Did We Just Become Milfs? – Details, episodes & analysis

Hi our lovely MILFs community! It feels so good to be uploading an episode again but it does not come without a heavy heart for the news we are sharing today. First off we want to thank each and every one of you for your patience over the last couple of months as we navigate big life changes (ICYMI WE ARE BOTH PREGNANT!!). We've been soaking up all the love and joy from the first few months of pregnancy and it just feels so special that we get to both go through this at the same time again. 

With that said, we've had to ask ourselves the tough questions of how much we can take on and ultimately came to the conclusion that this podcast deserves 110% of our effort and attention and it is just not something we are capable of doing at the moment. We truly cannot express enough gratitude for the space we have created together. The last almost 2 years has given us some of our fondest and proudest moments in life and in motherhood. It's given us so much purpose connecting with you all, sharing our personal journeys, & spreading comfort and knowledge through our wonderful guests. 

But THIS IS NOT GOODBYE! Although, Did We Just Become MILFs may be coming to an end, you'll still be seeing a lot of us both on our separate channels where we hope to share the same kinds of content that brought us all together in the first place. 

To stay in touch with us make sure you're still following:

TORI:

Instagram: HERE

TikTok: HERE 

MILFS Youtube (she'll be taking over!): HERE

Substack (she'll be taking over!): HERE

TAYLA:

Instagram: HERE

DWJBM Instagram (she'll be taking over!): HERE 

TikTok: HERE

This podcast has been the biggest blessing building together and the memories will last a lifetime. We love and appreciate each and every one of you and can't wait to stay connected through all of our motherhood journeys. 

xx T&T

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***Gentle reminder that many of the conversations we have stem from personal experience. We always recommend running everything past your trusted professional team of caregivers. We also strive to be a place of support for all women and their unique circumstances by highlighting the inspiring stories of other women & professionals in their field of work. We love you! xx Tayla & Tori

This week we’re joined by the hilarious and unfiltered Sarah Merrill Hall — creator of Big Kid Problems and host of the hit podcast Bottle Service. Sarah has a knack for turning life’s most chaotic, unglamorous moments into comedy gold, and motherhood has only given her more material.

We dive into her shift from cracking jokes about adulting struggles to finding the funny in spit-up, meltdowns, and all things mom life. Sarah opens up about getting lost in the identity shift that comes with becoming a mom, the “can’t make this sh*t up” moments from pregnancy and postpartum, and how humor has become her secret weapon in surviving the messy middle of motherhood.

She also gets real about the surprises no one warns you about, her experience with postpartum (& perinatal) depression and how she overcame it, and the hormonal rollercoaster every mom deserves a manual for. And of course, we cover what she wishes every new mom could hear when they’re in the thick of it — depleted, doubting themselves, and just trying to make it through.

If you need a reminder that you’re not alone, plus a few laughs along the way, this episode is for you.

Follow Sarah on Instagram @bigkidproblems
and binge her podcast Bottle Service wherever you listen!

P.S. we are in her pod too! Listen to our episode on Bottle Service HERE. 

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***Gentle reminder that many of the conversations we have stem from personal experience. We always recommend running everything past your trusted professional team of caregivers. We also strive to be a place of support for all women and their unique circumstances by highlighting the inspiring stories of other women & professionals in their field of work. We love you! xx Tayla & Tori

No one tells you your fingertips might itch, your body odor might shift, or that something called “lightning crotch” will become part of your everyday vocabulary—but here we are. In this episode, we’re sharing all the wild, weird, and wonderful things we wish someone had told us before getting pregnant. From unexpected symptoms (hello, pregnancy rhinitis and restless legs) to emotional moments (like hearing that heartbeat for the first time), we’re giving the full download so you can feel a little more prepared and a lot more supported. Whether you’re currently pregnant, thinking about it, or just here for the stories—this one's for all of you. 

Topics We Cover:

• the weirdest pregnancy symptoms (itchy finger tips?!)
• the wave of emotions you feel when you first hear the heart beat in an ultrasound 
• lightning crotch (what is going on in my vagina?!)
• does your body odor change when you’re pregnant?
• did we have any pregnancy cravings? 
• restless legs in the middle of the night 
• what TF is a cervical cerclage ??? 
• mucus plugs (you’ll know when you see it...) 
• pregnancy rhinitis (are you congested during your entire pregnancy?!) 
• pereneal massages (who's done it?)
• the nesting instinct is SO REAL

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***Gentle reminder that many of the conversations we have stem from personal experience. We always recommend running everything past your trusted professional team of caregivers. We also strive to be a place of support for all women and their unique circumstances by highlighting the inspiring stories of other women & professionals in their field of work. We love you! xx Tayla & Tori

They're back and no question is off-limits. We brought the men (aka the DILFs) on the mic to answer your juiciest and most heartfelt questions about fatherhood, marriage, and what really goes on inside their dad brains.

In this unfiltered Q&A, we cover:
• The most unexpected part of going from 1 to 2 kids
• How to prep your partner for postpartum (from a dad’s POV)
• How they’ve handled postpartum hormone changes and shifting relationship dynamics
• Their honest takes on weaponized incompetence, dad guilt, and showing up better
• The sweetest things about watching their partners (hi!!) become moms

Plus rapid-fire questions, real-talk on marriage after kids, and their biggest dad fails and proudest parenting moments.

Whether you’re a new parent, prepping your partner, or just need a laugh and some insight into the dad psyche...this one’s for you.

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***Gentle reminder that many of the conversations we have stem from personal experience. We always recommend running everything past your trusted professional team of caregivers. We also strive to be a place of support for all women and their unique circumstances by highlighting the inspiring stories of other women & professionals in their field of work. We love you! xx Tayla & Tori

We’ve officially been in our 30s for… not that long. But, naturally, we’re reflecting on everything — from the chaos of our 20s to the clarity (and zen) we’re starting to feel now.

In this birthday episode, we’re spilling it all:
• The messy moments, wild stories, and poor decisions that built character
• Our old ideas of success, love, beauty, and self-worth (lol)
• Dating red flags we ignored, the 5-year plans that happened or didn't happen, and the belief that 30 = “old” (plot twist: it doesn’t)
• How motherhood, friendships, and boundaries hit different in this new chapter
• What we’ve let go of: people-pleasing, timelines, proving ourselves — and what we’re stepping into

We also get nostalgic about growing up, glowing up, and what we’d tell our younger selves. Plus, we share current birthday reflections, what we’re proud of this past year, and our biggest wishes for 32.

If your 20s were a whirlwind and you’re craving more peace, purpose, and permission to evolve — this one’s for you.

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***Gentle reminder that many of the conversations we have stem from personal experience. We always recommend running everything past your trusted professional team of caregivers. We also strive to be a place of support for all women and their unique circumstances by highlighting the inspiring stories of other women & professionals in their field of work. We love you! xx Tayla & Tori

We’re back on the hotline answering your raw, honest, hilarious, and sometimes heartbreaking questions—and nothing is off-limits.

From feeling stuck in survival mode a year postpartum (“how do I get my pink back?!”), to navigating life with a spicy 13-month-old, to body image struggles, bottle refusal, gender reveals, and wondering if it’s too soon to try for baby #2—this one goes everywhere.

We’re talking:
• Why 1-year-olds are actually so hard
• Sex lives with toddlers crawling all over you
• The real postpartum body journey (and what to do when you feel foreign in your skin)
• Pre-baby clothes—save them or start fresh?
• How to reset when you’re feeling isolated in motherhood
• What to do if your baby won’t take a bottle
• MIL drama, toxic comments, and how to protect your peace
• Breastfeeding weaning stories
• Two under two: prepping, surviving, and not losing your damn mind

And more gems from you that made us want to hug every mom out there.

Whether you’re in the newborn haze, chasing a one-year-old, or plotting your next baby—this episode is a reminder you’re never alone. Keep writing in, we’re in this with you 💕

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***Gentle reminder that many of the conversations we have stem from personal experience. We always recommend running everything past your trusted professional team of caregivers. We also strive to be a place of support for all women and their unique circumstances by highlighting the inspiring stories of other women & professionals in their field of work. We love you! xx Tayla & Tori

If you've ever found yourself wondering, "Why is my toddler losing their mind right now?" this episode is for you. We’re joined by toddler expert and parenting coach Devon Kuntzman to help decode the emotional rollercoaster that is toddlerhood. From tantrums in Target to bedtime battles and the big feelings behind their tiny bodies, we’re digging into it all.

Devon walks us through what’s really going on in a toddler’s brain, what they’re trying to communicate when they “act out,” and how we as parents can meet them with more understanding, structure, and confidence. We also explore what it means to be a “safe parent,” the difference between gentle vs permissive parenting, and what to do when you and your partner aren’t on the same page with discipline.

Plus, we talk about what no one warns you about: parenting burnout, overstimulation, and how to stay grounded in the chaos.

Whether you’re in the thick of toddlerhood or just trying to survive the day without yelling, this conversation will leave you feeling seen, supported, and more confident in the parent you already are! 

More from Devon: 

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/transformingtoddlerhood/

Website: https://www.transformingtoddlerhood.com/

Pre order her Book here!: https://www.transformingtoddlerhood.com/pre-order-book/?fbclid=PAZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAAad5iBkw0EvNr26tecfWBcWPslaE8FN41FzkHthjSAgyJqeh0UPAxtZl52Eiyg_aem_BCIKTgkeYllxrkBoO-RkGg

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***Gentle reminder that many of the conversations we have stem from personal experience. We always recommend running everything past your trusted professional team of caregivers. We also strive to be a place of support for all women and their unique circumstances by highlighting the inspiring stories of other women & professionals in their field of work. We love you! xx Tayla & Tori

It's officially SUMMER!!  Anyone else feeling an extra pep in their step?! We thought what better way to kick off this season than to chit chat about intentional ways we can spend it?! In this episode, we’re catching up on life and sharing what’s on our summer bucket lists—not just for the kids, but for us as a family. We’re talking about the simple things we want to slow down for, the memories we hope to make, and the little traditions we’re building along the way. Consider this your seasonal dose of inspiration to create a summer that feels joyful, connected, and FUN for everyone because these are the moments we’re all going to look back on!

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***Gentle reminder that many of the conversations we have stem from personal experience. We always recommend running everything past your trusted professional team of caregivers. We also strive to be a place of support for all women and their unique circumstances by highlighting the inspiring stories of other women & professionals in their field of work. We love you! xx Tayla & Tori

We’re catching up on all things mom life—what’s going on lately, what’s feeling hard, what’s bringing us joy—and then we’re diving into one of the funniest games we’ve played on the pod: Kill, Screw, Marry: Mom Edition.

Think:
• Mom brain, mom rage, and mom guilt
• Karaoke bar takeovers vs. reality TV binges in pajamas
• No sleep, no alone time, or… no clean house 😩
• Coffee, wine, or green juice—what’s really getting us through?
• The parenting milestones that tested our souls
• And the real dream: a partner who books the sitter without being asked 🙌

We’re putting all of it out there — and of course, we had strong opinions. We surprisingly agreed on a lot… and very strongly disagreed on a few (we’re still recovering from some of the answers). If you need a laugh, a little solidarity, and the reminder that not one of us has it all figured out, this one’s for you. Come play along and tell us your answers too—we know you have them.

Reminder! If you listen on Spotify, you can comment below the episode to keep the conversation going!

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***Gentle reminder that many of the conversations we have stem from personal experience. We always recommend running everything past your trusted professional team of caregivers. We also strive to be a place of support for all women and their unique circumstances by highlighting the inspiring stories of other women & professionals in their field of work. We love you! xx Tayla & Tori

It’s happening!!! Our bestie Carissa (aka @broccyourbody) is having a BABY — and we’re kicking off this new chapter with all the juicy details: from finding out she was pregnant (yep, we got the full first-reaction tea) to telling Corey, navigating trimester one, and how it’s shifted her mindset, her body, and even her relationship with food.

We talk cravings, unexpected symptoms, and the emotional rollercoaster of becoming a mom after years of growing a brand, a business, and herself. Carissa gets real about identity shifts, her hopes for motherhood, and what she’d tell anyone feeling lost in their own journey. Spoiler: it might just be the pep talk you didn’t know you needed.

Whether you’re pregnant, trying, or just deeply curious and cheering on your fellow mamas, this episode is giving cozy catch-up with your favorite mom friend — press play and hang out with us!!

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***Gentle reminder that many of the conversations we have stem from personal experience. We always recommend running everything past your trusted professional team of caregivers. We also strive to be a place of support for all women and their unique circumstances by highlighting the inspiring stories of other women & professionals in their field of work. We love you! xx Tayla & Tori