How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett – Détails, épisodes et analyse

So you want to talk to women you notice IRL—in bars, coffee shops, at the gym—but you just know what to say without seeming creepy. In this episode of the How to Get a Girlfriend podcast, your host—dating coach Connell Barrett—shares his 3-step approaching framework so you’ll know exactly what to say to break the ice in a charming way. The great news? Connell’s approaching method is virtually rejection-proof! And you don’t need to memorize weird pickup-artist lines. You can confidently talk to women anywhere, while being spontaneous and in the moment. Stop struggling with approaching and start confidently meeting women, and do it with charm and authenticity. Listen now to learn how!


FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL TO LEARN HOW TO CONFIDENTLY FLIRT WITH WOMEN BY BEING AUTHENTIC (NO SKETCHY PICKUP MOVES NEEDED): http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact


Quotes

"Release the pressure to be perfect; authentic words resonate more deeply than the perfect script." - Connell Barnett

"Engage with light, playful compliments and watch simple interactions blossom into memorable moments." - Connell Barnett


Featured in the episode
Connell Barrett
Founder and Executive Coach of Dating Transformation
Website:https://datingtransformation.com
Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation

Chapters
00:00 - Intro
01:01 - Approach Women with Genuine Charm
04:02 - No Perfect Words: Use This Framework
07:28 - Compliment Beyond Looks
10:33 - Ask Sincere Questions, Expect Warmth
16:01 - Tailor Compliments to the Context
17:58 - Smoothie Date from an Indirect Compliment
21:21 - Prep Mentally Before Approaching Women
22:11 - Outro

Do you struggle to get women writing you back on the apps? Do you get ghosted on Tinder, Bumble, or Hinge… and don’t know why? It’s frustrating, and can make you want to delete the apps. But help is on the way! In this episode of the How to Get a Girlfriend podcast, your host—dating coach Connell Barrett—identifies 3 dating app mistakes that you make when writing openers. Plus, Connell shares the flirty, 12-word opener that gets him a 77% percent response rate on the apps with wonderful women. Stop getting ghosted and start sending openers that women love! Listen now.

FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL TO LEARN HOW TO CONFIDENTLY FLIRT WITH WOMEN BY BEING AUTHENTIC (NO SKETCHY PICKUP MOVES NEEDED):
http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact

Quotes

"Engage women with fun, flirty questions—not just logic and information—to spark lively conversations." - Connell Barnett

"Improve your match success by refining your opening lines for better connections." - Connell Barnett

Featured in the episode
Connell Barrett
Founder and Executive Coach of Dating Transformation

Website:https://datingtransformation.com

Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation

Chapters
00:00 - Intro
01:27 - Crafting Effective Dating App Openers
03:25 - Engage with Fun, Playful Questions
09:52 - Personalize Messages with Profile Insights
10:36 - Initiate Chats by Noting Unique Traits
15:37 -  Opt for Fun, Light Conversation Starters
17:50 - 'Opposites Attract' for Engaging Chats
24:03 - The 12-Word Power Opener
28:49 - Value Authenticity in Compliments and Questions
30:21 - Start with Intrigue to Avoid the Friend Zone32:12 - Outro

Have you ever had a painful breakup? Have you been so obsessed with your ex that you didn’t want to date? Have you felt, “I’ll never find someone as good as her”?


Today’s special guest can help!


Dr. Cortney S. Warren is a bestselling author, clinical psychologist and an expert in getting over a bad breakup. Cortney joins Connell in this episode to share simple, powerful tips from her bestselling book, “Letting Go of Your Ex: CBT Skills to Heal the Pain of a Breakup and Overcome Love Addiction.” She also offers some practical advice to help you overcome heartache and find someone NEW to share your life with.


It’s time to let go of pain, heal your heart, and find someone as wonderful as you are… and do it with authenticity! Listen to Cortney and Connell’s deep, insightful conversation now.


FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ALWAYS KNOW WHAT TO SAY TO WOMEN: http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact


GET CONNELL’S NO. 1 BESTSELLING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR PRACTICAL GUIDE ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND BY BEING RADICALLY AUTHENTIC:
www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3


READ CONNELL’S 47 TIPS ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND:
http://www.datingtransformation.com/how-to-get-a-girlfriend


Quotes

"Thinking about your ex is normal. Yet obsessing over them during dating as a distraction can prevent you from forming new meaningful connections."- Cortney Warren

"Intense love mixed with past traumas can impact relationships significantly. Self-awareness is key to navigating these complexities."-Cortney Warren


Featured in the episode

Connell Barrett
Founder and Executive Coach of Dating Transformation
Website: https://datingtransformation.com
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation

Featured Guest
Cortney Warren
Website: http://www.drcortney.com
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/drcortneywarren/


Chapters
00:00 - Introduction
04:24 - Influences of Past Relationships on Future Actions
08:23 - Growth and Authenticity Post-Breakup
10:55 - Resilience and Recovery after Heartbreak
14:47 - Embracing Grief to Achieve Acceptance
17:20 - Gratitude: A Pathway to Moving Beyond Past Relationships
21:01 - Dating as a Catalyst for Personal Development
24:43 - Navigating Intimacy Challenges Stemming from Trauma
28:59 - Coping with Heartbreak and Relationship Advice
30:18 - Seeking Genuine Connections Based on Values and Chemistry
36:18 - Prioritizing Fun Over Perfection in Dating
37:55 - Transforming Disempowering Questions to Empowering Ones
42:01 - The Role of Physical Touch in Enhancing Bonding and Love
44:49 - Authenticity as a Precious Asset in the Dating Scene
46:11 - Conclusion

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You want to meet wonderful women, make some moves, and get those sparks flying, right? But what if you do or say something creepy, and she rejects you? That would hurt. No one wants to feel like a creep. Here’s some help. In this episode, dating coach Connell Barrett counts down
The top 7 things that men do that make women go “Eww!” Are you making any of these common, creepy mistakes? Listen now to find out, fix it, and start dating some wonderful women.

FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ALWAYS KNOW WHAT TO SAY TO WOMEN:
http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact

GET CONNELL’S NO. 1 BESTSELLING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR PRACTICAL GUIDE ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND BY BEING RADICALLY AUTHENTIC:
www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3

Quotes

"There's a time to be persistent, but when a woman isn't interested, graciously move on." - Connell Barrett


Featured in the episode
Connell Barrett
Founder and Executive Coach of Dating Transformation
Website:https://datingtransformation.com
Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation

Chapters
00:00 - Introduction03:42 - Navigating the Perception of Creepiness with Composure
06:43 - Truth vs. Fiction: Struggles with Deceit and Discomfort
07:23 - Shedding the Mask for Lasting Connections
04:09 - Gratitude shift: "Not me, the friendly guy over there"
09:51 - Impact of potato chip consumption on pickup artist success
12:33 - Addressing inappropriate touching and respect
15:49 - Pitfalls of objectifying women with body comments
18:14 - Spooky first date objectification story
20:42 - The Threefold Approach of Persistence, Charm, and Empathy
23:29 - Importance of honesty and avoiding manipulation
24:32 - Emphasizing honesty in dating and daily life
25:19 - OutroProduced by Heartcastmedia

The reason dating coach Connell Barrett can fix any dating problem is because he had EVERY dating problem—and he overcame them. In this episode of the Dating Transformation podcast, Connell shares 5 game-changing “Aha!” moments he experienced that helped him get great at flirting, approach women with confidence, escape the Friend Zone, and more. Listen now!


FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ALWAYS KNOW WHAT TO SAY TO WOMEN: http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact


GET CONNELL’S NO. 1 BESTSELLING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR PRACTICAL GUIDE ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND BY BEING RADICALLY AUTHENTIC:
www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3


Quotes

"I used to believe playing it safe was smart. However, in dating and relationships, safety is risky and risky is safe." -Connell Barrett


Featured in the episode
Connell Barrett
Founder and Executive Coach of DatingTransformation
Website:https://datingtransformation.com
Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation


Chapters
00:00 - Taking Risks in Dating Is Surprisingly Safe
05:09 - Courageous Moves: Man Gambles on First Date
06:12 -  The Safe Bet on Taking Risks in Dating Approaches
07:18 - Bold Gesture: Risking Rejection by Tapping Her Shoulder
12:11 - Embrace Authenticity: Not Everyone Will Connect with You
15:15 - Transforming Fear into Confidence in Dating Encounters
16:37 - Genuine Connections: Sincere Communication Over Flirtatious Behaviors
18:00 - The Art of Flirting: Balancing Sincerity with Playfulness
20:58 - Unleashing Playfulness in Relationships
21:31 - Playful Dynamics: Debunking Dating Myths Online and Offline
24:40 - Substance Over Style: Personality Draws in High-Quality Partners
26:11 - Outro

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FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ALWAYS KNOW WHAT TO SAY TO WOMEN: http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact


GET CONNELL’S NO. 1 BESTSELLING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR PRACTICAL GUIDE ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND BY BEING RADICALLY AUTHENTIC:
www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3


Featured in the episode

Connell Barrett
Founder and Executive Coach of DatingTransformation
Website: https://datingtransformation.com
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation


Robbie Kramer
Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/robbiekramer/


Chapters

00:00 - Introduction
00:53 - Deliberating Online Dating Strategies and Script Usage
04:45 - Playfully Identifying Weaknesses in Conversational Tone
07:18 - Effectiveness of Personalized, Effortless Messages
11:39 - Enhancing Responses with Quick, Tailored Messaging
14:53 - Flirting Advice for Dating Gracefully and Respectfully
17:35 - Utilizing Games to Enhance Date Intimacy
20:35 - Relationship Origins: Banter-Packed First Date
26:50 - Photo Opinions Solicited for Enhanced Profile Quality
28:21 - Crafting Profile Pictures: Appealing, Genuine, and Verified
30:53 - Picture Story: Man Amid Desert and Hammock
35:58 - Managing Photos Before Bio and Prompts Composition
39:20 - Experimenting with Playful Sexual Prompts
41:41 - Crafting Engaging Social Media Content Challenges
47:06 - Balancing Self-Presentation: Discretion over Grandiosity
49:35 - Prioritizing Social Circles Over Online Dating
52:10 - Outro

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If you’re struggling to get matches on Hinge, Bumble or any app that uses prompts, this episode of the Dating Transformation Podcast is up for your alley. Dating coach and host Connell Barrett shares his 10 funniest prompts to use on the apps, so you can STOP getting ghosted on the apps and START to get women laughing… and wanting to date you! Listen now.

FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ALWAYS KNOW WHAT TO SAY TO WOMEN: http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact

GET CONNELL’S NO. 1 BESTSELLING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR PRACTICAL GUIDE ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND BY BEING RADICALLY AUTHENTIC: www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3

Quotes

Featured in the episode
Connell Barrett
Founder and Executive Coach of Dating Transformation
Website: https://datingtransformation.com
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation

Chapters

00:00 - Introduction
00:15 - Top 10 Hilarious Dating App Prompts
03:52 - Navigating Fun and Flirty Date Chats
08:03 - Your Go-To Dating Prompts: Copy and Paste
10:05 - Cooking Expertise: Specializing in Peanut Butter on Toast
11:04 - Witty Hinge Humor: Buttering Toast and Sock Divorces
12:39 - Surprising with Humorous and Romantic Prompts
15:19 - Hemsworth Vibes: Clickbait with a Twist
19:09 - Boosting Dating Confidence and Attracting Your Dream Match
21:12 - Adding Humor and Excitement to Your Dating Profile
22:50 - Spark Conversations with Netflix Humor
25:21 - Exploring More Funny Bio Ideas
29:09 - Using Humor and Charm to Draw Dates
30:16 - Crafting a Balanced Profile: Humor, Relatability, and Authenticity
31:17 - Outro

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Did you know that there are 5 dating superpowers that you can start using TODAY to confidently attract wonderful women? In this episode of the Dating Transformation Podcast, dating coach and host Connell Barrett takes you through these 5 superpowers and shows you how to use them to attract your dream girl… and to do it with integrity and authenticity. Listen now!

Quotes

"When you text her with the mindset of already being in a relationship, you shift from trying to impress her to genuinely expressing yourself."- Connell Barrett

Featured in the episode

Connell Barrett
Founder and Executive Coach of Dating Transformation
Website:https://datingtransformation.com
Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation

Chapters

00:00 - Introduction
00:38 - Flirting and Confidence: Tips for Building Connection
05:11 - Projecting Confidence: The Power of a Clear and Friendly Voice
06:42 - Connell's Coaching Corner: Boosting Confidence in Dating and Self-Improvement
10:25 - Subtly Expressing Physical Interest: Creating Rapport
14:48 - Reading Signals and Gradual Progression: Respecting Boundaries
16:50 - The Power of Laughter: Expressing Appreciation and Connection
19:03 - Unleashing Authenticity: Overcoming Dating Struggles
20:27 - Compliments and Teases: Balancing Playful Interest
25:26 - Messaging from a Place of Confidence and Abundance
27:45 - Playful Challenges and Making Her Chase You
30:31 - Nicknames: Showcasing Confidence, Familiarity, and Closeness
33:40 - Embracing Simplicity: Focusing on the Present Moment
36:26 - Believe in Yourself: Finding Love in the Journey
37:00 - Outro

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If you’re not sure how to flirt with women, this episode of the Dating Transformation Podcast is for you. Dating coach and host Connell Barrett has had 1,000 dates (literally!), so he knows exactly how to help you connect with women.

Listen in as he shares his Top 10 flirting moves to help you attract your next girlfriend, and do it with class and authenticity. You’re about to learn…

2:17 The first rule of flirting
4:30 How to use your voice to create a connection
7:31 The right posture and eye contact
8:45 The charming, consensual, NON-CREEPY way to physically touch her on a date
14:27 A simple, powerful thing to say on every first date that she’s gonna love
17:17 Advanced flirting move! How the “Push-Pull” can get her super into you
21:45 A texting shift to instantly become funny and confident when messaging her
24:00 Say THIS on first dates to make her want to chase you
26:00 An eye-contact secret to amplify mutual sexual tension
27:03 A fun first-date move to get her WAY more into you

Listen now so you can become a MASTER at flirting, which will bring you closer to finding that incredible girlfriend you deserve.

FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ALWAYS KNOW WHAT TO SAY TO WOMEN: http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact

Quotes

"Just randomly placing your arm on... [UNTIL] and/or emotions." -Connell Barrett

Featured in the episode

Connell Barrett

Founder and Executive Coach of Dating Transformation
Website: https://datingtransformation.com
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation

Chapters

00:00 - Introduction
00:15- Top 10 Funniest Prompts for Dating Apps
03:52 - Navigating Fun and Flirty Date Conversations
08:03 - Reusing Your Favorite Dating Prompts
12:39 - Adding Humor and Romance to Prompts
15:19 - Clickbaiting with a Sense of Humor
19:09 - Boosting Dating Confidence for Ideal Matches
22:50 - Spark Conversations with Netflix Humor
25:21 - Exploring More Funny Bio Ideas
29:09 - Using Humor to Attract Dates
30:16 - Standing Out with a Balanced Dating Profile
31:03 - Outro

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Do you get stuck in your head when talking to women? Are you struggling with what to say and how to text? Are you still hurting from a past break-up?


You’re in luck, because in this episode of the Dating Transformation Podcast, dating coach Connell Barrett helps you fix those problems. How? You get to listen in on a live coaching session Connell does with his new client Nate.


Nate has some common dating struggles, and in their first coaching session Connell gives Nate some advice that you can also use. You’re about to learn…


5:45 How to get “out of your head” on dates

9:00 The RIGHT way to text women (and the WRONG way)

14:00 The kinds of texts to NEVER send

17:10 Why authenticity is what women want

21:00 How NOT to overshare with women

35:00 How to stop doubting yourself on dates and feel more confident

44:00 A simple way to get over getting dumped so you can meet someone new

52:00 How to achieve an abundance mindset in datingListen now, so you can find your dream girlfriend, while dating with confidence and authenticity.

FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ALWAYS KNOW WHAT TO SAY TO WOMEN:http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact

GET CONNELL’S NO. 1 BESTSELLING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR PRACTICAL GUIDE ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND BY BEING RADICALLY AUTHENTIC:
www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3