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Divorce Happens

Fresh Starts Registry

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Frequency: 1 episode/3d. Total Eps: 292

Welcome to Divorce Happens, the podcast where we inspire, educate, and support you through divorce and beyond so that you can start fresh on the next phase of your journey. Produced by Fresh Starts Registry, the only divorce registry platform for everything you need to begin again, including home items, hype team, and everything in between. Remember, divorce happens...and then, we start fresh. We're here to support you before, during, and after divorce. Hosted by Olivia Dreizen Howell, the co-founder and CEO of Fresh Starts Registry.

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How to Divorce a Narcissist with Divorce Coach and Certified Narcissistic Abuse Recovery Coach Lisa Happ

Season 1 · Episode 21

Wednesday, January 1, 2025 • Duration 20:30

In this episode of Divorce Happens, we are joined by Lisa Happ, a narcissistic abuse recovery coach, divorce coach, and trauma specialist. Lisa offers invaluable insights into navigating a divorce when dealing with a narcissist, from recognizing the signs of narcissistic behaviors to understanding the differences between narcissistic tendencies and full-blown narcissistic personality disorder. Lisa explains how narcissists often manipulate their partners, using tactics like love bombing and devaluing, and how their partners may find themselves questioning their reality. She shares strategies for coping with these challenges and emphasizes the importance of professional support during this difficult process.

Olivia and Lisa dive deep into the complexities of divorcing a narcissist, including the emotional toll and the challenges of dealing with their distorted version of reality. Lisa highlights the importance of preparation, both emotionally and legally, when facing a divorce with a narcissistic partner. She offers practical advice on protecting yourself, including safeguarding assets and getting professional help to create a clear plan. Above all, Lisa stresses the need to rebuild self-esteem and reclaim one's life after the trauma of a toxic relationship. For those navigating this tough journey, Lisa's empowering words provide hope and guidance toward a fresh start.

You can get in touch with Lisa on her Fresh Starts profile: https://www.freshstartsregistry.com/resourceguide/lisa-happ-coaching

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How to Navigate the Overwhelm of Divorce Paperwork with Legal Document Specialist Aprille Barker

Season 1 · Episode 21

Wednesday, January 1, 2025 • Duration 16:19

In this episode of Divorce Happens, Olivia Howell chats with Aprille Barker, a legal consultant and paralegal who specializes in helping individuals navigate the complexities of divorce. Aprille shares how she supports clients who may not be able to afford an attorney by guiding them through mediation, paperwork preparation, and the logistical challenges of the process. She emphasizes the importance of education and transparency, offering step-by-step guidance to reduce stress and streamline what can often feel like an overwhelming second job. Whether it’s providing resources like financial advisors or realtors, or preparing essential legal documents, Aprille’s approach is rooted in making the process as straightforward and amicable as possible.

Aprille also discusses the importance of preparation, recommending that individuals gather documents like mortgage information, retirement accounts, and insurance policies before their initial consultation. She explains how she customizes her support based on each client’s unique needs, whether they meet at her office or in the comfort of their own home. With over three decades of experience in New Hampshire family law, Aprille’s expertise is invaluable in helping clients save time, money, and emotional energy during a difficult life transition. Tune in to learn more about her role in the divorce process and how she empowers individuals to start fresh.

You can learn more about Aprille Barker at Fresh Starts Registry in the Expert Guide: https://www.freshstartsregistry.com/resourceguide/aprille-barker-freelance-paralegal-llc

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How to: Tips from a Realtor for Preparing to Sell Your House During a Divorce Without Losing Your Mind

Season 1 · Episode 10

Thursday, November 28, 2024 • Duration 07:47

On this episode of Divorce Happens, we chatted with realtor Holly Martins about her five fresh tips for getting a marital home ready to sell during a divorce. Holly shared practical advice on navigating this emotional and logistical challenge, emphasizing the importance of communication, planning, and teamwork. From establishing a timeline to purging unnecessary belongings, Holly’s guidance helps divorcing couples take proactive steps to ensure a smoother home-selling process. She also highlighted the value of wise investments in home repairs and the need for neutral, professional representation to make the sale as seamless as possible.

Takeaways from the episode include key questions like: Where will you move next, and how will you plan the transition? Have you set a clear timeline for the sale that both parties agree on? Are you prioritizing sorting and purging belongings to reduce stress during the move? Are you addressing necessary repairs that could impact the home’s value? And finally, how can you find a realtor who remains professional and impartial throughout the process? Holly’s tips provide a solid roadmap for anyone navigating the complexities of selling a marital home post-divorce.

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How I Announced My Divorce: Scarlett Longstreet

Season 1 · Episode 9

Tuesday, November 26, 2024 • Duration 12:14

On this episode of Divorce Happens, we chatted with writer and mom of three, Scarlett Longstreet, about the delicate art of announcing a divorce. Scarlett opens up about her own experience of sharing the news with her community, highlighting why a clear and thoughtful announcement can reduce assumptions and create space for understanding. From balancing honesty with privacy to navigating the emotions involved, Scarlett shares practical advice for anyone facing this pivotal moment.

Takeaways include:

Why clarity matters when announcing a divorce.
Tips for crafting a formal announcement that aligns with your values.
How to handle emotional responses from your community with grace.
Scarlett, a self-proclaimed "little treat and long car sit enthusiast" from Detroit, brings humor and insight to a challenging topic, offering a compassionate perspective for those on this journey.

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How a Professional Organizer Helps You Reclaim Your Space After Your Divorce for Your Fresh Start

Season 1 · Episode 8

Tuesday, November 26, 2024 • Duration 08:29

On this episode of Divorce Happens, we chatted with home organizer Shantae Duckworth about reclaiming your space after divorce. Shantae shares practical tips on how to refresh your surroundings, incorporate new items, and re-organize your home to reflect your new chapter. From tackling digital files and paperwork to redesigning your space, she highlights how professional organizing can simplify the process and ease emotional overwhelm. Whether in-person or through virtual sessions, Shantae explains how organizers act as both logistical and emotional support during a time of significant transition.

Takeaways include:

How professional organizers can help create a fresh, empowering environment post-divorce.
The benefits of virtual organizing sessions for managing paperwork and setting up a new space.
Understanding the emotional attachment to "stuff" and how to work through it.
Why a professional organizer can feel like a life coach during these challenging moments.

Key questions covered:

How can re-organizing your home help you move forward emotionally?
What are the advantages of virtual organizing sessions during a divorce?
Why is decluttering an essential step to starting fresh after a major life transition?

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How to: Tips from a Divorce Lawyer on How to Navigate the Divorce Process With Clarity and Confidence

Season 1 · Episode 7

Tuesday, November 26, 2024 • Duration 04:34

On this episode of Divorce Happens, we chatted with divorce attorney Alex Peterson of Family First Legal Group to explore 5 Fresh Tips for navigating the divorce process with clarity and confidence. From understanding the importance of asking the right questions to knowing what to expect in terms of costs, Alex breaks down the key steps to make the divorce process less overwhelming and more strategic. Whether you’re just beginning or feeling stuck, this episode offers expert insights to help you protect your best interests—and your kids—during this challenging time.

Key points:

Why "buy nice, not twice" applies to choosing a divorce attorney.
The crucial questions you should ask any prospective lawyer to ensure a smooth divorce process.
How speaking with a former client can provide valuable perspective.
The importance of balanced communication with your attorney.
Why understanding the full financial picture of your case matters.

Key questions covered:

What specific traits and practices should you look for in a divorce attorney?
How can you prepare for a consultation to make the most of your time?
Why is it important to focus on long-term outcomes instead of short-term savings?

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How to: Managing ADHD and Staying Organized During Divorce

Season 1 · Episode 6

Monday, November 25, 2024 • Duration 11:16

In this episode of Divorce Happens, we dive into the challenges of managing ADHD and executive functioning during the transitional period of divorce. Whether you’re staying in the marital home or preparing to downsize, the process can feel overwhelming—especially for those with ADHD or neurodiverse tendencies. We explore practical strategies to tackle decision paralysis, streamline the decluttering process, and organize important documents. From leveraging tools like virtual body doubling to finding support for downsizing or tackling paperwork, this episode provides actionable tips to make the divorce transition less chaotic.

Key takeaways include the importance of breaking tasks into manageable steps, seeking support from professionals or friends, and using accountability methods like body doubling. We also discuss how organizing your space can provide mental clarity during a difficult time and why investing in help for executive functioning challenges is invaluable. This episode is a must-listen for anyone navigating divorce with ADHD or struggling to stay on top of it all.

Questions answered on this episode of Divorce Happens:

Managing ADHD During Divorce: How to Stay Organized and Simplify Your Life

How does ADHD impact the divorce process?
What is decision paralysis, and how can you overcome it during life transitions?
What strategies help with decluttering and organizing in a neurodiverse-friendly way?
How can professional organizers or virtual support provide relief during a chaotic time?

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How to: Navigate Dating After Divorce with Dr. Susan Trotter

Season 1 · Episode 5

Friday, August 2, 2024 • Duration 21:56

In this episode, we sit down with Dr. Susan Trotter, a renowned relationship, dating, and divorce coach, to explore the often daunting world of dating after divorce. Dr. Trotter offers valuable insights into regaining confidence and embracing the possibilities that come with a fresh start. She emphasizes the importance of self-discovery and healing before jumping into the dating scene, encouraging listeners to take time to understand their needs and desires. By focusing on personal growth and cultivating self-compassion, individuals can build a strong foundation of confidence, making them more open to meaningful connections. Dr. Trotter also shares practical advice on where to meet potential partners, from online dating platforms to community events, and stresses the importance of approaching each interaction with an open mind and heart.

Dr. Trotter highlights the benefits of viewing dating as a journey of self-exploration and opportunity rather than a task to be completed. She encourages listeners to let go of preconceived notions about what dating "should" be and instead remain open to new experiences and people. This mindset allows for a more enjoyable and authentic dating process, free from unnecessary pressure and expectations. Additionally, Dr. Trotter discusses strategies for tackling the dating process with a positive attitude, including setting realistic goals, being honest about intentions, and maintaining clear boundaries. By following these guidelines, individuals can navigate the dating landscape post-divorce with confidence, resilience, and a renewed sense of excitement about the future.

Learn more about Dr. Susan Trotter: https://www.freshstartsregistry.com/resourceguide/susan-trotter

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How to: Tell Your Kids About Your Divorce with Therapist Oona Metz

Season 1 · Episode 4

Friday, August 2, 2024 • Duration 06:00

In this insightful episode, we tackle one of the most challenging conversations a parent can face during a divorce: telling your children. Therapist Oona Metz joins us to share expert advice on how to approach this delicate subject with honesty and sensitivity. Oona emphasizes the importance of being both vulnerable and resilient, modeling these qualities for your children. She explains that while every parent wants to protect their kids, it is crucial to communicate honestly about family changes, providing a balance between acknowledging sadness and reassuring them that the family will navigate through this together. Oona advises that the timing of the conversation should be considered carefully, with older children being told sooner due to their ability to sense household tension, while much younger children should be informed closer to any major changes, like a parent moving out.

Oona also stresses the importance of using a calm, unified approach when delivering the news. Ideally, both parents should work together to create a set of agreed-upon statements to guide the conversation, ensuring consistency and avoiding potential conflicts in front of the children. For parents who must deliver the news alone, Oona reassures that it is better to have one thoughtful, composed parent communicate the message than two parents who disagree. The first conversation should be kept brief and focus on the decision to separate, using the term "separation" initially to introduce the concept of divorce gently. While avoiding intricate details about the reasons for the separation, it’s crucial to offer a simple explanation like “We haven’t been getting along” and reassure your children that efforts were made to resolve issues. Emphasize that while some aspects of their lives might change, your love and commitment to them remain constant. Finally, encourage your children to express their feelings and assure them that they can approach you with any questions or concerns as everyone adjusts to the new family dynamics.

Learn more about Oona Metz: https://www.freshstartsregistry.com/resourceguide/oona-metz-licsw

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Family Law Attorney Jolee Vacchi Answers: What is Considered "Property" in a Divorce?

Season 1 · Episode 3

Friday, August 2, 2024 • Duration 09:57

In this episode, we talk to Jolee Vacchi, family law attorney and founder of Foundations Family Law & Mediation Center. We dive into the complexities of property division during a divorce, exploring how assets and liabilities are distributed between separating spouses. Property in a divorce context encompasses everything from real estate and personal belongings to financial assets like bank accounts, investments, and retirement funds.

We also discuss how debts are factored into this process, ensuring listeners understand that liabilities are divided alongside assets. Jolee clarifies what constitutes marital property—assets acquired during the marriage—and distinguish it from separate property, which includes items owned before marriage or received individually as gifts or inheritances.

We also examine the concept of equitable distribution, a legal principle used in many states to ensure a fair division of marital property. Unlike equal distribution, equitable distribution doesn't always mean a 50/50 split; instead, it considers factors like each spouse’s financial and non-financial contributions to the marriage, the duration of the marriage, and each party's economic circumstances post-divorce. We explain how courts interpret "equitable" and what it means for divorcing couples who must negotiate these terms.

Foundations Family Law & Mediation Center is a boutique family law practice based in Worcester County, Massachusetts. We strive to resolve family law conflicts as painlessly and peacefully as possible. Our approach is caring and dignified. While not afraid to utilize strong tactics if needed, the preferred method is respectful and amicable, especially when children are involved. We firmly believe that something beautiful can be made from something broken, and we will be with you every step of the way to help you build a solid foundation for the future you deserve. A future filled with freedom, stability, and peace of mind.

You can find more information about Jolee Vacchi here: https://www.freshstartsregistry.com/resourceguide/foundations-family-law-mediation-center