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Success Story: When the Right Person Doesn't Match the Checklist25 Jun 202600:37:59

If you've ever dismissed someone because they didn't fit your usual type, this episode might make you think twice.


In this conversation, Chris and Christine share the story of how they met, the assumptions they had going into dating, and why their relationship worked despite not checking every box on paper. From age differences and first impressions to post-date feedback and unexpected chemistry, they reflect on what happened when they stayed open to the possibility of something different.


This episode explores the importance of authenticity, clear communication, and letting go of rigid expectations in dating. Chris and Christine talk about the qualities that mattered most as their relationship developed, why playing games never appealed to them, and how trust, compatibility, and shared values became the foundation of a lasting partnership.


We also discuss a common challenge in modern dating: filtering people out too quickly. Their story is a reminder that meaningful connections don't always arrive in the package we imagined, and that sometimes the best relationships begin when we're willing to look beyond our checklist.


If you're navigating dating, questioning your criteria, or wondering whether you're overlooking great potential matches, this episode offers a refreshing perspective from two people who took a chance on each other—and are grateful they did.


Tune in for a conversation about openness, connection, and why the right person might surprise you.


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Why You’re Not Getting the Results You Want ft. Alec Mountain06 Jun 202600:27:22

In this episode with Alec Mountain, we dive into the core ideas behind his book and the patterns that quietly shape how people show up in their lives, relationships, and work.


Alec unpacks the main concept of the book and the stories that informed it, highlighting how behavior—not just intention—drives outcomes. We explore the subtle factors that influence success, from timing and communication to the small habits people often overlook.


A key theme in this discussion is the idea of “leaks”—the unnoticed behaviors and patterns that can negatively impact your results without you realizing it. From being late to how we approach commitments and interactions, these small signals often add up in meaningful ways.


We also touch on gender differences in behavior, what people tend to miss when trying to improve outcomes, and why self-awareness is often the missing piece between effort and real progress.


If you’ve ever felt like you’re doing “everything right” but not seeing the results you want, this conversation offers a grounded look at what might actually be getting in the way—and how to start recognizing it.


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How to Meet People in Real Life (Without Dating Apps) ft. Chloe Dworkin05 Jun 202600:41:59

In a world where dating apps feel more frustrating than helpful, how do you actually meet someone in real life?


In this episode, matchmaker Chloe Dworkin breaks down what it really takes to build meaningful romantic connections offline—from knowing where to meet people, to how confidence and presence shape your dating outcomes.


We talk about the subtle psychology behind attraction, why some environments naturally lead to better connections (think weddings, social circles, classes, and shared spaces), and how small shifts in how you show up can completely change your dating experience.


Chloe also shares what she’s learned from working directly with clients: why dating apps often fail to capture compatibility, how to recognize real-world opportunities for connection, and what separates casual chemistry from long-term alignment.


If you’ve ever felt stuck in online dating or unsure how to meet people organically, this conversation offers a grounded, practical look at how relationships actually begin—and how to put yourself in the right places for them to happen.


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Building Three Day Rule Into a Modern Matchmaking Empire20 May 202600:39:38

In this episode of You Seem Great, we sit down with Talia Goldstein, founder of Three Day Rule, to talk about the journey of building one of the most recognized modern matchmaking companies. From early startup challenges to scaling a people-first brand in the dating industry, Talia shares candid insights on entrepreneurship, relationships, and what it really takes to grow a business centered around human connection.


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The Psychology of Attraction, Confidence & Healthy Relationships ft. Bree Jacoby20 May 202600:50:16

If you’ve ever wondered how confidence, attraction, and self-worth all connect in dating and relationships, this episode gets into it.


Along with celebrity stylist and fashion expert Bree Jacoby, we talk about the psychology behind style, the energy people bring into relationships, and how confidence changes the way you date, connect, and show up in the world.


This conversation explores the deeper relationship between self-image and attraction— from the way people present themselves to the emotional patterns that shape who they choose and why certain relationships work while others don’t.


Bree shares her perspective on styling men and women, how appearance can impact confidence, and why feeling good in yourself often changes the kind of relationships you attract. We also get into masculine and feminine dynamics, emotional maturity, dating standards, and the difference between surface-level chemistry and true compatibility.


Throughout the episode, we discuss healing after difficult relationships, recognizing alignment, and what it actually looks like when someone consistently shows up for you in the right way.


If you’re dating, rebuilding confidence, or trying to better understand modern relationships and attraction, this episode offers an honest and grounded perspective on self-worth, emotional connection, and personal growth.


Tune in for a candid conversation about dating, confidence, attraction, relationships, and becoming the version of yourself that naturally attracts healthier connections.


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What People Get Wrong About Healthy Love27 Apr 202600:34:11

If you’ve ever wondered what a healthy, supportive relationship actually looks like day-to-day, this episode gets into it.


Along with our guest, Lauren Youash, we talk about what it means to truly get to know someone over time — beyond first impressions — and how the right relationship is built through consistency, support, and the way a partner shows up in both the big and small moments.


This conversation explores the qualities that matter most in a long-term relationship, from emotional support and respect to maturity, drive, and shared growth. Lauren shares her own experience, including how her relationship evolved, what stood out over time, and the moments that made it clear she was with the right person.


We also get into how people reveal their true selves in relationships, what to pay attention to early on, and why a strong partnership isn’t about perfection — it’s about alignment, effort, and showing up for each other through different phases of life.


If you’re dating, in a relationship, or simply thinking about what you want long-term, this episode offers a clear and grounded perspective on what actually makes something last.


Tune in for an honest conversation about partnership, self-awareness, and what it looks like when a relationship truly works.


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Are Your Dating Standards Helping You… or Hurting You?27 Apr 202600:28:09

If you’ve ever felt like dating gets more complicated — not easier — as you get older, this episode gets into why.


Along with our guest, Monique, we talk about how expectations shift over time, the unspoken pressures that come with age, and how those factors can shape the way people approach dating and relationships. From filtering and first impressions to the subtle ways people disqualify each other too quickly, we unpack what’s really happening beneath the surface.


This conversation dives into the different types of daters you’ll meet, how self-perception plays a role in who you attract, and why small mindset shifts can make a big difference in how you show up. Monique shares what she’s seeing in real conversations with clients, including the patterns that tend to hold people back — and how to start breaking them.


We also get into the realities of modern dating, from overthinking early interactions to the growing role of technology (yes, even AI), and why staying grounded in who you are matters more than ever.


If you’ve been feeling frustrated, overlooked, or unsure how to navigate dating at this stage of life, this episode offers a refreshing mix of honesty, humor, and practical perspective.


Tune in for a conversation about expectations, self-awareness, and how to approach dating with more clarity and confidence.


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Divorce, Dating, and the Patterns No One Talks About12 Apr 202600:48:46

If you’ve ever felt like you’re dating different people but somehow ending up in the same relationship, this episode gets into why.

Along with relationship and divorce coach Laila Aitken Ali, we explore the patterns that shape who we’re attracted to, how we show up, and why those patterns can be so hard to break — even when we’re actively trying to do things differently.

This conversation dives into rejection, self-worth, and the subtle ways past experiences influence present choices. From “trauma bonding” to first-date patterns to post-breakup reflection, Laila shares what she sees in her clients and the tools that actually help people shift out of cycles that no longer serve them.

We also talk about what it really means to approach dating from a love-based mindset instead of a fear-based one — and how that internal shift can completely change the kind of relationships you attract.

If you’ve been feeling stuck, discouraged, or wondering why your relationships follow a familiar pattern, this episode offers clarity, perspective, and a more intentional way forward.

Tune in for an honest conversation about self-awareness, healing, and learning how to choose differently in love.


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A Matchmaking Success: The Shift That Happens Before Love Works12 Apr 202600:41:56

If dating, relationships, or even just figuring yourself out has felt complicated lately, this episode will feel very familiar.

Along with our guest, Jana Davidoff, we get into the realities of what happens when something meaningful actually comes along — and why it’s not always as simple as just saying yes. From hesitation and timing to past experiences and personal growth, we talk about the internal shifts that have to happen before you’re truly ready to receive the right kind of connection.

This conversation explores what it means to trust your instincts, let things unfold naturally, and recognize the difference between something that looks right on paper and something that actually feels right. Jana shares her perspective on navigating uncertainty, building something real with the right person, and how relationships evolve through both the highs and the harder moments.

We also get into the idea that love isn’t just about finding the right person — it’s about being in the right place within yourself, too.

If you’ve ever questioned your timing, felt unsure about a relationship, or wondered why something good can still feel challenging, this episode offers an honest and grounded perspective.

Tune in for a conversation about growth, self-awareness, and what it really takes to build something that lasts.


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Do Nice Guys Finish Last?20 Feb 202600:39:46

We’ve all heard the phrase — but is it actually true?

In this episode, we dig into the psychology behind why “nice” can sometimes be misread in modern dating, and what really creates attraction, momentum, and long-term partnership potential. We explore how effort, authenticity, and emotional intelligence show up differently for men and women, why some people feel out of practice when it comes to connection, and how small behavioral shifts can completely change the dynamic.

We talk about the balance between warmth and edge, the role of surprise and curiosity in keeping chemistry alive, and why showing your full “crayon box” — not just the safest version of yourself — matters more than trying to be perfectly agreeable. There’s also a candid look at communication habits, confidence, and how cultural expectations around dating continue to evolve.

If you’ve ever wondered whether being kind is enough, how to create real spark without losing yourself, or what dating might look like as we move into a new era — this conversation challenges the myth and reframes the question entirely.

Tune in for a nuanced take on attraction, authenticity, and why the rules may be changing.

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The Stories We Tell Ourselves ft. Monisha Chandanani12 Feb 202600:36:13

If dating lately feels frustrating, exhausting, or just plain confusing, you’re not alone — and this episode gets into why.

Along with our guest, Monisha Chandanani, we talk about the hidden habits, mindset blocks, and cultural pressures that can quietly hold people back from forming real connections, especially in fast-paced cities where dating can start to feel transactional or overly efficient. Instead of chasing outcomes, we explore what shifts when you focus on building your own happiness, confidence, and sense of self first.

This conversation dives into the importance of inner confidence, learning how to receive (not just give), and why meaningful connection often comes from slowing down and practicing presence rather than perfection. Because dating isn’t about getting it right every time — it’s about growth, awareness, and showing up more authentically each time you try.

If you’re feeling stuck, discouraged, or just wondering how to approach dating differently, this episode offers a grounded reset.

Tune in for practical perspective and a reminder that connection starts with you.

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Inside the Mind of a Single Man in Los Angeles11 Feb 202600:45:46

What’s actually going on in a single man’s head when he’s dating?

In this episode, we sit down with a Los Angeles bachelor to unpack how men experience attraction, connection, and emotional signals — often very differently than we assume. From the green flags that genuinely stand out to the subtle ways men read interest, effort, and authenticity, we explore how modern dating looks from the other side.

We talk about feeling seen in relationships, how communication styles can get misinterpreted, what men notice (and don’t notice), and why the process of dating can sometimes be more straightforward — and sometimes more complicated — than expected. There’s also plenty of real-life scenarios, social dynamics, and honest laughs along the way.

If you’ve ever wondered what men are really thinking while dating — this episode offers a candid, unfiltered look inside that perspective.


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How to Know When to Work It Out — and When to Call It Quits11 Feb 202600:30:33

How do you tell the difference between a relationship that needs effort… and one that’s simply not meant to last?

In this episode, we dive into the tension between chemistry and compatibility, the habits we overlook when we’re trying to make something work, and the moments that quietly signal it may be time to walk away. We talk about flexible differences vs. true red flags, why attraction alone isn’t enough, and how vulnerability — especially after rejection — can shape the choices we make in love.

If you’ve ever questioned whether to stay, struggled to let go, or wondered if you’re ignoring signs right in front of you, this conversation is for you. Honest, reflective, and a little uncomfortable in the best way — because knowing when to hold on and when to move on is one of the hardest dating skills to learn.


Tune in and join the conversation.


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BONUS Episode: Why are more women giving up on dating?18 Dec 202500:25:49

More women are stepping away from dating — and this episode explores why. We talk about how relationships have changed, shifting expectations around partnership, and why dating can feel exhausting or unfulfilling for many women today.

We cover ambition, independence, emotional labor, evolving priorities, and how both men and women are adapting to modern relationship dynamics. We also discuss what opting out of dating really means — and what healthier, more aligned partnerships can look like moving forward.

A candid conversation about where dating is now and what comes next.


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Why am I attracting emotionally unavailable people?18 Dec 202500:21:40

If you keep attracting emotionally unavailable men or women, there’s usually a deeper reason — and it’s not bad luck. In this episode, we explore what emotional unavailability really looks like, why it can feel familiar or attractive, and how these patterns develop.

We talk about boundaries, self-awareness, and how support or coaching can help you see blind spots you may be missing. Most importantly, we focus on how to break the cycle and create space for healthier, more available connections.

An honest conversation for anyone ready to stop repeating the same dating story.


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Compatibility Check: How to Know If Someone Is Right for You18 Dec 202500:26:17

Chemistry can feel exciting, but compatibility is what determines whether a relationship can actually last. In this episode, we break down how to identify true compatibility in a partner — and why so many people keep repeating the same dating patterns.

We discuss dating on autopilot, overlooked red flags, shared values, and the subtle signals that a connection may not be aligned long-term. Through real examples and expert insight, we help you shift from chasing sparks to building something sustainable.

If you’re tired of wondering why dating keeps leading to the same outcome, this episode brings clarity.


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Into You or Just Friendly? How to Tell the Difference18 Dec 202500:37:03

How can you tell if someone is genuinely interested — or if you’re being quietly friend-zoned? In this episode, we unpack the most common signs of attraction, mixed signals, and emotional confusion in modern dating.

We talk about effort, flirting, reliability, timing, and how interest often shows up differently for men and women. You’ll also learn why overanalyzing can get in your way and what to do if you suspect you’re stuck in the friend zone.

A must-listen if you’ve ever asked, “Do they like me… or not?”


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Seasonal Trends in Dating18 Dec 202500:26:57

In today’s episode, we’re diving into seasonal trends in dating, how the time of year can shape your love life more than you think. We’ll walk through what dating looks like in each season, from cozy winter cuffing to the breezy energy of summer, and break down the pros and cons that come with each.

Join us as we share practical tips and tricks to help you navigate cold winter months, hot summer days, and everything in between, with your best shot at finding meaningful connection (and maybe even lasting love).

Tune in and let’s make every season your season.

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Welcome back to You Seem Great: Season 318 Dec 202500:01:40

Welcome back to You Seem Great! We’re officially kicking off Season 3 with this quick intro. We’re sharing what this season is all about, why we’re excited to be back, and what’s coming next — from real dating patterns we’re seeing right now to honest conversations about modern love, compatibility, and connection.

Whether you’ve been with us since Season 1 or you’re just finding us, we’re so glad you’re here.

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You Seem Great… but we need to talk about fighting fair11 Jun 202500:36:07

Welcome back to You Seem Great! In this episode, we're getting into something every couple faces eventually — conflict. But not all fights are created equal. We explore the most common fighting styles, how they show up in relationships, and why the way you argue might matter more than the argument itself.

From blowups and shutdowns to logic-vs-emotion showdowns, Becca and Talia unpack the patterns that shape our arguments and offer real, compassionate tools for fighting in a way that actually brings you closer. Because fighting doesn’t mean you’re wrong for each other — it might just mean you need new strategies for how to disagree with care.

Expect honest stories, expert insights, and a matchmaking lens that values growth over perfection.

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You Seem Great… but something’s blocking the spark05 Jun 202500:34:55

You know that feeling when everything looks good on paper — the vibe, the values, even the banter — but something just isn’t clicking? In this episode, we explore the invisible roadblocks that show up in dating: emotional unavailability, timing mismatches, or that subtle disconnect you can’t quite name.

We talk about the difference between compatibility and connection, why chemistry can’t be forced, and how to recognize when you’re both simply on different paths — and that’s okay.

Because sometimes what feels like a roadblock is really a redirection — one that clears the way for something more aligned.

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Green Flags with guest Lisa Elson28 May 202500:44:07

In this week’s episode of You Seem Great, Becca and Talia are joined by Lisa Elson to dive into the positive signs in relationships — the green flags that show when things are really going well. Together, they explore how to recognize behaviors and patterns that signal a healthy, thriving partnership, why focusing on green flags can help you build trust and joy, and how tuning into these can change your dating game for the better. Whether you’re starting a new relationship or deepening an existing one, these insights and tips are not to be missed!

Key Takeaways:

  • Spotting the Green Flags: Learn about the subtle but powerful signs that your relationship has a strong foundation worth nurturing.

  • Building Trust and Connection: Discover why paying attention to green flags helps create resilience and emotional safety with your partner.

  • Practical Tips for Dating and Relationships: Get expert advice on how to celebrate what’s working and grow together with intention.

  • A Positive Mindset Shift: Understand how focusing on green flags can boost your confidence and improve your overall relationship experience.

Join Becca, Talia, and Lisa for an uplifting and insightful conversation that celebrates the good stuff in love and dating.

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You Seem Great… but some things are always true21 May 202500:29:46

Welcome back to You Seem Great! This week, we’re diving into the universal truths of dating — the patterns and lessons that hold up no matter who you are, how old you are, or how many dating apps you’ve deleted and re-downloaded. In this episode, we reflect on why your person might show up in a different package than you expected, how timelines quietly make or break connections, and why playfulness and travel styles matter more than you think.


We also get honest about the myths we used to believe, what dating industry experience has taught us, and why the longer you stay single, the easier it can be to stay single. If you’ve ever questioned if you’re doing it wrong — you’re not. You’re just learning what’s always been true.

Expect more behind-the-scenes matchmaking insight, stories we probably shouldn’t tell, and dating advice that won’t expire.

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You Seem Great… but this season is different21 May 202500:13:58

Welcome back to You Seem Great! We're kicking off Season 2 with a fresh focus and a deeper look at what matchmaking really means — not just finding the “right” person, but figuring out what right feels like for you.

Expect more honest conversations, more nuance, and a matchmaking lens that goes beyond checklists. Because maybe you're not doing it wrong — maybe you're just doing it differently now.

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You Seem Great… and we can’t wait to see you again soon!16 Oct 202400:09:49

In this week’s episode of You Seem Great, we’re diving into cuffing season and how to make the most of this cozy time of year! We’ll share why this season offers so much for singles as the colder months approach and how to embrace this time of year with intention. Plus, we share a podcast update as we take a brief pause after season 1 and give you all the details on how to catch us on Instagram Live during the break. And don’t worry—season 2 is on the way! Stay tuned!

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You Seem Great… and you’re ready to date after a breakup09 Oct 202400:28:39

In this week’s episode of You Seem Great, we’re diving into the post-breakup dating world! Whether you’re feeling unsure about getting back out there or simply looking for guidance, we’ve got you covered. We’ll discuss how to heal from a breakup, rebuild your confidence, and approach dating with a fresh mindset. From having conversations about your past relationship to handling those first few post-breakup dates, this episode offers practical advice to help you move forward and find meaningful connections.

Key Takeaways:

  • Healing and Growth: Learn how to take the time to reflect and grow after a breakup, setting a solid foundation for future relationships.
  • Confidence Reboot: Discover tips for rebuilding your confidence and feeling empowered as you re-enter the dating scene.
  • Navigating First Dates: Get expert advice on how to approach those early dates after a breakup and how to talk about your past with honesty and grace.

Join us for an insightful conversation on healing, self-discovery, and finding new connections after a breakup. Don’t miss it!

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You Seem Great… but you could use some help with flirting02 Oct 202400:49:35

In this week's episode of You Seem Great, we're diving into the art of flirting! Whether flirting feels like a challenge or you're just looking for fresh ideas, we've got you covered. We'll break down everything you need to know, from mastering the slow burn flirt to acing a first date flirt, and even perfecting that quick, one-time meet flirt to ignite a romantic spark. No matter the situation, these practical tips will help you elevate your flirting game and feel confident in any scenario. Don’t miss this episode—it’s all about building chemistry and connection!

Key Takeaways:

  • Mastering the Slow Burn Flirt: Learn how to build interest and intrigue gradually, creating lasting chemistry over time.
  • Acing the First Date Flirt: Get tips on how to flirt effectively on your first date to set the stage for deeper connection.
  • Perfecting the Quick Flirt: Find out how to make a memorable impact with a short, effective flirt in spontaneous encounters.

Join us for a fun and insightful conversation on how to boost your flirting skills and create meaningful connections with confidence!

Connect with Talia and Becca on Instagram or visit the website to learn more.

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Empowering Neurodivergent Daters: Insights with Jeremy and Ilana Hamburgh25 Sep 202400:37:11

In this week's episode of You Seem Great, we sit down with Jeremy and Ilana Hamburgh, a dynamic duo specializing in coaching autistic and neurodivergent individuals on dating. Together, we explore practical strategies to help neurodivergent daters navigate the complexities of relationships and find meaningful connections. This empowering conversation sheds light on the unique strengths that neurodivergent individuals bring to the dating world and how they can embrace those qualities to their advantage.

Key Takeaways:

  • Building Confidence in Dating: Learn how to cultivate self-assurance and approach dating with confidence, regardless of neurodivergent challenges.
  • Effective Communication Strategies: Discover tips for improving communication in dating, including handling social cues and expressing your needs clearly.
  • Embracing Neurodivergent Strengths: Explore how neurodivergent individuals can leverage their unique perspectives and qualities to form deep, fulfilling relationships.

Join us for an insightful conversation on how neurodivergent daters can thrive in the dating world with authenticity and confidence!

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You Seem Great… but you feel anxious about dating18 Sep 202400:36:09

In this week's episode of You Seem Great, we dive into the topic of dating anxiety and offer practical solutions to help ease your nerves in the search for love. Whether you're struggling with the fear of rejection, past relationship trauma, or feeling the pressure of societal expectations, this episode is packed with strategies to help you feel more confident and at ease in dating.

Key Takeaways:

  • Overcoming Fear of Rejection: Learn how to build resilience and handle rejection with a healthy mindset.
  • Navigating Social Pressure: Explore ways to free yourself from the expectations and pressures placed on dating in today's society.
  • Boosting Confidence in Dating: Discover simple, effective strategies to boost your self-esteem and present your best self in romantic pursuits.

Join us for an insightful discussion on managing dating anxiety and stepping into your love life with more confidence and clarity!

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Dating Over 60 with Maryann Roberts11 Sep 202400:39:19

In this week's episode of You Seem Great, we're joined by Maryann Roberts, a matchmaker with Three Day Rule, to discuss the ins and outs of dating over 60. We'll explore the pros and cons of finding love later in life, how to approach relationships at this stage, and the role of technology and texting for baby boomers. Whether you're over 60 and single or tuning in for advice for a parent, these expert tips are not to be missed!

Key Takeaways:

  • Finding Love Later in Life: Explore the benefits and challenges of dating over 60 and why it can be an incredibly fulfilling time to find a partner.
  • Navigating New Relationships: Learn how to approach relationships with a fresh perspective, focusing on shared experiences and personal growth.
  • Technology and Texting for Boomers: Discover the evolving role of technology in dating and how to navigate the world of texting and online connections with ease.
  • Advice for Family Members: Gain insight on how to support and encourage parents or loved ones in their dating journey over 60.

Join us for a thoughtful and insightful discussion on the unique aspects of dating later in life, with expert advice from matchmaker Maryann Roberts.

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You Seem Great… and you’re wanting to date long distance 04 Sep 202400:38:04

In this week's episode of You Seem Great, we're diving into the world of long-distance dating. With more singles open to dating beyond their city since the pandemic, we're here to show you how to make it work! We’ll explore everything from where to search for a long-distance partner to how to build a strong connection and avoid common pitfalls.

Key Takeaways:

  • Finding Your Partner: Discover the best places to search for a long-distance relationship and how to approach the initial stages.
  • Building Strong Connections: Learn strategies for maintaining a deep and meaningful connection, even when miles apart.
  • Avoiding Pitfalls: Understand the common challenges of long-distance relationships and how to overcome them.
  • Going the Distance: Explore tips on how to plan for the future and keep your relationship moving forward.

Tune in for practical advice and insights on how to take your long-distance relationship the distance, whether you’re just starting out or already committed.

Connect with Talia and Becca on Instagram or visit the website to learn more.

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Prenups and Dating: Building Stronger Relationships with Raymond Hekmat28 Aug 202400:41:09

In this week's episode of You Seem Great, we sit down with "The Prenup Guy" Raymond Hekmat to discuss the often misunderstood topic of prenuptial agreements and their role in fostering stronger relationships. Raymond sheds light on how prenups aren't just for marriage but can be a tool for assessing financial compatibility at any stage of a relationship.

Key Takeaways:

  • Redefining Prenups: Learn what a prenuptial agreement truly is and why it’s more than just a marriage contract.
  • Timing and Communication: Discover the best time to bring up a prenup and how to approach the conversation with your partner.
  • Financial Compatibility: Understand how discussing a prenup can help you and your partner align your financial goals and expectations.
  • Strengthening Foundations: Explore how a prenup can contribute to building a solid, transparent foundation for your future together.

Tune in for an eye-opening conversation that challenges traditional notions of prenups, offering practical advice for anyone looking to create a strong, financially healthy relationship. Whether you're single, dating, or already committed, this episode has valuable insights for you.

Click here to access Raymond’s Prenup Resources.

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Dating in Miami with Elisa Del Castillo21 Aug 202400:35:41

In this week's episode of You Seem Great, we're continuing our city series with special guest, matchmaker Elisa Del Castillo. Join us as we dive into the vibrant Miami dating scene and explore how Latin culture plays a significant role in shaping relationships. Elisa shares insider tips on the best spots to meet singles in Miami and offers guidance on navigating the city's booming dating landscape. Tune in for an exciting and culturally rich discussion on finding love in the Magic City!

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Q&A with Talia and Becca14 Aug 202400:34:33

In this week's episode of the You Seem Great Podcast, Talia and Becca dive into your most pressing questions! This special Q&A session covers essential topics like how to manage burnoutnavigating the path to exclusivity in relationships, and overcoming the challenges of dating as a parent. Whether you're struggling with stress, wondering when to define your relationship, or looking for advice on balancing dating and parenting, we've got you covered. Have a question you'd like answered? DM us @youseemgreatpodcast on Instagram. Tune in for expert insights and actionable advice tailored just for you!

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High Achievers’ Guide to Love: Insights from Simone Grossman07 Aug 202400:31:11

In this week's episode of You Seem Great, we discuss dating with VIP Matchmaker Simone Grossman. Simone brings her expertise in helping high-achieving individuals navigate the complexities of finding a stable partner.

Key Takeaways:

  • Navigating Dating as a Successful Professional: Explore the unique challenges of dating when you're at the top of your field.
  • Business vs. Dating Dynamics: Understand why business acumen doesn't always translate to dating success.
  • What Men and Women Seek in a Stable Partner: Gain insights into the qualities that successful singles prioritize in relationships.
  • Common Pitfalls for Successful Singles: Learn about the most frequent mistakes made by high-achieving individuals in the dating world.

Tune in for a thoughtful discussion that offers practical advice on finding love and balance amidst career success. Whether you're single, dating, or looking to understand the dynamics of relationships at a high level, this episode has something for you.

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Navigating Money and Love with Dr. Jenny Olson31 Jul 202400:38:55

In this week's episode of You Seem Great, we delve into the intersection of money and love with Dr. Jenny Olson, Assistant Professor of Marketing at Indiana University's Kelley School of Business. Dr. Olson's expertise lies in consumer behavior, particularly within interpersonal contexts.

Key Takeaways:

  • Assessing Financial Compatibility in Relationships: Learn how to evaluate financial compatibility with a potential partner.
  • Traits of Financially Compatible Couples: Discover what makes two people click financially.
  • Secrets of Happy Couples' Financial Habits: Explore what research reveals about the financial practices of the happiest couples.

Tune in for an enlightening conversation that offers practical tips to achieve financial harmony in your relationships. Whether you're dating, engaged, or married, this episode provides valuable insights to help you and your partner navigate the complex world of finances together.

EPISODE SPECIFICS

  • Click here for the LifeValues Quiz
  • Click here to read: Common Cents: Bank Account Structure and Couples’ Relationship Dynamics 
  • Click here to read: The Rise of Stealth Shopping: How Americans Are Hiding Big Purchases From Their Partners

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The Intersection of Technology and Love with Liesel Sharabi24 Jul 202400:45:43

In this week's episode of You Seem Great, we welcome Liesel Sharabi, Associate Professor at Arizona State University. Liesel, an expert in communication technologies, explores how these tools shape the ways we start, sustain, and end relationships.

Key Takeaways:

  • Effective Use of Dating Apps: Discover strategies for maximizing your success on dating platforms.
  • Technology and Relationship Satisfaction: Understand the influence of digital communication on your romantic life.
  • Future of Dating Culture: Get a glimpse into how emerging technologies will transform the dating landscape.

Join us for a thought-provoking and engaging discussion on the intersection of tech and love!

EPISODE SPECIFICS

  • Click here to read: Love, (un)automated: Human matchmaking in the era of online dating
  • Click here to read: Are Relationships That Start Online More Happy, or Less?
  • Click here to read: Game On: How to Play to Win at Dating Apps
  • Click here to read: Is Meeting Online Good for Marriages?
  • Click here to read: How to Date Without an App

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Cultural Identity and Dating: Insights from Communication Expert Dr. Sunny Lie Owens17 Jul 202400:37:43

In this week's episode of You Seem Great, join us for an enlightening conversation with Sunny Lie Owens, Associate Professor of Communication at CalPoly Pomona. Sunny, an expert in culture and communication, delves into the intricate relationship between religious communication and ethnic identity.

Sunny's research-driven advice offers invaluable guidance for singles seeking meaningful connections. Tune in to this insightful and inspiring episode for expert advice on navigating the complexities of modern dating.

Key Takeaways:

  • Cultural Impact on Dating: Discover how cultural backgrounds influence dating behaviors and relationships.
  • Authentic Dating: Learn practical tips on how to date as your most authentic self.
  • Sunny’s Personal Journey: Gain insights from Sunny's own experiences in matchmaking and finding her husband.

EPISODE SPECIFICS

  • Click here to read Dr. Sunny Lie Owens' LA Times article.

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Dating after Divorce with Melissa Rogers10 Jul 202400:35:23

In this week's episode of You Seem Great, we dive deep into the world of dating post-divorce with expert matchmaker Melissa Rogers. Melissa offers her professional insights on knowing when you're ready to start dating again, navigating those crucial first dates, and building confidence after a divorce. Whether you're newly divorced or have been dating for a while, this episode is full of valuable advice and encouragement.

Key Takeaways:

  • Recognize When You're Ready to Date Again: Melissa explains the signs and mindset needed to re-enter the dating scene.
  • First Date Tips: Learn how to approach and enjoy your first dates post-divorce with Melissa's expert guidance.
  • Building Confidence: Discover strategies to boost your self-esteem and embrace your new chapter with confidence.

Connect with Talia and Becca on Instagram or visit the website to learn more.

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You seem great… and you’re curious about matchmaking and date coaching03 Jul 202400:40:06

This week, we're giving you a peek behind the curtain of the matchmaking process. Get all your questions answered, from understanding the costs and choosing the right company to asking the best questions when hiring a matchmaker. Plus, we break down what date coaching is and address some of the most frequently asked questions about it. Tune in for the scoop on the world of matchmaking and date coaching!

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You seem great… but you miss connecting in the wild26 Jun 202400:38:49

This week, we're diving into everything you need to know about making organic connections. Whether you're looking to enhance your dating life or build meaningful relationships, we've got you covered with a step-by-step guide. Discover proven techniques to establish genuine relationships face-to-face, and learn how to identify and frequent the best places to meet like-minded people. We'll also share practical tips and actionable advice on how to successfully ask for and secure that first date. Don't miss out on this essential guide to making organic connections!

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Dating tips with Devyn Simone19 Jun 202400:47:56

This week on the You Seem Great Podcast, we are thrilled to be joined by the one and only Devyn Simone. As a nationwide matchmaker, dating expert, and TV host, Devyn brings a wealth of knowledge, hot tips, and plenty of laughs. Tune in to hear Devyn's best advice on getting into the right mindset for dating, the best ways to approach people "in the wild," and so much more. Don't miss this fun and insightful episode!

Tune into Devyn’s show Just Between Us live on Fridays at 12pm EST on Amazon Live.

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You seem great… but you’re chasing the spark12 Jun 202400:23:26

In this week's episode, we explore the intricacies of attraction, chemistry, and the spark. We delve into the differences between these concepts, discuss the spectrum of attraction, and provide insights on how to build and maintain chemistry. Plus, we share tips on what to do when you feel that elusive spark. Tune in for a deep dive into the elements that make relationships sizzle!

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LGBTQ Dating with Kara Laricks12 Jun 202400:47:34

In today’s episode, we are joined by incredible matchmaker and date coach, Kara Laricks, to discuss all things dating in the LGBTQ community. Kara shares her inspiring journey into the world of matchmaking and reveals how to create your personalized “love manual.” We also dive into some of Kara’s best success stories from over the years. Tune in for effective tips and tricks on dating successfully, straight from an expert!

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Dating in NYC with Kristen Stewart05 Jun 202400:50:09

This week, we kick off our exciting City Series, where we explore dating in cities across the US. Our first stop is New York City! We are thrilled to be joined by the incredible Krissy Stewart, a top matchmaker at Three Day Rule Matchmaking. Together, we'll dive into the vibrant world of dating in the Big Apple, discussing the latest trends in NYC dating, the best spots to meet singles, and how to navigate the city's dating scene on a budget. Tune in and discover how to make the most of dating in New York City!

Click here to view the book "Make Your Move: The New Science of Dating and Why Women Are in Charge"

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You seem great…but you’re not having success on the apps29 May 202400:30:50

In this episode, we're delving deep into the world of dating apps. Join us as we explore crafting the perfect profile, mastering the art of effective swiping, decoding communication that leads to real-life dates, and knowing when it's time for a well-deserved break from the digital dating scene. Tune in for essential tips to elevate your online dating game!

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You seem great… but let’s get back to basics22 May 202400:28:57

In this episode, we take it back to dating basics. We explore how to approach the first five dates and truly get to know someone. We'll discuss the key questions to ask, how to communicate effectively, strategies for planning dates, and how to build chemistry. Join us as we break down the essentials for creating a strong foundation in early dating.

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You seem great… but you need our help22 May 202400:15:31

Welcome to the "You Seem Great" podcast! In this episode, we introduce ourselves, Talia Goldstein and Becca Klein, and give you a sneak peek into what's to come on the show. Tune in as we discuss our episode topics and format, and share insights into our dating philosophy. Get ready to dive into meaningful conversations and uncover valuable insights for your dating journey!

Connect with Talia and Becca on ⁠Instagram⁠ or visit their ⁠website⁠ to learn more.

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Welcome to You Seem Great20 May 202400:00:48
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