Explore every episode of the podcast EVOLVE with Dr. Tay: the podcast for parents of autistic kids
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| 129 | from diagnosis to adulthood: author Carrie Cariello's insights | 04 Sep 2024 | 00:50:04 | |
ABOUT THIS EPISODE (+ scroll for resources) 👇 In this episode, Dr. Tay speaks with Carrie Cariello, a mother of five, including an autistic young adult. Carrie shares her family's journey, advocacy work, and the unique challenges and triumphs of raising an autistic child. They discuss practical strategies for fostering independence, the importance of community, navigating the education system, and marital dynamics. Carrie also shares insights into the transition to young adulthood, including finding supportive college programs. This episode offers hope, practical advice, and a reminder that families are not alone in their journey. 00:00 Introduction and Guest Overview 02:09 Meet Carrie Cariello: A Journey Through Autism 03:00 Carrie's Family and Early Diagnosis 04:07 From Writing to Advocacy 06:40 Navigating Challenges and Safety Concerns 08:59 Parenting Strategies and Splinter Skills 17:50 Redefining Family Dynamics 27:48 Parenting Challenges and Triumphs 28:41 Navigating Discomfort and Fix-It Mode 29:16 Dinner Time Dilemmas 31:28 College Program Search 36:24 Balancing Marriage and Parenting 40:12 Encouraging Independence 45:48 Final Thoughts and Resources RESOURCES ⚡️ connect with Carrie >> Instagram @carrie_cariello Facebook @whatcolorismonday Website Link: https://carriecariello.substack.com ⚡️ want to learn more about Dr. Tay's Whole Family Approach and current services offered? visit drtaylorday.com ⚡️ learn from me and submit your questions [could be featured on a future episode] >> Instagram @the.dr.tay TikTok @the.dr.tay *please note: in this episode, many terminologies and phrases are used to describe autism. Dr. Tay honors what each child and family prefers, and intentionally chooses to use affirming and identity-first language after listening to autistic adults and their preferences. various guests on the podcast are likely to use the language that they have been exposed to the most. | |||
| 128 | ACT and neurodiversity affirming approaches in ABA with Unfurling Littles | 21 Aug 2024 | 00:53:20 | |
ABOUT THIS EPISODE (+ scroll for resources) 👇 In this episode, Dr. Tay hosts Maggie of Unfurling Littles and explores Applied Behavior Analysis (ABA) from an Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) lens. They discuss how to incorporate neurodiversity-affirming practices into ABA to create a compassionate, child-led approach. Maggie shares her journey into the field, her own lived experience as an autistic individual, and practical examples of how ACT principles can be applied within ABA for the benefit of both children and their families. The episode also addresses common concerns about traditional ABA and offers insights on fostering mindful play and regulation. 00:00 Introduction and Podcast Overview 00:46 Guest Introduction: Maggie from Unfurling Littles 02:33 Maggie's Journey into Early Childhood Special Education 03:43 Challenges and Criticisms of ABA 06:28 Maggie's Personal Neurodivergence Story 08:29 Founding Unfurling Littles and Professional Challenges 10:59 Navigating ABA and Neurodiversity Affirming Practices 14:38 Introduction to ACT (Acceptance and Commitment Therapy) 16:39 Implementing ACT in Family and Child Goals 21:26 Balancing Family and Child Values in Therapy 27:08 Practical Applications of ACT in Therapy 29:25 Measuring Engagement and Joy in Child Interactions 29:59 Integrating Child-Led Approaches in Therapy 30:27 Present Moment Awareness and Neurodiversity Affirming Practices 32:04 Mindfulness in Neurodiversity Affirming Care 34:16 Handling Dysregulation with ACT Principles 36:32 The Importance of Validating Emotions 40:41 Healing Through Neurodiversity Affirming Practices 44:33 The Evolution and Future of ABA 50:49 Connecting with Families and Resources 52:45 Final Thoughts and Next Steps RESOURCES ⚡️ connect with Maggie on Instagram @unfurling_littles and her website https://www.unfurlinglittles.com ⚡️ want to learn more about Dr. Tay's Whole Family Approach and current services offered? visit drtaylorday.com ⚡️ join the Evolve Facebook community to participate in the episode Q+As >> facebook.com/groups/evolveautism ⚡️ learn from me and submit your questions [could be featured on a future episode] >> Note: PDA is a theorized profile of autism and not a clinical diagnosis. however, it has been a helpful conceptualization for many parents to learn about how their child's brain is wired. our knowledge of PDA is currently unfolding and I do my best to share up-to-date, balanced information. to learn more about PDA, please listen to episode 110 | |||
| 119 | navigating neurodiversity and inclusion in education with Chandele Morris | 19 Jun 2024 | 00:47:59 | |
ABOUT THIS EPISODE (+ scroll for resources) 👇 Dr. Tay and Chandele Morris, an inclusive educational consultant and author, discuss the barriers in the educational system, the importance of understanding neurodiversity and tangible steps to be better advocates for autistic children. Chandele shares her experiences as a former educator and a parent of an autistic/ADHD child, emphasizing the need for inclusive education and the significance of updating educational training. The episode also highlights practical strategies for creating inclusive classrooms and the role of community and resources in supporting neurodivergent children. 00:00 Introduction to the Educational System and Advocacy 00:41 Meet Chandele Morris, an Inclusive Educational Consultant 02:25 Understanding Neurodiversity in Education 03:29 Challenges in Teacher Training and Awareness 05:45 The Need for Systemic Change in Education 09:24 Inclusion vs. Segregation in Classrooms 15:41 Real-Life Examples and Solutions for Inclusion 27:10 Fidgets and Sensory Breaks in Classrooms 28:01 Inclusive Classroom Practices 29:01 Understanding Neurodivergence in Families 29:38 AAC Devices and Communication 31:24 Teaching Empathy and Inclusion 36:25 Challenges in Changing Educational Systems 41:36 Finding Community and Support 44:06 The Role of Children's Books in Neurodiversity 46:38 Conclusion and Next Steps RESOURCES ⚡️ connect with Chandele Morris ⚡️ check out Chandele's books I'm Just a Kid: A Social Emotional Book about Self-Regulation ⚡️email Morrishousepublishers@gmail.com to schedule an author visit, professional development, or order bulk copies of books ⚡️ want to learn more about Dr. Tay's Whole Family Approach and current services offered? visit drtaylorday.com ⚡️ join the Evolve Facebook community to participate in the episode Q+As >> facebook.com/groups/evolveautism ⚡️ learn from me and submit your questions [could be featured on a future episode] >> *please note: in this episode, many terminologies and phrases are used to describe autism. Dr. Tay honors what each child and family prefers, and intentionally chooses to use affirming and identity-first language after listening to autistic adults and their preferences. various guests on the podcast are likely to use the language that they have been exposed to the most. | |||
| 29 | how I realized my son might be autistic with business coach Kelsey Kerslake | 14 Jun 2023 | 00:46:39 | |
RESOURCES ⚡️ follow Kelsey on Instagram @kelseykerslake and learn more about the Aligned Business ⚡️ want to learn more about Dr. Tay's Whole Family Approachᵀᴹ and current services offered? schedule a free consult call here or email admin@drtaylorday.com if you have questions. ⚡️ join the Evolve Facebook community to participate in the episode Q+As >> facebook.com/groups/evolveautism ⚡️ learn from me and submit your questions [could be featured on a future episode] >> SHOW NOTES In this episode, Dr. Tay had the pleasure of speaking with her business coach, Kelsey Kerslake, about her journey through the autism diagnosis process for her son, Carter. Kelsey shares her initial concerns about Carter's development and how she followed her instincts after being told by a speech-language therapist that Carter didn't have autism. Listen in as Kelsey opens up about the emotional rollercoaster of the autism evaluation process, the struggles Carter faced with new situations, and the ultimate validation she felt after receiving the diagnosis. Also discussed is the impact of Kelsey's own ADHD diagnosis as well as how she created a business (and helps others too!) that allows her to prioritize Carter's needs without sacrificing success. Kelsey highlights the importance of trusting your instincts as a parent and seeking the right support for your child, and her experiences are a testament to the power of acceptance and hope in the autism journey. CHAPTERS 0:04:50 - Navigating a speech delay 0:07:53 - Early signs of autism 0:12:28 - Seeking early intervention and an autism referral 0:22:29 - What an autism evaluation can look like 0:25:58 - Benefits of telehealth evaluations 0:34:50 - Navigating post-diagnosis and school supports 0:40:32 - Achieving balance as a business owner | |||
| 28 | the gap and the gain in parenting | 12 Jun 2023 | 00:06:45 | |
in this mini episode inspired by "The Gap and the Gain" by Dan Sullivan and Dr. Benjamin Hardy, Dr. Tay addresses the struggles of finding joy that can arise as a parent of an autistic child. the key message revolves around shifting one's mindset from focusing on the gap, which is comparing a child's progress to neurotypical standards, to celebrating the child's progress and accomplishments. RESOURCES ⚡️order "The Gap and The Gain" by Dan Sullivan and Dr. Benjamin Hardy ⚡️ join the Evolve Facebook community to participate in the episode Q+As >> facebook.com/groups/evolveautism ⚡️ learn from me and submit your questions [could be featured on a future episode] >> ⚡️ want to learn more about Dr. Tay's Whole Family Approachᵀᴹ and current services offered? schedule a free consult call here or email admin@drtaylorday.com if you have questions. DISCLAIMER >> anything shared on this podcast should not be considered clinical advice, and you should consult with your team of medical, mental health, and developmental providers if you need support. | |||
| 27 | listening to (our) gut - podcast update + the message YOU need to hear today | 09 Jun 2023 | 00:07:11 | |
in this mini episode, Dr. Tay explores the concept of embracing your gut instinct, announces an exciting change to the podcast format, and shares an important message for parents of autistic children on the importance of being present. RESOURCES ⚡️join the Evolve Facebook community to participate in the episode Q+As >> facebook.com/groups/evolveautism ⚡️learn from me and ask me questions >> ⚡️want to learn more about Dr. Tay's Whole Family Approachᵀᴹ and current services offered? schedule a free consult call here or email admin@drtaylorday.com if you have questions. DISCLAIMER >> Anything shared on this podcast should not be considered clinical advice, and you should consult with your team of medical, mental health, and developmental providers if you need support. | |||
| 26 | why ABA therapy is controversial? | 07 Jun 2023 | 00:32:26 | |
join the evolve Facebook community to participate in the weekly Q+A >> facebook.com/groups/evolveautism ABA or applied behavior analysis therapy has become a controversial topic in the autism community. as a provider, and after listening to an immense amount of feedback in the field on this subject, I think it's important for you to understand the controversy in order to decide what's best for your family. in this episode, we deep dive into some of the concerns about ABA therapy. my ultimate goal is that you have informed consent as a parent. and then we discuss if you choose to pursue ABA, how you can advocate for ABA to be more aligned with neurodiversity-affirming care. this episode will help you learn:
resources mentioned in the episode to learn more >> Start Here: A guide for parents of autistic kids Autistic Self-Advocacy Network (ASAN) want to learn more about Dr. Tay's Whole Family Approachᵀᴹ and current services offered? >> schedule a free consult call here or email admin@drtaylorday.com if you have questions. other places you can learn from me >> | |||
| 25 | autism and special education rights with attorney Ashley Barlow | 31 May 2023 | 00:34:51 | |
join the evolve Facebook community to participate in the weekly Q+A >> facebook.com/groups/evolveautism I often see in my work as a child psychologist that parents don't understand what their rights are and what their autistic children should be receiving through the educational system. in this episode, we dive into IDEA, specially designed instruction, IEPs, 504s, and more. we talk specifically about the history of special education and what as a parent you can advocate for. it's important to recognize that a clinical diagnosis isn't the same as an educational diagnosis, so we're going through that educational process with my expert guest, Ashley Barlow, an attorney and former teacher. Ashley also has experience navigating special education as a parent, as her 13-year-old son, Jack, has Down Syndrome. this episode will help you learn:
ways to connect with Ashley >> learn more about her free and affordable resources at ashleybarlowco.com follow her on Instagram @ashleybarlowco and Facebook Ashley Barlow Co want to learn more about The Whole Family Approachᵀᴹ and current services offered through Dr. Tay Concierge Clinical Care? >> schedule a free consult call here or email admin@drtaylorday.com if you have questions. other places you can learn from me >> | |||
| 24 | is it autism or something else? | 24 May 2023 | 00:30:28 | |
join the evolve Facebook community to participate in the weekly Q+A >> facebook.com/groups/evolveautism have you been considering an evaluation or are currently going through the diagnosis process? you may wonder if your child has autism or if there is another diagnosis that explains their behaviors. in this episode, I describe the process of "differential diagnosis." this is when professionals consider all symptoms and determine what is the best explanation of your child's behaviors. I'm giving you a peek into my diagnostic process so you can better understand how autism is assessed and how final diagnostic determinations are made. this episode will help you learn:
note: in the episode, I reference increased psychiatric medication use. the study I mentioned (Madden et al., 2017) indicated that autistic youth are nearly 11x more likely to be on psychiatric medication than their non-autistic peers. want to learn more about Dr. Tay's Whole Family Approachᵀᴹ and current services offered? >> schedule a free consult call here or email admin@drtaylorday.com if you have questions. other places you can learn from me >> | |||
| 23 | overcoming the obligation cycle as a parent of an autistic child | 17 May 2023 | 00:25:29 | |
join the evolve Facebook community to participate in the weekly Q+A >> facebook.com/groups/evolveautism are you in obligation as a parent of an autistic child? you deserve to not feel constant stress as a parent. yes, you have extra responsibilities as an autism parent but these don’t have to create a feeling of obligation. in this episode, we're exploring the difference between obligation vs. responsibilities and how your thoughts about your to-do list affect the way you feel and therefore affect the way you take action. this episode will help you learn:
want to learn more about Dr. Tay's Whole Family Approachᵀᴹ and current services offered? >> schedule a free consult call here or email admin@drtaylorday.com if you have questions. other places you can learn from me >> | |||
| 22 | physical therapy and autism with Cynthia Hughell | 10 May 2023 | 00:29:58 | |
join the evolve Facebook community to participate in the weekly Q+A >> facebook.com/groups/evolveautism have you ever wondered what physical therapy addresses? in this episode, I'm speaking to physical therapist Cynthia Hughell about the ins and outs of physical therapy for autistic children. we discuss different areas that can be addressed and understand how to best support your child's body to avoid physical stress and strain. this episode will help you learn:
connect with Cynthia on TikTok @vidakidstherapy for more free physical therapy content. want to learn more about Dr. Tay's Whole Family Approachᵀᴹ and current services offered? >> schedule a free consult call here or email admin@drtaylorday.com if you have questions. other places you can learn from me >> *please note: in this episode, both identity-first (autistic child) and person-first language (child with autism / ASD) are used. although as clinicians and practitioners we are slowly learning to shift our language and take the lead from the autistic community, the stance of this podcast is that we ultimately want to honor what each child and family prefer. | |||
| 21 | the 3 key components that make up quality autism care: what I believe your family deserves! | 03 May 2023 | 00:32:53 | |
join the evolve Facebook community to participate in the weekly Q+A >> facebook.com/groups/evolveautism have you ever asked yourself if your autistic child is getting the highest quality care? if you should be doing more? if what you are doing is best for your child? in this episode, we're talking about the components of autism care to help you understand what to advocate for in terms of your child, yourself, and your family. I'm giving you a look behind the scenes and what I believe is essential for a high level of care for neurodivergent children and their families so you, too, know what to look for and where to advocate for more support. this episode will help you learn:
want to learn more about Dr. Tay's Whole Family Approachᵀᴹ and current services offered? >> schedule a free consult call here or email admin@drtaylorday.com if you have questions. book referenced in this episode >> An Early Start for Your Young Child with Autism other places you can learn from me >> | |||
| 20 | dietary supports with naturopath Dr. Nina-Marie Rueda | 26 Apr 2023 | 00:39:01 | |
join the evolve Facebook community to participate in the weekly Q+A >> facebook.com/groups/evolveautism have you ever wondered if you need to be changing your child's diet once they've been diagnosed as autistic? how do you know when dietary supports are needed? in this episode, I sit down with Dr. Nina-Marie Rueda, a naturopath and nutritional expert who works with families of neurodivergent children. in our conversation, we get into the nitty gritty on myths and truths about dietary recommendations for autistic children, the importance of a healthy conversations around food and mealtime, and common problems that may result from nutritional and physiological imbalances. this episode will help you learn:
connect with Dr. Nina-Marie on Instagram @doctorninamarie. want to learn more about Dr. Tay's Whole Family Approachᵀᴹ and current services offered >> drtaylorday.com or email admin@drtaylorday.com if you would like to schedule a consult call. other places you can learn from me >> *please note: in this episode, both identity-first (autistic child) and person-first language (child with autism / ASD) are used. although as clinicians and practitioners we are slowly learning to shift our language and take the lead from the autistic community, the stance of this podcast is that we ultimately want to honor what each child and family prefer. Dr. Nina-Marie shares her perspective as a parent as well as some of the families she has worked with. | |||
| 118 | how to support sensory regulation at home with occupational therapist Courtney English | 12 Jun 2024 | 00:47:38 | |
ABOUT THIS EPISODE (+ scroll for resources) 👇 Dr. Tay and Courtney English discuss:
RESOURCES ⚡️ connect with Courtney English on Instagram @courtneyenglish.ot and on TikTok @courtneyenglish.ot ⚡️ get access to Courtney's resources here, including learning about your child's sensory profile ⚡️ want to learn more about Dr. Tay's Whole Family Approach and current services offered? visit drtaylorday.com ⚡️ join the Evolve Facebook community to participate in the episode Q+As >> facebook.com/groups/evolveautism ⚡️ learn from me and submit your questions [could be featured on a future episode] >> *please note: in this episode, many terminologies and phrases are used to describe autism. Dr. Tay honors what each child and family prefers, and intentionally chooses to use affirming and identity-first language after listening to autistic adults and their preferences. various guests on the podcast are likely to use the language that they have been exposed to the most. | |||
| 19| how to support your non-autistic children in the autism journey | 19 Apr 2023 | 00:23:58 | |
join the evolve Facebook community to participate in the weekly Q+A >> facebook.com/groups/evolveautism this week's episode is an inspired follow-up to episode 16, where I shared my personal story. I provide three tips for increasing support for your non-autistic children. specifically, we dive into the importance of talking about autism, focusing on quality time, and establishing boundaries for all of your children. and the prequel to these three steps is to support yourself first (more coming soon on the podcast!). in the meantime, learn more about how your brain thinks. by doing so, you can begin to shift your sabotaging thought patterns to ones that serve you. take the free habits of thinking assessment and we can set up a free call to review your results. want to learn more about Dr. Tay's Whole Family Approachᵀᴹ and current services offered >> drtaylorday.com or email admin@drtaylorday.com if you would like to schedule a consult call. other places you can learn from me >> | |||
| 18 | sensory processing with occupational therapist Dr. Sam Goldman | 12 Apr 2023 | 00:35:17 | |
join the evolve Facebook community to participate in the weekly Q+A >> facebook.com/groups/evolveautism we talk a lot about sensory aspects in autism, but how do you know if your child has challenges with that and what should you do? sensory elements and factors can really impact your autistic* child's daily life, and sometimes these can be triggers for things like emotion dysregulation, attention, or even difficulty with transitions. this week, I'm joined by Dr. Sam Goldman, an expert in autism and the sensory systems. in this episode, we cover the eight (yes, eight!) senses. we also discuss different types of sensory difficulties and examples of how this may be showing up in your child's life. this episode will help you:
follow Dr. Sam Goldman @drsamgoldman to stay connected. she also has her program, Making Sense of Eating, for parents to work on sensory elements of eating as well as her podcast (check out her recent series on all things sensory, Sensory 101 - Sensory 404) more resources from Dr. Sam mentioned in this episode>> Self-Regulation Freebie for parents Favorite books: Sensational Kids, The Out-of-Sync Child want to learn more about Dr. Tay's Whole Family Approachᵀᴹ and current services offered >> drtaylorday.com or email admin@drtaylorday.com if you would like to schedule a consult call. other places you can learn from me >> *please note: in this episode, both identity-first (autistic child) and person-first language (child with autism) are used. although as clinicians and practitioners we are slowly learning to shift our language and take the lead from the autistic community, the stance of this podcast is that we ultimately want to honor what each child and family prefer. | |||
| 17 | all things sleep with sleep consultant Courtney Zentz | 05 Apr 2023 | 00:45:00 | |
join the evolve Facebook community to participate in the weekly Q+A >> facebook.com/groups/evolveautism does your child struggle with sleep? sleep is such a foundational piece to brain development, it is essential for mental health, and, yes, many autistic children struggle with falling and staying sleeping. this week, I'm joined by Courtney Zentz, pediatric sleep expert and certified sleep coach. Courtney shares her personal experiences with postpartum anxiety and depression and how she got into helping parents create better sleep routines and environments for kids with sleep difficulties. this episode will help you:
follow Tiny Transitions for more information and help with sleep @tinytransitions or visit tinytransitions.com. more resources from Courtney mentioned in this episode >> Freebie Resource Library: https://tinytransitions.com/learn/ Free Preliminary Sleep Assessment: https://tinytransitions.com/contact_sleep_consultant connect with Raline Sexton, autism sleep specialist: https://tinytransitions.com/slumber-squad/raline/ other places you can learn from me >> | |||
| 16 | "I see you" - my story and introduction to autism, and why I chose my career path | 29 Mar 2023 | 00:45:56 | |
join the evolve Facebook community to participate in the weekly Q+A >> facebook.com/groups/evolveautism in this episode, you'll hear the raw and real story of how I was introduced to autism and how my family's story led me to choosing to help autistic children and their families through evaluations, diagnoses, therapy, and beyond. I hope through the discomfort and vulnerability of sharing my story that you can start to have a shift that autism is a really important part of your child's and your family's identity... and you still have needs in all of this, too. thanks for letting me share my heart with y'all! PS the YouTube video that finally helped my bravery come thru is a must-watch: The Greatest Showman | "This is Me" with Keala Settle | 20th Century Fox. let it serve as a reminder that you do not need to be afraid to be seen! learn more about my Whole Family Approachᵀᴹ and current services offered >> drtaylorday.com or email admin@drtaylorday.com if you are wanting to schedule a consult call other places you can learn from me >> | |||
| 15 | the emotional journey of getting an autism diagnosis with Chelsea Farmer | 22 Mar 2023 | 00:48:59 | |
[please note: some explicit language is used in this episode so please be aware if you're listening around children.] join the evolve Facebook community to participate in the weekly Q+A >> facebook.com/groups/evolveautism are you in the diagnosis process right now and that process is really long and extended? maybe you're in the stages of first concerns or you're even post-diagnosis, and you're asking yourself, "now what?" in this episode, I'm joined by Chelsea Farmer, an autism parent with a passion for sharing her life and encouraging others who are on their own autism journeys. we discuss our shared goals to normalize the emotions that arise throughout the diagnosis process and the healing that can follow. this episode will help you:
Chelsea is someone who is willing to share so openly and remind others they are not alone in this journey and I am blessed to be able to share our conversation. follow Chelsea for more autism experiences and encouragement on Instagram @chelseamfnfarmer. in this episode, I mention my diagnostic services and my group coaching program to support autism parents! to learn more about these services, DM me or email at admin@drtaylorday.com. other places you can learn from me >> | |||
| 14 | q&a: autism levels, finding professionals, and supporting your needs | 15 Mar 2023 | 00:45:32 | |
join the evolve Facebook community to participate in the weekly Q+A >> facebook.com/groups/evolveautism this week, I'm opening the floor to my community of autism parents. I know there's not always an easy place for parents to ask questions, so we're going to answer a few submissions I received in this episode! this episode will answer:
find my book recommendation here: Uniquely Human by Dr. Barry Prizant in this episode, I shared about my group coaching program designed for you! to learn more about this offer or other services I provide, DM me or email at admin@drtaylorday.com. other places you can learn from me >> | |||
| 13 | picky eating with Dr. Patty Ann Ford | 08 Mar 2023 | 00:39:32 | |
join the evolve Facebook community to participate in the weekly Q+A >> facebook.com/groups/evolveautism have you ever had concerns about your autistic child's eating habits and wondered how do I seek support? do they need medical intervention? today I'm talking with special guest, registered dietician Dr. Patty Ann Ford. food and habits around eating are daily encounters that affect the whole family unit, but it doesn't have to be your child's identity. picky eating can be ok, and is also something that can be worked on through small mindset shifts and lifestyle tweaks. this episode will help you:
connect with Dr. Patty Ann on Instagram @dr.pattyannford you can also learn more at www.drpatriciafordwellness.com or reach out to her directly at drpatriciaford@gmail.com other places you can learn from me >> | |||
| 12 | autism consultant Molly Johnson on visual supports | 01 Mar 2023 | 01:01:09 | |
join the evolve Facebook community to participate in the weekly Q+A >> facebook.com/groups/evolveautism have you ever wondered about the best ways to use visual supports for your autistic child? today we're hearing from a special guest, Molly Johnson. Molly has her master's in education and is a former autism teacher. she now has become "the autism consultant" on Instagram. she teaches parents about visual supports, potty training, and behavior and coping - and we talk about it all in this episode. this episode will help you:
connect with Molly on Instagram @theautismconsultant and find Molly's courses on potty training, behavioral coping, and resources for visual schedules and communication boards here: https://www.theautismconsultant.us/linkinbio other places you can learn from me >> | |||
| 11 | why positive thinking doesn't work (and what to do instead) | 22 Feb 2023 | 00:38:50 | |
join the evolve Facebook community to participate in the weekly Q+A >> facebook.com/groups/evolveautism how many times have you been told about the power of positive thinking? the way our culture has shifted, we've started to think about positive thinking as magic fairy dust. but will it actually set you up for success? in this week's episode, we explore how you can truly accept and embrace your current reality to find joy even amongst the challenges. this episode will help you:
in this episode, I shared about the new group coaching program I am launching! ready to dive in? sign up here: https://drtaycoaching.com/founding-member-checkout. have questions about the program? send me a DM or book a consult call using the link above. other places you can learn from me >> | |||
| 10 | the ABCs of challenging behavior | 15 Feb 2023 | 00:34:20 | |
join the evolve Facebook community to participate in the weekly Q+A >> facebook.com/groups/evolveautism a commonly asked question I get as a child psychologist specializing in autism is "how do I reduce challenging behaviors?" this episode will introduce you to the ABCs - antecedents, behaviors, and consequences. at the heart of this episode is identifying the function of your child's behavior before you try to intervene. this episode will help you:
learn more about my Whole Family Approachᵀᴹ and current services offered >> drtaylorday.com or email admin@drtaylorday.com if you are wanting to schedule a consult call other places you can learn from me >> | |||
| 117 | exploring DIRFloortime in autism care with parent and advocate, Dr. Daniella Boyd | 05 Jun 2024 | 00:46:06 | |
ABOUT THIS EPISODE (+ scroll for resources) 👇 Dr. Tay and Dr. Daniella Boyd discuss:
RESOURCES ⚡️ connect with Dr. Daniella Boyd through her website https://allplayisok.com/ or through Instagram @montessoriandsensory ⚡️ want to learn more about Dr. Tay's Whole Family Approach and current services offered? schedule a free consult call here or email admin@drtaylorday.com if you have questions. ⚡️ join the Evolve Facebook community to participate in the episode Q+As >> facebook.com/groups/evolveautism ⚡️ learn from me and submit your questions [could be featured on a future episode] >> | |||
| 9 | goodbye to status quo: lessons and insights inspired by my personal evolution (part 1) | 08 Feb 2023 | 00:34:51 | |
join the evolve Facebook community to participate in the weekly Q+A >> facebook.com/groups/evolveautism are you the type of person who likes to see the behind the scenes? and get to know the person behind the professional? one year is all it took to put myself on a completely different trajectory. this week, we'll explore the lessons and insights inspired by my personal evolution in becoming a clinical psychologist that focuses on children and autism. and i'll walk through the career pivots I've made to create intentional space for parents of autistic children to have more support. this episode will help you:
learn more about my Whole Family Approachᵀᴹ and current services offered >> drtaylorday.com other places you can learn from me >> | |||
| 8 | Dina Daniels and the journey of becoming an advocate | 02 Feb 2023 | 00:49:16 | |
join the evolve Facebook community to participate in the weekly Q+A >> facebook.com/groups/evolveautism Dina is a mother of an autistic son as well as two other neurodivergent children. she shares about her journey of advocating for her son's autism diagnosis for years (yes, you read that right!) as well as what inspired her to start sharing the unleashed version of her family's life on TikTok. this episode will help you:
connect with Dina >> and explore Lovevery Play Kits and BrainPop (use DINA15 for 15% off) as mentioned by Dina in the episode! learn more about my Whole Family Approachᵀᴹ and current services offered >> drtaylorday.com other places you can learn from me >> | |||
| 7 | candid conversation on neurodiversity | 25 Jan 2023 | 00:30:52 | |
join the evolve Facebook community to participate in the weekly Q+A >> facebook.com/groups/evolveautism in this week's episode, I sit down to candidly discuss neurodiversity, cultural shifts around autism, and even some of my story as an expert in this field who has become committed to constantly learning and evolving. I hope to bring more awareness to this topic shared through what I see as a well-rounded perspective and to help encourage more understanding and acceptance. this episode will help you:
a great additional resource on neurodiversity as referenced in this episode is Uniquely Human: A Different Way of Seeing Autism by Barry M. Prizant, PhD. learn more about my Whole Family Approachᵀᴹ and current services offered >> drtaylorday.com other places you can learn from me >> | |||
| 6 | navigating autism when your circle is unsupportive | 18 Jan 2023 | 00:28:57 | |
join the evolve Facebook community to participate in the weekly Q+A >> facebook.com/groups/evolveautism this week's episode was inspired by a member of my Facebook community. she said "how do you deal with family that thinks your child is normal and they think I blow things out of proportion?" i'll break down the steps for navigating your child's diagnosis/identity when your circle is unsupportive. this episode will help you:
learn more about my Whole Family Approachᵀᴹ and current services offered >> drtaylorday.com other places you can learn from me >> | |||
| 5 | are you losing your voice? | 11 Jan 2023 | 00:35:53 | |
join the evolve Facebook community to participate in the weekly Q+A >> facebook.com/groups/evolveautism you are the expert on your child, so why does it seem like your input is often not valued? in this episode, we explore what leads you to turn your volume down when advocating for your child and how you can take care of yourself to feel knowledgeable and empowered to best support your entire family. this episode will help you:
take the habits of thinking assessment here >> habitfindercoach.com/drtay learn more about my Whole Family Approachᵀᴹ and current services offered >> drtaylorday.com other places you can learn from me >> | |||
| 4 | what is autism? signs, symptoms, and neurodiversity | 04 Jan 2023 | 00:33:43 | |
join the evolve Facebook community to participate in the weekly Q+A >> facebook.com/groups/evolveautism have you questioned if your child is autistic? this episode is for you if you want to learn more about the autism diagnostic criteria. i’ll break it down for you so you can know whether or not you should pursue a formal evaluation. and if your child is already diagnosed, you will still find value in this episode! understanding your child's symptoms will assist you in providing beneficial support and accommodations and help you to better recognize their strengths. this episode will help you:
learn more about my Whole Family Approachᵀᴹ and current services offered >> drtaylorday.com other places you can learn from me >> | |||
| 3 | regulating your emotions and supporting your child's emotional development: part 2 | 28 Dec 2022 | 00:19:56 | |
join the evolve Facebook community to participate in the weekly Q+A >> facebook.com/groups/evolveautism have you ever noticed that when your child is emotionally dysregulated, you have less patience or you feel more on edge? in part 2 of our conversation about emotion regulation, I share evidence-based tips and strategies for you and your family. although there are no quick fixes and consistency is key, you can start to make changes that support your child in developing effective emotion processing. this episode will help you:
sign up for the masterclass on emotion regulation here (launching in January 2023) learn more about my Whole Family Approachᵀᴹ and current services offered >> drtaylorday.com other places you can learn from me >> | |||
| 2 | regulating your emotions and supporting your child's emotional development: part 1 | 21 Dec 2022 | 00:23:38 | |
join the evolve Facebook community to participate in the weekly Q+A >> facebook.com/groups/evolveautism have you ever noticed that when your child is emotionally dysregulated, you have less patience or you feel more on edge? the answer is not to shove down your feelings and move on. in this episode - part 1 of an in-depth conversation - we'll explore how as a parent of an autistic child effective emotional processing starts with you. this episode will help you:
sign up for the masterclass on emotion regulation here (launching in January 2023) learn more about my Whole Family Approachᵀᴹ and current services offered >> email me at taylor@drtaylorday.com other places you can learn from me >> | |||
| 1 | why this podcast is needed | 13 Dec 2022 | 00:30:10 | |
join the evolve Facebook community to participate in the weekly Q+A >> facebook.com/groups/evolveautism recent research shows that one in 44 children are autistic, meaning as parents, many of you are looking for support specific to your autistic child. evolve with dr. tay is designed to be a source for reliable and reputable information for autism parents that is easy to understand. this episode will help you:
and this is just the introduction to the podcast... so much more to come! learn more about my Whole Family Approachᵀᴹ and current services offered >> email me at taylor@drtaylorday.com other places you can learn from me >> | |||
| 116 | nurturing growth through relationships: an introduction to RDI with Dr. Sarah Wayland | 29 May 2024 | 00:56:11 | |
ABOUT THIS EPISODE (+ scroll for resources) 👇 Dr. Tay and Dr. Sarah Wayland discuss:
RESOURCES ⚡️ connect with Sarah Wayland, Ph.D., parent coach + founder of Guiding Exceptional Parents on her website and on Facebook and LinkedIn ⚡️ learn more about Relationship-based Dynamic Intelligence (RDI™) and working with Dr. Wayland ⚡️ purchase her book along with Dr. Donna Henderson and Jamell White "Is This Autism? A Guide for Clinicians and Everyone Else" ⚡️ reference another great resource from Dr. Wayland: Behavior Revolution ⚡️ want to learn more about Dr. Tay's Whole Family Approach and current services offered? schedule a free consult call here or email admin@drtaylorday.com if you have questions. ⚡️ join the Evolve Facebook community to participate in the episode Q+As >> facebook.com/groups/evolveautism ⚡️ learn from me and submit your questions [could be featured on a future episode] >> *please note: in this episode, many terminologies and phrases are used to describe autism. Dr. Tay honors what each child and family prefers, and intentionally chooses to use affirming and identity-first language after listening to autistic adults and their preferences. various guests on the podcast are likely to use the language that they have been exposed to the most. | |||
| 115 | PDA and IEPs: bridging the gap between home and school for autistic learners | 22 May 2024 | 00:52:24 | |
ABOUT THIS EPISODE (+ scroll for resources) 👇 Dr. Tay, Jessica Hanzo, and Lisa Baskin Wright discuss:
RESOURCES ⚡️ keep learning and purchase the course Supporting PDA Learners: Centering Connection, Autonomy and Equality in the IEP Process ⚡️ connect with Jessica Hanzo, LMFT on Instagram @pda.project and visit her website ⚡️ connect with Lisa Basking Wright, IEP coach on Instagram @lisabaskinwright, on Facebook, and visit her website ⚡️ want to learn more about Dr. Tay's Whole Family Approach and current services offered? visit drtaylorday.com ⚡️ join the Evolve Facebook community to participate in the episode Q+As >> facebook.com/groups/evolveautism ⚡️ learn from me and submit your questions [could be featured on a future episode] >> *please note: PDA is a theorized profile of autism and not a clinical diagnosis. however, it has been a helpful conceptualization for many parents to learn about how their child's brain is wired. our knowledge of PDA is currently unfolding and I do my best to share up-to-date, balanced information. to learn more about PDA, please listen to episode 110 | |||
| 114 | beyond stereotypes: recognizing autism in females | 20 May 2024 | 00:37:55 | |
ABOUT THIS EPISODE (+ scroll for resources) 👇 Dr. Tay discusses the highly requested topic of how autism often presents in females, particularly those with low support needs. This episode would still be an informative listen if you have a son who presents with high masking autism, as the more nuanced traits are discussed. RESOURCES ⚡️ want more on this topic? listen to Dr. Donna Henderson's episode on girls (note: this episode was recorded for psychologists / neuropsychologists but still could be a good listen) ⚡️ want to learn more about Dr. Tay's Whole Family Approach and current services offered? visit drtaylorday.com ⚡️ join the Evolve Facebook community to participate in the episode Q+As >> facebook.com/groups/evolveautism ⚡️ learn from me and submit your questions [could be featured on a future episode] >> | |||
| 113 | the art of low demand parenting: redefining connection and shifting expectations with Amanda Diekman | 15 May 2024 | 00:45:24 | |
ABOUT THIS EPISODE (+ scroll for resources) 👇 Dr. Tay and Amanda Diekman discuss:
RESOURCES ⚡️ connect with Amanda Diekman ⚡️ want to learn more about Dr. Tay's Whole Family Approach and current services offered? visit drtaylorday.com ⚡️ join the Evolve Facebook community to participate in the episode Q+As >> facebook.com/groups/evolveautism ⚡️ learn from me and submit your questions [could be featured on a future episode] >> | |||
| 112 | a parent's path to supporting her PDA teen with Steph Curtis | 08 May 2024 | 00:34:50 | |
ABOUT THIS EPISODE (+ scroll for resources) 👇 Dr. Tay and Steph Curtis discuss:
RESOURCES ⚡️ resources referenced in today's episode PDA in the Family: Life After the Lightbulb Moment Sasha's Animation About her School Experiences ⚡️ connect with Steph Curtis, mom to two autistic daughters, writer, and PDA pioneer ⚡️ want to learn more about Dr. Tay's Whole Family Approach and current services offered? visit drtaylorday.com ⚡️ join the Evolve Facebook community to participate in the episode Q+As >> facebook.com/groups/evolveautism ⚡️ learn from me and submit your questions [could be featured on a future episode] >> *please note: in this episode, many terminologies and phrases are used to describe autism. Dr. Tay honors what each child and family prefers, and intentionally chooses to use affirming and identity-first language after listening to autistic adults and their preferences. various guests on the podcast are likely to use the language that they have been exposed to the most. **also PDA is a theorized profile of autism and not a clinical diagnosis. however, it has been a helpful conceptualization for many parents to learn about how their child's brain is wired. our knowledge of PDA is currently unfolding and I will do my best to share up-to-date, balanced information. To learn more about PDA, please listen to episode 110 | |||
| 111 | unraveling sleep challenges in autistic children: expert insights with Dr. Funke Afolabi-Brown | 01 May 2024 | 00:44:11 | |
ABOUT THIS EPISODE (+ scroll for resources) 👇 Dr. Tay and Dr. Funke Afolabi-Brown, a pediatric sleep medicine physician, discuss:
RESOURCES ⚡️ connect with Funke Afolabi-Brown, MD, FAASM https://www.therestfulsleepplace.com ⚡️ want to learn more about Dr. Tay's Whole Family Approach and current services offered? visit drtaylorday.com ⚡️ join the Evolve Facebook community to participate in the episode Q+As >> facebook.com/groups/evolveautism ⚡️ learn from me and submit your questions [could be featured on a future episode] >> *please note: in this episode, many terminologies and phrases are used to describe autism. Dr. Tay honors what each child and family prefers, and intentionally chooses to use affirming and identity-first language after listening to autistic adults and their preferences. various guests on the podcast are likely to use the language that they have been exposed to the most. | |||
| 110 | what is PDA? | 24 Apr 2024 | 00:54:03 | |
ABOUT THIS EPISODE (+ scroll for resources) 👇 Dr. Tay provides an introduction to PDA (pathological demand avoidance, also known as persistent or pervasive drive for autonomy). In this episode, we discuss:
RESOURCES ⚡️ want to learn more about Dr. Tay's Whole Family Approach and current services offered? visit drtaylorday.com ⚡️ join the Evolve Facebook community to participate in the episode Q+As >> facebook.com/groups/evolveautism ⚡️ learn from me and submit your questions [could be featured on a future episode] >> | |||
| 127 | launching “EVOLVE the membership”: in-depth neurodiversity affirming education + support | 14 Aug 2024 | 00:35:48 | |
👉🏼 ENROLL NOW >> http://drtaylorday.com/membership If you find value in this podcast and want even more support, tune in to learn about “EVOLVE the membership.” This new membership offers a lower-cost, flexible alternative to traditional clinical services, designed to provide accessible support and education for autism families. I share personal insights about my journey from academia to entrepreneurship, the challenges faced in balancing multiple roles, and the motivation behind creating this membership. Making this launch happen even while I’m in Europe (and truthfully it feels quite sentimental!). What’s included in the membership: ⚡️a comprehensive video library ⚡️community support ⚡️expert masterclasses ⚡️ resources ⚡️and if you’re a founding member, you get the opportunity to shape what’s in the membership and what I create. 👉🏼 MORE DETAIL HERE + ENROLL NOW >> http://drtaylorday.com/membership 00:00 Introduction and Episode Overview 00:32 Launching a New Membership 02:24 Personal Journey and Professional Growth 04:42 Challenges and Expanding Services 06:51 The Evolve Membership Details 09:46 Balancing Personal and Professional Life 12:02 Advocacy and Real-Life Stories 18:03 Membership Benefits and Pricing 31:35 Conclusion and Final Thoughts | |||
| 109 | navigating and processing 3 autism diagnoses with parent Amber Arrington | 17 Apr 2024 | 00:44:59 | |
ABOUT THIS EPISODE (+ scroll for resources) 👇 Dr. Tay and Amber Arrington discuss:
RESOURCES ⚡️ Register for The Autism Savvy Summit: While You Wait Edition ⚡️ connect with Amber Arrington, autism mom and founder of Autism Savvy >> Order Amber's book Not Atypical Motherhood: The Guide For Navigating a Child's New Autism Diagnosis ⚡️ want to learn more about Dr. Tay's Whole Family Approach and current services offered? schedule a free consult call here or email admin@drtaylorday.com if you have questions. ⚡️ join the Evolve Facebook community to participate in the episode Q+As >> facebook.com/groups/evolveautism ⚡️ learn from me and submit your questions [could be featured on a future episode] >> | |||
| 108 | neuroaffirming speech therapy with @sensory.slp and @speechdude | 10 Apr 2024 | 00:38:44 | |
ABOUT THIS EPISODE (+ scroll for resources) 👇 Dr. Tay, Chris Wenger, and Jessie Ginsburg discuss:
RESOURCES ⚡️ connect with Chris Wenger, CCC-SLP @speechdude on Instagram and TikTok >> DM the word “BANANAS” for his neuroaffirming resources ⚡️ connect with Jessie Ginsburg, MS, CCC-SLP @sensory.slp on Instagram and TikTok >> order Jessie's book Ready, Set Connect: A Sensory Based Approach to Accelerate Communication in Autistic Children ⚡️ want to learn more about Dr. Tay's Whole Family Approach and current services offered? schedule a free consult call here or email admin@drtaylorday.com if you have questions. ⚡️ join the Evolve Facebook community to participate in the episode Q+As >> facebook.com/groups/evolveautism ⚡️ learn from me and submit your questions [could be featured on a future episode] >> | |||
| 107 | is there a cure for autism? | 03 Apr 2024 | 00:32:44 | |
ABOUT THIS EPISODE (+ scroll for resources) 👇 Dr. Tay discusses:
RESOURCES ⚡️ your next episode >> 96 | key autism parenting mindset shifts ⚡️ want to learn more about Dr. Tay's Whole Family Approach and current services offered? schedule a free consult call here or email admin@drtaylorday.com if you have questions. ⚡️ join the Evolve Facebook community to participate in the episode Q+As >> facebook.com/groups/evolveautism ⚡️ learn from me and submit your questions [could be featured on a future episode] >> | |||
| 106 | insights from autistic voices: the Aut2Ask survey | 27 Mar 2024 | 00:51:26 | |
Dr. Tay and Elizabeth Duttera from @aut2ask discuss:
RESOURCES ⚡️ complete the Aut2Ask Survey ⚡️ connect with Elizabeth >> ⚡️ want to learn more about Dr. Tay's Whole Family Approach and current services offered? schedule a free consult call here or email admin@drtaylorday.com if you have questions. ⚡️ join the Evolve Facebook community to participate in the episode Q+As >> facebook.com/groups/evolveautism ⚡️ learn from me and submit your questions [could be featured on a future episode] >> | |||
| 105 | navigating homeschooling for your autistic child with Malia Phelps Waller | 20 Mar 2024 | 00:40:34 | |
ABOUT THIS EPISODE (+ scroll for resources) 👇 Dr. Tay and Malia Phelps Waller discuss:
RESOURCES ⚡️ connect with Malia Phelps Waller homeschool mama, special educator and BCBA Instagram @maliaphelpswallerhomeschool Facebook @maliaphelpswallerhomeschool Download Malia's Homeschool Toolbox ⚡️ want to learn more about Dr. Tay's Whole Family Approach and current services offered? schedule a free consult call here or email admin@drtaylorday.com if you have questions. ⚡️ join the Evolve Facebook community to participate in the episode Q+As >> facebook.com/groups/evolveautism ⚡️ learn from me and submit your questions [could be featured on a future episode] >> *please note: in this episode, many terminologies and phrases are used to describe autism. Dr. Tay honors what each child and family prefers, and intentionally chooses to use affirming and identity-first language after listening to autistic adults and their preferences. various guests on the podcast are likely to use the language that they have been exposed to the most. | |||
| 104 | why sensory experiences impact your autistic child’s eating with Brittyn Coleman | 13 Mar 2024 | 00:46:27 | |
ABOUT THIS EPISODE (+ scroll for resources) 👇 Dr. Tay and Brittyn Coleman, Registered Dietitian, discuss:
RESOURCES ⚡️ connect with Brittyn Coleman visit her website (including her 5-day workshop + membership) ⚡️ want to learn more about Dr. Tay's Whole Family Approach and current services offered? schedule a free consult call here or email admin@drtaylorday.com if you have questions. ⚡️ join the Evolve Facebook community to participate in the episode Q+As >> facebook.com/groups/evolveautism ⚡️ learn from me and submit your questions [could be featured on a future episode] >> *please note: in this episode, many terminologies and phrases are used to describe autism. Dr. Tay honors what each child and family prefers, and intentionally chooses to use affirming and identity-first language after listening to autistic adults and their preferences. various guests on the podcast are likely to use the language that they have been exposed to the most. | |||
| 103 | how to discuss your child's autism diagnosis with Dr. Liz Angoff of Explaining Brains | 06 Mar 2024 | 00:44:09 | |
ABOUT THIS EPISODE (+ scroll for resources) 👇 Dr. Tay and Dr. Liz Angoff, an educational psychologist, discuss:
RESOURCES ⚡️ connect with Dr. Liz Angoff https://explainingbrains.com/autism ⚡️ want to learn more about Dr. Tay's Whole Family Approach and current services offered? schedule a free consult call here or email admin@drtaylorday.com if you have questions. ⚡️ join the Evolve Facebook community to participate in the episode Q+As >> facebook.com/groups/evolveautism ⚡️ learn from me and submit your questions [could be featured on a future episode] >> *please note: in this episode, many terminologies and phrases are used to describe autism. Dr. Tay honors what each child and family prefers, and intentionally chooses to use affirming and identity-first language after listening to autistic adults and their preferences. various guests on the podcast are likely to use the language that they have been exposed to the most. | |||
| 102 | an autism vocabulary list with Dr. Donna Henderson | 28 Feb 2024 | 00:50:12 | |
ABOUT THIS EPISODE (+ scroll for resources) 👇 Dr. Tay and Dr. Donna Henderson define the following:
RESOURCES ⚡️ connect with Dr. Donna Henderson, clinical neuropsychologist https://www.drdonnahenderson.com/ her book along with Drs. Sarah Wayland and Jamell White "Is This Autism? A Guide for Clinicians and Everyone Else" Donna's practice: https://stixrud.com/ ⚡️ additional resources mentioned by Dr. Henderson ⚡️ want to learn more about Dr. Tay's Whole Family Approach and current services offered? schedule a free consult call here or email admin@drtaylorday.com if you have questions. ⚡️ join the Evolve Facebook community to participate in the episode Q+As >> facebook.com/groups/evolveautism ⚡️ learn from me and submit your questions [could be featured on a future episode] >> *please note: in this episode, many terminologies and phrases are used to describe autism. Dr. Tay honors what each child and family prefers, and intentionally chooses to use affirming and identity-first language after listening to autistic adults and their preferences. various guests on the podcast are likely to use the language that they have been exposed to the most. | |||