The paradox of the Christian faith involves losing one's life to find it and dying to oneself to gain it (Mark 8:34-35). As citizens of heaven we work, study, love and live here on the earth. The podcast features real conversations aimed at helping believers live for Christ while being grounded in the truth as they navigate life in this secular world. Hosted by Wayne Turner and Nadene Badenhorst for Joshua Generation Church with Michael d'Offay giving eldership oversight.
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What comes to mind when you hear the words mental health? Is it a genuine health issue that deserves the same attention as physical illness, or has mental health become an excuse people use to justify their behaviour?
Itās a subject that affects millions of people, yet it remains surrounded by confusion, misconceptions and stigma. Some people suffer in silence because theyāre afraid of being judged. Others wonder whether society has become too quick to label ordinary struggles as mental health conditions. And with the growing influence of social media, we have to ask: are we experiencing a genuine increase in mental health problems, or are we simply becoming more aware of them?
In this episode, weāre tackling these difficult questions head-on. What exactly is mental health? How is it different from physical health, and how are the two connected? What role have social media and online influencers played in shaping the way we understand mental health today?
And, perhaps most importantly, how should Christians approach this subject? How do we distinguish between spiritual struggles, emotional difficulties and conditions that require professional treatment? When should we speak to a pastor, a counsellor, a psychologist or a psychiatrist? And how do we hold on to our faith while recognising that sometimes we need help beyond what our church community can provide?
We want to move beyond the stereotypes, challenge some assumptions and explore what it means to respond with both biblical wisdom and compassion.
Because mental health is not a subject we can afford to ignore, dismiss or misunderstand.
So, is mental health an excuse, a reality, or something far more complex than either of those labels suggests?
Letās talk about it.
Living A Generous Life
Monday, October 19, 2026 ⢠Duration 49:23
What if generosity wasnāt just something you did once a month, but a way of life that transforms how you live every day?
In this episode weāre talking about living a generous life.
The New Testament calls us to something far greater than a month-end transaction. Generosity is about more than money; itās about the posture of our hearts and how we respond to what God has entrusted to us.
Generosity isnāt just financial. It includes our time, our gifts, our love, our service, and our willingness to respond when the Holy Spirit prompts us to bless someone.
True generosity is Spirit-led. We receive from God, respond to His leading, bless others, and keep the cycle of generosity going.
So, how do we move from giving out of obligation to living with open hands and open hearts? What changes when we see everything we have as entrusted to us by God for His purposes and to steward it faithfully?
Join us as we explore what it means to live generously, reflecting the heart of God in the way we live, give, and love.
Because generosity isnāt just an action ā itās a lifestyle.
Can Christianity and (African) Culture Meet?
Monday, October 12, 2026 ⢠Duration 54:38
Christianity and African culture ā must we choose between the two, or can they complement one another?
Africa is rich in cultural heritage, with traditions, customs, music, family structures and community values that have shaped generations. Yet, as Christians, we are called to examine every aspect of our lives through the lens of Scripture.
So, where do Christianity and African culture complement one another? What can we celebrate, preserve and embrace from our cultural heritage? And where do certain customs, beliefs and traditional practices come into conflict with biblical Christianity?
How do we distinguish between cultural practices that enrich our faith and those that compromise it? And how do we remain authentically African while being fully committed followers of Jesus Christ?
But these questions become especially challenging when our faith conflicts with the expectations of our non-believing family members. How do we honour our parents, respect our elders and maintain family relationships when we are asked to participate in practices that go against our biblical convictions? How do we stand firm in our faith without becoming disrespectful, judgemental or disconnected from those we love?
Today, we explore these questions and consider how the Bible helps us discern what to embrace, what to adapt and what we must leave behind ā while remaining faithful to Christ and loving towards our families and communities.
Does God Care Where My Children Go to School?
Monday, October 5, 2026 ⢠Duration 46:59
Where should my child go to school?
For Christian parents in South Africa, this is becoming an increasingly important question. Should our children attend a government school, private school, Christian school, homeschool or online school?
And with worldviews and values that increasingly conflict with biblical Christianity finding their way into schools, many parents are asking, āIs this the right environment for my child?ā
But perhaps we need to start with a bigger question:
Does God care which school my child goes to?
The Bible makes it clear that parents have the primary responsibility for raising and discipling their children. We cannot simply hand that responsibility over to a school. Ultimately, the decision belongs to the parents.
But how do we make that decision?
Perhaps the question isn't simply, āWhich school is best?ā It is: āGod, where do You want me to send this unique child You have entrusted to me, so that their potential can be maximised while they grow in their relationship with You and discover Your plans and purposes for their life?ā
Every child is different. What works for one child may not be right for another.
A government school isn't automatically wrong. A private school isn't automatically better. A Christian school isn't necessarily the right choice for every child, and homeschooling isn't automatically the most biblical option.The responsibility is ours as parents to seek God, understand our child, evaluate the options and make a wise decision.
So in this episode, we're going to ask what the Bible says about parental responsibility, education, competing worldviews and how Christian parents can make wise schooling decisions in today's South Africa.
Because ultimately, the question isn't simply:
āWhich school should my child attend?
āIt's:
āLord, where do You want me to send the child You have entrusted to me?ā
Healthy ... or Obsessed
Tuesday, September 29, 2026 ⢠Duration 55:38
What if the thing youāre doing to make yourself healthier is actually making you less healthy?
What if eating clean, counting calories, weighing yourself, tracking your sleep, exercising every day and constantly thinking about your health has stopped being good stewardshipāand has started controlling you?
We live in a culture that tells us to optimise everything: our food, our fitness, our sleep, our weight, our bodies and even our longevity. And wanting to be healthy is certainly not a bad thing.
But when does healthy become unhealthy?
When does discipline become obsession? When does commitment become control? When does looking after your body become being controlled by your body?
And perhaps most importantly, where does God fit into all of this?
The Bible doesnāt give us a particular diet, exercise programme or sleep schedule. But it does give us principles about self-control, discipline, stewardship, freedom, priorities and the condition of our hearts.
So how do we pursue good health without making health our god?
How do we recognise when something good has quietly become something that has too much control over our lives?
In this episode weāre going to explore that tensionāand look at what Godās Word can teach us about caring for the bodies God has given us while making sure that our pursuit of health doesnāt become an obsession.
Because being healthy mattersābut what controls your heart matters even more.
University, a Gap Year or Something Else
Monday, September 21, 2026 ⢠Duration 48:18
What do you do when your child finishes school and suddenly the big question is staring you in the face: University, a gap year, a discipleship schoolāor something completely different?For many young people, the pressure is to choose a career as quickly as possible. But is finding a career the same thing as finding your calling? And should we really expect an eighteen-year-old to know what they want to do with the rest of their life?
Perhaps a gap year could be an opportunity to grow in faith, discover who you are in Christ, develop practical skills, and learn to hear God for yourself. But a gap year can also bring its own challengesāespecially when a young person goes overseas alone, without the spiritual foundations, accountability, or support they need.
So what role should parents play? How do we encourage our children without controlling their decisions? When should we encourage university or further study, and when might a year of discipleship be the better choice? And how do we build on everything we've taught our children about God so that faith becomes something they personally own, rather than simply something they inherited from their parents?
Ultimately, this isn't just about choosing what to do after school. It's about learning to ask a much bigger question:āGod, what do You want me to do with my life?ā
Before finding a career, perhaps there is something more important to discoverāwho you are, whose you are, and what God has called you to become.
When Faith & Family Collide
Monday, September 14, 2026 ⢠Duration 52:49
āWhat do you do when the people you love most don't share the values that have become central to your life?
Following Jesus doesn't just change our Sunday morningsāit can change our priorities, commitments and the way we make decisions.
And sometimes, that creates tension.
Thereās a family birthday, a weekly dinner or a special gathering, but thereās also a church commitment or Kingdom responsibility that you believe is important.
So what do we do when faith and family collide?
How do we honour and love our families without compromising our devotion to Christ? When should family take priority, and when should our Kingdom commitments?
And how do we navigate these situations without becoming judgmental, legalistic or insensitive to the people we love?
The answer isn't simply, āChurch comes first,ā or āFamily always comes first.ā We are called to love, honour, serve and remain faithful to Christāand sometimes those commitments can pull us in different directions.
So today, we're having an honest conversation about When Faith & Family Collideāand how we can navigate those difficult moments with wisdom, grace and a heart that remains faithful to Christ.ā
Leaders Change But the Church Continues
Monday, September 7, 2026 ⢠Duration 42:32
There are few things more difficult for a church than saying goodbye to a leader we have come to love, trust and respect. Whether it is a pastor, elder or another spiritual leader, their departure can feel deeply personalāeven when we believe that God is the one calling them into a new season.
So how do we navigate that transition well?
In this podcast, weāre going to look at the experience from all sides: the members who are grieving a relationship, the leader who has to leave people they love, and the new leader who steps into a congregation with a history and expectations already in place.
How do we honour what God has done through the previous leader without living in the past? How do we welcome someone new without constantly comparing them to the person who left? And perhaps most importantly, how do we learn to trust God when He moves people and seasons in ways we wouldn't necessarily choose ourselves?
This is a conversation about change, loss, calling, letting goāand learning to trust God with what comes next.
Facing ours Fears and Anxiety
Monday, August 31, 2026 ⢠Duration 49:15
Today we're tackling a subject that touches every one of us at some point in our lives.
Throughout the Bible we're repeatedly told, "Do not fear." But what does that mean when fear feels overwhelming? What do we do when anxiety isn't just an occasional emotion, but something that weighs heavily on our minds, affects our relationships, disrupts our sleep, and even impacts our physical health?
Anxiety has become one of the defining struggles of our generation. It affects young and old, believers and unbelievers alike. It can quietly erode our peace, weaken our faith, and leave us feeling isolated and overwhelmed. Yet the Bible has a great deal to say about fear, anxiety, and the peace that God offers His people.
In this episode, we'll explore what Scripture teaches about fear and anxiety. Are fear and anxiety always sinful? Why does God so often command His people, "Do not be afraid"? How do we obey that command when our emotions tell us otherwise? And what practical, biblical steps can we take to fight anxiety and cultivate a deeper trust in God?
This is a conversation about more than managing emotions. It's about learning to trust a sovereign God in an uncertain world, discovering His presence in the midst of our fears, and finding the peace that Jesus promisedāa peace that transcends circumstances.
Whether you're wrestling with anxiety yourself or seeking to help someone who is, we pray this episode will equip you with biblical wisdom, practical encouragement, and renewed confidence in God's faithful promises.
Guarding & Growing in Joy
Monday, August 24, 2026 ⢠Duration 46:45
Today we're diving into a subject that lies at the very heart of the Christian life: "Guarding & Growing in Joy."
Joy is one of the great themes of Scripture. Yet for many believers, it can seem elusive. Life brings trials, disappointment, suffering, and uncertainty, and it's easy to wonder: Is lasting joy really possible?
The Bible tells us that joy is far more than a passing emotion or a response to favourable circumstances. It is a deep, enduring confidence rooted in the character of God, the finished work of Christ, and the unchanging hope of the gospel. It's a joy that can exist even in the midst of hardship.
So what does the Bible actually say about joy? How is biblical joy different from happiness? How do we guard our joy when life is difficult? And what practical habits help us grow in joy day by day?
In this episode, we'll explore the Scriptures to discover why joy is described as a fruit of the Spirit, why we're repeatedly commanded to rejoice, and how believers can cultivate a life marked by gratitude, worship, hope, and delight in Godāeven when circumstances are far from ideal.
We'll also discuss the things that rob us of joy, how to recognise them, and how to keep our eyes fixed on Christ, the true source of lasting joy.
Whether you're walking through a season of blessing or a season of struggle, our prayer is that this conversation will encourage you to experience the joy that God intends for His peopleānot a superficial happiness, but a deep and abiding joy that sustains us through every season of life.