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121: The Keys to Responding to "You're So Lucky You Don't Have Kids"19 Aug 202400:27:01

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This might be one of the most "triggering" remarks that parents make to people who don't have kids.  If you wanted kids, you sure don't feel very lucky, right?  In fact, you might feel pretty unlucky. 

Have you had this scenario come up before?  I have and I'm going to walk through the steps I used to handle it with love and kindness. 

This is the last solo episode in my summer series on responding authentically to all the questions and remarks we get as women without kids.  I'll share:

  • the sign that you're on the "treadmill of triggers"
  • how to shift your mindset and approach this question with grace
  • options for responding in different scenarios

If you are someone who wants to be prepared for ALL the insensitive remarks and questions - whatever comes your way - send me a DM to @sherijohnsoncoaching with the words "episode 121" and I'll show you what you can do next.

   

Where to find Sheri:
Instagram: @sherijohnsoncoaching
Website: sherijohnson.ca

120: Do You Have Kids? How to Respond with Grace12 Aug 202400:31:17

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So many childless and childfree women hate this question.  A simple "no" answer often leads to awkward silences or the other party trying to back track or fill the space.  But what if you could answer this question with ease and grace and both you and the person asking the question could walk away from the conversation feeling good?

That's what today's episode is all about.  It's not about coming up with snide or sarcastic comments that will "put the person in their place".  It's about responding with a new perspective and with love and kindness. 

In this solo episode, I'll show you how to:

  • get into an empowering mindset 
  • shift your perspective on what causes people to ask this question
  • be prepared with easy answers 

If you want to find out how to answer ALL the insensitive questions and remarks about women without kids, send me a DM at @sherijohnsoncoaching with the words "episode 120" and I'll give you the next steps!

Where to find Sheri:
Instagram: @sherijohnsoncoaching
Website: sherijohnson.ca

111: Purpose is Not Something You Find (Part 2)11 Jun 202400:32:17

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Download your free guide to Finding Purpose Beyond Parenthood: Getting Through Grief and Triggers to a Life of Meaning and Joy!

Last week I talked about how purpose is not something you "find".  It's also not a singular mission.  It's not a destination.  And it doesn't have to be big.  

Once you begin to practice all the things that I outlined that will bring you a sense of meaning and purpose, you may find that you are still struggling.  It might mean that there is something standing in the way. 

Identifying your personal obstacles is the first step.  In this episode I share:

  • 4 possible obstacles that may be standing in the way of your purpose
  • 3 counterintuitive ways to remove them
  • what do do next to solidify your purpose

If you are an action taker and want to discover more about how to live your purpose-filled life, download my free PDF guide,  Finding Purpose Beyond Parenthood: Getting Through Grief and Triggers to a Life of Meaning and Joy!

Where to find Sheri:
Instagram: @sherijohnsoncoaching
Website: sherijohnson.ca

Where to find Sheri:
Instagram: @sherijohnsoncoaching
Website: sherijohnson.ca

21: 3 Secrets I've Been Afraid to Tell You 5 Years After My Miscarriages07 Jul 202000:12:25

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My last miscarriage was 5 years ago.  3 years later, I shifted my business toward helping women recover emotionally and spiritually from grief following a miscarriage. Since then, I've been holding in a few secrets. I was afraid of what you'd think if you knew these secrets. But in this episode, I'm opening up my heart and sharing all.

References from this episode:

Where to find Sheri:
Instagram: @sherijohnsoncoaching
Website: sherijohnson.ca

20: The #1 Belief That is Stalling Your Emotional Healing After a Miscarriage30 Jun 202000:13:34

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After I had my first miscarriage, I didn't join a support group.  I didn't look for online resources for navigating grief after a miscarriage.  I didn't go to therapy, at least not right away and not because I thought I needed help recovering from my miscarriage.  I did nothing to try to help myself heal.

In this episode, I'm going to tell you why I didn't do any of these things, what belief I had that kept me from from actively working on my grief and what it meant for my emotional health.

Links Mentioned in This Episode:

My instagram handle: @miscarriageloveandloss
Ep. 16: 6 Myths That Prevent Healing From Miscarriage
My online coaching program: Release the Pain of Miscarriage in 6 Weeks

Where to find Sheri:
Instagram: @sherijohnsoncoaching
Website: sherijohnson.ca

19: 4 Emotions Your Partner is Feeling After Your Miscarriage17 Jun 202000:17:10

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One of the complaints I here most often after a miscarriage is how challenging it is to keep your relationship together.  It might feel like your partner is moving forward more quickly than you after your miscarriage.  Or at least grieving very differently.  And it can lead to misunderstandings and resentment.

But your partner may need more support than you realize.

In this episode, I dig into some of the thoughts running through your partner's mind after a loss and the emotion that underlies those thoughts.  It's going to help you get a better understanding of how your partner might be feeling and, even better, inspire some compassion for him or her.

References from this episode:
sherijohnson.ca/16  Episode 16: 6 Myths That Prevent You From Healing After a Miscarriage
Release the Pain of Miscarriage in 6 Weeks  My online program for emotional healing from miscarriage
Miscarriage Love & Loss  My private Facebook group where we have intimate conversations about healing after a miscarriage

Links:
@miscarriageloveandloss follow me on Instagram
sherijohnson.ca check out my website for more resources

Where to find Sheri:
Instagram: @sherijohnsoncoaching
Website: sherijohnson.ca

18: 3 Simple Strategies for Emotional Healing After a Miscarriage with Cassie Vesey-Wells10 Jun 202000:49:52

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Cassie Vesey-Wells, shares some expert advice with us this episode.  She's a trained counsellor with a practice focused on fertility, grief and loss.

Cassie starts by sharing her own story and experience with 3 miscarriages, which I know you are going to resonate with.

She then shares the simplest of simple strategies for emotional healing that have helped her and her clients.  These strategies are so easy, you’ll wonder why you haven’t been doing them already!



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Where to find Sheri:
Instagram: @sherijohnsoncoaching
Website: sherijohnson.ca

17: 7 Steps to Healing Any Emotional Trigger After a Miscarriage03 Jun 202000:31:01

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Do you have emotional triggers that keep you feeling angry or hurt by friends or family?  Of course!  We all have them after a miscarriage.

Most women just navigate through the grief wishing people would stop triggering them, waiting for the grief to go away, believing that it's out of their control.

But it's not.  If you can heal the pain that's underneath your triggers, you won't have to feel like everyone is pushing your buttons.  I'll show you how to do that in this episode, using snippets from my own personal journal as examples.

I also created a free downloadable step-by-step guide to healing your own triggers. You can find on my website.  You'll want to keep it somewhere safe so you can pull it out anytime you feel a new trigger.  It works every time!

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Where to find Sheri:
Instagram: @sherijohnsoncoaching
Website: sherijohnson.ca

16: 6 Myths that Prevent Healing from Miscarriage27 May 202001:03:31

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Society tells us all kinds of things about how best to heal from miscarriage.  Many of them are myths and don't actually help at all.

Kirsten Frey, an expert on grief, had her own experience with loss and realized many years later that she had buried her grief instead of healing from it. 

In this episode, she dives into the 6 myths that prevented her healing and shares how to bust through them to achieve true healing after a miscarriage.

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Where to find Sheri:
Instagram: @sherijohnsoncoaching
Website: sherijohnson.ca

15: Four Miraculous Tools for Healing From Miscarriage20 May 202000:32:36

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I share with you my absolute best tools for healing after a miscarriage or infertility in this episode.  I call them miraculous because they really are.  They changed my entire life.  And drastically.

After my first miscarriage, I had no idea how to heal emotionally from my loss.  I did what I'd heard others say to do: keep busy, get back to work, avoid talking about it.  And none of that worked.  I believe that I simply learned to adjust to the empty feeling inside of me. I didn't actually heal from it. 

I want you to heal.  Once I learned the tools that would help me heal, I used them voraciously.  And they worked.  They still work. I use them all the time, whenever I feel a trigger, whether it stems from my losses or from something else.

Listen to this episode to find out my four best tools for healing after a miscarriage.

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Where to find Sheri:
Instagram: @sherijohnsoncoaching
Website: sherijohnson.ca

14: The Story of My Second Miscarriage13 May 202000:23:15

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In this episode, I tell the story of my second miscarriage, which was entirely different from my first, physically and emotionally.  Each one came with its own emotions, its own lessons, its own grief.  If you've had a miscarriage, you'll definitely be able to relate as I tell the story of how it all went down.  I'll share the lessons I learned along the way too so that you might learn from them as well.

Episode shownotes can be found at:
https://sherijohnson.ca/podcast/

Where to find Sheri:
Instagram: @sherijohnsoncoaching
Website: sherijohnson.ca

13: How to Get Through Mother's Day After a Loss05 May 202000:15:38

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Mother's Day has gotta be one of the hardest days of the year if you've had a miscarriage or if you're struggling with infertility.  It certainly is for me.

After 3 miscarriages and 6 full years of infertility, I discovered some easy strategies for getting through the day with grace and I'm going to share 6 of them with you in this episode.

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Where to find Sheri:
Instagram: @sherijohnsoncoaching
Website: sherijohnson.ca

12: When It's Too Soon to Go Back to Work After a Miscarriage29 Apr 202000:21:56

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Find out how to know when it's too soon to go back to work.  Most women go back too early and there's a good reason why.  I'm going to share those reasons with you, as well as the reasons you shouldn't go back too soon.

I also have a special meditation download for this episode that focuses on healing and comfort before you go back to work.

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Where to find Sheri:
Instagram: @sherijohnsoncoaching
Website: sherijohnson.ca

110: Purpose is Not Something You Find (Part 1)02 Jun 202400:27:50

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Download your free guide to Finding Purpose Beyond Parenthood: Getting Through Grief and Triggers to a Life of Meaning and Joy!

Purpose is not some concept that you find.  It's not a destination. It's not singular. And it doesn't come from having kids.  I understand why you believe it does.  I did too. 

It's because society tells us that when you have kids, you'll be flooded with purpose.  Especially as women, becoming a mother is supposed to be our sole (and soul) purpose.  And when we don't get to have kids, we end up feeling lost, unfulfilled, like there's a big open space in front of us that we don't know how to fill.

And I'm here to tell you that it's entirely possible to live a beautiful, exciting, purpose-filled life, even without kids!  I've done.  My clients have done it.  And I'm going to give you the two steps to doing it yourself today.   Tune back in next week to find out how to remove any obstacles to living your purpose.

Discover more about how to live your purpose-filled life by downloading my free PDF guide,  Finding Purpose Beyond Parenthood: Getting Through Grief and Triggers to a Life of Meaning and Joy!

Where to find Sheri:
Instagram: @sherijohnsoncoaching
Website: sherijohnson.ca

Where to find Sheri:
Instagram: @sherijohnsoncoaching
Website: sherijohnson.ca

11: My Miscarriage Story #122 Apr 202000:19:49

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If you've had a miscarriage, you'll know that it's a lonely experience.  But it can be so healing to hear someone else's story.  A story a bit like your own. With the same struggles, the same heart break. 

It took me a bit of courage to go as deep as I did when I told my own story in this episode.  I revealed some parts of my story that I hadn't told anyone before and some feelings I had barely even admitted to myself.

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Website: sherijohnson.ca

10: 10 Things I Wish I Knew When I Miscarried15 Apr 202000:22:48

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I was so naive when I had my first miscarriage and I received no guidance from the doctors or nurses who treated me, from friends and family.  From anyone.  I had to navigate through my miscarriage, and the grief afterwards, alone.

Then I made my way through a second miscarriage, and then a third.  And by the end of all of that, I had learned a thing a two.  All things that would have helped had I known them from the beginning.  I want to share them with you, in case you are just starting your own journey with loss.

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Where to find Sheri:
Instagram: @sherijohnsoncoaching
Website: sherijohnson.ca

9: You're not alone if you're feeling these 5 emotions after a miscarriage08 Apr 202000:13:49

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We all expect to feel a deep, deep sadness after a miscarriage. We've seen other people go through grief and we've watched them experience that sadness.  But have you noticed that you feel all kinds of other emotions besides sadness?

I sure did after my 3 miscarriages.  Jealousy, emptiness, numbness, anger...the list goes on.  Grief isn't an emotion itself, it's a process that encompasses many emotions. 

In this episode, I talk about 5 of the most common emotions BESIDES sadness, that you may not have realized are part of your grief.

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Where to find Sheri:
Instagram: @sherijohnsoncoaching
Website: sherijohnson.ca

8: Fertility treatment postponed? Do these 5 things while you wait.01 Apr 202000:15:39

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It feels a bit like we've lost sight of everyone's problems in the world except for the massive one that no one can stop talking about.  COVID19 is kind of all-consuming and I think it's left a lot of people in the lurch.

People like you.  Women who are on a fertility journey and now have to wait even longer for a treatment.   Women whose biological clock is ticking and they just want to get moving. Women who've had their dreams crushed in one fell swoop.

But you don't have to just sit back and wait.  Why not take control over what you can?  Right now.

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Where to find Sheri:
Instagram: @sherijohnsoncoaching
Website: sherijohnson.ca

7: Keeping Busy Won't Make Grief Go Away27 Mar 202000:14:53

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Why do we think staying busy will help us feel better after a miscarriage?  Think about it.  It might take your mind off your grief for a brief period of time, but it just resurfaces, and sometimes at the worst possible moments.

In this episode, I'll explain why keeping busy won't make your grief go away and share 4 tools for actually helping you feel better.

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Where to find Sheri:
Instagram: @sherijohnsoncoaching
Website: sherijohnson.ca

6: You CAN Improve Your Health During a Pandemic18 Mar 202000:14:58

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Most of what we've heard during these crazy times is fear and negativity.  But there are actually ways that you can take advantage of the quarantines and isolation and allow your body, mind and spirit to heal.  You might even give your fertility a boost or prepare your body for your next pregnancy. Have a listen to find out how.

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Where to find Sheri:
Instagram: @sherijohnsoncoaching
Website: sherijohnson.ca

5: What To Do When You're Asked, "When Are You Having Kids?"27 Feb 202000:13:07

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Questions like, "so when are you having kids?" can bring up a lot of anger in someone who's struggling with infertility or has just had a miscarriage.  I know it does.  I see a ton of posts about it on social media and I hear about it from my clients.

But what if I told you that there's a way to feel comfortable with these types of questions?  That you could answer them with ease and grace and not get angry? Have a listen to this episode to find out how.

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Where to find Sheri:
Instagram: @sherijohnsoncoaching
Website: sherijohnson.ca

4: Stuck in a Decision? Here's How to Move Forward19 Feb 202000:13:09

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After a miscarriage or while on a fertility journey, there are so many decisions to make.  It can get overwhelming and impossible to figure out the direction to go.  You get "stuck".  Paralyzed.  And can't move forward.  Here's how to change that.

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Where to find Sheri:
Instagram: @sherijohnsoncoaching
Website: sherijohnson.ca

3: 6 Tips For Keeping Your Relationship In Tact After a Miscarriage13 Feb 202000:14:28

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Your marriage or partnership can take a beating after a miscarriage or a period of infertility.  Use these 6 tips to make sure your relationship stays rock solid through tumultuous times.

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Where to find Sheri:
Instagram: @sherijohnsoncoaching
Website: sherijohnson.ca

2: How to Make Peace With Your Body When it Feels Broken06 Feb 202000:07:36

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When you've been through a miscarriage or months of infertility, your body starts to feel broken.  Listen to this episode to find out how to release frustration towards your body, or your female body parts, so it can heal and you can move on to your next pregnancy.

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Where to find Sheri:
Instagram: @sherijohnsoncoaching
Website: sherijohnson.ca

109: The Unsung Sisterhood of Women Without Kids, With Ruby Warrington26 May 202401:06:43

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It is so clear to me that Ruby Warrington is a thought leader in the childfree/childless space!  She has authored, Women Without Kids: The Revolutionary Rise of an Unsung Sisterhood, and in my view, the whole book was revolutionary.   She discusses concepts that were swirling around vaguely in my head and my mind was blown when I saw them so well articulated on the pages of her book.

We get into some of these concepts on today's episode.  Topics ranging from the "motherhood spectrum" to the urge to leave a legacy  and it's link to the fear of death.  We discussed grief and self-worth and even sex and homophobia. 

Have a listen to this episode and find out for yourself, how diverse the issues really are when you are woman without kids and how simply changing your perspective can actually change how you feel about your circumstances.

Find Ruby at:
Website: rubywarrington.com
Book: Women Without Kids: The Revolutionary Rise of an Unsung Sisterhood
Kripalu Retreat: Celebrate Being Childfree

Where to find Sheri:
Instagram: @sherijohnsoncoaching
Website: sherijohnson.ca

Where to find Sheri:
Instagram: @sherijohnsoncoaching
Website: sherijohnson.ca

1: Let Go of Guilt After Miscarriage or Infertility23 Jan 202000:13:30

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Many women feel a sense of guilt after a miscarriage or prolonged infertility.  As though they might have been able to prevent the loss or improved their chances of having a baby somehow.  Perhaps if they'd done something differently, things would have been better.  I felt this way too.  Listen to this episode to find out how to let it go.

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Where to find Sheri:
Instagram: @sherijohnsoncoaching
Website: sherijohnson.ca

108: The Hidden Things You Didn't Know You Were Grieving17 May 202400:30:23

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Many childless people don't even realize they are grieving.  Who would have known you can grieve the loss of an imagined future?   What I find is that many women without kids, even those who choose not to have them, feel some sort of grief and it's not always the loss of that future.  Identifying what specifically you're grieving is key to processing it.

In this solo episode, I'm giving you the first step of the Grow Through Grief pillar of my framework: identify what hidden grief might be lying under the surface.   That is, after you realize or admit that you are feeling grief.

I'm sharing 7 different less-obvious things you might be grieving and didn't even know it.   Many of these will resonate even with those who chose not to have kids, or those who are sort of ambiguous about it.  So have a listen no matter what your circumstances.

If you are ready to fully process and release the grief AND get the rest of my framework for creating Purpose Beyond Parenthood, click here to sign up for one of my free focus groups.

Where to find Sheri:
Instagram: @sherijohnsoncoaching
Website: sherijohnson.ca

Where to find Sheri:
Instagram: @sherijohnsoncoaching
Website: sherijohnson.ca

107: 5 Steps for Navigating Mother's Day as a Childless Woman10 May 202400:30:24

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These are 5 steps you haven't heard before.  You've probably heard people talk about staying off social media and opting out of Mother's Day emails.  Maybe doing something nice for yourself and saying "no" to the celebrations.   These are all valid things you can do to avoid feeling the pain of Mother's Day as a childless woman who wanted to be a mother.

And yet, they're all band-aid solutions.  None of them will actually help you feel better next year on this day.  Or throughout the year.  None of them will help you to live a happy, purpose-driven, joyful life as a woman without kids every day.

My steps for navigating Mother's Day go against the grain.  They'll seem counterintuitive but they work. 

And if you want to take this a step further and find out my exact framework for living a purposeful, happy life as a childless woman THIS year so next Mother's Day feels amazing, email me the word "Mother's Day" at sheri@sherijohnson.ca or @sherijohnsoncoaching.

Where to find Sheri:
Instagram: @sherijohnsoncoaching
Website: sherijohnson.ca

Where to find Sheri:
Instagram: @sherijohnsoncoaching
Website: sherijohnson.ca

106: The Wisdom of Aging As a Childless Woman05 May 202400:18:55

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Menopause is a huge transformational time for women and another topic that we don’t talk about enough.  Women may joke about their memory, or hot flashes or complain about heavy periods.  But they don’t talk about the deep stuff.  The vulnerable stuff.  Or the scary stuff. 

There is SO much going on for women during perimenopause and midlife, and childless women experience it, quite often, right alongside trying to start a family before it’s too late.   That, to me, adds a whole other element. 

In this solo episode, I shed light on:

  • what childless women experience that is different from the norm
  • why we want to hold onto our youth even more than a mother might
  • how to defy societal conditioning and move through this period in your life with joy

DM me "AGING" on Instagram @sherijohnsoncoaching if you are ready to let go of societal norms so you can love your childless midlife.

Where to find Sheri:
Instagram: @sherijohnsoncoaching
Website: sherijohnson.ca


Where to find Sheri:
Instagram: @sherijohnsoncoaching
Website: sherijohnson.ca

105: Unleashing Your Inner Rebel30 Apr 202400:27:26

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It's hard to fit in when you are in the minority.  Childless women over 40 make up roughly 20% of the population (depending on what country you live in).   Sometimes I wonder how many of them are living in the larger cities because it sure feels like everyone around me in my little town are parents. 

But what if we embraced this unchosen nonconformity?  What if we unleashed the inner rebel within us and did EVERYTHING our own way?  How liberating would that feel, especially if you let go of what everyone else thought about it?

In this solo episode, we'll explore together...

  •  the societal pressures and expectations placed on women to conform to traditional roles and identities, even after they know they won't have children
  • how to overcome the fears around truly embracing authenticity, defying societal norms, and forging your own path to fulfillment
  • how to uncover alternative paths for yourself and have the courage to fulfill them without feeling the need to justify it to others
  • getting through the self-doubt

 If you want to take one step towards your best life, download my free PDF guide to Create Your Best Year, Even Without Kids.

Where to find Sheri:
Instagram: @sherijohnsoncoaching
Website: sherijohnson.ca

Where to find Sheri:
Instagram: @sherijohnsoncoaching
Website: sherijohnson.ca

104: What If NOT Having Children Was the Norm in Society?21 Apr 202400:19:22

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In our current society, women without kids make up anywhere between 15 and 25% of the adult female population, depending on the country.  Recently, I started to wonder what life would look like - what grief would look like - if that were reversed. 

If mothers were in the minority, would childless women feel so much FOMO, inadequacy or lack of belonging?  Would the grief run as deep?  Would we still wonder what our legacy or purpose is?

Join me for this solo episode where I contemplate:

  • aging in a world where childless women made up a larger proportion of the population than mothers
  • how different purpose and legacy might look in this alternative reality
  • what grief might look like for women without kids

It's this kind of reality that I'm creating inside the Women of Worth group immersion.  A place where childless women feel a sense of belonging, meaningful connection, an open space to create their best lives, even without kids. 

 If you want to take one step towards your best life, download my free PDF guide to Create Your Best Year, Even Without Kids.

Where to find Sheri:
Instagram: @sherijohnsoncoaching
Website: sherijohnson.ca

Where to find Sheri:
Instagram: @sherijohnsoncoaching
Website: sherijohnson.ca

103: What To Do When Your People Just Don't Get It14 Apr 202400:38:19

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Have you ever come away from a conversation thinking "gosh, "people just don't get it"?  Either they say something insensitive or simply can't empathize with your childless circumstances.  

It's definitely happened to me.  Even recently.  But the mistake I see in the childless space is the assumption that there is nothing you can do about it.  You just have to deal with the irritation or "trigger" and move on somehow. 

What I have noticed, in myself and my clients, is that there IS something you can do about it.  The first step is recognizing when it's happening and then taking steps to do what's in your own control instead of trying to change them.  

Listen to this solo episode to find out: 

  • what lies beneath the feeling that people "just don't get it"
  • 10 different ways that your feelings might be invalidated
  • 4 steps you can take to avoid feeling this way

DM me or email me the word "empathy" if you're ready to find true connection and empathy within a community that understands you.

Where to find Sheri:
Instagram: @sherijohnsoncoaching
Website: sherijohnson.ca


Where to find Sheri:
Instagram: @sherijohnsoncoaching
Website: sherijohnson.ca

102: Navigating Anger as a Childless Woman07 Apr 202400:28:24

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Anger is an emotion that comes up a lot with my childless clients who wanted kids.  Anger can be a really complicated emotion because it's not only an emotion in and of itself, but it can also disguise other emotions. 

What makes it even tougher to manage is that most little girls are taught not to express the tough emotions.  Anger is something boys are allowed to show, but not girls.  Yes, even in today's society.   So you might be someone who was conditioned to suppress anger, and maybe other negative emotions as well. 

Join me on this episode as I share:

  • the difference between true anger and anger that disguises other emotions
  • why we feel anger and the mistakes you might be making to avoid it
  • what to do about anger specific to your childless path

If you are ready to let go of anger so you can feel at peace with your path, send me a DM on Instagram or an email at sheri@sherijohnson.ca with the word "anger".

References from this episode:
Atlas of the Heart  by Brené Brown

Where to find Sheri:
Instagram: @sherijohnsoncoaching
Website: sherijohnson.ca

Where to find Sheri:
Instagram: @sherijohnsoncoaching
Website: sherijohnson.ca

119: How To Shift Your Reaction to "Miserable Childless Cat Ladies"04 Aug 202400:28:31

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If you are anything like me, you're probably tired of hearing about JD Vance and the comments he made publicly about childless women being miserable cat ladies and having no stake in America's future.  

I'm not even American, and yet angry reactions to this have been filling my feed these days.

The thing is, the majority of them have been simply reactions to his comments.  And my question became, "what good is this doing?"

So I'm taking a different approach on the pod this week and actually showing you how to dissipate any reaction you may have had to JD Vance's comments.

Now let's get clear on one thing. I am not on his side.  I'm not condoning what he said. I just want to shift your own perspective so that you can move on and let it go.

So this is what I'm going to share with you on this episode:

  • what these kinds of comments show you about yourself
  • how JD Vance's comments show you about him and his beliefs
  • how lashing out against him is not actually going to change the way people think about childless women

If you're ready to take take a more empowering stance when it comes to insensitive comments and questions and find out how to let these triggers roll off your back, send me a DM on Instagram to @sherijohnsoncoaching with the word “powerful”.  I’ll give you the steps on how to do it.

Where to find Sheri:
Instagram: @sherijohnsoncoaching
Website: sherijohnson.ca

Where to find Sheri:
Instagram: @sherijohnsoncoaching
Website: sherijohnson.ca

101: How Childless Women Will Change the World31 Mar 202400:27:18

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As I embark on the next 100 episodes on the Awakening Worth Podcast, I spend this session reflecting on the deeper reason I keep hitting record and why you should keep hitting the play button. 

I've come to realize that so many of us are stuck in this pronatalist ideology and it's impacting, well...really, all of humanity.  It's us, the childless women, who feel it the most, but it's affecting all of us. 

On this solo episode, I'm delving into:

  • what pronatalism is and why you need to start paying attention to how it's affecting you
  • the magic that  will happen when we start dismantling it
  • the difference between grief and feeling like you don't belong, or like a second class citizen next to the moms
  • the two epidemics we're experiencing in our culture that no one is talking about

What if we, the childless women, are the ones who can break down and break free of this centuries old ideology?  What if it's us, who can lead the transformation of our society and deeply impact the lives of not just other childless women, but women in general?

If you want to be a part of this kind of transformation and change in the world, start by taking my Self-Worth quiz to find out how deeply pronatalism is impacting YOU. 
sherijohnson.ca/quiz

References From this Episode
Episode 55: My So-Called Selfish Life with Therese Shechter
Episode 67: Patriarchy and Pronatalism and Their Impact on Childless Women, with Jody Day
Episode 92: How to Turn Grief Into Growth, With Kirsten Frey
Book: Dance of the Dissident Daughter by Sue Monk Kidd


Where to Find Sheri
Instagram: @sherijohnsoncoaching
Website: sherijohnson.ca


Where to find Sheri:
Instagram: @sherijohnsoncoaching
Website: sherijohnson.ca

100: From the Partner's Perspective, with Mike Johnson (my hubby)08 Mar 202400:43:58

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Celebrating 100 episodes today!   My husband, Mike Johnson, and I mark this special occasion together on the podcast with a conversation that makes its way through life without children from HIS perspective.  As we share the narrative of our journey, from the heartbreak of miscarriage to the multitude of decisions along the fertility treatment path, we peel back the layers of our different perspectives. 

Mike lends his voice to explore the complexities of a partner's role in facing childlessness, an area frequently overshadowed by the focus on women.  We shed light on the decision-making process behind IVF and donor eggs and dissect the influences that his own previous life-altering events had on the anticipation of parenting.

This milestone episode doesn't just celebrate the podcast's growth; it honors the dance that happened while adapting our hopes for the future together.

Mike gets pretty vulnerable and open during our conversation with some questions that took him off guard.  Join us for the raw and honest episode!

Where to find Sheri:
Instagram: @sherijohnsoncoaching
Website: sherijohnson.ca

Where to find Sheri:
Instagram: @sherijohnsoncoaching
Website: sherijohnson.ca

99: Why You Need Energetic Womb Healing, with Dr. Jennifer Reimer26 Feb 202401:04:23

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The moment I sat in quiet meditation with an energy healer, I never anticipated the floodgates of emotional pain that would open from my womb space. That pivotal encounter ignited a journey into womb healing, leading me to create womb healing retreats that help women to release emotions stored in the womb space. 

On today's episode, I replay a conversation that my sister, Jen, had on her show, Leading with Grace.  We venture into the transformative power of acknowledging and addressing womb trauma, not just for those who've grappled with infertility or sexual trauma, but for any (and we argue ALL) woman.   

You are going to discover:

  • what womb "trauma" is and how almost every woman has experienced some kind of it
  • how we store emotion in the womb space in much the same way that we store stress in our shoulders
  • how and why releasing this emotion allows you to tap into purpose, self-worth, creativity and your innate intuitive gifts. 

This one is more than just a conversation; it's an invitation to transform your deepest wounds into unparalleled strength.

To find out more about our Energetic Womb Healing Virtual Retreat, visit sherijohnson.ca/womb
Deadline to sign up is Thursday, Feb. 29th.

Where to find Jennifer:
Instagram: @jenreimerleadership
Website: virtuousradicals.com

References:
Women Who Run with the Wolves By Clarissa Pinkola Estes

Where to find Sheri:
Instagram: @sherijohnsoncoaching
Website: sherijohnson.ca


Where to find Sheri:
Instagram: @sherijohnsoncoaching
Website: sherijohnson.ca

98: What We REALLY Need to Be Talking About on International Women's Day22 Feb 202400:27:55

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This episode is a bit controversial.  I think there's this an expectation that if you are a woman, you are onboard with everything International Women's Day stands for.  But I'm not known for just getting on board with something simply because of an expectation.  Do I want women to rise? Yes.  Do I want there to be equitable pay in the workforce? Yes.  Do I want to see more women at the top?  Absolutely! 

At the same time, there are some aspects of IWD that I look at from a different perspective.   I'm sharing all my thoughts on this episode and I'm curious about your reaction. 

You'll hear me discuss:

  • how I won't strive for equality, but I will strive for equity
  • that I refuse to fight for equity and why
  • why I don't expect men to solve this for us
  • how to actually create a world of inclusion

References:
Women’s Bodies, Women’s Wisdom by Dr. Christiane Northrup

Where to find Sheri:
Instagram: @sherijohnsoncoaching
Website: sherijohnson.ca

Where to find Sheri:
Instagram: @sherijohnsoncoaching
Website: sherijohnson.ca

97: Challenging Pronatalism's Effect on Purpose and Fulfillment16 Feb 202400:28:12

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I'm doing a solo episode today and pulling back the curtain on pronatalism even further.  In this episode, I will peel away the layers of this pervasive belief system, examining how it shapes the sense of purpose and self-worth in those of us without children.  By uncovering historical and contemporary pressures from society, government, and religion, we pave the way for acceptance and a redefined sense of meaning and purpose beyond traditional expectations.

Tune in to find out: 

  • what pronatalism is and how it affects our subconscious beliefs about purpose
  • how my own sense of purpose and fulfillment unfolded over a number of years
  • how your own sense of purpose might be affected by pronatalism and what to do about it

Where to find Sheri:
Instagram: @sherijohnsoncoaching
Website: sherijohnson.ca

Where to find Sheri:
Instagram: @sherijohnsoncoaching
Website: sherijohnson.ca

96: Childlessness and the Transformation of Our Species, with Maria Hill08 Feb 202400:56:50

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As a leader in the childless space, Maria Hill brings a ton of wisdom to this episode. Her story of parental and societal expectations as a woman growing up in the 60's shed so much light on what we are going through now as childless women.

Maria and I cover some unexpected topics in this conversation from how Ayurveda supports the grief journey to highly sensitive people to the patriarchy and how it's impacting us all. 

The most fascinating part of the conversation for me though, was on the topic of how our current culture perpetuates survival mode.  You'll discover: 

  • how our society and the leaders within it are keeping us from thriving
  • some of the surprising ways that we can shift our mindset as women without kids
  • Maria's best tip for women just embarking on the childless path


Where to find Maria:
Website:  www.mariaehill.com
The Age Of The Queen webinar series: www.mariaehill.com/wcw-queen/
Instagram: @mariahill

References from this episode:
The Book of Longing  by Sue Monk Kidd
Dance of the Dissident Daughter by Sue Monk Kidd
Are You A Highly Sensitive Person Test by Elaine Aron
Spiral Dynamics: Mastering Values, Leadership and Change by Prof. Don Edward Beck and Christopher C. Cowan

Where to find Sheri:
Instagram: @sherijohnsoncoaching
Website: sherijohnson.ca

Where to find Sheri:
Instagram: @sherijohnsoncoaching
Website: sherijohnson.ca

95: Leaving a Legacy is Not As Important As You've Been Led to Believe05 Feb 202400:21:10

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Legacy.  It's a word I hear a lot in the childless community.  What kind of legacy will I leave now that I'm not having kids?  As though having kids is the only way to leave a legacy.

In this episode, I'll unpack:

  •  what legacy is and the role of ego in this need to leave a legacy behind
  • how to know if you're ego is coming into play and the mistakes you might be making while trying to leave a legacy
  • how to delink children and legacy
  • strategies for redefining legacy

To get Sheri's FREE guide to Create Your Best Life Even Without Kids, click here.

Where to Find Sheri

Instagram: @sherijohnsoncoaching
Website: sherijohnson.ca

Where to find Sheri:
Instagram: @sherijohnsoncoaching
Website: sherijohnson.ca

94: 3 Keys to Overcoming Regret and Fear of Regret on the Childless Path29 Jan 202400:25:55

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A feeling of regret and fear of future regret are two things I hear so many childless women talk about.  We regret decisions and choices we made in the past that have led to our current circumstances.  We also are afraid to make decisions in the present because we might regret them later.

I'm going to unpack it all in this episode.  You'll find out: 

  • what is regret and what purpose does it serve
  • what happens when you stay stuck in regret or stuck in decisions because of the fear of it
  • how to make peace with it and truly live with no regret

It's entirely possible to step into peace and acceptance of your path without feelings of regret.  If you want that, send me a DM on Instagram with the words "ep 94" and I'll show you how.

Where to find Sheri:

Instagram: @sherijohnsoncoaching
Website: sherijohnson.ca

Where to find Sheri:
Instagram: @sherijohnsoncoaching
Website: sherijohnson.ca

93: This is Why I Didn't "Just Adopt"23 Jan 202400:36:13

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Embarking on the path of adoption or deciding against it—either one is a journey laden with emotion and complexity. Today, I open my heart to you in a candid narrative of my own experiences with the profound choice of not adopting. 

We'll cover the unpredictable adoption landscape, unpack societal expectations, and contemplate the often-overlooked emotional and logistical hurdles that can steer one away from this life-altering decision.

Listen to this episode and also discover:

  • How I answer the question, "why not just adopt?"
  • How shame and self-worth show up during the route to and away from adoption
  • What to do if you're stuck in the decision

If you're struggling with the tangle of societal expectations, judgment, fears and your own true desires that keep people from making a decision, DM me "ep 93" on Instagram and I'll guide you through it.

Where to find Sheri:

Instagram: @sherijohnsoncoaching
Website: sherijohnson.ca



Where to find Sheri:
Instagram: @sherijohnsoncoaching
Website: sherijohnson.ca

92: How to Turn Grief Into Growth, With Kirsten Frey12 Jan 202400:53:23

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I continue to be enlightened and inspired by my good friend, Kirsten Frey.  She returns for a second time on this episode to share her expertise on recovering from grief and opens us up to the multitude of different kinds of loss. 

We tend to think of the acute sense of loss after a loved one has passed as the primary type of grief, but there are 40 other kinds of valid loss that may not have anything to do with physical death.  The realization that you're never going to be a mother is one of them. 

If you're a woman without kids, or even if you're a mother, this episode is going to blow your mind.  Kirsten and I discuss:

  • what "completing" grief is and we answer the question as to whether grief can ever be fully processed and healed
  • the difference between tangible and intangible loss
  • the importance of acknowledging and feeling your emotions
  • why taking action is imperative for moving through grief

Kirsten Frey is a Transitional Life Coach, Advanced Grief Recovery Specialist and Reiki Guide. 

Where to find Kirsten and get her free e-book:

Instagram: @tlclifecoaching
Website: Transitions Life Coaching
E-book: 61 Tips for Moving Through Grief

Where to find Sheri:

Instagram: @sherijohnsoncoaching
Website: sherijohnson.ca


References from this episode:

Awakening Worth Podcast Episode 16: 6 Myths that Prevent Healing from Miscarriage

Where to find Sheri:
Instagram: @sherijohnsoncoaching
Website: sherijohnson.ca

118: 7 Signs You Might Need a Mindset Tweak28 Jul 202400:24:10

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If you want to be able to answer questions like “do you have kids” with authenticity instead of awkwardness, you must shift your mindset.  It's not enough to just rehearse how you'll respond.  And if you're anything like I used to be, what you're rehearsing might feel more defensive and hurt than empowering. 

When I first realized that I wasn't going to have kids, I just wanted everyone to just stop asking me about kids, stop giving me advice and stop saying things I didn’t want to hear. But once I realized that it was my own mindset that needed a shift, I felt a huge sense of empowerment.  

In this solo episode, I'll share 7 signs that you might be stuck in a mindset that is blocking you from moving forward.  

Where to find Sheri:
Instagram: @sherijohnsoncoaching
Website: sherijohnson.ca

Where to find Sheri:
Instagram: @sherijohnsoncoaching
Website: sherijohnson.ca

91: 5 Obstacles Keeping You From a Joyful 202408 Jan 202400:21:32

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I used to start every year during my pursuit of motherhood thinking, "this is going to be my year".   And it never was.  Once I came to terms that my future was going to be childless, it started to look pretty dismal.   And  yet, I wanted to feel optimistic about the year ahead.  What I didn't realize was that I had some obstacles in my way that needed breaking down.  Consciously. 

In this solo episode, you'll discover: 

  • what those 5 obstacles are 
  • how to identify if they're standing in the way of your joyful 2024
  • what to do if they are

Join me, and let's step into 2024 with courage, grace, and the freedom to craft a life of meaning, motherhood aside.

If you are ready to create a joyful 2024, DM me "episode 91" on Instagram.

Where to find Sheri:

Instagram: @sherijohnsoncoaching
Website: sherijohnson.ca

Other References from this Episode:

Awakening Worth Podcast Episode 73: Letting Go Of Your Childless Identity is Crucial for Embracing Your Future

Kate Northrup's Plenty podcast, Episode 17: How to Increase your Capacity to Receive Love


Where to find Sheri:
Instagram: @sherijohnsoncoaching
Website: sherijohnson.ca

90: Special Holiday Gift, Raise Your Vibration Meditation22 Dec 202300:24:24

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It's 3 days before Christmas as I record this special episode.  This is not my usual all-talk episode or guest interview.  Today, in this heartfelt episode, I'll guide you through a visualization exercise that promises to lift your spirits and shift your emotional state towards love and joy. 

So find yourself a quiet spot where you won't be disturbed, put your ear pods in and get ready to transform.  This powerful meditation will change your whole day, if not your entire holiday. 

If you are a childless woman, and you want more of this, meditations and visualizations are something we do a lot of inside the Women of Worth group immersion and I'm opening up a new cohort in January.   Head to my IG account and DM me "ep 90" if you want to find out more. 

Where to find Sheri:

Instagram: @sherijohnsoncoaching
Website: sherijohnson.ca

Where to find Sheri:
Instagram: @sherijohnsoncoaching
Website: sherijohnson.ca

89: Feeling Like You Don't Belong as a Childless Woman is Not Grief18 Dec 202300:28:38

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It's pretty normal to feel like you don't belong when you're a childless woman.   We grow up thinking that eventually, we'll belong to the mom club.  And then it leaves us with a pretty big feeling of exclusion when we don't get to join.  

Most people in the childless space, assume that this feeling of not fitting in is a part of the grief and that once the grief starts to lift, we'll also start to feel more included.  But that is not the case.  

In this episode, I'm going to share  :

  • why belonging is actually a deeply seated survival need
  •  how and why does this survival instinct show up when our basic needs for survival are already met
  • 3 ways to hone your own sense of belonging without relying on the people around you to include you

If you are ready to start taking action toward developing your own sense of belonging, DM me "ep 89" and I'll share how you can take this deeper!

 Where to find Sheri:

Instagram: @sherijohnsoncoaching
Website: sherijohnson.ca

References from this Episode:

Work by Dr. Kelly-Ann Allen : Making Sense of Belonging

Where to find Sheri:
Instagram: @sherijohnsoncoaching
Website: sherijohnson.ca

88: Behind the Scenes of a Happy Childless Holiday12 Dec 202300:30:41

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When we want something, it's not actually that thing that we want.  It's the feeling that we imagine we'll have when we have the thing.   When I wrapped my head around this concept, I could use it to determine exactly what I wanted to feel and how to bring those positive emotions into the holidays.

The holidays don't have to be full of dread.  They used to be for me.  I'd avoid anything that had to do with kids and stuck to the adults-only parties and activities as much as I could.  And then I suffered through the rest.

But then I found a way to intentionally create the holidays I wanted.   For me, that was a season full of peace, joy, beauty and a little excitement and anticipation sprinkled in. 

In this episode, I share:

  •  exactly how I shifted my mindset around the holidays and now, dare I say, love the season
  • how I was able to tap into my true desires and the feelings I imagined they would bring
  • the holiday traditions that bring me those exact feelings

If you want to find out more about how you can find Meaning Beyond Motherhood, DM me "focus group" to join my free focus group for childless women.

Where to find Sheri:

Instagram: @sherijohnsoncoaching
Website: sherijohnson.ca

References from this Episode:

85: 10 Tips to Get You Through the Holidays as a Childless Woman
86:  How to Prepare Emotionally for Holiday Gatherings
The Worthy Project by Meadow DeVor

Where to find Sheri:
Instagram: @sherijohnsoncoaching
Website: sherijohnson.ca

87: How to Let Go of Being Pitied as a Childless Woman04 Dec 202300:23:06

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No one likes to be pitied.  And childless women who wanted kids are no different.   I certainly don't like it and I did feel as though people pitied me when I first began to accept that I would never be a mom.   But when my clients started asking how to get past pity, I realized that I didn't feel it at all anymore and had to really dig into how I shifted my perception.  Because the people around me certainly haven't changed.  I did.

On this episode, you're going to find out:

  • what pity really is and why it feels so isolating
  • how to know if you are actually being pitied and how self-pity comes into play
  • how to shift your mindset so that you never feel pity again
I’m really curious to hear how this episode lands for you.  It’s a tough topic and one that comes up a lot.  If it has for you, then my next question for you is this:  are you going to continue to just plow through and hope that you just wake up on the other side of it all ?  Or will you take some action, and figure out a way to let go of feeling pitied?  

If you are the latter, head over to Instagram and send me a DM at @sherijohnsoncoaching with the words “ep. 87” .  I’ll give you the step by step. 

Where to find Sheri:

Instagram: @sherijohnsoncoaching
Website: sherijohnson.ca


References from this episode:

Atlas of the Heart by Brene Brown

 

Where to find Sheri:
Instagram: @sherijohnsoncoaching
Website: sherijohnson.ca

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