Explore every episode of the podcast Youth Soccer Podcast
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| #23 - The Dark Arts of Soccer: The Forbidden Skills Nobody Wants To Discuss | 23 Jul 2026 | 00:24:25 | |
In this episode we explore the controversial topic of the dark arts in soccer, discussing what they are, how players use them, and whether they should be taught to young players. We emphasize the importance of understanding these tactics to succeed and how to deal with them effectively. Free Parent Starter Pack: https://pauljspacey.com/podcast (get the info coaches won't openly tell you) - Get In Touch Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/pauljgspacey Twitter: https://x.com/PaulSpacey YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@paulspacey Email: https://pauljspacey.com/contact-3/ - Chapters 00:00 Introduction to the Dark Arts in Soccer 01:46 Common Tactics: Shirt Pulling and Holding 03:55 Top Level Play and Discreet Tactics 05:50 VAR and Referee Oversight 08:05 Argentina and Boundary-Pushing in the Dark Arts 10:10 Learning the Dark Arts: Advantage and Disadvantage 12:06 Teaching Young Players About the Dark Arts 13:38 Provocation and Gamesmanship 14:59 Is Learning the Dark Arts Cheating? 17:03 Winning Without the Dark Arts 18:50 Fairness, Competition, and Reality in Sports 21:45 Teaching Kids to Deal with Physical Play 23:59 Conclusion and Final Thoughts | |||
| #22 - The Belief Gap: How to Build the Mental Strength That Unlocks Your Kid's True Potential | 17 Jul 2026 | 00:17:05 | |
In this episode, we explore the psychological aspects of soccer, emphasizing belief, mentality, and resilience. We discusses how confidence, delusion, and experience in tough situations are crucial for success both on and off the field. Free Parent Starter Pack: https://pauljspacey.com/podcast (get the info coaches won't openly tell you) - Get In Touch Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/pauljgspacey Twitter: https://x.com/PaulSpacey YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@paulspacey Email: https://pauljspacey.com/contact-3/ - Chapters 00:00 Introduction to the psychological aspects of soccer 00:34 The importance of belief and mentality in soccer 01:25 US and England World Cup exit - psychological parallels 02:00 Fear and nerves affecting player performance 03:28 The manner of exit and fan disappointment 04:26 England's mentality post-Argentina game 05:10 Argentina's belief and arrogance as winners 07:38 The mentality of respecting opponents vs. fearing them 08:34 Balancing confidence and arrogance in young players 11:07 Helping kids develop confidence through delusion 14:30 The role of adversity and tough experiences 17:33 Building resilience and dealing with difficult emotions | |||
| #21 - Why the Offside Rule Can’t Die + Other World Cup Questions Answered | 24 Jun 2026 | 00:23:29 | |
In this episode, we explore your World Cup questions including the offside law, diving, the rise of smaller nations and more. Free Parent Starter Pack: https://pauljspacey.com/podcast (get the info coaches won't openly tell you) - Get In Touch Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/pauljgspacey Twitter: https://x.com/PaulSpacey YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@paulspacey Email: https://pauljspacey.com/contact-3/ - Chapters 00:00The Offside Rule: A Necessary Strategy 01:47 Embellishment in Soccer: The Dark Arts 05:08 The Rise of Smaller Nations in Soccer 09:04 Quarter Breaks: A Disruption to the Game 12:11 Japan's Soccer Development: A Model for Success 15:57 Messi's Dominance: Talent Beyond the League 17:29 The World Cup Question: Can the USA Win? 22:43 Analyzing Team Strengths and Weaknesses 23:07 Introduction to Direct Access Coaching | |||
| #20 - The Harsh Truth Parents Need to Hear About Youth Soccer | 25 May 2026 | 00:23:48 | |
In this episode, Paul discusses the realities of youth soccer coaching, parental pressures, club hopping, and the importance of honesty and character development in young athletes. He offers practical insights for parents, coaches, and players to navigate the youth sports landscape effectively. Free Parent Starter Pack: https://pauljspacey.com/podcast (get the info coaches won't openly tell you) - Get In Touch Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/pauljgspacey Twitter: https://x.com/PaulSpacey YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@paulspacey Email: https://pauljspacey.com/contact-3/ - Chapters 00:00 Introduction to Youth Soccer Challenges 02:07 Understanding Burnout in Young Athletes 04:18 The Role of Pressure in Development 05:19 The Impact of Club Hopping 07:14 Parental Influence on Player Performance 09:31 Balancing Realistic Expectations and Opportunities 12:05 Factors Influencing Player Development Decisions 16:12 Parental Pressure and Player Motivation 19:10 The Ethics of Youth Soccer Coaching | |||
| #19 - Tryouts, Position Changes & Starting Late In Soccer | 18 May 2026 | 00:29:20 | |
This episode features expert insights on youth soccer development, addressing common questions from parents and players. Topics include training outside of practice, the importance of volume and quality in practice, late starters, and navigating club soccer challenges. Free Parent Starter Pack: https://pauljspacey.com/podcast (get the info coaches won't openly tell you) - Get In Touch Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/pauljgspacey Twitter: https://x.com/PaulSpacey YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@paulspacey Email: https://pauljspacey.com/contact-3/ - Chapters 00:00 Navigating Youth Soccer Tryouts 02:46 The Importance of Volume and Quality in Practice 06:19 Starting Late in Soccer: Is It Worth It? 08:05 Confronting Coaches: Communication in Youth Soccer 10:00 Position Changes: Learning Opportunities for Players 16:08 The Role of Coaches in Developing Players 19:14 Specialization vs. Multi-Sport Participation 23:01 Reaching Out to College Coaches 25:38 The Debate on Specialization in Soccer 28:58 Introduction to Direct Access Coaching | |||
| #18 - The Multi-Sport Myth: Why Playing Everything Is Killing Your Kid’s Soccer Future | 03 Apr 2026 | 00:08:15 | |
This episode explores the impact of multi-sport participation on soccer development, emphasizing the importance of specialized training during key developmental years. It discusses how early specialization in soccer can enhance technical skills and prevent gaps that hinder future success. Free Parent Starter Pack: https://pauljspacey.com/podcast (get the info coaches won't openly tell you) - Get In Touch Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/pauljgspacey Twitter: https://x.com/PaulSpacey YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@paulspacey Email: https://pauljspacey.com/contact-3/ - Chapters 00:00 The Impact of Multi-Sport Participation on Soccer Development 02:16 Technical Development and the Importance of Early Specialization 04:55 Addressing Common Misconceptions About Multi-Sport Athletes 07:09 Conclusion and Call to Action for Parents | |||
| #17 - The Real IQ War: Why Soccer Brains Crush NFL Minds | 11 Feb 2026 | 00:06:08 | |
In this episode, Paul addresses social media comments and questions from the previous episode about America's best athletes, focusing on the comparison between American football and soccer. The discussion highlights the differences in athleticism, mental aspects, player roles, and cultural perspectives in both sports, ultimately advocating for a more team-oriented approach in U.S. soccer. Free Parent Starter Pack: https://pauljspacey.com/podcast (get the info coaches won't openly tell you) - Get In Touch Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/pauljgspacey Twitter: https://x.com/PaulSpacey YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@paulspacey Email: https://pauljspacey.com/contact-3/ - Chapters 00:00 Debunking Myths About America's Best Athletes 01:19 The Athleticism vs. IQ Debate 04:26 Cultural Perspectives on Soccer and Individualism | |||
| #16 - The Big Lie: Why America's Best Athletes Don't Play Soccer (And Why It Doesn't Matter) | 06 Feb 2026 | 00:09:32 | |
In this episode, Paul challenges the common belief that America would excel in soccer if only its best athletes participated. He argues that this notion is a lazy excuse and delves into the complexities of soccer as a sport that requires more than just athleticism. The discussion highlights the importance of coaching, the need for a meritocratic system, and the role of game IQ in developing world-class players. Paul also compares the US women's soccer team's past dominance with the current global landscape. Free Parent Starter Pack: https://pauljspacey.com/podcast (get the info coaches won't openly tell you) - Get In Touch Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/pauljgspacey Twitter: https://x.com/PaulSpacey YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@paulspacey Email: https://pauljspacey.com/contact-3/ - Chapters 00:00 Debunking the Athleticism Myth in Soccer 01:00 US Women's Soccer vs. Global Competitors 02:09 American Sports Player Data 04:07 MLS Players & 3Four3 Coaching 05:04 U.S. Soccer History & Christian Pulisic 06:55 NFL Players Switching to Soccer 08:21 Closed Leagues & Pro/Rel | |||
| #15 - How To Help Your Kid Be A Top 1% Soccer Player | 03 Feb 2026 | 00:13:30 | |
Want to learn how to help your kid become a top 1% player by age 10? This episode delves into the critical issue of early engagement in youth soccer development, emphasizing the importance of establishing a solid foundation early on and the advantages of teaching players to use both feet effectively. The discussion highlights how these elements contribute to the success of players and the overall growth of soccer in the top countries. Free Parent Starter Pack: https://pauljspacey.com/podcast (get the info coaches won't openly tell you) - Get In Touch Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/pauljgspacey Twitter: https://x.com/PaulSpacey YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@paulspacey Email: https://pauljspacey.com/contact-3/ - Chapters 00:00 The Importance of Early Engagement in Soccer 03:01 Building a Foundation: Birth to Five Years 07:57 The Role of Neuroplasticity in Development 10:04 Why Early Engagement Matters 13:08 Resources for Further Learning 13:22 Closing Remarks and Future Episodes | |||
| #14 - Player Communication: How To Improve On & Off The Field | 31 Jan 2026 | 00:10:30 | |
In this episode, Paul discusses the critical role of communication in youth soccer, emphasizing the need for players to improve their verbal and non-verbal communication skills both on and off the field. He provides actionable advice for players to build confidence through simple practices, such as using teammates' names, making eye contact, and engaging in conversations. The episode also highlights the importance of challenging coaches respectfully and the impact of non-verbal cues in effective communication. - Get In Touch Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/pauljgspacey Twitter: https://x.com/PaulSpacey YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@paulspacey Email: https://pauljspacey.com/contact-3/ - Chapters: 00:00 Introduction to Communication in Soccer 01:51 Building Confidence Through Simple Communication 03:48 Non-Verbal Communication and Its Importance 06:11 Echoing and Understanding Messages 07:32 Challenging Teammates and Coaches 09:35 Encouragement to Start Communicating More 10:21 Closing Remarks and Future Episodes | |||
| #13 - Playing Badly, Tryouts, Not Having Fun & Looking Stupid | 28 Jan 2026 | 00:08:11 | |
In this episode, Paul addresses common questions from youth players and parents regarding performance, team dynamics, and personal enjoyment in sports. He emphasizes the importance of self-reflection, improvement, and resilience in overcoming challenges faced by young athletes. The conversation covers how to bounce back from poor performances, the decision-making process around team tryouts, and the significance of finding joy in the game through personal development and hard work. Additionally, Paul reassures listeners about the common fears of self-consciousness during training, encouraging them to focus on their own growth rather than the opinions of others. - Get In Touch Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/pauljgspacey Twitter: https://x.com/PaulSpacey YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@paulspacey Email: https://pauljspacey.com/contact-3/ - CHAPTERS: 00:00 Bouncing Back from Poor Performance 02:11 Navigating Team Tryouts 04:07 Finding Joy in the Game 06:07 Overcoming Self-Consciousness in Training 07:52 Closing Remarks and Future Episodes | |||
| #12 - Coach Energy: How It Can Make Or Break Your Kid | 12 Jan 2026 | 00:38:33 | |
In this episode of the Youth Soccer Podcast, Paul and Phil discuss the critical role of coach energy in youth soccer. They explore how a coach's enthusiasm and accountability can significantly impact player development and team dynamics and the conversation delves into the importance of building relationships, fostering unity among players, and the tactical awareness required for effective coaching. Chapters 00:00 The Importance of Coach Energy 02:52 Building Relationships and Accountability 05:55 Tactical Awareness and Team Dynamics 08:59 Energy in Practice and Game Situations 12:02 Parental Perspective on Coaching 15:12 Pressure and Growth in Coaching 21:15 The Concept of Time in Sports 22:21 Evaluating Coaching Effectiveness 24:11 The Importance of Coach's Energy 26:41 Building a Successful Team Dynamic 28:28 The Role of Energy in Team Performance 31:16 Leadership and Captaincy in Sports | |||
| #11 - Best Of Parent Questions 2025 | 31 Dec 2025 | 00:53:39 | |
This episode features the best parent questions from our podcasts in 2025. CHAPTERS 0:00 What can my kid do to get more minutes? 2:50 Should my kid be playing in a different position? 5:42 Skipping practice or games due to pain 10:58 Advice for high school season 15:46 Advice for tryouts 22:55 Thoughts on private training 25:03 Too much schoolwork impacting soccer 27:17 Encouraging your son or daughter to stay motivated 29:56 Advice for watching video highlights of games 32:18 Playing multiple sports alongside soccer 39:24 Playing many positions, is it helpful? 40:43 Tips and advice for taking free-kicks 46:14 Screaming coach - what do we do? 49:55 How can parents learn more about the game? | |||
| #10 - Q & A With Hosts: Red Cards, Idols, Living In America And More | 24 Dec 2025 | 00:32:51 | |
In this special holiday episode of the Youth Soccer Podcast, the hosts engage in a lively Q&A session, discussing their favorite soccer teams, standout memories as fans, players, and coaches, and the lessons learned from red cards. They also share their personal experiences and insights related to football, their idols, memorable matches, and their experiences living in America. Chapters 00:00 Introduction and Holiday Special 03:00 Favorite Teams and Support Stories 06:10 Standout Memories as Fans, Players, and Coaches 09:04 Red Cards and Lessons Learned 12:01 Living in LA vs. Missing England 17:56 A Humorous Encounter 18:16 Football Idols and Inspirations 22:10 Memorable Matches and Historical Moments 27:44 Experiences of Living in America 30:51 Advice for Young Players | |||
| #9 - Are Parents Getting Ripped Off By Youth Soccer Clubs? | 19 Dec 2025 | 00:35:38 | |
In this episode of the Youth Soccer Podcast, the hosts delve into the escalating costs associated with soccer, focusing on World Cup ticket prices and the financial landscape of youth soccer in America. Chapters 00:00 The Rising Costs of World Cup Tickets 09:58 Understanding Youth Soccer Costs 18:05 The Value of Service in Youth Soccer 21:20 Growth vs. Local Competition 23:33 The Influence of Money: Private Equity in Youth Sports 25:49 Balancing Cost and Commitment in Youth Soccer 28:05 Navigating Parent-Coach Relationships 32:40 Empowering Parents through Knowledge | |||
| #8 - How To Deal With Difficult Emotions As A Player or Parent | 13 Dec 2025 | 00:55:04 | |
In this episode of the Youth Soccer Podcast, the hosts delve into the emotional aspects of football, discussing how emotions can impact players, coaches, and parents alike, touching on the relevance of the Mo Salah situation at Liverpool. They explore the importance of harnessing emotions positively, the challenges of emotional control, and the role of parents on the sidelines. The conversation also touches on the significance of self-reflection for coaches and players, as well as practical advice for youth players on managing their emotions during games. Chapters 00:00 Mo Salah Liverpool Situation 05:14 Harnessing Emotions Positively 09:05 The Consequences of Losing Control 13:19 Advice for Youth Players on Emotions 20:55 The Role of Parents in Youth Football 23:49 Navigating Sideline Emotions 31:30 Coaching Through Parental Emotions 32:05 Navigating Parental Emotions in Youth Sports 34:50 Impact of Positive Energy from Coaches & Parents 39:04 Coaching Emotions During and After Games 43:00 The Importance of Self-Reflection for Coaches 49:06 Advice for Players on Positioning and Free Kicks | |||
| #7 - How To Deal With Rejection And Getting Cut From A Team | 08 Dec 2025 | 00:54:43 | |
In this episode of the Youth Soccer Podcast, the hosts delve into the theme of rejection, exploring personal experiences and the broader implications for young players. They discuss how rejection can serve as a powerful motivator, the importance of reframing rejection as redirection, and the role of parents and coaches in supporting young athletes. Chapters 00:00 Understanding Rejection in Soccer 02:59 Personal Experiences of Rejection 05:55 The Impact of Rejection on Young Players 08:52 Reframing Rejection as Redirection 12:08 The Role of Parents and Coaches 14:58 Finding Your Tribe in Soccer 18:01 Turning Rejection into Motivation 20:47 Navigating Tests and Obstacles in Soccer 28:43 Navigating Rejection in Youth Sports 30:51 The Role of Coaches in Mental Support 32:22 Delivering Tough Messages to Young Athletes 34:03 Advice for Parents on Handling Rejection 36:02 Encouraging Self-Reflection in Young Athletes 39:45 Reframing Rejection as a Learning Opportunity 45:20 The Importance of Analyzing Game Footage 47:41 Balancing Multiple Sports vs. Specialization 54:47 Conclusion and Key Takeaways | |||
| #6 - The Reason Nobody Likes Referees (& Why We Need Them!) | 01 Dec 2025 | 00:40:33 | |
In this episode of the Youth Soccer Podcast, the hosts discuss the current state of referees and parent/coach sideline behavior in the youth game. Much of the conversation centers around the importance of communication between referees, coaches, players, and parents to improve the overall experience for everyone involved. Chapters 00:00 Introduction to Youth Soccer Podcast 00:23 Current State of Referees and Parent Behavior 03:04 Communication: The Key to Improvement 08:55 Setting the Tone: Coaches and Players 19:31 Responsibility and Development in Youth Soccer 22:03 The Role of Parents in Youth Soccer 25:59 Addressing Referee Decisions and Player Safety 28:28 Understanding Different Perspectives 28:40 The Importance of Player Safety 30:29 Refereeing and Game Flow 32:32 Frustrations with Refereeing 34:59 Navigating Parental Involvement 37:41 Evaluating Opportunities in Europe 38:54 Realities of Youth Soccer Pathways 40:24 Closing Remarks and Future Episodes | |||
| #5 - What Should You Focus On To Improve In Your Position? | 24 Nov 2025 | 00:53:28 | |
In this episode of the Youth Soccer Podcast, the hosts discuss player positions, emphasizing the skills and attributes necessary for each position. The conversation also touches on the challenges of balancing academics with soccer development, emphasizing the need for time management and commitment in youth players. Chapters 00:00 International Break Insights 06:11 The Evolution of Goalkeeping 12:23 Fullbacks: The Modern Defender 18:47 Centre Backs: The Backbone of Defense 25:05 Defensive Midfield: Crucial Role 32:00 The Role of the Box-to-Box Midfielder 35:28 The Creative Force: The Number 10 38:41 The Evolution of Wingers: Inverted vs Traditional 43:47 The Striker's Role: Scoring Goals and More 47:35 Balancing Academics and Soccer Development 53:19 Closing Remarks and Future Episodes | |||
| #4 - Tiki Taka vs Long Ball, What's The Best Approach? | 17 Nov 2025 | 00:55:08 | |
In this episode of the Youth Soccer Podcast, the hosts discuss the impact of different playing styles on youth soccer development, focusing on the contrast between tiki-taka and long ball strategies. They emphasize the importance of fundamentals, adaptability in coaching, and the balance between technical skills and physicality. Chapters 00:00 Playing Styles in Youth Soccer 02:55 The Importance of Fundamentals 05:57 Coaching Philosophy and Adaptability 09:14 The Role of Strength and Size in Soccer 11:52 Winning vs. Development in Youth Soccer 15:06 Creating a Winning Environment 18:08 The Evolution of Coaching Styles 21:07 Understanding the Game's Fluidity 24:04 Balance of Technical Skills & Physicality 27:01 Engaging Parents in Youth Soccer 30:01 The Future of Soccer Coaching 33:44 Essence of Entertainment in Soccer 35:39 Coaching Styles and Player Capabilities 36:45 The Debate on Football Nations 39:40 Evolution of English Football 42:53 The Role of Parents in Youth Soccer 47:53 Preparing for Tryouts 55:20 The Value of Private Training | |||
| #3 - The Good, The Bad & The Ugly Of Player Development | 10 Nov 2025 | 00:57:16 | |
In this episode of the Youth Soccer Podcast, the hosts discuss various aspects of player development, emphasizing the importance of psychological resilience, fitness, and the role of team training. They explore the Four Corners Model of development, which includes technical, tactical, physical, and psychological elements. Chapters 00:00 Understanding Player Development 02:57 The Importance of Psychological Resilience 06:00 Navigating Challenges in Training 09:14 The Role of Attitude in Player Growth 12:01 Fitness and Running Techniques 14:53 The Shift in Training Emphasis 18:00 Pain and Performance 21:08 Team Training Dynamics 24:03 Creating a Professional Training Environment 30:02 The Importance of Intensity in Training 34:06 Creating a Competitive Environment in Youth Soccer 35:26 The Value of Street Soccer and Self-Directed Play 39:33 Understanding Positional Play and Development 45:06 The Unique Development Process in Soccer 53:44 Navigating High School Soccer Seasons 57:12 The Role of Sleep and Recovery in Performance | |||
| #2 - Is Winning More Important Than Player Development? | 03 Nov 2025 | 00:37:54 | |
In this episode, Ricky, Paul, and Phil dive into the divisive topic of winning in youth soccer. They discuss the balance between prioritizing winning and focusing on player development, the role of coaches and parents, and the impact of club hopping on player growth. The conversation also touches on the business side of club soccer and the importance of teaching young players about the realities of competitive sports. Follow us on Instagram @youthsoccerpodcast 00:00 The Importance of Winning in Youth Soccer 03:33 Balancing Winning and Development 08:07 The Role of Coaches in Prioritizing Winning 11:13 Parental Influence on Winning and Team Dynamics 16:10 The Consequences of Team Hopping 17:46 The Business of Youth Sports and Player Development 20:42 Coaching Responsibilities and Player Stagnation 23:43 Winning vs. Development: A Balancing Act 27:14 Understanding the Stakes: Livelihoods & Performance 31:31 Parental Perspectives: Questions and Insights | |||
| #1 - How To Develop A Stronger Mentality On & Off The Field | 30 Oct 2025 | 00:49:49 | |
In this episode of the Youth Soccer Podcast, Paul Spacey, Ricky Collett, and Phil Walsh delve into the critical topic of player mentality in youth soccer. They explore the importance of resilience, the impact of environment on player development, and the cultural differences in soccer mentality. The conversation highlights the transition from recreational to club soccer, the need for a unified approach in coaching, and the significance of experiencing hardship to build resilience. The hosts also discuss actionable tips for players and parents to foster a strong mindset and resilience, emphasizing the life lessons learned through soccer that extend beyond the field. Free Parent Starter Pack: https://pauljspacey.com/podcast (get the info coaches won't openly tell you) 00:00 Introduction to Youth Soccer Podcast 02:19 Resilience in Youth Soccer 05:07 The Role of Environment in Building Resilience 07:51 Transition from Rec to Club Soccer 10:29 Cultural Differences in Soccer Mentality 13:31 The Importance of Experience in Developing Resilience 16:23 Balancing Coaching and Player Support 18:51 Understanding Individual Player Needs 21:51 The Journey of Self-Discovery through Soccer 27:13 The Importance of Connection in Team Dynamics 30:37 Emotional Maturity on the Field 32:34 Understanding Limitations Through Sport 34:20 Commitment and Details at Higher Levels 35:47 The Transfer of Skills from Football to Life 37:10 Lessons from Early Experiences in Football 39:24 Building a Strong Foundation for Life 40:33 The Blend of Old and New School Values 42:17 Actionable Tips for Building Resilience 45:17 Proactivity vs. Reactivity in Performance 46:36 Finding Your Unique Contribution to the Game | |||