thoughts on today’s episode. Share your experiences in the comments or on LinkedIn tagging @susanveldkamp.

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Blowhard, positioning, career growth, self-advocacy, visibility, sales success, personal development, professional growth, self-awareness, ambition.

-- Susan Veldkamp

-- Position yourself so no one can ignore you (anymore)!

It's easy to let distractions and small challenges drain your energy—leaving you feeling stuck, overwhelmed, and frustrated. But what if you could shift your focus and harness your full potential?

In this episode, I dive deep into the concept of energy leaks—those small, often unnoticed obstacles that sap 80% of your energy, even though they represent only 20% of your workload. You’ll discover how to position yourself for success, protect your energy, and focus on what truly matters to thrive in your career.

What You’ll Learn:

• How to identify and stop energy leaks that are holding you back

• Why positioning yourself strategically is essential for long-term success

• Powerful mindset shifts to reclaim your focus and boost productivity

• Real-life stories of female leaders who turned challenges into opportunities

• Proven strategies to protect your energy and thrive in any professional environment

Key Takeaways:

• Positioning yourself isn’t just about skills—it’s about managing your energy and influence.

• Learn to say no to distractions and yes to the tasks that push you forward.

• How reframing your perspective on personal challenges can unlock new levels of success.

If you're ready to stop leaking energy and start thriving in your career, this episode is a must-listen! Tune in for practical insights and inspiration that will empower you to step into your full potential.

**Join the Conversation**:

I’d love to hear your thoughts on today’s episode. Share your experiences in the comments or on LinkedIn tagging @susanveldkamp.

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Energy strategy, leadership, personal challenges, empowerment, focus, vision, female leaders, coaching, impact, sustainability.

-- Susan Veldkamp

-- Position yourself so no one can ignore you (anymore)!

We’ve all heard it: “You just need to put yourself out there!” It sounds simple, but let’s be real - this advice can feel vague, frustrating, and even a bit dismissive.

In this episode, I’m breaking down why this common suggestion often misses the mark and how to approach it in a way that actually works for you.

You’ll discover:

• Why “putting yourself out there” feels so uncomfortable—and what’s really holding you back.
• The deeper intention behind this advice and how to reframe it for personal growth.

It’s time to stop feeling stuck and start making intentional moves toward the success you deserve—without sacrificing who you are.

Tune in now and take your career, business, or personal growth to the next level!

👉 Share your thoughts on this episode! Tag me on social media or drop a review.

Ready to take the next step?

Are you ready to break free from the patterns holding you back? Start by tuning in to this episode and embracing the insights you’ll gain. Small steps lead to big transformations.

Join My Free Mini-Training: Be the woman no one can ignore. Discover the 3 secrets to positioning yourself - without having to pretend to be someone else!

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Thank you for tuning in.

Your biggest cheerleader,

-- Susan Veldkamp

-- Position yourself so no one can ignore you (anymore)!

Let’s connect!

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Are you unknowingly taking on responsibilities that don’t belong to you? In this eye-opening episode, I explore the subtle yet powerful ways we burden ourselves with obligations, expectations, and emotional baggage that were never meant to be ours.

Here’s what you’ll uncover:

• The hidden patterns of over-responsibility - and how to spot them in your life.
• Why carrying what’s not yours is draining your energy and holding you back.
• Simple yet transformative strategies to let go, set boundaries, and reclaim your true power.

It’s time to stop sacrificing your well-being for others and start prioritizing what truly matters: your growth, your happiness, and your dreams.

Don’t let what’s not yours weigh you down anymore. Take back control, show up for yourself, and unleash the greatness you’re meant to share with the world.

Hit play now and start your journey to freedom and empowerment.

✨Loved this episode? Leave a review and share your insights! Your feedback helps me reach more women ready to step into their power.

Ready to take the next step?

Are you ready to break free from the patterns holding you back? Start by tuning in to this episode and embracing the insights you’ll gain. Small steps lead to big transformations.

Join My Free Mini-Training: Be the woman no one can ignore. Discover the 3 secrets to positioning yourself - without having to pretend to be someone else!

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Thank you for tuning in.

Your biggest cheerleader,

-- Susan Veldkamp

-- Position yourself so no one can ignore you (anymore)!

Let’s connect!

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Do you truly know who you are? Or are you living by expectations, roles, and voices that aren’t really yours? In this deeply reflective episode, I dive into the profound question: Who are you, really?

👉 Here’s what you’ll gain by tuning in:

• How to identify the decisions you make based on others’ expectations versus your authentic self.
• The power of small, conscious daily choices to shape a life that aligns with who you truly are.
• Why joy, energy, and alignment are your truest guides to uncovering your potential.
• A practical, step-by-step way to begin reconnecting with your true self today.

Through personal stories and transformative insights, I’ll share why this question—"Who am I?"—is not about finding a single answer but about learning to navigate life authentically, one decision at a time.

💡 This episode is for you if:

• You’ve ever felt stuck in roles, titles, or expectations.
• You’re searching for clarity, alignment, and meaning in your personal or professional life.
• You’re ready to make choices that truly feel like you.

🎧 Listen now and start your journey toward becoming authentically YOU.

👉 Ready to take action? Join my free mini-training and unlock the tools to position yourself for success: forfemaleleaders.com.

🔗 Share this episode with a friend or colleague who needs a little inspiration to claim the success they deserve!

Thank you for tuning in—I’m here, cheering you on every step of the way.

-- Susan Veldkamp

-- Position yourself so no one can ignore you (anymore)!

Let’s connect!

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- Website: Susan's Website

Are you chasing recognition but still feel like something’s missing? You're not alone. In this episode, I challenge the common belief that success hinges on validation from others. If you've ever thought, "If only they acknowledged my hard work, I’d feel fulfilled," then this episode is for you.

Here’s what you’ll discover:

✨ Why external recognition isn’t the key to lasting success—and what is.

✨ How to shift your mindset from "being noticed" to "owning your achievements."

✨ Practical strategies to position yourself for opportunities, without relying on others’ validation.

✨ The secret to aligning your career with YOUR goals—not someone else’s expectations.

By the end of this episode, you’ll learn to redefine success in a way that feels empowering, sustainable, and 100% yours.

💡 Key takeaway: True success starts with valuing yourself first. When you embrace your strengths and focus on what YOU want, recognition will follow naturally.

🎧 Don’t miss this transformative conversation. Your career deserves it.

👉 Ready to take action? Join my free mini-training and unlock the tools to position yourself for success: forfemaleleaders.com.

🔗 Share this episode with a friend or colleague who needs a little inspiration to claim the success they deserve!

-- Susan Veldkamp

-- Position yourself so no one can ignore you (anymore)!

Let’s connect!

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What’s the difference between control and leadership? Why embracing true leadership is the ultimate game-changer for your career, your personal growth, and your life. I share a powerful story from one of my coaching calls where a client discovered the freedom and empowerment that comes with stepping out of the "victim mindset" and into authentic leadership.

We’ll explore:

• Why "control" often feels heavy, restrictive, and unsustainable.
• How shifting to a leadership mindset opens doors you never imagined possible.
• The key question you need to ask yourself to step into your power.
• Why believing you’re in charge of every situation—even setbacks—is the secret to achieving more than you thought possible.

Whether you’re leading a team, looking to advance your career, or simply navigating challenging situations in your personal life, this episode will inspire you to rethink what being "in charge" truly means.

What You’ll Learn in This Episode:

1. The Victim vs. Leader Mindset: How to stop reacting to life and start leading it.
2. The Power of Awareness: Why self-awareness is the first step to gaining control over your choices.
3. Redefining Control: Why leadership is about influence, not micromanaging every detail.
4. Practical Leadership Tips: How to shift your energy and mindset to approach every situation with confidence and clarity.
5. Sustainable Success: How embracing leadership creates long-term growth, both personally and professionally.

Who Should Listen:

• Ambitious professionals ready to take ownership of their career path.
• Women striving to make their voice heard in leadership roles.
• Anyone feeling "stuck" and looking for a roadmap to empowerment.
• Those interested in unlocking their full potential through authentic leadership.

Join the Conversation:

Do you struggle with letting go of control? Or have you experienced the power of stepping into true leadership? Let me know your thoughts! Share this episode and tag me with your biggest takeaway.

👉 Ready for more?

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Leadership, control, self-discovery, empowerment, personal growth, coaching, inner critic, authentic self, program insights, overcoming victim mentality.

Thank you for tuning in—I’m here, cheering you on every step of the way.

-- Susan Veldkamp

-- Position yourself so no one can ignore you (anymore)!

What’s stopping you from reaching your goals? For many women, it’s not a lack of skills, experience, or opportunities - it’s a lack of confidence. In this episode, I uncover why confidence is non-negotiable for achieving your goals and how self-sabotage sneaks in to hold you back.

Here’s what you’ll learn in this empowering episode:

1️⃣ The Role of Confidence in Success

Why confidence isn’t just a “nice-to-have” but an essential ingredient for getting what you want—whether it’s a promotion, a career pivot, or leading your own business.

2️⃣ The Silent Power of Belief

How even a tiny glimmer of belief in yourself can spark monumental changes and why self-trust is the foundation of all achievement.

3️⃣ The Truth About Self-Sabotage

Real-life examples of how fear of judgment and self-doubt can quietly sabotage your progress—and what to do when you catch yourself in the act.

4️⃣ Actionable Steps to Build Confidence

Simple yet effective strategies to shift your mindset, embrace your strengths, and start showing up as the empowered leader you’re meant to be.

Key Takeaway:

Your confidence is your compass. Without it, you’re stuck in the same patterns. With it, you’re unstoppable.

🎧 Whether you’re navigating self-doubt, feeling stuck, or ready to embrace your full potential, this episode is your guide to stepping into your confidence and unlocking your success.

👉 Ready for more?

Join my free mini-training: Position Yourself for Success to uncover the tools, mindset shifts, and strategies you need to claim your space and achieve your goals. Click to register today.

💡 Share this episode!

If you know someone who needs to hear this, send it their way. Let’s empower more women to claim their confidence and change their lives.

Thank you for tuning in—I’m here, cheering you on every step of the way. 💪

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Self-sabotage, confidence, personal development, emotional awareness, coaching, self-discovery, empowerment, female leaders.

-- Susan Veldkamp

-- Position yourself so no one can ignore you (anymore)!

Navigating the workplace means interacting with all kinds of personalities - some more dominant than others. But how do you hold your own when faced with someone whose ego takes up all the space in the room?

In this empowering episode, I dive into how to identify and handle dominant personalities without losing your sense of self. Whether it’s a loud colleague, a micro-managing boss, or an overbearing client, you’ll learn tools to stay grounded, maintain your confidence, and ensure your voice is heard—even in the noisiest of rooms.

🔑 What You'll Learn in This Episode:

• The psychology behind dominant personalities and why ego plays a big role.
• How to navigate meetings with individuals who take up all the space.
• The power of compassion and how it can shift dynamics in your favor.
• Why creating an "energy bubble" is a game-changer in difficult conversations.
• Practical strategies to focus on what you want without being overshadowed.

✨ Listen to Discover:

• A real-life coaching story where dominance was transformed into opportunity.
• How soft strength can be more impactful than trying to match aggression.
• Simple mindset shifts that keep you grounded and in control.

💡 Who Should Listen?

If you’ve ever felt small or unheard in meetings, struggled to stand your ground with dominant personalities, or simply want to understand how to handle egos without losing your cool—this episode is for you.

🔗 Join the Conversation:

Feeling inspired? Share this episode with a friend or colleague who could benefit from learning how to stay in control when egos dominate the room. Don’t forget to subscribe and leave a review to help more women take their positions with confidence and ease.

🎧 Listen now to uncover how to hold your space and claim your success—no matter who’s in the room.

Join the Free mini-training: Position Yourself today!

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Ego, vulnerability, dominant personalities, communication, self-awareness, personal development, emotional intelligence, workplace dynamics, self-protection, interpersonal relationships.

-- Susan Veldkamp

-- Position yourself so no one can ignore you (anymore)!

Your expectations are more powerful than you think. In this episode, I dive into how the way you approach challenges, meetings, or even opportunities can directly impact the outcomes you achieve. Drawing from personal stories and practical insights, I explore the link between mindset, expectations, and success.

If you’ve ever felt stuck or wondered why some people seem to always get ahead, this episode will shift your perspective and give you tools to take control of your results.

What You’ll Learn in This Episode:

• Why your mindset and expectations can determine your success.
• The subtle ways your focus influences the outcomes in meetings, career moves, and personal goals.
• How to turn negative thought patterns into empowering beliefs.
• A practical approach to creating opportunities by shifting your expectations.

Key Takeaways:

1. Expectations drive outcomes: Learn how to align your thoughts with your goals for better results.
2. Awareness is the first step: Recognize when your expectations are working against you.
3. Practical tips: Discover actionable strategies to adjust your mindset and set yourself up for success.

Who Should Listen?

This episode is perfect for ambitious women, professionals, and anyone ready to claim their space, reframe their mindset, and take their career or personal life to the next level.

Join the Free mini-training: Position Yourself today!

Be the woman no one can ignore. Discover the 3 secrets to positioning yourself—without having to pretend to be someone else! Subscribe now.

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Expectations, law of attraction, personal growth, mindset, decision making, meeting dynamics, pursuing dreams, reality creation.

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I’d love to hear your thoughts on today’s episode. Share your experiences in the comments or on LinkedIn tagging @susanveldkamp.

-- Susan Veldkamp

-- Position yourself so no one can ignore you (anymore)!

Welcome to a powerful new episode of the podcast for female leaders! Today, I’m diving into what it really takes to harness your energy and align it with the vision you have for success.

Get ready for a transformational discussion that goes deep into how you can connect with the qualities of the leaders who inspire you—and channel their energy to elevate your own journey.

In This Episode, I’ll Show You:

✨ The Power of Inspiration. I’ll share how studying the mindset and actions of leaders you admire, like Oprah Winfrey, can shift your self-belief and bring clarity to your ambitions. These leaders often started from challenging places but found ways to rise—fueling my own inspiration to make an impact, and I hope it does the same for you.

✨ The “I Am” Practice. Learn a powerful exercise to reframe your identity by adopting the affirmations and mindset of your role models. This step-by-step technique shifts your energy and connects your vision with the confidence to pursue it.

✨ Aligning Energy with Strategy. I’ll explain why having the right plan isn’t enough without the right mindset. Energy alignment is a non-negotiable for creating sustainable success and is the key to long-term transformation.

✨ Shifting from Wanting to Being. When you align your energy with the qualities of the leaders who inspire you, you step into your highest potential. Discover how this shift from “I want” to “I am” can elevate every part of your career and life.

Key Takeaways:

• The first step to positioning yourself for success is internal: you must *feel* like the person you’re working to become.
• Practical exercises for connecting with your inner strength, inspired by leaders you admire.
• Why embodying your aspirations isn’t just “acting the part” but living it authentically.
• Tune in to this episode if you’re ready to unlock the next level in your career and life by aligning your energy with your greatest ambitions. Don’t forget to share this episode with a friend or colleague who needs that extra push toward becoming her best self.

Ready to step into your power? Hit play, and let’s align your energy for the success you deserve!

Join the Free mini-training: Position Yourself today!

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Identity, success, energy, inspiration, Oprah Winfrey, ambition, women empowerment, self-belief, dreams, strategy.

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-- Susan Veldkamp

-- Position yourself so no one can ignore you (anymore)!

Do you ever feel like you’ve said what you want, only to realize later no one really heard? In this episode, I dig into one of the biggest barriers to success - vagueness. Being unclear might feel safer, but it’s often why you’re stuck where you are.

Here’s what I tackle:

• The power of saying it straight: When your words are foggy, so is your path. Clear words lead to clear actions.
• Why “dropping hints” doesn’t work: If you think you’ve said enough by skirting around your goals, you haven’t. Clarity is courage, and courage gets noticed.
• - How to ask for what you need: Simple strategies for cutting through the fluff and saying what matters most.
• - Real-life missteps in clarity: We’ll dive into those times when you thought you were clear but missed the mark—and what to do instead.

If you’re tired of feeling ignored, this episode is your guide to stepping up. Let’s cut the vagueness and help you own your space.

👉 Know someone who could use this? Share the episode and help them learn how to go clear, aim high, and get results.

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Clarity, communication, leadership, ambition, comfort zone, self-advocacy, personal growth, empowerment, women in leadership, professional development.

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I’d love to hear your thoughts on today’s episode. Share your experiences in the comments or on LinkedIn tagging @susanveldkamp.

-- Susan Veldkamp

-- Position yourself so no one can ignore you (anymore)!

In today’s episode, we dive into a powerful—and often overlooked—truth: you’re likely undervaluing your strengths simply because they feel so natural to you. Why is it that the qualities, talents, and skills you bring to the table seem “obvious” to you, while others see them as truly impressive?

Join us as we explore why recognizing and owning your strengths is essential, and how this awareness can be the key to advancing your career and creating the impact you’re striving for.

What You’ll Learn:

• Why We Undervalue Our Own Strengths: Understand why the talents that come easily to you often feel “normal” and why this mindset can lead to missed opportunities.
• How to Embrace Your Strengths (Without Feeling Arrogant): Learn practical ways to accept compliments and take stock of your unique abilities without feeling boastful or self-centered.
• Turning Self-Awareness Into Impact: Once you’re aware of your strengths, we’ll guide you on using them to position yourself effectively, showcase your achievements, and make sure no one overlooks your value again.

Key Takeaways:

• Self-Awareness Is Step One: Knowing your strengths isn’t about arrogance—it’s about having the clarity to recognize what makes you unique so that you can confidently share it.
• Trust the Outside Perspective: Sometimes, the strengths you dismiss as “normal” are the very qualities that set you apart in the eyes of others. Lean into feedback and take note of recurring compliments or acknowledgments.
• Position Yourself for Success: Effective positioning starts from within. When you own your strengths, you can more effectively communicate your impact and potential to those around you.

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Reflect on a time someone complimented a skill you hadn’t considered “special.” How did that shift your perspective? Drop your thoughts in the comments or connect with us on social media.

Listen now to reclaim your confidence and start showcasing the strengths that others already see in you.

Don't forget to share this episode with anyone who needs a reminder of just how valuable their unique talents really are.

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Ready to step up in your career but feeling held back by fear? This episode is for you. Today, we dive into the real reasons fear can feel paralyzing, especially when it comes to claiming the success and visibility you deserve. Together, we'll uncover practical strategies to move through fear with purpose and confidence.

In This Episode, You'll Discover:

• Why Fear Shows Up: Understand the underlying causes of fear when stepping into new roles or pursuing bigger opportunities, and learn how to identify if fear is holding you back.
• The Cost of Playing Small: What happens when we stay in our comfort zones—and why that’s more dangerous for your career than you might think.
• Actionable Steps to Reframe Fear: Learn how to turn fear from a barrier into a stepping stone, empowering you to take bold action toward your goals.
• The Power of Support Networks: Discover why surrounding yourself with like-minded allies can make all the difference—and how to find those cheerleaders who will lift you up.

Key Takeaway:

Claiming your career is about more than just setting goals. It’s about finding the courage to pursue them, even when fear tries to keep you back. Let this episode inspire you to take that next step, no matter how big or small, and watch how it transforms your career.

Tune in now to build the courage you need to position yourself for true success. And if you know someone else who’s ready to level up but might be held back by fear, share this episode with them—it might just be the push they need!

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Women empowerment, overcoming fear, confidence building, personal growth, leadership, self-sabotage, achieving goals, support systems, identity shift, motivation.

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Do you find yourself defending your ideas, actions, or worth? You’re not alone - but it’s costing you more than you think.

In this episode, I uncover the critical difference between defending yourself and standing up for yourself. Drawing from a real-life example of a visionary leader struggling to balance her big-picture ideas with a micromanaging boss, we break down how defending yourself keeps you stuck and drains your energy.

Here’s what you’ll learn:

• Why defending yourself feels natural but backfires every time.
• The hidden triggers fueling your need to prove yourself.
• How to shift from defending to standing up for yourself - gracefully and powerfully.
• A simple strategy to focus on what you want and leave the rest behind.

This is more than a mindset shift. It’s a new way of owning your power and aligning your actions with your goals. Stop wasting your energy on defense and start stepping into your authority.

Listen now and discover how to transform draining conversations into opportunities for real growth and influence.

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Are you ready to break free from the patterns holding you back? Start by tuning in to this episode and embracing the insights you’ll gain. Small steps lead to big transformations.

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-- Susan Veldkamp

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Are you feeling stuck in your career, watching others move forward while you stay in place? In this episode, we tackle the frustrating experience of feeling backed into a corner—and how to break free and reclaim your power. If you've ever felt like opportunities pass you by despite your hard work, this one’s for you.

In this episode, you find:

• The Trap of Hard Work Without Visibility. How being great at what you do isn’t always enough. Why being seen, heard, and remembered is essential in your career.
• Recognizing the “Cornered” Feeling. How to identify when you’re feeling cornered and why it’s a warning sign to take action rather than waiting for others to notice your contributions.
• The Mindset Shift for Career Control. The importance of seeing yourself as a leader—even before you’re formally in a leadership position. It’s about stepping into your power and showing up differently.
• Why Positioning Isn’t Just for “Insecure” People. Debunking the myth that self-positioning is about insecurity; it’s about confidence, self-worth, and setting yourself up for success.
• Steps to Take Back Your Career Space. Practical strategies for making your presence felt in meetings, with peers, and with higher-ups. It’s not about loudness; it’s about clarity and purpose.

This episode is all about turning frustration into empowerment. It’s about making the conscious choice to position yourself so that your career reflects your true potential.

👉 Listen in if you’re ready to reclaim your space and shift from feeling overlooked to feeling in control.

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Career empowerment, feeling stuck, positioning, leadership, personal growth, women empowerment, chess analogy, decision making, self-advocacy, professional development.

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In today’s episode I dive into a topic that’s both empowering and eye-opening: the misconception that positioning yourself for success is only for the insecure. If you’ve ever thought that confidently taking the spotlight might be seen as “trying too hard” or even “self-centered,” this episode is here to debunk those myths.

Highlights:

• Why Positioning Yourself Shows Strength, Not Weakness. We’re flipping the narrative that positioning is for women who feel unsure or inadequate. Positioning is actually a power move that demands confidence, ambition, and clarity on who you are and what you offer.

• The True Courage Behind Stepping Up. It takes serious self-assurance to claim space and let others see your skills, talents, and vision. We’ll talk about why confident women aren’t afraid to be seen—and why stepping up is often the very thing that allows you to grow into your fullest potential.
• Understanding Your Impact. When you position yourself effectively, you’re not just building your career or achieving personal goals; you’re also showing others what’s possible. Confident women inspire others to take up space, too, and that ripple effect is transformative.
• The Power of Self-Love in Positioning. Before positioning yourself for others, you have to feel grounded in your own value. We’ll talk about the importance of self-acknowledgment and how genuine self-love fuels your ability to confidently share your accomplishments.

If you’re ready to embrace the spotlight with a renewed perspective, this episode is for you. Remember, positioning yourself isn’t about showing off—it’s about showing up as the empowered, confident woman you are.

Ready to make your presence felt? Tune in to learn why positioning is one of the most powerful moves you can make in your career and life.

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Women empowerment, self-esteem, positioning, continuous learning, leadership, personal growth, courage, visibility, self-confidence, female leaders.

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Are you feeling overwhelmed with all the ideas, opportunities, and directions available to you? In this episode, I’m diving into one of the most common (and paralyzing) challenges for ambitious women: having so many options that it’s hard to know where to start.

Here’s the truth: being multi-passionate or having a wealth of ideas is a gift, but it can also keep you from taking that first crucial step toward your goals. Today, I share my own journey from juggling too many projects to finally finding focus, making meaningful choices, and seeing real progress.

Highlights:

• Discovering Focus: Why “doing it all” can actually keep you from growing and how narrowing down to one or two priorities can turbocharge your progress.

• Making Strategic Choices: Tips on aligning your next step with what matters most—whether that’s financial security, creative passion, or personal growth.

• Finding Energy and Joy: How choosing a path that excites you (and maybe makes you a bit nervous) can keep you motivated and moving forward.

• The Power of Small Wins: Why even the smallest steps can create big momentum toward your ultimate vision.

Whether you’re trying to build a new career, grow your business, or simply make more intentional choices in life, this episode will help you make confident decisions that drive you toward success. If you’re ready to say goodbye to choice paralysis and hello to focused action, tune in now!

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Choices, opportunities, entrepreneurship, focus, joy, personal development, career change, multiple passions, action, commitment.

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In this episode, I'm tackling the big question that holds so many people back from positioning themselves effectively: How? The truth is, positioning yourself for success doesn’t start with figuring out the “how.” It starts with making a decision to be seen, to be heard, and to claim your space.

Once you decide to position yourself as someone who deserves recognition and impact, the steps to get there become clearer and easier to execute. I’ll walk you through why focusing too much on the “how” can paralyze you, and how shifting your energy and making a powerful decision can lead to authentic and lasting success.

In this episode, you’ll discover:

• Why overthinking the “how” keeps you stuck and how to break free
• The importance of deciding to position yourself authentically and boldly
• How a shift in energy and self-perception makes you instantly more visible
• How one step at a time can lead to huge growth when your intentions are clear

If you’re feeling unsure about how to position yourself or afraid to take up space, this episode will empower you to stop overthinking and start taking action.

Tune in to learn how making a single, powerful decision can set you on the path to success! And if you know someone who’s been holding back or feeling invisible, share this episode with them. Let’s help each other step up and shine!

**Join the Conversation**

I’d love to hear your thoughts on today’s episode. Share your experiences in the comments or on LinkedIn tagging @susanveldkamp.

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Positioning, self-empowerment, energy shift, strategy, personal development, visibility, women leaders, coaching, transformation, decision-making.

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-- Position yourself so no one can ignore you (anymore)!

In this episode, I’m confronting a common obstacle to success: the hesitation to position yourself and truly own your value. Positioning yourself isn’t just about self-promotion; it’s about embodying your vision, your values, and your purpose. By positioning yourself authentically, you show others not just what you do, but who you are—and the impact you’re here to make.

I’ll walk you through why embracing your value is essential, and how to connect your positioning with your deeper vision, so your work becomes a natural extension of who you are. If you’ve been avoiding self-promotion because it feels uncomfortable or “too much about you,” this episode will change the way you think about it.

In this episode, you’ll discover:

• Why positioning yourself is essential for your vision to be seen and felt
• How to embrace self-promotion as a reflection of your authentic goals and values
• Practical steps for positioning yourself without feeling like you’re selling
• How to communicate your value clearly and confidently so people remember you
• Why your unique qualities are the foundation of your impact

If you’ve ever felt hesitant about promoting yourself, this episode will empower you to step out of the shadows, stop hiding your value, and start positioning yourself as the embodiment of your vision.

Listen in to learn how to make self-promotion feel natural and impactful!

And if you know someone who’s been downplaying their value, share this episode with them. Let’s inspire more women to embrace their full potential and position themselves for success!

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Personal branding, self-positioning, empowerment, ambition, authenticity, impact, self-care, vision, success, personal growth.

-- Susan Veldkamp

-- Position yourself so no one can ignore you (anymore)!

In this episode, we’re breaking down one of the biggest misconceptions about positioning yourself for success: the belief that it requires too much time and energy.

If you think positioning yourself is just another task on your already long to-do list, this episode is for you. Here’s the truth - positioning yourself strategically can actually help you *work less* and *achieve more*.

I’ll share why positioning yourself doesn’t have to be exhausting, and how focusing on the right things can bring you better opportunities without burning out. You’ll learn how to get recognized for your skills and ambitions without constantly overworking to prove your worth.

In this episode, you’ll discover:

• Why positioning yourself isn’t about working harder, but working smarter
• How staying invisible keeps you stuck in the cycle of overworking
• The simple shifts that can help you achieve more with less effort
• How to claim your space and share your achievements in a way that feels authentic
• Practical tips to position yourself for success without adding to your workload

If you’ve been feeling overwhelmed by the idea of self-promotion or positioning yourself for that next step in your career, this episode will show you how it can be done with less effort - and lead to even greater results.

**Listen now to find out how to work less and achieve more by positioning yourself for success!**

And if you know someone who’s been working too hard without getting the recognition they deserve, share this episode with them! Let’s empower more women to achieve more without burning out.

**Join the Conversation**

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Positioning, self-sabotage, career advancement, personal growth, female leaders development, empowerment.

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In this episode, we’re diving into a key leadership skill that can be both empowering and challenging: being direct.

Known as part of the Dutch communication style, being straightforward isn’t about being rude or harsh - it’s about being clear, setting boundaries, and making sure your message is understood. This approach can transform your career by helping you communicate with confidence and authority.

I’ll share real-life examples from my own journey as a Dutch woman navigating corporate environments, and how adopting a direct communication style can help you lead more effectively, set boundaries, and ultimately achieve the success you’re striving for.

In this episode, you’ll learn:

• Why direct communication is essential for positioning yourself successfully
• How being clear and straightforward can eliminate confusion and strengthen relationships
• Practical strategies for being direct without coming across as too harsh
• How setting boundaries and saying ‘no’ can actually help you gain respect
• The power of giving others clear choices to foster better decision-making

If you’ve ever struggled with feeling like you need to explain yourself too much or avoid confrontation, this episode will show you how the Dutch approach of being direct can empower you to position yourself for success - whether you're leading a team, negotiating, or managing up.

**Tune in now to discover how being straightforward can be your secret weapon in leadership!**

If this episode resonated with you, please share it with a friend or colleague who could benefit from learning how to communicate with clarity and confidence. Let’s empower more women to own their voice!

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Female leaders, straightforward communication, workplace dynamics, setting boundaries, leadership skills, clarity in communication, confrontation, strategic thinking, personal development, empowerment.

-- Susan Veldkamp

-- Position yourself so no one can ignore you (anymore)!