If your mind feels loud but your heart has gone quiet, this episode is for you. If you're navigating divorce or separation and feel overwhelmed by everyone's opinions, this episode will help you tune back into your voice.

In this instalment of The Anatomy of Divorce, I explore The Ears — the part of the process where discernment, boundaries, and self-trust matter most. During separation, it can feel like you're drowning in advice from friends, family, lawyers, social media, and your own inner critic. But not every voice deserves airtime.

I share how this played out during my own divorce and how to recognise the difference between helpful guidance and harmful noise. You'll learn how to filter opinions, balance emotion with strategy, and rebuild trust in your own internal compass.

This episode is for anyone struggling with decision-making, second-guessing themselves, or feeling confused by the competing voices around them.

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Host: Nikki Parkinson, TEDx Speaker, Divorce Doula, Coach and Founder of The Divorce and Separation Hub.

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I hope you enjoyed the podcast today. The information we discussed today was just that information only. It is not specific advice. If you take action following something you heard today, it is important to make sure you get professional advice about your unique situation before you proceed, whether that advice be legal, financial, accounting, medical or other advice. Please reach out to me if you have any questions or if there's another topic you'd like explored.

This episode is part of The Anatomy of Divorce segment, I unpack one of the most overlooked skills in separation - perspective.

When life turns upside down after divorce, your brain goes into survival mode. You loop old arguments, replay stories, and grip tightly to being understood. But sometimes the shift you need most isn't fixing them - it's seeing them differently.

I share how understanding your biology, practising perspective-taking, and embracing Mel Robbins' Let Them Theory can help you calm your nervous system, make clearer decisions, and protect your peace.

You'll also learn my six-step Perspective Check, a simple, science-backed tool to help you step out of reactivity and back into clarity.

This is an episode for anyone who's ready to stop explaining, start exhaling, and find real freedom after divorce.

• Why your brain goes into survival mode after separation;

• How looping thoughts keep you trapped in pain;

• The psychology of perspective taking and how it helps regulate emotions;

• A six-step framework to widen your lens without losing your boundaries;

• The 90-second de-flare technique for calmer communication;

• What the Let Them Theory can teach us about emotional release and self-preservation;

• The difference between letting go and giving up;

• Why peace comes from perception, not permission.

Resources:

Mel Robbins

1800 RESPECT

Beyond Blue

Blue Knot Foundation

Lifeline

Headspace

Friendline

Relationships Australia

Kids Helpline

Mens Line Australia

Lysn

Mindspot

QLife

Panda

Sane

Suicide Call Back Service

Open Arms

White Ribbon Australia

Amica

Reach Out

Gidget Foundation

Black Dog Institute

Link 2 Home Homelessness

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Host: Nikki Parkinson, TEDx Speaker, Divorce Doula, Coach and Founder of The Divorce and Separation Hub.

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Book your free consultation today to find out if Simple Separation is right for your situation at simple-separation.com.au.

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I hope you enjoyed the podcast today. The information we discussed today was just that information only. It is not specific advice. If you take action following something you heard today, it is important to make sure you get professional advice about your unique situation before you proceed, whether that advice be legal, financial, accounting, medical or other advice. Please reach out to me if you have any questions or if there's another topic you'd like explored.

Divorce is one of the hardest things you'll ever go through. The loss, the uncertainty, the fear of what's next, it can feel overwhelming. But what if this was also an opportunity to rediscover yourself?

In this episode, I'm joined by Jillian Turecki, Certified Relationship Coach, Teacher, Author, and Host of the Podcast, Jillian On Love. We have a raw and honest conversation about what it really takes to heal after a breakup, why self-acceptance is more important than self-love, and how to rebuild trust, both in yourself and in future relationships.

Jillian also shares insights from her new book, It Begins With You: The 9 Hard Truths About Love That Will Change Your Life, and we dive into the lessons we've learned from our own breakups, the moments that made us question everything, and the unexpected freedom that comes when you finally let go.

If you're struggling to make sense of your divorce or separation, feeling stuck in the heartbreak, or wondering how you'll ever move forward, this episode is for you.

• The first thing you need to do after a breakup;
• How to stop second-guessing yourself and start trusting your decisions;
• Why choosing yourself doesn't mean disregarding others;
• The truth about financial independence and why it matters in relationships;
• How to embrace freedom after divorce instead of fearing it;
• What a healthy relationship actually looks like;
• Why heartbreak makes us feel crazy and how to manage those emotions.

This is one of those conversations that will stay with you.

This episode is brought to you by Simple Separation. For a stress-free, transparent approach to navigating separation, book a free consultation with their team today.

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Host: Nikki Parkinson, TEDx Speaker, Divorce Doula, Coach and Founder of The Divorce and Separation Hub.

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Guest: Jillian Turecki, Certified Relationship Coach, Teacher, Author, and Host of the Podcast, Jillian On Love

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Talking to your kids about divorce can feel overwhelming. It may be one of the hardest conversations that you will have. How do you deliver life-changing news without breaking their hearts? How do you reassure them that they are loved, secure, and not responsible for what's happening?  

In this episode, I'm joined by Bella Duncan, founder of A Kid With Two Homes. Bella brings an incredibly important perspective, one that she's lived through with her her parents divorce. Together, we explore how to approach this delicate conversation with love, honesty, and compassion.  

Bella shares not just the emotional side of this experience, but also practical tips for parents who may be struggling to find the right words or the right time. If you've ever worried about how to protect your children while navigating divorce, this episode is a must-listen.  

What You'll Learn in This Episode:

1. Why the conversation matters so much.

2. Timing and age-appropriate communication.

3. Delivering the news as a team.

4. What kids really want to know.  

5. Why you must say, "This is not your fault".

6. Ongoing conversations, this is not a not one-and-done conversation.

7. Breaking the stigma of "broken families.

8. Practical tips for helping kids adjust.

Resources & Next Steps:  
Bella and I have collaborated and created a program for you, How to Tell Your Kids You're Separating. You can join at the introductory price HERE.

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Host: Nikki Parkinson, TEDx Speaker, Divorce Doula, Coach and Founder of The Divorce and Separation Hub.

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Guest: Bella Duncan, A Kid With Two Homes

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Loneliness after a divorce or separation can send you into a spiral of overwhelm. 

In this episode, I explore what loneliness really means, why it feels so intense after a relationship ends, and most importantly, how to start reconnecting with the world around you and with yourself.  

Whether you're feeling isolated or simply curious about how to move forward, this episode is packed with insights and practical tips to help you rebuild meaningful connections and rediscover fulfillment.

Loneliness is a signal, not a sentence. It's a reminder of how much you value connection, and with small, meaningful steps, you can build a fulfilling, connected life again.  

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Host: Nikki Parkinson, TEDx Speaker, Divorce Doula, Coach and Founder of The Divorce and Separation Hub.

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I am welcoming back Melissa Browne onto the podcast to help you "Declutter Your Finances". We are sharing with you how to unravel the mystery of financial clutter and offer practical strategies to simplify, prioritise, and take control of your finances — no spreadsheets required. Whether you're adjusting to a new financial reality or just looking to feel more in charge, this episode is packed with actionable advice.

What You'll Learn:

Face the Numbers, Face the Truth: Understand why knowing exactly what you earn, owe, and spend is the foundation of financial freedom—and why most people avoid it.

Declutter in Bite-Sized Chunks: From food budgets to electricity bills, Melissa's methodical approach helps you tackle financial clutter one step at a time.

Break Free from Bad Habits: Discover how small unconscious actions, like using credit cards or buy-now-pay-later services, could be silently sabotaging your goals.

The 30-Day Detox for Your Wallet: A game-changing exercise that resets your relationship with money and empowers you to spend with intention.

Dealing with Debt, Made Simple: Melissa demystifies the four types of debt, how to handle each, and why not all debt is created equal.

Forget Budgets — Build a Plan That Works: Learn how to create a lifestyle-first approach to managing money that feels achievable and sustainable.

Shifting Mindsets Around Money: Strategies to reduce financial anxiety, build resilience, and create a financial future that aligns with your values.

Inspiring Insights:
- Why financial modeling for your kids isn't just important — it's a legacy.
- How acting "counter-culturally" can free you from the relentless pressure of consumerism.
- The truth about financial resilience: It's not about having it all; it's about living a life aligned with your core values.

Free Resources from Melissa:
50+ Ways to Find $10K in 12 Months: Creative ideas to generate extra income, from pet sitting to strategic savings — no second job required. CLICK HERE.

Melissa's Financial Courses: Gain clarity and confidence with Melissa's practical, approachable programs designed for real life. CLICK HERE TO JOIN.

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Host: Nikki Parkinson, TEDx Speaker, Divorce Doula, Coach and Founder of The Divorce and Separation Hub.

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Guest: Melissa Browne

Melissa Browne, is an ex-accountant, ex-financial advisor & ex-working till she drops. 

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It started with "I do" and ended with "It's over".

I sit down with Sarah Catherall, journalist and author of "How to Break Up Well: Surviving and Thriving After Separation" to talk about her "Chapter 2" and life after separation and divorce. Sarah shares her experiences of navigating the end of her marriage, raising her children, and creating a fulfilling new chapter in her life. 

Key Takeaways:

The Reality of Separation:

• Sarah discusses the moment her marriage ended and how she coped with the unexpected changes. She reflects on how the pressures of parenting, work, and life contributed to the breakdown of her relationship.  

Talking to Children About Divorce:

• Practical advice on preparing for and having the conversation with children about separation. 

Rebuilding After Divorce:

• Tips for maintaining connections with extended family and finding new ways to co-parent effectively.  

Dating and Repartnering:

• Sarah reflects on her early dating missteps after divorce and what she learned about introducing a new partner to her children.  
• Advice for taking it slow and respecting your children's feelings during this transition.

Can you Break Up Well? Absolutely you can!

Resources Mentioned:  
Sarah Catherall's Book: How to Break Up Well: Surviving and Thriving After Separation. Buy in Australia  Here. Buy in New Zealand Here.

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This episode is brought to you by Simple Separation. For a stress-free, transparent approach to navigating separation, book a free consultation with their team today.

Host: Nikki Parkinson, TEDx Speaker, Divorce Doula, Coach and Founder of The Divorce and Separation Hub.

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Guest: Sarah Catherall

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I sit down with Despina Mavridou, author of "Mum, Dad, Can You Hear Me?", about her personal experience growing up in the middle of her parents' high-conflict divorce. Despina shares her powerful story from being a child used as a messenger between her parents to becoming a mediator and advocate for kids in similar situations. 

Key discussions:

• Despina opens up about the emotional rollercoaster of being caught in her parents' conflict and the toll it took on her as a child.
• The devastating effects of using children as messengers and the impact it has on their sense of responsibility and guilt.
• How parents can better support their children during separation by being mindful of their emotional needs and avoiding placing them in the middle of conflicts.
• Despina shares how her childhood shaped her adult relationships, including her fear of abandonment and the impact of divorce on her own marriage.
• Practical advice for parents navigating separation, including seeking help before mediation and focusing on the kids' well-being.
• Despina's hope that her book will give children a voice and help parents understand the long-lasting effects of divorce on their kids.

If you're navigating your own separation and wondering how to help your children through this difficult time, this conversation is a must-listen.

You can find Despina's book *Mum, Dad, Can You Hear Me?* on Amazon, in English, Portuguese, and Greek. 

Resources:
- "Mum, Dad, Can You Hear Me?" by Despina Mavridou
- Divorce and Separation Hub: www.divorceandseparationhub.com

Host: Nikki Parkinson, TEDx Speaker, Divorce Doula, Coach and Founder of The Divorce and Separation Hub.

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Guest: Despina Mavridou

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Nikki Parkinson talks to Christina Salvo, the CEO of Simple Separation about her divorce story, which began amicably but devolved into a ten-year legal battle. Christina highlights the complexities and emotional toll of prolonged court involvement.

Key discussions:

Systemic Flaws:

• Discusses the broken aspects of the family court system.
• Emphasises how financial constraints often prevent individuals from effectively advocating for their parental rights and needs.

Mediation Insights:

• Importance of mediation as a viable alternative to litigation.
• Christina shares her mission to support couples through mediation.
• Focus on the need for more comprehensive training around property settlements within mediation services.

Advice for Couples:

• Encourages maintaining a collaborative mindset to reduce emotional and financial strain during separation.
• Offers practical tips for effective communication and conflict resolution.

What is the Future of Family Law:

• Reflection on the evolving landscape of family law.
• Focus on creating supportive frameworks that prioritize the well-being of children and families.

Resources Mentioned:

1. Sign up to "How to Tell Your Kids you are Separating Program" Waitlist HERE.
2. Simple Separation

Host: Nikki Parkinson, TEDx Speaker, Divorce Doula, Coach and Founder of The Divorce and Separation Hub.

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Guest: Christina Salvo, CEO of Simple Separation

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In this solo episode, I am sharing a snippet of my personal story that's been unfolding in my life, offering you some valuable lessons along the way. While navigating this situation was far from easy, it tested all my divorce coaching skills and taught me a lot about the power of responsibility and response-ability.

In this episode, I share insights on:

• Responsibility vs. Response-Ability: Learn the key differences between these two concepts and how they can shift the way you approach difficult situations, especially with your ex-partner.
• Practical strategies to help you remain calm and composed, even when life throws curveballs.
• My personal reflections on how communication is at the heart of all our relationships, whether with your ex, your kids, or anyone else.

I introduce you to my three go-to tips for taking responsibility and response-ability:

1. Breath is your best friend.
2. The 24-Hour Rule.
3. Taking Radical Responsibility.

Resourses mentioned in this episode:

The 24-Hour Rule Podcast.

Host: Nikki Parkinson, TEDx Speaker, Divorce Doula, Coach and Founder of The Divorce and Separation Hub.

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What is a Certified Divorce Lending Professional and why do you need one on your team?

In this episode, Nikki is joined by Emile Flowers, a Certified Divorce Lending Professional (CDLP). Emile sheds light on the often overlooked aspect of divorce — mortgage planning. As a CDLP, Emily plays a crucial role in ensuring that divorcing clients are set up for success post-separation, particularly when it comes to housing and financial stability.

Emile shares her journey from being a stay-at-home mom to becoming a key player in the divorce lending field. She explains how crucial it is to involve a CDLP early in the divorce process to avoid issues like incorrect settlement agreements and financial pitfalls. Together, Nikki and Emily discuss the importance of bringing the right professionals into your divorce team, ensuring that both parties come out of the process financially secure.

Listen in to hear Emile's top tips.

Host: Nikki Parkinson, TEDx Speaker, Divorce Doula, Coach and Founder of The Divorce and Separation Hub.

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Guest: Emile Flowers

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This episode is sponsored by Simple Separation. You can find our more about Simple Separation HERE.

And exhale ...

Nikki sits down with Linda Vazin, a breathwork expert, to chat how breathwork can be a powerful tool for emotional healing during and after divorce. 

Nikki and Linda dive into -

• Why it's important to let yourself fully experience emotions like sadness and anger, rather than rushing through them.
• Breaking old patterns we inherit from our families.
• What makes transformational breathwork different?
• A favourite of Nikki's Reacting vs. responding.
• Taking responsibility for relationship patterns.
• How holding onto unresolved emotions can affect your physical health and how breathwork can release these stored emotions.

If you are going through a separation or divorce you will definiatly want to add Nikki and Linda's tips to your Toolkit. It's an episode is full of real-life wisdom and practical tips. 

Divorce and Separation Podcast offers valuable insights and practical tips for individuals navigating the challenges of separation, making it a resourceful guide for those seeking support during this emotional journey.

Host: Nikki Parkinson, TEDx Speaker, Divorce Doula, Coach and Founder of The Divorce and Separation Hub.

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Guest: Linda Varzin

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Separation and divorce cost the Australian economy $101 billion every year but behind that figure are real people quietly trying to hold their lives, families, and jobs together.

In this episode, I'm joined by Andrew Tomich, Director at A&Co Recruitment Partners, to explore how divorce impacts the workplace from leadership and productivity to culture and wellbeing.

Andrew shares what happened when a senior colleague went through a complex separation and how empathy, flexibility, and communication became the foundation for getting through it together. We talk about the ripple effect personal crises have inside organisations, why traditional leave policies fall short, and how initiatives like "Life Leave" are changing the way businesses support their teams.

It's a conversation about leadership that sees the person behind the role and why humanising the workplace isn't just good for people, it's good for business.

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Host: Nikki Parkinson, TEDx Speaker, Divorce Doula, Coach and Founder of The Divorce and Separation Hub.

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Guest: Andrew Tomich, Founder & Director A&Co Recruuitment Partners

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This episode is sponsored by Simple Separation, the smarter way to separate. Simple Separation is an online, fixed-fee service designed to help Australian couples finalise their divorce and separation respectfully, collaboratively, and without the stress of going to court. From property settlements and parenting plans to child support and divorce applications, everything you need is under one roof, saving you time, money, and unnecessary conflict.

Book your free consultation today to find out if Simple Separation is right for your situation at simple-separation.com.au.

Disclaimer

I hope you enjoyed the podcast today. The information we discussed today was just that information only. It is not specific advice. If you take action following something you heard today, it is important to make sure you get professional advice about your unique situation before you proceed, whether that advice be legal, financial, accounting, medical or other advice. Please reach out to me if you have any questions or if there's another topic you'd like explored.

Grief, healing, new beginnings, and the transformative power of separation and divorce — this episode covers it all.

Nikki sits down with best friends Diana Edwards and Nicola Dale from the "Over The Back Fence" podcast. These two powerhouse women share their personal experiences through their separation and divorce. In 2024, with 'grey divorces' on the rise, the question often asked is "What do you do when a long-term marriage comes to an end?" With decades of wisdom behind them, Di and Nicola share their lessons from ending their 36 and 25 year marriages.

Di opens up about the end of her 36-year marriage, sharing her two-year grieving process. 'I've closed that door on my past marriage, and I've walked through another into my new life,' she reflects. 

Nicola talks about the end of her 25-year marriage, how she navigated the heartache, found freedom and joy in being single, and eventually found love — only to face the pain of a public breakup after a high-profile, four-year relationship. How did she survive? With grace, integrity, and a wealth of insights that she shares with you in this episode.

Divorce and Separation Podcast offers valuable insights and practical tips for individuals navigating the challenges of separation, making it a resourceful guide for those seeking support during this emotional journey.

Host: Nikki Parkinson, TEDx Speaker, Divorce Doula, Coach and Founder of The Divorce and Separation Hub.

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Guest: Di Edwards and Nicola Dale, Over the Back Fence Podcast

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Executive Producer and Editor: Tiffany Richmond. You can contact Tiffany via her website and on Instagram @tiff__richmond.

This episode is sponsored by Simple Separation. You can find our more about Simple Separation HERE.

In this weeks episode we welcome back Clinical Pyschologist Ben Schiller to talk about schemas and how they impact the way individuals cope with divorce and separation. Ben explains what schemas are and practical strategies for recognising and managing these schemas to improve emotional regulation and decision-making. 

There are so many takeaways in this episode. 

Nikki and Ben talk about -

1. What Are Schemas?
2. Common Schemas in Divorce.
3. Coping Strategies for Managing Schemas.
4. Self-Soothing Techniques. Oh these are good - what is your Toolkit?
5. How to identify Your Triggers.

Plus so much more.

Divorce and Separation Podcast offers valuable insights and practical tips for individuals navigating the challenges of separation, making it a resourceful guide for those seeking support during this emotional journey.

Host: Nikki Parkinson, TEDx Speaker, Divorce Doula, Coach and Founder of The Divorce and Separation Hub.

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Watch Nikki's TEDx Talk HERE.

Guest: Ben Schiller, Clinical Psychologist

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Executive Producer and Editor: Tiffany Richmond. You can contact Tiffany via her website and on Instagram @tiff__richmond.

This week we are kicking off Season 3 with Bella from A Kid With Two Homes. 

Nikki sits down with Bella Duncan, who shares her experiences growing up as a child of divorced parents. Together, they explore a topic that many parents struggle with: how to handle talking about your ex when your kids are around. Bella opens up about how overhearing her parents' negative comments impacted her as a kid and how she eventually found ways to communicate her feelings. This is a must-listen for any parent wanting to protect their children's emotional well-being during and after separation!

Divorce and Separation Podcast offers valuable insights and practical tips for individuals navigating the challenges of separation, making it a resourceful guide for those seeking support during this emotional journey.

Host: Nikki Parkinson, TEDx Speaker, Divorce Doula, Coach and Founder of The Divorce and Separation Hub.

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In this episode Nikki Parkinson is joined by Mel Wilson, Journalist, co-host of The Juggling Act and author of Parenting in Progress, to discuss the complexities and personal transformations associated with co-parenting after divorce. Mel opens up about her personal post-separation experiences and shares her emotional journey of parenting post-divorce

Nikki and Mel chat - 

• Navigating the new norms of parenting post-separation and the immediate challenges of transitioning from a coupled life to single parenthood. 
• Lessons learned from children amidst the divorce.
• Redefining the concept of family and personal identity during such transformative periods.
• Strategies for managing emotional challenges in the early stages of separation.
• How to change the perceptions and stigmas around divorce.
• The impact of new relationships on co-parenting dynamics and personal recovery.

This episode offers an exploration of the trials and transformations associated with co-parenting after divorce. It underscores the importance of self-care, embracing change, and the positive growth that can arise from navigating through these challenging transitions.

Divorce and Separation Podcast offers valuable insights and practical tips for individuals navigating the challenges of separation, making it a resourceful guide for those seeking support during this emotional journey.

Host: Nikki Parkinson, TEDx Speaker, Divorce Doula, Coach and Founder of The Divorce and Separation Hub.

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In this episode Nikki Parkinson is joined by Lawrence (Larry) and Joni Jones. Larry is a former amily Court Judge of the Superior Court in New Jersey and Joni a Mental Health Professional and together they have created Point C, an incredible educational resource for anyone navigating divorce and separtion with children.This episode delves into the complexities of divorce, particularly focusing on its impact on children. 

Nikki, Larry and Joni discuss - 

• The Origin of Point C and the inspiration behind creating Point C.
• Why all parents need this educational reource.
• The impact of Divorce on Children.
• How children are affected by parental conflict during divorce.
• Signs of distress in children and the importance of positive role modeling.
• Larry offers his judicial experience, discussing how the legal system handles divorce and the potential benefits of early intervention and educational programs.
• Co-parenting challenges and effective strategies for effective co-parenting.
• Tips for managing family dynamics during holidays and significant events in the aftermath of a divorce or separation.

The Divorce and Separation Podcast offers valuable insights and practical tips for individuals navigating the challenges of separation, making it a resourceful guide for those seeking support during this emotional journey.

Host: Nikki Parkinson, TEDx Speaker, Divorce Doula, Coach and Founder of The Divorce and Separation Hub.

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In this episode Nikki Parkinson engages in a insightful conversation with family law expert Siobhan Mullins, author of "The Guy's Guide to Separation and Divorce." Siobhan shares her journey as a family lawyer and her shift to supporting couples in preparing separation agreements. The focus of her book, The Guy's Guide to Separation and Divorce, is on aiding men through the emotional and practical challenges of separation.

Nikki and Siobhan discuss - 

• Debunking the 50/50 myth.
• Understanding "Best Interests of the Child".
• Practical Parenting Arrangements.
• Communication and Co-Parenting.
• The most common questions asked my men going through separation. 
• Siobhan's to three tips for men going thorugh separation. 

The Divorce and Separation Podcast offers valuable insights and practical tips for individuals navigating the challenges of separation, making it a resourceful guide for those seeking support during this emotional journey.

Host: Nikki Parkinson, TEDx Speaker, Divorce Doula, Coach and Founder of The Divorce and Separation Hub.

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In this episode Nikki Parkinson, discusses the importance of effective communication during divorce or separation with her guest, Leah Mether. Leah is a communication and soft skills specialist with over 15 years of experience and the author of two books. 

Do you ever find yourself having to communicate under pressure? Leah walks you through how to steer yourself through the challenge of conflict, personality clashes, and difficult conversations. Both Nikki and Leah emphasise that communication is key to maintaining positive relationships, especially when you are under pressure, like during a separation or a divorce.

Leah and Nikki dive into - 

• The importance of Communication.
• Leah shares her professional background in communication and how her personal experience with divorce has shaped her views.
• Leah's Five C's of Effective Communication.
• The Biff Method and it's framework.
• Managing Emotions and Expectations and the importance of self-regulation and setting realistic expectations for communication with an ex-partner.
• Advice for Challenging Conversations (because we will at some stage all have them!).

Host: Nikki Parkinson, TEDx Speaker, Divorce Doula, Coach and Founder of The Divorce and Separation Hub.

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In this episode, host Nikki Parkinson engages in a candid conversation with Christina Salvo, the CEO and founder of Simple Separation, about de facto relationships. They delve into what constitutes a de facto relationship in the eyes of the family law system.

Christina clarifies how, legally, de facto relationships are treated and whether they are similar to marriages when it comes to financial settlements, children's arrangements, and child support. They discuss how asset division in de facto relationships is determined based on factors such as relationship duration, contributions, career sacrifices, income disparities, and age differences.

The importance of protecting assets in de facto relationships is a focal point, and they explain how financial agreements or prenuptial agreements can safeguard individuals. 

This conversation highlights the importance of initiating the conversation about a financial agreement early in the relationship. Tune in to hear Nikki and Christina'a strategies for approaching this potentially sensitive topic.

If this episode resonated with you, Nikki invites you to subscribe, leave a five-star review, and share the podcast with others who may benefit from the discussions. 

Host: Nikki Parkinson, TEDx Speaker, Divorce Doula, Coach and Founder of The Divorce and Separation Hub.

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Executive Producer and Editor: Tiffany Richmond. You can contact Tiffany via her website and on Instagram @tiff__richmond.

In this week's episode, Nikki chats with Johanna Lynn from the Family Imprint Institute. Johanna and Nikki explore the captivating concepts of epigenetics and neuroplasticity and their profound impact on our relationships and parenting. Together, they uncover valuable insights on breaking toxic cycles, recognising patterns, and creating positive change for ourselves and future generations.

Nikki and Johanna dive into:

• Epigenetics and Neuroplasticity; Understanding Family Patterns:

  • The role of epigenetics in shaping our inherited traits.
  • Exploring neuroplasticity and its potential for transformation.
  • Uncovering the influence of family patterns on our relationships.

• The Three-Generation Geneagram:

  • Using the genealogical tool to detect patterns within families.
  • Gaining insights into our own history and pain.
  • Understanding how inherited traits can impact our relationships.

• Personal Healing and Breaking Toxic Cycles:

  • Embracing personal growth to break toxic patterns.
  • Recognising our own contributions to separation and divorce.
  • Healing emotional wounds to rebuild trust in ourselves.

• Understanding Each Other's History and Pain:

  • The power of empathy and compassion in relationships.
  • Exploring the profound impact of understanding our partner's experiences.
  • Creating space for healing and transformation.

• Learning and Unlearning: Embracing Valuable Lessons:

  • The opportunity for growth and self-discovery during separation and divorce.
  • Unlearning harmful behaviors and embracing healthier alternatives.
  • Nurturing personal and relationship development.

• Taking Care of Ourselves: Navigating Difficult Times:

  • The importance of self-care and self-compassion.
  • Strategies for navigating the challenges of separation and divorce.
  • Building resilience and embracing personal well-being.

It's an enlighting episode where we explore the healing journey from separation and divorce, through understanding family patterns, addressing emotional wounds, and embracing change, we can create lasting transformations in ourselves and our relationships.

Remember, by taking care of ourselves, we pave the way for healthier connections and nurture future generations. 

Host: Nikki Parkinson, TEDx Speaker, Divorce Doula, Coach and Founder of The Divorce and Separation Hub.

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In this episode, Nikki and her guest Kemi Nekvapil engage in an insightful conversation that explores the profound connection between power and divorce and separation.

Kemi introduces you to her Power acronym - P for presence, O for ownership, W for wisdom, E for equality, and R for responsibility. Nikki and Kemi delve into the common experience of women feeling like they've lost their power during divorce and separation, often due to a lack of self-identity or being influenced by external narratives.

Topics Discussed:

• Discover the first step towards reclaiming power - awareness of your unhappiness in the current situation.
• Emphasise the importance of being present and actively identifying what's working and what's not, enabling you to take back your power.
• Uncover the transformative potential of micro moments of power, where even small actions can bring about significant change.
• Learn how The Power of the Pause can help you carve out time to reflect, reevaluate relationships, and navigate challenging circumstances.
• Explore the role of self-reflection as a crucial tool for identifying what nourishes your life and what doesn't.
• Discover how coaching can provide valuable feedback and support during divorce and separation, empowering you on your journey to reclaim power.
• Examine the complex and deeply personal journey of forgiveness and its role in moving forward.
• Understand the transformative power of forgiveness and how it enables individuals to craft a new chapter in their lives, beginning with self-forgiveness.
• Gain insights into the emotional complexities of separation through personal experiences of shame and embarrassment.
• Emphasise the significance of presence, the role of a support system, and the practices of empathy and self-compassion during tough times.
• Explore the vital importance of surrounding yourself with friends who provide unwavering support through challenges and struggles.
• Gain empowering insights on taking ownership of your power across all areas of your life.

Host: Nikki Parkinson, TEDx Speaker, Divorce Doula, Coach and Founder of The Divorce and Separation Hub.

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This episode is part of The Anatomy of Divorce segment, where we explore the emotional, physical and psychological layers of separation through the whole person body, mind and heart.

Today, we move into The Heart the space where pain lives first.

If you're in that place where everything feels raw, where your chest feels tight and your thoughts loop endlessly, this one's for you. In this episode, I'm speaking directly to that tender part of you that's trying to make sense of the ending the part that wants to heal but still feels stuck in the ache.

I share my own experience of heartbreak when my marriage ended and I couldn't see beyond the grief and how I began to shift from surviving to slowly rebuilding.

We'll talk about:

• Why emotional pain narrows your world and how to gently widen your view again;

• How the brain protects us in the middle of heartbreak (and when it's time to move from protection to possibility);

• The moment I realised my pain had changed shape from breaking to becoming;

• What it means to truly "let go" without losing yourself;

• How to use gentle curiosity and journaling to reconnect with your heart and your future.

This isn't about pushing past the pain it's about understanding it, honouring it, and learning what it's trying to show you.

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Host: Nikki Parkinson, TEDx Speaker, Divorce Doula, Coach and Founder of The Divorce and Separation Hub.

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Are you struggling with how to handle a separation or divorce in the most respectful and fair way possible? Look no further than this episode of our podcast, where Nikki sits down with guest Christina Salvo, CEO and founder of Simple Separation. Together, Nikki and Christina explore common mistakes to avoid during separation and how to ensure both parties are on equal financial footing. They also discuss the importance of being open and transparent during the separation process, and how mediation, counseling, and coaching can help with communication and emotional support. Plus, Nikki and Christina offer tips for getting organised with documents, seeking early legal advice, and understanding full financial disclosure.

This episode is for you if you want to handle your separation with respect, dignity, and fairness.

Nikki and Christina discuss:

• Common mistakes to avoid during separation
• The importance of equal financial footing
• When lawyering up is necessary
• The benefits of mediation and counseling
• Tips for getting organized and understanding full financial disclosure
• Different pathways for separation, based on goals and level of conflict
• Simple Separation's collaborative and cost-effective model for separation

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Host: Nikki Parkinson, TEDx Speaker, Divorce Doula, Coach and Founder of The Divorce and Separation Hub.

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Executive Producer and Editor: Tiffany Richmond. You can contact Tiffany via her website and on Instagram @tiff__richmond.

In this episode, author Charlotte Ree joins Nikki to talk about her divorce and self-discovery journey. Charlotte's memoir, Heartbake, is part recipe book and shares her experiences of separation, divorce and finding happiness. She describes how she moved into her new home and then entered lockdown. Food soon became Charlottes' social saviour, and pathway back to herself, one small ingredient at a time.

After getting divorced before the age of 30, Charlotte was able to rediscover herself and find her happiness. She shares how the lockdown forced her to confront herself and process her emotions. Despite experiencing indecision and insecurity, Charlotte reminds us that we can always reinvent ourselves and find brightness again.

Charlotte beautifully reveals how cooking and making time-intensive meals show how much you care for someone. Her new cookbook is full of personal stories and recipe treasures. 

Plus, her "better than sex Tiramisu" recipe is one I'll think you'll love!

Host: Nikki Parkinson, TEDx Speaker, Divorce Doula, Coach and Founder of The Divorce and Separation Hub.

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After wanting an amicable divorce from her coercive controlling ex-husband, Cherie discovers that her only option to protect her and her daughter requires her to summon her inner strength, resilience and perseverance.

"Take a deep breath, slow down, do the research and find the right person to fit your situation - there are plenty of options out there!"

Cherie is a woman who experienced a sudden separation from her husband of 14 years and is navigating the challenges of coparenting and financial settlement. She is a strong advocate for taking time to research and find the right resources for a successful separation.

She had trusted her husband with full control of their finances, not realising it was a red flag. When she realised the situation she was in financially, she panicked and went into finding a lawyer instead of taking her time. With the help of her village, she set strong boundaries and took care of herself with small tasks like a walk around the block or a five minute meditation. Taking her time and listening to the advice she found, Cherie was finally able to be strong and make it work for her daughter.

In this episode, Nikki and Cherie discuss: 
1. Managing Coercive Control in a Marriage Breakdown
2. Practical Tips for Navigating a Difficult Separation
3. Overcoming Emotional Challenges During Divorce.

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Host: Nikki Parkinson. Divorce Doula, Coach, TEDx Speaker and Founder of The Divorce and Separation Hub.

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Kate Christie's new book, The Life List: Master Every Moment and Live an Audacious Life, is a testament to intentional living and acts as a guide for individuals to designing the next magnificent part of our magnificent lives.

After a fairly brutal 5 years Kate's experience made her fully understand that life is too short: in the space of 5 years her husband left their marriage, her mum passed away, her ex-husband was diagnosed with pancreatic cancer and passed away within 11 short months, and her 3 amazing kids were at the stage where they were breaking up with her. 

Kate's message "Life is too short. You only live one. And later might be too late."

Nikki and Kate chat -

• Kate's inspiration behind creating The Life List and provided valuable insights into how one can use it to transform their life.
• Kate's personal journey and lessons learned.
• How Kate was able to emphasise the importance of focusing on growth, stronger relationships, and prioritising one's well-being.

The conversation between Kate and Nikki is a heartfelt and encouraging exploration of how anyone can embrace audacious goals and live life to the fullest.

Host: Nikki Parkinson, TEDx Speaker, Divorce Doula, Coach and Founder of The Divorce and Separation Hub.

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After making the "failure" of getting married young to the wrong man, Lucy Bloom finds empowerment in her divorce, ditches society's judgement, and discovers the joys of living near the beach, as she learns to make decisions based on what she wants.

Lucy Bloom is an author, speaker and writer who openly talks about her divorce and how it was not a failure. She has since embraced the opportunity to write her own next chapter, and encourages others to do the same.

After twenty years of marriage, her husband left her for another woman, taking the decision to separate out of her hands. Rather than letting it be a failure, she saw it as an opportunity for growth - to make decisions that would make her happy. She moved to the beach, surrounded herself with supportive friends, and prioritised her children. After eight years of navigating the pain of divorce, Lucy has learned that it is her race to run and that society's expectations should not dictate her decisions. She is now living a life of freedom and joy near the ocean.

In this episode Nikki and Lucy chat -

1. How Divorce Can Lead to Empowerment and Growth: exploring the idea that divorce can be a liberating experience, and how to take the steps to ensure it is a successful transition.

2. The Benefits of Prioritising and Re-Evaluating Relationships: examining how to take a step back and re-evaluate relationships, and the importance of surrounding yourself with supportive people.

3. The Power of Self-Care in Difficult Times: discovering how self-care can help in navigating the hardships of divorce, and how to make it a priority.

Host: Nikki Parkinson, Divorce Doula, Coach, TEDx Speaker and Founder of The Divorce and Separation Hub.

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Guest: Lucy Bloom, Authur, Speaker, Writer.

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Nikki Parkinson speaks to the body image (and self-love) stigma shaker, Taryn Brumfitt on this weeks episode. Taryn is on a mission for meaningful change.

Through her award-winning films, bestselling books and international speaking engagements, she has spent the last 10 years empowering people around the world to discover what's possible when you embrace your life and purpose.

Fuelled by her powerful message and fierce determination, Taryn Brumfitt is a true force to be reckoned with. Through educational resources, speaking events and inspiring content, the Body Image Movement, headed by founder Taryn Brumfitt, is teaching the world to love the skin they're in. 

Embrace Kids is an uplifting film by Taryn Brumfitt (EMBRACE 2016) which brings together a vibrant collection of stories from young people and famous friends alike, who share their experiences of body image, bullying, gender identity, advocacy, representation and more.

So, when Taryn's 19-year marriage came to an end, how did she break the news to her children? What tools did she use to get through her ending? And how did she turn her feelings of failure around?

Enjoy.

This episode is sponsored by The Separation Summit. If you are looking to separate in a better way, a healthier way, a smarter way, then The Separation Summit has been specifically designed for you.

The Separation Summit is Australia's first digital event that showcases the ways, days and stages to a kind separation. This 1-day summit invites global experts, legal advisors, and divorce survivors, to offer an informed, heart-felt and collaborative event. Taking the mess out of messy.

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Guest: Taryn Brumfitt, Director, Writer, Producer.

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In this solo episode Nikki Parkinson discusses the grief of ending a relationship.

So what happens, when you end the relationship and feel pressured to hide your grief, because you pulled the plug on your marriage or partnership?

This episode dives into - 

• Taking ownership of your happiness.
• One of the biggest misunderstandings about a breakup when you are the instigator of the breakup.
• Everyone is hurting in their own way.
• The bravery that is ending a relationship.
• Does the grieving happen before the end?
• This breakup is about you.
• Self care tips.

This episode is sponsored by The Separation Summit. If you are looking to separate in a better way, a healthier way, a smarter way, then The Separation Summit has been specifically designed for you.

The Separation Summit is Australia's first digital event that showcases the ways, days and stages to a kind separation. This 1-day summit invites global experts, legal advisors, and divorce survivors, to offer an informed, heart-felt and collaborative event. Taking the mess out of messy.

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Host: Nikki Parkinson. Divorce and Separation Hub Website.

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Executive Producer and Editor: Tiffany Richmond. You can contact Tiffany via her website and on Instagram @tiff__richmond.

So happy to welcome Bella Duncan back to the podcast to talk kids and divorce. Bella is an empowered 'kid of divorce' who is determined to make changes for the better and join the positive divorce and separation movement. 

Growing up in two homes, she experienced firsthand many of the issues a child from divorced parents will face. As a young adult, she was inspired to create a helpful resource to help kids of divorce feel seen, heard, and less alone. Her blog, 'A Kid With Two Homes', shines light on what divorce, separation, or what family conflict can look like, from a kid's perspective. 

Parents this is for you.

Bella and Nikki dive into - 

• Parents using their children as messengers.
• Putting your children in the centre rather than the middle.
• Responsibility - what is and is not your children's responsibility.
• Communication.
• What can parents do to ease the load for their children when they are moving between two homes.
• Remaining present with your children.
• How your words and actions can have an impact.

This episode is sponsored by The Separation Summit. If you are looking to separate in a better way, a healthier way, a smarter way, then The Separation Summit has been specifically designed for you.

The Separation Summit is Australia's first digital event that showcases the ways, days and stages to a kind separation. This 1-day summit invites global experts, legal advisors, and divorce survivors, to offer an informed, heart-felt and collaborative event. Taking the mess out of messy.

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Host: Nikki Parkinson. Divorce and Separation Hub Website.

Guest: Bella Duncan, A Kid With Two Homes. Website. LinkedIn. Instagram. Email.

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Executive Producer and Editor: Tiffany Richmond. You can contact Tiffany via her website and on Instagram @tiff__richmond.

Nikki Parkinson speaks to Bec Chappell, passionate communicator, Marketing Strategist extraordinaire, and lover of finding solutions.

This hearty chat offers spades of grace, humility and a touch of sparkly hope. The kind of hope that we have all wished (or wishing) for during a 1am meltdown. 

As the pandemic rolled into our lives in early 2020, Bec was facing the biggest year of loss, and later liberation, that could have once floored her. One night, Bec's now ex, turned to her and said, "I don't want to be together". Her response was brave and true, "I am not going to force you to love me". 

During this time, Bec lost her job and was losing her marriage. In a matter of months her world came crashing down. The final blow after months of ghosting by her ex-husband; "I have feelings for someone else".

She could have given up, but instead, Bec decided to take control over her life and heart before it destroyed her any further.

It's a story of hearbreak and an epic comeback.

This episode is sponsored by The Separation Summit. If you are looking to separate in a better way, a healthier way, a smarter way, then The Separation Summit has been specifically designed for you.

The Separation Summit is Australia's first digital event that showcases the ways, days and stages to a kind separation. This 1-day summit invites global experts, legal advisors, and divorce survivors, to offer an informed, heart-felt and collaborative event. Taking the mess out of messy.

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Executive Producer and Editor: Tiffany Richmond. You can contact Tiffany via her website and on Instagram @tiff__richmond.

Bill Eddy joins Nikki Parkinson in this episode to talk high conflict divorces.

As an attorney, Bill was a Certified Family Law Specialist in California and the Senior Family Mediator at the National Conflict Resolution Centre in San Diego. Prior to becoming an attorney in 1992, he was a Licensed Clinical Social worker with twelve years' experience providing therapy to children, adults, couples and families in psychiatric hospitals and outpatient clinics. 

Bill has a popular blog on the Psychology Today website with over 3.5 million views, and is the author and co-author of twenty books on high conflict personalities, including two award winners, including, 'BIFF: Quick Responses to High Conflict People, Their Personal Attacks, Hostile Email and Social Media Meltdowns' and 'SPLITTING: Protecting Yourself While Divorcing Someone with Borderline or Narcissistic Personality Disorder'.

Bill Eddy is very well versed on the topic of high conflict divorces.

Nikki and Bill discuss -

• What is the definition of a 'High Conflict' person? 
• The 'Fugetaboutit' approach.
• EAR Statements.
• BIFF Methods.

Bill answers your questions - 

• How do you deal with a narcissistic person, when using the family court system as a weapon? and

• How do you deal with parental alienation?

This episode is full of so many great tips when you are dealing with a high conflict person or going through a high conflict divorce.

This episode is sponsored by The Separation Summit. If you are looking to separate in a better way, a healthier way, a smarter way, then The Separation Summit has been specifically designed for you.

The Separation Summit is Australia's first digital event that showcases the ways, days and stages to a kind separation. This 1-day summit invites global experts, legal advisors, and divorce survivors, to offer an informed, heart-felt and collaborative event. Taking the mess out of messy.

Buy your ticket here.

Connect with Billy Eddy at The High Conflict Institute.

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Executive Producer and Editor: Tiffany Richmond. You can contact Tiffany via her website and on Instagram @tiff__richmond.

Parenting after separation doesn't come with a manual but it does come with options.

In this episode, I sit down with Eliza O'Sullivan, Family Dispute Resolution Practitioner at Simple Separation, to unpack one of the most confusing and emotional parts of separation: how to make parenting work when the relationship ends.

Eliza brings calm, clarity, and deep understanding to a topic that so often overwhelms parents. We explore what a Family Dispute Resolution Practitioner (FDRP) actually does, when to use mediation, and how to create a child-focused parenting plan that protects your kids and supports both parents.

Together we discuss:

• The real difference between a Parenting Plan and a Parenting Order

• Why the best time to create a plan is before you think you need it

• The must-have clauses every parenting plan should include

• How to keep communication child-focused when emotions run high

• What a child's voice really means (and how to be their advocate, not their messenger)

• When to formalise your arrangements through the court system and when not to

This episode is your practical guide to making co-parenting simpler, calmer, and truly centred on your child's needs.

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Host: Nikki Parkinson, TEDx Speaker, Divorce Doula, Coach and Founder of The Divorce and Separation Hub.

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Guest: Eliza O'Sullivan, FDRP, Simple Separation 

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This episode is sponsored by Simple Separation, the smarter way to separate. Simple Separation is an online, fixed-fee service designed to help Australian couples finalise their divorce and separation respectfully, collaboratively, and without the stress of going to court. From property settlements and parenting plans to child support and divorce applications, everything you need is under one roof, saving you time, money, and unnecessary conflict.

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Disclaimer

I hope you enjoyed the podcast today. The information we discussed today was just that information only. It is not specific advice. If you take action following something you heard today, it is important to make sure you get professional advice about your unique situation before you proceed, whether that advice be legal, financial, accounting, medical or other advice. Please reach out to me if you have any questions or if there's another topic you'd like explored.

Nikki Parkinson speaks to Laura Mazza, Melbourne mummy blogger Single mum, Mental Health Social worker, advice columnist for Kidspot, and self-confessed 'Queen of the Overshare' about her divorce story.

Like so many soon-to-be newlyweds, Laura was hoping for a happy-ever-after. Her ex-husband bought a house in trendy North Melbourne, and it made sense to get married and have babies. However, Laura being the brilliant non-conformist that she is, wanted to get pregnant first, and elope second. 

Craving a quieter life, Laura and her family moved to the beautiful Mornington Peninsula, Victoria and found a beachside home for a quieter life. However, it wasn't long after the big move, where Laura felt the early signs of disconnect from her husband and believed he had stopped loving her. 

After battling mental health and PostNatal Depression, her confidence and courage was at an all time low. Convinced that her marriage was on the rocks, Laura analysed everything. Listen in to this candid, raw, and insanely inspirational chat, where Laura shares her divorce story, openly and candidly.

This episode is sponsored by The Separation Summit. If you are looking to separate in a better way, a healthier way, a smarter way, then The Separation Summit has been specifically designed for you.

The Separation Summit is Australia's first digital event that showcases the ways, days and stages to a kind separation. This 1-day summit invites global experts, legal advisors, and divorce survivors, to offer an informed, heart-felt and collaborative event. Taking the mess out of messy.

Buy your ticket here.

Connect with Laura on Instagram and Facebook.

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Executive Producer and Editor: Tiffany Richmond. You can contact Tiffany via her website and on Instagram @tiff__richmond.

Mia Northrop joins Nikki Parkinson to chat divorce admin hacks. Afterall don't we all want to be organised? My hand is firmly in the air.

Together with Dinah Rowe-Roberts, working parents Mia and Dinah have marshalled their professional expertise in innovation, finance, design thinking and operations to research best practices, trial the tech and craft the most efficient processes to optimise their own life admin. Enter their book Life Admin Hacks.

The result? No more overwhelm, way more spare time and thousands of dollars saved.

Afterall, what can be more overwhelming than a divorce and separation. However, as a lover of a good list, Mia shares the tools and techniques on how divorce prep can neatly end a marriage, and nail co-parenting the organised way. 

After settling both her children into a steady high-school regime, Mia and her ex-husband leant into their separation by consciously and kindly uncoupling. 

So, how did Mia maintain stability in ending her marriage? Listen in she's about to tell you just that.

This episode is sponsored by The Separation Summit. If you are looking to separate in a better way, a healthier way, a smarter way, then The Separation Summit has been specifically designed for you.

The Separation Summit is Australia's first digital event that showcases the ways, days and stages to a kind separation. This 1-day summit invites global experts, legal advisors, and divorce survivors, to offer an informed, heart-felt and collaborative event. Taking the mess out of messy.

Buy your ticket here.

Connect with Mia here - 

Website

Instagram

Join our community of like-minded people @thedivorcehub on Instagram and Facebook and LinkedIn. 

Executive Producer and Editor: Tiffany Richmond. You can contact Tiffany via her website and on Instagram @tiff__richmond.

Two years ago, Madeleine West hit 'Restart' on her life. She packed up her life in Melbourne and moved to Byron Bay, split up with her partner of 15 years and the father of her six kids and she started life again. 

During this honest chat, Madeleine opens up about how she divorced her husband when the world was watching, why remembering the love-story can help the ending, and that it's never too late to change everything.

It was a love story that started with houses, children, enterprises, and dreams, and at some point, became utterly unstuck. When Madeleine's 16 year relationship ended, she decided to repurpose her love into an ending that needed care, consideration and respect. 

Achieving a 'happy separation', through a 'consciously uncoupling' process required Madeleine to dig deep into the existing compassion she had for her children's father if she was going to remain remotely unscathed.

There's no mistaking, divoce is a horrible and horrendous experience. The loss of self-control and direction, with no firm guide, leads many down a rocky path.

Taboo topics need to be shared, and stories need to be told. If we get up close and personal with our fears, and the stigmas surrounding separation, we invite self-respect into our lives. We offer respect to our previous partners, our children and ignite a sense of hope, that we can all move through this together.  

Now, Madeleine is (re)discovering her new identity. 

These steps have been taken before you, so listen (read) up!

What are your finances? 

What do you need to live a life, to the one that you currently live? 

What do I need to financially safe-guard my life? 

I needed an honest assessment. So, ask yourself: 

• What am I going to do? 
• What is this going to cost me? 
• Does your legal team fully  understand your circumstances? 
• Does your legal team offer kindness and compassion?
• Do you need a therapist? 
• Do you need a retreat? 
• Do you need a glass of wine?

Give yourself a chance at consciously uncoupling over a toxic divorce.

Connect with Madeleine here - 

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Executive Producer and Editor: Tiffany Richmond. You can contact Tiffany via her website and on Instagram @tiff__richmond.

Cathrine Mahoney joins Nikki Parkinson to talk suviving divorce and her new book Currently Between Husbands. Think Bridget Jones meets Eat Pray Love.

Cathrine Mahoney is an English, curly-haired Capricorn. A publicist by trade, who never leaves the house without a red lip on. She has called Sydney home for the past 20 years after moving from the UK in 2000, in part on the advice of a horoscope column. She has one son (that she knows of) called Louis, whom she loves to bits and enjoys embarrassing daily, that she shares with her ex-husband, former rugby league player and TV commentator Andrew Johns.

Cathrine is a self-confessed over-sharer who's only filter is the one she uses on her Instagram photos. She is constantly using 'Doctor Google' and is convinced she is hitting early menopause (but, as her actual doctor reassures her, it is just the scorching hot Australian summer that's making her feel like a red-hot mess and not 'the change' . . . yet).

Nikki and Cath dive into the beginning of the end, the messy bits, the good bits, the hard bits and all the inbetween bits to survive divorce.

Strap in - there is most definitely life after divorce and plenty of laughs in between.

Host: Nikki Parkinson. Divorce and Separation Hub Website.

Guest: Cathrine Mahoney

Connect with Cath here - 

Website

Instagram

Buy Currently Between Husbands HERE.

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Executive Producer and Editor: Tiffany Richmond. You can contact Tiffany via her website and on Instagram @tiff__richmond.

Dr Delia McCabe joins Nikki Parkinson to discuss why men and women experience stress differently and the science behind it. Dr McCabe is a Neuroscientist, Psychologist, Speaker and Author.

Delia shifted her focus from conventional talking therapy, after completing her Masters in Psychology. She had discovered that what we eat impacts brain function directly, and came to understand that until the brain is properly nourished no amount of talking can support optimal cognitive functioning. 

Nikki and Dr McCabe dive into - 

• Why men and women experience stress differently.
  
• How can we offer the nutrient's to our stressed out bodies.
• How can stress stop us from healing from a relationship breakdown.
• Why men appear to move on quicker than women.
• And so much more including why it's okay to eat chocolate for breakfast - yes you heard that right.

Host: Nikki Parkinson. Divorce and Separation Hub Website.

Guest: Dr Delia McCabe

Website
https://www.lighterbrighteryou.life

Instagram
@lighterbrighteryou 

Facebook
@lighterbrighteryou

LinkedIn

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Executive Producer and Editor: Tiffany Richmond. You can contact Tiffany via her website and on Instagram @tiff__richmond.

Dr Rebecca Ray joins Nikki Parkinson to discuss boundaris after a break up.

Dr Rebecca Ray is a Clinical Psychologist, Author and Speaker. She uses a science-backed, heart and hard truth approach to help big-picture-thinking woman and creators live a life that's fulfilling, unapologetic, and free.

Nikki and Rebecca dive into - 

• What are boundaries?
• Creating boundaries as you move through your divorce and separation.
• Reframing boundaries - are they lines of connection or dividing lines?
• Transitioning from your old relationship to the new.
• How we can communicate boundaries.
• How we can enforce boundaries and deal with conflict.
• Where to start.
• Why self-compassion changes everything.

Rebecca has been a Clinical Psychologist for the best part of two decades. She is the author of Setting Boundaries, Breakthrough, The Art of Self-Kindness, The Universe Listens to Brave and Be Happy: 35 Powerful Methods for Personal Growth and Well-Being. Rebecca can be found interacting with her community online about using courage and brain potential to make a meaningful difference in the world, while going gently on ourselves.

Host: Nikki Parkinson. Divorce and Separation Hub Website.

Guest: Dr Rebecca Ray.

Website
https://rebeccaray.com.au/

Instagram
@drrebeccaray

Facebook
@drrebeccaray

Podcast
Hello Rebecca Ray

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Executive Producer and Editor: Tiffany Richmond. You can contact Tiffany via her website and on Instagram @tiff__richmond.

WARNING: This episode discusses suicide. If you or anyone you know needs help, reach out and talk to somebody.

Divorce and Separation is the second highest contributing factor in suicide in men. It's time to raise the awareness and support men through this season in their life and remind them and us that #itaintweaktospeak.

Today's guest is Sam Webb. Sam is well known in Australia for his appearances on TV. Most people will recognise Sam as an actor on Neighbours or for his appearance on Australian Survivor, a host on Nine's Great Escapes and was one of the subject leaders on the feature film documentary, Suicide: The Ripple Effect which won top awards in the United States.

In 2013 Sam's life took a u-turn when his good friend Dwayne Lally took his life. Together Sam and Casey Lyons co-founded the mental health organisation and charity, LIVIN. The core of their mission is to end the stigma around mental health through education, fashion and community. 

Nikki and Sam dive into - 

• The difference in stigma between men and women's mental health.
• How we as a community/society can encourage men to talk about their mental health.
• Ways of getting the men in our lives to seek support.
• What it's like inside a male brain when your mental health is suffering.
• Tips for partners of men when you are concerned about their mental health.
• Tips for parents to support their young men. 

Crisis lines
Lifeline on 13 11 14
Kids Helpline on 1800 551 800
MensLine Australia on 1300 789 978
Suicide Call Back Service on 1300 659 467
Beyond Blue on 1300 22 46 36
Headspace on 1800 650 890
QLife on 1800 184 527

Host: Nikki Parkinson. Divorce and Separation Hub Website.

Guest: Sam Webb, Actor, International Speaker and Co-founder of Livin.

You can check out Sam's featured Ted Talk from New York City here.

You can connect with Sam -
Website www.livin.org  www.samwebb.com.au
Instagram @samwebb  @livinorg
Facebook @samwebbau @livinorg
LinkedIn @samwebbau  @livinorg

Join our community of like-minded people @thedivorcehub on Instagram and Facebook. 

Executive Producer and Editor: Tiffany Richmond. You can contact Tiffany via her website and on Instagram @tiff__richmond.

Have you ever wanted to know how your children feel or felt throughout your divorce and separation? In this episode 22 year old Bella Duncan, A Kid With Two Homes talk to this topic. Parents you want to hear what Bella has to say. 

Bella and Nikki dive into - 

• How is felt being a child of a high conflict divorce.
• Kids being the messenger for their parents.
• How to communicate your feelings to your parents.
• How Bella approached a difficult conversation with her parents to "stop the conflict".
• Bella's tips to have this conversation with your parents.
• How does being labelled a 'broken family' or 'broken home' impact kids of divorce?
• How to help children differentiate between what is and isn't their responsibility and the guilt that may be feel by being a child of divorce.
• Being mindful of the language that you use in conversations with your children.
• Bella's top tip for parents going through divorce from a child's view.

Host: Nikki Parkinson. Divorce and Separation Hub Website.

Guest: Bella Duncan, A Kid With Two Homes. Website. LinkedIn. Instagram. Email.

Join our community of like-minded people @thedivorcehub on Instagram and Facebook. 

Executive Producer and Editor: Tiffany Richmond. You can contact Tiffany via her website and on Instagram @tiff__richmond.

The family law system in Australia is a minefield. These are complex issues and can be really stressful to navigate. You are not alone though. In this episode Nikki gives you access to part of her toolkit and aims to help you feel less overwhelmed in the process. 

Get the FREE 'Legalise' Guide HERE.

Host: Nikki Parkinson. Divorce and Separation Hub Website.

Join our community of like-minded people @thedivorcehub on Instagram and Facebook. 

Executive Producer and Editor: Tiffany Richmond. You can contact Tiffany via her website and on Instagram @tiff__richmond.

Ashley Simpo joins Nikki Parkinson in this episode. She is a writer, advocate and speaker, she's making room for generations of Black women, mothers and creatives to develop their passions to better themselves and society at large. She is a divorced mom to her son who wrote the book "A Kids Book About Divorce, which uses the conversations she had with her son as a blueprint for other families navigating the same discussion. 

Ashley shares her divorce story and what it felt like to make the decision to end her marriage.

Nikki and Ashley dive into - 

• How to forgive yourself when you end a relationship.
• The inspiration behind writing her book "A Kids Book About Divorce".
• How to remain a transparent parent to your child/ren when you are going through a divorce.
• How we can heal from divorce and create balance.
• Why it takes a village to raise a mother and a child.
• How to balance ambition and parenthood.
• Why we should be celebrating our divorces, throwing more divorce parties and having a divorce registry. You heard it here first!

Host: Nikki Parkinson. Divorce and Separation Hub Website.

Guest: Ashley Simpo. Website. LinkedIn. Instagram. Twitter. Buy the book HERE.

Join our community of like-minded people @thedivorcehub on Instagram and Facebook. 

Executive Producer and Editor: Tiffany Richmond. You can contact Tiffany via her website and on Instagram @tiff__richmond.

Have you ever felt your gut warning you about someone but your head talked you out of listening?

In this episode I sit down with clinical psychologist and author Phoebe Rogers to explore the psychology of safe love and why rebuilding self-trust after separation starts in your body, not your brain.

We dive deep into what happens when you begin healing after separation, why so many of us keep attracting emotionally unavailable partners, and how schema therapy can help you break free from the old relationship patterns that hold you back.

Together, we unpack:

• The link between your nervous system and emotional safety in relationships;
• Why learning to trust yourself again after divorce is the foundation for love after divorce;
• What to look for when you're dating after divorce and how to know when you're ready;
• How your body often senses red flags before your mind catches up;
• Why healthy, safe love begins with reconnecting to yourself

Because true healing after divorce doesn't make you harder to love it makes you better at it.

Let's Keep the Conversation Going:
Visit Divorce and Separation Hub to explore expert resources, courses, and programs tailored to your needs. Share your questions or comments you're not alone in this.

Host: Nikki Parkinson, TEDx Speaker, Divorce Doula, Coach and Founder of The Divorce and Separation Hub.

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Watch Nikki's TEDx Talk HERE.

Guest: Phoebe Rogers, Clinical Psychologist and Author of When Will It Happen For Me?

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This podcast's audio production crafted by Dan at dankingproductions.com.au.

This episode is sponsored by Simple Separation, the smarter way to separate. Simple Separation is an online, fixed-fee service designed to help Australian couples finalise their divorce and separation respectfully, collaboratively, and without the stress of going to court. From property settlements and parenting plans to child support and divorce applications, everything you need is under one roof, saving you time, money, and unnecessary conflict.

Book your free consultation today to find out if Simple Separation is right for your situation at simple-separation.com.au.

19 October 2021. Today is Nikki's 19th wedding anniversary and if it where her birthday it would be her Golden Birthday, so today we celebrate her Golden Wedding Anniversary and her Bachelor Degree of Singleness!

In this episode Nikki takes you on a journey from how to cope on your wedding anniversary or the monumental milestones after you separate and how they can have a trigger effect, to celebrating no longer being married.

Host: Nikki Parkinson. Divorce and Separation Hub Website.

Join our community of like-minded people @thedivorcehub on Instagram and Facebook. 

Executive Producer and Editor: Tiffany Richmond. You can contact Tiffany via her website and on Instagram @tiff__richmond.

19 October 2021. Today is Nikki's 19th wedding anniversary and if it where her birthday it would be her Golden Birthday, so today we celebrate her Golden Wedding Anniversary and her Bachelor Degree of Singleness!

In this episode Nikki takes you on a journey from how to cope on your wedding anniversary or the monumental milestones after you separate and how they can have a trigger effect, to celebrating no longer being married.

Host: Nikki Parkinson. Divorce and Separation Hub Website.

Join our community of like-minded people @thedivorcehub on Instagram and Facebook. 

Executive Producer and Editor: Tiffany Richmond. You can contact Tiffany via her website and on Instagram @tiff__richmond.

Have you ever asked yourself what is a good divorce? And if it's even possible to have a "good divorce" or a "good separation" when you have children. Nikki Parkinson is joined Sarah Armstrong, Mum of Grace, Author of The Mom's Guide to a Good Divorce: What To Think Through When Children Are Involved and marketing expert whose work has been recognised worldwide, she is currently Vice President of Global Marketing Operations at Google. 

Nikki and Sarah discuss -

• No one gets married to get divorced but what can you do to make conscious decisions through the divorce process.
• A good divorce versus a bad divorce.
• How to make sure children are the focal point and not collateral damage.
• Where to start to have a good divorce.
• How to fill the gaps.
• Preparing your child to become the "Professional Traveller".

Host: Nikki Parkinson. Divorce and Separation Hub Website.

Guest: Sarah Armstrong. Website. Facebook. LinkedIn. Buy the book HERE.

Join our community of like-minded people @thedivorcehub on Instagram and Facebook. 

Executive Producer and Editor: Tiffany Richmond. You can contact Tiffany via her website and on Instagram @tiff__richmond.

This is a big topic and so common. What do you do when your marriage is ending, you're grieving the loss of a partner, and the loss of a friendship. The loss of a social circle. The loss of people you used to rely on.

It's complicated. And it can end in a lot of hurt feelings. But there's also a lot of positives that can come from it.

In this episode Nikki talks you through how to deal with the loss of friendship when you divorce. 

Host: Nikki Parkinson. Divorce and Separation Hub Website.

Join our community of like-minded people @thedivorcehub on Instagram and Facebook. 

Executive Producer and Editor: Tiffany Richmond. You can contact Tiffany via her website and on Instagram @tiff__richmond.