What if something you’ve always called “just who I am” began as a way to protect yourself?
In this episode of Called to Be Seen, I sit down with Jen Horling, founder of The Overcomers Movement, to explore the beliefs we carry through grief, the roles we learn to play, and the possibility of discovering ourselves beyond them.
After losing her father to suicide during her first week of college, Jen faced painful questions about identity and belonging. She shares how faith, quiet time with God, mentorship, and community helped her begin understanding herself differently.
At the heart of her story is a conviction that shapes her work: Identity before destiny.
Together, we explore:
• What Jen calls a “survival code”—and how she began recognizing it in her own life.
• Questioning familiar patterns without judging the version of you that needed them.
• The tension between trying to control your future and practicing surrender.
• Creating space to hear God amid expectations and outside opinions.
• How being believed in can help you become willing to be seen.
• Finding meaning in chapters you once wished you could erase.
If you’ve been asking who you are beyond what you’ve been through, this conversation offers room to explore that question with honesty and faith.
What beliefs about yourself are you ready to look at again?
Content note: This conversation includes discussion of suicide loss and grief.
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