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Do Less Parenting

Robyn Isman

Kids & Family

Frequency: 1 episode/11d. Total Eps: 36

Welcome to Do Less Parenting, the show for parents who are ready to stop overdoing and start raising braver, more resilient kids.

Hosted by Robyn Isman, parent coach, SPACE-trained practitioner, and mom of three, this podcast is your weekly permission slip to do less—because stepping back doesn’t mean giving up; it means giving your child the space to grow.

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https://parentingtheanxiouschild.thinkific.com/bundles/membership
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https://www.theanxiouschild.com/
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https://kristenmcneely.com/
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https://www.instagram.com/childhood.empowered
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https://www.instagram.com/theworkspaceforchildren
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Bonus 4: Anxiety and Behavior, How to Understand What Your Child Is Really Showing You with Kristen McNeely

Season 1 · Episode 4

Tuesday, April 21, 2026 • Duration 35:54

Anxiety and Behavior, How to Understand What Your Child Is Really Showing You with Kristen McNeely

Robyn and Kristen talk about the connection between anxiety and behavior, and how parents can respond in ways that support both emotional and behavioral needs.

In this episode, I’m joined again by Kristen McNeely, and I’m so glad she’s back because this is a conversation so many parents need. Kristen brings both a therapy background and a behavior background, which makes this discussion especially helpful when we’re trying to understand what’s really going on with our kids.

We talk about something that comes up all the time for parents. When a child is struggling, it can be hard to tell what’s anxiety and what’s behavior. And more importantly, how do we respond in a way that actually helps? Kristen shares how these two things are often deeply connected, especially for kids who are anxious or who may also have ADHD.

Throughout the episode, we explore how looking at behavior alone can miss the bigger picture, and how focusing only on emotions can leave parents without clear tools. This conversation helps bring those two pieces together so parents can feel more confident in how they respond in real time.

If you’ve ever felt stuck trying to figure out how to handle your child’s reactions, this episode will help you step back and see things more clearly. You’ll walk away with a better understanding of what your child’s behavior might be communicating and how to support them in a way that feels both grounded and effective.

Shared Resources:

Kristen McNeely’s Website
Follow Kristen on Instagram @childhood.empowered
Robyn’s 6-Week Parent Cohort
Follow Robyn on Instagram @parentingtheanxiouschild
Parenting the Anxious Child Membership
Sign up for Robyn’s Newsletter and find additional resources

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Bonus 3: Let Them Be Bored: Why Doing Less Helps Kids Play, Create, and Grow with Lizzie Assa

Season 1 · Episode 3

Tuesday, April 14, 2026 • Duration 45:42

Let Them Be Bored: Why Doing Less Helps Kids Play, Create, and Grow with Lizzie Assa

Robyn talks with Lizzie Assa about boredom, play, and how stepping back helps kids build creativity, independence, and confidence.

In this episode, I’m joined by Lizzie Assa, founder of The Workspace for Children and author of But I’m Bored, for a conversation that gets right to the heart of doing less parenting. Lizzie shares her perspective as a mom of three and someone who deeply believes in the power of play and giving kids more space to figure things out on their own.

We talk about boredom, something so many parents feel pressure to fix. When kids say “I’m bored,” it can feel like we’re supposed to jump in with ideas, solutions, or entertainment. But Lizzie explains why boredom is actually an opportunity. It’s often the starting point for creativity, problem-solving, and independence.

Throughout the episode, we explore how stepping back, talking less, and resisting the urge to constantly engage allows kids to take more ownership of their time and their ideas. Lizzie shares how this approach has played out in her own home and why doing less doesn’t mean being disengaged. It means being intentional about when we step in and when we allow space.

If you’ve ever felt stuck in the cycle of entertaining your kids or solving boredom for them, this episode will feel like a breath of fresh air. It’s a reminder that your child doesn’t need more from you in those moments. They need more room to discover what they’re capable of on their own.

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Follow Lizzie on Instagram @theworkspaceforchildren
Lizzy’s Website
Lizzy’s book But I’m Bored

14: Connection Over Control, Parenting with Curiosity with Guest Bridget KerMorris

Season 1 · Episode 14

Tuesday, November 18, 2025 • Duration 44:13

Letting Go of Control, How to Foster Trust and Independence

Robyn sits down with therapist Bridget KerMorris to talk about parenting through the middle school years with connection, curiosity, and communication.

In this episode, therapist and mom Robyn Isman is joined by fellow therapist Bridget KerMorris, a Stanford-trained lawyer and a mom of seven, for a thoughtful conversation about parenting during the middle school years—a season full of change, emotion, and opportunity for growth. Bridget shares her parenting framework that centers on curiosity rather than control, inviting parents to stay connected while allowing children the space to learn and repair.

Together, Robyn and Bridget discuss the realities of friendships, technology, and family communication in today’s world. They explore how parents can shift from monitoring to understanding, and how teaching empathy, repair, and self-awareness helps kids build the relationship skills they need for life. Bridget also reflects on her own transition from law to mental health work, emphasizing how self-care and emotional regulation shape the way parents show up.

By the end of this episode, you’ll feel encouraged to approach parenting with less pressure and more connection. You’ll learn how curiosity builds trust, how repair strengthens relationships, and how focusing on your own well-being creates space for your child’s independence to grow.

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Bridget KerMorris’s Website
Follow Bridget on Instagram @bridget.parentcoach
Middle School Safety ToolKit
50 ways I’m staying close to my middle schooler
Free Social Script ToolKit

13: Parenting through Bedtime Anxiety, Boundary Setting and the Need for Sleep!

Season 1 · Episode 13

Tuesday, November 11, 2025 • Duration 38:17

Parenting through Bedtime Anxiety, Boundary Setting and the Need for Sleep!

Robyn and guest therapist Ellanee Wilson, Certified Pediatric Sleep Coach, Credentialed Educator, and mom of three talk about how parents navigate sleep struggles by focusing on what is really going on! Hint: it’s not only about sleep schedules!

In this episode, therapist and mom Robyn Isman is joined by therapist Ellanee Wilson for an honest conversation about parenting and sleep. Together, they explore how sleep is connected to separation, boundary setting, and overall development.

Robyn and Ellanee discuss why when parents get stuck in trying to get their kid to sleep we lose sight of the fact that parents can actually do so much of the important work without making their kids do anything. They offer practical ways to set boundaries, remain supportive, and ultimately create an environment where both parents and kids feel relief.

By the end of this episode, parents will feel encouraged to approach sleep with support instead of frustration. You’ll learn how to create new plans that work for the whole family.

Shared Resources:

Ellanee Wilson’s Website
Follow Ellanee on Instagram @sleep.coach.mom
Find Ellanee’s Resources HERE
Follow Robyn on Instagram @parentingtheanxiouschild
Parenting the Anxious Child Membership
Sign up for Robyn’s Newsletter and find additional resources

12: Building Resilience Together, Supporting Parents Through Their Own Anxiety

Season 1 · Episode 12

Tuesday, November 4, 2025 • Duration 38:57

Building Resilience Together, Supporting Parents Through Their Own Anxiety

Robyn talks with fellow therapist Joanna Hardis, LISW-S about how parents can work through their own anxiety to better support their children’s growth and independence.

In this episode, therapist and mom Robyn Isman is joined by fellow therapist Joanna Hardis for an honest conversation about what it really means to support anxious kids when you’re an anxious parent yourself. Together, they explore the emotional tug-of-war that happens when parents want to help but feel overwhelmed by their own worries.

Robyn and Joanna discuss how a parent’s anxiety can shape family dynamics, impact communication, and even influence a child’s ability to cope. They share how self-awareness, small shifts in behavior, and compassionate boundaries can make an enormous difference at home. Their discussion reminds parents that taking care of themselves isn’t selfish—it’s foundational to helping their children feel safe and capable.

By the end of this episode, parents will feel encouraged to view their own anxiety as part of the process, not a flaw to hide. You’ll learn practical ways to model regulation, connect through honesty, and build resilience together as a family.

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Joanna Hardis’s Website
Follow Joanna on Instagram @joannahardis
Find Joanna’s Books HERE
Follow Robyn on Instagram @parentingtheanxiouschild
Parenting the Anxious Child Membership
Sign up for Robyn’s Newsletter and find additional resources

11: When School Becomes Scary, Understanding School Avoidance and What Helps

Season 1 · Episode 11

Tuesday, October 28, 2025 • Duration 35:47

When School Becomes Scary, Understanding School Avoidance and What Helps

Robyn talks with fellow therapist Kristen McNeely about school avoidance, unpacking what’s really happening beneath the surface and how parents can help kids return to school with confidence.

In this episode, therapist and mom Robyn Isman is joined by fellow therapist Kristen McNeely for a meaningful conversation about school avoidance. Together, they explore why some kids start to resist school, how anxiety plays a major role, and what parents can do to help. Rather than seeing school refusal as defiance, Robyn and Kristen explain how avoidance is a form of distress that needs understanding, not punishment.

They discuss the early signs of school avoidance, the difference between a tough morning and a pattern of anxiety, and the common mistakes parents make when trying to fix it. Robyn and Kristen share language parents can use to support their child’s feelings while still encouraging attendance. They also highlight how collaboration with schools can create a consistent, compassionate plan for getting kids back into class.

By the end of this episode, parents will feel more equipped to approach school avoidance with empathy and structure. You’ll learn how to balance validation with clear expectations, helping your child feel capable of facing school again—one small step at a time.

Shared Resources:

Kristen McNeely’s Website
Follow Kristen on Instagram @childhood.empowered
Follow Robyn on Instagram @parentingtheanxiouschild
Parenting the Anxious Child Membership
Sign up for Robyn’s Newsletter and find additional resources

10: When Kids Avoid, How to Support Without Rescuing

Season 1 · Episode 10

Tuesday, October 21, 2025 • Duration 17:42

When Kids Avoid, How to Support Without Rescuing

Robyn explains why avoidance keeps anxiety strong and how parents can step in with support that encourages coping instead of escape.

In this episode, therapist and mom Robyn Isman focuses on what happens when children avoid situations that make them anxious. She explains why avoidance feels like relief in the moment but actually makes anxiety stronger over time. Instead of helping kids feel safe, rescuing them from hard moments teaches them that they cannot handle discomfort.

Robyn shares everyday examples of avoidance, from skipping school to avoiding activities or withdrawing from peers. She offers practical strategies parents can use to stay supportive without giving in to avoidance. This includes naming the feeling, validating the struggle, and encouraging small, manageable steps forward.

By the end of this episode, you will know how to recognize avoidance, respond with connection, and help your child move toward independence. You will feel more prepared to step back from rescuing while still showing up as a steady, supportive presence.

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Follow Robyn on Instagram @parentingtheanxiouschild
Parenting the Anxious Child Membership
Sign up for Robyn’s Newsletter and find additional resources

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9: Facing the What Ifs, Helping Kids Build Tolerance for Uncertainty

Season 1 · Episode 9

Tuesday, October 14, 2025 • Duration 19:35

Facing the What Ifs, Helping Kids Build Tolerance for Uncertainty

Robyn explains how to respond when kids get stuck in “what if” questions and shows parents how to build resilience instead of feeding worry.

In this episode, therapist and mom Robyn Isman talks about one of the most common ways anxiety shows up in children—the endless cycle of “what if” questions. She explains why answering every question with reassurance may calm things in the moment but ultimately gives anxiety more power. Instead of helping kids feel secure, it often keeps them dependent on parents for certainty.

Robyn shares clear examples of how “what if” thinking takes hold and how parents can shift their responses. She offers practical language that validates feelings while gently redirecting kids back to problem-solving and coping skills. She also highlights the importance of helping children learn that uncertainty is safe and something they can handle.

By the end of this episode, you will feel more confident responding to your child’s “what ifs” without getting stuck in the reassurance loop. You will understand how to guide your child toward resilience and independence by teaching them to face uncertainty with support instead of avoidance.

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Follow Robyn on Instagram @parentingtheanxiouschild
Parenting the Anxious Child Membership
Sign up for Robyn’s Newsletter and find additional resources

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8: The Comparison Trap, Why Measuring Against Other Parents Increases Anxiety

Season 1 · Episode 8

Tuesday, October 7, 2025 • Duration 20:54

The Comparison Trap, Why Measuring Against Other Parents Increases Anxiety

Robyn unpacks how comparing yourself to other parents fuels anxiety and keeps you from focusing on what your child truly needs.

In this episode, therapist and mom Robyn Isman explores the harmful cycle of comparison in parenting. She explains how measuring yourself against other parents can increase anxiety, fuel guilt, and distract you from tuning into your own child’s needs. Instead of bringing clarity, comparison often leaves parents feeling inadequate and children feeling pressured.

Robyn reflects on her own experiences and the stories she hears from parents in her practice. She highlights the subtle ways comparison sneaks into daily life—through social media, school expectations, and conversations with other parents. She also shares strategies to help parents notice when they are slipping into comparison and gently redirect their focus back to connection and support.

By the end of this episode, you will understand why comparison is a trap that does not serve you or your child. You will feel encouraged to step away from measuring yourself against others and instead build confidence in your own parenting choices.

Shared Resources:

Follow Robyn on Instagram @parentingtheanxiouschild
Parenting the Anxious Child Membership
Sign up for Robyn’s Newsletter and find additional resources

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7: The Pressure to Be Perfect, How Parental Anxiety Fuels the Cycle

Season 1 · Episode 7

Tuesday, September 30, 2025 • Duration 21:02

The Pressure to Be Perfect, How Parental Anxiety Fuels the Cycle

Robyn explores how a parent’s own anxiety and perfectionism can unintentionally increase anxiety in their child.

In this episode, therapist and mom Robyn Isman takes a closer look at the role parental anxiety plays in children’s struggles. She explains how parents’ pressure to get it right, do it all, or prevent every mistake can unintentionally model fear and reinforce the very cycle they want to break. Instead of creating safety, perfectionism can pass along anxiety and leave children feeling less capable.

Robyn shares her own reflections as both a parent and therapist, offering examples of how this cycle shows up in everyday family life. She gives practical strategies to help parents notice when their own anxiety is leading them to hover or over-correct. She also highlights simple steps parents can take to pause, regulate, and respond differently.

By the end of this episode, you will see how lowering the pressure to be perfect can free both you and your child. You will feel encouraged to shift from control and over-accommodation to connection and support, creating more space for independence and resilience.

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Follow Robyn on Instagram @parentingtheanxiouschild
Parenting the Anxious Child Membership
Sign up for Robyn’s Newsletter and find additional resources

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