Bad Queers – Details, episodes & analysis

Mal Wright has been on our wishlist for a minute, and shooting our shot finally paid off. We get into her background, her time in ATL, how she earned her nickname, all things The Ultimatum: Queer Love, and what life was looking like post-show — including who was in her DMs and who she still keeps up with. We also talk the future of queer representation, her For Them/Autostraddle era, relationships, and being intentional with visibility. 

Shoutouts:

Kris: Crissle’s Couch - Podcast and Black queer legend Crissle West’s new podcast has launched. Each week Crissle brings sharp truth along with her own lived experience and insight to listener letters, solo reflections, and candid conversations — equal parts culture, critique, and care. @crisslescouch 

Shana: There’s always next year - Story about love, queer joy and community. This is a young Adult book - two teens that have 24 hours to fix their love lives. This was co-written by Bad Queers Fam George M. Johnson and Leah Johnson. Book will be out Dec 2nd. @iamgmjohnson @byleahjohnson

Mal: Crissle’s Couch, I second that. 

Brandon Kyle Goodman @brandonkylegoodman and their play Heaux Church. @heauxchurch 

Gladys Bookshop @gladysbooksbk 

Autostraddle and For Them @autostraddle @forthem  

Jet Toomer’s Substack called Tiny Violences  IG: @izdabes

Episode Notes:
1:00 - Queer Urban Dictionary
3:19 - Guest Intro
4:12 - Guest Interview with Mal 
1:14:06 - Bad Queer Opinion 
1:34:39 - Shoutouts 

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The opinions expressed during this podcast are conversational in nature and expressed only for comedic purposes. Not all of the facts will be correct but we attempt to be as accurate as possible. BQ Media LLC, the hosts, nor any guest host(s) hold no liability over the conversations on this podcast and by using this podcast you understand that it is solely for entertainment purposes. 

Copyright Disclaimer: Under Section 107 of the Copyright Act 1976, allowance is made for "fair use" for purposes such as criticism, comment, news reporting, teaching, parody, scholarship and research.  

We’re happy to be joined by Jonathan Higgins and Jordan “JoHo” Daniels of BFF: Black, Fat, Femme. We talk origin story, the love + lessons in their friendship, the success of their show, Jonathan’s book Black. Fat. Femme: Revealing the Power of Visibly Queer Voices in Media and Learning to Love Yourself, a surprise Loretta Devine stud reveal, their Bad Queer Opinions, and the nastiness online they brush off.

Shoutouts:

Kris: Moodeaux - Founded by Brianna Arps, Moodeaux is a Black, woman, and queer-owned fragrance brand redefining perfumery with clean, unisex scents and its “Flaunt How You Feel” ethos. Follow on IG @moodeauxofficial

Shana:  Queer Nightlife Community Center (QNCC pronounced Kink) run for and by queer nightlife workers to empower queer, trans and low-income communities through access, support and celebration. During the day the space will provide healthcare services and work-based training before transitioning to music programming in the evening. Follow @qncc.bk on IG 

Jordan: Edwin Sotos and Luis Cornejo - for what they're doing with Apaga El Odio, which is helping lead the work to hold Univision and Telemundo accountable for showing ICE propaganda during their shows. Follow on IG: @edwinsotos and @luis_thee_lmft

Sondra Morris -  of my friends who runs Tagg Magazine for queer women. They are currently in a rebrand so check out their stories and advertise with them. Follow on IG: @sondrawritesstuff @taggmagazine

Nathan Serrato - Queer coaching and relationships under Queer Conscious. Follow on IG: @queerconscious

Jon:  Ericka Hart - Love their content, how they hold everyone accountable and the way she continues to uplift accountability and her family is adorable Follow on IG: @ihartericka

Pennywise- I believe they are queer and doing her thing in IT: Welcome To Derry and reminds the girls what they can do when you put your mind to it 

Episode Notes:
1:00 - Queer Urban Dictionary
2:04 - Guest Intro: Jon & JoHo
3:34 - Guest Interview with Jon & JoHo
1:07:24 - Bad Queer Opinion 
1:22:02 - Shoutouts 

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The opinions expressed during this podcast are conversational in nature and expressed only for comedic purposes. Not all of the facts will be correct but we attempt to be as accurate as possible. BQ Media LLC, the hosts, nor any guest host(s) hold no liability over the conversations on this podcast and by using this podcast you understand that it is solely for entertainment purposes. 

Copyright Disclaimer: Under Section 107 of the Copyright Act 1976, allowance is made for "fair use" for purposes such as criticism, comment, news reporting, teaching, parody, scholarship and research.  

This week on Bad Queers, Kris teaches us “H&H” (high and horny) while Shana breaks down “homo fomo.” Then we’re joined by storyteller, filmmaker, and writer Amber J. Phillips known as Amber Abundance — aka your fave fat Black queer femme auntie from the Midwest. 

We catch up with Amber on everything from launching her Substack Toxic Femininity (yes, it’s giving Black femme scripture) to building Ample World. We get into Black queer femmes choosing desire instead of waiting to be chosen, why “straight-passing” is a trash term, and what it takes to silence the fed in your head. 

Plus: breakup dates are not closure, successful u-haulers are the exception not the rule, studs deserve a little more shade, and Amber has one very real Bad Queer Opinion about Ellie blocking our view of the tall WNBA girlies. 

As always, we close with shoutouts — including Tracee Ellis Ross’ new travel show, the Youth Trans Emergency Project, and love to everyone at Black Star Film Fest.

Shoutouts: 

Kris: Solo Traveling with Tracee Ellis Ross - Tracee’s new travel show on Roku Channel. She invites audiences to join her solo trips to Morocco, Mexico, and Spain. Just renewed for a second season, go check out season 1 on the roku channel Follow Tracee on IG: @traceeellisross

Shana: Youth Trans Emergency Project: They help families of trans youth through the maze of accessing healthcare after a clinic closure. They can find care providers, provide grants, and have a network of care. Check out their website: www.transyouthemergencyproject.org

Amber: Everyone who went to Black Star Film Fest. Friend Kia Lou who won a pitch competition around Black queer lesbians in standup comedy. Shoutout to Black Storytellers 

Follow Amber @amberabundance and on substack @ToxicFemininity 

Episode Notes: 

1:00 - Queer Urban Dictionary 

2:33 - Amber Abundance Introduction 

3:24 - Interview with Amber Abundance 

55:10 - Bad Queer Opinions 

1:10:17 - Shoutouts

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The opinions expressed during this podcast are conversational in nature and expressed only for comedic purposes. Not all of the facts will be correct but we attempt to be as accurate as possible. BQ Media LLC, the hosts, nor any guest host(s) hold no liability over the conversations on this podcast and by using this podcast you understand that it is solely for entertainment purposes. 

Copyright Disclaimer: Under Section 107 of the Copyright Act 1976, allowance is made for "fair use" for purposes such as criticism, comment, news reporting, teaching, parody, scholarship and research.  

We're back from holiday break to discuss the wild start to the year. Shana shares a glowing review of The Color Purple. In the most predictable story of the year, sometimesy-Christian, Boosie, throws a tantrum over a lesbian scene in The Color Purple and gets packed up by TS Madison. Dave Chappelle continues to destroy his own legacy in his latest "comedy" special. Andy Cohen and Anderson Cooper NYE hosting only makes us miss Don Lemon.  In politics, Iowa’s “Don’t Say Gay” Law has been blocked by a federal judge in another big LGBTQ+ rights win. USA Boxing introduces new strict guidelines for trans boxers.

In Bad Queer opinions, Shana swears off themed parties and Kris gives an apology to the DVD community.


Shoutouts:

Shana: Inclusive Guide - The inclusive guide helps you identify safe and welcoming spaces for all. They recently launched a DEI Resources platform which include live trainings at your own pace. Follow and check it out @inclusiveguide on IG 

Kris: Jonica Booth - for a great second season as Chastity on Rap Sh!t. Follow on IG: @jonicablubooth 

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The opinions expressed during this podcast are conversational in nature and expressed only for comedic purposes. Not all of the facts will be correct but we attempt to be as accurate as possible. BQ Media LLC, the hosts, nor any guest host(s) hold no liability over the conversations on this podcast and by using this podcast you understand that it is solely for entertainment purposes. 

Copyright Disclaimer: Under Section 107 of the Copyright Act 1976, allowance is made for "fair use" for purposes such as criticism, comment, news reporting, teaching, parody, scholarship and research.  

We welcome in the New Year with company! Mx. Eden is your favorite Femme Daddy, dominating audiences from the classroom to the dungeon, and now on Bad Queers. We reminisce on nights out in DC and Baltimore, MD., discuss how to create safe spaces. Black drag kings and our need for more Stud Strippers. Don't forget, Kia Souls are for the everyday, modern queer. And we wrap up with Bad Queer Opinions you won't want to miss (hint: parent chokehold on fashion and coparenting pets).

Shoutouts

Shana: One Roof Chicago: an emerging initiative to build an LGBTQ+ intergenerational community for older adults and youth in need of affirming housing. Follow @one_roof_chicago  

Kris: ColorCreative - Management company supporting & developing the voices of the future while enabling women & people-of-color creators to reach their greatest potential. Follow on IG: @colorcreative

Eden: My shoutouts are gonna be Kai Brown aka Stud Slayer (@stud_slayer_) GiGi Holliday (@gigiholliday)

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The opinions expressed during this podcast are conversational in nature and expressed only for comedic purposes. Not all of the facts will be correct but we attempt to be as accurate as possible. BQ Media LLC, the hosts, nor any guest host(s) hold no liability over the conversations on this podcast and by using this podcast you understand that it is solely for entertainment purposes. 

Copyright Disclaimer: Under Section 107 of the Copyright Act 1976, allowance is made for "fair use" for purposes such as criticism, comment, news reporting, teaching, parody, scholarship and research.  

We continue our End of Year recap with Anna DeShawn. From July to December highlights include the release of Janelle Monáe's Lipstick Lover, the Montgomery River Brawl, Robin Roberts marriage and Brittney Griner's story being released. Low lights include the conflict in The Congo and Israel/Gaza/Palestine, RIP O'Shae Sibley, transphobia on the rise and Cassie gets justice from Diddy. This is just an overview, plus our end of year Bad Queer Opinions and shoutouts.

*Our next episode will release on TUESDAY January 2nd instead of Monday.*

Shoutouts:
Anna: The films; The Dads, Kokomo City, Rustin, We Live Here: The Midwest, Old Lesbians 

Kris: Native Son 101 List - Class of 2023 has been announced. Their Class of 2023 list celebrates Black gay and queer men who have made an impact throughout the year. Make sure you visit the Native Son website - https://nativeson.us/ to view the beautiful profiles of each honoree. Follow on IG @nativesonnow

Shana: The Sanctuary: 100% sustainable Black, queer woman owned apothecary, apparel and home decor boutique in the bay area. They specialize in locally sourced environmentally sustainable products. Follow and support @thesanctuary.energy 

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Welcome to Part 1 of our End of Year Episode with award winning podcast producer and host, Anna DeShawn. In this two part episode we go over the mess that was 2023. Part 1 reviews January to June, which includes Ron DeSatan trying to come for Disney, the beginning of the George Santos saga, Janelle Monáe and Beyoncé gifting us with their talents, good news from Brittney Griner, bills-bills-bills, too many lives lost, The L Word Gen Q finale and so much more. Let's get into it!

Part 2 of this episode will be released on December 26th! 

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Our chaotic episodes are always our favorite episodes. Lots of slippery slopes from AOC putting congress in check over trans girls rights in sports to Harlem, The Chi and Brittney Griner's documentary. The Renaissance film recap to the fight for peace. In AIABQ we discuss lesbian conservatives and choosing sperm donors and Bad Queer Opinions about women taking poppers and Saucy Santana not wanting a gay son. Try and keep up with this wild and wonderful episode. 

Shoutout:

Shana: BLMP - Black LGBTQIA+ Migrant Project envisions a world without forced migration, where all black LGBTQIA+ people are free and liberated. They build and center the power of Black LGBTQIA+ immigrants through organizing, base-building, strategic communications and long term viability and sustainability. Follow and support @officialblmp on IG

Kris: Viarae prosecco - sparkling white wine from Issa Rae released in October and already a staple in my home. Follow on IG @viaraewines to see where you can buy near you. 

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The opinions expressed during this podcast are conversational in nature and expressed only for comedic purposes. Not all of the facts will be correct but we attempt to be as accurate as possible. BQ Media LLC, the hosts, nor any guest host(s) hold no liability over the conversations on this podcast and by using this podcast you understand that it is solely for entertainment purposes. 

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From trolling Moms for Liberty to staging walk outs over anti-trans policies, the kids are alright. We breakdown the timeline of what has been happening with Angel Reese and how folks are showing out as a result. The Soul Train Awards showed how progressive they were to de-gender an award to celebrate Janelle Monáe's accomplishments. AIABQ shares some bad queer opinions around gay bars and circling back on a missed connection. Allies...you don't need your own flag and it's time to hold gay men accountable. 

Shoutouts:
Shana: LGBTQ+ Business Week - It’s a 7-day celebration of queer-owned small businesses. Their goal is to spread some queer business cheer and help you #BuyProud - And they hosted their first virtual summit on December 1st, which featured some of our fam - Anna DeShawn, Dr. David Johns, and more - Follow @lgbtqbusinessweek 

Kris: Destin Conrad - queer artist, songwriter who gained popularity with his projects, Colorway and Satin. Go support his latest project “Submissive” on all streaming platforms and for purchase. Follow on IG @destinconrad

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The opinions expressed during this podcast are conversational in nature and expressed only for comedic purposes. Not all of the facts will be correct but we attempt to be as accurate as possible. BQ Media LLC, the hosts, nor any guest host(s) hold no liability over the conversations on this podcast and by using this podcast you understand that it is solely for entertainment purposes. 

Copyright Disclaimer: Under Section 107 of the Copyright Act 1976, allowance is made for "fair use" for purposes such as criticism, comment, news reporting, teaching, parody, scholarship and research.  

We've got company!

This week, we're joined by Black Queer Dom, a Black Queer Kinky educator and leader rooted in sexual wellness, Black feminist theory & gender justice. They founded the Black Queer Dom Society, a community of practice, health & wellbeing for Black Queer, Trans and Non Binary folks.
We chat with Black Queer Dom about their journey into the world of kink and BDSM and how it could be empowering for Black Queer, Trans, and Non Binary folks.

Shoutouts

Shana: Thurst Lounge: DC’s only Black-owned LGBTQ+ lounge is opening soon. Shaun Mykals and Brandon Burke are opening a nightlife venue targeting DC’s Black LGBTQ+ community, as there are currently no Black LGBTQ-owned bars or nightclubs in DC. Thank you Queerency for highlighting them. Follow @thurstlounge on IG 

Kris: Pittsburgh Lesbian Correspondents - Founded by Sue Kerr, this LGBTQ blog provides coverage on the social, economic, cultural and political happenings impacting our community. Follow on IG: @pghlesbian

BQD: Dc Cuddle Club and LA Cuddle Club - Where you can practice consent and be ready to get into kink spaces - lead by two Black queer women. Follow on IG: @dccuddleclub and Eventbrite LA Cuddle Club

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The opinions expressed during this podcast are conversational in nature and expressed only for comedic purposes. Not all of the facts will be correct but we attempt to be as accurate as possible. BQ Media LLC, the hosts, nor any guest host(s) hold no liability over the conversations on this podcast and by using this podcast you understand that it is solely for entertainment purposes. 

Copyright Disclaimer: Under Section 107 of the Copyright Act 1976, allowance is made for "fair use" for purposes such as criticism, comment, news reporting, teaching, parody, scholarship and research.