Unfiltered: Real Talk About Sex & Love – Détails, épisodes et analyse

Thanks for listening to Unfiltered: Real Talk about Sex and Love, with Ashley and Heather. 

On this episode, we answer these questions:

• What does it mean to be sexually healthy as a single?
• What type of boundaries should I have for dating?
• I’ve heard of the “love cocktail” of chemicals people experience when falling in love. Can a person actually experience withdrawals from feeling in love?

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Thanks for listening to Unfiltered: Real Talk about Sex and Love, with Ashley and Heather. 

In this episode, we answer these questions: 

• What comes first: thoughts, feelings, or behaviors?
• I grew up in a home where we didn’t talk about feelings. How can I learn more about feelings, so I can teach my kids about feelings?
• I struggle with talking about feelings, especially to my husband. What can I do to get better at communicating my feelings?

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Thanks for listening to Unfiltered: Real Talk about Sex and Love, with Ashley and Heather. In this episode, we answer these questions: 

• Is calling a sexual sin “addiction” just excusing the behavior?
• Is sex addiction real?
• People who struggle with sex addiction, why can’t they just stop the behavior?

Unraveled: Managing Love, Sex, and Relationships

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Thanks for listening to Unfiltered: Real Talk about Sex and Love, with Ashley and Heather. In this episode, we answer these questions: 

• What is betrayal trauma?
• My husband says I'm overreacting but the pain and foggy-headedness I'm feeling seem uncontrollable. Is it possible to heal from betrayal trauma?
• Women I’ve been with in group use phrases like "before Pure Desire and after Pure Desire.” What are they referring to?

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Thanks for listening to Unfiltered: Real Talk about Sex and Love, with Ashley and Heather. 

In this episode, we answer these questions: 

• Is fantasy ever okay?
• Should my husband share his fantasies with me?
• I can’t be intimate with my husband unless I fantasize. How can I practice being more present?

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The Fantasy Fallacy, by Shannon Ethridge

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Thanks for listening to Unfiltered: Real Talk about Sex and Love, with Ashley and Heather. 

In this episode, we answer these questions: 

• I quit drinking and now I don’t enjoy sex. How can I learn to like sex again?
• I am afraid to re-engage with my husband sexually after quitting porn. How do I learn to become aroused by my husband instead?
• My husband and I are doing well with our recovery and healing but I’m still afraid to engage sexually, because I can’t get the images of his porn use and affairs out of my head. Will this ever go away and what can I do to help this process?

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Thanks for listening to Unfiltered: Real Talk about Sex and Love, with Ashley and Heather. 

In this episode, we answer these questions: 

• I’m nervous about telling anyone what’s really happening in my marriage. Where can I find safe people?
• Since discovery, I feel like I’m going crazy! Where can I find help?
• Is this long, expensive process going to fix anything, when I’m not the one with the problem?

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Since 2016, Ashley Jameson and Heather Kolb have supported, educated, and equipped women to experience sexual health, healing from betrayal trauma, and success in relationships. We know what it’s like to be in crisis—searching for answers—and continually hearing the churchy answer. Each week, you’ll hear real talk about sex and relationships from a biblical and clinical perspective.

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Thanks for listening to Unfiltered: Real Talk about Sex and Love, with Ashley and Heather. 

In this episode, we answer these questions: 

• I could go the rest of my life without sex. Is this normal?
• My husband is sexually anorexic. What does this say about me?
• Does the Bible really tell us we can’t withhold sex from our husbands?

The Great Sex Rescue, by Sheila Wray Gregoire

Betrayal & Beyond

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