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#77 Why Agreements Matter More Than Love30 Jun 202600:23:35

How clear are you about the direction your relationship is going?

How much time have you and your partner spent creating a shared vision for your life together?

Do you have the tools and frameworks you need to navigate conflict, emotional charge, and old wounds when they arise in your connection?

Most people spend more time planning a holiday than they do planning their relationship.

Yet your intimate relationship will shape so much of your life. It can become one of the most beautiful, challenging, healing, and confronting parts of your human experience.

But love alone is not enough.

Without the right structure, language, and shared agreements, even well-intentioned couples can find themselves stuck in unhealthy patterns, repeating unresolved childhood wounds, and living past each other instead of growing together.

In this episode, Matt and Gareth explore what it really takes to build a healthy, conscious, and lasting relationship.

They get into the importance of understanding the wounds you bring into love, how to create a shared relationship vision, and why a simple weekly rhythm can help you and your partner stay connected, honest, and aligned.

 If you want your relationship to become a place of deeper intimacy, truth, repair, and shared growth, this conversation will give you a powerful place to begin.

 

Join Built To Last: Online Relationship Workshop

🔥 Are you and your partner living past each other?

🔥 Has the magic disappeared?

It is usually not a lack of love.

It is a lack of structure.

Built To Last is a two-day live workshop where you and your partner will build your Relationship Blueprint.

Together, you will create a shared vision, clear agreements, and a practical framework for navigating the hard parts with more honesty, care, and connection.

The workshop takes place on 1 and 2 August.

Find out more and secure your spot here:

FatherssonsbrothersBuilt to Last 

#76 Relationship Pillar 4: Keeping The Fire Alive in Your Relationship23 Jun 202600:22:34

In this episode, Gareth and Matt unpack what really happens when sexual connection starts to fade in long-term relationships and why it is rarely about attraction. They explore how desire gets lost through pressure, disconnection, and unspoken expectations, and what it actually takes to rebuild it from within.

What you'll learn:

  • “Dead bedroom” dynamics are rarely about lost attraction, but about pressure, distance, and outsourced sexual responsibility. 
  • Desire does not just fade after big life shifts like having a child. It gets disrupted by identity change, hormones, and role overload.
  • Self-pleasure is often not self-connection. When it is driven by porn or fantasy, it becomes outsourcing rather than ownership of desire.
  • Healthy sexual polarity does not come from one partner “creating” desire. It comes from two self-activated people.
  • Shame around sexuality does not disappear. It goes underground and shows up as pressure, silence, and emotional withdrawal.
  • Rebuilding sexual connection starts with reclaiming your own body and building a conscious self-pleasuring practice that is not dependent on porn, fantasy, or partner validation.

If this hits close to home, the Magnetic Masculine Masterclass unpacks the six core mother wounds that shape how you give and receive love, including how you experience intimacy and desire in relationships. It's free, about an hour, and gives you a clear starting point for deeper work.

Take the Magnetic Masculine Masterclass by clicking here: https://digital.fatherssonsbrothers.com/Whatsapp 

 

#67 The Hidden Cost of People-Pleasing in Your Relationship with Dr Robert Glover24 Nov 202501:17:58

Why do so many men feel like they’re doing everything right, but still feel lonely, unseen, and resentful?

In this raw and deeply practical episode, I’m joined once again by No More Mr. Nice Guy author Dr. Robert Glover. In this no-holds-barred conversation, we unpack the real reasons men struggle to ask for what they want, receive love, and build lasting relationships.

We explore the covert contracts that keep men stuck in silent resentment. We also unpack the hidden shame around masculine needs and the painful effects of emotional isolation. But this episode isn’t just about naming the problem. It’s a masterclass for reclaiming your power, building real brotherhood, and creating the kind of life and relationship you actually want.

In this episode, you’ll learn:

  • Why you might believe (consciously or unconsciously) that having needs makes you weak or bad.
  • What a “covert contract” is and how it's silently sabotaging your relationships.
  • Why most men struggle to receive, and how that blocks intimacy, connection and wealth.
  • How to identify the “junk food” behaviours and relationships that are draining your energy.
  • A powerful 3-step life audit to help you reconnect with your purpose, community, and emotional needs.
  • The evolutionary reason men crave brotherhood and why isolation is destroying your health.
  • Why men's groups are the antidote to digital distraction, porn addiction, and emotional loneliness.

Episode Resources

Stop People-Pleasing.

Start Leading.

15 Questions to Take Back Control of Your Life - From the Boardroom to the Bedroom.
Get the free PDF here: https://www.fatherssonsbrothers.com/uy-playbook.

Integration Nation Men’s Community

No More Mr. Nice Guy — Dr. Glover’s book

This episode is all about reclaiming your needs! Please be sure to tag me @garethpickering on Instagram and share this episode with your community to spread the word if you or someone you know has benefited from this content! I love to hear about all your experiences. Also, be sure to leave a review on iTunes in order to receive a free meditation to reclaim your power. Just screenshot it before submitting it and email it to my team at studio@fatherssonsbrothers.com, and I will see you in the next episode.

If you enjoyed this episode, be sure to watch our first interview with Dr Glover, which has received over 5,880 views - Episode 39 "From People Pleaser to Unapologetically You".

THE KING'S CIRCLE: A DOJO FOR INTEGRATED LEADERS

An integrated leader recognises that we all have inner work to do. So, these new-paradigm leaders seek out people, processes, and places that support them in recognising and integrating their blind spots.

Each month, Fathers Sons Brothers host the King's Circle, a two-hour transformational leadership training experience. It’s a men-only space where visionaries gather to learn tools and frameworks that make them better communicators and more integrated leaders.

When you regularly invest in this type of training:

- You gain access to a space where men from all over the world support and encourage you to show up at your best.

- You get clear on what you came here to do. You reconnect with your mission.

- You recognise where you’re leaking energy, and you reclaim that power to allocate towards serving your mission.

- You develop more trust in yourself, and this improvement is reflected in all your relationships.

- You feel inspired and excited about our brave new world, as you connect deeper with the other Integrated Leaders through the King’s Circle.

All growth after puberty is optional and the men who attend our circle have a growth mindset like you. We support each other in becoming the new paradigm of courageous leaders we've been waiting for.

Secure your free seat in The King’s Circle here: https://www.fatherssonsbrothers.com/kings-circle

ABOUT OUR GUEST

Dr. Robert Glover is an author, a marriage & family therapist, a coach, an educator, a sought-after public speaker, and a seminal figure in men’s self-improvement.

His groundbreaking book, "No More Mr. Nice Guy", has changed the lives of countless men around the world. His other work – including his online courses and his books Dating Essentials for Men and Dating Essentials for Men: FAQ have been just as impactful.

Connect with him on:

Website, Instagram, Facebook

ABOUT YOUR HOST

Gareth Pickering is an artist and thought leader. His inspiration is to create spaces for men to have open and honest conversations that shift their mindset and help them live life to the fullest. He’s a relational growth advocate who guides others to level up with their lives through “relationships”. Relationships are a rocket ship for personal development. Gareth provides the tools and maps to fly and land your rocket safely.

Connect with him on:

Website, Instagram, Linkedin, X, Facebook

#66 What the F*ck is Men's Work?19 Aug 202500:15:42
"Why would I want to join a men's group?"

This is a common response we hear from men when we introduce them to men's work. A lot of men think that a men's group is either a religious gathering or a pity party.

It's neither.

It's the medicine that unlocks parts of yourself that you have been battling with on your own.

The more discomfort you feel about being authentic in a group of men, the more magic awaits you on the other side. So if you're ready to unlock more power in your life and learn about this ancient technology and how it can support your life and leadership, this episode is for you.

If you received value from this episode, please share it with your networks and spread the word.

Also, be sure to leave a review here on the app you're consuming this episode on - it takes you less than a minute, and it really supports more people to find our show.

If you enjoyed this episode, be sure to watch Episode 41 "You Can't Thrive Without a Tribe".

 

JOIN OUR WHATSAPP GROUP

A free space to connect with like-minded men, share wins and challenges, and stay plugged into conversations, resources, and events that keep you moving forward between our live gatherings.

Join here: https://www.fatherssonsbrothers.com/whatsapp

 

BECOME A MEMBER OF THE FSB TRIBE

A committed brotherhood for men ready to go beyond conversation and into transformation. Inside the Tribe, you’ll join regular men’s circles, get practical tools to strengthen relationships and leadership, and surround yourself with brothers who challenge and support you at the highest level. 

This is where you sharpen your edge, stop carrying challenges alone, and live with more clarity, confidence, and purpose.

Join here: https://www.fatherssonsbrothers.com/gettribe

 

THE KING'S CIRCLE: A DOJO FOR INTEGRATED LEADERS

An integrated leader recognises that we all have inner work to do. So, these new-paradigm leaders seek out people, processes, and places that support them in recognising and integrating their blind spots.

Each month, Fathers Sons Brothers hosts the King's Circle, a two-hour transformational leadership training experience. It’s a men-only space where visionaries gather to learn tools and frameworks that make them better communicators and more integrated leaders.

When you regularly invest in this type of training: 

  • You gain access to a space where men from all over the world support and encourage you to show up at your best.
  • You get clear on what you came here to do. You reconnect with your mission.
  • You recognise where you’re leaking energy, and you reclaim that power to allocate towards serving your mission.
  • You develop more trust in yourself, and this improvement is reflected in all your relationships. 
  • You feel inspired and excited about our brave new world, as you connect deeper with the other Integrated Leaders through the King’s Circle.

All growth after puberty is optional and the men who attend our circle have a growth mindset like you. 

We support each other in becoming the new paradigm of courageous leaders we've been waiting for.

Secure your free seat in The King’s Circle here: https://www.fatherssonsbrothers.com/kings-circle.

ABOUT YOUR HOST

Gareth Pickering is a men’s coach and founder of Fathers Sons Brothers, a global community helping men reconnect to their inner strength, live with more purpose, and build better relationships—with themselves and those they love. His work focuses on helping men who’ve been successful in the outside world but feel disconnected or stuck on the inside. Through group circles, retreats, and practical tools, Gareth supports men to lead with courage, integrity, and authenticity. He believes that when a man changes, everyone around him benefits.

Connect with him on: 

Website, Instagram, Linkedin, Facebook

 

#65 Porn: The Billion Dollar Business That Commercialises Your Life Force with Tyson Adams07 Jul 202501:14:33

What if your sexual energy could fuel your confidence, deepen intimacy, and transform your entire life?

In this powerful conversation, I sit down with Tyson Adams, a men's coach and sex educator specialising in helping men outgrow porn and master semen retention. We explore how unconscious patterns around sex and pornography drain your energy, dull your purpose, and keep you disconnected from your body and your relationships. Together, we offer a roadmap to reclaim your desire as a force for creation rather than compulsion. Listen now and start your journey toward a more powerful relationship with your sexuality.

In this episode, you’ll learn:

✔️ How to tell the difference between healthy self-pleasure and addiction

✔️ Why porn companies are commercialising your life force, and how to step off the hamster wheel

✔️ Simple practices to reconnect with your body and activate real intimacy

✔️ The truth about semen retention and how it can transform your focus, energy, and relationships

✔️ How your relationship with your own body shapes every other area of your life

✔️ Ways to bring intention and depth to your erotic experiences, whether alone or with a partner

This episode is all about reclaiming your sexual power! Please be sure to tag me @garethpickering on Instagram and share this episode with your community to spread the word if you or someone you know has benefited from this content! I love to hear about all your experiences. Also, be sure to leave a review on iTunes in order to receive a free meditation to reclaim your power. Just screenshot it before submitting it and email it to my team at studio@fatherssonsbrothers.com, and I will see you in the next episode.

If you enjoyed this episode, make sure you also check out Episode 53 "Expanding Consciousness in the Bedroom and the Boardroom with Tantric expert Raffaello Manacorda".

RESOURCE LINKS

Recommended Reading: Your Brain on Porn by Gary Wilson

Kings and Queens - Free Relationship Training for Men + Women

THE KING'S CIRCLE: A DOJO FOR INTEGRATED LEADERS

“We’re magnificent, and we’re broken” - Tom Hirons.

An integrated leader recognises that we all have inner work to do. So, these new-paradigm leaders seek out people, processes, and places that support them in recognising and integrating their blindspots.

Each month, Fathers Sons Brothers host the King's Circle, a two-hour transformational leadership training experience. It’s a men-only space where visionaries gather to learn tools and frameworks that make them better communicators and more integrated leaders.

When you regularly invest in this type of training:

- You gain access to a space where men from all over the world support and encourage you to show up at your best.

- You get clear on what you came here to do.

- You reconnect with your mission.

 You recognise where you’re leaking energy, and you reclaim that power to allocate towards serving your mission.

- You develop more trust in yourself, and this improvement is reflected in all your relationships.

- You feel inspired and excited about our brave new world, as you connect deeper with the other Integrated Leaders through the King’s Circle.

All growth after puberty is optional and the men who attend our circle have a growth mindset like you.

We support each other in becoming the new paradigm of courageous leaders we've been waiting for.

Secure your free seat in The King’s Circle here: https://www.fatherssonsbrothers.com/kings-circle.

ABOUT OUR GUEST

Tyson Adams is a trauma-informed IFS men’s coach, somatic bodyworker and psychedelic facilitator. After spending 20 years addicted to pornography, he outgrew it seven years ago and has found his passion and purpose in helping other men master their lifeforce energy. He also co-facilitates men’s work leadership intensives and works with couples experiencing intimacy challenges. When he’s not working, you’ll catch him on a rock wall or riding a slackline in sunny San Diego.

Connect with him on:

Website, Instagram, Facebook

ABOUT YOUR HOST

Gareth Pickering is an artist and thought leader. His inspiration is to create spaces for men to have open and honest conversations that shift their mindset and live life to the fullest. He’s a human connection specialist who guides others to level up with their lives through “relationships”. Relationships are a rocket ship for personal development. Gareth provides the tools and maps to fly and land your rocket safely.

Connect with him on:

Website, Instagram, Linkedin, X, Facebook

#64 There's No Such things as personal growth - A conversation with Gareth Pickering and Willow Green26 Jun 202501:14:49
#63 The Quantum Path to Freedom With Christopher Armstrong14 May 202501:24:07

This podcast is a space for having courageous conversations. We aim to open the places most are too scared to tread. 

This episode will touch on some of your most deep-seated beliefs and make you question everything. 

Do you really have to pay taxes and listen to people in uniform? Are you brave enough to dig deep to the bottom of your money beliefs? 

What if everything you believe about yourself… isn’t even yours?

In this mind-expanding conversation, Christopher Armstrong joins me to dismantle the invisible programming that runs your life - beliefs inherited through culture, conditioning, and even your DNA. We explore how to reclaim sovereignty, reprogram your mind, and create your life from a place of deep inner truth.

In this episode, we explore:

  • What it really means to “reclaim your power” in a world built on illusion
  • The hidden gift of being neurodivergent (and how society labels it all wrong)
  • How emotions, embodiment, and nervous system awareness help you find your truth
  • How your parents and your birth certificate contracted you into a contractual business deal with your government - and how to get out of it!
  • Why the “quantum leap” isn't instant but compounded through daily action
  • How to build community as a key to breaking free from conditioning
  • A behind-the-scenes look at Christopher’s Rise & Reset program

This episode is all about personal sovereignty. Please be sure to tag me @garethpickering on Instagram and share this episode with your community to spread the word if you or someone you know has benefited from this content! I love to hear about all your experiences. Also, be sure to leave a review on iTunes in order to receive a free meditation to reclaim your power. Just screenshot it before submitting it and email it to my team at studio@fatherssonsbrothers.com, and I will see you in the next episode.

If you enjoyed this episode, make sure you also check out Episode 56 "Love, Life & Leadership - Lessons for Success with Toni Versic".

🔗 Resources & Links:

THE KING'S CIRCLE: A DOJO FOR INTEGRATED LEADERS

“We’re magnificent, and we’re broken” - Tom Hirons.

An integrated leader recognises that we all have inner work to do. So, these new-paradigm leaders seek out people, processes, and places that support them in recognising and integrating their blindspots.

Each month, Fathers Sons Brothers host the King's Circle, a two-hour transformational leadership training experience. It’s a men-only space where visionaries gather to learn tools and frameworks that make them better communicators and more integrated leaders.

When you regularly invest in this type of training: 

  • You gain access to a space where men from all over the world support and encourage you to show up at your best.
  • You get clear on what you came here to do. You reconnect with your mission.
  • You recognise where you’re leaking energy, and you reclaim that power to allocate towards serving your mission.
  • You develop more trust in yourself, and this improvement is reflected in all your relationships. 
  • You feel inspired and excited about our brave new world, as you connect deeper with the other Integrated Leaders through the King’s Circle.

All growth after puberty is optional and the men who attend our circle have a growth mindset like you. 

We support each other in becoming the new paradigm of courageous leaders we've been waiting for.

Secure your free seat in The King’s Circle here: https://www.fatherssonsbrothers.com/kings-circle.

ABOUT OUR GUEST

Christopher Armstrong is a transformational guide and Inner Architect who helps neurodivergent misfits and visionaries break free from overwhelm, confusion, and burnout.

Through a unique blend of nervous system healing, subconscious reprogramming, and soul alignment, he empowers high-performing individuals to reclaim their purpose and step into the grounded, powerful leaders they were born to be. His work supports those who have never fit the mold in rising beyond survival and creating lives rooted in clarity, authenticity, and deep inner freedom.

Connect with him on:

Website, Instagram, Facebook,Youtube

ABOUT YOUR HOST

Gareth Pickering is an artist and thought leader. His inspiration is to create spaces for men to have open and honest conversations that shift their mindset and live life to the fullest. He’s a human connection specialist who guides others to level up with their lives through “relationships”. Relationships are a rocket ship for personal development. Gareth provides the tools and maps to fly and land your rocket safely.

Connect with him on: 

Website, Instagram, Linkedin, X, Facebook

#62 How Boundaries Build Better Relationships28 Apr 202500:24:03

Episode Summary: If you feel like you're giving everything to your relationship but still ending up stressed, resentful, or unappreciated, this episode is for you.

Gareth and Matt unpack the real reason why things might feel off and explore how one simple shift—setting clear boundaries—can radically improve how you show up in love, parenting, and partnership. This powerful conversation emerges from the lessons and breakthroughs inside the Legendary Lover Method, their signature relationship and intimacy program for men.

💡 What You’ll Learn:

  1. Why knowing and communicating your needs isn’t enough—and what’s missing. The 3-step framework for setting boundaries that create clarity and connection.
  2. How to avoid hidden resentment and miscommunication by speaking your "why." Why setting boundaries is actually an act of love and leadership.
  3. The difference between expressing a need and protecting it.
  4. How masculine clarity creates safety in your relationship.

🧠 Quote of the Episode:
“You can’t be the husband or father you want to be unless you first prioritise the relationship you have with yourself.” — Gareth Pickering

🎁 Free Training: Join our upcoming Relationship Reflections part of the Kings and Queens series – A guided process to mine gold from past relationships, close old energetic loops, and prepare to love with clarity. Get the details on this page: https://www.fatherssonsbrothers.com/kings-and-queens.

If you enjoyed this episode, be sure to catch Episode 59 "Stop Stepping on Relationship Landmines" with Gareth Pickering.

About your hosts: Gareth Pickering is an artist and thought leader. His inspiration is to create spaces for men to have open and honest conversations that shift their mindset and live life to the fullest. He’s a human connection specialist who guides others to level up with their lives through “relationships”. Relationships are a rocket ship for personal development. Gareth provides the tools and maps to fly and land your rocket safely.  

Connect with him on:  

Website, Instagram, Linkedin, X, Facebook

Matt Dahse is a father and conscious creator, designing pathways for men to follow to unlock their potential and step into their power.

#61 The Power of Embracing Chaos with Lewis Huckstep23 Mar 202501:24:56

What if the chaos you're avoiding is the key to your next breakthrough?

In this episode, I sit down with Lewis Huckstep for a raw and insightful conversation about the deep inner work required to lead powerfully and love deeply. We explore the intersection of leadership and relationships, revealing how emotional triggers, unresolved trauma, and life’s inevitable chaos are actually opportunities to build greater capacity and resilience.

Lewis shares hard-won insights on the masculine and feminine dynamic, how to navigate emotional storms without losing your center, and why true transformation only happens when you’re willing to go all in.

If you’ve ever struggled to let go of control, feared emotional challenges, or hesitated to claim your true value, this is a masterclass in building emotional strength and stepping into transformative leadership. Lewis and I explore the deeper layers of personal growth, showing that true change isn’t just about mindset - it’s about learning to trust yourself in the face of uncertainty and becoming the kind of leader who transforms not just your own life, but the lives of those you love.

In this episode, you'll Learn:

  • Why transformation doesn’t happen until you commit financially and how investing in yourself shifts your results.
  • The real reason you’re struggling with sales or asking for what you’re worth.
  • How the feminine tests the masculine, and why your ability to hold space determines the strength of your leadership.
  • How to sit with emotional chaos without losing your center.
  • The balance between inner work and outward action, and why you need both to create success.
  • What to expect when stepping into fatherhood and why it challenges your emotional strength like nothing else. 

This episode is all about inner strength! Please be sure to tag me @garethpickering on Instagram and share this episode with your community to spread the word if you or someone you know has benefited from this content! I love to hear about all your experiences. Also, be sure to leave a review on iTunes in order to receive a free meditation to reclaim your power. Just screenshot it before submitting it and email it to my team at studio@fatherssonsbrothers.com, and I will see you in the next episode.

If you enjoyed this episode, make sure you also check out Episode 60 "From Stuck to Unstoppable with Todd Jason"

RESOURCE LINKS

"The Inspired Life Method" by Lewis Huckstep

Join "Conscious Community" with Lewis Huckstep

YOUR MESSAGE IS YOUR MAGIC

Struggling to connect with your audience and convert leads? Message Magic will help you craft a clear, powerful brand message that attracts your ideal clients and drives sales. This proven system guides you step-by-step to define your core message, sharpen your positioning, and create a brand that stands out.

If your business feels stuck or your message isn’t landing, Message Magic will unlock the clarity and confidence you need to grow. Don’t let a weak message hold you back - check it out now: igniteyourbusiness.io/message-magic.

RECONNECT WITH BROTHERHOOD — JOIN US FOR A TRANSFORMATIVE MEN’S WEEKEND IN SOUTH AFRICA

It’s time to reconnect with your strength, truth, and brothers. Join us for a powerful weekend of deep connection and growth at Waterfall Farm in the Cederberg Mountains.

Sit in a sacred circle, share your truth without judgment, and experience a transformative San Pedro ceremony under the stars.

You’ll rediscover your inner strength and clarity by being surrounded by nature's raw beauty.

Spaces are limited - claim your spot now and step into the next chapter of your life.

https://www.fatherssonsbrothers.com/offers/DYxddz2W/checkout


THE KING'S CIRCLE: A DOJO FOR INTEGRATED LEADERS

“We’re magnificent, and we’re broken” - Tom Hirons.

An integrated leader recognises that we all have inner work to do. So, these new-paradigm leaders seek out people, processes, and places that support them in recognising and integrating their blindspots.

Each month, Fathers Sons Brothers host the King's Circle, a two-hour transformational leadership training experience. It’s a men-only space where visionaries gather to learn tools and frameworks that make them better communicators and more integrated leaders.

When you regularly invest in this type of training: 

  • You gain access to a space where men from all over the world support and encourage you to show up at your best.
  • You get clear on what you came here to do. You reconnect with your mission.
  • You recognise where you’re leaking energy, and you reclaim that power to allocate towards serving your mission.
  • You develop more trust in yourself, and this improvement is reflected in all your relationships. 
  • You feel inspired and excited about our brave new world, as you connect deeper with the other Integrated Leaders through the King’s Circle.

All growth after puberty is optional and the men who attend our circle have a growth mindset like you. 

We support each other in becoming the new paradigm of courageous leaders we've been waiting for.

Secure your free seat in The King’s Circle here: https://www.fatherssonsbrothers.com/kings-circle.

ABOUT OUR GUEST

Lewis Huckstep is a performance and fulfillment coach specializing in helping high achievers create lives on their own terms. He entered the business world at 18 and went on to own three gyms by the age of 22. This early success sparked a deeper exploration into personal development, which led to the creation of the Inspired Life Method — a powerful framework that combines business strategy with personal growth tools. Through this method, Lewis has helped over 6,000 people discover their purpose, break through mental and emotional barriers, and achieve greater success, love, and fulfillment. He is also the author of the best-selling book The Inspired Life Method and hosts The Lewis Huckstep Experience podcast, where he explores personal transformation, business, and relationships.

Connect with him on:

Website, Instagram, Facebook, X,Youtube

ABOUT YOUR HOST

Gareth Pickering is an artist and thought leader. His inspiration is to create spaces for men to have open and honest conversations that shift their mindset and live life to the fullest. He’s a human connection specialist who guides others to level up with their lives through “relationships”. Relationships are a rocket ship for personal development. Gareth provides the tools and maps to fly and land your rocket safely.

Connect with him on: 

Website, Instagram, Linkedin, X, Facebook

#60 From Stuck to Unstoppable with Todd Jason23 Feb 202501:13:01

Most men wake up every day without a clear vision for their future. They’re grinding, they’re hustling, but deep down, they don’t know if they’re actually building the life they want.

If you feel stuck, like you're coasting through life without real direction, this conversation will change the way you think about your future.

I sit down with Todd Jason to break down why clarity is the foundation of success, fulfillment, and freedom - and how you can develop it. Todd’s distilled decades of wisdom into a simple but powerful framework for getting crystal clear on your purpose and creating the life you truly want.

In This Episode, You’ll Learn:
  • Why you may lack clarity—and how it's keeping you stuck
  • The #1 mindset shift that will unlock your next level
  • A powerful "eulogy exercise" to create a vision for your life
  • How to align your actions with your ultimate purpose
  • The surprising connection between clarity and your relationships
  • The Golden Path Framework—and how it can shift your entire trajectory
  • Why community is the secret accelerator for success
  • How you can use Todd’s Clarity Course to break free from indecision and start moving forward
Exclusive offer for our listeners:

Todd is giving our listeners 50% off his Clarity Course—a two-day deep dive into the life-changing framework we talk about in this episode.

Go to Todd Jason and use code GARETH-2025 for 50% off!

If you're ready to stop drifting and start leading your life with purpose, take advantage of this now.

This episode is all about achieving clarity! Please be sure to tag me @garethpickering on Instagram and share this episode with your community to spread the word if you or someone you know has benefited from this content! I love to hear about all your experiences. Also, be sure to leave a review on iTunes in order to receive a free meditation to reclaim your power. Just screenshot it before submitting it and email it to my team at studio@fatherssonsbrothers.com, and I will see you in the next episode.

Resource Links

If you enjoyed this episode, make sure you also check out Episode #39 From People-Pleaser to Unapologetically You with Dr Robert Glover.

The King’s Circle: A Dojo for Integrated Leaders.

“We’re magnificent, and we’re broken” - Tom Hirons.

An integrated leader recognises that we all have inner work to do. So, these new-paradigm leaders seek out people, processes, and places that support them in recognising and integrating their blind spots.

Each month, Fathers Sons Brothers host the King's Circle, a two-hour transformational leadership training experience. It’s a men-only space where visionaries gather to learn tools and frameworks that make them better communicators and more integrated leaders.

 When you regularly invest in this type of training: 

  • You gain access to a space where men from all over the world support and encourage you to show up at your best.
  • You get clear on what you came here to do. You reconnect with your mission.
  • You recognise where you’re leaking energy, and you reclaim that power to allocate towards serving your mission.
  • You develop more trust in yourself, and this improvement is reflected in all your relationships. 
  • You feel inspired and excited about our brave new world, as you connect deeper with the other Integrated Leaders through the King’s Circle.

All growth after puberty is optional and the men who attend our circle have a growth mindset like you. 

We support each other in becoming the new paradigm of courageous leaders we've been waiting for.

Secure your free seat in The King’s Circle here: https://www.fatherssonsbrothers.com/kings-circle.

About our guest:

Todd Jason is an author, speaker and community leader who helps people achieve astounding success in life and work. He's worked with Eckhart Tolle, Tony Robbins, Deepak Chopra and developed online programs that have reached millions.  His upcoming book ‘Clarity: Master This One Quality And Create A Life Beyond Your Dreams’ lays out a precise roadmap for you to attain more freedom, more abundance, and a deep sense of personal fulfillment. Visit his website to get an advanced copy and gain access to some immediate tools to help you get that clarity! 

Connect with him on: 

Website, Instagram, Linkedin, YouTube, Facebook

About your host:

Gareth Pickering is an artist and thought leader. His inspiration is to create spaces for men to have open and honest conversations that shift their mindset and live life to the fullest. He’s a human connection specialist who guides others to level up with their lives through “relationships”. Relationships are a rocket ship for personal development. Gareth provides the tools and maps to fly and land your rocket safely.

Connect with him on: 

Website, Instagram, Linkedin, X, Facebook

#59 Stop Stepping on Relationship Landmines23 Feb 202500:26:35

On their deathbeds, 10,000 men were asked, "What made your life meaningful?" It wasn’t the size of their house, the money in their bank account, or the career milestones they hit. It was the quality of their relationships.

So, here’s the real question: If relationships are what make life meaningful, how much time have you spent mastering relationship skills?

In this episode, Gareth shares his powerful talk, "Stop Stepping on Relationship Landmines," to help you stop blowing up your love life and start leading with clarity and connection.

In this episode, you’ll learn:

  • How to spot hidden emotional triggers before they explode.
  • Practical tools to defuse emotional landmines in your relationships.
  • How to break free from repeating toxic patterns.
  • Why mastering relationships is essential to becoming a purpose-driven leader and legendary lover.

This isn’t just relationship advice - it’s bomb squad training for your love life. Time to take off the blindfold and navigate with purpose.

This episode is all about relationship mastery! Please be sure to tag me @garethpickering on Instagram and share this episode with your community to spread the word if you or someone you know has benefited from this content! I love to hear about all your experiences. Also, be sure to leave a review on iTunes in order to receive a free meditation to reclaim your power. Just screenshot it before submitting it and email it to my team at studio@fatherssonsbrothers.com, and I will see you in the next episode.

Resource Links:

The Soulmate Safari

If you enjoyed this episode, make sure you also check out Episode #26 The Art of F#cking up Your Relationship with Brian Jenkins.

The King’s Circle: A Dojo for Integrated Leaders.

“We’re magnificent, and we’re broken” - Tom Hirons.
 

An integrated leader recognises that we all have inner work to do. So, these new-paradigm leaders seek out people, processes, and places that support them in recognising and integrating their blindspots.

Each month, Fathers Sons Brothers host the King's Circle, a two-hour transformational leadership training experience. It’s a men-only space where visionaries gather to learn tools and frameworks that make them better communicators and more integrated leaders.

When you regularly invest in this type of training: 

  • You gain access to a space where men from all over the world support and encourage you to show up at your best.
  • You get clear on what you came here to do. You reconnect with your mission.
  • You recognise where you’re leaking energy, and you reclaim that power to allocate towards serving your mission.
  • You develop more trust in yourself, and this improvement is reflected in all your relationships. 
  • You feel inspired and excited about our brave new world, as you connect deeper with the other Integrated Leaders through the King’s Circle.

All growth after puberty is optional and the men who attend our circle have a growth mindset like you. 

We support each other in becoming the new paradigm of courageous leaders we've been waiting for.

Secure your free seat in The King’s Circle here: https://www.fatherssonsbrothers.com/kings-circle.

About your host:

Gareth Pickering is an artist and thought leader. His inspiration is to create spaces for men to have open and honest conversations that shift their mindset and live life to the fullest. He’s a human connection specialist who guides others to level up with their lives through “relationships”. Relationships are a rocket ship for personal development. Gareth provides the tools and maps to fly and land your rocket safely.

Connect with him on: 

Website, Instagram, Linkedin, X, Facebook

#58 Micro-Dose: Make Life Easier. The Hack 95% of Men Are Too Stubborn to Try.11 Feb 202500:12:42
If you think you must manage your life and responsibilities alone, you're in the last land to burn out.

Plus, if you're struggling right now and you don't share this with your friends or partner, you're also destroying those relationships.  

In this Micro-Dose episode, you’ll learn:

  1. Why your lone-wolf mentality isn't supporting you, and why you're looping in this story
  2. A new paradigm of masculinity that will make your life easier and ALSO build trust with those you love the most
  3. A simple framework you can install to hold you accountable for the most important tasks on your to-do list and fast-track your personal growth. 

This episode is all about asking for help! Please be sure to tag me @garethpickering on Instagram and share this episode with your community to spread the word if you or someone you know has benefited from this content! I love to hear about all your experiences. Also, be sure to leave a review on iTunes in order to receive a free meditation to reclaim your power. Just screenshot it before submitting it and email it to my team at studio@fatherssonsbrothers.com, and I will see you in the next episode.

If you enjoyed this episode, make sure you also check out Episode #56 Love, Life & Leadership - Lessons for Success with Toni Versic.

The King’s Circle: A Dojo for Integrated Leaders.

“We’re magnificent, and we’re broken” - Tom Hirons.

An integrated leader recognises that we all have inner work to do. So, these new-paradigm leaders seek out people, processes, and places that support them in recognising and integrating their blind spots.

Each month, Fathers Sons Brothers host the King's Circle, a two-hour transformational leadership training experience. It’s a men-only space where visionaries gather to learn tools and frameworks that make them better communicators and more integrated leaders.

When you regularly invest in this type of training: 

  • You gain access to a space where men from all over the world support and encourage you to show up at your best.
  • You get clear on what you came here to do. You reconnect with your mission.
  • You recognise where you’re leaking energy, and you reclaim that power to allocate towards serving your mission.
  • You develop more trust in yourself, and this improvement is reflected in all your relationships. 
  • You feel inspired and excited about our brave new world, as you connect deeper with the other Integrated Leaders through the King’s Circle.

All growth after puberty is optional and the men who attend our circle have a growth mindset like you. 

We support each other in becoming the new paradigm of courageous leaders we've been waiting for.

Secure your free seat in The King’s Circle here: https://www.fatherssonsbrothers.com/kings-circle.

About your host:

Gareth Pickering is an artist and thought leader. His inspiration is to create spaces for men to have open and honest conversations that shift their mindset and live life to the fullest. He’s a human connection specialist who guides others to level up with their lives through “relationships”. Relationships are a rocket ship for personal development. Gareth provides the tools and maps to fly and land your rocket safely.

Connect with him on: 

Website, Instagram, Linkedin, X, Facebook

#75 Relationship Pillar 3: Regulate Yourself or Wreck Your Relationship16 Jun 202600:17:25

In this episode Gareth and Matt break down why most relationship blowups come down to an untrained nervous system, not a character flaw and what to do about it.

What you'll learn:

  • Triggers aren't proof of a broken relationship, they're a map pointing at what still needs healing in you.
  • Kids and animals naturally express big emotions through their bodies. But as adults we learn to suppress them. This suppression is what causes relationship blow-ups.
  • The four trauma responses: Fight (rage, argue), Flight (withdraw), Fix (people-please), Freeze (shut down) - and which one you default to when stressed.
  • The real marker of relationship maturity: choosing to respond with awareness rather than react unconsciously.

Tools to start using:

  • Notice the trigger, take a real pause, and move the energy with breath, movement, and sound.
  • Get curious about which of your core wounds (abandonment, rejection, etc.) just got activated.
  • Come back to the conversation once you're regulated, prioritising connection over being right.

Ready To Go deeper? If this hit close to home, the Magnetic Masculine Masterclass unpacks the six core mother wounds that determine how you give and receive love. It's free, about an hour, and opens the door into The Tribe so that you can work through this alongside other men. 

Take the Magnetic Masculine Masterclass by clicking here: https://digital.fatherssonsbrothers.com/Whatsapp

 

#57 Postgame - 3 Steps To Becoming An Integrated Leader.29 Jan 202500:39:07

In another great episode of the Postgame, Matt and I dive deep into the concept of integrated leadership and what it means to lead in a way that reflects collaboration, authenticity, and purpose. Whether you're navigating leadership in your family, business, or community, this episode provides a framework to shift from outdated, competitive leadership models to a new paradigm grounded in self-awareness, connection, and meaningful contribution.

The conversation unfolds with powerful reflections on personal growth, letting go of toxic patterns, and stepping into a greater purpose. 

In this episode, you’ll learn:

  • What it means for you to embody The New Paradigm of Leadership—leading with collaboration, purpose, and abundance, rather than competition and scarcity.
  • The three phases of stepping into authentic leadership: Severance, Initiation, and Integration, and how you can apply them to your personal and professional growth.
  • Why leadership begins within and how developing self-awareness and inner alignment will help you lead more effectively.
  • How to break free from limiting environments and echo chambers, to open up new possibilities for growth and leadership.
  • The transformational power of participating in men’s work and sitting in a circle with other men for accountability and support.
  • Practical tools and practices you can use to align your actions with your purpose while being supported by a tribe of like-minded men.

This episode is all about Integrated Leadership! Please be sure to tag me @garethpickering on Instagram and share this episode with your community to spread the word if you or someone you know has benefited from this content! I love to hear about all your experiences. Also, be sure to leave a review on iTunes in order to receive a free meditation to reclaim your power. Just screenshot it before submitting it and email it to my team at studio@fatherssonsbrothers.com, and I will see you in the next episode.

If you enjoyed this episode, make sure you also check out #32 Mastering manifestation to create your dream life, with Matt Dahse

The Men’s Leadership Retreat

March 24–29, 2025 | Lake Atitlán, Guatemala

What got you here won’t get you there.

You've built success, but something still feels missing. You’ve checked all the boxes - career, family, wealth, but deep down you know there’s another level waiting for you.

This is your chance to step away from the noise, reflect, and recalibrate your leadership and purpose in an environment designed for deep transformation.

This Retreat is for Men Who:
  • Have already achieved career or financial success but feel a deeper calling.
  • Are ready to release outdated identities and patterns that no longer serve them.
  • Want to lead with more clarity, confidence, and impact.
  • Feel stuck in the "what’s next?" phase of life and need a breakthrough.
  • Are looking for a powerful community of mission-driven men to hold them accountable.
What You’ll Experience:
  • A 5-day immersive experience designed to help you strip away the distractions of daily life.
  • Guided initiations & transformational rituals that help you redefine your leadership.
  • Sacred San Pedro plant medicine ceremony to help you break through mental and emotional blocks.
  • Reflection, mentorship, and support from a powerful brotherhood.
  • Luxurious accommodations with breathtaking views of Lake Atitlán.
  • A clear roadmap for integrating your insights back into your life, work, and relationships.
You Won’t Leave the Same Man.

Limited Spaces - only 10 spots available.
This is an intimate and high-impact retreat with only a handful of men.

If you feel the pull, don’t wait. Secure your spot now before we fill up:
https://www.fatherssonsbrothers.com/retreat

This is your moment. Will you answer the call?

The King’s Circle: A Dojo for Integrated Leaders.

“We’re magnificent, and we’re broken” - Tom Hirons.

An integrated leader recognises that we all have inner work to do. So, these new-paradigm leaders seek out people, processes, and places that support them in recognising and integrating their blind spots.

Each month, Fathers Sons Brothers host the King's Circle, a two-hour transformational leadership training experience. It’s a men-only space where visionaries gather to learn tools and frameworks that make them better communicators and more integrated leaders.

 When you regularly invest in this type of training: 

  • You gain access to a space where men from all over the world support and encourage you to show up at your best.
  • You get clear on what you came here to do. You reconnect with your mission.
  • You recognise where you’re leaking energy, and you reclaim that power to allocate towards serving your mission.
  • You develop more trust in yourself, and this improvement is reflected in all your relationships. 
  • You feel inspired and excited about our brave new world, as you connect deeper with the other Integrated Leaders through the King’s Circle.

All growth after puberty is optional and the men who attend our circle have a growth mindset like you. 

We support each other in becoming the new paradigm of courageous leaders we've been waiting for.

Secure your free seat in The King’s Circle here: https://www.fatherssonsbrothers.com/kings-circle

About your hosts:

Gareth Pickering is an artist and thought leader. His inspiration is to create spaces for men to have open and honest conversations that shift their mindset and live life to the fullest. He’s a human connection specialist who guides others to level up with their lives through “relationships”. Relationships are a rocket ship for personal development. Gareth provides the tools and maps to fly and land your rocket safely.

Connect with him on: 

Website, Instagram, Linkedin, X, Facebook

Matt Dhase is a father and conscious creator, designing pathways for men to follow, to unlock their potential and step into their power.

#56 Love, Life & Leadership - Lessons for Success with Toni Versic22 Jan 202501:13:28

In this power-packed episode, I sit down with The Empowered Man founder, Toni Versic, to dive deep into the transformative journey from hitting rock bottom to reclaiming personal power. Toni shares raw and unfiltered stories from his own life, including struggles with addiction, devastating heartbreak, and the lessons learned that turned his pain into purpose. Together, we explore the keys to self-mastery, building resilient relationships, and standing tall in an era where masculinity is under fire.

Get ready for profound insights, actionable tools, and the undeniable truth: your breakthrough lies on the other side of your breakdown.

Grab your FREE DOWNLOAD here of Toni Versic's Tranformation tools.

In this episode you’ll Learn:

  • How to take full ownership of your life – Discover how taking radical responsibility unlocks your power and transforms your relationships.
  • The keys to building a thriving relationship – Learn how to show up as the best version of yourself and create a deeply connected partnership.
  • Why men often hide from their truth – Identifying the blind spots that keep you stuck and show you how to overcome them.
  • How to move from breakdown to breakthrough – Discover how the most painful moments of your life can become the stepping stones to your greatest growth.
  • Practical tools for daily alignment – Receive simple, actionable steps you can take to track your thoughts, feelings, and actions to create lasting change.
  • How to live with integrity as a man – Learn how to reclaim your masculinity, embody leadership, and create a life you’re proud of.

This episode is all about radical responsibility! Please be sure to tag me @garethpickering on Instagram and share this episode with your community to spread the word if you or someone you know has benefited from this content! I love to hear about all your experiences. Also, be sure to leave a review on iTunes in order to receive a free meditation to reclaim your power. Just screenshot it before submitting it and email it to my team at studio@fatherssonsbrothers.com, and I will see you in the next episode.

Resource Links 

If you enjoyed this episode, make sure you also check out this Episode #37 How To Live A Life Of Honour- with Michael Skye.

The King’s Circle: A Dojo for Integrated Leaders.

“We’re magnificent, and we’re broken” - Tom Hirons.

An integrated leader recognises that we all have inner work to do. So, these new-paradigm leaders seek out people, processes, and places that support them in recognising and integrating their blind spots.

Each month, Fathers Sons Brothers host the King's Circle, a two-hour transformational leadership training experience. It’s a men-only space where visionaries gather to learn tools and frameworks that make them better communicators and more integrated leaders.

When you regularly invest in this type of training: 

  • You gain access to a space where men from all over the world support and encourage you to show up at your best.
  • You get clear on what you came here to do. You reconnect with your mission.
  • You recognise where you’re leaking energy, and you reclaim that power to allocate towards serving your mission.
  • You develop more trust in yourself, and this improvement is reflected in all your relationships. 
  • You feel inspired and excited about our brave new world, as you connect deeper with the other Integrated Leaders through the King’s Circle.

All growth after puberty is optional and the men who attend our circle have a growth mindset like you. 

We support each other in becoming the new paradigm of courageous leaders we've been waiting for.

Secure your free seat in The King’s Circle here: https://www.fatherssonsbrothers.com/kings-circle

About our guest:

Toni Versic is Australia's leading relationship and performance coach. He has helped over 5000+ fathers fix their marriages, reconnect with their children and find work-life balance.

Whether it's a $100m CEO or a hard-working man trying to provide for his family, Toni supports men in becoming better fathers, better husbands and better leaders.

Connect with him on: 

Website, Instagram, Podcast

About your host:

Gareth Pickering is an artist and thought leader. His inspiration is to create spaces for men to have open and honest conversations that shift their mindset and live life to the fullest. He’s a human connection specialist who guides others to level up with their lives through “relationships”. Relationships are a rocket ship for personal development. Gareth provides the tools and maps to fly and land your rocket safely.

Connect with him on: 

Website, Instagram, Linkedin, X, Facebook

#55 Listen to This Before Your Next Family Gathering10 Dec 202400:25:59

The holiday season is here, and while it’s a time for joy and connection, family gatherings can sometimes feel like a minefield of triggers, judgments, and old expectations. In this episode, we share powerful tools to navigate these moments with ease and turn challenges into opportunities for growth. Learn how to use our “Pregame” framework to set intentions, reframe your mindset, and rewrite the stories that shape your experience.

In this episode, you’ll learn:

  • How to shift your perspective on family gatherings to see triggers as tools for personal growth.
  • The "Pregame" framework, to navigate family dynamics using: gratitude, placing orders, and emotional intention-setting
  • Practical ways to navigate legacy relationships with authenticity and self-awareness.
  • Why awareness of your triggers can help rewrite old stories and create deeper connections.
  • Insights from Matt and Gareth’s own experiences with holiday dynamics, family connections, and self-growth.

This episode is all about using your triggers for growth! Please be sure to tag me @garethpickering on Instagram and share this episode with your community to spread the word if you or someone you know has benefited from this content! I love to hear about all your experiences. Also, be sure to leave a review on iTunes in order to receive a free meditation to reclaim your power. Just screenshot it before submitting it and email it to my team at studio@fatherssonsbrothers.com, and I will see you in the next episode.

If you enjoyed this episode, make sure you also check out "Healing Our Collective Father Wound: A Path to True Connection with Dr Jed Diamond”.

The King’s Circle: A Dojo for Integrated Leaders.

“We’re magnificent, and we’re broken” - Tom Hirons.

An integrated leader recognises that we all have inner work to do. So, these new-paradigm leaders seek out people, processes, and places that support them in recognising and integrating their blind spots.

Each month, Fathers Sons Brothers host the King's Circle, a two-hour transformational leadership training experience. It’s a men-only space where visionaries gather to learn tools and frameworks that make them better communicators and more integrated leaders.

When you regularly invest in this type of training: 

  • You gain access to a space where men from all over the world support and encourage you to show up at your best.
  • You get clear on what you came here to do. You reconnect with your mission.
  • You recognise where you’re leaking energy, and you reclaim that power to allocate towards serving your mission.
  • You develop more trust in yourself, and this improvement is reflected in all your relationships. 
  • You feel inspired and excited about our brave new world, as you connect deeper with the other Integrated Leaders through the King’s Circle.

All growth after puberty is optional and the men who attend our circle have a growth mindset like you. 

We support each other in becoming the new paradigm of courageous leaders we've been waiting for.

Secure your free seat in The King’s Circle here: https://www.fatherssonsbrothers.com/kings-circle

About your hosts:

Gareth Pickering is an artist and thought leader. His inspiration is to create spaces for men to have open and honest conversations that shift their mindset and live life to the fullest. He’s a human connection specialist who guides others to level up with their lives through “relationships”. Relationships are a rocket ship for personal development. Gareth provides the tools and maps to fly and land your rocket safely.

Connect with him on: 

Website, Instagram, Linkedin, X, Facebook

Matt Dahse is a father and conscious creator, designing pathways for men to follow to unlock their potential and step into their power.

#54 Healing Our Collective Father Wound: A Path To True Connection with Dr Jed Diamond01 Dec 202401:20:03

What if the key to healing yourself is found in your relationships with others? In this powerful episode, I sit down with Dr Jed Diamond, a pioneer in men’s work with over 50 years of experience, to uncover the layers of masculinity, connection, and healing that shape our lives.

Jed shares deeply personal stories about his relationship with his father, his transformative journey through decades of men’s work, and his commitment to helping men heal and thrive. From his promise to his firstborn son in 1969 to his visionary “Moonshot for Mankind” project, Dr Diamond brings a lifetime of wisdom and insight to the table.

What You’ll Learn in This Episode:
  • How unhealed wounds with our fathers ripple through generations—and practical ways to address and heal them.
  • Why gathering with other men can transform your relationships, leadership, and life purpose.
  • A groundbreaking conversation about the hormonal, emotional, and psychological changes men face—and how to navigate them.
  • How shifting from isolation to collaboration can strengthen your purpose and expand your impact.
  • Jed’s global initiative to improve men’s health and save lives through collective action.

This episode is all about healing the “father wound”! Please be sure to tag me @garethpickering on Instagram and share this episode with your community to spread the word if you or someone you know has benefited from this content! I love to hear about all your experiences. Also, be sure to leave a review on iTunes in order to receive a free meditation to reclaim your power. Just screenshot it before submitting it and email it to my team at studio@fatherssonsbrothers.com, and I will see you in the next episode.

Links & Resources:

 If you enjoyed this episode, make sure you also check out "From People Pleaser to Unapologetically You" with Dr Robert Glover.

The King’s Circle: A Dojo for Integrated Leaders.

“We’re magnificent, and we’re broken” - Tom Hirons.

An integrated leader recognises that we all have inner work to do. So, these new-paradigm leaders seek out people, processes, and places that support them in recognising and integrating their blind spots.

Each month, Fathers Sons Brothers host the King's Circle, a two-hour transformational leadership training experience. It’s a men-only space where visionaries gather to learn tools and frameworks that make them better communicators and more integrated leaders.

When you regularly invest in this type of training: 

  • You gain access to a space where men from all over the world support and encourage you to show up at your best.
  • You get clear on what you came here to do. You reconnect with your mission.
  • You recognise where you’re leaking energy, and you reclaim that power to allocate towards serving your mission.
  • You develop more trust in yourself, and this improvement is reflected in all your relationships. 
  • You feel inspired and excited about our brave new world, as you connect deeper with the other Integrated Leaders through the King’s Circle.

All growth after puberty is optional and the men who attend our circle have a growth mindset like you. 

We support each other in becoming the new paradigm of courageous leaders we've been waiting for.

Secure your free seat in The King’s Circle here: https://www.fatherssonsbrothers.com/kings-circle

 

About our guest: 

Dr Jed Diamond is one of the world's leading experts in Gender Medicine and Men's Health.  He specialises in working with men and their families, focusing on issues of mental, emotional and relational health.

He has written seventeen books, including international best-sellers, "Surviving Male Menopause" and "The Irritable Male Syndrome: Understanding and Managing the 4 Key Causes of Depression and Aggression".  His most recent book, "Long Live Men! The Moonshot Mission to Heal Men, Close the Lifespan Gap, and Offer Hope to Humanity" was published in 2023.

Connect with him on:

Website, YouTube, X, Facebook

About your host:

Gareth Pickering is an artist and thought leader. His inspiration is to create spaces for men to have open and honest conversations that shift their mindset and live life to the fullest. He’s a human connection specialist who guides others to level up with their lives through “relationships”. Relationships are a rocket ship for personal development. Gareth provides the tools and maps to fly and land your rocket safely.

Connect with him on:

Website, Instagram, Linkedin, X, Facebook

#53 Expanding Consciousness in the Bedroom and the Boardroom with Tantric expert, Raffaello Manacorda.06 Nov 202401:45:25

Are you ready to unlock the secrets of your inner archetypes? In this episode, I dive into a transformative conversation with Raffaello Manacorda, where we explore the power of archetypes, the practice of conscious sexuality, and the integration of masculine and feminine energies.

Raffaello reveals his journey through Tantra and shares how bringing awareness to our light and shadow archetypes can create true balance and fulfilment. Get ready for actionable tools to connect with your inner psyche, elevate your leadership, and harness the transformative power of shadow work.

In this episode, you’ll learn:

  • How connecting with your archetypes can enrich your life, clarify your relationships, and direct your energy toward meaningful goals.
  • Gain insights into Shamanic leadership and the importance of embracing both leader and follower roles to create a balanced and empowered approach to leadership.
  • Techniques you can use for conscious sexuality, including practices to separate orgasm from ejaculation for deeper intimacy
  • Practical ways you can engage with your inner citizens and how to connect with powerful yet often hidden aspects of your psyche.
  • Ways you can create safe containers to explore deeper sexual and relational dynamics.

Resource Links:

Awakening Shamanic Principles in Leadership

If you enjoyed this episode, make sure you also check out "From CEO to Sex Coach. Sexual Energy and its Role in the Boardroom with Lenerd Louw"

This episode is all about mastering consciousness! Please be sure to tag me @garethpickering on Instagram and share this episode with your community to spread the word if you or someone you know has benefited from this content! I love to hear about all your experiences. Also, be sure to leave a review on iTunes in order to receive a free meditation to reclaim your power. Just screenshot it before submitting it and email it to my team at studio@fatherssonsbrothers.com, and I will see you in the next episode.

Welcome To The Soulmate

Safari A Free 20-Minute Masterclass: “How Successful Men Attract a Secure Relationship, and Have Better Sex”.
 

Discover the three secrets to attracting a secure and stable relationship, including an active and healthy sex life within the next 3-6 months. And say goodbye to years of disappointing dates, sabotaging the connections you cherish, or feeling insecure in the bedroom. 

Click here to secure your free seat on the safari here: https://www.fatherssonsbrothers.com/safari

The King’s Circle: A Dojo for Integrated Leaders.

“We’re magnificent, and we’re broken” - Tom Hirons.

An integrated leader recognises that we all have inner work to do. So, these new-paradigm leaders seek out people, processes, and places that support them in recognising and integrating their blindspots.

Each month, Fathers Sons Brothers host the King's Circle, a two-hour transformational leadership training experience. It’s a men-only space where visionaries gather to learn tools and frameworks that make them better communicators and more integrated leaders.

When you regularly invest in this type of training: 

  • You gain access to a space where men from all over the world support and encourage you to show up at your best.
  • You get clear on what you came here to do. You reconnect with your mission.
  • You recognise where you’re leaking energy, and you reclaim that power to allocate towards serving your mission.
  • You develop more trust in yourself, and this improvement is reflected in all your relationships. 
  • You feel inspired and excited about our brave new world, as you connect deeper with the other Integrated Leaders through the King’s Circle.

All growth after puberty is optional and the men who attend our circle have a growth mindset like you. 

We support each other in becoming the new paradigm of courageous leaders we've been waiting for.

Secure your free seat in The King’s Circle here: https://www.fatherssonsbrothers.com/kings-circle

About our guest: 

Raffaello Manacorda is an international Tantra teacher and practitioner. He has been practising Tantra for more than 15 years and has undergone intensive training in several styles of Yoga. After completing an MA in Philosophy, Raffaello decided to spend more than twelve years living in alternative communities and experimenting with radically alternative lifestyles.

It was in these wild years that he first encountered Tantra, the "rebel way to Spirit". This encounter developed into a life-long practice, first on a solo journey, then studying Tantra and Yoga in some of the best worldwide schools. Raffaello serves as lead faculty in ISTA, the International School of Temple Arts, and teaches and lectures worldwide. He is currently enrolled in a Ph.D. program in Wisdom Studies with Ubiquity University (California).

Raffaello is the co-creator of the ISTA Practitioner Training (PT), ISTA’s program for coaches and practitioners in the field of conscious sexuality.

Connect with him on: 

Website, Instagram, Facebook, YouTube

About your host:

Gareth Pickering is an artist and thought leader. His inspiration is to create spaces for men to have open and honest conversations that shift their mindset and live life to the fullest. He’s a human connection specialist who guides others to level up with their lives through “relationships”. Relationships are a rocket ship for personal development. Gareth provides the tools and maps to fly and land your rocket safely.

Connect with him on: 

Website, Instagram, Linkedin, X, Facebook

#52 How to Turn a Gut Punch into a Gift25 Oct 202400:46:01

Life’s hardest moments often feel like punches to the gut. But what if you could turn that pain into power? In this episode, Matt and I discuss how to see the gifts within life’s toughest moments. We share our own experiences, and use a recent business example to demonstrate just how transformational adversity can really be.

In this episode, you'll learn: How to embrace life's setbacks and turn them into opportunities for growth in your life. Our step-by-step process to shift your mindset and build agility from your life’s challenges. Why your inner narrative holds the key to your transformation. How to connect with your inner “King”, and a free invitation to access our upcoming men’s training program “Crowning Your King” This episode is all about building agility! Please be sure to tag me @garethpickering on Instagram and share this episode with your community to spread the word if you or someone you know has benefited from this content! I love to hear about all your experiences. Also, be sure to leave a review on iTunes in order to receive a free meditation to reclaim your power. Just screenshot it before submitting it and email it to my team at studio@fatherssonsbrothers.com, and I will see you in the next episode.

Welcome To Crown Your King

Do you have a courageous leader steering the ship and having the final say? A level-headed king who makes the decisions with all the data in your head?

If you don’t have a grounded and courageous leader inside, your inner kingdom will always be in chaos.

Crown Your King, is a program designed to help men connect to the king within. This is – the best version of you embodies leadership, strength, and integrity.

This free 30-minute training emphasises identifying your shadows (unconscious fears, wounds, or patterns) and working through them to become an "integrated leader."

Until you can track your shadows, they sabotage your decision-making, and life feels like it's happening to you.

But when you Crown your King, you bring awareness to your shadows, create harmony in your inner kingdom, and lead with courage and confidence.

Welcome To The Soulmate

Safari A Free 20-Minute Masterclass: “How Successful Men Attract a Secure Relationship, and Have Better Sex”.
Discover the three secrets to attracting a secure and stable relationship, including an active and healthy sex life within the next 3-6 months. And say goodbye to years of disappointing dates, sabotaging the connections you cherish, or feeling insecure in the bedroom. 

Click here to secure your free seat on the safari here: https://www.fatherssonsbrothers.com/safari

The King’s Circle

A Dojo for Integrated Leaders “We’re magnificent, and we’re broken” - Tom Hirons.

An integrated leader recognises that we all have inner work to do. So, these new-paradigm leaders seek out people, processes, and places that support them in recognising and integrating their blind spots.

Each month, Fathers Sons Brothers host the King's Circle, a two-hour transformational leadership training experience. It’s a men-only space where visionaries gather to learn tools and frameworks that make them better communicators and more integrated leaders.

When you regularly invest in this type of training:

You gain access to a space where men from all over the world support and encourage you to show up at your best. You get clear on what you came here to do.

You reconnect with your mission. You recognise where you’re leaking energy, and you reclaim that power to allocate towards serving your mission.

You develop more trust in yourself, and this improvement is reflected in all your relationships.

You feel inspired and excited about our brave new world, as you connect deeper with the other Integrated Leaders through the King’s Circle.

All growth after puberty is optional and the men who attend our circle have a growth mindset like you.

We support each other in becoming the new paradigm of courageous leaders we've been waiting for. Secure your free seat in The King’s Circle here: https://www.fatherssonsbrothers.com/kings-circle

About your hosts

Gareth Pickering is an artist and thought leader. His inspiration is to create spaces for men to have open and honest conversations that shift their mindset and live life to the fullest. He’s a human connection specialist who guides others to level up with their lives through “relationships”. Relationships are a rocket ship for personal development. Gareth provides the tools and maps to fly and land your rocket safely.

Connect with him on:

Website, Instagram, Linkedin, X, Facebook

Matt Dahse is a father and conscious creator, designing pathways for men to follow to unlock their potential and step into their power.

#51 My Last Dance with Mary Jane11 Sep 202400:26:32

After 32 years, I’ve made the decision to permanently quit using cannabis. There was no intervention or external pressure - just a moment of self-reflection that led to an honest realisation. When I asked myself, "What are you pretending not to know?" the answer was clear. I could no longer ignore the toll cannabis was taking on my lungs, my productivity, my mental clarity, and, most importantly, my integrity with myself.

If you’ve been struggling with an unhealthy relationship with a substance and feel ready to quit, this episode is for you. I’ll share my experience, including:

  • How to recognise if a substance you’re using has become a crutch.
  • The true cost of cannabis in my life, and how it might be holding you back.
  • How compromising your integrity creates massive energy leaks.
  • What to expect as your body begins to detox and adjust.
  • Why I felt a sense of relief and freedom once I fully committed to quitting.
  • Why I’ve chosen to microdose with LSD to support the transition off cannabis. 

 

Episode Links:

"The Body Keeps the Score"

This episode is all about my decision to quit cannabis!! Please be sure to tag me @garethpickering on Instagram and share this episode with your community to spread the word if you or someone you know has benefited from this content! I love to hear about all your experiences. Also, be sure to leave a review on iTunes in order to receive a free meditation to reclaim your power. Just screenshot it before submitting it and email it to my team at studio@fatherssonsbrothers.com, and I will see you in the next episode.

Are you serving your mission? 

Are you a leader looking to find your voice and serve your mission while getting paid to share your gifts?

You can’t find your audience or get paid until you find your voice.
Grab a free three-part authentic voice discovery session with the clarity expert who’s supported me and the Fathers Sons Brothers brand to become globally recognised brands. Three live one-on-one sessions with Alex (valued at $1497) for $0! This is a crazy good offer that won’t be around for much longer.

If you want to find your voice, connect to your audience, and build your purpose-driven business, it starts here.

The King’s Circle: A Dojo for Integrated Leaders.

“We’re magnificent, and we’re broken” - Tom Hirons.

An integrated leader recognises that we all have inner work to do. So, these new-paradigm leaders seek out people, processes, and places that support them in recognising and integrating their blind spots.

Each month, Fathers Sons Brothers host the King's Circle, a two-hour transformational leadership training experience. It’s a men-only space where visionaries gather to learn tools and frameworks that make them better communicators and more integrated leaders.

When you regularly invest in this type of training: 

  • You gain access to a space where men from all over the world support and encourage you to show up at your best.
  • You get clear on what you came here to do. You reconnect with your mission.
  • You recognise where you’re leaking energy, and you reclaim that power to allocate towards serving your mission.
  • You develop more trust in yourself, and this improvement is reflected in all your relationships. 
  • You feel inspired and excited about our brave new world, as you connect deeper with the other Integrated Leaders through the King’s Circle.

All growth after puberty is optional and the men who attend our circle have a growth mindset like you. 

We support each other in becoming the new paradigm of courageous leaders we've been waiting for.

Secure your free seat in The King’s Circle here: https://www.fatherssonsbrothers.com/kings-circle.

About your host:

Gareth Pickering is an artist and thought leader. His inspiration is to create spaces for men to have open and honest conversations that shift their mindset and live life to the fullest. He’s a human connection specialist who guides others to level up with their lives through “relationships”. Relationships are a rocket ship for personal development. Gareth provides the tools and maps to fly and land your rocket safely.

Connect with him on: 

Website, Instagram, Linkedin, X, Facebook

#50 Following Your Life's Purpose with Justin Dale07 Sep 202401:42:05

Is following your life’s purpose reckless, or is it a profound alignment with your higher self? Find out in today’s conversation with Justin Dale, where we share our personal journeys in building a life of purpose.  Justin recounts a series of seemingly bizarre events that led him to make Mexico his permanent home, all without a contingency plan in place.   We dive into the challenges and rewards of stepping into the unknown and explore how the money mind-trap can keep you stuck & perpetually distracted.

In this episode, you’ll learn:

  • What happens when you start trusting your higher self to make important life decisions.
  • Why a linear view of the world is stunting your true potential.
  • Why fostering self-love elevates our appreciation for life and the planet, and how savouring it can stop its destruction.
  • How finding gratitude in the face of adversity empowers you to become the creator of your reality.
  • The value of having a coach and a mentor to support your success when starting a business.
  • How the rules of engagement in business change when you’re on purpose, shifting from competition to co-creation.
  • The power of men’s work in gaining clarity on that truly matters in your life.

This episode is all about following your life’s purpose!! Please be sure to tag me @garethpickering on Instagram and share this episode with your community to spread the word if you or someone you know has benefited from this content! I love to hear about all your experiences. Also, be sure to leave a review on iTunes in order to receive a free meditation to reclaim your power. Just screenshot it before submitting it and email it to my team at studio@fatherssonsbrothers.com, and I will see you in the next episode.

Are you serving your mission? 

Are you a leader looking to find your voice and serve your mission while getting paid to share your gifts?

You can’t find your audience or get paid until you find your voice.
Grab a free three-part authentic voice discovery session with the clarity expert who’s supported me and the Fathers Sons Brothers brand to become globally recognised brands. Three live one-on-one sessions with Alex (valued at $1497) for $0! This is a crazy good offer that won’t be around for much longer.

If you want to find your voice, connect to your audience, and build your purpose-driven business, it starts here.

The King’s Circle: A Dojo for Integrated Leaders.

“We’re magnificent, and we’re broken” - Tom Hirons.

An integrated leader recognises that we all have inner work to do. So, these new-paradigm leaders seek out people, processes, and places that support them in recognising and integrating their blind spots.

Each month, Fathers Sons Brothers host the King's Circle, a two-hour transformational leadership training experience. It’s a men-only space where visionaries gather to learn tools and frameworks that make them better communicators and more integrated leaders.

When you regularly invest in this type of training: 

  • You gain access to a space where men from all over the world support and encourage you to show up at your best.
  • You get clear on what you came here to do. You reconnect with your mission.
  • You recognise where you’re leaking energy, and you reclaim that power to allocate towards serving your mission.
  • You develop more trust in yourself, and this improvement is reflected in all your relationships. 
  • You feel inspired and excited about our brave new world, as you connect deeper with the other Integrated Leaders through the King’s Circle.

All growth after puberty is optional and the men who attend our circle have a growth mindset like you. 

We support each other in becoming the new paradigm of courageous leaders we've been waiting for.

Secure your free seat in The King’s Circle here: https://www.fatherssonsbrothers.com/kings-circle

About our guest: 

Justin is a business and marketing coach for men's transformation coaches. After getting a bachelor's degree in New Media he worked in corporate marketing for 6 years, including 3 years as a web designer at Playboy. 

In 2018 he bought a 1-way ticket to Mexico and has been living in Latin America ever since. During the pandemic he sold 6 million dollars of medical masks as an e-commerce entrepreneur. His life is now dedicated to his true calling of using his skills in internet business development to help men's transformation coaches help more people.

Connect with him on:

Website, Instagram, Facebook 

About your host:

Gareth Pickering is an artist and thought leader. His inspiration is to create spaces for men to have open and honest conversations that shift their mindset and live life to the fullest. He’s a human connection specialist who guides others to level up with their lives through “relationships”. Relationships are a rocket ship for personal development. Gareth provides the tools and maps to fly and land your rocket safely.

Connect with him on: 

Website, Instagram, Linkedin, X, Facebook

#49 Embracing the human condition with Warrior Poet Tom Hirons.30 Aug 202401:44:08

Today’s guest, Tom Hirons, believes that words and stories hold the power to change the world. In this episode, he shares his journey to discovering his life's purpose, a path that began with four nights of fasting alone in the Welsh foothills. An accomplished poet with a deep appreciation for the esoteric, Tom has a unique capacity for interpreting the human condition. He imparts a world of wisdom on topics ranging from fatherhood, his creative process, and healing masculinity.

In this episode:
  • The importance of connecting with and sharing your unique “kernel” - your gift to share with the world.
  • Discover how co-parenting dads achieve more balance by prioritising their personal well-being.
  • Hear about the masculine power held in your ancestral line and how healing generational trauma unlocks this creative force.
  • Tom shares when you heal your masculinity that you live more joyfully. 
  • Learn how to recognise and embrace all the parts of yourself in order to heal.
  • Remember the importance of listening to your intuition to receive guidance on what’s true for you.
  • Discover practical tools to tap into the wisdom of your emotions.
  • Issues to be aware of if you want to master conscious non-monogamy.

Episode resources:

“The Dead Fathers” by Tom Hirons

"Mancestral Healing

“Queen of Heaven” by Tom Hirons

Warrior Poet Rebel Assembly 2024

This episode is all about self-acceptance! Please be sure to tag me @garethpickering on Instagram and share this episode with your community to spread the word if you or someone you know has benefited from this content! I love to hear about all your experiences. Also, be sure to leave a review on iTunes in order to receive a free meditation to reclaim your power. Just screenshot it before submitting it and email it to my team at studio@fatherssonsbrothers.com, and I will see you in the next episode.

If you enjoy the idea of creativity as an outlet for healing, then make sure you catch the Adam Roa episode.

Are you serving your mission? 

Are you a leader looking to find your voice and serve your mission while getting paid to share your gifts?

You can’t find your audience or get paid until you find your voice.

Grab a free three-part authentic voice discovery session with the clarity expert who’s supported me and the Fathers Sons Brothers brand to become globally recognised brands. Three live one-on-one sessions with Alex (valued at $1497) for $0! This is a crazy good offer that won’t be around for much longer.

If you want to find your voice, connect to your audience, and build your purpose-driven business, it starts here.

 

The King’s Circle: A Dojo for Integrated Leaders.

“We’re magnificent, and we’re broken” - Tom Hirons.

An integrated leader recognises that we all have inner work to do. So, these new-paradigm leaders seek out people, processes, and places that support them in recognising and integrating their blind spots.

Each month, Fathers Sons Brothers host the King's Circle, a two-hour transformational leadership training experience. It’s a men-only space where visionaries gather to learn tools and frameworks that make them better communicators and more integrated leaders.

When you regularly invest in this type of training: 

  • You gain access to a space where men from all over the world support and encourage you to show up at your best.
  • You get clear on what you came here to do. You reconnect with your mission.
  • You recognise where you’re leaking energy, and you reclaim that power to allocate towards serving your mission.
  • You develop more trust in yourself, and this improvement is reflected in all your relationships. 
  • You feel inspired and excited about our brave new world, as you connect deeper with the other Integrated Leaders through the King’s Circle.

All growth after puberty is optional, and the men who attend our circle have growth mindsets like yours. 

We support each other in becoming the new paradigm of courageous leaders we've been waiting for.

Secure your free seat in The King’s Circle here: https://www.fatherssonsbrothers.com/kings-circle

About our guest:

Tom Hirons is a poet and storyteller based in Devon in the UK.

He is the director of Feral Angels Press and editor of Clarion poetry magazine.

He teaches poetry-writing, both online and in-person, and runs poetry-focused wilderness fasts.

Tom’s piece ‘Sometimes a Wild God’ is a subcultural poetry classic. He has never won a poetry prize or been published in a poetry magazine, yet somehow still makes his living from poetry. He spends much of his time playing football with his sons.

He says, ‘I have heard all the terrible news, and I have looked into the inferno of the future, but I am still in love with this life.’

Tom’s latest collection - ‘The Queen of Heaven’ - is out now.

Connect with him on: 

Website, InstagramFacebook

About your host:

Gareth Pickering is an artist and thought leader. His inspiration is to create spaces for men to have open and honest conversations that shift their mindset and live life to the fullest. He’s a human connection specialist who guides others to level up with their lives through “relationships”. Relationships are a rocket ship for personal development. Gareth provides the tools and maps to fly and land your rocket safely.

Connect with him on: 

Website, Instagram, Linkedin, X, Facebook

#48 Comfortable in the dark. A post game reflection of five days, and five nights alone in a dark room.24 Aug 202401:00:26

In this reveal all episode with Lenerd Louw, I answer the questions so many have asked since my 111 hours isolated in the dark.  A dark retreat is a hermetic space, with no light or sense of time, cut off from everything except yourself.

I share my reasons for doing it, some uncomfortable truths, the aha moments and trippy effects the dark had on my mind.

In this episode, you’ll learn:

  • The benefits of doing a dark retreat and how it makes you more calm
  • Practical tips to help you through the experience 
  • What is lucid dreaming and how you can practice it as a tool for healing.

Don't miss the pregame for this exciting episode, where I sit down with Severin Geser to share expectations and the benefits of doing a dark retreat: Episode 47.

Lenerd & I share some details on our upcoming mastery program, for men.  If you’re single or already in a relationship, we’re providing the tools for success in romantic partnership.  This includes getting clear on what you want from relationships & a partner, as well as intuitive lovemaking & how to harness your sexual life force.

You can catch more of Lenerd’s work here on one of our former episodes:

#18 From CEO to Sex Coach. Sexual Energy and its Role in the Boardroom - with Lenerd Louw. - YouTube

Resource Links:

Charlie Morley - Lucid Dreaming

Lenerd Louw

This episode is all about reconnecting with yourself! Please be sure to tag me @garethpickering on Instagram and share this episode with your community to spread the word if you or someone you know has benefited from this content! I love to hear about all your experiences. Also, be sure to leave a review on iTunes in order to receive a free meditation to reclaim your power. Just screenshot it before submitting it and email it to my team at studio@fatherssonsbrothers.com, and I will see you in the next episode.

Welcome To The King’s Circle

Imagine living in a world where you can be 100% yourself. You’re celebrated for your wins and always supported when things get tough. Imagine having access to a global network of men who will offer you reflection and support you through your challenges.  

As men, we’ve been told that we need to go it alone and always have our lives together. Bullshit. 

Life will always have challenges and initiations, walking your path alone is always more difficult and much less fun.

The King’s Circle is your ticket to an easier and more fulfilling life. Connect with men from all walks of life who will accept and support you no matter what.

When you regularly attend our circle, you gain access to:

⭐️ A confidential and safe place to take a break and rest so that you can rejoin your life feeling inspired and refreshed.
⭐️ A place to take off the masks and be Unapologetically You. 

⭐️ A place to learn new tools as you connect with thought-leaders who will guide you to level up all areas of your life as you go.
⭐️A place to practice new ways of communicating, which will improve your relationships with your friends, partners and colleagues. 

As you connect deeper with each circle, you will improve your relationship with the other men. These brothers become your friends and your allies. Your relationship with yourself improves. You feel better in your body and make better choices. Your intimate relationships ignite with clarity, fire and passion. You get reconnected to your mission.

Are you ready to live your life like that?  Join us at the upcoming King’s Circle.

Held online, on the last Sunday of every month. Our circle is open and accepts you no matter where you are. Whether you are crushing it and ready to lead others or at rock bottom and don’t know which way is up - all of you is welcome in our circle.

Secure your free seat here: https://www.fatherssonsbrothers.com/kings-circle

About our guest:

My 20-year long experience of being a multi-orgasmic man is the rich knowledge base from which I share my experience and expertise in semen retention and in transforming one’s sexual energy to serve any area of one’s life. I want to lift the veil of confusion around sex and ejaculation and educate people about orgasm and ejaculation being two different things. While I am a hetero-sexual man, all men can benefit from my work.

As a successful businessman with 30 years' experience, I understand the connection between money, sex and power. My spiritual journey of learning and awakening of the last 15 years has brought me to deeply drop into my heart and understand consciousness and the interconnectedness of it all. I am a bridge between the ‘mainstream’ and the evolution into a higher consciousness.

Connect with him on:

Website

About your host:

Gareth Pickering is an artist and thought leader. His inspiration is to create spaces for men to have open and honest conversations that shift their mindset and live life to the fullest. He’s a human connection specialist who guides others to level up with their lives through “relationships”. Relationships are a rocket ship for personal development. Gareth provides the tools and maps to fly and land your rocket safely.

Connect with him on: 

Website, Instagram, Linkedin, X, Facebook

#74 Relationship Pillar 2: The Lost Art of True Intimacy09 Jun 202600:15:02

Most men think they know their partner ...

 

Here's a quick test: 

Can you name her three deepest fears right now? Not her general worries. Her deepest fears.

That moment of hesitation is what this episode is about.

 

What we cover:

  • Why intimacy and sex are not the same thing, and how crossing wires quietly kills connection
  • How it's possible to share a bed for 20 years and still never truly know your partner
  • What a woman actually needs to feel safe enough to open, and how most men miss this entirely
  • How emotional disconnection gets translated into sexual hunger, and why that eventually kills the spark
  • Why the flame goes out, and what's actually behind it 
     

This is Pillar 2 of 4. Each episode in this series gives you one foundational skill for building a relationship that lasts.

 

Want to go deeper?

Gareth runs a free 60-minute training called the Magnetic Masculine Masterclass that explores the patterns keeping men stuck in exactly this dynamic.

 

If you're curious, click here to send a WhatsApp message and immediately receive the link: https://digital.fatherssonsbrothers.com/Whatsapp 

 

Make sure you subscribe so you don't miss Pillars 3 and 4.

 

And if you want to watch episode 1 of the series check it out here: 

#73 Relationship Pillar 1: Inner Work - The Foundation

https://youtu.be/xJiQ16Q4dAk

#47 111 Hours in Solitary Confinement 20 Aug 202400:28:05

Imagine spending 111 hours in total darkness—no light, no sense of time, alone with yourself. I recently undertook this ancient initiation, and it was nothing like I expected.

In the absence of distractions, your thoughts and emotions take centre stage, forcing you to face parts of yourself you usually avoid. This ancient practice offers a rare opportunity for deep introspection and healing.

Before diving into the retreat, I sat down with dark retreat owner Severin Geser to discuss the experience. We explore the profound value of this practice and offer an in-depth look at what it truly means to confront yourself in the dark.

In this episode, you’ll learn:

  • The key benefits of a darkness treat and why you should do one.
  • The types of triggers you can expect and how best to handle them.
  • How they offer men a powerful rite of passage - an initiation into deeper self-acceptance.
  • The sense of centering and reconnection you can experience within yourself.

Make sure to catch the postgame of this exciting episode, where I share my full experience of the dark retreat: Episode 48.

Resource links:

The Hermitage Dark Retreat

This episode is all about reconnecting to yourself! Please be sure to tag me @garethpickering on Instagram and share this episode with your community to spread the word if you or someone you know has benefited from this content! I love to hear about all your experiences. Also, be sure to leave a review on iTunes in order to receive a free meditation to reclaim your power. Just screenshot it before submitting it and email it to my team at studio@fatherssonsbrothers.com, and I will see you in the next episode.

Welcome To The King’s Circle

Imagine living in a world where you can be 100% yourself. You’re celebrated for your wins and always supported when things get tough. Imagine having access to a global network of men who will offer you reflection and support you through your challenges.  

As men, we’ve been told that we need to go it alone and always have our lives together. Bullshit. 

Life will always have challenges and initiations, walking your path alone is always more difficult and much less fun.

The King’s Circle is your ticket to an easier and more fulfilling life. Connect with men from all walks of life who will accept and support you no matter what.

When you regularly attend our circle, you gain access to:

⭐️ A confidential and safe place to take a break and rest so that you can rejoin your life feeling inspired and refreshed.
⭐️ A place to take off the masks and be Unapologetically You. 

⭐️ A place to learn new tools as you connect with thought-leaders who will guide you to level up all areas of your life as you go.
⭐️A place to practice new ways of communicating, which will improve your relationships with your friends, partners and colleagues. 

As you connect deeper with each circle, you will improve your relationship with the other men. These brothers become your friends and your allies. Your relationship with yourself improves. You feel better in your body and make better choices. Your intimate relationships ignite with clarity, fire and passion. You get reconnected to your mission.

Are you ready to live your life like that?  Join us at the upcoming King’s Circle.

Held online, on the last Sunday of every month. Our circle is open and accepts you no matter where you are. Whether you are crushing it and ready to lead others or at rock bottom and don’t know which way is up - all of you is welcome in our circle.

Secure your free seat here: https://www.fatherssonsbrothers.com/kings-circle

About your host:

Gareth Pickering is an artist and thought leader. His inspiration is to create spaces for men to have open and honest conversations that shift their mindset and live life to the fullest. He’s a human connection specialist who guides others to level up with their lives through “relationships”. Relationships are a rocket ship for personal development. Gareth provides the tools and maps to fly and land your rocket safely.

Connect with him on: 

Website, Instagram, Linkedin, X, Facebook

#46 The Tantric Path to Embrace Your Feminine with Aaron Kleinerman10 Aug 202401:10:06

Welcome to today’s episode where we connect with Aaron Kleinerman, a Transformational Sex & Relationship Coach, Tantric Practitioner, Facilitator & Speaker. He is the International Best-Selling Author of "The Embodied Man".

Aaron has a wealth of experience supporting men specifically in the space of reconnecting with the feminine within themselves.

Why would you want to do that as a man? The tantric path recognises that, as men we have both masculine and feminine energy inside us. If you’re disconnected from your feminine energy, you’re disconnected from 50% of your power!  When you reconnect with this untapped energy within, you gain access to this power and are able to channel it into whatever you’re creating in your life.

In this episode, you’ll learn:

  • Unravelling the Mysteries of Tantra and some practical ways you can use this knowledge to transform your life.
  • The power of semen retention and how to use intentional ejaculation for manifestation.
  • How to unlock your mind-body connection and use this connection to reconnect to the wisdom that’s held in your body so that you make better decisions.
  • How to recognise and release triggers which move your energy and create a more balanced life
  • Best practices to reconnect with and mature your feminine to supercharge your emotional and personal growth.
  • How to manage stress and emotions without relying on substances.
  • How to integrate your heart and mind to master the art of leadership.

Also, make sure you listen out for the powerful story of how Aaron helped his father overcome a gambling addiction when he was just a 14-year-old kid!

This episode is all about connecting to your body for deeper listening! Please be sure to tag me @garethpickering on Instagram and share this episode with your community to spread the word if you or someone you know has benefited from this content! I love to hear about all your experiences. Also, be sure to leave a review on iTunes in order to receive a free meditation to reclaim your power. Just screenshot it before submitting it and email it to my team at studio@fatherssonsbrothers.com, and I will see you in the next episode.

Resource Links:

"The Embodied Man" by Aaron Kleinerman

Welcome To The King’s Circle

Imagine living in a world where you can be 100% yourself. You’re celebrated for your wins and always supported when things get tough. Imagine having access to a global network of men who will offer you reflection and support you through your challenges.  

As men, we’ve been told that we need to go it alone and always have our lives together. Bullshit. 

Life will always have challenges and initiations, walking your path alone is always more difficult and much less fun.

The King’s Circle is your ticket to an easier and more fulfilling life. Connect with men from all walks of life who will accept and support you no matter what.

When you regularly attend our circle, you gain access to:

⭐️ A confidential and safe place to take a break and rest so that you can rejoin your life feeling inspired and refreshed.
⭐️ A place to take off the masks and be Unapologetically You. 

⭐️ A place to learn new tools as you connect with thought-leaders who will guide you to level up all areas of your life as you go.
⭐️A place to practice new ways of communicating, which will improve your relationships with your friends, partners and colleagues. 

As you connect deeper with each circle, you will improve your relationship with the other men. These brothers become your friends and your allies. Your relationship with yourself improves. You feel better in your body and make better choices. Your intimate relationships ignite with clarity, fire and passion. You get reconnected to your mission.

Are you ready to live your life like that?  Join us at the upcoming King’s Circle.

Held online, on the last Sunday of every month. Our circle is open and accepts you no matter where you are. Whether you are crushing it and ready to lead others or at rock bottom and don’t know which way is up - all of you is welcome in our circle.

Secure your free seat here.

 About our guest: 

Aaron Kleinerman is a Master Coach, Relationship expert, Facilitator & Speaker.  He is the lead male teacher for the Embodied Awakening Academy, a Tantric Practitioner, creator of several online courses for men & the author of international best-selling book "The Embodied Man." He has learned from the great masters in the field of sexuality and transformation, including earning a master’s degree in spiritual psychology.  Aaron went from being a licensed captain navigating ships to a sexual behaviour and movement specialist navigating souls.  His workshops, retreats, sessions and speeches help humans integrate body movement, psychology, sexuality and spirituality. 

He speaks and teaches honestly and transparently so that others can unlock the real reason for their human existence.  Aaron’s mastery as a teacher provides the practical tools everyone needs to implement embodied awakened intelligence into daily life.

Connect with him on: 

Website, Instagram, YouTube, X, Facebook

About your hosts:


Gareth Pickering is an artist and thought leader. His inspiration is to create spaces for men to have open and honest conversations that shift their mindset and live life to the fullest. He’s a human connection specialist who guides others to level up with their lives through “relationships”. Relationships are a rocket ship for personal development. Gareth provides the tools and maps to fly and land your rocket safely.

Connect with him on: 

Website, Instagram, Linkedin, X, Facebook

 

#45 Position Yourself for Success with Personal Brand Expert, Alex Marostica.03 Aug 202400:26:47

ALEX IS BACK! And, to conclude our 3-part mini-series, she's sharing actionable strategies you can actually use for crafting a powerful personal brand. This episode focuses on guiding your clients through their transformational journey with you as their guide. Understanding this is crucial for closing new business. To ensure your success, Alex shares her top tools and techniques for effectively positioning your message.

Also don’t miss the chance to get one of the last five spots for a $1497 brand audit 1-on-1 with Alex for $0. Yup Zero Dollars. Free. See the Personal Brand Audit section below. 

In this episode, you’ll learn:

  • How to make a client feel seen & understood, with your origin story.
  • Winning business with empathy & authority (in that order)
  • 2 Questions to help you incorporate empathy when telling your story.
  • Understanding vulnerability in industries where high levels of client trust are essential.
  • Why centering your personal brand around yourself is bad for business.
  • The importance of clearing emotional blocks & obstacles that are holding you back.
  • Taking your idea to market with the “Ignition Program”, a group container designed for passionate Soul-preneurs.

Be sure to watch the full mini-series where we discuss the fundamentals of personal branding and how to use it to get your message into the heart and minds of your audience.

Book Your FREE Personal Brand Audit:

Are you ready to define your personal brand, find your ideal client and share your gifts with the world? Don’t go it alone! Take advantage of getting an expert to review and feedback your Personal Brand. Alex has the last five free spaces available for a personal brand audit for those entrepreneurs ready to be in service.

Find out more and secure your free personal brand audit here.

Resource Links:

IGNITE your Business

About our guest:

As the Managing Director and Co-founder of IGNITE your Business, Alexandra Marostica has spent the better part of the last decade supporting SOULpreneurs in bringing their genius to the world.

With her unique background in Business Operational Management, Human Resources Management, and Leadership Development, she has a comprehensive understanding of both the nuances of building a business and the science of delivering quality knowledge-based products and services.

In addition to this, she has honed her technology skills, with a particular interest in learning management systems and instructional design in the digital space.

Connect with her on:

Website

About your host:

Gareth Pickering is an artist and thought leader. His inspiration is to create spaces for men to have open and honest conversations that shift their mindset and live life to the fullest. He’s a human connection specialist who guides others to level up with their lives through “relationships”. Relationships are a rocket ship for personal development. Gareth provides the tools and maps to fly and land your rocket safely.

Connect with him on:

Website

#44 Building Your Purpose Business? You Don't Know Jack!31 Jul 202400:23:44

Are you ready to elevate your purpose business?  Join us for Part 2 of this mini-series, where we guide you in crafting your unique message.  In this sequel, Alex Marostica returns with invaluable insights, focusing on the crucial step of identifying your audience.  This episode is packed with essential knowledge, so if you’re ready to share your gifts with the world, you don’t want to miss it!

In this episode, you’ll learn:

  • Key questions that will define your ideal client.
  • Advice on creating a client avatar.
  • Practical tips to build trust and deeper relationships with your audience.
  • How to identify your audience’s needs and their challenges.
  • The role of a client’s transformational journey & how to define it.
  • What is an archetype and how to use them to refine your offering.
  • The importance of tailoring your offer as the solution, to win business.

In case you missed it, see Episode 43 (Part 1), for the fundamentals for crafting a powerful personal brand.

Also don’t miss the chance to get one of the last five spots for a $1497 brand audit 1-on-1 with Alex for $0. Yup Zero Dollars. Free. See the Personal Brand Audit section below.

Book Your FREE Personal Brand Audit:

Are you ready to define your personal brand, find your ideal client and share your gifts with the world? Don’t go it alone! Take advantage of getting an expert to review and feedback your Personal Brand. Alex has a limited number of free spaces available for a personal brand audit for those entrepreneurs ready to be in service.

Find out more and secure your personal brand audit here.

Resource Links:

IGNITE your Business

About our guest:

As the Managing Director and Co-founder of IGNITE your Business, Alexandra Marostica has spent the better part of the last decade supporting SOULpreneurs in bringing their genius to the world.

With her unique background in Business Operational Management, Human Resources Management, and Leadership Development, she has a comprehensive understanding of both the nuances of building a business and the science of delivering quality knowledge-based products and services.

In addition to this, she has honed her technology skills, with a particular interest in learning management systems and instructional design in the digital space.

Connect with her on:

Website

About your host:

Gareth Pickering is an artist and thought leader. His inspiration is to create spaces for men to have open and honest conversations that shift their mindset and live life to the fullest. He’s a human connection specialist who guides others to level up with their lives through “relationships”. Relationships are a rocket ship for personal development. Gareth provides the tools and maps to fly and land your rocket safely.

Connect with him on:

Website

#43 You Are Not Your Personal Brand - How to Build a Purpose Based Business with Alex Marostica28 Jul 202400:56:09

Do you have a business or a passion that needs presenting to the world? Then you’ll want to accelerate your success with a powerful personal brand. In this episode Alexandra Marostica explains the fundamentals in this 3- part mini-series on personal branding. You will learn the best strategies for defining your personal brand and how to shape your messaging for connection and meaning. Packed with loads of value & seasoned advice, if you’re ready to share your magic with the world, you won’t want to miss this episode.

In this episode, you’ll learn:

  • The foundations for a strong personal brand and how to sign the right client for your offer.
  • Understand what branding isn’t and which pitfalls many new creators fall into.
  • Personal brand building for individuals & where to start so that you can get paid as soon as possible.
  • Strategies to overcome imposter syndrome on your path as a Soulpreneur.
  • What all first-time entrepreneurs should know when starting their business and how much more difficult it is if you miss these important elements. 
  • Why investing in a coach or mentor is more effective than going it alone.
Book Your FREE Personal Brand Audit:

Are you ready to define your personal brand, find your ideal client and share your gifts with the world? Don’t go it alone! Take advantage of getting an expert to review and feedback your Personal Brand. Alex has a limited number of free spaces available for a personal brand audit for those entrepreneurs ready to be in service.

Find out more and secure your personal brand audit here.

Resource Links:

IGNITE your Business

Welcome To The King’s Circle:

Imagine living in a world where you can be 100% yourself. You’re celebrated for your wins and always supported when things get tough. Imagine having access to a global network of men who will offer you reflection and support you through your challenges.

The King’s Circle is your ticket to an easier and more fulfilling life. Connect with men from all walks of life who will accept and support you no matter what.

When you regularly attend our circle, you gain access to:

⭐️ A confidential and safe place to take a break and rest so that you can rejoin your life feeling inspired and refreshed.

⭐️ A place to learn new tools as you connect with thought-leaders who will guide you to level up all areas of your life as you go.

⭐️A place to practice new ways of communicating, which will improve your relationships with your friends, partners and colleagues.

As you connect deeper with each circle, you will improve your relationship with the other men. These brothers become your friends and your allies. Your relationship with yourself improves. You feel better in your body and make better choices. Your intimate relationships ignite with clarity, fire and passion. You get reconnected to your mission.

Held online, on the last Sunday of every month. Our circle is open and accepts you no matter where you are. Whether you are crushing it and ready to lead others or at rock bottom and don’t know which way is up - all of you is welcome in our circle.

Secure your free seat here.

The Fathers Sons Brothers Whatsapp Group:

Are you ready to step out of the chaos and polarised world of social media?

Our Whatsapp group is where men of all ages, races, backgrounds and stages of life connect and have safe, authentic and courageous conversations.

Learn about leadership, sexual mastery, conscious investing, biohacking, mindfulness, plant medicine, new ways of living together and much more.

Accept your invitation here.

About our guest:

As the Managing Director and Co-founder of IGNITE your Business, Alexandra Marostica has spent the better part of the last decade supporting SOULpreneurs in bringing their genius to the world.

With her unique background in Business Operational Management, Human Resources Management, and Leadership Development, she has a comprehensive understanding of both the nuances of building a business and the science of delivering quality knowledge-based products and services.

In addition to this, she has honed her technology skills, with a particular interest in learning management systems and instructional design in the digital space.

Connect with her on:

Website

About your host:

Gareth Pickering is an artist and thought leader. His inspiration is to create spaces for men to have open and honest conversations that shift their mindset and live life to the fullest. He’s a human connection specialist who guides others to level up with their lives through “relationships”. Relationships are a rocket ship for personal development. Gareth provides the tools and maps to fly and land your rocket safely.

Connect with him on:

Website

#42 Making Men's Work a Thing.25 Jun 202400:30:12
Making Men's Work a Thing

Thanks for checking out this episode. Do you want to experience men's work in a safe and well-established container? A space where 487 courageous men have re-connected with the ancient, transformational technology of men's work? Grab your free seat at our free monthly men's circle: The King's Circle, Empowering Courageous Men.

Secure your seat here: https://www.fatherssonsbrothers.com/kings-circle

#41 You CAN'T Thrive Without A Tribe.06 Jun 202400:36:25
A few times a year, we open enrollment for the Fathers Sons Brother Tribe.

A Focused and Proven Monthly Membership for Men who are ready to Level UP Their Lives and Relationships. 

If you're navigating a career shift, healing past relationships, or seeking meaning, Tribe will help you reclaim your power, eliminate overwhelm and show up as the Father, Son and Brother you came here to be.

Enrollment is open right now and closes at midnight on 12 June 2024.

GET INSIDE THE TRIBE RIGHT NOW BY CLICKING HERE

In this episode, you'll learn:

  1. The alchemy of combining personal development with a community and how it boosts your personal growth.
  2. The reason men don't feel safe together.
  3. How to manifest your ideal home using the Law of Attraction
  4. Why your integrity isn't where it should be and how to reclaim it! 

This Episode is banger!  Please be sure to tag us @fsbtribe on Instagram and share this episode with your community to spread the word if you or someone you know has benefited from this content.

 

OTHER FREE RESOURCES

Join THE FREE WARRIOR WALK:

The Mature Warrior Balances Inner Listening, Love and Power. 
Grab your smartphone, get outside, and prepare to reconnect with your Inner Warrior. https://www.fatherssonsbrothers.com/walk


Get The Unapologetically You Playbook

15 Questions to Ask Yourself To Reclaim Your Power & Live Your Fuck-Yes Life. Grab it for free by clicking here


Welcome To The King's Circle

Imagine living in a world where you can be 100% yourself. You're celebrated for your wins and always supported when things get tough. Imagine having access to a global network of men who will offer you reflection and support you through your challenges.  

As men, we've been told that we need to go it alone and always have our lives together. Bullshit. 

Life will always have challenges and initiations, walking your path alone is always more difficult and much less fun.

The King's Circle is your ticket to an easier and more fulfilling life. Connect with men from all walks of life who will accept and support you no matter what.

When you regularly attend our circle, you gain access to:

⭐️ A confidential and safe place to take a break and rest so that you can rejoin your life feeling inspired and refreshed.
⭐️ A place to take off the masks and be Unapologetically You. 

⭐️ A place to learn new tools as you connect with thought-leaders who will guide you to level up all areas of your life as you go.
⭐️A place to practice new ways of communicating, which will improve your relationships with your friends, partners and colleagues. 

As you connect deeper with each circle, you will improve your relationship with the other men. These brothers become your friends and your allies. Your relationship with yourself improves. You feel better in your body and make better choices. Your intimate relationships ignite with clarity, fire and passion. You get reconnected to your mission.

Are you ready to live your life like that? Join us at the upcoming King's Circle.

Held online, on the last Sunday of every month. Our circle is open and accepts you no matter where you are. Whether you are crushing it and ready to lead others or at rock bottom and don't know which way is up - all of you is welcome in our circle.

Secure your free seat here: https://www.fatherssonsbrothers.com/kings-circle

 

#40 Sex as Medicine with Blake Zealear04 Jun 202401:35:35

Imagine standing naked in a room full of people. How comfortable would you feel? This is just one of the intriguing questions my guest, Blake Zealear, poses in today's conversation. Together, we challenge a range of social norms, exploring topics from the healing power of sacred sexuality to the dynamics of polyamory. Whether you approach these subjects with confidence or reserve, this conversation promises to challenge your perspective.

In this episode, you'll learn:

  • What to expect as a polyamorist when you embrace love without restrictions.
  • Safeguards to help you navigate an open relationship, including advice on crafting healthy relationship agreements.
  • How to supercharge your personal development by embracing your femininity and the best place to start.
  • Powerful healing alternatives, from the ancient practice of Shamanism to harnessing your own sexual energy.
  • Discover how a men's retreat can help you become a stronger version of yourself through the power of brotherhood. 
  • Explore best practices for managing addiction and discover safe outlets you can use for emotional release.

This episode is all about healing! Please be sure to tag me @garethpickering on Instagram and share this episode with your community to spread the word if you or someone you know has benefited from this content! I love to hear about all your experiences. Also, be sure to leave a review on iTunes in order to receive a free meditation to reclaim your power. Just screenshot it before submitting it and email it to my team at studio@fatherssonsbrothers.com, and I will see you in the next episode.

Resource Links:

  1. Call To Courage Men's Retreat.
  2. "Radical Honesty" by Dr Brad Blanton
  3. Re/Men/Ber Retreats

Join THE FREE WARRIOR WALK:

The Mature Warrior Balances Inner Listening, Love and Power. 
Grab your smartphone, get outside, and prepare to reconnect with your Inner Warrior. https://www.fatherssonsbrothers.com/walk

Get The Unapologetically You Playbook

 15 Questions to Ask Yourself To Reclaim Your Power & Live Your Fuck-Yes Life. Grab it for free by clicking here


Welcome To The King's Circle

Imagine living in a world where you can be 100% yourself. You're celebrated for your wins and always supported when things get tough. Imagine having access to a global network of men who will offer you reflection and support you through your challenges.  

As men, we've been told that we need to go it alone and always have our lives together. Bullshit. 

Life will always have challenges and initiations, walking your path alone is always more difficult and much less fun.

The King's Circle is your ticket to an easier and more fulfilling life. Connect with men from all walks of life who will accept and support you no matter what.

When you regularly attend our circle, you gain access to:

⭐️ A confidential and safe place to take a break and rest so that you can rejoin your life feeling inspired and refreshed.
⭐️ A place to take off the masks and be Unapologetically You. 

⭐️ A place to learn new tools as you connect with thought-leaders who will guide you to level up all areas of your life as you go.
⭐️A place to practice new ways of communicating, which will improve your relationships with your friends, partners and colleagues. 

As you connect deeper with each circle, you will improve your relationship with the other men. These brothers become your friends and your allies. Your relationship with yourself improves. You feel better in your body and make better choices. Your intimate relationships ignite with clarity, fire and passion. You get reconnected to your mission.

Are you ready to live your life like that? Join us at the upcoming King's Circle.

Held online, on the last Sunday of every month. Our circle is open and accepts you no matter where you are. Whether you are crushing it and ready to lead others or at rock bottom and don't know which way is up - all of you is welcome in our circle.

Secure your free seat here: https://www.fatherssonsbrothers.com/kings-circle

About our guest: 

Blake is an evolutionary guide working at the intersection of men's work, feminism, sacred sexuality, and new paradigm relating. His multi-disciplinary approach provides the perspective, empowerment, permission and playfulness that enable a liberated reclaiming of his students' lives.

Blake has studied embodiment, Neuro-Linguistic Programming, Radical Honesty, Landmark technology, Tantric and Yogic practice, breathwork, shamanic sexuality, esoterics, polarity, non-traditional relationship design, shadow-work, and Spiral Dynamics, and he incorporates all of these into his teaching. He is devoted to the emergence of a new culture of love in our lifetimes, the transmutation of suffering into power, and the ascension of humanity through healing our relationships to ourselves and the Earth.

Connect with him on: 

WebsiteInstagram, YouTube, Facebook

About your host:
Gareth Pickering is an artist and thought leader. His inspiration is to create spaces for men to have open and honest conversations that shift their mindset and live life to the fullest. A human connection specialist who guides others to level up with their lives through relationships. Relationships are a rocket ship for personal development. Gareth provides the tools and maps to fly and land your rocket safely.

Connect with him on: 

Website, Instagram, Linkedin, X, Facebook

#39 "From People-Pleaser to Unapologetically You" with Dr Robert Glover08 May 202401:05:28

Are you meeting everyone else’s needs in the secret hope that they’ll meet yours? If you want to stop being that guy and start getting what you want, then listen to today’s episode with Dr. Robert Glover. He reveals the hidden strategies of the “Nice Guy” & what changes you can make for a life that lets you be unapologetically you!

What you’ll learn:

  • What is a “nice guy” & how do you know if you are one.
  • Ways to start taking responsibility for your own needs.
  • Why everybody struggles with relationships & how conscious dating is the way forward.
  • Honest dating advice and how to avoid the pitfalls.
  • Finding a partner that's right for you and recognising when you're being the "rescuer”.
  • The cost of porn & social media when it comes to sex and intimacy in your relationship.
  • Why it's impossible to love somebody more than you love yourself.

Get Free Access to the Unapologetically You Playbook.

15 Questions you must ask yourself to reclaim your power and live your Fuck-Yes life. Grab your free copy RIGHT NOW here

This episode is all about taking responsibility for your own needs! Please be sure to tag me @garethpickering on Instagram and share this episode with your community to spread the word if you or someone you know has benefited from this content! I love to hear about all your experiences. Also, be sure to leave a review on iTunes in order to receive a free meditation to reclaim your power. Just screenshot it before submitting it and email it to my team at studio@fatherssonsbrothers.com, and I will see you in the next episode.

Resource Links:

"No More Mr Nice Guy" by Dr Robert Glover

Neil Strauss

"Passionate Marriage" by Dr David Schnarch

Integration Nation

Welcome To The King’s Circle

Imagine living in a world where you can be 100% yourself. You’re celebrated for your wins and always supported when things get tough. Imagine having access to a global network of men who will offer you reflection and support you through your challenges.  

As men, we’ve been told that we need to go it alone and always have our lives together. Bullshit. 

Life will always have challenges and initiations, walking your path alone is always more difficult and much less fun.

The King’s Circle is your ticket to an easier and more fulfilling life. Connect with men from all walks of life who will accept and support you no matter what.

When you regularly attend our circle, you gain access to:

⭐️ A confidential and safe place to take a break and rest so that you can rejoin your life feeling inspired and refreshed.
⭐️ A place to take off the masks and be Unapologetically You. 

⭐️ A place to learn new tools as you connect with thought-leaders who will guide you to level up all areas of your life as you go.
⭐️A place to practice new ways of communicating, which will improve your relationships with your friends, partners and colleagues. 

As you connect deeper with each circle, you will improve your relationship with the other men. These brothers become your friends and your allies. Your relationship with yourself improves. You feel better in your body and make better choices. Your intimate relationships ignite with clarity, fire and passion. You get reconnected to your mission.

Are you ready to live your life like that?  Join us at the upcoming King’s Circle.

Held online, on the last Sunday of every month. Our circle is open and accepts you no matter where you are. Whether you are crushing it and ready to lead others or at rock bottom and don’t know which way is up - all of you is welcome in our circle.

Secure your free seat here: https://www.fatherssonsbrothers.com/kings-circle

The Fathers Sons Brothers Whatsapp Group.

Are you ready to step out of the chaos and polarised world of social media?

Our Whatsapp group is where men of all ages, races, backgrounds and stages of life connect and have safe, authentic and courageous conversations.

Learn about leadership, sexual mastery, conscious investing, biohacking, mindfulness, plant medicine, new ways of living together and much more.

Accept your invitation into the FSB WhatsApp community here: https://www.fatherssonsbrothers.com/whatsapp

About our guest: 

Dr. Robert Glover is an author, a marriage & family therapist, a coach, an educator, a sought-after public speaker, and a seminal figure in men’s self-improvement.

His groundbreaking book, "No More Mr. Nice Guy", has changed the lives of countless men around the world.

His other work – including his online courses and his books Dating Essentials for Men and Dating Essentials for Men: FAQ have been just as impactful. Dr. Glover has been featured in The New York Times, The Seattle Times, The Huffington Post, The Guardian, Men’s Health, and numerous other publications. He currently lives in Puerto Vallarta, Mexico.

Connect with him on: 

Website, LinkedIn

About your host:

Gareth Pickering is an artist and thought leader. His inspiration is to create spaces for men to have open and honest conversations that shift their mindset and live life to the fullest. He’s a human connection specialist who guides others to level up with their lives through “relationships”. Relationships are a rocket ship for personal development. Gareth provides the tools and maps to fly and land your rocket safely.

Connect with him on: 

Website, Instagram, Linkedin, X, Facebook

#38 “Awakening the Authentic Man: Your Guide to Emotional Mastery with Brett Simpson"28 Apr 202400:56:51

This is your sign, your personal message from the universe to stop avoiding yourself and to take an honest look. There is nothing like a partner, or children to start your journey of introspection, but if you want to be the best version of yourself, take a listen to this “reveal all” episode with my guest, Brett Simpson.

This episode is all about maturing your masculinity! Please be sure to tag me @garethpickering on Instagram and share this episode with your community to spread the word if you or someone you know has benefited from this content! I love to hear about all your experiences. Also, be sure to leave a review on iTunes in order to receive a free meditation to reclaim your power. Just screenshot it before submitting it and email it to my team at studio@fatherssonsbrothers.com, and I will see you in the next episode.

What you’ll learn:

  • What healthy masculinity looks like and how you can get there.
  • Why joining a men’s group is your first step to maturing your masculinity.
  • Ways you can find your authenticity, to step into your power and speak from your heart.
  • How as men we aren't taught to feel and ways to connect to your emotions through the body.
  • Why it’s a mistake to rely solely on your intellect when making decisions.
  • The power of emotions and how to use them to drive your personal success.

Resource links:

"Permission to Feel" by Marc Brackett

Emotional Agility by Susan David

Ram Dass

Sarah Blondin's guided meditation: "I love you. I am listening"

The Collective Man Workshop

________________

Call to Action:  👑 Welcome To The King’s Circle 👑

In a world that feels starved of connection, the king’s circle is where you reconnect, a global tribe of men already living the change we all want to see in the world.

Each circle features a level-up partner. This person shares their story, wisdom, or mastery that you can learn from and implement in your life. Connect with men from all walks of life who love and accept each other in every moment. Our circle is open and accepts you no matter where you are. Whether you are crushing it and ready to lead others or at rock bottom and don’t know which way is up, all of you are welcome in our circle.

When you regularly attend our circle, you gain access to:

⭐️ A confidential and safe place to take a break and rest. 

⭐️ A place to take off the masks. 

⭐️ 100% Authenticity community. You commit to showing up as your authentic self and know you'll be 100% accepted. 

⭐️ A place to learn new tools as you connect to thought leaders who will guide you, levelling up all areas of your life as you go.

As you connect deeper with each circle, you will improve your relationship with the other men. These brothers become your friends and your allies. Your relationship with yourself improves. You feel better in your body and make better choices. Your intimate relationships ignite with clarity, fire and passion. You get reconnected to your mission.

Are you ready to live your life like that? 

Welcome To The King's Circle.

Secure your free seat in our circle here: https://www.fatherssonsbrothers.com/kings-circle.

The Fathers Sons Brothers Whatsapp Group.

Are you ready to step out of the chaos and polarised world of social media?

Our Whatsapp group is where men of all ages, races, backgrounds and stages of life connect and have safe, authentic and courageous conversations.

Learn about leadership, sexual mastery, conscious investing, bio-hacking, mindfulness, plant medicine, new ways of living together and much more.

Accept your invitation into the FSB WhatsApp community here: https://www.fatherssonsbrothers.com/whatsapp

About our guest: 

Brett Simpson is a Life Coach who guides his clients through a journey of self-discovery and change. He challenges necessary patterns and beliefs and prepares them with tools and resources that will propel them forward.

Brett is the creator of the Collective Man, a leadership workshop for men to master their personal & professional relationships.

Having journeyed through cancer, Brett believes consciousness is the key to living a meaningful life, where each day is aligned to his truth. This truth isn’t always easy, which is why self-compassion is at the heart of his work, providing clients with a safe space for a gentle transition.

Connect with him on:

Website, InstagramLinkedinFacebook

About your host:

Gareth Pickering is an artist and thought leader. His inspiration is to create spaces for men to have open and honest conversations that shift their mindset and live life to the fullest. He’s a human connection specialist who guides others to level up with their lives through “relationships”. Relationships are a rocket ship for personal development. Gareth provides the tools and maps to fly and land your rocket safely.

Connect with him on: 

Website, Instagram, Linkedin, Twitter, Facebook

#73 Relationship Pillar 1: Inner Work - The Foundation02 Jun 202600:16:05

The Four Pillars of a Relationship. Pillar 1: Inner Work: The Foundation

Most men want to fix their relationship. When we work with them, they realise the relationship isn't the problem. 

In the first episode of our Four Pillars series, Gareth and Matt lay the foundation that supports everything else: the inner work most men skip. They also unpack why skipping the inner work means repeating the same pattern in every relationship you have.   Doing the inner work changes everything. It starts by seeing yourself clearly.  

🔥 Get the free Magnetic Masculine Masterclass - identify your specific pattern.

Click the link below, send a WhatsApp message and receive your link to the training:

Whatsapp Matt Dahse  

Want to go deeper?

🎧 Episode 72 - Go deeper on the six mother-wound patterns that drive most men's relationship struggles:

YouTube#72 You're Not Dating Her, You're Dating Your Mother Wound - 6 patterns sabotaging your relationship    

The Fathers Sons Brothers Podcast is hosted by Gareth Pickering and Matt Dahse.

New episodes every Thursday.

#37 How To Live A Life Of Honour- with Michael Skye.16 Apr 202401:14:53
Revolutionise yourself as a leader with today’s episode, where we motivate, challenge, and call forward your highest potential.

Today's guest, Michael Skye, reveals how to create a life of honour for yourself with his value of “no compromise.” Find out why every man should master self-responsibility and how Michael is using it to transform hundreds of men’s lives. Let’s dive in!

In this episode, you'll learn:

  • How to address the subconscious programming that’s causing you to compromise yourself.
  • How judging your father’s shortcomings prevent you from developing to your full potential.
  • Why fear & anxiety are keeping you stuck & how a capitalist mindset can deprive you of meaningful connections with the people you love.
  • The power of gifting as a practice to grow your wealth and financial abundance.
  • How receiving is actually an invitation for connection and why men struggle to receive.
  • Why radical self-responsibility affects everything in your life.
  • How never compromising is a key to building integrity as a man and a leader.

Episode resources:

Ayn Rand Institute

"The Fountainhead" by Ayn Rand

Couchsurfing

"Sacred Economics" by Charles Eisenstein

Dr Eliyahu Goldratt


This episode is all about honour! Please be sure to tag me @garethpickering on Instagram and share this episode with your community to spread the word if you or someone you know has benefited from this content! I love to hear about all your experiences. Also, be sure to leave a review on iTunes in order to receive a free meditation to reclaim your power. Just screenshot it before submitting it and email it to my team at studio@fatherssonsbrothers.com, and I will see you in the next episode.

👑Welcome To The King's Circle 👑

In a world that feels starved of connection, the king’s circle is where you reconnect, a global tribe of men already living the change we all want to see in the world.

Each circle also features a level-up partner. This person shares their story, wisdom or mastery that you can learn from and install in your life. Connect with men from all walks of life who love and accept each other in every moment. Our circle is open and accepts you no matter where you are. Whether you are crushing it and ready to lead others or at rock bottom and don’t know which way is up - all of you is welcome in our circle.

When you regularly attend our circle, you gain access to:

⭐️ A confidential and safe place to take a break and rest. 

⭐️ A place to take off the masks. 

⭐️ 100% Authenticity community. You commit to showing up as your authentic self and know you'll be 100% accepted. 

⭐️ A place to learn new tools as you connect to thought leaders who will guide you, levelling up all areas of your life as you go.

As you connect deeper with each circle, you will improve your relationship with the other men. These brothers become your friends and your allies. Your relationship with yourself improves. You feel better in your body and make better choices. Your intimate relationships ignite with clarity, fire and passion. You get reconnected to your mission.

Are you ready to live your life like that? 

Welcome To The King's Circle.

Secure your free seat in our circle here: https://www.fatherssonsbrothers.com/kings-circle.

The Fathers Sons Brothers Whatsapp Group

Are you ready to step out of the chaos and polarised world of social media?

Our Whatsapp group is where men of all ages, races, backgrounds and stages of life connect and have safe, authentic and courageous conversations.

Learn about leadership, sexual mastery, conscious investing, bio-hacking, mindfulness, plant medicine, new ways of living together and much more.

Accept your invitation into the FSB WhatsApp community here: https://www.fatherssonsbrothers.com/whatsapp

About our guest:

14 years ago, at the age of 39, Michael Skye gave up a great life as a transformational leader in Austin, Texas for a life of wild international adventure. As he travels, Michael enjoys creating new entrepreneurial endeavours and learning adventures, including transformational leadership retreats, training and safaris which he has led in three languages across six continents.

Michael routinely mentors young men and entrepreneurs as he travels and most recently created and hosted the CALLING ALL MEN summit. In 2024 he is returning to his life's work, which he calls "Honor Work".

Michael currently resides in the heart of Africa, where he has just welcomed the birth of his first child.

Connect with him on:

Instagram, TwitterYouTubeNewsletterFacebook

About your host:

Gareth Pickering is an artist and thought leader. His inspiration is to create spaces for men to have open and honest conversations that shift their mindset and live life to the fullest. He’s a human connection specialist who guides others to level up with their lives through “relationships”. Relationships are a rocket ship for personal development. Gareth provides the tools and maps to fly and land your rocket safely.

Connect with him on: 

Website, Instagram, Linkedin, Twitter, Facebook

This audio experience is a Fathers Sons Brothers production.

#36 Are you prepared for your life's second mountain?13 Apr 202400:26:00
Every man knows that he's here for something bigger than himself.

Men reach a stage where they've had material success, built a family and ticked some boxes that made their parents happy.  

This summit is called the first mountain. But you still have more life ahead of you, and something is stirring inside. What you create in the second half of your life is DIFFERENT from what you made in your first 40 years of life—this unknown is your second mountain.

Sadly, most men don't do anything about it. They numb the frustration and ignore their soul's calling to share the gifts that they've been given.

In this episode, Gareth and Brian share how to know if you're facing your second mountain and invite you to join them at The Call To Courage Retreat in Guatemala in July 2024.

This 5-day luxury men's experience is for men who are ready to climb their life's second mountain. You can learn more about the retreat and access early bird pricing before the end of April.

Our luxury villa on Lake Atitlan, Guatemala, only has space for eight men, and this retreat will sell out. So, if you're ready to give yourself the gift of an experience that will shift you onto a new timeline, don't delay. 

Secure your spot in our opening circle on the 23rd of July 2024 in Guatemala at:  https://fatherssonsbrothers.com/retreat


#35 We're Changing Our Name - The Evolution Of A Brand.11 Apr 202400:13:39
We're rebranding!

After two years and over 50 episodes of the Call To Courage, we've evolved. We're more precise about our message and have a simpler way to share it. So, this podcast is transitioning to its new name: The Fathers Sons Brother Podcast.

Fathers Sons Brothers is also the name of the production company that produces transformational men's experiences like the King's Circle, FSB Tribe, and the critically acclaimed first 4% program.

Transformational experiences are the nature of the conversations on this podcast, and we're excited to bring you even more in the future!

Join our free monthly The King's Circle. This gathering is our premium monthly men's event that takes place on the last Sunday of the month. Grab all the details about how you can connect with the powerful technology of men's work to support your personal growth here: https://www.fatherssonsbrothers.com/kings-circle

[Post-Game] Raise your vibration with this secret practice.16 Mar 202400:43:42

Do you know someone who has nervous energy whenever they're around technology? They're always scared they're going to "break something".

Do you know someone whose tech always "breaks" on them? Their Airdrop never works, data is not syncing, and they're continuously getting locked out of their services.

Have you ever noticed how those people are often the same person?

The person who worries the most about getting mugged manifests theft. It's like continually telling a story until it creates enough momentum to manifest into physical reality.

Thoughts become things.

If you hang outside the barbershop long enough, you'll end up with a haircut.

Changing the underlying vibration of how you engage with something is like walking away from the barbershop.

A new life direction.
A new timeline.
A new hairstyle.

In today's episode, Matt and Gareth discuss a process for creating a healthy relationship with all parts of your life. Use this process when opening a new bank account, buying a new laptop, or starting a new life chapter to bring ease and flow to your next phase.

Episode Resources:


The King's Circle:
Join The King's Circle 22: Do Hard Things Have An Easy Life. This free monthly men's experience is an act of personal hygiene. You shift some of the stuck energy you've been holding and leave feeling lighter and ready to serve your mission.

This month's gathering is on March 31st, and it will be live; no replays will be offered. If you want to understand the philosophy behind designing an easy life, secure your spot at The King's Circle 22 here: https://www.fatherssonsbrothers.com/kings-circle

Fathers Sons Brothers Whatsapp Group.
If you'd like to learn more about the exclusive leadership retreat in a luxury villa in Guatemala on the 23-28 July 2024, we'll drop the details in our Whatsapp group. Make sure you're ready to say yes to the Call To Courage Men's Retreat by joining the Whatsapp group here: https://www.fatherssonsbrothers.com/whatsapp

#34 Masculinity Unleashed: The Road to Authenticity with David A. Charles11 Mar 202401:30:10

Are you confused about how to be a man and embrace your masculinity?
Has the cultural conversation about "toxic masculinity" made you fearful about how to be a man in this world?

Men who are disconnected from their masculine power or don't feel safe expressing it in their lives cut themselves off from the powerful life force that all men are born with.

In today's conversation with David A. Charles, prepare to unleash your boundless potential as David uncovers powerful strategies to explore and balance your masculinity. The processes examined in this episode are crucial self-work for any man who wants to show up in his power as his authentic self.

This episode is all about reconnecting with your masculinity! Please be sure to tag me @garethpickering on Instagram and share this episode with your community to spread the word if you or someone you know has benefited from this content! I love to hear about all your experiences. Also, be sure to leave a review on iTunes in order to receive a free meditation to reclaim your power. Just screenshot it before submitting it and email it to my team at studio@fatherssonsbrothers.com, and I will see you in the next episode.

Learn all this and more in today’s episode:


• Authenticity as the highest potentiality for men and how to achieve it.
• How to start feeling the emotions men have been encouraged to suppress.
• Uncover how a negative opinion towards authority can cause distrust in ourselves, preventing us from creating the life we want.
• Understand the key distinction between emotional courage and vulnerability and face any situation head-on.
• The stage of your relationship and why outsourcing qualities to a partner is detrimental to you both.
• How enacting the role of head of the family can activate a powerful part of yourself and what shifts in your life when your father passes.
• A framework to deepen your connection with a parent when the relationship is challenging.
• Why men’s work is vital for the modern man & the challenges impeding our growth.

Episode resources:


"Raising Boys" by Steven Biddulph
Video: “You should be the strongest person at your father’s funeral”
“Keys to the Kingdom” by Alison Armstrong
“The Way of the Superior Man” by David Deida

Episode  Sponsors:

👑 Welcome To The King’s Circle 👑

In a world that feels starved of connection, the king’s circle is where you reconnect, a global tribe of men already living the change we all want to see in the world.

Each circle also features a level-up partner. This person shares their story, wisdom, or mastery that you can learn from and implement in your life. Connect with men from all walks of life who love and accept each other in every moment. Our circle is open and accepts you no matter where you are. Whether you are crushing it and ready to lead others or at rock bottom and don’t know which way is up, all of you are welcome in our circle.

When you regularly attend our circle, you gain access to:
⭐️ A confidential and safe place to take a break and rest.
⭐️ A place to take off the masks.
⭐️ 100% Authenticity community. You commit to showing up as your authentic self and know you'll be 100% accepted.
⭐️ A place to learn new tools as you connect to thought leaders who will guide you, levelling up all areas of your life as you go.

As you connect deeper with each circle, you will improve your relationship with the other men. These brothers become your friends and your allies. Your relationship with yourself improves. You feel better in your body and make better choices. Your intimate relationships ignite with clarity, fire and passion. You get reconnected to your mission.

Are you ready to live your life like that?

Welcome To The King's Circle.

Secure your free seat in our circle here: https://www.fatherssonsbrothers.com/kings-circle.

The Fathers Sons Brothers Whatsapp Group.

Are you ready to step out of the chaos and polarised world of social media?

Our Whatsapp group is where men of all ages, races, backgrounds and stages of life connect and have safe, authentic and courageous conversations.

Learn about leadership, sexual mastery, conscious investing, bio-hacking, mindfulness, plant medicine, new ways of living together and much more.

Accept your invitation into the FSB WhatsApp community here: https://www.fatherssonsbrothers.com/whatsapp.

About our guest:

David stands as a revolutionary leader in men's work and masculinity, paving the way with his unique approach to guiding men and awakening their masculinity.

With over two decades of experience in leading, teaching, and coaching across various industries, he seamlessly integrates a diverse array of modalities from both Eastern and Western traditions. His study has included Embodiment, Tantra, NLP, Life and Business Coaching, Hypnosis, Kinesiology, Meditation, Breath-work, and Somatic therapies.

This fusion of experience and training allows him to create profound and deeply transformational spaces.
David specializes in helping men embrace their masculinity, power, certainty, and self-worth, and he is dedicated to ensuring they don't spend another year or even decade not embodying the man they were born to be. So that they can cultivate passionate, loving relationships and create wildly successful and impactful careers or businesses.

Connect with him:

Instagram, FacebookPodcast

About your host:

Gareth Pickering is an artist and thought leader. His inspiration is to create spaces for men to have open and honest conversations that shift their mindset and live life to the fullest. He’s a human connection specialist who guides others to level up with their lives through “relationships”. Relationships are a rocket ship for personal development. Gareth provides the tools and maps to fly and land your rocket safely.

Connect with him on:
Website, Instagram, LinkedIn, Twitter, Facebook

 

89 Days Without Ejaculating [Post-Game]23 Jan 202400:31:01
It's been 89 days since my last ejaculation.

That's probably not something that you hear every day. If I'd heard that fifteen years ago, I'd have asked, "Why would you punish yourself like that?" I hadn't even heard of "ejaculation choice" fifteen years ago. I thought every sexual act had ejaculation as the goal - "That's why we're doing this!"

What I've come to learn is that each time you ejaculate, you dispel energy. That's why you feel sleepy and have low energy after sex. But, it is possible to have a potent and active sex life where you don't ejaculate every time.

In this episode of The Call To Courage, Gareth shares his journey and what he learned over the last 89 days without ejaculating. (spoiler: This does NOT mean not having sex or self-pleasuring during this time). 

Gareth also shares the name of his sex coach and how you can connect with him directly if you want to use these practices to improve your sex life and reclaim the energy you may be leaking.

The Unshakable Mind Conference: 

Join this live conversation with Brett W Simpson, which teaches you how to use meditation as a tool to develop an unshakable mind. This conference takes place, and you can access it for free inside the Fathers Sons Brothers WhatsApp group here: https://www.fatherssonsbrothers.com/whatsapp

From CEO to Sex Coach:

This is the episode of the Call To Courage that Gareth refers to in this episode. Grab it here: https://www.fatherssonsbrothers.com/podcasts/call-to-courage/episodes/2147883763 

Lucid Dream: A Luxury Eco Cabin In Guatemala

This is the sustainable building project Gareth and Araminta have recently finished that he spoke about in this episode. https://www.instagram.com/luxuryeconestantigua/

#33 Hedonic Planning - Prioritise your calendar to serve yourself first.24 Dec 202300:29:43
A 30 Minute Investment To Emerge As Your Best-Self in 2024

Life improves when you prioritize the things that matter to you. But waiting for a gap in the calendar is the ultimate Dream Killer.

Our lives feel more rushed, more to do in less time. The solution is in hedonic calendaring -putting time in your calendar for the things that bring you the most joy.

In this episode, Gareth and Brian get into the process of Hedonic Calendaring and share the daily, weekly, monthly, quarterly and annual time suggestions that create a solid and steady rhythm.

When you install this calendaring process in your life, it aligns your time allocation with your values. Time is a precious gift; this 30-minute process shows you how to make the most of your sacred life.

Welcome to Pregame 2024:

If you want to dive a layer deeper into your 2024 planning, join us for a live event: Pregame 2024. This takes place online via Zoom on the 28th of December, 2023. It's our final live event for the year and will help you integrate the Hedonic Calendaring with two supporting tools so that you win in 2024. 

Secure your free spot here: https://www.fatherssonsbrothers.com/pregame2024

Mountains Movement Mindset 2024

If you want to be first in line for the limited spots in Guatemala for Mountains Movement Mindset, send Brian or Gareth a DM on Instagram to be notified as soon as this launches. (https://www.instagram.com/garethpickering/ or https://www.instagram.com/brianchristianjenkins/ 

 

This episode is sponsored by The King's Circle. 

In a world that feels starved of connection, the king’s circle is where you reconnect, a global tribe of men already living the change we all want to see in the world.
Each circle also features a level-up partner. This person shares their story, wisdom or mastery that you can learn from and install in your life. Connect with men from all walks of life who love and accept each other in every moment. Our circle is open and accepts you no matter where you are. Whether you are crushing it and ready to lead others or at rock bottom and don’t know which way is up - all of you is welcome in our circle.

When you regularly attend our circle, you gain access to:
⭐️ A confidential and safe place to take a break and rest.
⭐️ A place to take off the masks.
⭐️ 100% Authenticity community. You commit to showing up as your authentic self and know you'll be 100% accepted.
⭐️ A place to learn new tools as you connect to thought leaders who will guide you, levelling up all areas of your life as you go.

As you connect deeper with each circle, you will improve your relationship with the other men. These brothers become your friends and your allies. Your relationship with yourself improves. You feel better in your body and make better choices. Your intimate relationships ignite with clarity, fire and passion. You get reconnected to your mission.

Are you ready to live your life like that?

Welcome To The King's Circle.
Secure your free seat in our circle here: https://www.fatherssonsbrothers.com/kings-circle

 

Integrity Inside Out [Weekly Postgame]13 Dec 202300:20:44
Integrity Inside Out

How do you reflect on the time in your life when you've acted out of integrity? If you're committed to your personal growth, your level of consciousness is constantly evolving. This means you'll continually make better choices and hold yourself to a higher and higher level of integrity. 

So what do you do when you slip out of integrity and don't make your best choices or honour your agreements? 

This week on the Post-Game, Gaeth shares his journey with integrity and how it was recently challenged. 


Resources mentioned in this episode:

👑 Welcome To The King's Circle 👑

In a world that feels starved of connection, the king's circle is where you reconnect, a global tribe of men already living the change we all want to see in the world.

Each circle also features a level-up partner. This person shares their story, wisdom or mastery that you can learn from and install in your life. Connect with men from all walks of life who love and accept each other in every moment. Our circle is open and accepts you no matter where you are. Whether you are crushing it and ready to lead others or at rock bottom and don't know which way is up - all of you is welcome in our circle.


When you regularly attend our circle, you gain access to:

⭐️ A confidential and safe place to take a break and rest. 

⭐️ A place to take off the masks. 

⭐️ 100% Authenticity community. You commit to showing up as your authentic self and know you'll be 100% accepted. 

⭐️ A place to learn new tools as you connect to thought leaders who will guide you, levelling up all areas of your life as you go.

As you connect deeper with each circle, you will improve your relationship with the other men. These brothers become your friends and your allies. Your relationship with yourself improves. You feel better in your body and make better choices. Your intimate relationships ignite with clarity, fire and passion. You get reconnected to your mission.

Are you ready to live your life like that? 

Welcome To The King's Circle.

Secure your free seat in our circle here: https://www.fatherssonsbrothers.com/kings-circle

The Fathers Sons Brothers Whatsapp Group.

Are you ready to step out of the chaos and polarised world of social media?

Our Whatsapp group is where men of all ages, races, backgrounds and stages of life connect and have safe, authentic and courageous conversations.

Learn about leadership, sexual mastery, conscious investing, bio-hacking, mindfulness, plant medicine, new ways of living together and much more.

Accept your invitation into the FSB WhatsApp community here: https://www.fatherssonsbrothers.com/whatsapp

Episode #32 Of The Call To Courage: "#32 Mastering manifestation to create your dream life, with Matt Dahse"

Get ready to have your scepticism about manifestation shattered as my co-host, Matt Dahse, unpacks his manifestation journey! From manifesting his life partner to being the ultimate parent to his son, Matt has cracked the code on how to transform your life through manifestation!

As a former investment banker, Matt speaks about his shadow self and unveils his alter ego, Jordan Belfort! He shares the fear it created and how it blocked money flow into his life. Matt's reallocation of Jordan has harnessed his superpowers and conquered this money block once and for all!

Watch this episode of the pod here: https://youtu.be/eqwVYE1uLE4

#32 Mastering manifestation to create your dream life, with Matt Dahse11 Dec 202300:35:51

Get ready to have your scepticism about manifestation shattered as my co-host, Matt Dahse, unpacks his manifestation journey! From manifesting his life partner to being the ultimate parent to his son, Matt has cracked the code on how to transform your life through manifestation!

As a former investment banker, Matt speaks about his shadow self and unveils his alter ego, Jordan Belfort! He shares the fear it created and how it blocked money flow into his life. Matt's reallocation of Jordan has harnessed his superpowers and conquered this money block once and for all!

Learn all this and more in today’s episode:

• Harness the power of the pre-game to manifest everyday magic in your life!

• Propel your manifestations forward when you feel stuck in a rut.

• Master the art of future-state journaling with a step-by-step technique.

• Learn to track your shadow like a skilled ranger & work with it to move your life forward.

• Craft a clear direction for your life and relationships through the power of radical honesty.

This episode is all about manifestation and how to use it to create change in your life! Please be sure to tag me @garethpickering on Instagram and share this episode with your community to spread the word if you or someone you know has benefited from this content! I love to hear about all your experiences. Also, be sure to leave a review on iTunes in order to receive a free meditation to reclaim your power. Just screenshot it before submitting it and email it to my team at studio@fatherssonsbrothers.com, and I will see you in the next episode.

 

👑 Welcome To The King’s Circle 👑

In a world that feels starved of connection, the King’s Circle is where you reconnect with a global tribe of men already living the change we all want to see in the world.

Each circle features a level-up partner. This person shares their story, wisdom or mastery that you can learn from and install in your life. Connect with men from all walks of life who love and accept each other in every moment. Our circle is open and accepts you no matter where you are. Whether you are crushing it and ready to lead others or at rock bottom and don’t know which way is up - all of you is welcome in our circle.

When you regularly attend our circle, you gain access to:

⭐️ A confidential and safe place to take a break and rest.

⭐️ A place to take off the masks.

⭐️ 100% Authenticity community. You commit to showing up as your authentic self and know you'll be 100% accepted.

⭐️ A place to learn new tools as you connect to thought leaders who will guide you, levelling up all areas of your life as you go.

As you connect deeper with each circle, you will improve your relationship with the other men. These brothers become your friends and your allies. Your relationship with yourself improves. You feel better in your body and make better choices. Your intimate relationships ignite with clarity, fire and passion. You get reconnected to your mission.

Are you ready to live your life like that? Welcome To The King's Circle.

Secure your free seat in our circle here: https://www.fatherssonsbrothers.com/kings-circle


The Fathers Sons Brothers Whatsapp Group.

Are you ready to step out of the chaos and polarised world of social media?

Our Whatsapp group is where men of all ages, races, backgrounds and stages of life connect and have safe, authentic and courageous conversations.

Learn about leadership, sexual mastery, conscious investing, bio-hacking, mindfulness, plant medicine, new ways of living together and much more.

Accept your invitation into the FSB WhatsApp community here: https://www.fatherssonsbrothers.com/whatsapp

About our guest:

Matt Dahse is a father and conscious creator, designing pathways for men to follow to unlock their potential and step into their power.

About our host:

Gareth Pickering is an artist and thought leader. His inspiration is to create spaces for men to have open and honest conversations that shift their mindset and live life to the fullest. He’s a human connection specialist who guides others to level up with their lives through “relationships”. Relationships are a rocket ship for personal development. Gareth provides the tools and maps to fly and land your rocket safely. Connect with him on:

Website, Instagram, LinkedIn, Twitter, Facebook

This audio experience is a Fathers Sons Brothers production.

Who do we need to become? [FSB Postgame]22 Nov 202300:24:26
"Until this changes, nothing changes"

This week on the post-game, Matt and Gareth share an essential manifestation tip you can use to make the necessary shift to call in the life you want right now.

Resources from this episode:

  1. Recently launched episode #31 of The Call To Courage with Frank Mondeose, titled "No One is coming to Save Us." watch it here.
  2. Join our free leadership conference with Frank inside the Fathers Sons Brothers Whatsapp group. (More info and join link here
  3. The Elizabeth Gilbert TED Talk Matt and I geek out about in minute 18: https://youtu.be/86x-u-tz0MA?si=DGw0xVw657OVGcpo


It's a jam-packed week episode full of inspiration, tools to support your evolution, and a chance to connect with our global tribe.


👑 This Post-Game is bought to you by the King's Circle 👑

In a world that feels starved of connection, the king’s circle is where you reconnect, a global tribe of men already living the change we all want to see in the world. Each circle also features a level-up partner. This person shares their story, wisdom or mastery that you can learn from and install in your life. Connect with men from all walks of life who love and accept each other in every moment.

Our circle is open and accepts you no matter where you are. Whether you are crushing it and ready to lead others or at rock bottom and don’t know which way is up - all of you is welcome in our circle.

When you regularly attend our circle, you gain access to:
⭐️ A confidential and safe place to take a break and rest.
⭐️ A place to take off the masks.
⭐️ 100% Authenticity community. You commit to showing up as your authentic self and know you'll be 100% accepted.
⭐️ A place to learn new tools as you connect to thought leaders who will guide you, levelling up all areas of your life as you go.

As you connect deeper with each circle, you will improve your relationship with the other men. These brothers become your friends and your allies. Your relationship with yourself improves. You feel better in your body and make better choices. Your intimate relationships ignite with clarity, fire and passion.

You get reconnected to your mission.

Are you ready to live your life like that?

Welcome To The King's Circle.
Secure your free seat in our circle here.

#72 You're Not Dating Her, You're Dating Your Mother Wound - 6 patterns sabotaging your relationship05 May 202600:22:44

The relationship challenges you’re experiencing today didn’t begin with your partner.

They began with the very first intimate relationship you ever had.

Long before you knew what love was supposed to look like, your nervous system was already learning: whether it was safe to be seen, whether your needs would be met.

That teacher was your mother.

And the strategies you developed to navigate that first relationship followed you into every connection you’ve had since. They may be shaping how you love, how you shut down, and why some men find themselves repeating the same relationship patterns no matter how much they want things to be different.

In this episode of the Father Sons Brothers Podcast, Gareth and Matt explore the six core mother wounds at the root of most relationship patterns in men, and the shadow work required to finally break the cycle.

In this episode, you will discover:

  • The six core mother wounds: the Approval Seeker, the Emotional Caretaker, the Avoidant Man, the Good Boy, the Hyper-Independent Man, and the Little Prince. Find out which one is most alive in you
  • Why the Good Boy is the most common relationship wound Gareth and Matt see in men, and how niceness, agreeability and hidden desire slowly drain polarity from your relationship
  • What reparenting means in practice, and the three S’s of transformation that take a man from recognising his childhood patterns to genuinely changing them
  • Why doing this shadow work alone can make lasting change harder to reach, and what real brotherhood looks like for men serious about growth

Whether you're deep in this work or just beginning, this episode will give you something real to take into your relationships. Press play.

Additional resources:

In this episode Gareth and Matt reference Dr. Robert Glover’s work on the Nice Guy, author of No More Mr. Nice Guy. If the Good Boy wound resonated with you, Ep 39 is a great next listen.

RELATIONSHIP FUNDAMENTALS FOR MEN

We’ve just released a brand-new masterclass: The Magnetic Masculine: Relationship Fundamentals for Men.

This potent 60-minute training gives you the relationship tools you should have learnt in school but didn’t. Around 30 minutes of teaching, followed by 30 minutes of powerful journaling prompts.

Whether you’re single and searching, recently heartbroken, or in a relationship that needs some spark. This free training is for you.

Join Gareth inside the Magnetic Masculine Masterclass here: https://www.fatherssonsbrothers.com/mmm-register

ABOUT YOUR HOSTS

Gareth Pickering is an artist and thought leader. His inspiration is to create spaces for men to have open, honest conversations that shift their mindsets and help them live life to the fullest. He’s a human connection specialist who guides others to level up with their lives through “relationships”. Relationships are a rocket ship for personal development. Gareth provides the tools and maps to fly and land your rocket safely.

Connect with him on: Website, Instagram, LinkedIn, YouTube, Facebook

Matt Dahse is a father and conscious creator, designing pathways for men to follow to unlock their potential and step into their power.

#31 No one is coming to save us, with Frank Mondeose.16 Nov 202301:31:02
** SPECIAL ANNOUNCEMENT **

Frank confirmed he will present a FREE leadership conference inside the FSB Whatsapp group. More info and your special access here: https://fatherssonsbrothers.com/whatsapp


In today's episode, Gareth chats with Frank Mondeose, and they discuss the peace that comes from taking responsibility for your own life.

In this episode, you'll learn:

  • The importance of self-responsibility and how to cultivate it if you're to become a conscious creator.
  • Recognising victimhood and how to step back into your power.
  • Being polyamorous and what it takes to make it work.
  • Why every intimate relationship requires courage & the truth behind what remains unsaid.
  • The essence of brotherhood and using it to upgrade your talents.
  • The best way to support a man in crisis when he's struggling to reach out for help.
  • Our misplaced sense of scarcity and why you should collaborate rather than compete.
  • Going through a breakdown, the epic comeback, and how to apply the lessons learned.
  • The modern midlife crisis and what to introduce for a more fulfilling life.

This episode is all about self-responsibility and how to step into your power! Make sure you tag me @garethpickering on Instagram and share this episode with your community to spread the word if you or someone you know has benefited from this content! I love to hear about all your experiences. Also, be sure to leave a review on iTunes to receive a free meditation to reclaim your power. Just screenshot it before submitting it and email it to my team at studio@fatherssonsbrothers.com, and I will see you in the next episode.

Episode resources:

Love And Eros

ReMenber Brotherhood Journey

The Spiritual Playboy

John Trudell

The Daring World Podcast

About our guest

A contemporary voice on Love, Eros & Relating, Frank Mondeose embodies both play and pray. Lead faculty with ISTA, the International Schools of Temple Arts, co-founder of ReMENber Brotherhood Journey, Shamanic Minister for Venus Rising Association for Transformation, and creator of the lifestyle brand Monde Osé, Frank has touched the hearts, and minds of many, whether it be through tantalising their imaginations at his multi-sensorial events, to inspirational interactions that have navigated people to accessing their personal power.

 Frank holds an unapologetic, no-nonsense container. It is a space to step out of one's comfort zone and meet their edges in a compassionately ruthless manner. His containers are solidly held, in a protected and safe environment where all emotions and expressions are welcome and celebrated.

Connect with him on: Website, Facebook

About your host

Gareth Pickering is an artist and thought leader. His inspiration is to create spaces for men to have open and honest conversations that shift their mindset and live life to the fullest. He's a human connection specialist who guides others to level up with their lives through "relationships". Relationships are a rocket ship for personal development. Gareth provides the tools and maps to fly and land your rocket safely.

Connect with him on: Website, Instagram, Linkedin, Twitter, Facebook

This audio experience is a Fathers Sons Brothers production.

👑 Welcome To The King's Circle 👑

In a world that feels starved of connection, the king's circle is where you reconnect, a global tribe of men already living the change we all want to see in the world.

Each circle also features a level-up partner. This person shares their story, wisdom or mastery that you can learn from and install in your life. Connect with men from all walks of life who love and accept each other in every moment. Our circle is open and accepts you no matter where you are. Whether you are crushing it and ready to lead others or at rock bottom and don't know which way is up - all of you is welcome in our circle.

When you regularly attend our circle, you gain access to:

⭐️ A confidential and safe place to take a break and rest. 

⭐️ A place to take off the masks. 

⭐️ 100% Authenticity community. You commit to showing up as your authentic self and know you'll be 100% accepted. 

⭐️ A place to learn new tools as you connect to thought leaders who will guide you, levelling up all areas of your life as you go.

As you connect deeper with each circle, you will improve your relationship with the other men. These brothers become your friends and your allies. Your relationship with yourself improves. You feel better in your body and make better choices. Your intimate relationships ignite with clarity, fire and passion. You get reconnected to your mission.

Are you ready to live your life like that? 

Welcome To The King's Circle.

Secure your free seat in our circle here: https://www.fatherssonsbrothers.com/kings-circle

 

Entrepreneurship: Get clear and shift fear. [Weekly Post-Game]13 Nov 202300:17:16

Have you ever dreamt about being an entrepreneur? Would you like to start a business where you share your gifts, decide your hours and write your own paycheque?

Starting and running a business is a dream for many, but the road to success is paved with challenges. In this episode, Matt and Gareth share their journey to building the rapidly growing Fathers Sons Brothers men's brand and the challenges they've had to overcome.

Make sure you secure your spot in this month's King's Circle, where Matt will share a tool he uses to support his clients in finding their authentic voice, and you can use it to find your voice, too.

Each men's circle we host has a new theme; if you miss this circle, you miss the magic. So, if you want to prepare for your entrepreneurial journey, get clear on how to share your gifts and shift any fear that's currently holding you back; make sure you're at this month's King's Circle.

More info and your invitation to our live event are here: https://www.fatherssonsbrothers.com/kings-circle

The Power of the Postgame02 Nov 202300:23:27
I dare you to disappear for six months and emerge as a new man.

In this bulletin, Matt and Gareth share a process that you can use to get ahead by looking back. When you take the time to post-game the significant moments of your life, you reframe "failures" into "gifts". The post-game that you'll learn in this episode will also help you overcome a man's natural tendency to over-focus on what's "not yet done" over what you've achieved. When you go through this process, you reflect on how far you've come, and you feel lighter and more at ease.

If you're ready to journey deeper with the FSB tribe and the potent technology of men's work, check out our Tribe membership. We've got a special launch offer for to join the tribe for just $1.40 per day. This is the best ROI available on your personal evolution journey.

Your tribe membership gives you access to the six-month Core Scaffolding training program, monthly tribe-only gathering, private Slack channel, The King's Rolodex and loads more goodies. Join us: https://www.fatherssonsbrothers.com/tribe2023.

Attention: This special offer expires at midnight on Monday, November 6th, so if you're ready to step into the next evolution of yourself, don't miss this opportunity. 

Join our Courageous Men Only Whatsapp group: https://chat.whatsapp.com/GMd4tctYJ5D7go0QSzYDcP

# 30 Man to Man: What you Need to Know About Joining a Men's Group, with Mikaal Bates24 Oct 202301:36:58

If you’re a conscious man looking for the next level of your evolution, a men’s group is the answer.  Fellow men’s coach Mikaal Bates & I examine the power of these groups, how this age-old tradition of men supporting each other elevates every aspect of ourselves and why it’s worth protecting. 

Find out how to get the best out of a men’s group, plus: 

  • Why the lone wolf mentality doesn’t serve you.
  • The value of joining a men’s group & what it means to be truly seen, including the positive effect on your mental health.
  • Examining the impact of postmodernism on the family and how it's affected all men.
  • Unpacking the fundamental question, “What does it mean to be a man?”.
  • The importance of having a rite of passage into manhood & how to create them for yourself and young men.
  • How to not turn your partner into your therapist, including which problems you should stop taking to them.
  • How to break out of being a “people-pleaser” & how this will improve all your relationships.
  • Using polarity mapping to navigate imbalances for a more integrated self.
  • Preparing for life's unforeseen hardships with the “Morning STACK”.

Mikaal is an OG when it comes to men's work, and this episode is must-listen for those looking to show up fully integrated and fully in their power.

Resource Links

Jamie Wheal

David Deida

The (Re)Masculation Podcast

Joseph Campbell's "The Hero's Journey"

"Men's Rites of Passage"

"Red Circle" Men's Group

About our guest:

Mikaal is a Men's Coach, Men's Work Facilitator, Ritualist, Couples Counsellor, Psychedelic Integration Guide, and host of the "ReMasculation" Podcast.  He invites you to awaken your true purpose and feel the call to Warriorship, with his men’s group, Red Circle.  Join other high-impact men to cultivate mind, body and spirit through group sharing, rites of passage, and embodied practice.

Reach him on:

WebsiteLinkedIn, InstagramFacebookYouTube

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👑 Welcome To The King’s Circle 👑

In a world that feels starved of connection, the king’s circle is where you reconnect, a global tribe of men already living the change we all want to see in the world.

Each circle also features a level-up partner. This person shares their story, wisdom or mastery that you can learn from and install in your life. Connect with men from all walks of life who love and accept each other in every moment. Our circle is open and accepts you no matter where you are. Whether you are crushing it and ready to lead others or at rock bottom and don’t know which way is up - all of you is welcome in our circle.


When you regularly attend our circle, you gain access to:

⭐️ A confidential and safe place to take a break and rest. 

⭐️ A place to take off the masks. 

⭐️ 100% Authenticity community. You commit to showing up as your authentic self and know you'll be 100% accepted. 

⭐️ A place to learn new tools as you connect to thought leaders who will guide you, levelling up all areas of your life as you go.

As you connect deeper with each circle, you will improve your relationship with the other men. These brothers become your friends and your allies. Your relationship with yourself improves. You feel better in your body and make better choices. Your intimate relationships ignite with clarity, fire and passion. You get reconnected to your mission.

Are you ready to live your life like that? 

Welcome To The King's Circle.

Secure your free seat in our circle here: https://www.fatherssonsbrothers.com/kings-circle

About your host:

Gareth Pickering is an artist and thought leader. His inspiration is to create spaces for men to have open and honest conversations that shift their mindset and live life to the fullest. He’s a human connection specialist who guides others to level up with their lives through “relationships”. Relationships are a rocket ship for personal development. Gareth provides the tools and maps to fly and land your rocket safely.

Connect with him on: 

WebsiteInstagramLinkedinTwitterFacebook

This audio experience is a Fathers Sons Brothers production.

 

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