When people, places and things keep on showing up in your life, in different ways, yet conveying the same negative message, it's time to pay attention.  It's time to pay attention to what you are telling yourself.   It's time to listen, look and explore what you are being shown.  It's time  for you to choose to get realistic about what you are wanting for your life, instead of running from your life.  It's time to explore with truth and honesty, why what keeps happening to you, keeps on happening.  And more importantly, what you want to happen instead.

 

There are things that have occurred in everyone’s life that are perceived and received as negative. These things have changed who you are, the trajectory of your life, and fundamentally how you think and feel about yourself.  As a result, you hold on to people, places and things, to situations that are best let go.  Most people know what they need to let go of, yet they struggle with how to accomplish this. 

In today’s podcast, Dr. Wendy Dearborne Choice and Universal Laws of Attraction expert will share insights on how to achieve your goal..

As the saying goes, “you are here on purpose, to fulfill your purpose and live a purposeful life.” Your spiritual job in this life, not your 9-5, is to know what you want, who you want to be and the purpose you are here to fulfill. Many people confuse living a purposeful life with their chosen career, their financial status or lack thereof, their possessions, along with familial, community, tribal standing and helping others by making the best choices for them. There is something that you are here to do that no one else can do…this is your purpose. If someone else can do it, then it ain’t your purpose that’s your job.

There is a fine line, so fine that it can be missed when it comes to God, choices and you.  Omnipotent is a word that is used to describe God or your chosen deity.  The ultimate power to know, see, do, hear, speak and be all is omnipotence.   We have been told that God knows what’s best for us and to allow God to make that happen.  And yet, we have been told to ask for what we want, believing that we have it already and we will receive it. Knock and the door will be open. We’ve been basically told that we don’t have to do anything, but just exist.  We’ve been giving disinformation, and for most people, if they are honest, they will say, life hasn’t turned out the way in which they wanted. We’ve be told, “Watch God laugh when you try to make something happen yourself.”  Ironically, there is an element of truth to this saying, but it’s not what you think.  Understanding who you are and your role in YOUR choice making process is paramount to you making the right choices for your life.   Join me Dr. Wendy Dearborne choice expert and intrinsic coach and Olivia Lashley expression coach and artist as we explore God, choices and you.

This is a question that believers and non believers have asked themselves for as long as man has been in existence.  Where exactly is God? There are raging debates about the existence of God; who, what and where God is located.  And yet, we have been told categorically God is everywhere, within you, in heaven, in the Universe...in that rock or piece of carved wood, above you, below you and everywhere in between. These questions have given rise to a global trillion dollar self-help industry, and have kept the zillion dollar traditional church industry/ministries in business. From New Age to Evangelic Ministries and everything in between, including Wiccan and Paganism all claim to have the answers that people are seeking when trying to find God.  So, where do you think God is? Join me Dr. Wendy Dearborne Choice Expert and Intrinsic Life Coach and Olivia Lashley Expressions Coach And Artist as we weigh in on this subject.

Stop! Enough!  No More Self-help Books, Webinars, Seminars Or Retreats Get off this self imposed merry-go-round to nowhere. How many more self-help books are you going to read?  How many more webinars and seminars are you going to listen to?  How many more retreats are you going to attend?  How much more advice are you going to seek before you take conscious and decisive action on what you want for your life?  Being a perpetual student of spirituality is a wonderful thing.  Consciously gathering knowledge filled with its latent power is a must, yet how much knowledge is needed before you take action?  You see, knowledge without action is just knowledge.  Taking right action on the spiritual knowledge you have acquired is a transformative thing.  Not only does the knowledge become a powerful force, supporting your forward momentum, it creates the invisible Universal dynamics needed for transformational change in your life.  If you are looking for a way to transform your life, then take action by using the knowledge you have acquired year after year, after year to achieve your desired goal. Join me Dr. Wendy Dearborne Choice Expert and Intrinsic Coach and Olivia Lashley Expressions Coach and Artist as we explore getting off the self help merry-go-round and using the power of your spiritual knowledge base to achieving your dreams.

When things go wrong in life, as they are apt to do, people naturally experience setbacks.  Sometimes this setback literally means that they hit rock bottom.  Sometimes the rug is pulled from under them and other times it feels like they have been rended in two.  If you have experienced you very own personal setback and hit bottom or have been rended in two, it doesn’t mean that you are broken, damaged and or in need of fixing.  What it might mean for you is an opportunity to choose a new and  fresh start with an excellent foundation to build upon. Join me Dr. Wendy Dearborne Choice Expert and Intrinsic Coach and Olivia Lashley Expression Coach and Artist as we explore what we can do when things go wrong in our lives and we’ve been torn in two.

Is what you are doing in life your passion?  Or is what you’re doing how you make money? The distinction between the two is important. There is a huge difference between the two.  And I can hear you asking, “But, can’t it be both?”  Actually, no, it can’t.  Many would disagree and disagree venomously, yet the Universal Law of Space clearly states that no two things can occupy the same space”at the same time.”  Many people have missed out on living their dream life because they have chosen not to pursue their passion.  “Get a real job,” they say. ”And do your passion on the side, you know, because artists starve and people of that ilk live a hand to mouth existence.”  So, where does that leave you in your understanding of what’s at stake and wanting to pursue your passion? To learn more about the Laws of Attraction and what action you can take in your life visit The Laws of Attraction In Action Join me Dr. Wendy Dearborne, Choice expert and Intrinsic Coach and Olivia Lashley Intrinsic Expression Coach and Artist as we explore working and working your passion.  

If you have ever created a vision board or used conscious visualization to support you in manifesting what you want or if you are just curious about the process then this show is for you. Seeing is believing!  And while that may smack of being a little ambiguous, seeing truly is believing.  But not in the sense that in order to believe in something you must first see it in its tangible form.  The ability to see something before it comes into physical form start way before.  It begins with The Art of Visualization.  Many people use only a portion of the Universal Law of Visualization and as a result experience challenges with getting what they want in life. Join me Dr. Wendy Dearborne Choice Expert and Intrinsic Life Coach and Olivia Lashley Expression Coach and Artist as we look at visualization, the Universal Law and you.  

Are you struggling to move forward and attain your desired goals?  Health, wealth, love, career, business, money etc?  Well you are not alone. Millions of people are experiencing the same struggle as you.  In todays show we will be discussing the importance of the right “self talk” and give you three implementable solutions that can help you get your life on track.   Join me Dr. Wendy Dearborne Choice Expert and Intrinsic Coach and Olivia Lashley Expression Coach and Artist as we explore three ways of getting your life on track. #attractioners #thelawsofattractioninaction #choiceexpert #choices #Entrepreneur

What action are you taking in your life that is creating the things that you want to manifest?  And is the action you are taking, the right action?  You see, if you don’t take the right action you will not experience your desired results.  Most people miss this nuance and as a result or reaction for missing this step they never seem to manifest what they desire.                                          James 2:17 states, “Even so faith, if it hath not works, is dead, being alone.” The Universal Law of Action simply states, “that you must do something mentally and or physically to support the things that you want to manifest in your life.”  It’s important to understand that action works in tandem with reaction.  What this means is that the work(s) that you need to do to bring your faith alive is to take the action that will initiate and sustain the thing you want to manifest.  The manifestation is the reaction.  Let’s look at this way, if you have a kite you want to launch without having all the requirements in place, including the wind to support your action, here’s what will happen; it won’t take off and or its flight will not be sustained.  And so it is with your dreams and your desires. Join me Dr. Wendy Dearborne Choice Expert and Intrinsic Coach and Olivia Lashley Expression Coach and Artist as we explore the Universal Law of Action. Click link to join the facebook group; The Laws of Attraction In Action #attractioner #thelawsofattractioninaction #choiceexpert #choices #Entrepreneurs  

Most people really don’t think in terms of value when making a choice. Perhaps it’s fair to say most people tend to think what’s in it for me.  We tend to think in terms of likes or dislikes or the unfavorable or favorable end result.  It’s important to understand that everything that we do in life reflects it relative worth, merit or importance to us.  The Universal Law of Value, not to be confused with Marx’s law of value simply states that everything that happens for your life has meaning and worth.   Join me Dr. Wendy Dearborne Choice Expert and Intrinsic Life Coach and Olivia Lashley Expression Coach and Artist as we explore the Universal Law of Value, you and making your life happen. #thelawsofattractioninaction #choiceexpert #itsmylifemychoice #choices #attractioners

As we begin to scratch the surface on the power of self talk, we begin to explore the Universal Laws or Spiritual Laws that support greater understanding behind self talk.  Our imagination is where we live.  Mystics have throughout the ages told us that to consciously manifest what we desire we must first use our imagination. We must go to where we live. The imagination has a couple of purposes; the correlation of subconscious and conscious thoughts, images and feelings and communication and expression of those thoughts, images and feelings.  So, could there be a greater purpose for your imagination than what you are using it for? And, what are you using your imagination for?  Join me Dr. Wendy Dearborne Choice Expert and Intrinsic Life Coach and Olivia Lashley Expression Coach & Artist as we delve into the imaginary world of our imagination. Join our Facebook live interactive group for downloadable worksheet, live tutorials and more... #thelawsofattractioninaction #choiceexpert #itsmylifemychoice #choices #attractioners #entrepreneur #womeninbusiness

Reviewing 2021 and looking at ways to approach 2022 using the Universal Laws of Attraction to create what you want to experience for your life. Using the power of reflection to move forward, by extracting the “positive” from any situation you have experienced. And then using that extracted knowledge to empower you to move forward by applying it to your life goals. And finally, a brief synopsis of understanding the energy of 2022 and what all these “2's” mean for you. Happy New Year and thank you so much for supporting me. I'm looking forward to the amazing things that we'll achieve in 2022 and beyond.

How you speak to yourself is how your life will unfold.  2017 is all about understanding the need to consciously direct your self-talk in a way that is conducive to you achieving or experiencing what you want for your life.  Most people are unaware that their self-talk is undermining the very thing that they say they want and are striving for.  Given that you are speaking to yourself 24 hours per day and 365 days a year and this talk is creating your life, it is in your best interest to consciously enter into a productive dialog with self.  This takes clarity, organization and execution and practice, practice, practice.  Join me Dr. Wendy Dearborne Choice Expert and Intrinsic Life Coach and Olivia Lashley Expression Coach and Artist as we explore self talk.

  Before New Year’s Eve arrives, NOW would be a good time to reflect on the last 362 days of your life.  As you look back embrace the lows and the highs with the same passion, because each thing you have experienced has been instrumental in the shaping of you.  And frankly you got through it  or are making your way through it…whatever it was and or is.   It’s time to use that experience to move you forward. Join me, Dr Wendy Dearborne Choice Expert and Life Coach and Olivia Lashley Expression Coach and Artist as we look at where we have been and where we are going.    For more information and tutorials on how to use the Laws of Attraction visit thelawsoattractioninaction.com

You know a ½ truth still equals 1 lie.  The greatest gift you can give your self is “truth” the whole truth and nothing but your truth and living your authentic expression of that truth.  Living an inauthentic life means that you are living a lie and as a result you suppress who you really are meant to be in this life.  The knock on effect of living your life as a lie has compounded interest that you wouldn’t begin to believe. It is astounding the things that you get and don’t because of  being in inauthentic! There are things that you have prayed for which never manifest, because you are not being true to you.  Things that you have attained, yet can’t hold on to is a result of you not living an authentic life. You are both the giver and receiver of this wondrous gift that can set you free like nothing else can do.  No one has the power to give this gift of your truth to you, only you can do that.  Join me Dr. Wendy Dearborne Choice Expert and Intrinsic Life Coach and Olivia Lashley Expression Coach and Artist as we explore truth and the gift it brings.  Also click the link become a part of the laws of attraction in action Facebook group.  Download free life coaching PDF's and watch live life coaching recording. #thelawsofattractioninaction #choiceexpert #itsmylifemychoice #choices #attractioners #entrepreneur #womeninbusiness

Last week’s show was, for a variety of reasons, a non-starter.  So, today we're bringing to you last week’s information with an added twist.  We're going to talk about many of the different aspects you encounter in life as you strive to achieve your highest potential. We’ll look at choices, word power and empowerment through consciously choosing to be authentic in all things.  We’ll touch on visualization, meditation, the Universal Laws of Attraction and what that means for your ability to manifest. We’ll explore why you may feel that you keep going in circles, and why it seems that you are unable to get to where you want to go.  Join me, Dr. Wendy Dearborne Choice Expert and Life Coach and Olivia Lashley Expression Coach & Artist as we talk about life and you!

Today we are going to talk about many of the different aspects you encounter in life as you strive to achieve your highest potential. We’ll look at choices, word power and empowerment through consciously choosing to be authentic in all things.  We’ll touch on visualization, meditation, the Universal Laws of Attraction and what that means to your ability to manifest. We’ll explore why you may feel that you keep going in circles, why it seems that you and are unable to get to where you want to go.  Join me, Dr. Wendy Dearborne Choice Expert and Life Coach and Olivia Lashley Expression Coach & Artist as we talk about life and you!

What do you want to happen for you in 2017?  It’s time to dust your old dreams off, rekindle your passion, create a plan and get in action.  Many people never realize their dreams or tap into their fullest potential, because they don’t know what to do.  They look at the end result in all its glory and simply become overwhelmed or underwhelmed.  Both feelings lead to a kind of paralysis that ends up in getting nothing done.  One week rolls into two which rolls into four and the next thing you know, it’s December 31st and you haven’t done a thing other than wish for the thing you want.  Whether it’s getting in shape, remodeling your home, going into therapy, learning a new language, becoming more spiritual, whatever it is that you want to manifest you’ll need a plan.    Also to support you in this process I’ll be conducting live coaching session on Facebook beginning December 1st 2016.  To participate in this live coaching event join the FB group The Laws of Attraction In Action. Join me Dr. Wendy Dearborne Choice Expert and Life Coach and Olivia Lashley Expression Coach & Artist, as we look at what you can do to prepare yourself for the coming year.    #thelawsofattractioninaction #choiceexpert #itsmylifemychoice #choices #attractioners

You get to choose what and who you allow to influence the choices you make for your life.  It’s your life it’s your choice! This dictates how you show up in life and how life shows up and responds to you.  This is a fact.  Many people feel that they are at the mercy of external events in their lives.  But this isn’t true.  The truth is you are only at the mercy of what you are choosing to believe and as a result of that how you influence your choices. Go to https://www.facebook.com/groups/Thelawsofattractioninaction/files/ to download your choice making equation worksheet. Join me Dr. Wendy Dearborne Choice Expert and Life Coach and Olivia Lashley Expression Coach and Artist as we look at influence, ownership you and your life.

You don’t know which way to turn.  You don’t know what to do.  You don’t know how to do it.  We’ve all been there.  And these feelings of not knowing what to do, create a kind of paralysis for movement towards what we say we want. So feeling stuck at your fork in your road is all about you, your decision making skills, clarity and choices.  It’s also about the Universal Law of Release.  Without invoking this law you create a scenario that throws into your pathway blocks and hurdles, which prevent you from moving along your pathway fearlessly, easily with conscious awareness and freedom of movement.   When you become stuck and have to make a choice as to which fork in the road you are going to take there is a tendency to panic and panic create fear and fear creates paralysis which skews your thinking.  Then you make choices that don’t serve you well. Join me Dr. Wendy Dearborne Choice Expert and Life Coach and Olivia Lashley Expression Coach & Artist as we look at the Spiritual Law of Release and why it is important when moving forward in your life.

What Do I Do, When I Can’t Do What I Know I Must Do? The greatest struggle that people experience is going with the grain instead of against it. How many of you struggle on a daily bases knowing what you need to do, yet feel like you are being emotionally pulled in a different direction? If what you need to do is based in fact...fact being something that is unchangeable...no matter your emotional or fictitious state, fact will always be in your peripheral vision. Or put another way, it, what you need to do will always be in the forefront of your mind.  So how do you deal with this when it happens in your life?  Join me, Dr. Wendy Dearborne Choice Expert and Life Coach and Olivia Lashley Expression Coach and Artist as we explore what you can do to support yourself during these times.

There is a right way to pray and a wrong way to pray.  Affirmations, much like prayers have a right and wrong approach too.  Praying and affirming both use the power of your spoken word, along with intention and attention for a desired out come.  When it doesn’t happen or turnout the way in which you wanted you’re left wondering, “What happen?  Why didn’t God help me?  Why didn’t the Universe manifest what I wanted?”  You’ve been told that all you have to do is pray and ask for what you want or affirm what you want hundreds of times a day and you’ll get it. WRONG! WRONG!! WRONG!!!  If it were that simple your life would be exactly the way in which you want it.  Yet, ironically it is as simple as that when done the right way. Click here to download your free PDF Worksheet outlining how to affirm and pray to get the results you want. https://www.facebook.com/groups/Thelawsofattractioninaction/files/ Join me Dr. Wendy Dearborne choice expert and coach and Olivia Lashley expression coach and artist as we look at how to pray and affirm aright.

Part Vll came about because I realized I hadn’t addressed how to turn the Universal Laws on and off. Nor did I delve into the power of your spoken word. In order to use any tool effectively confidently and with a skill level to produce the results you want; you must know how it works. What is the source of power needed to make this tool operational? In fact, how do you turn it on and off? You must have a clear knowledge of its capabilities and limitations and at all times adhere to the safety instructions. But like any tool, only with practice will you become a master. Dr. Wendy shares insights and understanding on the many different laws, how they work and the importance of their interaction.

The most powerful tool you will ever have in life is your ability to choose for self in the best interest of self.  Choice is the first of the Universal Laws and without it you have nothing.   Everything that you have experience in life is a result of a choice you’ve made.  This statement doesn’t condone negative and or harmful actions perpetrated against you and yours. Rather is sets the premise for empowerment through ownership, accountability and responsibility.  Today’s show is taking another look at the first brick in the Universal Laws of Attraction and consciously creating your life. Join me, Dr. Wendy Dearborne choice expert and Olivia Lashley expression coach and artist as we look at the power of your personal choice.  

The word love is generally used to describe a myriad of deep feelings that you have for people, places and things.  Because you are unique your definition and my definition of love and all its feelings will differ.  And rightly so, yet still, when you say that you love me or this book or that dish, I know what you mean, simply because I will use my standard or definition of love to define what your meaning is.  Ironically, using your standard to define my meaning of what love is has been the demise of many relationships. And will continue to do so until we redefine the meaning of love. Beyond the norm that we know to be associated with the word love it is actually an immutable Universal Law whose definition is all about transmutation or “movement of change.” The Universal Law of Love isn’t about the warm and fuzzies or the cold and frigid, it’s all about supporting change.  Join me Dr. Wendy Dearborne choice expert and coach and Olivia Lashley expression coach and artist as we look at Love in all its glory.

Forgiveness isn’t just about being and saying sorry or an act of contrition or consciously acknowledging what you may or may not have done wrong or been wronged.  Forgiveness has way more value in our lives than a simple contritious act of being sorry.  It is far more reaching than that.  All religious, spiritual and metaphysical doctrines speak, teach and preach at length about forgiveness.  What isn’t said is that forgiveness frees up mental, emotional and physical real estate so we can use that space to create what we want in our lives.   Join me, Dr. Wendy Dearborne choice expert and intrinsic coach and Olivia Lashley expression coach and artist as we look at the far reaching effects forgiveness has on our lives.

This question, “do my thoughts become physical things?” is a dilemma that many people face and ponder.  People associate things that happen in their life with being unlucky or lucky, hit or miss or the right or wrong timing, even being in the right or wrong place at the right or wrong time.  Yet life and living is more organized than that.  Mystics and teachers throughout the ages have taught the philosophy behind Universal Law or spiritual law of manifesting .  From secret organizations to the world of the internet we’ve been told that thoughts, your thoughts can and will become physical things. This concept on the surface appears to be difficult for people to embrace, yet we do this all the time.  The reality you are currently living in started out as a thought that you had, whether you choose to believe this or not, it’s a Universal Law. Consciously change your thoughts and you change the world you live in. Join me Dr. Wendy Dearborne choice expert and coach and Olivia Lashley expression coach and artist as we explore our thoughts manifesting into physical things. And checkout our book of the month "Thoughts Are Things by Prentiss Mulford"

It has been said opposites attract.  Perhaps this is because nature is always trying to restore balance.  The Universal Law of Opposites isn’t about opposing forces or even opposition.  This Law clearly defines options available to us and supports our greater understanding for the need for “opposing” contrast in our lives. Maybe opposites do attract, however, the Universal Law of Opposites is all about supporting you in using the Law to attract what you want for your life. Join me, Dr. Wendy Dearborne choice expert and coach and Olivia Lashley expression coach an artist and we explore the Law of Opposites and what that can mean for your life.

Truth: The Affects And Role It Plays In Our Lives Truth is permissive and is the foundation on which your life is built.  So much hinges on this five letter word.  TRUTH! Yet for many of you speaking your truth is difficult and as a result your life is extremely complicated or at the very least filled with lots of wishes that this or that did or didn’t happen.  The Law of Truth like all other Universal or Spiritual Laws is resolute.  It plays a pivotal role in how we manifest all things in our lives.  Speaking your truth isn’t just about you.  Your truth has a domino effect impacting everyone who you come in contact with. Join me, Dr. Wendy Dearborne choice expert and coach and Olivia Lashley expression coach and artist as we look at the Universal Law of Truth how it impacts our lives.

Every day, every minute every second you are living out your life based on the twenty-six letters of the alphabet that you string together to formulate your word.  Each word you create brings conscious meaning and understanding to your thoughts.  Your words are used to communicate this understanding and are sent forth, to bring into manifestation that which you have asked for.  You are bonded to each vowel each consonant and to every syllable, for the words that you speak, write and think are what creates your life.  All spiritual text supports this, the power of your word to create and yet most have little understanding of that power and how it impacts lives.  Isaiah 55:11 So shall my word be that goeth forth out of my mouth: it shall not return unto me void, but it shall accomplish that which I please, and it shall prosper in the thing whereto I sent it. Join me Dr. Wendy Dearborne choice expert and coach and Olivia Lashley expression coach and artist and we look at words and the power they have over your life.

In the instantaneous world you now live in, you have lost the art of Patience.  The Universal Law of Patience allows things to manifest or unfold in a time frame that is conducive to success and the highest good for all concerned.  It prevents things from transpiring in a way that skips small steps which undermine the goal or your desired manifestation.  The Universal Law of Patience provides you with the unique opportunity to experience and get to know “self” in a way that can only add to the cache of who you are.  It creates the space in which you can and will grow. Patience allows you to see you manifestation unfold before your eyes and make changes where change needs to be made.  Is it important to consciously invoke the Universal Law of Patience?  Join me Dr. Wendy Dearborne Choice Expert and Coach and Olivia Lashley Expression Coach and Artist as we explore the need for patience in our lives.

Why Is Knowing what to do and doing it are totally different things.  Daily, millions of people struggle with this issue.  And their struggle is real.  And as a result of these mental and emotional phenomena, we wind up not experiencing and or getting the most out of life. What does this mean; better yet can this type of behavior be changed? Join me Dr. Wendy Dearborne choice expert and life coach and Olivia Lashley expression coach and artist as we look at “knowing it vs. doing it.” 

Asking the wrong questions will always get the wrong answers and in creating the life that you are wanting to manifest.  “How Do I” is totally the wrong question to ask self.  Asking how, when you are consciously using the Universal Laws of Attraction to manifest things into your life, taps into your past experiences, which have little bearing on the outcome.  Why? Because you don’t know the whole story!  And that fact alone means you need a different type of internal manifesting dialog. Join me, Dr. Wendy Dearborne choice expert and coach and Olivia Lashley expression coach and artist as we explore the self talk necessary to get you to your next level.

In part Vl we’ll explore why we experience blocks to our manifestations, unanswered to our prayers and demonstrations. We’ll look at how they show up, why they show up. We’ll discuss a basic intrinsic coaching technique for eliminating them. In order to use any tool effectively confidently and with a skill level to produce the results you want; you must know how it works. What is the source of power needed to make this tool operational? In fact, how do you turn it on and off? You must have a clear knowledge of its capabilities and limitations and at all times adhere to the safety instructions. But like any tool, only with practice will you become a master. Dr. Wendy shares insights and understanding on the many different laws, how they work and the importance of their interaction. In Part Vll, Dr. D will give further clarity on how to switch the Laws on and off and the role your spoken word plays.

There is a saying that states “your family can be a blessing or a curse!” Is there a difference between your biological family and your spiritual family?  In essence, the answer to that is no, there isn’t.  Yet, how each individual shows up in your life and the functions that they have agreed to perform are very, very different.  The indoctrinated ideals, along with the do’s and don’ts that you have been taught regarding our traditional biological family, if not understood has the potential to undermine your life. Both biological and spiritual members of your family play a key and powerful role in influencing your decision making process as well as holding sacred space for you. Join me Dr. Wendy Dearborne choice expert and coach and Olivia Lashley expression coach and artist as we take a look at family and what that means.

Things that have happen in your life are called seasons, whether they are deemed failures or successes.  Each event or situation, each success or each failure is a season that has a divine purpose or a divine reason.  Where you find yourself now, today, this minute or where you have been, is all about you, God, the Universe and “show and tell.”  Your seasons are showing you and telling you what your options for creativity are.  These options are found within two opposite poles i.e. hot and cold.  This is the Universal Law of polarity who’s divine purpose is to present you with contrasts and parallels in the form of duality.  It is within this framework of polarity and the nature of the Universal Law of Duality, which addresses your emotions, so that you will find what you need to support you in making your choices.   Ecclesiastes 3:1 eloquently states “To everything there is a season, and a time, to every purpose under the heaven. A time to be born, and a time to die.”  It’s what you do in between that counts as what you choose to do make the life that you live. Join me Dr. Wendy Dearborne choice expert and coach and Olivia Lashley expression coach and artist as we explore the polarity and duality of nature and life.

We all have a story to tell!  And your life story is created from what has happened in your life, or as I like to say “for” your life, coupled with what you think is going to happen to you.  Your life story is center around who you were and who you are evolving to be.  It’s all about the ups and downs, the highs and lows, the joys and pains.  Many of people choose to allow the pain associated with their stories to paralyzed them or at the very least cripple them emotionally, mentally and physically.  You will always have an ace in the hole; a spirit that refuses to be crushed to death and be buried. Your spirit is indomitable! And this gives you an opportunity to use your personal story to enhance your life and to create it the way in which you want. You will always have the ability to invoke the Universal Law of Rebound. Join me Dr. Wendy Dearborne choice expert and life coach and Olivia Lashley expression coach and artist as we explore the ways to use your story to your fullest advantage.

The biggest part of getting what you want and manifesting it in life is knowing what you want for your life. What ending are you wanting to see?  Having this kind of clarity can really cause havoc in your life and send us spiraling in all directions.  Why?  Because more often than not we feel that we don’t know what we are wanting and as a result there is a feeling of paralysis when making a choice…should I stay or should I go? “Agh! I don’t know what to do?”  However that’s not true.  You, me, we do know what we want and we do know what we need to do. Actually, know everything that we want and everything that we don’t want. It sometimes takes a little time sorting it out.  Join me Dr. Wendy Dearborne choice expert and coach and Olivia Lashley expression coach and artist as we look at the push and pull of making choices

Can you keep your secret? Can you?  And Do you? There is a Universal Law of Secrecy that when invoked acts as a contingency plan to your manifestation happening and or happening in a smooth way.  Secrecy, in regard to manifesting goes beyond not telling what you are doing or being private.   It means “to be done without others having knowledge of it.”  This doesn’t means someone saying to you “I knew something was up…I just didn’t know what!”  It’s more like when your spouse of significant other blindsides you and calmly states, “I want out.  And I am leaving!   Whoa!  That came out of nowhere.  When did you decide to do this?”  And the response is “I’ve been thinking about this for the last year!” Now that’s a secret! Join me Dr. Wendy Dearborne choice expert and coach and Olivia Lashley expression coach and artist as we look at secrecy you and the Laws of Attraction.

Money!  You may associate the lack of money with poverty or living a lifestyle that you don’t want.  Poverty or being broke as a joke is a state of mind that has manifested.  By the time you are aware that you are in dire financial straits, it’s already too late.  Lack of money is the effect of the cause…it’s not the cause of the effect or lack... your thinking is.  The Laws of Attraction don’t work.  If you could do one thing, that doesn’t require you to do anything illegal or morally wrong, to change your finances to get “them” where you want “them” to be, would you do it?  Join me Dr. Wendy Dearborne choice expert and Olivia Lashley expression coach and artist as we talk about what you can do to change your financial status.

“For as he thinketh in his heart, so is he:” Proverbs 23:7.  Biblical quotes, spiritual texts, religious doctrines, ol’ wives adages along with the new thought, metaphysical and spiritual communities state clearly “if you think it, you will manifest it!”  This is one of the foundational cornerstones taught within the Laws of Attraction.  The Secret by Rhonda Byrne and many other books published on using the Laws of Attraction are heavily based on this thought process.  So is it possible to prepare a contingency plan for something catastrophic without making it a reality?   Join me Dr. Wendy Dearborne choice expert and life coach and Olivia Lashley expression coach and artist as we turn this belief on it head, inside out and upside down.

The Universal Law of Flexibility is exactly what the word means: capable of bending or being bent without breaking; this is flexibility. This law is about you choosing to be adaptable within your current situation.  It’s about finding the courage within you to move through your situation without resistance.  Flexibility allows you to find your unique foot and finger hold so you can push and pull yourself up.  Flexibility is choosing to consciously change your view finder lens and look at your life from a different perspective.  This law speaks to you about your willingness to change and authentically try something different.  Join me Dr. Wendy Dearborne choice expert and life coach and Olivia Lashley expression coach and artist as we look at how flexibility impacts your life and what it can do for you.

In today’s show called the potpourri of life, we are using the Universal Law of Divine Flow to guide us and be in the moment.  We’ll be talking about choices, energy, addictions, holistic healing, health, medication, entrepreneurism, nutrition, meditation and how this all rolls into the Laws of Attraction In Action and what that can mean for you. Join me, Dr. Wendy Dearborne choice expert and life coach and Olivia Lashley expression coach and artist as we explore the potpourri of life.     

Intuition:  Accurate insight and knowledge attained from sources unknown.  We all have access to our intuition, which means that we all have insight, accurate insight on the best choices to make for any given life situation. However, based on the fact that we as humans, tend to be afraid of the unknown, or we dislike being uncomfortable, we err on the side of caution and go with what we know or what feels good.  More often than not, this doesn’t serve our purpose well.  And in consciously using the Laws of Attraction, ignoring your intuitive directives will create a setback with our manifestation.  Can you get passed your fears and can you train yourself to use your intuition?   Join me Dr. Wendy Dearborne choice expert and life coach and Olivia Lashley expression coach and artist as we explore those two questions

There is cost for everything, including the life that you are living today. Whether paid with coins, time or energy there is a price that must be met. What are you prepared to pay for the cost of living?

Far too often in our lives, in spite of doing “the work needed,” the things that we want to manifest, don’t.  For all intent and outward purposes we are doing all the right things.  Affirming and or praying to conceptualize our vision into a habitual thought form. We are engaging our emotion via our five senses as Dr. Wendy has suggested that we do.  And yet, we get this close, to our desired manifestation that we can taste it and see the golden flecks of success in its eyes.  And then, chaos ensues and it slips away from our grasp.  With the resilience that is an intrinsic part of our ability as humans to continue to thrive, we shrug off our misadventures saying, “it wasn’t for me or it wasn’t my time or God has something better in store for me.”  I have two questions, How do you know it’s not for you or it’s not your time or that God has something better in store for you?Is your mental, emotional, physical and temporal body or house in order? Many of the things that you want to manifest CANNOT and WILL NOT because your house isn’t right in all things.  Join me Dr. Wendy Dearborne choice expert and life coach and Olivia Lashley expression coach and artist as we look at getting your spiritual and physical house in order.

You are powerful beyond measure.  What or who has made you believe otherwise?  Failure isn’t a yardstick by which you beat yourself with.  Failure is an amazing gift.  In fact, it’s a blessing that is designed to set you upon the right pathway, for you to create the life that you are wanting to live. If you have experienced that sinking gut wrenching feeling of disempowerment and abject failure, then I’m happy to tell you that you have experience your first taste of true empowerment.  Is this paradoxical?  No! It’s factual.  It’s all in the view finder lens that you choose to cover your inner or all Seeing Eye with. Join me Dr. Wendy Dearborne choice expert and life coach and Olivia Lashley expression life coach and artist as we look at stepping out of powerlessness, into your all powerful base.

We talk to God.  We pray to God.  We beseech God, rale, cry and scream at God.  We walk with God. We have other people liaise with God on our behalf.  We accept the blessings bestowed upon us by God, and readily reject that which we call accursed.   We do all of this on a daily basis and, yet, are we asking the right questions of God?  The current state of your life, your health, wealth, finances and your relationship with self and others will answer that question for you.  Talking with God isn’t something that you can learn, as in how to pray or recite an affirmation.  All that is good and has its place in our spiritual evolvement, yet, talking to God isn’t something that you learn; it’s something that you do.  It’s intrinsic or inherent to who you are. The ability to speak with God, and be heard by God is something that you came into being with.   So, are you asking the right questions of God? Join me Dr. Wendy Dearborne choice expert and life coach and Olivia Lashley expression coach and artist as we explore our ability to communicate with God.