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This week on Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris, we're diving into a topic that every swinger, poly couple, and ethically non-monogamous adventurer should have on their radar: catfishing in the lifestyle.

No, not fishing in swamps or noodling in muddy rivers—we're talking about people pretending to be someone they're not online, sliding into lifestyle spaces with fake photos, shady profiles, and sometimes even predatory intentions.

From AOL chatrooms and puppy-love disasters to today's TikTok scammers asking Adam for $45 nail money (yes, that happened), we unpack decades of personal stories, listener anecdotes, and lifestyle lessons. We break down:

• 🎭 The Types of Catfish:
  – Filter fiends & "20-year-old" photos
  – Fake couples (ahem… actually just one lonely guy)
  – Profiles with pro-model shots only
  – "I swear my partner knows!"… when they don't
  – The scammers fishing for your nudes (and why we don't trade pics unless you're real)

• 🚩 Red Flags to Watch For:
  – No face pics
  – Always "too busy" to meet or video chat
  – Overeager for nudes or instant hookups
  – Stories that just don't add up

• 💔 The Fallout:
  – Emotional letdowns & wasted time
  – Safety concerns, especially for women
  – Erosion of trust in lifestyle communities
  – Why a single lie makes people wonder, "What else are they hiding?"

• 🛡️ Protect Yourself:
  – Video verify (FaceTime, Messenger, Zoom—anything live)
  – Meet first at lifestyle clubs or trusted meet & greets
  – Cross-reference profiles on sites like SDC, SLS, Kasidie
  – Build a trusted network who can vouch for people
  – And above all—trust your gut. If it feels off, it probably is.

Through all the laughs and real talk, Adam and Pris remind us that the lifestyle is built on trust, consent, and honesty. Without that, the sexy adventures we love lose their magic.

Catfishing isn't just annoying—it can be unsafe. Protect yourself, protect your community, and keep the fun alive by staying vigilant and unapologetically real.

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In this spicy QUICKIE, Adam and Pris dive into one of the stickiest topics in sex and the lifestyle: cum. From facials to cream pies, swallowing to spitting, they explore what men and women really feel about it — the turn-ons, the turn-offs, and the unspoken rules around consent. They share their own stories, laugh at awkward encounters, and break down why porn sets up unrealistic expectations. They also touch on lifestyle etiquette, the psychology of cum play, and how diet and habits affect taste. As always, it's raw, unfiltered, and hilariously real.

Title: QUICKIE: Cum Talk – Love It, Hate It, or Wipe It Off?

Description:
In this week's QUICKIE, Adam & Pris get messy (literally) with a raw and funny conversation about cum. Why do some love it while others hate it? Is swallowing a turn-on or a dealbreaker? What role does diet play in taste? And how does cum play fit into the swinger lifestyle with all its rules, boundaries, and safety concerns?

From embarrassing stories and personal kinks to the psychology of facials and cream pies, this episode is all about opening up the conversation — sticky jokes included.

You'll Hear About:

• Why porn creates unrealistic cum expectations

• Swallowing vs. spitting (and why consent always matters)

• The psychology behind facials and cream pies

• Cum rules in the swinger lifestyle

• How diet, hydration, and habits affect taste

• Turn-ons, turn-offs, and awkward cum moments

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This week on Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris, we're diving horn-first into the mysterious world of unicorns—those rare, magical, and often misunderstood single bisexual women in the lifestyle. Our guest Jessica, a self-proclaimed unicorn and seasoned swinger, opens up about discovering her sexuality, navigating the lifestyle solo, dealing with unicorn hunters, and knowing her worth in a world that sometimes forgets to ask.

From her upbringing in a swinger household (yes, really!) to the lessons learned through poly pitfalls and fantasy fulfillment, Jessica doesn't hold back. We talk red flags, relationship dynamics, and the art of empowered play—all while laughing, flirting, and sipping our favorite Dutch Bros.

Whether you're a couple seeking a unicorn, a single lady considering stepping into the lifestyle, or just here for the spicy stories, this episode will make you rethink what it really means to be a unicorn.

Guest: Jessica – Lifestyle unicorn, proud bisexual woman, and certified badass
Hosts: Adam & Pris
Episode Theme: Unicorns in the Lifestyle – the truth, the fantasy, and the real talk

• When Jessica realized she was bisexual and how her family reacted

• Growing up in a swinger household (!)

• Transitioning from a partnered swinger to a solo unicorn

• The biggest red flags she sees from couples

• Why confidence is a unicorn's secret weapon

• How she handles being fetishized—and where she draws the line

• What makes a couple unicorn-worthy

• Jessica's fantasy bucket list (yes, she's been the surprise guest 👀)

• Unicorn burnout and learning her boundaries

• And Adam's not-so-subtle birthday fantasy wishlist 😏

• Both partners should communicate—no one-sided vibes

• Don't just hunt—connect

• Don't love-bomb or breadcrumb—just be real

• Respect her time, her space, and her place in the dynamic

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Aftercare isn't just for kink! In this intimate and hilarious QUICKIE, Adam & Pris share their personal journey navigating aftercare in the swinger lifestyle—from disconnection and insecurity to reclaiming, cuddling, and late-night drive-thru confessions. They get real about how aftercare plays out after playdates, poly dynamics, and even sexy video calls. Whether you're a seasoned swinger or just exploring, this episode offers insight, laughs, and maybe a few "oh shit, that's us" moments.

In This Episode:

• What aftercare really means in swinging—not just kink.

• Pris's early disconnects and emotional needs post-play.

• Adam's role in providing reassurance and reclaiming.

• How their dynamic changed after polyamory.

• What "aftercare" looks like for them today (spoiler: cuddles, food, and mini-rounds).

• An unexpected (and moody) moment after sexy video play.

• Upcoming plans for Adam's birthday bash & how aftercare will fit into a wild weekend.

• Communication tips for couples figuring out their own post-play rituals.

Listener Takeaway:
Aftercare isn't one-size-fits-all. It's about connection, reassurance, and finding rituals that keep you grounded. Whether it's a cuddle, convo, or simply being held—it matters.

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What happens when one half of the couple is ready to party and the other just wants to crawl under a blanket and hide? In this raw, real, and brutally honest episode of Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris, your favorite lifestyle couple opens up about the emotional hangover that came with a steamy swinger beach takeover that didn't quite go as planned.

With Pris battling sinus hell and Adam riding a tidal wave of sexual energy, tensions rose, communication faltered, and an epic (but educational) clash ensued. From missed signals and mixed emotions to makeup conversations and lessons learned, this episode is a vulnerable, laugh-out-loud, and totally relatable look at the highs and lows of navigating the lifestyle when you're not on the same page.

Whether you're new to ethical non-monogamy or a seasoned swinger, this episode is packed with insights, love, and the occasional eye-roll. 😅

In this episode:

• How a sexy weekend at a swinger beach takeover turned into an unexpected emotional low

• What happens when one partner's energy is high and the other is running on empty

• The impact of unspoken expectations and poor planning

• Why checking in is just as sexy as checking out (of the moment)

• The difference between "separate play" in theory vs. reality

• How illness, anxiety, and miscommunication can crash even the sexiest of plans

• Rebuilding trust, processing conflict, and loving through the mess

• The real reason you need to talk before the clothes come off

• And a peek into the passionate, hilarious, and heartfelt way Adam & Pris always find their way back to each other

Key takeaway:
Even experienced lifestyle couples fumble. But with accountability, open hearts, and clear communication, those messy moments can become opportunities for deeper love, stronger connection, and better future playdates.

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n this laugh-out-loud QUICKIE episode of Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris, we're talking about the real MVPs of lifestyle interruptions: our pets.

Ever tried to get down and dirty only to be stared down by your dog? Or have a cat walk across your back mid-thrust? You're not alone. From sex-curious Labradors to judgmental chihuahuas, this episode dives into the hilariously awkward reality of being a swinger with fur babies in the house.

We're sharing our own stories (yes, Pris once had to bribe a cat with ham) and reading hilarious listener tales of animal antics that brought the mood to a screeching halt.

🔹 Topic: The chaos pets bring to our private lifestyle moments

🔹 Type: QUICKIE (short & spicy)

🔹 Hosts: Adam & Pris

🔹 Runtime: ~32 minutes

In this episode:

• 🐶 When pets become unexpected voyeurs
• 🐱 "That time the cat brought a toy to bed… during playtime"
• 🐾 How lifestyle folks deal with barking, meowing, and staring
• 🛏️ Listener submissions: The funniest pet interruptions in the wild

Whether you're into swinging, polyamory, or just trying to have a peaceful night in with a partner, this episode is a hilarious look at how pets really don't care about your plans.

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In this special guest episode of Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris, the duo reunites with Jeremy, Adam's high school friend, for a raw and heartfelt conversation about sexuality, identity, and acceptance. Jeremy, who is openly gay and outside the lifestyle, shares his unique perspective on queer experiences, chosen family, and how judgment plays out both inside and outside the lifestyle community. The trio dives into meaningful discussions about dating apps, dealing with shame, and the power of having spaces where people feel safe being their authentic selves. It's part reunion, part revelation—full of laughs, reflection, and insight into how we all navigate love beyond the traditional mold.

Guest: Jeremy – Adam's longtime friend and a proud member of the LGBTQ+ community.

In this episode:

• 🧠 How Jeremy's coming out journey shaped his understanding of self-love and acceptance.
• 📲 The queer side of hookup culture and dating apps—raw, funny, and real.
• 💬 Why people outside the lifestyle can still deeply relate to the struggles of being judged.
• 🌈 The value of safe spaces, emotional honesty, and having a community—even if you're not "in the lifestyle."
• 🥂 Catching up after years apart, what's changed, and what still matters most.

1. Opener & Trigger

• Quick disclaimer on mature content
• Adam shares being hurt by judgment on social media (a "vomit emoji" left on their celebratory post)

2. The Impact of Judgment

• How such reactions drive people "back into the closet"
• Comparing lifestyle judgment to what LGBTQ+ people experience

3. Discretion vs Authenticity

• Why some choose to stay hidden
• Prize the power and impact of openness and advocacy

4. Life-Strengthening Benefits

• Stories on how ethical non-monogamy has improved communication and personal growth
• Their experience facing and overcoming shame

5. Cultural & Religious Conditioning

• The role of upbringing and religious beliefs in shaping moral judgments
• Adam's thoughts on his seminary background and shifting perspectives

6. Visibility & Acceptance

• The mainstream rise of swinging thanks to social media and LGBTQ normalization
• The value of staying true to oneself and celebrating non-traditional relationships

7. Season Updates & Community Ask

• New website launch: www.beyond-monogamy.com (featuring episodes, blog posts, voicemail feature, and future plans like video & guests)
• Encouragement to share with "vanilla" listeners who may just be curious
• Upcoming season updates and attendance at the Port Aransas Beach Takeover

• Judgment from others often stems from personal insecurities or societal conditioning
• Open non-monogamy can foster growth, connection, and emotional resilience
• Visibility matters—not just for the hosts, but for listeners exploring their own path
• Community support plays a therapeutic role in navigating lifestyle choices

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In this episode of Beyond Monogamy, hosts Adam and Pris dive into the financial realities of swinging. They discuss the various costs involved in the lifestyle, from babysitting fees to subscription-based websites, and how it can quickly add up. Adam and Pris share their personal experiences of navigating these expenses with limited budgets in the beginning. They touch on essential costs like grooming and gym memberships, and discuss strategies for managing these expenses. This episode provides a candid look at the financial commitments involved in the swinging lifestyle, offering practical advice for those willing to explore this lifestyle on a budget.

In this episode, Adam and Pris discuss the complexities of navigating attraction within the swinging lifestyle. They explore scenarios where one might encounter others who are friendly and engaging but whom they are not sexually attracted to. The podcast offers candid discussions on how to handle such situations gracefully without hurting feelings. Adam and Pris share personal anecdotes on politely declining advances and maintaining friendships despite a lack of physical attraction. They also touch on hygiene as a crucial factor in attraction, emphasizing its importance in intimate encounters.

In this week's episode of Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris, we sit down with Paul Keable, Chief Strategy Officer at Ashley Madison, the world's #1 married dating app with over 85 million members worldwide. Far from being just a platform for secret liaisons, Ashley Madison has become a fascinating case study in how technology, desire, and changing social norms are reshaping conversations around non-monogamy, intimacy, and discretion.

Paul shares insider insights on why people seek out alternative relationship styles, what their massive trove of real-world data reveals about the future of monogamy, and how 20% of members now identify as "disclosed non-monogamous"—meaning their partners are aware of, or even participate in, their activity on the site.

We dive into cultural shifts, surprising academic studies (like research showing 80% of women on the platform are in sexless or orgasm-less marriages, while men often join seeking emotional validation), and the myths that mainstream society gets wrong about ethical non-monogamy.

And yes, we also got some juicy behind-the-scenes details—like why France is Ashley Madison's weakest market (because infidelity is already culturally normalized!) and the story of Bobby Goldman, aka The Curvy Widow, who turned her Ashley Madison adventures into an off-Broadway play.

Whether you're curious about the lifestyle, actively practicing ethical non-monogamy, or just fascinated by the psychology of relationships, this episode peels back the stereotypes and gives you an inside look at how monogamy and non-monogamy are evolving in 2025 and beyond.

• Guest: Paul Keable, Chief Strategy Officer, Ashley Madison

• Ashley Madison Facts:

  • 🌎 85+ million members worldwide

  • 📊 Roughly 1.13 active women for every 1 active paid man account (yes, women are there!)

  • 🔐 Features include private photo lockers, stealth mode, and discretion tools to protect user privacy

  • 💡 Fun fact: Ashley Madison has even been parodied on The Simpsons, proving its cultural impact

• Hot Topics Discussed:

  • Why monogamy shouldn't always be the default

  • How women often lead the transition into non-monogamy

  • The "One Penis Policy" red flag in lifestyle dynamics

  • Why toys aren't competition—they're allies

  • How better communication = stronger relationships, monogamous or not

• Memorable Quote: "When monogamy becomes monotony." – Paul Keable

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Join Adam and Pris as they recount their journey from bumbling beginnings to seasoned experts in the art of dirty talk. In a playful episode filled with laughter and insight, they share personal stories about discovering what works and what doesn't when it comes to bedroom banter. Initially, Pris's attempts were marked by a noticeable accent that added humor, while Adam relished in detailing scenarios. The couple discusses how they've learned to balance humor, imagination, and descriptive storytelling to enhance their intimate experiences, underscoring the role of communication in strengthening their 14-year relationship and keeping things exciting.

Adam and Pris delve into the notion of feeling like a third wheel in intimate relationships, especially within non-monogamous setups. They share insights from their personal journey, highlighting how shifting focus from mere experiences to deeper connections has transformed their interactions. The duo also tackles the art of flirting, encouraging authenticity and intention in communication. They reflect on how insecurities can intertwine with these dynamics and the significance of compersion, offering listeners a thoughtful approach to enhance their relationship experiences and navigate social intricacies with confidence.

In this episode of Beyond Monogamy, hosts Adam and Pris delve into a listener's letter that explores the complex territory of polyamory and non-monogamous relationships. The listener shares their journey as one partner becomes drawn to polyamory, eager to build deeper individual connections outside their primary relationship. Meanwhile, the other partner grapples with feelings of anxiety and discomfort as they struggle to adjust to this new dynamic. Adam and Pris, through candid conversation, share their personal experiences in navigating similar situations, discussing how crucial transparent communication and prioritizing the relationship are when facing differing desires in a non-monogamous setup.

In this week's Beyond Monogamy QUICKIE, Adam & Pris break down the most popular swinger stereotypes — testing each one to see if it's truth… or total BS. From pineapples and hot tubs to midlife crises and "porno-sized Johnsons," nothing was off-limits in this hilarious 30-minute myth-busting ride.

[00:02] – The "All Swingers Are Hot" Myth
Adam & Pris admit they once thought swingers were all gym-bodied models. Reality check? Swingers come in all shapes, sizes, and vibes. Ads and social media only show the "highlight reel." Real life = regular people who just happen to be into consensual non-monogamy.

[00:05] – Swinging = Cheating?
Nope! Swinging is built on consent and honesty, not sneaking around. Pris shares how people back home used to tell her to "just cheat" instead of being openly poly. Spoiler: that's not how ethical non-monogamy works.

[00:07] – Orgies Everywhere?
The stereotype says swinger parties are non-stop sex. Reality? Many parties are more drinks than dicks. Some are social, some are DTF, but not every event turns into a late-night orgy fest.

[00:09] – Jealousy Doesn't Exist?
Pris calls herself "territorial, not jealous," while Adam confesses he gets a little turned on when other people want Pris. Bottom line: jealousy happens — it's human nature. Communication keeps it from blowing up.

[00:11] – Only People in Their 20s Do It
Big myth. Most community members are in their 30s, 40s, and 50s. Twentysomethings may play on apps or college parties, but real community and connection usually grow later.

[00:14] – Midlife Crisis Stereotype
Swinging isn't just about "key parties for suburban boomers." Sure, some discover it later in life, but Adam & Pris argue it's more about freedom, empty-nest energy, and exploring fantasies — not a "crisis."

[00:17] – The Pineapple Obsession
Ah yes, the iconic upside-down pineapple. It is everywhere, but not everyone rocking one is in the lifestyle. Some folks are just really into tropical fruit or… hospitality tattoos.

[00:20] – Always DTF, All the Time?
Nope. Swingers aren't horny robots. Most prefer conversation, connection, and consent over "let's bang strangers immediately."

[00:22] – No Boundaries?
Swingers may actually have more boundaries than the "vanilla" world. From soft swap rules to consent culture, boundaries are what make it work.

[00:23] – It's Just White, Middle-Class Couples
False. Adam & Pris (both Hispanic) point out how diverse lifestyle communities really are.

[00:25] – Everyone Is Bi
Not true. Some are, some aren't. And no, two men and a woman in a threesome doesn't automatically mean the guys are gay. Inside the lifestyle, the "all women are bi" stereotype is also exaggerated.

[00:27] – Swingers Only Club & Party
Sure, some love it, but many are just as happy brunching, binging Netflix, or chilling with lifestyle friends. Not every weekend ends with strobe lights and a playroom.

[00:28-30] – Funny Extras & Inside Jokes

• All swingers own hot tubs (if only).

• Black silicone wedding bands = swinger "flag" (or maybe just gym wear).

• All men are porn-star sized (false).

• Eye contact = "I want you" (false, sometimes you're just listening).

• "Practice makes perfect" → Maybe swingers are better lovers? Adam & Pris lean toward yes.

From Outside the Lifestyle:

• Swinging = cheating.

• Everyone's bisexual.

• Swingers are all white, rich, and midlife crisis couples.

• Every party = giant orgy.

From Inside the Lifestyle:

• The "real unicorn" is a straight woman.

• Black wedding rings, pineapple tattoos, or hot tubs = guaranteed swinger.

• All lifestyle men have mustaches (really?).

• "Practice makes perfect" — swingers are assumed to be expert lovers.

Most stereotypes are laughable at best and damaging at worst. The lifestyle is as diverse and unique as the people in it. It's not about fitting a pineapple-shaped mold — it's about honesty, fun, and writing your own story.

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In this episode of Beyond Monogamy, hosts Adam and Pris delve into the complexities of maintaining an active swinging lifestyle while raising a family. With five children, including four teenagers, they provide insights into the balance between personal desires and parenting responsibilities. They emphasize the importance of prioritizing family and communication, reflecting on their own experiences of navigating babysitters and family commitments. Despite the challenges, Adam and Pris advocate for finding harmony, whether through shared experiences or alternating solo outings, all while keeping the lines of communication open and prioritizing family first.

In this episode of Beyond Monogamy, hosts Adam and Pris delve into the intriguing topic of squirting, demystifying its nature and addressing common misconceptions. With an open-minded and informative approach, they discuss the difference between squirting and female ejaculation, as well as its composition. The hosts emphasize the importance of communication, especially for those who squirt frequently, and challenge the stigma surrounding this natural occurrence. Both entertaining and educational, the segment highlights personal anecdotes, societal perceptions, and scientific insights, aiming to empower listeners in embracing their bodies without apology.

In this episode of Beyond Monogamy, hosts Adam and Pris explore the nuances of emotional connections within the swinging lifestyle. They discuss their personal journey from polyamory to a more friendship-focused approach, emphasizing the importance of setting clear boundaries. The podcast delves into the difference between romantic and non-romantic connections, highlighting the significance of consent and open communication when exploring sexual relationships. Adam and Pris reflect on their experiences and share insights into balancing emotional ties with platonic friendships, inviting listeners to consider their own preferences and boundaries within non-traditional relationship structures.

In this engaging episode, Adam and Pris delve into the intricacies of hot wife culture, exploring its duality as both potentially empowering and objectifying. They candidly share their personal experiences, discussing how initial participation in this lifestyle was driven by Adam's kink, while Pris initially felt objectified. Over time, she gained empowerment by making decisions about her own desires and boundaries. They explore the dynamic of mutual respect and the journey from objectification to empowerment, highlighting the importance of communication and reassurance in their relationship. This discussion sheds light on the complexities and evolving nature of open relationships.

Pris and Adam's conversation unveils their ongoing journey in non monogamy, focusing on newfound connections and personal growth. Pris describes her recent date as transformative, embracing attraction and connection with others outside her marriage. Adam discusses his journey to understanding the necessity of emotional bonds for fulfilling sexual experiences. Their narrative addresses past struggles with intimacy and the restrictions they unknowingly imposed on each other. Emphasizing openness and respect, they are eager to forge paths that foster genuine relationships and explore shared interests. This evolving dynamic is a testament to their commitment to a fulfilling, supportive romantic life together.

The latest episode of 'Beyond Monogamy' delves into the nuances of non-monogamous relationships. Hosts Adam and Pris openly discuss their experiences with new relationship dynamics, including Pris's exhilaration about an upcoming solo date with a couple. They also touch on the crucial role of inclusive exchanges and the importance of communication, especially in a context where boundaries are being redefined. Adam shares his appreciation for how these experiences enrich their relationship. Themes of trust, transparency, and mutual respect are interwoven throughout their discussion, shedding light on handling personal emotions while pursuing open relationship endeavors.

What happens when the orgasm just… doesn't show up? In this week's episode of Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris, we dive deep into the world of orgasms (and the lack thereof). From the awkwardness of faking it, to the insecurities people face when their partner can't "finish," to the myths surrounding male and female orgasms — nothing is off limits.

Adam and Pris get personal, funny, and brutally honest about their own experiences in the swinging lifestyle and ethical non-monogamy. They share stories of performance anxiety, distractions, delayed ejaculation, women who take a long time (or never) to orgasm, and the mental tricks that can get in the way of the Big O. Plus, they bust through common myths like:

• "Men always finish."

• "If he doesn't orgasm, he's not attracted to me."

• "Women orgasm easily during penetration."

• "Toys mean I'm not enough."

• "If it didn't end in orgasm, it was bad sex."

This episode isn't just about sex mechanics — it's about shifting perspective, communication, and celebrating pleasure in all its forms (with or without the finish line).

• [00:02:00] Adam shares a recent play experience where a partner admitted she rarely orgasms — and why communication made the moment better.

• [00:04:00] Pris reveals how few partners have been able to make her orgasm, and the shift she made in openly sharing what works for her.

• [00:07:00] The story of a "gold star lesbian" partner and Pris faking it… until she didn't.

• [00:09:30] Adam admits how distractions, stress, and even clocks in the room have blocked his ability to finish.

• [00:12:00] The impact of alcohol, drugs, and overstimulation on men's ability to orgasm.

• [00:16:00] Myth-busting: "Men always finish" and the pressure behind it.

• [00:18:00] Myth-busting: "If he doesn't finish, he's not attracted to me."

• [00:23:00] Adam's story about lasting for hours at 19 and how cultural myths about "lasting forever" shaped his views.

• [00:26:00] Myth-busting: "If she doesn't orgasm, I failed as a lover."

• [00:28:00] Discussion on toys: helpers, not competitors.

• [00:34:00] Squirting ≠ orgasm — important distinctions.

• [00:38:00] Adam on the insecurity of thinking women only wanted Pris, not him.

• [00:45:00] Locker room talk, cultural machismo, and how bragging about "orgasms achieved" feeds insecurity.

• [00:50:00] The psychology of orgasm, fantasies, and why some men come quicker with new partners.

• [00:53:00] How shifting perception from "must orgasm" to "enjoy the ride" changes everything.

• [00:57:00] Call to listeners: Share your "when the Big O didn't happen" stories for a future QUICKIE episode.

Welcome to another wild and real conversation on Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris. In this episode, When the Big O Doesn't Happen, we tackle one of the most common, yet rarely talked about, experiences in sex: what happens when someone can't finish.

👉 We discuss performance anxiety, pressure, myths, insecurities, swinging lifestyle dynamics, and how to shift focus toward connection and pleasure instead of just chasing orgasms.

👉 Whether you're exploring the swinger lifestyle, polyamory, or ethical non-monogamy, this episode offers laughs, relatability, and some practical reassurance that you're not alone when the Big O doesn't make an appearance.

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In this steamy QUICKIE episode of Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris, your favorite lifestyle couple takes a cheeky, unfiltered dive into the question: How much sex is too much… and how little is too little? Adam and Pris pull back the sheets (literally) to share their own hyper-sexual reality — averaging multiple sessions a day — and compare it to national averages showing most couples only get intimate once or twice a week.

This fun, candid conversation covers mismatched libidos, how to keep sex exciting after years together, the realities of high sex drive relationships, and how lifestyle couples often break the mold. They discuss "wrong" times for sex, how menopause can shift desire, and even the role of toys, lube, and experimentation in keeping the spark alive. Adam and Pris also touch on the emotional side — insecurities, communication, and what to do when one partner just isn't in the mood.

Whether you're having daily "bang-a-thons," enjoying slow-burn intimacy, or wondering how to spice things up, this episode blends humor, honesty, and practical advice for couples in and out of the lifestyle. It's equal parts sexy banter, relationship insight, and playful oversharing — just the way Beyond Monogamy listeners love it.

Topics Covered:

• Adam & Pris's personal sex frequency (spoiler: it's a lot) vs. national averages

• Why lifestyle couples may naturally have more sex than vanilla couples

• "Wrong" times for sex (and why Adam thinks they don't exist)

• How high libidos can be both a blessing and a scheduling challenge

• The effect of menopause, stress, and life changes on sexual desire

• Strategies for keeping sex fresh after years together — toys, positions, new experiences

• Navigating mismatched sex drives and maintaining intimacy

• The emotional side: insecurity, compersion, and lifestyle dynamics

• Pills, patches, and creams — medications that can help with libido issues

• Fun personal stories, including why ribs and milkshakes once led to truck hookups

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In this episode of Beyond Monogamy, Adam and Pris discuss old and new sexual wants. Pris drops the big reveal about her changing wants from everyday regular sex to a more sensual type of experience. The hosts banter back and forth about their feelings from past experiences and how exactly their journey has taken them to the point they are currently at. This honest and vulnerable look at the lives of Pris and Adam is not only telling but wholly entertaining...

In this episode, Adam and Pris delve into the intricate dynamics of swinging and marriage. They reflect on their 13-year journey, emphasizing the importance of entering the lifestyle with the right intentions. The hosts share personal anecdotes, highlighting how their adventures in swinging have bolstered communication and intimacy rather than serving as a band-aid for marital issues. They caution against using swinging to repair damaged relationships and stress the need for a solid ethical foundation. Their experiences underline the potential of swinging to enrich a strong, communicative partnership but acknowledge it isn't a universal solution for marital woes.

In this episode of Beyond Monogamy, Adam and Pris discuss the intricacies of flirting, especially across genders. Adam admits to struggling with flirting with women, elaborating on how natural it feels for him with men. They delve into the importance of eye contact and genuine connection, suggesting that successful flirting requires more than mere compliments. Touching on their personal experiences, the hosts emphasize the value of honesty and the need for unique approaches to capturing someone's interest. This discussion serves as a humorous yet insightful guide for anyone looking to improve their flirting skills.