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Sex Chat for Christian Wives
Bonny Burns, Gaye Christmus, J Parker, and Chris Taylor
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Be Present During Sex (Quickie)
Épisode 204
mercredi 13 novembre 2024 • Durée 02:34
This week's quickie is from Chris Taylor with four ways to be fully present during sex. Follow-up with our webinars and/or stay tuned for more full episodes and quick tips about sex in marriage!
Best Holiday Sex Tips for Playfulness
Épisode 203
mardi 5 novembre 2024 • Durée 30:06
When it comes to making time for sexual intimacy during the holiday rush, it can be wonderfully stressful or wonderfully playful or anything in between. We discuss how to navigate the busy-ness and stress of the holidays so that you can create a time of playfulness with your spouse and give you some ideas to build playfulness in your relationship and sex life.
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From the Bible
Do not be anxious about anything, but in every situation, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God. And the peace of God, which transcends all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:6–7
Resources
- Season of Joy or Season of Stress? | The Forgiven Wife
- Pare Christmas Down to Four Priorities • Bonny's Oysterbed7
- Weathering the Holiday Storm | The Forgiven Wife
- The Pop-Up Christmas Tree J. Parker Owns
- Video of Pop-Up Christmas Tree Set-Up
- Purchase Your Own Easy-Peasy, Pop-Up Tree
- Pine-Scented Candle (Amazon)
- 7 Tips for Having Sex at the Parents' House - Hot, Holy & Humorous
- Make Your Home Sex-Friendly for Holiday Guests - Hot, Holy & Humorous
- 10 Intimate Things to Enjoy for Christmas - Hot, Holy & Humorous
- Elaine Dancing (Seinfeld)
- Mentionables Lingerie (use code 4CHRISTIANWIVES for 10% off!)
- Honoring Intimates Lingerie
- Bow-Dazzle! and 10 Other Ways to Keep Your Sex Life Alive During the Holidays | The Forgiven Wife
- String Lights (Amazon)
- Hallmark Christmas Bows (Amazon)
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Thanks for joining us at the virtual kitchen table for another great chat! If you could, we’d appreciate you leaving a rating and/or review so that others can find the show.
Please be sure to check out our website and webinars at forchristianwives.com. And visit our individual ministry pages for more resources as well:
Strong Wives - Bonny Burns
Honeycomb & Spice - Chris Taylor
Hot, Holy & Humorous - J. Parker
Creative Timing (Quickie)
Épisode 194
mercredi 4 septembre 2024 • Durée 01:32
This week's quickie is from J Parker about using creative timing to maintain or increase your sexual frequency. Follow-up with our webinars and/or stay tuned for more full episodes and quick tips about sex in marriage!
Listener Questions
mardi 27 avril 2021 • Durée 31:09
In this episode, we answer a few of your questions.
- “What are other ways to relax and enjoy my husband guilt free?”
- “I don't like feeling like it’s just sex.... Do I have a block? Was I wrong to be upset? How do I get myself [past] feeling like it's cold and not love?”
- “I was hoping you could share some wisdom of what it's like moving in with your husband for the first time… what to expect…how to talk to one another about our soon to be sex life, and tips for a soon to be pastor's wife.”
- “What are some positive resources on sex and marriage that are geared toward men? I have been able to find good resources for myself, but my fiancé has not."
If you want to submit a question for a future episode, click on Ask a Question in the menu on our website and submit your query.
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From the Bible
"All of you, clothe yourselves with humility toward one another, because, 'God opposes the proud but shows favor to the humble.'" 1 Peter 5:5 (NIV)
"Submit to one another out of reverence for Christ." Ephesians 5:21 (NIV)
Resources
- Mindfulness & Meditation During Sex | Hot, Holy & Humorous
- The Gift of Sex by Clifford & Joyce Penner
- Enjoy!: The Gift of Sexual Pleasure for Women by Joyce Penner
- Passion Pursuit: What Kind of Love Are You Making? by Linda Dillow & Juli Slattery
- Intimacy Ignited: Discover the Fun and Freedom of God-Centered Sex by Joseph & Linda Dillow and Peter & Lorraine Pintus
- Unlock Your Libido: 52-Week Sex Drive Transformation by Bonny Logsdon Burns
- Intimacy Revealed by J. Parker
- Do You Pray for Your Sex Life? | Hot, Holy & Humorous
- A Prayer for Your Sexual Intimacy | Hot, Holy & Humorous
- Wives, Your Voice Matters (in the Bedroom & Beyond) | Hot, Holy & Humorous
- The Small Stuff Can Drive You Crazy | Hot, Holy & Humorous
- How Much Should You Learn about Sex before the Wedding Night? | Hot, Holy & Humorous (guest post from Heather & Eric Viets)
- What I Wish I'd Known Before the Wedding Night | Hot, Holy & Humorous
- Pillow Talk: 40 Conversations about Sex for Married Couples by J. Parker
- Virgin Bride Guidebook: Wedding Night Answers by Bonny Logsdon Burns
- Episode 93: Newlywed Tips, with Ngina Otiende
- Knowing Her Sexually (KHS) Ministry (w/Chris Taylor & J. Parker)
- The Generous Husband | Daily rants on being a better husband (w/Paul Byerly)
- The Married Guy's Guide to Great Sex by Clifford Penner
- Awaken Love Men's Edition - Awaken-Love
- Java with Juli podcast (w/Juli Slattery)
- Understanding Her Sex Drive - Webinar Replay - Sex Chat for Christian Wives
- Unwanted: How Sexual Brokenness Reveals Our Way to Healing by Jay Stringer
Visit our website: forchristianwives.com
How Often Should You Have Sex
lundi 12 avril 2021 • Durée 29:58
Take the Survey
As mentioned in the episode, Chris Taylor of Honeycomb & Spice is doing a survey on chronic illness and sex. We'd appreciate you taking the survey, so that she can address this subject well.
Click the link: https://tinyurl.com/chronic-survey
Or scan the QR code:
About the Episode
How often should a married couple have sex? You might think this would be an easy question to answer, but we think it’s going to take a whole episode.
- How do seasons of life affect the frequency of lovemaking, and what range of frequency do you think is appropriate for each season?
- What other factors can affect frequency?
- What does research say about consistent sexual intimacy?
- How should you and your husband negotiate frequency?
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From the Bible
What does God have to say about the frequency of sex?
Do not deprive each other except perhaps by mutual consent and for a time, so that you may devote yourselves to prayer. Then come together again so that Satan will not tempt you because of your lack of self-control. - 1 Corinthians 7:5
If a man has recently married, he must not be sent to war or have any other duty laid on him. For one year he is to be free to stay at home and bring happiness to the wife he has married. - Deuteronomy 24:5
Resources
- Gaslighting - Partner Hope
- Deconstructing Gaslighting with Sarah Morales
- DARVO (a type of gaslighting)
- The 10,000-hour rule - original research, concept popularized in Outliers by Malcolm Gladwell (though J recommends The Talent Code by Daniel Coyle for a more thorough treatment), and research-based challenges to the 10,000-hour rule
- Episode 95: How Does Depression Affect Sex?
- Stop Hooking Up In Your Marriage | Shaunti Feldhahn - guest post by Juli Slattery
- Episode 101: Enjoying Sex, with Joyce Penner
- More Sex Makes Us Happy, But Once A Week May Be Enough : Shots - Health News : NPR
- 10 Surprising Health Benefits of Sex (webmd.com)
- Here's How Much Sex Couples Are Having Per Week (theknot.com)
- How Often Should You Have Sex? | Hot, Holy & Humorous
- Vitamin E suppositories
- Your Husband’s Libido May Not Be What You Think - The Forgiven Wife
- Unlock Your Libido by Bonny Logsdon Burns
- Virgin Bride Guidebook by Bonny Logsdon Burns
- Q&A with J: Should A Higher Drive Spouse Lower Their Expectations? | Hot, Holy & Humorous
- 8 Ways to Stay Intimate Even When Life Gets in the Way of Sex - The Forgiven Wife
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Take Time to Titivate
Épisode 103
mardi 30 mars 2021 • Durée 28:59
titivate (v). – to make a person or thing neater or more attractive (Merriam-Webster).
To titivate is to make small enhancing changes or to make oneself look attractive. For some women, titivation is a daily habit. For others of us, it takes intention to remember to do it now and then.
- Let’s start by talking about why wives might titivate in the first place.
- What are some reasons we might let titivation go?
- How does titivation spill over into our sex lives?
- What are some things women can do to enhance their appearance?
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From the Bible
What does God have to say about titivating?
...she had to complete twelve months of beauty treatments prescribed for the women, six months with oil of myrrh and six with perfumes and cosmetics." - Esther 2:12 (and see Esther 2:1-18)
...as a bridegroom adorns his head like a priest, and as a bride adorns herself with her jewels. - Isaiah 61.10
Don’t let your beauty consist of outward things like elaborate hairstyles and wearing gold jewelry or fine clothes, but rather what is inside the heart—the imperishable quality of a gentle and quiet spirit, which is of great worth in God’s sight. - 1 Peter 3:3-4 (CSB)
Resources
- 6 Simple Ways to Feel More Confident - CalmHealthySexy
- How to Feel More Sensual - CalmHealthySexy
- The Holderness Family - Lazy Pants
- Feel Beautiful: "Fight The Frump"! | Hot, Holy & Humorous
- Why I Still Wear Lingerie (though My Hubby Doesn't Care) | Hot, Holy & Humorous
- Amazon.com: Breast Petals (aka nipple covers)
- Southern Grooming - The Forgiven Wife
- Amazon.com: Teeth Whitening Kit with Strips
Visit our website: forchristianwives.com
What You Need to Know About Sex
Épisode 102
mardi 16 mars 2021 • Durée 29:45
There are a lot of resources about sex now, some great and some terrible. But often, resources have some important truths, some debatable points, and some myths. Today we want to talk about what really matters—the foundational points we want wives to know about sex.
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From the Bible
But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, forbearance, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness and self-control. Against such things there is no law. – Galatians 5:22-23
Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres. Love never fails. – 1 Corinthians 13:4-8a
Resources
- Dear Wife, You Deserve a Great Sex Life Too - Calm.Healthy.Sexy.
- 3 Words that Can Transform Your Sex Life - Calm.Healthy.Sexy.
- Love Like a Woman: Should Your Sexual Response Be Like Your Husband's? - The Forgiven Wife
- The #1 Myth Christian Women Learned about Sex | Hot, Holy & Humorous
- How to Read a Marriage Book | Hot, Holy & Humorous
- Must a Better Friendship Come Before Better Sex? | Hot, Holy & Humorous
- Healthy Life Toolbox series - Calm.Healthy. Sexy.
- 3 Ways a Vibrator Can Help Marital Intimacy - The Forgiven Wife
- Q&A with J: "Is It Okay to Use Sex Toys?" | Hot, Holy & Humorous
- Is Anal Sex Okay? | Hot, Holy & Humorous
- Has the Mainstream Embraced BDSM? Should You? | Hot, Holy & Humorous
- Solo Masturbation? - The Forgiven Wife
- Setting Boundaries in the Bedroom | Hot, Holy & Humorous
- Finding Friends to Support Your Marital Intimacy | Hot, Holy & Humorous
Visit our website: forchristianwives.com.
Enjoying Sex
Épisode 101
mardi 2 mars 2021 • Durée 48:21
Sex therapist and educator Joyce Penner joins us to talk about learning to enjoy sex more. Why do some women have a hard time seeing sexual intimacy as a gift? And what can these women do to pursue the enjoyment of sex with their husbands?
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From the Bible
What does God have to say that can help us better enjoy sex?
Or do you not know that wrongdoers will not inherit the kingdom of God? Do not be deceived: Neither the sexually immoral nor idolaters nor adulterers nor men who have sex with men nor thieves nor the greedy nor drunkards nor slanderers nor swindlers will inherit the kingdom of God. And that is what some of you were. But you were washed, you were sanctified, you were justified in the name of the Lord Jesus Christ and by the Spirit of our God. – 1 Corinthians 6:9-11, NIV
I belong to my beloved, and his desire is for me. – Song of Songs 7:10
The marriage bed must be a place of mutuality—the husband seeking to satisfy his wife, the wife seeking to satisfy her husband. Marriage is not a place to “stand up for your rights.” Marriage is a decision to serve the other, whether in bed or out. – 1 Corinthians 7:3-4, The Message
Resources
The resources below include affiliate links that earn us a small commission when you use the link to make a purchase.
Nurture Your Non-Sexual Intimacy - The Forgiven Wife
You're Not Kissing Enough | Hot, Holy & Humorous
Why Kissing Is So Intimate for Her - Knowing Her Sexually
The Gift of Sex: A Guide to Sexual Fulfillment
Enjoy! The Gift of Sexual Pleasure for Women
The Married Guy's Guide to Great Sex
Restoring the Pleasure
Formula for Intimacy - free download from Joyce Penner
Resources for Adult Children of Alcoholics:
Focus on the Family
Only You Forever
Journal of Studies on Alcohol and Drugs
Love and Life Toolbox
Adult Children: The Secrets of Dysfunctional Families: Friel Ph.D., John C., Friel M.A., Linda D. (older book, but still a good resource)
You can find more resources at Joyce's website, Passionate Commitment.
Visit our website: forchristianwives.com
100th Episode
Épisode 100
mardi 16 février 2021 • Durée 29:07
Today is our 100th Episode! On this special episode, we share what we do when we're not talking about sex, what ministry projects we're working on, and nearly half of a 100 sex tips list we ask our listeners help us complete.
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http://infinitemoon.com/?aff=49 From the Bible
What does God have to say about our ministry (and yours)?
Praise be to the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, the Father of compassion and the God of all comfort, who comforts us in all our troubles, so that we can comfort those in any trouble with the comfort we ourselves receive from God. For just as we share abundantly in the sufferings of Christ, so also our comfort abounds through Christ. - 2 Corinthians 1:3-5
Resources
- Unraveling | The Forgiven Wife (in which Chris shares about prayer shawls)
- Sisters in Crime (SinC) writers' group
- Healthy Life Toolbox - Calm.Healthy.Sexy.
- Knowing Her Sexually - for husbands
- The Woman I Am: A Lesson in Self-Grace | Hot, Holy & Humorous
- Honeycomb & Spice
- Strong Wives
- Episode 38: A Conversation About Porn (Part 1) - Sex Chat for Christian Wives
- Episode 39: A Conversation About Porn (Part 2) - Sex Chat for Christian Wives
- Episode 40: Healing after Porn Discovery - Sex Chat for Christian Wives
- APSATS (The Association of Partners of Sex Addicts Trauma Specialists)
- ICF (International Coaching Federation)
Valentine's Day
Épisode 99
mardi 2 février 2021 • Durée 34:24
Today we’re talking about Valentine’s Day. It’s coming up soon, and women feel all kinds of different things about it. Some women love it, some hate it, and some feel kind of ambivalent about it. And it plays out differently in different marriages. So, we talk about it and come up with some ideas for making it fun and romantic for all kinds of couples and marriages.
SponsorFrom the Bible
What does God have to say about Valentine’s Day? (Not much, but a whole lot about love.)
Do everything in love. – 1 Corinthians 16:14
And over all these virtues put on love, which binds them all together in perfect unity. – Colossians 3:14
We love because he first loved us. – 1 John 4:19
- Do One Thing for Your Husband on Valentine’s Day – Calm.Healthy.Sexy.
- Best Couple’s Gifts for Valentine’s Day – Calm.Healthy.Sexy.
- Sensual Massage with Essential Oils – Calm.Healthy.Sexy.
- How Love Looks – The Forgiven Wife
- Get Ready for Valentine’s Day – The Forgiven Wife
- Romance His Socks Off! – The Forgiven Wife
- Take Charge of Date Night – The Forgiven Wife
- Make Valentine’s Day Great for Both of You – Honeycomb & Spice
- Valentine’s Day for the Rest of Us | Hot, Holy & Humorous
- 6 Worst Things You Can Give for Valentine’s Day | Hot, Holy & Humorous
- 9 Best Places to Get Heart Shaped Pizza 2021 – Country Living
- Yipick from Homie Depot
- Could You Use Some Marriage Humor? | Hot, Holy & Humorous
- Show Her Off dance program (at-home lessons) – affiliate link
- A Marital Intimacy Playlist | Hot, Holy & Humorous
- Bonny’s OysterBed7 Bedroom Soundtracks
- Geocaching
- The Generous Wife
- Married Is Great T-shirts & Hoodies – affiliate link
- The 5 Love Languages