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How to Know Exactly What to Say When You Approach… & NEVER Get Rejected24 Oct 202400:26:37
So you want to talk to women you notice IRL—in bars, coffee shops, at the gym—but you just know what to say without seeming creepy. In this episode of the How to Get a Girlfriend podcast, your host—dating coach Connell Barrett—shares his 3-step approaching framework so you’ll know exactly what to say to break the ice in a charming way. The great news? Connell’s approaching method is virtually rejection-proof! And you don’t need to memorize weird pickup-artist lines. You can confidently talk to women anywhere, while being spontaneous and in the moment. Stop struggling with approaching and start confidently meeting women, and do it with charm and authenticity. Listen now to learn how!


FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL TO LEARN HOW TO CONFIDENTLY FLIRT WITH WOMEN BY BEING AUTHENTIC (NO SKETCHY PICKUP MOVES NEEDED): http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact


Quotes

"Release the pressure to be perfect; authentic words resonate more deeply than the perfect script." - Connell Barnett

"Engage with light, playful compliments and watch simple interactions blossom into memorable moments." - Connell Barnett


Featured in the episode
Connell Barrett
Founder and Executive Coach of Dating Transformation
Website:https://datingtransformation.com
Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation

Chapters
00:00 - Intro
01:01 - Approach Women with Genuine Charm
04:02 - No Perfect Words: Use This Framework
07:28 - Compliment Beyond Looks
10:33 - Ask Sincere Questions, Expect Warmth
16:01 - Tailor Compliments to the Context
17:58 - Smoothie Date from an Indirect Compliment
21:21 - Prep Mentally Before Approaching Women
22:11 - Outro
3 Dating App Mistakes to Avoid! Plus: Steal the Flirty, 12-Word Opener that Gets Women Replying21 Oct 202400:32:31
Do you struggle to get women writing you back on the apps? Do you get ghosted on Tinder, Bumble, or Hinge… and don’t know why? It’s frustrating, and can make you want to delete the apps. But help is on the way! In this episode of the How to Get a Girlfriend podcast, your host—dating coach Connell Barrett—identifies 3 dating app mistakes that you make when writing openers. Plus, Connell shares the flirty, 12-word opener that gets him a 77% percent response rate on the apps with wonderful women. Stop getting ghosted and start sending openers that women love! Listen now.

FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL TO LEARN HOW TO CONFIDENTLY FLIRT WITH WOMEN BY BEING AUTHENTIC (NO SKETCHY PICKUP MOVES NEEDED):
http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact

Quotes

"Engage women with fun, flirty questions—not just logic and information—to spark lively conversations." - Connell Barnett

"Improve your match success by refining your opening lines for better connections." - Connell Barnett

Featured in the episode
Connell Barrett
Founder and Executive Coach of Dating Transformation

Website:https://datingtransformation.com

Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation

Chapters
00:00 - Intro
01:27 - Crafting Effective Dating App Openers
03:25 - Engage with Fun, Playful Questions
09:52 - Personalize Messages with Profile Insights
10:36 - Initiate Chats by Noting Unique Traits
15:37 -  Opt for Fun, Light Conversation Starters
17:50 - 'Opposites Attract' for Engaging Chats
24:03 - The 12-Word Power Opener
28:49 - Value Authenticity in Compliments and Questions
30:21 - Start with Intrigue to Avoid the Friend Zone32:12 - Outro
How to Get Over a Breakup, with ‘Letting Go of Your Ex’ author Cortney Warren22 Mar 202400:49:55
Have you ever had a painful breakup? Have you been so obsessed with your ex that you didn’t want to date? Have you felt, “I’ll never find someone as good as her”?


Today’s special guest can help!


Dr. Cortney S. Warren is a bestselling author, clinical psychologist and an expert in getting over a bad breakup. Cortney joins Connell in this episode to share simple, powerful tips from her bestselling book, “Letting Go of Your Ex: CBT Skills to Heal the Pain of a Breakup and Overcome Love Addiction.” She also offers some practical advice to help you overcome heartache and find someone NEW to share your life with.


It’s time to let go of pain, heal your heart, and find someone as wonderful as you are… and do it with authenticity! Listen to Cortney and Connell’s deep, insightful conversation now.


FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ALWAYS KNOW WHAT TO SAY TO WOMEN: http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact


GET CONNELL’S NO. 1 BESTSELLING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR PRACTICAL GUIDE ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND BY BEING RADICALLY AUTHENTIC:
www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3


READ CONNELL’S 47 TIPS ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND:
http://www.datingtransformation.com/how-to-get-a-girlfriend


Quotes

"Thinking about your ex is normal. Yet obsessing over them during dating as a distraction can prevent you from forming new meaningful connections."- Cortney Warren

"Intense love mixed with past traumas can impact relationships significantly. Self-awareness is key to navigating these complexities."-Cortney Warren


Featured in the episode

Connell Barrett
Founder and Executive Coach of Dating Transformation
Website: https://datingtransformation.com
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation

Featured Guest
Cortney Warren
Website: http://www.drcortney.com
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/drcortneywarren/


Chapters
00:00 - Introduction
04:24 - Influences of Past Relationships on Future Actions
08:23 - Growth and Authenticity Post-Breakup
10:55 - Resilience and Recovery after Heartbreak
14:47 - Embracing Grief to Achieve Acceptance
17:20 - Gratitude: A Pathway to Moving Beyond Past Relationships
21:01 - Dating as a Catalyst for Personal Development
24:43 - Navigating Intimacy Challenges Stemming from Trauma
28:59 - Coping with Heartbreak and Relationship Advice
30:18 - Seeking Genuine Connections Based on Values and Chemistry
36:18 - Prioritizing Fun Over Perfection in Dating
37:55 - Transforming Disempowering Questions to Empowering Ones
42:01 - The Role of Physical Touch in Enhancing Bonding and Love
44:49 - Authenticity as a Precious Asset in the Dating Scene
46:11 - Conclusion

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How NOT to Be Creepy: The 7 Mistakes Men Make that Creep Women Out18 Mar 202400:28:48
You want to meet wonderful women, make some moves, and get those sparks flying, right? But what if you do or say something creepy, and she rejects you? That would hurt. No one wants to feel like a creep. Here’s some help. In this episode, dating coach Connell Barrett counts down
The top 7 things that men do that make women go “Eww!” Are you making any of these common, creepy mistakes? Listen now to find out, fix it, and start dating some wonderful women.

FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ALWAYS KNOW WHAT TO SAY TO WOMEN:
http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact

GET CONNELL’S NO. 1 BESTSELLING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR PRACTICAL GUIDE ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND BY BEING RADICALLY AUTHENTIC:
www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3

Quotes

"There's a time to be persistent, but when a woman isn't interested, graciously move on." - Connell Barrett


Featured in the episode
Connell Barrett
Founder and Executive Coach of Dating Transformation
Website:https://datingtransformation.com
Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation

Chapters
00:00 - Introduction03:42 - Navigating the Perception of Creepiness with Composure
06:43 - Truth vs. Fiction: Struggles with Deceit and Discomfort
07:23 - Shedding the Mask for Lasting Connections
04:09 - Gratitude shift: "Not me, the friendly guy over there"
09:51 - Impact of potato chip consumption on pickup artist success
12:33 - Addressing inappropriate touching and respect
15:49 - Pitfalls of objectifying women with body comments
18:14 - Spooky first date objectification story
20:42 - The Threefold Approach of Persistence, Charm, and Empathy
23:29 - Importance of honesty and avoiding manipulation
24:32 - Emphasizing honesty in dating and daily life
25:19 - OutroProduced by Heartcastmedia
5 “Aha!” Moments that Took Me from Dateless to Dating Wonderful Women12 Mar 202400:29:14
The reason dating coach Connell Barrett can fix any dating problem is because he had EVERY dating problem—and he overcame them. In this episode of the Dating Transformation podcast, Connell shares 5 game-changing “Aha!” moments he experienced that helped him get great at flirting, approach women with confidence, escape the Friend Zone, and more. Listen now!


FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ALWAYS KNOW WHAT TO SAY TO WOMEN: http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact


GET CONNELL’S NO. 1 BESTSELLING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR PRACTICAL GUIDE ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND BY BEING RADICALLY AUTHENTIC:
www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3


Quotes

"I used to believe playing it safe was smart. However, in dating and relationships, safety is risky and risky is safe." -Connell Barrett


Featured in the episode
Connell Barrett
Founder and Executive Coach of DatingTransformation
Website:https://datingtransformation.com
Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation


Chapters
00:00 - Taking Risks in Dating Is Surprisingly Safe
05:09 - Courageous Moves: Man Gambles on First Date
06:12 -  The Safe Bet on Taking Risks in Dating Approaches
07:18 - Bold Gesture: Risking Rejection by Tapping Her Shoulder
12:11 - Embrace Authenticity: Not Everyone Will Connect with You
15:15 - Transforming Fear into Confidence in Dating Encounters
16:37 - Genuine Connections: Sincere Communication Over Flirtatious Behaviors
18:00 - The Art of Flirting: Balancing Sincerity with Playfulness
20:58 - Unleashing Playfulness in Relationships
21:31 - Playful Dynamics: Debunking Dating Myths Online and Offline
24:40 - Substance Over Style: Personality Draws in High-Quality Partners
26:11 - Outro

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Ask the Dating Coach Mailbag23 Feb 202400:52:30
FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ALWAYS KNOW WHAT TO SAY TO WOMEN: http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact


GET CONNELL’S NO. 1 BESTSELLING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR PRACTICAL GUIDE ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND BY BEING RADICALLY AUTHENTIC:
www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3


Featured in the episode

Connell Barrett
Founder and Executive Coach of DatingTransformation
Website: https://datingtransformation.com
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation


Robbie Kramer
Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/robbiekramer/


Chapters

00:00 - Introduction
00:53 - Deliberating Online Dating Strategies and Script Usage
04:45 - Playfully Identifying Weaknesses in Conversational Tone
07:18 - Effectiveness of Personalized, Effortless Messages
11:39 - Enhancing Responses with Quick, Tailored Messaging
14:53 - Flirting Advice for Dating Gracefully and Respectfully
17:35 - Utilizing Games to Enhance Date Intimacy
20:35 - Relationship Origins: Banter-Packed First Date
26:50 - Photo Opinions Solicited for Enhanced Profile Quality
28:21 - Crafting Profile Pictures: Appealing, Genuine, and Verified
30:53 - Picture Story: Man Amid Desert and Hammock
35:58 - Managing Photos Before Bio and Prompts Composition
39:20 - Experimenting with Playful Sexual Prompts
41:41 - Crafting Engaging Social Media Content Challenges
47:06 - Balancing Self-Presentation: Discretion over Grandiosity
49:35 - Prioritizing Social Circles Over Online Dating
52:10 - Outro

Produced by Heartcast Media
https://www.heartcastmedia.com
Hinge and Humor: The Top 10 Funniest Prompts to Get Matches and Dates on Hinge20 Feb 202400:31:23
If you’re struggling to get matches on Hinge, Bumble or any app that uses prompts, this episode of the Dating Transformation Podcast is up for your alley. Dating coach and host Connell Barrett shares his 10 funniest prompts to use on the apps, so you can STOP getting ghosted on the apps and START to get women laughing… and wanting to date you! Listen now.

FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ALWAYS KNOW WHAT TO SAY TO WOMEN: http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact

GET CONNELL’S NO. 1 BESTSELLING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR PRACTICAL GUIDE ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND BY BEING RADICALLY AUTHENTIC: www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3

Quotes

Featured in the episode
Connell Barrett
Founder and Executive Coach of Dating Transformation
Website: https://datingtransformation.com
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation

Chapters

00:00 - Introduction
00:15 - Top 10 Hilarious Dating App Prompts
03:52 - Navigating Fun and Flirty Date Chats
08:03 - Your Go-To Dating Prompts: Copy and Paste
10:05 - Cooking Expertise: Specializing in Peanut Butter on Toast
11:04 - Witty Hinge Humor: Buttering Toast and Sock Divorces
12:39 - Surprising with Humorous and Romantic Prompts
15:19 - Hemsworth Vibes: Clickbait with a Twist
19:09 - Boosting Dating Confidence and Attracting Your Dream Match
21:12 - Adding Humor and Excitement to Your Dating Profile
22:50 - Spark Conversations with Netflix Humor
25:21 - Exploring More Funny Bio Ideas
29:09 - Using Humor and Charm to Draw Dates
30:16 - Crafting a Balanced Profile: Humor, Relatability, and Authenticity
31:17 - Outro

Produced by Heartcast Media
https://www.heartcastmedia.com
The 5 Dating Superpowers: Use these 5 powerful moves for more dates and more confidence…instantly!22 Jan 202400:37:06
Did you know that there are 5 dating superpowers that you can start using TODAY to confidently attract wonderful women? In this episode of the Dating Transformation Podcast, dating coach and host Connell Barrett takes you through these 5 superpowers and shows you how to use them to attract your dream girl… and to do it with integrity and authenticity. Listen now!

Quotes

"When you text her with the mindset of already being in a relationship, you shift from trying to impress her to genuinely expressing yourself."- Connell Barrett

Featured in the episode

Connell Barrett
Founder and Executive Coach of Dating Transformation
Website:https://datingtransformation.com
Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation

Chapters

00:00 - Introduction
00:38 - Flirting and Confidence: Tips for Building Connection
05:11 - Projecting Confidence: The Power of a Clear and Friendly Voice
06:42 - Connell's Coaching Corner: Boosting Confidence in Dating and Self-Improvement
10:25 - Subtly Expressing Physical Interest: Creating Rapport
14:48 - Reading Signals and Gradual Progression: Respecting Boundaries
16:50 - The Power of Laughter: Expressing Appreciation and Connection
19:03 - Unleashing Authenticity: Overcoming Dating Struggles
20:27 - Compliments and Teases: Balancing Playful Interest
25:26 - Messaging from a Place of Confidence and Abundance
27:45 - Playful Challenges and Making Her Chase You
30:31 - Nicknames: Showcasing Confidence, Familiarity, and Closeness
33:40 - Embracing Simplicity: Focusing on the Present Moment
36:26 - Believe in Yourself: Finding Love in the Journey
37:00 - Outro

Produced by Heartcast Media
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The Top 10 Flirting Moves You Need to NOW to Make Sparks Fly with Wonderful Women15 Jan 202400:37:27
If you’re not sure how to flirt with women, this episode of the Dating Transformation Podcast is for you. Dating coach and host Connell Barrett has had 1,000 dates (literally!), so he knows exactly how to help you connect with women.

Listen in as he shares his Top 10 flirting moves to help you attract your next girlfriend, and do it with class and authenticity. You’re about to learn…

2:17 The first rule of flirting
4:30 How to use your voice to create a connection
7:31 The right posture and eye contact
8:45 The charming, consensual, NON-CREEPY way to physically touch her on a date
14:27 A simple, powerful thing to say on every first date that she’s gonna love
17:17 Advanced flirting move! How the “Push-Pull” can get her super into you
21:45 A texting shift to instantly become funny and confident when messaging her
24:00 Say THIS on first dates to make her want to chase you
26:00 An eye-contact secret to amplify mutual sexual tension
27:03 A fun first-date move to get her WAY more into you

Listen now so you can become a MASTER at flirting, which will bring you closer to finding that incredible girlfriend you deserve.

FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ALWAYS KNOW WHAT TO SAY TO WOMEN: http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact

Quotes

"Just randomly placing your arm on... [UNTIL] and/or emotions." -Connell Barrett

Featured in the episode

Connell Barrett

Founder and Executive Coach of Dating Transformation
Website: https://datingtransformation.com
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation

Chapters

00:00 - Introduction
00:15- Top 10 Funniest Prompts for Dating Apps
03:52 - Navigating Fun and Flirty Date Conversations
08:03 - Reusing Your Favorite Dating Prompts
12:39 - Adding Humor and Romance to Prompts
15:19 - Clickbaiting with a Sense of Humor
19:09 - Boosting Dating Confidence for Ideal Matches
22:50 - Spark Conversations with Netflix Humor
25:21 - Exploring More Funny Bio Ideas
29:09 - Using Humor to Attract Dates
30:16 - Standing Out with a Balanced Dating Profile
31:03 - Outro

Produced by Heartcast Media
https://www.heartcastmedia.com
LIVE COACHING! Nate Learns the Right Way to Text Women, How to Get Out of His Head on Dates, and More!09 Jan 202400:59:12
Do you get stuck in your head when talking to women? Are you struggling with what to say and how to text? Are you still hurting from a past break-up?


You’re in luck, because in this episode of the Dating Transformation Podcast, dating coach Connell Barrett helps you fix those problems. How? You get to listen in on a live coaching session Connell does with his new client Nate.


Nate has some common dating struggles, and in their first coaching session Connell gives Nate some advice that you can also use. You’re about to learn…


5:45 How to get “out of your head” on dates

9:00 The RIGHT way to text women (and the WRONG way)

14:00 The kinds of texts to NEVER send

17:10 Why authenticity is what women want

21:00 How NOT to overshare with women

35:00 How to stop doubting yourself on dates and feel more confident

44:00 A simple way to get over getting dumped so you can meet someone new

52:00 How to achieve an abundance mindset in datingListen now, so you can find your dream girlfriend, while dating with confidence and authenticity.

FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ALWAYS KNOW WHAT TO SAY TO WOMEN:http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact

GET CONNELL’S NO. 1 BESTSELLING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR PRACTICAL GUIDE ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND BY BEING RADICALLY AUTHENTIC:
www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3
Client Transformation! How John went from LOW Confidence to Dating INCREDIBLE Women…and How You Can, Too05 Jan 202400:46:56
If you struggle with how to flirt with women, or your dates don’t go anywhere, or you’re not meeting the kinds of women you’re into… listen up!


In this episode of the Dating Transformation Podcast, dating coach and host Connell Barrett talks with his superstar client John, who’s been having some incredible dates with some incredible women… and he’s done it all with RADICAL AUTHENTICITY (no creepy pickup moves
needed.)


John—a true, classy gentleman who likes and respects women—has gone from low confidence to an abundance of dating options.


Connell and John are about to teach you how to…
  • How to stay out of the Friend Zone*Make first-date moves that women enjoy
  • Get HER to kiss YOU first and chase for your interest
  • Flirt and text in a charming, classy way women love.
  • Be more self-confident TODAY

And a lot more!


Are you ready to get more dates, more confidence, and find your dream girl? Listen to John’s rock-star success stories with women, and go find the great, gorgeous girlfriend you deserve.


FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ALWAYS KNOW WHAT TO SAY TO WOMEN: http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact


GET CONNELL’S NO. 1 BESTSELLING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR PRACTICAL GUIDE ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND BY BEING RADICALLY AUTHENTIC:
www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3


Quotes

"In any given moment, our confidence or lack thereof is going to come from what we focus on and how we interpret that focus." John

Featured in the episode

John

Connell Barrett
Founder and Executive Coach of Dating Transformation
Website:https://datingtransformation.com
Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation

Chapters
00:00 - Introduction
04:26 - Confidence Boost and Refreshed Dating Skills
08:40 - Finding the Right Setting for Successful Dates
12:12 - Building Connection through Touch on Dates
13:17 - Fun Dates: Intimacy, Rapport, and Compatibility
18:19 - Embracing Confidence and Mindset, Letting Go of Insecurity
21:41 - Pre-Date Confidence Boost: Reciting Notepad Words
23:22 - Self-Reflection: Work Trip to Italy, Blake Shelton
28:07 - Memorable First Date Leading to an Unexpected Kiss
31:36 - Training for Improved Dating Success and Confidence
35:48 - Authenticity Over Fakeness: Good Dating Advice
37:34 - Having Fun Authentically: Showing Her the Way
42:53 - Outro
LIVE COACHING! What to Say When You Approach Women, to Be Charming and NOT Creepy02 Jan 202401:00:09
If you wonder what it’s like to work with a renowned dating coach, this episode is for you. Because dating coach Connell Barrett takes you “behind the curtain” and lets you listen in on a coaching session with his new client Ryan.


If you’re like Ryan, you struggle with flirting, or you have self-confidence. Or you want to approach women but it’s difficult for you? You’re about to learn…


• How to overcome “approaching anxiety” so you can meet some wonderful women
• What to say when you want to approach and not seem creepy
• The secret to self-confidence with women
• How to flirt with women with charm, and no pickup tricks
• How to gets dates in a matter of days!


And a lot more.


Listen to Connell’s live-coaching session with Ryan, as he has some BIG dating breakthroughs. It’s time to stop struggling in your love life, and to start attracting wonderful women, as your most authentic, confident self. Listen now!


FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ALWAYS KNOW WHAT TO SAY TO WOMEN: http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact


GET CONNELL’S NO. 1 BESTSELLING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR PRACTICAL GUIDE ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND BY BEING RADICALLY AUTHENTIC: www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3


Quotes

"So the lack of eye contact comes from your social discomfort. With doing this combined with those confidence pieces of confidence kryptonite. Okay? It's gonna take time." -Connell Barrett


Featured in the episode

Connell Barrett
Founder and Executive Coach of Dating Transformation
Website: https://datingtransformation.com
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation


Chapters

00:00 - Introduction
06:21 - Transforming Negativity into Positive Action
06:54 - Identifying Confidence Kryptonite: Building a Strong Foundation
13:23 - Discovering Areas Where You Feel Amazing
17:13 - Energy, Eye Contact, Confidence: Women's Response
20:38 - Extended Phone Sessions: Transformation and Confidence Talks
24:24 - Flirting Confidently: Asking About Her Eye Color
26:06 - Utilizing Colorblindness to Spark Conversations
30:03 - Overcoming Worry, Self-Doubt, and Overthinking
31:42 - Politeness in Approaching and Asking Someone Out
38:02 - Embracing Internal Validation, Ignoring External Sources
39:15 - Approaching: Not Weird, Actually Creepy Not To
42:25 - The Risky, Yet Safe Strategy: Confident Approaches
46:08 - Letting Go of Unrequited Love and the Past
49:06 - Accepting Rejection, Focusing on Future Opportunities
55:05 - Practicing Confidence: Voice, Approach, and Growth
55:51 - The Admiration for Social Charm and Gentlemen
56:10 - Outro

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The 7 Deadly Dating Myths to Avoid23 Sep 202400:30:36
Do you feel like you’re just not good-looking or not tall enough to attract wonderful women and find a great girlfriend? Well, think again! Those are two of the 7 deadly dating myths that can hurt your confidence and make it difficult to connect with women. Never fear! In this episode of the How to Get a Girlfriend Podcast, dating coach Connell Barrett runs down each of these 7 hurtful dating myths, and offers you 7 new and improved strategies to help you flirt and connect with incredible women… and help you find the dream girlfriend you want. Listen now!


FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ALWAYS KNOW WHAT TO SAY TO WOMEN:
http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact


GET CONNELL’S NO. 1 BESTSELLING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR PRACTICAL GUIDE ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND BY BEING RADICALLY AUTHENTIC:
www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3


READ CONNELL’S 47 TIPS ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND:
http://www.datingtransformation.com/how-to-get-a-girlfriend


Quotes

"Height isn't everything; a man can make a woman feel protected and cherished through confidence, muscle, assertive speech, and skilled flirting." - Connell Barnett

"If you see a woman you want to meet, approach her right away. Waiting too long lets doubt creep in." - Connell Barnett


Featured in the episode
Connell Barrett
Founder and Executive Coach of Dating Transformation
Website:https://datingtransformation.com
Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation


Chapters
00:00 - Intro
01:11 - 5 Biggest Common Dating Frustrations
03:00 - Debunking Dating Myths: No Need for Perfection
05:25 - Blending Humor with Flirtation in Dating
08:52 - Jason's Genuine Approach Captivates an Attorney
13:04 - Confidence: Key to Dating Success
15:27 - The 3-Second Rule for Approaching Women
17:57 - Conversation Skills Aren't Crucial
22:05 - Rejections as Courageous Opportunities
23:38 - Interest Shifts with Time
27:07 - Outro
5 Ways to Flirt, Connect and Make Sparks Fly with Your Ideal Woman13 Dec 202300:25:02
You know what’s worse than a big hunk of coal in your Christmas stocking? Approach anxiety, getting ghosted, and getting locked up in the friend zone after a first date. Ho-ho-NOOO!


In this episode of the Dating Transformation podcast, dating coach Connell Barrett helps you fix all of those problems by taking some questions from listeners. You’re about to learn…


  • Connell’s personal formula for taking massive approaching action
  • A texting tip you’ve NEVER heard before
  • The biggest dating mistake he ever made, which led to his biggest breakthrough
  • How to NOT get ghosted
  • A confidence “hack” to make you feel MUCH more attractive

Listen now, so you can STOP feeling stuck with women, and START making sparks fly with cool, cute girls, as your most authentic self.

FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ALWAYS KNOW WHAT TO SAY TO WOMEN: http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact

GET CONNELL’S NO. 1 BESTSELLING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR PRACTICAL GUIDE ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND BY BEING RADICALLY AUTHENTIC: www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3

Quotes

“I sound like the love child of Suzanne Pleshette and Danny DeVito” -Connell Barrett

Featured in the episode

Connell Barrett
Founder and Executive Coach of Dating Transformation
Website: https://datingtransformation.com
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation

Chapters

00:00 - Introduction
00:58 - Ignite Change: Embrace Disturbance and Take Massive Action
05:35 - The Internal Struggle: Devil Stabs Angel, Motivation to Approach Women
06:58 - Personalized Guidance: Boosting Confidence and Attracting Women
11:20 - The Regret of Hiding: Learning from Dating Mistakes
12:21 - Creating a Persona: Embellishing Adventures for Compatibility
13:37 - A Year of Transformation: Taking Positive Action and Embracing Authenticity
16:09 - Transforming Confidence: Finding your Dream Girl Through Self-Improvement
19:27 - Crafting Engaging Texts: Building Excitement and Intrigue
22:18 - Authenticity Over Lines: Emphasizing Confidence in Dating
21:18 - The Common Question: What to Say When Approaching a Woman?
24:12 - Outro

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The 6 Game-Changing Photos to Get More Matches on the Apps08 Dec 202300:24:01
Pop quiz, dating app user! Do cute, quality women match with you about as often as Halley’s Comet visits Earth? Yeah, I thought so.

It’s downright debilitating to grab your phone, check the app, and… crickets and tumbleweeds. No matches… no GOOD ones, anyway.

The good news? This is fixable! You just need to realize the cause of your problem: Your photos SUCK! It’s time to upgrade your photo game and see the matches pour in.

In this episode, dating coach Connell Barrett gives you the 6 Game-Changing Photos that you need to get a LOT more matches (and dates!) on the apps.

These are the 6 specific kinds of photos that Connell and his clients have used to get thousands of matches with bright, beautiful women.

So listen now and upload 6 game-changing photos to YOUR profile, and turn your phone into a date-generating machine!

FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ALWAYS KNOW WHAT TO SAY TO WOMEN: http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact

GET CONNELL’S NO. 1 BESTSELLING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR PRACTICAL GUIDE ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND BY BEING RADICALLY AUTHENTIC: www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3


Quotes

“If you’re not getting matches on the apps, it’s NOT that you’re not enough. You’re awesome! But your portraits aren’t enough.” -Connell Barrett


Featured in the episode

Connell Barrett
Founder and Executive Coach of Dating Transformation
Website: https://datingtransformation.com
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation


Chapters

00:00 - Introduction
01:52 - The 6 Game-Changing Photos for a Successful Dating Profile
04:43 - From Jacket and Tie to Casual Style: Portraying Confidence in Photos
05:31 - The 'Ah' Photo That Tugs at Her Heartstring
07:08 - Boosting Confidence and Connections: Guidance from a Dating Coach
10:53 - Activity and Masculinity: The 4th Photo, Social Settings with Friends for the 5th
11:15 - The Dance Floor Connection: Capturing Unforgettable Moments in Photos
13:20 - Inviting Her into Your Life: Giving a Glimpse of Exciting Experiences
14:49 - From Fence-Sitter to Hell Yeah: The Power of the Goosh Photo
17:07 - Fun, Silly, and Memorable: Crafting the Perfect 6th Photo
20:12 - Game-Changing Photos for Dating Apps: A Quick Recap
22:12 - Unveiling Online Dating Success: The Power of Your Photos
23:55 - Outro

Produced by Heartcast Media
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A Dating Coach Rates the Rom-Coms: ‘Love Actually’28 Nov 202300:24:17
‘Love Actually’ is now 20-years-old, and dating coach Connell Barrett is here to review the classic rom-com in terms of dating strategy. Listen in as he shares some lessons that YOU can use to improve your love life.


So… let’s go get the sh*t kicked out of us by love!


FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ALWAYS KNOW WHAT TO SAY TO WOMEN: http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact


GET CONNELL’S NO. 1 BESTSELLING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR PRACTICAL GUIDE ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND BY BEING RADICALLY AUTHENTIC:
www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3

Quotes

“Avoid dating someone you supervise or who supervises you. Workplace romances can be problematic, especially when a power dynamic is involved.” - Connell Barrett

Featured in the episode

Connell Barrett
Founder and Executive Coach of Dating Transformation
Website:https://datingtransformation.com
Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation

Chapters

00:00 - Introduction
00:12 - The Love-Hate Relationship with Romcoms: Comedy vs. Strategies
03:50 - Connell Barrett's Review of 'Love Actually'
08:12 - The Danger of Inappropriate Workplace Relationships
13:23 - Advocation for the First-Kiss Initiative
15:27 - Cautionary Advice Against Desperate Romantic Gestures
18:20 - Embracing Romantic Risks for Love and Connection
21:49 - Lessons to Learn: Dating Strategy from 'Love Actually
23:57 - Outro

Produced by Heartcast Media
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Struggling with Flirting? How To Go from Brutally Boring to Confidently Charismatic17 Nov 202300:39:16
Ever had what you thought was a good date or conversation with a woman, only to find out she just wasn’t interested?

And you have no idea what you did wrong!

Odds are, your conversation was too boring. And if you bore women, your dating life will suffer.
Dating coach Connell Barrett knows this all too well. As an introvert, he used to struggle with flirting. He didn’t know what to say. He bored women, who chose more charismatic guys over him.
And then he fixed it! How?

In this episode, Connell shares three simple strategies he used to go from being Mr. Dull to authentically charismatic.

Listen now, and take your love life from boring to SOARING!

FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ALWAYS KNOW WHAT TO SAY TO WOMEN: http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact

GET CONNELL’S NO. 1 BESTSELLING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR PRACTICAL GUIDE ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND BY BEING RADICALLY AUTHENTIC: www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3


Quotes

"You can go from boring to charismatic with women if you convey an authentic, real, raw version of yourself." -Connell Barrett


Featured in the episode

Connell Barrett
Founder and Executive Coach of Dating Transformation
Website: https://datingtransformation.com
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation


Chapters

00:00 - Introduction
00:19 - Breaking the Cycle: How to Avoid Being a Boring Date
04:37 - Unconventional Love Story: Shelley and the Old Carriage Man
07:14 - Dating Transformation with Connell: Revamping Your Dating Life
11:09 - Mastering Compelling and Emotionally Charged Dating Approaches
15:53 - Role Reversal and Playful Confidence: Spice Up Your Dates
19:44 - Engagement Ring Role Play: Adding Fun and Playfulness to Dates
20:30 - The Power of Opposite Texting After a First Date
23:56 - Compelling Conversations: Personal Topics and Emotional Engagement
28:08 - Movie Preferences and Conversation Tips
33:27 - Attracting Women through Radical Authenticity
36:32 - Unleashing Your Charisma: Expressiveness, Emotional Connection, and Humor
38:56 - Outro

Produced by Heartcast Media
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My 7 Biggest “Aha!” Dating Moments… Revealed14 Nov 202300:41:09
If your love life is stuck in a neutral, well, dating coach Connell Barrett has been there. He battled every dating problem in the book, from low confidence to approach anxiety to a lack of matches on the apps.

And he fixed them all!

In today’s episode, Connell shares 7 of the biggest “Aha!” moments he had on his journey from “the King of the Friend Zone” to becoming, as the New York Post calls him, “the real-life Hitch.”
Listen now so you can have your own “Aha!” moment, and attract a wonderful girlfriend into your life.

FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ALWAYS KNOW WHAT TO SAY TO WOMEN: http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact

GET CONNELL’S NO. 1 BESTSELLING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR PRACTICAL GUIDE ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND BY BEING RADICALLY AUTHENTIC: www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3

Quotes

"YOU don't suck. You're amazing! But your dating profile sucks. Fix your profile and you'll fix your dating life." -Connell Barrett

Featured in the episode

Connell Barrett
Founder and Executive Coach of Dating Transformation
Website: https://datingtransformation.com
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation
https://www.heartcastmedia.com
Chapters

00:00 - Introduction
00:58 - Life and Dating Advice for a Younger Self
03:10 - The First Big Moment: Women Showing Interest
08:51 - Authenticity: The Magic Bullet in Dating
12:32 - Online Dating: A Digital Marketing Perspective
16:08 - A Deal Between Friends: Follow Each Other's Instructions
19:20 - Overcoming the Creepiness Factor
22:25 - A Major Turning Point: Confident Approach and Tonality
24:20 - Give to Get: Making Her Feel Special
28:06 - Shifting Focus: From Ego to Giving
30:44 - Magical Moments: Rainy Make-Outs and Potential Partners
36:41 - The Temperature Rises: A Friend's Remark
38:07 - The Power of Delivery: Tone and Non-Verbal Communication
40:50 - Outro

Produced by Heartcast Media
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7 Flirting Secrets Women Want You to Know with Melanie Sutrathada10 Nov 202300:54:33
Cue the confetti! Dating coach Connell Barrett welcomes a very special guest for this episode: the fun, funny, talented, effervescent Melanie Sutrathada!

Melanie is an actor, TV host and lifestyle expert who’s appeared on “Good Morning America” and “Today.” She’s also a single woman who knows what women want from single men! And she has a LOT of wisdom to share.

Connell and Melanie team up to talk about…

8:45: Why travel makes you more attractive

14:20: How activity dates make it easier to go for the first kiss

22:00: What to say to your date when you’re nervous and NOT confident

29:00: How to improve your flirty banter on dates

41:30: What women are really looking for from men

42:25: The right (and WRONG) ways to approach a woman

And a lot more!

Listen to the amazing Melanie Sutrathada wax eloquent about dating, true-crime, traveling the world, and much more.

SEE MELANIE TRAVEL THE WORLD ON INSTAGRAM: @‌melaniesutra

CHECK OUT HER HOSTING AND ACTING SKILLS ON HER WEBSITE:
Melanie Sutrathada | Actor ∙ Host ∙ Content Creator

FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ALWAYS KNOW WHAT TO SAY TO WOMEN:

Apply to Work with Dating Coach Connell Barrett

GET CONNELL’S NO. 1 BESTSELLING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR PRACTICAL GUIDE ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND BY BEING RADICALLY AUTHENTIC: www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3

Quotes

"You have to shoot your shot and take chances, in life and in love, because tomorrow isn't promised to us." -Melanie Sutrathada

Featured in the episode

Melanie Sutrathada
Instagram: @‌melaniesutra
Website: http://www.melaniesutrathada.com/

Connell Barrett
Founder and Executive Coach of Dating Transformation
Website: https://datingtransformation.com
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation

Chapters

00:00 - Introduction
00:42 - Embracing Multiple Roles: Actor, Host, Lifestyle Expert
04:37 - The Art of the Wingman: Navigating New York Dating
08:22 - Prioritizing Experiences over Money: Life's True Essence
10:17 - Seizing the Present: Acting Now in an Uncertain Tomorrow
15:27 - Self-Discovery, Love, and Sports: Years of Adventure
18:55 - The Awkwardness of Distant Date First Kisses
22:15 - Exciting Dates that Check Off Your Bucket List
25:38 - Cultivating Meaningful Connections through Honesty and Vulnerability
33:08 - The Power of Active Listening in Meaningful Conversations
36:08 - Expressing Compatibility and Nurturing Potential Relationships
41:26 - Heartwarming Note from Jess's Cat, Boots
45:25 - Seeking a Confident, Non-Jealous, and Initiative-Taking Partner
51:09 - Acts of Kindness: Crossing Paths with the Right Person
54:13 - Outro

Produced by Heartcast Media
https://www.heartcastmedia.com
Sober Dating, Part 2: 7 Ways to Confidently Attract Women, without Using Alcohol07 Nov 202300:37:44
Dating coach Connell Barrett specializes in helping sober single men like YOU confidently attract a wonderful girlfriend… completely booze-free.

Is it hard for you to meet women, because you’re sober… and alcohol and dating are closely linked?

Are you worried that women may not be interested in you, once they learn that you’re sober?
Do you struggle to feel confident without the help of liquid courage?

In part 2 of Connell’s series on sober dating, he shares 7 strategies on how to confidently attract the right woman for you, sans alcohol. You’re about to learn…

3:45: How to confidently approach totally sober

5:32: Why your sober, authentic self is your MOST attractive, confident you

9:30: How sober dating makes it EASIER for you to make charming moves that women enjoy

11:45: How to feel confident as soon as you walk into a social venue

16:00: The Hinge prompt you can use today to get a LOT more matches

20:40: How to talk about your sobriety with a woman in an honest, attractive way

PLUS: A LOT of fun first-date ideas that don’t involve drinking.

Are you ready to say goodbye to your former wingmen (Johnnie, Jack and Bud) and instead attract women by being your best, most authentic and SOBER self?

(WARNING: You MIGHT get drunk on your own awesomeness.) Listen now!

ARE YOU A SOBER, SINGLE MAN LOOKING FOR DATING HELP? BOOK A FREE CALL WITH CONNELL: http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact

GET CONNELL’S NO. 1 BESTSELLING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR PRACTICAL GUIDE ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND BY BEING RADICALLY AUTHENTIC: www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3

Quotes

"You don't need liquid courage to approach women or make moves. You need ACTUAL courage. And unlike the liquid kind, courage is free, healthy and unlimited." -Connell Barrett

Featured in the episode

Connell Barrett
Founder and Executive Coach of Dating Transformation
Website: https://datingtransformation.com
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation

Chapters

00:00 - Introduction
01:12 - Breaking the Habit: Conquering Drinking on Dates
04:19 - Sobriety and Approaching Women: Overcoming Challenges
09:19 - Better Results, Sober Approaches: Unlocking Confidence
15:55 - Boosting Confidence and Sobriety: Approaching Women with Purpose
18:46 - Enhancing Matches: Non-Alcoholic Date Planning Tips
22:25 - Hinge Tips: Incorporating Sobriety and Trends
25:46 - Catering to Her Preferences: Planning a Wine-Loving Date
31:16 - Handling Dating Questions with Diplomacy
33:17 - Embracing Fear, Taking Romantic Risks, and Building Empathy
37:24 - Outro

Produced by Heartcast Media
https://www.heartcastmedia.com
Sober Dating, Part 1: How I (Finally!) Quit Drinking, and How YOU Can Confidently Date without Booze31 Oct 202300:34:59
Drinking and dating go together like Scotch and soda. But are you a guy who uses alcohol as a crutch? Do you need a drink or two (or five!) to relax when talking to a woman? Do you depend on “liquid courage” to approach a woman, but you’re running low on ACTUAL courage? Sober dating coach Connell Barrett helps men confidently flirt, date and find love… without a drop of alcohol. In this special episode, Connell talks about his decade-long struggle to quit drinking (he was downing a gallon of whiskey each month), the moment he hit bottom, and how he finally became “a booze-free bad-ass.” If you’re a guy who wants to meet and date wonderful women and do it sober, this episode is for you.Or if you have ANY addiction that’s hurting your love life—alcohol, porn, pills, food—listen NOW, so you can slay the dragon of dependency and date with confidence.Are you ready to STOP using substances and START getting “drunk” on your own AUTHENTIC awesomeness... and find your soulmate? Listen now!

A SPECIAL SHOUT-OUT FROM CONNELL TO THE FOLLOWING AMAZING PEOPLE, WHOSE INSPIRING PODCASTS PROMOTE THE LIFE CHANGING POWER OF SOBRIETY:

DAX SHEPARD, ARMCHAIR EXPERT
https://armchairexpertpod.com/pods

NATE KELLY, THE SOBRIETY DIARIES
https://www.podcastnate.com/sobriety-diaries

SHANE RAMER, THAT SOBER GUY
https://www.thatsoberguy.com/

JAMES SWANWICK, ALCOHOL-FREE LIFESTYLE
https://alcoholfreelifestyle.com/homepage

ANDREW HUBERMAN, HUBERMAN LAB
https://www.hubermanlab.com/podcast


ARE YOU A SOBER, SINGLE MAN LOOKING FOR DATING HELP? BOOK A
FREE CALL WITH CONNELL:

Apply to Work with Dating Coach Connell Barrett
http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact

GET CONNELL’S NO. 1 BESTSELLING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR PRACTICAL GUIDE ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND BY BEING RADICALLY AUTHENTIC: www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3

Quotes

"Take it from a sober dater: You don't need alcohol to confidently connect with women. You can get 'drunk' on your own authentic awesomeness."

Featured in the episode

Connell Barrett
Founder and Executive Coach of Dating Transformation
Website: https://datingtransformation.com
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation

Chapters

00:00 - Introduction
01:41 - Conquering Addictions: Alcohol and Pornography
03:18 - Life Implications: Dating Coach Grapples with Alcohol Dependence
09:03 - The Downside of Indulgence: Body Changes and Erectile Dysfunction
12:35 - Shifting Perspectives: Alcohol Recognized as Poison
15:50 - Impending Perils: The Future Impact of Harmful Behaviors
19:11 - Joy in Change: Celebrating Sobriety and Weight Loss at Birthday
23:19 - A Sober Night Out: Reclaiming Confidence Without Alcohol
26:41 - Empowering Change: Assisting Men Towards Alcohol Independence
30:04 - The Reality Check: Analyzing Addiction Costs and Recovery Benefits
31:21 - Substitute with Health: Replacing Harmful Habits with Beneficial Alternatives
34:25 - Awaiting Your Authentic Self: Your Dream Girl's Expectations
34:39 - Outro

Produced by Heartcast Media
https://www.heartcastmedia.com
15 Dating Tips in 15 Minutes!24 Oct 202300:28:28
We’re breaking the format in this episode as dating coach Connell Barrett knocks out not one, not two, but 15 (!!) quick dating tips in 15 minutes. You’re about to learn…

How to confidently approach, how to compliment women on dates, how to send a flirty opener on the apps, how to stop “running out of things to say,” how to get phone numbers the RIGHT way, how to flirt with lots of charm and zero creepiness, and a LOT more.

So listen now to get 15 practical tips in 15 hot minutes.

FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ALWAYS KNOW WHAT TO SAY TO WOMEN:

Apply to Work with Dating Coach Connell Barrett
http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact

GET CONNELL’S NO. 1 BESTSELLING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR PRACTICAL GUIDE ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND BY BEING RADICALLY AUTHENTIC: www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3

Quotes
"Approaching women is NOT creepy, as long as you do it with authenticity and good intentions."

Featured in the episode

Connell Barrett
Founder and Executive Coach of Dating Transformation
Website: https://datingtransformation.com
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation

Chapters

00:00 - Introduction
02:12 - Flirting Mastery: Immediate Approaches
04:31 - Genuine Attraction: Key to Connection
05:39 - Standing Out in the Crowd: Authentic Compliments that Elevate Your Charm
09:35 - The Art of Persistence: How the 3-Times Rule Facilitates Connection
11:52 - Key Strategies for Maintaining Engaging Conversation
12:55 - Authenticity: Lower Expectations, Share Stories
16:35 - Decoding Women's Signals: Assertive Approaches
17:39 - First Interaction: Nervous Yet Cool
20:48 - Joining Groups: Attract through Shared Interests
24:37 - Conversation Skills: Humor, Wit, and Authenticity
27:47 - Free Consultation: Dating Life Transformation
28:09 - Outro

Produced by Heartcast Media
https://www.heartcastmedia.com
5 Ways to Be More FUN with Women and Escape the Friend Zone20 Oct 202300:41:42
If you’re like most single guys, you’re not sure how to be fun on your dates or when talking with women you’re into. What do you say? How do you make her laugh? What if you seem boring and she loses interest? Sadly, if your date or conversation is dull, she won’t be attracted to you—and you’ll be missing out on romance.

So let’s amp up the fun factor.

In this episode of the Dating Transformation podcast, dating coach Connell Barrett shares 5 tools you can use to make your dates and conversations WAY more fun. Also, he’ll give you his No. 1 favorite game to play on a date, and it’s sure to get you both laughing and having a blast.

It’s time you STOP hearing women say “I just didn’t feel a spark” and START hearing them say, “Last night was fun! When can we go out again?” Listen now, because Cyndi Lauper was right: “Girls just wanna have fun.”

FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ALWAYS KNOW WHAT TO SAY TO WOMEN: http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact

GET CONNELL’S NO. 1 BESTSELLING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR PRACTICAL GUIDE ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND BY BEING RADICALLY AUTHENTIC:
www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3


Quotes

"Cyndi Lauper was right: Girls just wanna have fun. If she has fun with you on a date, she'll want to see you again."- Connell Barrett

Featured in the episode

Connell Barrett
Founder and Executive Coach of Dating Transformation
Website: https://datingtransformation.com
Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation

Chapters
00:00 - Introduction
01:45 - Creating Laughter and Fun for Unforgettable Moments
03:35 - Mastering the Art of Making Dates More Enjoyable
08:13 - Success Through a Playful Approach
12:25 - Focusing on Positivity and Meaningful Conversations
14:34 - Unlocking Romance Through Emotions and Passions
18:20 - From Boring to Exciting: The Power of Fun Topics
22:45 - Choosing Enjoyable First Date Activities
26:50 - Sparking Conversations with Fun First Date Questions
30:01 - The '5 Questions Game: Getting It All Wrong
33:46 - The Art of Pretending and Posing Questions
35:09 - Turning the Tables: Trick Questions and Victory
39:17 - Revealing Nature Through Trick Questions
40:40 - Fun Questions and Game Recommendations
41:23 - Outro
How to Use Emojis to Send Flirty Texts and Get Dates ;)23 Jun 202400:27:41
In this episode, dating coach Connell Barrett helps you fix 5 of the most frustrating dating problems men face. He shares texting secrets to help you STOP getting ghosted, reveals why women love nice guys (not “alpha males”), and shares his favorite move for going for the first kiss. Listen now!


FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ALWAYS KNOW WHAT TO SAY TO WOMEN: http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact


GET CONNELL’S NO. 1 BESTSELLING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR PRACTICAL GUIDE ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND BY BEING RADICALLY AUTHENTIC:
www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3


READ CONNELL’S 47 TIPS ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND:
http://www.datingtransformation.com/how-to-get-a-girlfriend
3 Dreaded First-Date Mistakes to Avoid, and What to Do Instead17 Oct 202300:25:14
Do you struggle to make sparks fly on first dates? Do you think it might be “creepy” to go for a first-date kiss? Do you TRY to be funny and interesting and cool, but you fall short… and women just don’t want to have another date?
Let’s fix this!

In this episode, dating coach Connell Barrett shares the three most common first-date mistakes that you’re making… and you don’t even know it. He also gives you the RIGHT three moves to correct things. And he shares an incredible client success story, about a guy who went from the Friend Zone on first dates to FIREWORKS. (Your jaw will drop.)

Listen now, so you can start having fun, sexy, connected first dates… and do it as your most confident, authentic self.

FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ALWAYS KNOW WHAT TO SAY TO WOMEN: http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact

GET CONNELL’S NO. 1 BESTSELLING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR PRACTICAL GUIDE ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND BY BEING RADICALLY AUTHENTIC: www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3

Quotes

"There's nothing wrong with fear, but there's something very wrong with cowardice. Sculpt a dating life of authenticity and courage, no cowardice allowed." -Connell Barrett

Featured in the episode

Connell Barrett
Founder and Executive Coach of Dating Transformation
Website: https://datingtransformation.com
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation

Chapters

00:00 - Introduction
02:40 - From Struggles to Coaching: Connell's Dating Journey
03:53 - Busting First Date Myths: The Quest for Truth
05:19 - Flirting Dos and Don'ts: Avoiding Surprises
06:06 - Bill's Journey: Overcoming the First Date Struggle
07:11 - Transforming Your Dating Life with Connell's Coaching
10:22 - First Kiss Realizations: Making Her Feel Desirable
11:01 - Deciphering Women's Desires: A Constant Interest
12:39 - Embracing Courage: Transforming Dating Fears
18:55 - The First Kiss and Deeper Connections
20:18 - Debunking First Date Myths: Quick Insights
24:05 - Impressing Women with Authenticity: The Key to Success
24:54 - Outro

Produced by Heartcast Media
https://www.heartcastmedia.com
For Dating Confidence, Unleash the Power of Radical Authenticity13 Oct 202300:26:34
You’re not sure what women want, or how to connect with them, right? Plus, there’s so much dating advice out there from so-called “experts” that you’re not sure what to do. Act like an “alpha male”? Be a nice guy? Wear a “man of mystery” mask?
You’re drowning in information, but you’re starved for wisdom. It’s confusing and frustrating.
Here’s the solution: Show women your best, most authentic self. Because girls like you for YOU!
In this episode, dating coach Connell Barrett shares the groundbreaking philosophy that his entire coaching empire is based on: Radical Authenticity. It’s all about awakening your most confident, attractive self, as you date with total integrity… and zero creepy “pickup” tricks. It’s how to make sparks fly with wonderful women.

Listen now, and unlock the power of Radical Authenticity…so you can find your dream girlfriend!
FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ALWAYS KNOW WHAT TO SAY TO WOMEN: http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact

GET CONNELL’S NO. 1 BESTSELLING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR PRACTICAL GUIDE ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND BY BEING RADICALLY AUTHENTIC: www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3


Quotes

"By being Radically Authentic with women, you become more confident, and you create genuine trust and connection." -Connell Barrett


Featured in the episode

Connell Barrett
Founder and Executive Coach of Dating Transformation
Website: https://datingtransformation.com
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation


Chapters

00:00 - Intro
00:56 - Authenticity: The Key to Dating Success
04:51 - From Awkward Jokes to Confidence: Emulating Seinfeld's George
05:48 - Authentic Dating: Exploring the 'Opposite' Approach
07:09 - Building Confidence: Attracting Your Dream Girlfriend
10:22 - Unleashing Dad Jokes and Cheeky Charm in Dating
11:09 - Bar Adventures: Teasing, Joking, and Kissing
15:11 - Embracing Authentic Moments: Not About Ego
24:42 - The Value of Being True to Yourself: A Formula for Success
13:01 - A 10-Minute Connection: The Power of Confidence
18:57 - Radical Authenticity: Attracting Women with Confidence
22:24 - Embracing Authenticity: Dropping the Masks in Dating
25:23 - Outro

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Use these 5 Escalation Secrets to Escape the Dreaded Friend Zone10 Oct 202300:24:55
You’ve probably had first dates that you thought went well, with good conversation and no awkward silences. And then when you ask her out again, she lowers the boom: “Hey, I just didn’t feel a spark. But we can be friends.” Or maybe she just ghosts you! It’s so frustrating.
Your problem? Odds are, you’re not “escalating” on dates in the 5 core ways that dial up romantic connection. If you don’t know these Escalation Secrets, you’ll likely struggle on dates and not even know why.

In this episode, dating coach Connell Barrett lays out the 5 Escalation Secrets you need on dates to stop hearing, “Let’s be friends” and start heading, “Let’s go out again!” You’re about to get the keys to escape the Friend Zone. Listen now!

FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ALWAYS KNOW WHAT TO SAY TO WOMEN: http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact

GET CONNELL’S NO. 1 BESTSELLING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR PRACTICAL GUIDE ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND BY BEING RADICALLY AUTHENTIC: www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3

Quotes

"Think of flirting on a date as a dance of connection. It's your job, not hers, to lead that dance." -Connell Barrett

Featured in the episode

Connell Barrett
Founder and Executive Coach of Dating Transformation
Website: https://datingtransformation.com
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation

Chapters

00:00 - Introduction
02:01 - Conscious Escalation: Navigating Romance in Dating
04:36 - Minimal Touch, Uncertain Connection: A Sensual Journey
08:26 - The Seductive Walk: Where Connection Begins
11:29 - Decisions in Dating: Verbal and Physical Escalation
13:55 - Escalating with Intent: Mastering the Five Date Escalators
16:17 - Tactics for Escalating Romance: The Art of Dating
19:58 - Learning from the Past: Evaluating Your Dating Choices
22:35 - Keys to Successful and Respectful Dating Escalation
24:35 - Outro

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How to Become a Man of Authentic Action… and Attract Your Soulmate06 Oct 202300:27:24
Do you feel stuck in your dating life? Would you like to approach beautiful women, but something holds you back? Do you consume dating tips on YouTube, but you’re STILL not “shooting your shot” with your types of women? Do you feel like the wheels of your love life are spinning in mud?
Here’s the problem: You’re trapped in Information Mode. And you need to get into Action Mode.
In this episode, dating coach Connell Barrett gives you a simple strategy to go from “stuck” to taking the right action and getting real dating momentum, so you can do things like approach attractive women, make moves on dates, and flirt with charm and confidence.
Listen now, and become a Man of Authentic Action.

FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ALWAYS KNOW WHAT TO SAY TO WOMEN: http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact

GET CONNELL’S NO. 1 BESTSELLING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR PRACTICAL GUIDE ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND BY BEING RADICALLY AUTHENTIC: www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3


Quotes

"For great dating results, you need to consume less information and take more action. As Shakespeare wrote, action is eloquence."-Connell Barrett’


Featured in the episode

Connell Barrett
Founder and Executive Coach of Dating Transformation
Website: https://datingtransformation.com
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation


Chapters

00:00 - Introduction
02:35 - Dating Game Mastery: Turning Conversations into Dates
03:42 - The Overrated Value of Information in Attraction
04:33 - Content vs. Courage: Navigating the Dating Dilemma
05:18 - Paul's Challenge: Moving from Consumption to Action
09:51 - Overcoming the 'Perfect Approach' Paralysis
13:29 - Embracing the 'A+ Approach' Mantra
14:56 - Dating Breakthroughs: Authentic Action and Interaction
19:24 - Meet Gerald: The Diligent Convention Note-Taker
21:21 - Conquering Excuses and Brain Sabotage
23:47 - Choosing Action Over Fear: Your Journey to Romance
25:04 - How My First Approach Changed Everything
25:45 - From Fear to Connection: Overcoming and Taking Action
27:04 - Outro

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The Power of Presence: 6 Ways to Get Out of Your Head and Flirt with Charm03 Oct 202300:32:14
You know what’s frustrating? When you’re talking to an attractive woman—say, on a date or at a social event—and you get stuck in your head. You overthink. You judge yourself. You worry, “What do we talk about next? What if I run out of things to say?” This hurts your confidence and leads to awkward conversations. Yikes.

Well, those days are over. It’s time to unleash the power of presence! Dating coach Connell Barrett has had over 1,000 dates, and in this episode of the Dating Transformation podcast, he unveils 6 tested moves to help you get out of your head and into the present moment… so you can have fun, flirty dates and stimulating conversations.

Listen now, and give her a present: your presence!

FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ALWAYS KNOW WHAT TO SAY TO WOMEN: http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact

GET CONNELL’S NO. 1 BESTSELLING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR PRACTICAL GUIDE ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND BY BEING RADICALLY AUTHENTIC: www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3

Quotes

"Lower the conversational bar when talking to women. You're just chatting, not doing standup comedy or a TED Talk." -Connell Barrett

Featured in the episode

Connell Barrett
Founder and Executive Coach of Dating Transformation
Website: https://datingtransformation.com
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation

Chapters

00:00 - Introduction
02:12 - The Science of Staying in the Moment
00:43 - Overcoming Overthinking When Talking to Women
03:06 - Impress Women on Dates with Confidence
08:37 - Simplify: Uncovering Your Natural Wit
11:10 - Authentic Conversations: Lowering the Pressure and Being Yourself
15:11 - Promote Positivity: Avoid Sharing Negative Thoughts and Feelings
19:44 - Engaging Conversation: Exploring the University of Texas
20:54 - Making Connections: The Impact of Active Listening
23:10 - Focus on Her Happiness in Dating
26:52 - Elevate Conversations with Backup Topics
28:08 - The Comfort of a Conversation Safety Net
31:17 - Outro

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Do THIS to Make Dating a Lot Less Painful and a Lot More Fun29 Sep 202300:22:52
Is dating just not fun for you? Do you judge yourself harshly after dates or interactions with women? Do you struggle with flirting and talking to cute girls, and you’re not improving?
Let’s get this handled! In this episode, dating coach Connell Barrett shares a simple mindset drill called the Coin of Self-Assessment. It’s a simple mental tip you can apply every day to make dating a LOT more fun, while helping you get better at flirting, approaching, and connecting on first dates.
Listen now, and flip the Coin of Self-Assessment, so you can stop hating dating, and start having more fun, more confidence, and more great dates.

FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ALWAYS KNOW WHAT TO SAY TO WOMEN: http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact

GET CONNELL’S NO. 1 BESTSELLING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR PRACTICAL GUIDE ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND BY BEING RADICALLY AUTHENTIC: www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3


Quotes

"Stop judging yourself. Be kind. With every date, you either win or you learn. And learning will lead you to love."-Connell Barrett


Featured in the episode

Connell Barrett
Founder and Executive Coach of Dating Transformation
Website: https://datingtransformation.com
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation


Chapters

00:00 - Introduction
03:19 - Flipping the Coin of Self-Assessment in Dating Interactions
04:38 - The Power of Positive Self-Assessment in Dating
06:09 - Confronting the Inner Critic: Battling Self-Judgment in Dating
07:30 - Boost Your Confidence and Improve Your Dating Life
11:45 - Conquering Self-Doubt: How I Overcame My Inner Critic in Dating
12:19 - One Game-Changing Tip for More Genuine Connections
15:18 - The Value of Self-Assessment: Unearthing Genuine Emotions
16:34 - Cultivating Positive Self-Perception in Dating
19:58 - Constructive Self-Assessment: A Crucial Lesson in Dating
22:33 - Outro

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The Magic Move to Get Quality Online-Dating Matches26 Sep 202300:31:59
Swiping and swiping. Lack of quality matches. Women who ghost. Fake accounts. Chances are, online-dating just doesn’t work for you. But it’s NOT because you’re unattractive.
It’s because you’re making a big dating-app mistake… and you’re not even aware of it! So let’s fix this.

In today’s episode, dating coach Connell Barrett reveals the truth about online-dating, so you can STOP swiping without success, and START getting matches and dates with wonderful women. If you want to turn your phone into a date-generating machine, listen now!

FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ALWAYS KNOW WHAT TO SAY TO WOMEN: http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact

GET CONNELL’S NO. 1 BESTSELLING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR PRACTICAL GUIDE ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND BY BEING RADICALLY AUTHENTIC: www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3


Quotes

"No fish photos allowed on your dating profile. She wants to date you, not the captain from 'Jaws."- Connell Barrett


Featured in the episode

Connell Barrett
Founder and Executive Coach of Dating Transformation
Website: https://datingtransformation.com
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation


Chapters

00:00 - Introduction
02:28 - Solving Online Dating Struggles: Tips and Tricks
05:59 - From Desperation to One Match: A Journey
09:03 - Rock Bottom as a Turning Point
09:52 - The Marketing Mindset: How Online Dating Really Works
11:16 - Dating App Gender Imbalance: Challenges for Men
15:06 - Southwest Airlines' Transparency and Marketing Insights
17:13 - Cracking the Code: How Women Navigate Dating Apps
19:43 - Tinder Filters: Women's Perspective
20:30 - Tinder Tips: Engaging with Photos and Bio
24:36 - Mastering Online Dating: The Power of Portraits
28:42 - Elevating Your Profile: Professional Dating Portraits
29:53 - Dress for Success: Outfit Choices in Online Dating
31:39 - Outro

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Use these 5 Moves for Great First Dates22 Sep 202300:27:58
First dates can be scary. Will she like you? Will you run out of things to say? Will there be awkward silences? Will she dump you for the cool bartender with the man bun? Questions, questions…

Fear not. Your host, dating coach Connell Barrett, has had more than 1,000 first dates. In this episode of the Dating Transformation podcast, he shares the 5 essential moves that he and his clients use to have great dates with wonderful women.

Stop going on lame dates and start making sparks fly. Listen now!

FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ALWAYS KNOW WHAT TO SAY TO WOMEN: http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact

GET CONNELL’S NO. 1 BESTSELLING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR PRACTICAL GUIDE ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND BY BEING RADICALLY AUTHENTIC:
www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3

Quotes

"Good texts before a date are like movie trailers -- they build buzz and get her excited for the main event."- Connell Barrett

Featured in the episode

Connell Barrett
Founder and Executive Coach of Dating Transformation
Website: https://datingtransformation.com
Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation

Chapters

00:00 - Introduction
00:55 - Transforming Lackluster First Dates into Spark-Filled Connections
04:19 - Unlocking the Art of Flirty Texting Before Your First Date
08:37 - Creating Excitement with Fun and Engaging Texts
11:45 - Building Anticipation: Preparing Her for a Memorable Date
14:26 - Light-hearted Delays: Turning Lateness into Playful Banter
16:29 - From Jackass to Awesome: How Vulnerable Stories Win Hearts
19:25 - "Opening Hearts: The Magic of Raw and Real Storytelling
23:10 - Fun and Connection: Games That Elevate First Dates
24:51 - The Magic of Eye Contact: Staring Contests and Romance
27:31 - Outro

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How to Become a Man of Action19 Sep 202300:29:06
You know what sucks worse than Mondays and paper cuts? Wanting to “make a move” with a woman you’re into and then freezing up. It’s frustrating.

You want to talk to that cutie at your gym, but you’re stuck in your head. You’d like to ask out your crush, but what if she says no? It’s frustrating, because you’re tired of being lonely, but you can’t seem to get going.

It’s time to stop spinning your wheels and start taking action! In this episode of the Dating Transformation podcast, Connell tells you how to harness the power of decisive action, so that you can make the kind of bold, attractive moves that women love.

Listen now to become a man of action… and find your future girlfriend!

FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ALWAYS KNOW WHAT TO SAY TO WOMEN: http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact

GET CONNELL’S NO. 1 BESTSELLING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR PRACTICAL GUIDE ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND BY BEING RADICALLY AUTHENTIC: www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3

Quotes

"To go from feeling lonely to finding love, use your secret weapon: decisive, courageous action"- Connell Barrett

Featured in the episode

Connell Barrett
Founder and Executive Coach of Dating Transformation
Website: https://datingtransformation.com
Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation

Chapters

00:00 - Introduction
01:20 - The Power of Decision: Overcoming Uncomfortable Actions
04:20 - Encouraging the Leap into Uncomfortable Territory
08:37 - The Power of Taking That First Step: James' Success Story
11:29 - James' Approach: Facing Discomfort Head-On
14:35 - Conquering Approach Anxiety for Fearless Dating
19:28 - How I Went from Shying Away to Taking Romantic Risks
22:49 - Redefining Dating: Stepping Up to Take Risks
24:52 - Dancing with Confidence: A Fearless Dating Experiment
26:22 - Fearless Dating: Making Decisions That Change Everything
28:46 - Outro

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Lip Service: 7 Ways to Confidently Go for the First Kiss15 Sep 202300:39:27
It’s the scariest moment of a date: Going for the first kiss. You probably don’t how to read her signals to know if you can kiss her. If you move in to lock lips too soon, you’ll creep her out. If you wait too long or don’t even try, hello, “friend zone.” Ouch!

And if your kiss attempt is awkward, she’ll likely reject you and give you the cheek… and there won’t be another date.

No worries—dating coach Connell Barrett can help. In this episode of the Dating Transformation podcast, Connell shares 7 tested ways to confidently go for—and get!—that first kiss with a woman, in a romantic way she’ll love. Plus, he reveals how to know when you have the green light make your move, as a true gentleman.

If you want your next date to end with a steamy make-out, then listen now!

FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ALWAYS KNOW WHAT TO SAY TO WOMEN:
http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact

GET CONNELL’S NO. 1 BESTSELLING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR PRACTICAL GUIDE ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND BY BEING RADICALLY AUTHENTIC: www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3

Quotes

“You likely won't lose her interest by going for a kiss and not getting it. You WILL lose if you want to kiss her but you let fear stop you from trying." - Connell Barrett

Featured in the episode

Connell Barrett
Founder and Executive Coach of Dating Transformation
Website: https://datingtransformation.com
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation

Chapters

00:00 – Introduction
01:46 - The First Kiss: Key to Progressing Romantically
03:26 - The Magic of First Kiss Moments in Dating
07:06 - Overcoming Doubt and Finding the Confidence to Kiss
08:54 - Regret and Redemption: Making Up for Missed Moments
12:19 - Turning Sparks into Flames: The First Kiss Strategy
14:44 - Reading Her Signals: When to Go for the Kiss
17:56 - Making the Right Move: When to Lean In
20:39 - Boldness Pays Off: The Impact of a Confident Kiss
25:19 - Going After What You Want: Doug's First Kiss Story
35:12 - Avoiding the Annoying Make-Out Couple Trap
37:16 - Balancing Passion and Temptation: The Kiss Frequency
39:07 - Outro

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How I Went from Dateless to Dating Wonderful Women! The Power of Radical Authenticity20 May 202400:41:29
Would you like to stop doubting yourself and start confidently connecting with wonderful women—without using sketchy pickup artist tricks? In this episode, dating coach Connell Barrett talks about the night that transformed his love life and his self-confidence. Are you ready to harness the power of your own Authenticity, flirt with charm, and find a wonderful woman who loves you for you? Then listen now!


FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ALWAYS KNOW WHAT TO SAY TO WOMEN: http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact


GET CONNELL’S NO. 1 BESTSELLING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR PRACTICAL GUIDE ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND BY BEING RADICALLY AUTHENTIC:
www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3


READ CONNELL’S 47 TIPS ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND:
http://www.datingtransformation.com/how-to-get-a-girlfriend


How to Charm Beautiful Women: 7 Simple Flirting Moves12 Sep 202300:28:31
There’s a good chance you struggle with what to say and how to flirt with women. You get stuck in your head. You doubt yourself. Maybe you fall into dreaded “interview mode” with a woman and interrogate her. The consequences? She either disappears, or she says, “You seem great, but I didn’t feel a spark.” Either way, she’s lost interest. And this can kill your confidence.

Never fear—7 new flirting moves are here! In this episode of the Dating Transformation podcast, dating coach Connell Barrett shares some of his favorite ways to make sparks fly with women, whether you’re on a first date, chatting at a social event, or texting your latest crush. Tired of getting stuck in the Friend Zone? Listen now and get in the Flirting Zone!

FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ALWAYS KNOW WHAT TO SAY TO WOMEN: http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact

GET CONNELL’S NO. 1 BESTSELLING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR PRACTICAL GUIDE ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND BY BEING RADICALLY AUTHENTIC:
www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3


Quotes

"Speak your deepest, most honest truth. Women love it when a man has the courage to be authentic." - Connell Barrett


Featured in the episode

Connell Barrett
Founder and Executive Coach of Dating Transformation
Website: https://datingtransformation.com
Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation


Chapters

00:00 – Introduction
01:06 - Attraction Mastery: Man to Woman Communication
03:21 - Navigating the Friend-to-Friend Channel on Dates
07:04 - Breaking Free from Transactional Interactions
10:06 - Unexpected Charm: When Wit Takes the Lead
14:01 - The Magic of Emotional Nakedness in Dating
18:10 - Playful Banter: Flipping the Seduction Script
22:02 - The Charismatic Pathway: Using Stories to Connect
24:52 - First Date Gold: Choosing the Right Embarrassing Story
26:53 - Your Best Dating Weapon: Self-Deprecating Stories
28:12 - Outro

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Use the “3 Times Rule” and Stop Getting Ghosted08 Sep 202300:37:33
So you’re texting a cool, cute girl, and then… silence. Tumbleweeds. She vanishes! It’s frustrating to get SO close to a date, only to have her disappear. It can feel devastating, like there’s something wrong with you—and make you want to delete the apps for good.

The good news? You can fix this! It’s time to STOP getting ghosted and START getting dates. How? Use the “3 Times Rule,” a simple, tested texting system that gets results. In this episode of the Dating Transformation podcast, dating coach Connell Barrett shows you how the “3 Times Rule” can get a girl to go from ghosting you to dating. So listen now.

FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ALWAYS KNOW WHAT TO SAY TO WOMEN: http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact

GET CONNELL’S NO. 1 BESTSELLING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR PRACTICAL GUIDE ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND BY BEING RADICALLY AUTHENTIC:
www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3


Quotes

"The 3 Times Rule will get attractive women to stop ghosting you and to start chasing you."- Connell Barrett


Featured in the episode

Connell BarrettFounder and Executive Coach of Dating Transformation
Website: https://datingtransformation.com
Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation


Chapters

00:00 - Introduction
02:01 - Ending Ghosting and Getting More Dates
06:59 - Navigating Rejection with Resilience in the Dating Scene
08:41 - Turning Setbacks into Comebacks
13:23 - The Art of Fun Approaching: A Story of Resilience
17:54 - The Crucial Role of Resilience in Dating and Life
20:02 - Gerald's Resilience: From Flat to Flirty
22:53 - Overcoming Addiction: A Client's Journey to Fitness
27:39 - Texting Challenges: Resilience and Charm in Dating
34:39 - The 'Three Strikes' Rule: Mastering Dating Persistence
37:14 - Outro

Produced by Heartcast Media
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Are You Man Enough to Be Feminine? How to Truly Connect with Women05 Sep 202300:31:15
You may think that women want a bold, brash “alpha male” to show her who’s boss. But think again! The truth is, women love men who are in touch with their feminine sides. Embracing that side of yourself doesn’t rob you of your masculine essence. It balances it, making you more complex, complete and attractive to women.

Yes, a “real man” approaches and makes moves. But he also empathizes, listens, and shows compassion for women.

In this episode of the Dating Transformation podcast, host Connell Barrett helps you smash out of the toxic “man box” you may be trapped in, so you can be free to express your most authentic, masculine and also feminine self.

It’s time to ignore toxic “pickup” creeps and embrace your best, most authentic self. Listen now!

FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ALWAYS KNOW WHAT TO SAY TO WOMEN: http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact

GET CONNELL’S NO. 1 BESTSELLING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR PRACTICAL GUIDE ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND BY BEING RADICALLY AUTHENTIC:
www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3

Quotes

“Vulnerability is being so unwilling to NOT look cool that a woman thinks, 'Wow, this guy is SO cool!' - Connell Barrett

Featured in the episode
Connell Barrett
Founder and Executive Coach of Dating Transformation
Website: https://datingtransformation.com
Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation

Chapters
00:20 - Introduction
03:03 - How Masculine and Feminine Energies Fuel Attraction
07:07 - The Dream Combo: Being Strong Yet Soft in Love and Life
09:43 - The Power of Kindness: Why Compassion is the New Sexy
12:37 - Beyond the Alpha Male Stereotype
14:29 - Why Women Love a Man of Many Sides
19:10 - The Courage to Not Care How Manly You Look
26:13 - Cultivating Emotional Depth in Relationships
21:08 - Coping With Disappointment and Finding Humor in It
30:56 - Outro
Risky Business: For Instant Confidence, Become a Bold Risktaker01 Sep 202300:26:47
Odds are, you’re making a BIG mistake with a woman and you don’t even know it: You’re playing it safe. Being timid. Not going for it.

Sure, you’re a nice guy and a true gentleman, and you don’t want to “creep women out.” That’s a good thing! But if you play it too safe in dating, you convey low confidence or come off as boring. And this repels women. Why? They don’t want a safe, timid guy. They want a confident risk taker. Hello, friend zone and rejection and loneliness.

Never fear—dating coach Connell Barrett is here. In this episode of the Dating Transformation podcast, Connell shares some simple secrets to being the kind of bold badass women ache to date… no weird pickup tricks needed! Listen now, to go from playing it safe to confidently attracting wonderful women. You’re about to become a Romantic Risktaker.

FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ALWAYS KNOW WHAT TO SAY TO WOMEN: http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact

GET CONNELL’S NO. 1 BESTSELLING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR PRACTICAL GUIDE ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND BY BEING RADICALLY AUTHENTIC:
www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3


Quotes

"Playing it safe is great for buying stocks or choosing a doctor. But if you want to attract incredible women, you must become a risk taker." - Connell Barrett


Featured in the episode

Connell Barrett
Founder and Executive Coach of Dating Transformation
Website: https://datingtransformation.com
Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation


Chapters

00:00 - Introduction
02:54 - Unlocking Connection: The Shift That Made All the Difference
07:04 - The Transformative Power of Commitment in Love
08:07 - Building Connection Through Giving and Asking
09:32 - Playing the Full Game: What LeBron Can Teaches About Love
11:42 - Learning to Lead with Assertiveness
13:53 - Piloting Through Love: The Highs and Lows of Risk
15:42 - How to Stop Overthinking and Start Approaching
18:11 - Why 'Risking It' Is Your Safest Bet in Dating
21:08 - The Cost of Not Taking the Next Step
23:40 - Authenticity as the Ultimate Risk: When Being You Pays Off
26:27 - Outro

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“How Do I Get More Dates on the Apps?” Your online-dating questions answered!29 Aug 202300:40:31
It’s another installment of “Ask the Dating Coach!” This week, your host Connell Barrett helps you solve your trickiest online-dating problems. Today’s questions include: “How long should I text a girl on an app before I ask her out?”, “Should I boost my profile, or is that a waste of money?”, “What’s a smooth way to ask for her digits?” And much more.
Yes, online-dating is challenging, and you’re probably struggling in some areas. But Connell has ALL the answers. (Got a question for him? Email him at Connell@datingtransformation.com.)
It’s time to STOP swiping without luck, and START getting quality matches and dates every week. Listen now!
FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ALWAYS KNOW WHAT TO SAY TO WOMEN:
http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact
GET CONNELL’S NO. 1 BESTSELLING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR PRACTICAL GUIDE ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND BY BEING RADICALLY AUTHENTIC:
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Quotes

"On the apps, it's better to have great photos and mediocre texting skills than great texting skills and mediocre photos." -Connell Barrett


Featured in the episode

Connell Barrett
Founder and Executive Coach of Dating Transformation
Website: https://datingtransformation.com
Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation


Chapters

00:00 - Introduction
03:15 - Navigating Dating: Quality Over Quantity
05:17 - Unveiling the Texting-Profile Connection
08:07 - Building Connection Through Giving and Asking
10:13 - Texting Turn Offs: Avoiding the Over asking Trap
11:09 - How to Avoid Common Pitfalls in Dating Apps
13:48 - The Sweet Spot: Striking a Balance in Asking Her Out
15:35 - The Dos and Don'ts of Taking It Offline
24:08 - Navigating the First Week After Getting Her Number
31:17 - The Profile Makeover: Crafting a Winning Online Dating Persona
36:17 - Decoding Match Ratios in Online Dating
40:12 - Outro

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Revealed! The 4 Pillars of Instant Dating Confidence25 Aug 202300:36:33
Do you lack dating confidence? Do you feel that women of a certain beauty are out of your league? Do you struggle with what to say to girls and how to flirt? It’s frustrating, especially when you see other, more outgoing guys dating the kinds of women you’d LOVE to be with.
Let’s fix this! The great news? EVERY woman is attracted to confidence, and today you’re going to take yours to a whole new level. In this episode of the Dating Transformation podcast, host Connell Barrett shares the 4 Pillars of Dating Confidence. Use these four practical steps to feel more attractive and magnetic than ever. It’s time to stop doubting yourself and start dating amazing women.

Listen now and transform your confidence!

FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ALWAYS KNOW WHAT TO SAY TO WOMEN: http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact

GET CONNELL’S NO. 1 BESTSELLING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR PRACTICAL GUIDE ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND BY BEING RADICALLY AUTHENTIC: www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3


Quotes

"Confidence is like chocolate, money, and fresh air: You can never have too much of it."- Connell Barrett


Featured in the episode

Connell Barrett
Founder and Executive Coach of Dating Transformation
Website: https://datingtransformation.com
Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation


Chapters

00:00 - Introduction
01:22 - Empower YourDating Journey: The 4 Pillars of Confidence
03:34 - Dating Beyond Doubt: Unleashing Your Worth
07:32 - Redefining Attraction: Embracing Your Unique Self
08:58 - Belief in Action: Driving Towards Dating Success
12:42 - Defying Stereotypes: Embrace Your Unique Qualities
15:53 - Empowering Self-Image: Embrace Your Authentic Worth
18:40 - The Power of Vulnerability: Connecting Authentically
24:16 - Building Abundance: Elevate Your Dating Options
28:36 - Thriving with Dating Abundance Mindset
31:17 - Letting Go of Outcome and Embracing Process
34:31 - Dating with Certainty: Letting Confidence Lead the Way
26:13 - Outro

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How to Flirt with Women: the Wrong Way (DON’T do this) and the Right Way!22 Aug 202300:30:06
Chances are, you struggle with how to talk to women. You’re just not sure the right way to flirt or what to say, and you get stuck in your head. Or perhaps you come across as boring or not charismatic. And women just don’t seem to feel romantic sparks with you. It’s frustrating!
You’re in luck. In this episode of the Dating Transformation podcast, dating coach Connell Barrett shares the two BIGGEST mistakes that men make when trying to flirt with women. (Make sure you’re not doing them!) He also shares the RIGHT way to flirt with women, and how to do it with natural confidence and authenticity, to create real connections.

FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ALWAYS KNOW WHAT TO SAY TO WOMEN:
http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact

GET CONNELL’S NO. 1 BESTSELLING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR PRACTICAL GUIDE ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND BY BEING RADICALLY AUTHENTIC:
www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3


Quotes

"When you flirt with true authenticity, you're giving women the gift that they most want: the real, best you!".-Connell Barrett


Featured in the episode

Connell Barrett
Founder and Executive Coach of Dating Transformation
Website: https://datingtransformation.com
Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation


Chapters

00:00 - Introduction
01:48 - The Right and Wrong Ways to Communicate with Women
03:02 - Waiter Persona: Navigating Over-the-Top Communication
06:43 - The Power of Being Present and Genuine
09:24 - Avoiding Supplicating Pitfalls: Mastering Dating Channels
13:20 - Authentic Attraction: Beyond Supplication and Cockiness
17:48 - Genuine Connection over Performative Acts
19:14 - The Power of Vulnerability: Connecting Authentically
21:12 - Real Talk: Forging Genuine Bonds in Dating
23:10 - Building Trust: Authenticity and Shit Detectors
24:38 - Breaking Barriers: Honesty and Connection in Dating
26:19 - Story Swapping: Crafting Memorable Conversations
29:47 - Outro


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11 Ways to Make Dating Fun & Get More Dates NOW15 Aug 202300:33:21
Rejection… ghosting… not knowing what to say… low confidence. Man, dating can suck! But it doesn’t have to. What if you had simple, tested moves to not only flirt with wonderful women, but to also ENJOY dating?

It’s true—looking for love can be fun! In this episode of the Dating Transformation podcast, dating coach Connell Barrett shares his “happiness blueprint”—a new way to have fun on the singles scene, whether you want more matches on the apps, flirty conversations with desirable women, or steely self-confidence when you talk to your crush. Listen now and give women what they REALLY want: a feel-good experience with your most attractive, authentic self.

FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ALWAYS KNOW WHAT TO SAY TO WOMEN: http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact

GET CONNELL’S NO. 1 BESTSELLING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR PRACTICAL GUIDE ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND BY BEING RADICALLY AUTHENTIC:
www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3
Ask the Dating Coach! “Help! How Do I Stop Getting Friend Zoned on First Dates?”11 Aug 202300:38:02
We open up the “Ask the Dating Coach” mailbag to help you solve your most vexing dating questions. “How do I flirt over text?” “How do I stop getting friend-zoned on first dates?” “Why do women not reply to my openers?” “How do I stop fearing rejection so I can confidently approach?” And more. Dating coach Connell Barrett has fixes to all of these problems, so you can take your dating life to the next level. Listen now!

FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ALWAYS KNOW WHAT TO SAY TO WOMEN: http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact

GET CONNELL’S NO. 1 BESTSELLING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR PRACTICAL GUIDE ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND BY BEING RADICALLY AUTHENTIC:
www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3

Quotes

"When flirting with your crush, don't be too sexual too soon. Be a charming PG-rated rom-com, not Cinemax After Dark."- Connell Barrett

"Text flirting is an art. Use humor, intrigue, and teasing to create a magnetic connection that keeps her engaged and excited." Connell Barret

Featured in the episode

Connell Barrett
Founder and Executive Coach of Dating Transformation
Website: https://datingtransformation.com
Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation

Chapters:
00:22 - Introduction
01:20 - The Flirting Dilemma: Expert Tips to Break the Silence
03:17 - The Science of Friendly and Flirty Communication
08:04 - Flirting 101: Clarity Over Cleverness
09:51 - Openers That Work: Captivating Her Attention with Words
11:21 - PG and G-Rated: Navigating the Flirting Spectrum
14:02 - Navigating the Line: Joking Without Crossing Boundaries
15:43 - Sending the Right Image to Spark Interest
18:48 - Adding Playful Bragging to Your Text Flirting
20:23 - Mastering the Emojiverse: Crafting Memorable Flirty Texts
23:36 - How Your Voice Elevates Flirty Conversations
25:19 - Voice Notes: Unlocking Self-Confidence and Dating Success
30:23 - Cracking the Code of Escaping the Friend Zone
32:33 - Confidence through Posture: The Masculine Stance
37:43 - Outro
How to Make Her Your Girlfriend, in 7 Easy Moves08 Aug 202300:30:18
So you’ve been dating an incredible woman (YES! You deserve it!). But you’re not sure how to go from “just dating” to “boyfriend-girlfriend”? Should you bring it up, or should she? How many dates until you suggest being a couple? What if she turns you down? Could you end up losing her? It’s confusing.

When you feel you’ve found The One, it helps to have a plan. In this episode of the Dating Transformation podcast, dating coach Connell Barrett give you the playbook to turn the wonderful woman you’re seeing into your romantic partner. How? He shares 7 simple moves to go from “seeing each other” to “loving, connected relationship.” Listen now!

FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ALWAYS KNOW WHAT TO SAY TO WOMEN: http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact

GET CONNELL’S NO. 1 BESTSELLING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR PRACTICAL GUIDE ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND BY BEING RADICALLY AUTHENTIC:
www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3

Quotes

"If you want an awesome woman in your life, you need an awesome life into which to invite her."- Connell Barrett

"But when you settle, you miss out on finding the right person. So just don't settle."- Connell Barrett

Featured in the episode
Connell Barrett
Founder and Executive Coach of Dating Transformation
Website: https://datingtransformation.com
Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation

Chapters
00:05 - Introduction
05:46 - Transition to Exclusive Dating: Richard's Success
06:23 - Confidence for Dream Girlfriends
07:23 - Timing Matters: When to Commit to Your Ideal Partner
09:25 - Aligning Life Goals: Building a Strong Foundation
10:22 - The Path to Your Girlfriend: Embrace Your Standards
17:10 - The Key to Attracting the Right Partner
18:32 - Confidence in Action: Taking Charge in Small Ways
20:47 - The Manly Side: Acts of Protection and Care
24:28 - Timing and Location: Choosing the Perfect Setting
27:17 - Seeking Fulfillment: Embracing Meaningful Connections
28:56 - Giving and Growing with Your Partner29:59 - Outro
10 Flirty Questions to Ask Women When You Approach15 May 202400:25:37
Not knowing what to say is the biggest thing that stops you from approaching women in bars, coffee shops, or at your gym. And if you talk to women sometimes, do you flirt correctly? Or do you come off as boring, or even creepy? It’s hard to know! In this episode of the Dating Transformation podcast, dating coach Connell Barrett gives you 10 flirty questions to ask women when you approach, so you can confidently know exactly what to say when you approach… and get numbers and dates. Listen now! And remember to approach with AUTHENTICITY! Because women like you for you.



FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ALWAYS KNOW WHAT TO SAY TO WOMEN: http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact



GET CONNELL’S NO. 1 BESTSELLING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR PRACTICAL GUIDE ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND BY BEING RADICALLY AUTHENTIC:
www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3



READ CONNELL’S 47 TIPS ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND:
http://www.datingtransformation.com/how-to-get-a-girlfriend



Quotes

"Syncing with emotions is key. It's about embracing the emotional wavelength—fun and playfulness intertwined." -Connell Barnett

“Genuine connections thrive when you show interest in understanding her true self."- Connell Barnett


Featured in the episode
Connell BarrettFounder and Executive Coach of Dating Transformation
Website:https://datingtransformation.com
Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation


Chapters
00:00 - Introduction
01:53 - Mastering Interaction with 10 Key Questions
03:35 - The Key to Engagement06:58 - Love Life Transformation
12:26 - Inquiring About Her Company
13:37 - Turning Misunderstandings Around
17:09 - Breaking Stereotypes
21:54 - Positive Work Inquiries: Elevating Conversations
23:19 - Boosting Attraction Levels25:18 - Outro 

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The Right Way to Approach Women, with Confidence and Charm04 Aug 202300:26:46
You often see intriguing women in bars, cafes, or at the gym, and you WANT to talk to them, but fear holds you back. You think, “What if I creep her out? What if she rejects me?” This anxiety feels paralyzing, and is costing you confidence and romance.

Real talk: If you can’t walk up to a woman and flirt, you have room to grow as a man. So… let’s fix it!

In this episode of the Dating Transformation podcast, dating coach Connell Barrett shares the No. 1 way to approach women in a confident way that gets GREAT reactions. He also shatters a HUGE myth about approaching, so you can start meeting and dating some wonderful women, and do it with authenticity and integrity. Listen now!

FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ALWAYS KNOW WHAT TO SAY TO WOMEN: http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact

GET CONNELL’S NO. 1 BESTSELLING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR PRACTICAL GUIDE ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND BY BEING RADICALLY AUTHENTIC:
www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3

Quotes

"You should approach women the way you approach life: with authenticity, courage, and empathy for women. Women love courageous, authentic, empathetic men"- Connell Barrett

"You gotta fully commit, be vulnerable, and always be authentic. Put your real, authentic self out there, and that's the best way to spark and interact."- Connell Barrett

Featured in the episode
Connell Barrett
Founder and Executive Coach of Dating Transformation
Website: https://datingtransformation.com
Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation

Chapters
00:36 - Introduction
01:29 - Fearless Approach: Expanding Dating Options
03:18 - Embracing Rejection: Full Commitment in Approaching
09:30 - Positive Encounters: Power of Smiles and Greetings
11:51 - Embrace the Risk: Safe Approaching Strategies
12:38 - Apologies vs. Confidence: The Impact on Approaching
14:40 - From Great Conversations to Bold Actions
16:24 - Authentic Connections: Taking Safe Risks
19:04 - Unleash Your Character: Maximum Fun at Nightclub
21:26 - Quick Connections: Getting Her Number in 10 Minutes
22:35 - Outro
8 Tested Tips to Escape “Interview Mode” on Dates and Create a Connection01 Aug 202300:31:54
Have you ever fallen into “interview mode”? That’s when you ask your date lots of boring questions (“How was your day? What’s your job? How many siblings do you have?”) that lead to bad dates. Instead of connecting with her, you interrogate her. And there’s no second date because she “just didn’t feel a connection.”

Interview mode is frustrating, but you can fix it… TODAY! In this episode of the Dating Transformation podcast, dating coach Connell Barrett shares 8 tested tips to help you become magnetic to your next date, so you can spark a romantic, authentic connection… and get her asking YOU questions.

Listen now, to make your next date great.

FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ALWAYS KNOW WHAT TO SAY TO WOMEN: http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact

GET CONNELL’S NO. 1 BESTSELLING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR PRACTICAL GUIDE ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND BY BEING RADICALLY AUTHENTIC:
www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3

Quotes

"It's OK to ask her questions on first date. Just ask the RIGHT questions, or else you'll bore her, and there will be no second date."- Connell Barrett

"Be true to yourself and find the emotional connections we all share. We have more in common than we realize"- Connell Barrett

Featured in the episode
Connell Barrett
Founder and Executive Coach of Dating Transformation
Website: https://datingtransformation.com
Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation

Chapters
00:00 - Introduction
00:47 - Breaking Free from the Interrogation Mode
02:40 - Overcoming Interview Mode Misconceptions
07:18 - Creating a Connection on the First Date
11:18 - The Art of Asking Good Questions on Dates
18:17 - Bonding through Shared Passions
22:10 - Teasing Playfully: Sharing Concert Experiences
23:49 - Connecting through Childhood Tales
26:00 - Asking Game-Changing Questions on First Dates
27:21 - Building Trust and Connection: The Power of Questions
27:53 - Outro
The 5 Super Shifts to Gain Confidence and Start Attracting Wonderful Women28 Jul 202300:28:54
If you’re like most single men, you doubt your attractiveness to women. You think you’re not handsome enough or not tall enough or not outgoing enough—not SOMETHING enough—to connect with cool, cute girls. This hurts your confidence, costs you dates, and just bums you out.

The great news? Today you can stop doubting yourself and start dating wonderful women. In this episode of the Dating Transformation podcast, dating coach Connell Barrett shares the 5 Super Shifts to help you banish doubt and confidently attract the kinds of women you’re into… and find a great girlfriend!

Are you ready to have FUN while dating, and make romantic connections with desirable women? Listen now, and use the 5 Super Shifts to attract your soulmate, and do it with authenticity and confidence.

FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ALWAYS KNOW WHAT TO SAY TO WOMEN: http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact

GET CONNELL’S NO. 1 BESTSELLING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR PRACTICAL GUIDE ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND BY BEING RADICALLY AUTHENTIC:
www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3

Quotes

"You may not know how attractive you are to a LOT of wonderful women, but you are enough! Before a woman buys into that, you have to."- Connell Barrett

"Embrace fear, harness its power, and let it drive action in your romantic life."- Connell Barrett

Featured in the episode
Connell Barrett
Founder and Executive Coach of Dating Transformation
Website: https://datingtransformation.com
Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation

Chapters
00:14 - Introduction
04:19 - Building Confidence in Romantic Pursuits
05:56 - Flirting with Charm: Mastering the Art of Romantic Connections
07:31 - Overcoming Limiting Beliefs: How They Impact Your Dating Success
09:52 - The Power of Beliefs: Shaping Your Reality and Confidence
16:35 - Embracing Your Awesomeness and Focusing on What You Want
17:42 - Building Confidence: Embracing Your Worth in Dating
18:52 - Rituals for Romantic Success: Daily Commitment to Your Goals
22:35 - Fear & Failure: The Road to Dating Success
24:08 - Transforming Your Love Life with Conviction
27:12 - Achieving Dating Triumph through Persistence
28:34 - Outro
Do THIS to Be Fun and Flirty on Dates + 5 More Myths Busted25 Jul 202300:33:22
Don’t you hate it when you meet an attractive woman and you want SO badly to be funny, witty, charming… but you spend the whole date “stuck in your head”? There are awkward silences, and you can tell she’s not that into you. Odds are, you’re making a common mistake that’s keeping you from being your most confident, witty, authentic self. Let’s fix this!

In today’s episode of the Dating Transformation podcast, dating coach Connell Barrett smashes another five myths that are hurting your confidence, and shares the one thing you need to do on your next date to be fun and flirty, and get her into you. Listen now!

FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ALWAYS KNOW WHAT TO SAY TO WOMEN: http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact

GET CONNELL’S NO. 1 BESTSELLING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR PRACTICAL GUIDE ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND BY BEING RADICALLY AUTHENTIC:
www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3

Quotes

"Women don't put men in the Friend Zone. We do it to yourselves! How? By being inauthentic and talking to women like Platonic Pals."."- Connell Barrett

"Rejection is crucial for growth; it doesn't define your worth." - Connell Barrett

Featured in the episode
Connell Barrett
Founder and Executive Coach of Dating Transformation
Website: https://datingtransformation.com
Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation

Chapters
00:13 - Introduction
01:30 - Escaping the Friend Zone Trap: Dating Myth Busted
03:28 - Friend to Friend: Mastering Communication
04:48 - Emotional & Romantic Expressions in Dating
07:30 - Playful Teasing and Authentic Dating
09:52 - Leveraging Your Verbal Abilities with Ease
14:08 - Sexual Liberation vs. Emotional Growth
16:05 - Beyond the Alpha Male: Redefining Masculinity in Dating
23:32 - Embracing Rejection as a Pathway to Personal Growth
24:31 - Craving Specialness: Understanding Our Psyche
30:31 - Mastering Rejection with Brunch Table Perspective
33:02 - Outro
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