Almost Adulting with Violet Benson – Details, episodes & analysis

Do you want to stroll into any room like you own it and have people hanging on your every word? Do you want to be so magnetic that the partner of your dreams can’t resist being drawn to you like a moth to a flame? And how about finally standing your ground and making sure no one ever overlooks you again, so you can start living the fabulous life you’ve always deserved?

Well, you’re in the right place because this episode is your ultimate guide to leveling up your confidence game in dating and in life with my 5 confidence hacks. 

Welcome to BAD B*TCH UNIVERSITY, baby! This is the third of FOUR powerhouse episodes designed to change the way you've been dating, raise your standards, kick your self worth and self esteem into high gear, attract only the best, and unlock the NEW AND IMPROVED YOU!!!

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Welcome to BAD B*TCH UNIVERSITY, baby! This is the second of FOUR powerhouse episodes designed to change the way you've been dating, raise your standards, kick your self worth and self esteem into high gear, attract only the best, and unlock the NEW AND IMPROVED YOU!!!

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TIMESTAMPS:

0:00 - 13:12 - Catch up with Violetta:

• How to circumcise a man
• Female circumcision
• Nipple piercings - good girl vs. bad girl.

13:13 - 46:05 - How to keep him obsessed:

• How to attract what you want
• Become everyone's dream girl
• Learn the secrets to keeping his attention
• Become more confident
• Say goodbye to toxic relationships
• Embrace your worth, set your standards high, and stop settling for anything less

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Privet besties!! Today we take a break from Violetta's Russian tough love and present you with a fun deep dive episode into the juicy world of Love Island US Season 6! We're spilling all the tea on the July 11th drama and everything that has unfolded up to it. We break down how we got here and unpack all the makeups and breakups from the psychology side of it all the way to their zodiac signs. Who’s vibing? Who’s clashing? And who will make it outside the villa?? Grab your popcorn because Violetta has got all the answers you've been looking for! 🌴✨

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Hey Besties! Today's a little different. We're kicking things off with some juicy dating tips, including the absolute must-ask questions to gauge if you're with Mr. or Ms. Right. Then, we're diving headfirst into a fun chat where Violetta talks about how she sees the characters of the Selling The OC cast. It might not be everyone's cup of tea, but it's still got that 'worth-watching' vibe!  

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What to Listen For:

• 00:00 Intro
• 02:30 The 5 honest questions to ask yourself
• 04:30 Have you watched Crash Landing on You?
• 08:03 When you hear these three things on the first date, RUN!
• 10:32 Selling The OC - Tyler
• 14:03 Selling The OC - Jarvis and Rose
• 16:40 Selling The OC - Polly
• 17:10 Selling The OC - Alex Hall 
• 19:40 Selling The OC - Brandy
• 22:59 Selling The OC - Austin and Tyler
• 25:16 The lack of empathy for others
• 26:14 Someone really hates Jarvis because…
• 27:13 It was an escort party

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TW: Discussion about eating disorder, alcohol and drug abuse, sobriety, and self harm

Ever wondered why you're not happy all the time? Well, you're not supposed to be! It's okay not to feel the sunshine every day, and sometimes, the cloudy moments are what make the sunny ones shine even brighter.

Today, Violetta welcomes Laura Clery, a comedian and influencer best known for her comedy sketches and vlogs about her day-to-day life on social media. Laura shares how she grew in popularity through her viral characters’ Pamela Pumpkin and Hellen Horbath, and later pivoted to documenting her day to day life in a comedic sense.

From the highs and lows of existence to the complexities of relationships and personal growth, each chapter delves into the real, unfiltered moments that define our lives; finding humor in life's little annoyances, or navigating the tumultuous waters of divorce. Join us as we laugh and ponder the human experience, one chapter at a time.     

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What to Listen For:

• 00:00 Intro
• 01:05 You’re not meant to feel happy all the time
• 03:51 Do we look alike?
• 06:33 The birth of Pamela Pumpkin 
• 09:01 Then Helen Horbath came to be
• 11:03 The failed pilot show, and then pregnancy came
• 13:23 Manifesting what you want in life
• 17:26 What’s driving me crazy right now
• 20:12 When taxes don’t make sense to you
• 21:22 Do you like talking to yourself?
• 23:43 A thousand random thoughts
• 28:51 I can’t imagine not existing…
• 33:26 Constant criticism about your looks
• 38:24 Competition is an illusion
• 40:39 Why are you getting a divorce?
• 43:23 Public breakup is never easy
• 48:38 Slowing down on work and prioritizing mental health
• 51:46 Implementing boundaries for inner peace
• 54:37 The human resilience in any situation
• 56:33 The effect of divorce on children
• 58:12 What do you do when you’re about to relapse?
• 01:02:21 You can only be strong for so long
• 01:05:21 The Serenity Prayer  

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Ever had those cringe-worthy moments that make you wish you could hit the rewind button on life? Well, we all do, and in this episode, we're diving headfirst into some hilariously embarrassing tales. From a power struggle in the education system to an intimate experience gone wrong that'll leave you in stitches. Oh, and don't forget the awkward moment you caught your dad staring through a slightly opened door while you were doing the deed. Yep, these stories are as real and relatable as they come. So get ready for some seriously entertaining, toe-curling moments that'll have you saying, "I've been there too!"

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What to Listen For:

• 00:00 Intro
• 02:03 Story #1: Overloaded teacher 
• 13:12 Story #2: Disgusting, intimate experience
• 17:31 Story #3: Walked out while doing the deed
• 23:17 Story #4: The other guy was my crush

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Changing your perspective is like putting on a new pair of glasses that reveals a whole new world. It's essential because our outlook shapes our reality. When we shift our viewpoint, we unlock fresh insights, untapped potential, and a realm of possibilities that were previously hidden. 

Today, Violetta shares the three reasons why we remain stuck with where we are as well as the action steps we can take to move forward. From how our actions create our reality, how our emotions affect those actions, and the thoughts we have while taking action. It's all about shifting your mindset, and girl, you're about to crush it!   

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What to Listen For:

• 00:00 Intro
• 02:40 The story you tell yourself
• 06:17 Phase 1 - Our actions create our reality
• 12:09 “Everything I’m doing, I chose to do.”
• 16:26 Phase 2 - Our emotions dictate our actions
• 20:09 Consumed by hatred
• 24:07 Do you want to be right or become free?
• 28:40 Phase 3 - Our thoughts affect our emotions
• 32:18 Positive thinking transforms your life
• 34:44 “Am I happy with the thoughts in my head?” 

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Breakups are tough but moving on can be even more challenging. Today, Violetta offers insights on becoming the IT girl when it comes to dating, post-breakup ways to move on from someone (based on real life experience), and some handy ghosting tricks for future use. 

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What to Listen For:

• 00:00 Intro
• 02:01 The best revenge is to move on
• 05:40 How to be the It Girl?
• 13:05 Ways to let go and move on
• 19:02 Ghosting tricks

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Have you considered the difference between what people want versus what they truly need in relationships, and how does this understanding impact your approach to forming connections? This introspective exploration can have a profound influence on how you approach building meaningful bonds. 

Today's guest is Fiachra "Figs" O'Sullivan. Figs is the creator of the Empathi method and the certification process for Empathi coaches. His life’s mission is to help couples feel more connected.

Violetta and Figs unveil the impact of childhood experiences on your ability to love and how self-sabotaging patterns might be holding you back and decode your attachment style and learn how taking responsibility for your actions and emotions can transform your connections. Whether you're seeking self-growth or hoping to form healthier bonds, don't miss out on this empowering conversation that peels back the layers of love, relationships, and healing.   

What to Listen For:

• 00:00 Intro
• 02:14 Are you in a toxic relationship?
• 04:15 What can we do about a toxic partner?
• 06:23 When you’re in a threatened vulnerable state
• 08:02 Are you in a system together?
• 13:36 When in your reality your partner is hurting you
• 16:14 How childhood experiences affect our ability to love
• 17:56 Self-sabotaging patterns 
• 19:49 The natural fear to fall in love
• 23:31 Struggling to open up 
• 25:25 Know what’s your attachment style
• 29:18 Taking responsibility of our actions and emotions
• 33:21 Both need to show up for each other
• 36:28 Foster empathy for yourself and others
• 42:31 The gray area on first dates
• 47:36 Here’s what you should focus on when dating
• 50:07 Finding healing through forming relationships
• 55:31 What is a co-dependent relationship?
• 01:00:48 Doing self work to not attract what you lack
• 01:04:19 Glorification of people protecting themselves from getting hurt
• 01:07:29 What people really need is not what they want

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• https://empathi.com/ 
• https://www.tiktok.com/@empathinow 
• https://www.facebook.com/EmpathiNow/ 
• https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCnPbjlO6Q0KBXVHXeGyivlw 
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Ever wondered about the hidden stories that weave the tapestry of human existence? Brace yourselves, because in this episode, we're peeling back the layers and delving into stories that challenge our perceptions, tug at our emotions, and remind us of the complexities that make us undeniably human.

Today, Violetta is back with another batch of Reddit confessions. From sacrificing parental rights to confronting the aftermath of a child's devastating lie about assault, and even exploring the unexpected dynamics of sibling relationships, get ready to listen through emotions that are as intense as they are relatable and somehow insanely eye rolling. Get ready to be moved, captivated, and reminded that beneath the surface, we're all navigating our own stories that shape who we are.

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What to Listen For:

• 00:00 Intro
• 01:43 Story #1: I was asked to give up my parental rights
• 13:19 Story #2: A child lied about being assaulted by his mother’s boyfriend
• 20:35 Story #3: My older brother and I were sleeping together

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